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I got about ten minutes before I gotta start getting ready for work, BUT like this post for a muse roulette and when I get home tonight, I'll make starters from randomly chosen muses.
#if you're also a multi please specify which of YOUR muses you want it for#otherwise your like will be ignored
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The idea that Tommy, a closeted gay man who was desperately trying to fit in in a hyper macho and discriminatory environment, isn't allowed to have any growth from when he was over compensating and was a dick to Chim really pisses me off. He literally had canonical growth to the point he was going for drinks with Chim and Hen in Bobby Begins Again and they got him a fancy leaving cake.
Why isn't he allowed to grow and be better? Because he's white? Because he "gets in the way of buddie"? Because no one is allowed to say and change at all over a decade?
Like this is a queer fandom and I'd bet a lot of money that a ton of people in this fandom said and did things they weren't proud of when they were younger, especially before they came out so they could try and hide it.
I know this is quite a young fandom too but like, it was literally only a decade ago when "gay" was an insult at school and doing anything that could be get you accused of being gay was fucking social suicide. You guys have no idea how lucky you are that people at least get called out for that shit now cause they didn't when I was a kid. I would have done almost anything to just be ignored, let alone accepted, rather than being openly bisexual.
So yeah, I think Tommy is allowed to fucking change as a person because Bobby, Chim and Hen came into his life and allowed him to stop repressing. Stop being such fucking assholes. You aren't any better than him, and frankly the way some of you behave makes the way Tommy acted when he was first in the show look like a fucking saint. Touch some grass.
#911 abc#people are so so so so happy to ignore canon if it allows them to shit on a character they dont like#remarkable how the same people who say tommy isnt allowed to change and be better#are the same ones who accuse anyone who says literally anything negative about hen or chim of being racist#while openly justifying any abuse of athena because shes a cop#at least have consistency if youre going to refuse to respect all the characters#it just makesnyou look stupid otherwise#tommy kinard#am i a buddie shipper? yes#but i grew up in the era of fucking teen wolf#i can love with my faves not getting together#but the most important thing is a story that feels real#i cant see a way that buddie wouldnt happen somehow for the realest story#however if the writers do a good job#then i will still enjoy the ride#i do not want buck or eddie cheating on their oartner with the other#thats just not fun and i would HATE that to be the way bucktommy ended
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I think the thing I hate most about misanthropy is that no one is saying you cannot dislike or even hate humans for things they have done, do or did. Hate those who hurt you or who purposely go out of their way to hurt others/nature/etc. Hell I hate people like that too!
But the belief of misanthropy itself is ingrained in believing that the entirety of humanity is evil/bad in an inherent way and it is completely fucking untrue just as it would be untrue to condemn the entirety of ANY species as inherently evil for the actions of some.
Humans are not inherently good or bad because NO ANIMAL IS!
Itâs the idea that the newborn, the elderly, the poor, the queer, poc, indigenous peoples, etc, the victims of things, are just as evil ridden and condemned to be a lost cause as the power hungry CEO or country leader that has no care for the world or other people.
Itâs the constant focus on all the bad things that humans do, the ignoring of the vast positive impacts that are happening alongside. The dismissal of the fact that humanity is able to actually recognise the things they have done wrong and then step forward into correcting their mistakes. The countless organisations that humans have created to try and help both their own kind and those that are not human almost show that things like cruelty and hate are not inherent to the species, but things like that are always forgotten. Hate and cruelty are taught and to place blame for these things on all humans is just as cruel and unfair.
Misanthropy is tied to the idea that humans are a disease that needs to be eradicated in order for the world to get better. That an extinction of humans would be whatâs best. But do you know what thoughts like that lead to? Eugenics and ecofascism. Because whether anyone likes it or not, these things are connected.
To believe that all humans are inherently bad means that itâs easier for you to turn a blind eye when bad things happen to humans because you believe they deserve it. In turn meaning you are dehumanizing them and stripping them of their right to exist and the dignity of being seen as they are.
You are no better than them. I donât care whether you identify as nonhuman. To believe that your identity makes you immune to doing harm is such an ignorant take. If you honestly believe it to be true then I ask you to take a moment to think on why that is? Because EVERYONE is capable of doing bad and causing harm and to believe you are not is to say that you are not capable of recognising when you do actually harm someone or something else because in your head you can only do good.
