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one of the reasons it's really hard for a lot of intersex people when intersex topics are on the news cycle is because the public's reaction reveals how little anyone knows or cares about intersex people, including people who call themselves our allies. almost every time intersex topics are trending, the discourse surrounding them is filled with misinformation. people who only learned today what the word intersex means jump into conversations and act like an authority. endosex/dyadic/perisex people get tripped up over things that are basically intersex 101, with tons of endosex people incorrectly arguing about the definition of intersex, who "counts," DSD terminology, and so much more. i've seen multiple endosex people say today that they've been "warning intersex people" and that we should have known that transphobia would catch up with us eventually, which is an absolutely absurd thing to say given the fact that consistently over the past ten years, it has often been intersex people sounding the alarm on sex-testing policies and also the fact that many, many intersex people are also trans, and already are facing the impacts of transphobia. there is an absolute failure from the general public to take intersex identity seriously; people seem not even able to fathom that intersex people have a community, history, and our own political resources. instead, endosex people somehow seem to think they're helping by bringing up half-remembered information from their high school biology class which usually isn't even relevant at all.
and this frustrates me so fucking much. not because i want to deny the impacts of transphobic oppression--i'm a trans intersex person, trust me when i say i am intimately aware of transphobia. this frustrates me because there is no way we can achieve collective liberation if our "allies" fail to even engage with basic intersex topics and are seemingly unaware of the many forms of intersex oppression that we are already facing every fucking day. if you are not aware of compulsory dyadism, if you are not aware of interphobia, if you are not aware of the many different ways that intersex people are directly and often violently targeted--how the fuck do you think we're going to dismantle all of these systems of oppression?
if you were truly an intersex ally, you would already KNOW that this is not new, and would not be surprised--interphobia in sports has been going on for decades. you would know that we do have a community, an identity, a history--you would have already read/listened/watched to intersex resources that give you the background information you need for allyship. you would know that although there is a really distinct lack of resources and political education, that intersex people ARE developing a political understanding of ourselves and our oppression--Cripping Intersex by Celeste Orr and their framework of compulsory dyadism is one example of how we're theorizing our oppression. It's absolutely fucking wild to me how few people I've seen actually use words like "interphobia" "intersexism" "compulsory dyadism" or "intersex oppression"--endosex people are seemingly incapable of recognizing that there is already an entrenched system of oppression towards intersex people that violently reshapes our bodies, restricts our autonomy, and attempts to eradicate intersex through a variety of medical and legal means.
you cannot treat intersex people like an afterthought. not just because we're meaningful parts of your community and deserving of solidarity, but also because intersex oppression impacts everyone!!! especially trans community--trans people will not be free until intersex people are free, so much of transphobia is shaped by compulsory dyadism, the mythical sex binary, all these ideas of enforced "biological sex" that are just as fake as the gender binary.
it makes me absolutely fucking livid every time this shit happens because it becomes so abundantly clear to me how little the average endosex person knows about intersex issues and also how little the average endosex person cares about changing that. i don't know what to say to get you to care, to get you to change that, but we fucking need it to happen and i, personally, am tired of constantly being grateful when i meet an endosex person who knows the bare minimum. i think we have a right to expect better and to demand that if you're going to call yourself our ally, you actually fucking listen to us when we tell you what that means.
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#personal#intersex#actually intersex#actuallyintersex#interphobia#intersexism#compulsory dyadism#trans#lgbtqia#transphobia#also to be clear im not necessarily mad about people not knowing or using the term compulsory dyadism. bc that term in particular is newer.#and from a dense academic theory book. so that's something that i understand why ppl might not yet know. i just brought it up as an example#and my main point is less about which specific terms people are using. but more just that endosex people seem incapable of recognizing the#actual material instances of oppression that are already happening. and teh history of that. and the systems#set up to enable it#like idk i don't care if you don't know or use a term if you're otherwise aware and understand how the sex binary is fake and all the#discriminatory ways society then enforces this. and how it fucks intersex people over#you see what i'm saying?
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Windbreaker Art trade with @officialmiintee 🌱🍓🐈
cutting classes to pet cats
post-patrol cooldown with kitties!
#my art#wind breaker#nirei akihiko#sakura haruka#suo hayato#cats#art trade#miintee#It’s so hard to pick a favorite in Windbreaker#cos they’re all so well-developed but thank god we shared the same favs to draw sndjjfjf#gifting art to your friends feels so tender and so precious?#Like you really took the time to get to know their interests -#why they like something so much about a fictional character or a particular thing#remember the little details they mentioned once- and capture it on canvas???#But also it lowkey feels scary and vulnerable cos you’re letting a loved one fully perceive you and what you like 🥹#lessa yaps
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Your beats make me sick
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#lan wangji#wei wuxian#a-yuan#wen qing#wen ning#This scene raised several implications that range from retroactively hilarious -#-to confrontationally horrifying.#First with the hilarious bit; Hey! We've seen this scene before!#In fact - this particular duet is so similar to the duet LWJ and WWX perform to calm the mystery arm in Cloud Recess-#-That I am honestly flabbergasted WWX *didn't* realize LWJ would catch on his real identity.#Sure there are a lot of ways you could justify it. But also...even if he didn't play Wangxian.mp3...he would have been found out eventually#"I have to get away from LWJ by annoying him via flirting!' uhhh like you pretty much did throughout most of your late teens?#I think there is something a bit charming about WWX if he's truly that bad of an actor. Go on king. Live your authentic truth.#For the horrifying implications...I didn't depict it here but it's not *just* Wen Ning who breaks out and goes into a frenzy.#It is also the other corpses that are around the burial grounds.#You know; the ones that even he admits he has no idea how many there are!#It puts a lot more weight on 'how much longer do you really think you can do this?'#The village in the burial grounds was *always* under a time limit. It was a matter of when and how it would be destroyed.#And I do believe that firmly. As depressing and pessimistic as it is; The Wen Remnants were never meant to survive.
