#our experience blogs

[the-genderflux-experience]

Master list of all the "our __ experience" lgbtq+ blogs

These are all the active and inclusive/friendly queer blogs I could find. If I listed any that are exclusionist or otherwise bad or are just inactive, please let me know so I can remove them. This list is intended to help queer people find active and inviting communities to participate in and feel safe in. If you know more feel free to add them in the reblogs and/or tell me them so I can add them. Please spread this around, I worked very hard on compiling this list, and this may help people find the community for them here on Tumblr.

🏳️‍🌈 Overall community

@our-queer-experience

@our-lgbtq-brazilian-experience

🏳️‍🌈 Aromantic and/or asexual

@aroacesafeplaceforall

@our-arospec-experience

@our-asexual-experience

@our-oriented-aroace-experience

@our-aroace-experience

@unionize-aromantically

@our-demiromantic-experience

@our-demian-experience

@our-amicus-experience

@our-grey-experience

@our-aspec-experience

🏳️‍🌈 Gay/lesbian

@our-lesbian-experience

@our-gay-experience

@our-lesboy-experience

@our-gaybian-experience

@our-mlm-experience

@our-sapphic-experience

@our-achillean-experience

@our-butch-experience

@our-sapphillean-experience

🏳️‍🌈 Transgender

@our-transgender-experiences

@transsexual-experiences

@our-transfeminine-experience

@our-transmasculine-experience

@our-trans-youth-experience

@our-trans-punk-experience

@our-transhet-experience

@our-afab-transfem-experience

@our-amab-transmasc-experience

🏳️‍🌈 Genderfluid (and related)

@our-genderfluid-experience

@the-genderflux-experience

@our-boyflux-experience

@our-genderfawn-experience

@our-genderfae-experience

🏳️‍🌈 Demigender

@our-demigirl-experience

@our-demiboy-experience

🏳️‍🌈 Agender

@our-agender-experience

🏳️‍🌈 Multigender

@our-multigender-experience

@your-bigender-big-brother

@yourbigendergremlet

🏳️‍🌈 Nonbinary

@our-nonbinary-experience

@our-genderqueer-experience

@our-androgyne-experience

@our-abinary-experience

@our-maverique-experience

🏳️‍🌈 More sexualities

@our-pansexual-experience

@our-bisexual-experience

@our-mspec-experience

🏳️‍🌈Polyamory (and related)

@our-polyamorous-experience

@our-ambiamorous-experience

🏳️‍🌈 Neurodivergence

@our-neuroqueer-experience

🏳️‍🌈 Other/random

@our-queerplatonic-experience

@gender-envy-is

@our-unlabelled-experience

@our-xenogender-experience

@our-questioning-experience

@our-outherly-experience

@our-neopronoun-experience

@anattractional-safe-space

[our-trans-youth-experience]

Hey there!

I'm Sage (he/they/neos), a transmasc guy. I decided to create an experience blog for trans youth because I saw a bunch of these around but didn't see one for young trans people.

Being trans and under 18 can come with a lot of challenges such as unsupportive parents, bullying at school and trying to navigate teenage years whilst being perceived as "different" by everyone around you.

So this is a safe space to ask questions, spread information, give and receive helpful advice, or just feel supported and included in a small community :) Our Community!!

^^pls join and talk to each other guys <3 Inspired by @our-queer-experience! @our-transgender-experiences @our-nonbinary-experience and all those other great experience blogs out there, be sure to check some of those guys out!

If you want a specific mod to answer your ask, then put the name of the mod in your ask so we can know :)

Run by: Sage [he/neutral*]

Brilliant mods: Jonathan/Jon [he/him], Belladonna/Marina [she/her] Feather [He/They] *primarily he, but y'all can also use they and any neos, especially fae/faer and kit/kits ✩₊˚.⋆☾⋆⁺₊✧✩₊˚.⋆☾⋆⁺₊✧✩₊˚.⋆☾⋆⁺₊✧✩₊˚.⋆☾⋆⁺₊✧✩₊˚.⋆☾⋆⁺₊✧✩₊˚.⋆☾⋆⁺₊✧

Kiddo family count: 1000?!!

Last updated: 03/01/25 (DD/MM/YY)

[drowningbpdbodies]

“How are you?” I should be in a straight jacket but unfortunately for the both of us I’m here

[our-trans-youth-experience]

Aaaaa thank you guys so much for 1000 kiddos!!

This means a huge deal for me as a trans boy who wants to make a difference in his community, so thanks for all of your support in helping me to continue this safe space <3

[therealvinelle]

twilight-tok is high key ripping off/parroting yours and the muffin’s heretical metas it’s actually getting crazy. do you and the muffin feel weird that they don’t credit you?

We do, actually. While we're not on tiktok and it's news to us this was happening there too, we've seen a lot of it already on the platforms we do frequent and this being on tiktok as well does explain a lot.

At first noticing little and not-so-little ripoffs was funny, these days it's just very discouraging and part of the reason we post less and keep new fics unpublished.

Credit people, guys, it's not that hard.

[our-trans-youth-experience]

The Cass report is something that happened in the UK recently. It is incredibly damaging to the lives of trans youth, especially those who are neurodivergent or in unsupportive households.

Government guidance also makes schools a quite dangerous place for a lot of trans kids as if a teacher becomes aware that a child is trans or questioning their gender identity they will likely out this child to their family immediately.

Advising against social transition for minors means new clothes, a new name, or a haircut. So, just because a child is trans, they would be unable to make the same decisions about expressing themselves as a cisgender child.