Not to mention you have NO WAY of telling whether someone else is alterhuman or nonhuman just by looking at them. You are lumping everyone in these groups who don't explicitly state they are nonhuman or other. Adding onto this that there are so many who also identify as human or human adjacent along with their nonhumaness. There are those that identify as humans from fiction or other worlds. But you seem to ultimately forget about them because you forget that identity is fluid and chaotic and in the end you're just an outright asshole.
Just⌠rhfksgshkdbehd if xjed FUCK!
Iâm so tired⌠there is enough fucking hate in this world and I am so fucking tiredâŚ
#creature; the wrath#i may identify as nonhuman but that does not make me better than humans#I still have a human body and live in human society#I am still capable of doing bad things and to think otherwise does not make you good#to ignore your ability to do bad means that you will not recognise when you hurt others#because you automatically believe you cannot do wrong because youâre not part of /that/ group#your nonhuman status does NOT put you above humans#not to mention being indigenous it feels like youâre spitting on my culture and ancestors#completely forgetting the fact humans lived sustainably alongside nature for millenia#like how fucking dare you??#this is a vent because Iâve been seeing a few posts on my dash about misanthropy#and the idea of hating an ENTIRE SPECIES for the actions of a few just blows my fucking mind
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everyones freaking out over the brothers thing, but they state that they arent actually related, and the term brother for men youre unrelated to has a long homoerotic history. especially during the victorian period, of which piltover is inspired by. you guys dont need canon reasons to ship things, you can ignore canon thats fine to do. regardless, here is another reason you all can ship the yaoi brothers guilt free: they arent actually brothers, therefor you can ship them.
like seriously guys please for the love of god stop acting like you arent allowed to think differently than the show creators and game writers. there is so much LoL lore that im rewriting for myself because it doesnt matter. you can do whatever you want forever, and also riot doesnt care about the games lore whatsoever. even if there are people working on it with love, riot is just forcing another fucking rewrite of all of it. so who cares
this isnt even to mention the fact that the show itself loves to compare and contrast familial and romantic love; the show loves paralleling vi and jinx (familial) to vander and silco (romantic; also!! they call each other brothers!!!! the show itself uses brother as a homoerotic term of endearment!!! you can too), as well as making vi's two choices be between family and romance, with jinx jealous of caitlynn 'replacing' her. again, we are seeing the emphasis of how familial and romantic love are intertwined with each other. like, ultimately this should be its own post, but im trying to make my point here:
jayvik is purposefully vague about its status om whether its romantic or familial love. you can interpret it however you like, thats no sin. what IS the sin is that riot games (allegedly) has a history of doing this with their characters. there are many more instances of LoL characters that are clearly intended to have gay vibes with others of the same gender, but they cant just outright confirm that. fucking. udyr and lee sin come to mind as blatant examples of this, they have extremely gay vibes and lore and dialogue (they even love to be nebulously fused like jayvik), but have no actual word on their relationship. they could genuinely just be really good bros, or they could be gay! its up to you.
in conclusion, if youre letting this stop you from shipping fictional characters: stop it! get some help! have some creativity of your own and make things up that may seem out of character. thats the point of fandom- have fun with it. if youre scared about something not being canon, i have something i regret to tell you: none of your interpretations of either of these characters is anything close to canon!! nobodys is!! theyre our interpretations, so do whats most fun!!
#jayvik#<- i am never going to make another post in this tag hut i am in the fucking trenches over here#'im so sad i cant ship jayvik!!' why not is there a cop breathing down your neck#otherwise i cant see a reason why you need to stop shipping them just because christian linke got offended that jayce might be queer#he admitted he self inserts with the character at points. he just doesnt wanna be seen as gay himself guys#you can ignore this insecure weirdo. he holds no say over things#that last jayce image is included to accurately portray my mental while watching everyone freak out over what one fuckin guy says#who cares. it doesnt seem like many people like him anyway#uuurrggh okay this sat in the drafts for a couple hours and i debated over posting abiut it but variety is the spice of life#ill microdose on participating in big fandom
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"european trans women on this site talking about their petty little problems with "transmisogynists" like. fucking excuse me???? im a TRANS MAN living in AMERICA do you even give a shit about the shit thats happening over here??? you are NOT allowed to voice ANY of your lived experiences if i decide that they make ME look bad!!! this is INFIGHTING! this is MISANDRY!! now is NOT the time for you fucking evil tra- uh.,, trans radfems, to be WHINING about how we 'oppress you'. we don't. now shut up and let the MEN talk."
-actual post i saw on my tl just now (obviously paraphrased with key subtext lol)
#in case anyone was curious i will outline the issues in order:#1. the condescending mansplain scold-y tone. very prominent among misogynists cis and otherwise#2. announcing youre american at every given opportunity (used here for pity points). like. okayyyyyy#2.5. implying the state of the US wrt anti-trans rhetoric and legislation alike arent primarily targeting transfeminine ppl#and that trans men are effectively caught in the crossfire with legislation and otherwise are not NEARLY as socially affected#3. passive aggressively pretending as if the utter state of the US doesnt have ramifications on all other countries :/#3.5. effectively ignoring or undermining any non-US folks that may be affected by anti-trans political rhetoric (youre not us so who care)#4. asking for trans women to stop talking about genuine problems and grievances for the sake of âtrans unityâ#aka the âi dont want to think about your problems and i dont want you to make them my problem eitherâ response#sounds like unity to me :)#5. âinfightingâ is basically a dogwhistle at this point; it deliberately muddies the waters. it makes it harder to talk about like#yknow. the actual infighting?#like i saw a reasonably popular artist get mistreated by some transmed prick earlier.#but its only âinfightingâ when women do it. otherwise everyones all âoh i cant believe theyd say something like this to you"#i can. ive been mistreated by scumlord transmeds from day one and the majority of them were guys#fucking hate that it happened to you of course but yeah no shit a lot of guys are assholes.#6. just call me a fucking slur if youre going to. it makes it easier for the both of us wrt determining tone#bonus: (less serious but still funny to point out) the way usamericans refer to anyone non-american and non-asian as âeuropeanâ#we have countries actually. its not just some writhing coalescing amalgam of 'states'. YOURE the odd one out lol#again its not serious#its just like. im welsh. and welsh roma at that.#im not european in the same way that like a dutch or a german person is#half of europe hate my people for existing and then usamericans have the fuckin gall to call me a âprivileged white europeanâ#half you americans dont know shit about us or the ways in which we're mistreated#half you late teens he/him fags are using words that come from my fucking language#âits polariâ where dyou think polari came from huh. dyou think it was just made up as a fun little code language?#queer ppl started to use it because it was already in use by other criminalized folks!! us!!#and for the record we're still effectively criminalized in the UK! theres a fucking mountain of legislature that targets us#ok yeah this is too ranty im turning off rbs on this bitch#usamericans are just on thin fucking ice at this point
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going a little bonkers bananas about hw plainview therewillbeblood. like implicitly or explicitly it's been impressed upon him his role is to stand there and look cute. on some level he knows he acts as a prop for daniel, right, he knows that the father-son thing is a big draw. but it seems like his understanding is that they're leveraging something that actually exists, that daniel does love him and cares for him, and that even if they play it up to get investors, it's real. the first cracks in that show with the accident, when daniel leaves him hurt and confused and terrified, restrained by a worker, so he can watch the earth's blood shooting up in a geyser catch fire and cheer his good fortune. how much does hw know or suspect about daniel's motives once henry shows up? hw tries to warn him with the fire, a line drawn between them, and he sticks around to see what the aftermath will be, only running when daniel chases him. he must suspect that's why he's sent away, and when he's brought back henry is gone. but would he necessarily put the pieces together himself, that daniel is trading one supposed family member for another, just bolstering his image? it's fascinating how genuinely furious and unstable daniel gets when his family man image is threatened. it's not actually about hw of course, it is the IMAGE of it that he relies on - not how dare you tell me how to raise my son, but how dare you see through my painted disguise. anyway. so years and years on, and hw gets married. to someone who genuinely loves him it seems. and he goes to daniel and expresses that he still wants him in his life, but he doesn't want to be his business partner, he wants to be his son. he wants the truth that he thinks lies under the artifice. and he can't have it, he finds out, because it was never there. and he still acts like the prop, right, he's affecting the version of himself he thinks daniel wants to see, he's collected and calm and speaks kindly to him, even acquiesces and speaks out loud when it's demanded, and it doesn't! matter! because what he wants isn't there and was never there and you see that pain written so plainly on his face even though he barely twitches a muscle, and then that final catharsis comes: i thank god there is no part of you in me. he can sever that tie now, he can leave this empty mansion and this artifice behind and he can go live his life with people who care about him.
but he CAN'T!!!! he can't go live a good life can he!! because he's going to drill fucking OIL the corruption is IN him it's all down to the core, he was literally baptized in it, he's tied to it forever, there IS something of daniel in him, it ain't blood, it's OIL and it's never coming out!!!! GOD!!!!!!!!!