This is othering a group of children by stopping them from making the same decisions about their body and how they express themselves. Protect trans kids, they deserve the same rights as any other child.

[butterscotchcakee]

[v1rginsu1cidal]

[descendantofthesparrow]

at the very least-i hope its fun

[our-trans-youth-experience]

TW - Transphobia, politics, distressing topics

This is so important. These reviews - the Cass review and the Levy review - affect all British trans people in their everyday lives. From denying life-saving health care to youth and EVEN ADULTS, to promoting transphobic views and outright supporting the transphobia that we have to face every day. And it will only get harder as people continue to be made into a "political debate".

So write to your MP, sign a petition, or post something to spread awareness about these horrible reviews and how they negatively impact ACTUAL PEOPLE. it may seem like we can't do anything and younger trans people, but even a small action can make a big difference if everyone contributes.

X

I feel sick. I'm so scared. Things are going to get so much worse for trans adults in the UK when the Levy review for adult trans care comes out in November. My GP clinic already tried to not prescribe my T when the gender clinic endocrinologist first recommended it, I had to fight them so hard on it, and I'm terrified at any point they will stop.

Please share this. It is so disheartening that when I make posts about US trans issues they have thousands of notes within a couple hours, but UK trans issues barely get 100 notes. Our struggles are linked. The letter, in fact, uses the American spelling of certain words like 'realize' - Which has made some suspicious that this is a form letter provided by the American anti trans hate groups that have been pushing for more transphobic discrimination in the UK lately.

This WILL affect trans people in the US eventually. They will use the UK as an example to follow, when they are (at least partially) the ones who created the conditions for our growing medical discrimination. Our fight is your fight. Please, please care about it. Help people be aware of this at the very least.

[griem]

ijbol idk man releasing screenshots of very polarizing things said in a private discord server between friends in a public "callout" post is #the most #tumblrific thing ive ever seen LOL.

#opinion 😱 in tags

[reginamillls]

I think the deleted scene is simply showing you how much Buck is cared for by the people he chose to be in his life, and from someone who craved that care and attention for so long I just think that's neat that Buck has so many people now that do, and idk I'm just happy for him

[amber-tortoiseshell]

before 2024 ends i wanted to tell you this blog has consumed my mind and i don't think i will ever recover. every time i see a cat i have to id it. it gives me so much joy <3 thank you for making my life a little bit better and also for ruining all my friends' lives because i keep telling them about cat colours <3

ianto says hi

Hello, Ianto and uss-genderprise! Thank you so much, this probably one of the best things ever said to me. I'm so glad i can be a source of joy in your life!

And i just want to tell you (and all my recurring followers here): thank you for making MY life a little bit better; i know a lot of you by username and i'm always happy to see you in my notifications <3

[our-trans-youth-experience]

thanks for including us! <3

Tumblr Blogs To Follow For Queer Youth

If you would like to be added to or removed from this list please let me know!

I tried to sort by the blogs' main purpose so people can easily find what they're looking for, but there's obviously some overlap. If you think your blog is listed under the wrong category please tell me and I'll move it.

Community/Safe Space Blogs

@our-queer-experience and similar "our _ experience" blogs (masterpost here) and one youth centered experience blog is @our-trans-youth-experience

@yourdailyqueer

@trans-joy-is

@aroacesafeplaceforall

@transgender-vent-blog

@your-queer-dad

Advice/Resource Blogs

@queer-advice-hotline

@letters-to-lgbt-kids

@transgenderteensurvivalguide

@transmasc-advice-blog

@intersex-support

@transfloridaresources (usa, florida)

History Blogs

@makingqueerhistory (website here)

@queer-trans-history

@alittlegayhistoria

Sex-Ed Blogs

@hellyeahscarleteen (website here)

@certifiedsexed

Political/Activist/Org Blogs

(currently mostly usa-based blogs)

@itgetsbetterproject (international) (website here)

@queeryouthassemble (usa) (website here)

@queerliblib (usa) (website here)

@transformationsproject (usa) (website here)

Queer Literature Blogs

@lgbtqreads (website here)

@sapphicbookclub

@transbookoftheday

@the-bi-library

@qbdatabase

Just finding these blogs was difficult and I'm only one person so if you run/follow any helpful queer blogs not on the list already let me know so I can add them!

Especially blogs in the sex-ed category or the political/activist/org category that aren't usa-based.

Edit: Someone in the notes tagged some queer literature blogs, so I added a category for queer lit.

[our-trans-youth-experience]

Heyy kiddos, it's Sage here to talk about updates!!

Firstly, thank you all for the amazing support you have given this blog. Thanks to your collective help as a community, we are now less than 20 people away from 1000 kiddos?!! We're thinking of launching something when we hit this so keep an eye out!

Secondly, we have some updates on mods. As a reminder, if you would like to address your ask to a specific mod, then just mention their name [e.g. (for Sage) ]

However, the former mod Kay will no longer be on OTYE, so any asks addressed to them will be either answered by another person or not at all <3

As there are now only 2 mods (Jonathan and I), we are looking for new mods!! The only criteria you need to be a mod is to be a trans or nonbinary youth interested in helping the community by answering questions :)

If you are interested in becoming a mod, message @our-trans-youth-experience directly, or send in a non-anonymous ask!

Thank you all for being such a kind and supportive community,

-Sage [he/they/neos]

[rollercoasterwords]

yeah u can put "i hate jkr" and "fuck terfs" in ur tumblr bio but. can u listen + reflect when a trans woman criticizes hp fandom without immediately getting defensive.....