#ignore me#there will be blood#WRITHING ON THE FLOOR IN AGONY. OHHHH. OHHHH!!#an incredible near three hour movie that clips along like nobody's business. the pacing is on fucking fire#it's such a saturated movie. seeped and soaked in tension and gut-wrenching dread#the soundtrack is incredible the cinematography is incredible the performances are incredible#i grabbed at my face and gasped and moaned and curled up in a little ball and i wanted to throw UP [HIGHEST PRAISE IMAGINABLE]#there's something about otherwise completely innocuous shots that make you like. have to get up and pace because of the Implications#i LOVE the violence in this movie because of how. un-lingering it is#it happens so quickly and immediately and there's no time to soak it in it's just Done. and you sit there with the aftereffects and just#you just feel sick to your stomach and it's amazing
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too cold and miserable for a mental health walk so we're watching this instead today, lads
#it's no more a waste of three hours than scrolling any social media at all right now is.#today's mission is to not scroll so much that I lose my optimism. that might be the mission for a long time going forward#but we do what we can for the next few years.#and all I can do right now is keep myself feeling okay enough that when the opportunity to do something comes up-#-then I'll have the fortitude to be able to.#but as of right now it's just a matter of 'keep your eyes on the end of the tunnel'.#what we WON'T be doing is reading 'you're just as bad as they are if you don't watch every bad thing happen in front of you' takes.#I'll be a lot more helpful if I'm alive and hopeful and semi-in the loop and helping when I can#than if I'm fully in the loop constantly and ready to take a long walk off of a short pier because of it.#energy is best spent reasonably rationed to important causes than spent calling hotlines.#if you need a break and to mute words like trump or elon or whatever then do it and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.#intentional ignorance and self-preservation are not the same thing and misery without action is not activism.#don't conflate them and be sure to take care of yourselves and your neighbors right now.#uspol
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I find it real funny how some HOTD fans will rally behind the notion of Luke (+ Jace and Joffery) being BOTH Rhaenyra's and Daemon's sons, but will be real quiet when you bring up on, in the same regards, Baela and Rhaena are also Rhaenyra's daughters. Like they will spin their words in so many ways, trying to paint it as if they aren't throwing aside these two main black characters and it shows. Following the logic of Rhae's oldest sons being Daemon's as well, why do so many believe that without Visenya Rhaenyra no longer has a daughter? She has two now, who I'm sure she even considers as such, so what's the problem with the fandom? Hmm? đ¤¨.
#house of the dragon#hotd#baela targaryen#rhaena targaryen#rhaenyra targeryan#daemon targeryan#jacaerys velaryon#luke velaryon#and before some go âbut they're laena's daughtersâ 1.) that rhetoric is only used to denounce them from being given the same treatment bc#they can still be laena's daughters (rightfully so) while also having rhae as a stepmom (bc of course she would be she loves them)#2.) that would mean that daemon isn't the boys father and that title only belongs to laenor (or harwin) even tho the show says otherwise#3.) when u marry someone (most of the time) and they had kids prior u are now a stepparent! like....the concept isn't new#you're just looking for ways to excuse your antiblackness#im sure rhae welcomed the girls as her own quickly (rather for always wanting a daughter(s) &/or their connection to laena#(ignoring some...questionable choices made in the show in some regards)
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i keep making animations with bipper...
help please
#look at me being productive#isnt it cute?#you bet your asses it wont last long though#anyways bipper is a whole skrumblo and i will not hear otherwise#original art#gravity falls#bipper#dipper pines#gf art#bill cipher#ignore the fact that im procrastinating on like 20 projects + school stuff + asks#we dont talk about my work ethic
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In this hypothetical, the prosthetics are detachable, able to easily be modified or repaired, even customized for visual or fucntional preferences.
Getting them is about as safe as any other major surgery; certain amount of risk, yadda yadda. There's more details that would sway an answer, if this were something currently going on -- like the cost, can you sub out these prosthetics if they ever halt production, do you need medication to retain them, blah blah-- but, here? This is wish fulfillment. If you have something that hurts, or you wish you could just fix or swap out, you get to have it, just this once.
#em.txt#poll#polls#honestly i run a lot of polls & sometimes am like 'oh i hope this one gets even 15 notes' no i hope this one gets big. 16 notes at least#because this is interesting to me.#idk. it's probably a sign I'm not as able bodied as i may think bc i constantly am thinking like.#i wish i could pull out my spine & get the crick out of it. i wish i could replace my ears.#they can't hear very well & they always hurt & i always hear tinnitus. if i could swap them out i imagine some of that going away#i get people that might object to this -- your ears aren't killing you/you can get hearing aids/pain meds/ignore it#but I've been living with this my whole life & it has only gotten worse. I'd like a way to make it not get worse#otherwise next option for me is spine. option after that is probably prosthetic top surgery i wanna be able to take them thangs off#& put 'em back on when i feel like it. i want them thangs to be see through plastic with wiring & lights inside ya feel me#like i got a dualshock controller for oubitties
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thinking about @fantasyinvader's recent Dimitri post -
I think one of the points I'm not really fond of with AM and Boarmitri's turn to Savior!Mitri is how Dee shifts his attention from the Means to the Ends.
And sure, we have to think about the bigger scope - criticise to prevent the "Ends" means putting an end to the "Means" - but what about the ones who were sacrificed, or the ones who are and written off as "means"?
Kleiman dude really believed he was doing the right thing by chopping Duscur people (or at least putting them under the bus for something he and his lord did).
Boarmitri reacts to the "slaughtering Duscur people" strongly, and would have killed him because hey, you were slaugthering people down (or are responsible for the persecution Duscur people suffered and are still going through).
Savior!Mitri? Will put his execution on hold, to consider what Kleiman dude meant by "doing the right thing".
But, regardless of why Kleiman Dude thought was "right" or for "justice", the thing is, he still organised the massacre of several people and wrongly framed innocents to hide their involvment, which led to their persecution/massacre.
"But Lambert was removing our rights and privileges" sure, what does this has anything to do with Dedue having lost his sister to senseless murder after being wrongfuly framed for regicide?
"Kleiman Dude really believed what he was doing was right" and ? Tell that to Felix's mom, what's going to happen? People do things for all kinds of reasons, so what?
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Worst offender is, of course, Supreme Leader.
Boarmitri wants to cut her down to avenge the dead (and maybe stop the war?) but when Savior!Mitri finally hears her, uh, reasoning, he is resolved to kill her because that's her choice (uh) and it's their fate???
The fuck?
Sure he mentions putting an end to the war, but the entire "we have no other choice but to fight, because it's what she wants and that's the destiny we were born to", please no?
Hopefully the first sentence "end the war" exists, otherwise I'd really believe Dee makes this fight and final battle all about Supreme Leader (and blame fate because that's hresvelg grey for you) and completely ignores the people who are, uh, living in this Fodlan ravaged by war, the ones who died because of it or are still dying because that's what war does.
What about the ones who died? The ones who are dying (or are locked in a 5 stars resort doing zumba for 5 years) ? The ones who are turned in demonic beasts? The ones who are starving?
"We have no choice but to destroy each other... Such is the destiny we were born to."
who cares about casualties, let's agree to disagree about our Ends and blame fate instead.
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#character salt#who cares about namelesses? when you can blame fate#I know Dee's arc is about focusing on the living and living for himself#stop being blinded by hatred and all#but I think there's a difference between being blinded by hatred#and ignoring your previous feelings to only retreat under some#'we don't agree your path sucks''no u'#they're not talking about building decks for magic ffs#but about people living and dying#i might have read a fanfic recently but the parley from the game is still imo a complete joke#Savior!mitri is the element that brings the most Hresvelg Grey in AM when otherwise the route is mostly neutral#as neutral as a Fodlan route can be#Flayn to Dee 'people would have vivisected me if you didn't rescue me under 25 turns'#'yes but have you considered that they might have believed they were going to vivisect you for their vision of justice?'#no wonders why the nabatean plot is completely eluded in AM i mean even more than it is in the other routes#I could buy something like 'you had misgivings about my father but that didn't mean you could kill a bunch of third parties or bring them#in your feud!'#FE16
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*grits teeth*
i do not want to discourse here or anywhere anymore but it does kind of affect me as a transmasc bi person when i see shit that indirectly misgenders me and implies that bisexuality is an icky no good word and identity and you have to be bi and gay and bi and lesbian and bi and straight at the same time or support them or you're an evil stinky stinky terf like... hello where am, i
#it makes me feel othered by an otherwise inclusive community bc how dare i think that men aren't involved in lesbianism#or how dare i think that bisexuality is a whole and valid sexuality#or how dare i think that any and all nonbinary genders are included in every single sexuality by default#or that trans women are women so no fuckin g duh theyre included in lesbianism and if your knee jerk reaction to seeing:#men cannot be lesbians is to think of trans women then you are the transphobe here#or how i dare think that trans man and transmasc aren't the exact same thing#that genderqueerdyke person is also a transadrophobia geek and theyre buddies with genderkoolaid#which like. do i HAVE to say it?#IF U IGNORE THE TRANSMISOGYNY (WHICH U SHOUDLNT) THEYRE ALSO A ZIONIST HELLOW?? WHATS NOT CLICKING WHATS NOT CLICKING#OK IM KINDA MAD ABT THAT LIKE... SORRY BUT HOW ABOUT WE DONT PLATFORM IDIOTS NO MATTER HOW GOOD THEIR RHETORIC MIGHT SOUND#BC U WANT TO BE TOTALLY INCLUSIVE AND NOT GATEKEEPY#ive BEEN around the fucking block ive BEEN on tumblr when the resident terfs here coined bi lesbian#if you scrolled back far enough in certain keywords you wouldve seen that shit in the early 2010s being discussed in their circles#to mean lesbians who are attracted to trans women#you cannot reclaim that or recoin it#yes ive done the research too#i looked at every single piece of evidence of that label existing in the past 50~ years#its just bisexual women back when lesbian spaces also included them#plus like may i also fucking ssay that bisexual also used to mean being of two sexes (transsexual/gender and/or intersex?)#this close to fully believing that the pushback against bisexual being it's own whole and valid sexuality is some kind of psy op#i sound schizophrenic well Maybe I Am#i feel like im going to end up deleting this post bc i dont want to argue with people who disagree with me because there is no getting#through to any of you#tbd.
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while aaravi remains firmly within "yeah miranda has a difficult personality and isn't very easy to get along with + has many rough edges which are slowly being worked on but still going to be an issue" after having been very much so within the camp that miranda is a Vexing Bitch upon first contact/getting to know her, she DOES go from "miranda is unpredictable and dangerous as a merfolk and large macropredator and her emotions are inscrutable and random" to "merfolk aren't very hard to understand or predict and it's very easy to stay on the safe side if you keep basic rules in mind and don't freak out the second something unexpected happens"
#all the care guide says is 'biomass'#miravi.txt#just. thinking about it!#thinking about specifically how merfolk (like most other animals) growl/hiss specifically as a deterrent#like if you start really upsetting miri and she wants space and you to Please Stop#she will probably turn her face away from the other person or turn her body away from them#while growling or hissing and pulling her fins back#and will open her mouth to bare her teeth or gape her mouth open to show her teeth (including heavily panting)#where the point is ''i will hurt you if you touch me/get closer/dont stop so please dont do that''#but a lot of people read it as her being either obtuse (if she turns away from them)#or outright aggressive for the showing of teeth and growling#when shes really not. shes being very polite in merfolk terms in giving multiple chances to avoid violence#shes going ''i am worried i might have to hurt you so please reconsider'' in a way thats very readable if youre another merfolk#who will then step away or give her her space and switch the tone of the conversation#to see whats wrong#whereas her being more deliberately aggressive/violent usually comes with minimal vocal cues at all#or (if shes specifically threatening someone such as in the case of getting aggressive over perceived threats to her social bonds)#she will often turn towards them and open her mouth and flare her fins#often deliberately closing the distance and making herself appear Extra Large#she WILL growl here but will never hiss (hissing being a more defensive sound)#and will often smack her tail against the ground or show her claws or otherwise demonstrate how large and how scary she is#as a deliberate point of ''you crossed a line and this is what is going to happen to you if you dont make it up right now''#which! both require VERY different responses but might look similar to a human!#and might end up coming off as unpredictable or random in her actions and cruelty!#when shes not! shes just doing things the way a merfolk does them#which means aaravi realizes VERY quickly after learning about all of this#just how many cues miranda gives that people are starting to make her uncomfortable and feel Not Okay#that are ignored or written off because theyre merfolk cues#merfolk are very tolerant of stress but have basically no concept of escalation of violence for that reason#because if youve ignored every chance to prevent something dangerous up until the point it goes too far
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I will admit that it never occurred to me that I would need to check the history book that claimed to be scholarly to see if it used references and footnotes, because how could a book be a scholarly work on history without such things, BUT NOW I KNOW BETTER.
#would not have wasted my money if I'd thought to check for footnotes#but it literally never occurred to me to think it might be otherwise#the kindest thing I can say about this book is that it reads like it should be a video series on youtube#it sets up a premise and then proceeds to ignore it#it makes claims and does not back them up#it wants to tell a different story than the common and popular view of the era#and then proceeds to tell the exact same story with a vague âbut it doesn't mean that everybody's idea of what that means is rightâ#AND IT DOESN'T CITE ITS SOURCES#there is ârecommended readingâ in the back instead#but no indication that those were books used for references#just that they'd be good to read if you're interested in the topic#which is a great resource IN ADDITION TO CITING YOUR SOURCES#but also I don't trust them because the authors occasionally recommended books written or edited by them#without any kind of disclaimer or acknowledgment that yes this book was written by one of them#anyway#do not recommend The Bright Ages#0/10 rating
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itâs so wild how thereâs still people who say c!dream wasnât obsessed with c!tommy like. like you do realise thatâs fundamentally just saying c!dream isnât abusive with extra steps right. like abuse isnât just a Bad Person Thing that people do for no reason it is in fact part of a mindset. abuse comes from entitlement and possessiveness like abusers feel like they're owed whatever they want from their victims whenever they want it and any time theyâre not being actively controlled is theft of something that rightfully belongs to them. thatâs like the fundamental thing that Makes an abuser. and that counts as obsession in my fucking books. like either youâre saying c!dream isnât an abuser in a convoluted way or youâre arguing he did it for literally no reason which is like. that is worse. you know that causing pain onto people when you believe they donât deserve it and know youâre causing severe psychological damage is in fact even more one note evil villain than the psychology of abusers that exists In Real Life right.
#At this point Iâm convinced if anyone so much as mentions abuse is a real thing that has been studied and we know the psychology behind it#and how that might be relevant to Analysing An Abusive Character some people just instantly explode#like. at that point you're just saying the sky is in fact never blue and everyone who says otherwise is a nonce. itâs so stupid#like if the only way you can feel justified in liking c!dream is to completely ignore heâs a serial abuser i donât think you like him?#and abusers do in fact act very possessively over their victims. c!prime is tame in comparison to some real life examples#relying on someone as your emotional support punching bag is in fact obsessive. and that is what abuse is.#if c!dream is not obsessed with c!tommy you are arguing he's either fundamentally not abusive#or youâre arguing he was made with zero research or realistic and sensible motives#and neither like? are good looks?#Abuse tw
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One time someone reblogged that âtumblr is the worst place for people with moral ocdâ post because I called them an asshole for complaining about Palestinians in their inbox begging for help because apparently the asks sounded too âguilt-trippyâ.
#sorry but if you had moral ocd you would not be online whining about people asking you to do the bare minimum and hit a few buttons#to share their fundraiser because theyâre trying to raise enough money to escape the country that they will otherwise#die a horrible death in.#like yeah maybe the reason they sound so âguilt trippyâ is because people like you will willingly ignore their literal cries for help#maybe they sound desperate because theyâre starving and injured and have infections they canât treat#but no. youâll gladly sit there and not only ignore them but complain about their presence while sitting in your safe home with plenty of#food and water and easy access to medical care#knowing that you donât have to worry about your family dying or bombs ripping you to shreds#and the best part is when i told them that the least they could do is reblog the fucking asks like a normal person with a soul#their response was that they âjust want to have funâ#youâre a horrible person sorry what the fuck is wrong with you#i was in a really bad mental state when this interact happened but idec anymore that guy was genuinely disgusting#interaction*#not art
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