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In the days after
I dunno what i wanna do with this. I’ve had it for a while but it needs...more.
Anyways, enjoy this little blerby thing i made but haven’t touched for a while. I technically have more but idk what i wanna do with it.
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“<They are not warriors. They are children. Your children.>”
“<Oh yeah? Why don’t you tell that to the sky people who won’t think twice when they’re shooting at them!>”
It was another one of those nights. Neteyam’s death had only brought more of them. The mourning was long and hard. It weighed heavily in Neytiri’s heart. The mere thought of him made her hand raise up to the necklace she had taken from his lifeless body. His spirit was with Eywa and his body placed with the ancestors of the Metkayina, his song cord finished, but this little piece of him she couldn’t let go. Under her fingertips the cold beads only reminded her of the hurt she suffered that day.
“<Then what was the point in running away?! If they are just going to follow us and our children still aren’t safe? I trusted you. I put my trust in you Jake, and nothing you promised has come true! I do not know if my clan is safe. Our family is not safe. Our first-born son should be proof enough of that!>”
“<I did everything I could to protect this family! I gave up everything! You aren’t the only one hurting Neytiri. I lost a son too!>”
“<You gave up everything? I lost my father to the sky people. I lost my sister. I lost Seze. I lost my home, twice. Jake. I have been made to flee from my home when I wanted to fight. You gave up everything? I have lost so much and yet I continue to lose. You have given me much Jake Sully, but you have also taken much more than you can imagine.>”
“<What do you want from me Neytiri?!>”
“<I want my family to be safe and protected! Which you cannot seem to do!>”
Jake didn’t seem to react to the venom in Neytiri’s words. He froze for a moment before the eyes that bore down into her own faltered for a moment while hers remained steadfast in their gaze. She felt scorned. And she did not regret her statements. Not yet at least. The realization and pain would only hit after she had enough time to think about it and reflect. He was the father of her children after all. She loved Jake. But she was so angry with him. How could you forgive someone who has done such horrible things to you? How could you not forgive someone who has blessed you with so much? Stones would be laid in her heart tonight when he didn’t return to their shared space.
He’d be back eventually, just like usual. Some nights it was Neytiri that left, others it was Jake. But they always came back to each other. She would apologize later but for now she sat down on the woven flooring and began tracing the patterns in it as an attempt to calm her mind. Her people were known for their weaving of textiles and fabrics but those were for an entirely different purpose than these suspended floorings and walkways. It reminded her of home. A home she may never be able to see again. The thought caused her eyes to drift towards the opening of the Mauri pod she and her family had been gifted to stay in.
#Neytiri#Jake Sully#Avatar 2#avatar the way of water#avatar#feel free to let me know what you think is missing#or if you liked something in particular#i'm not much of a writer#i just had a thought#well...#many thoughts#this is the first of many#essentially the overall plot is supposed to lead to Neyteri becoming like...the most important character#cause jake sully has served his purpose in the story imho#neytiri also got shunted in this movie so she needs more growth#or at least more space to show herself for what she is#idk dude
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now i don’t want to sound crazy ladies but do you think it might have lost steam because it literally no longer has even a vaguely defined purpose. it has no goals or ideals maybe. it feels empty and meaningless because it doesn’t actually stand for anything this time. an incompetent rapist won over an extremely qualified woman with no scandals to her name, and they decided it wasn’t the time to organize against misogyny maybe. do you guys have any demands or
#women organizing to say “we’re not okay with having a president who says to grab women by the pussy” was at least something of a goal#none of the subsequent women’s marches had as much force because after that one it was like#are you protesting for anything in particular? is this a pro choice protest? a ratify the era protest?#a “let’s walk around in circles” protest?#what are you organizing for#but at least it was for women#now it’s just like. take to the streets for ummmm reasons#no we don’t have any demands what are you talking about
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god Arcane S2 is so good. I love not knowing any of the source material, because I'm just consuming the story as it is - with absolutely exquisite visuals and beautifully orchestrated emotional arcs. The ending had me legit crying and loved every moment of it.
#there is incredible character work throughout but#it struck me multiple times while watching the variety and depth and interest of all the female characters in particular#as something that it is easy for a show to wobble on#but not here like truly bechdel test WHOMST#this show is about messy rich complicated *people*#and i really love the choices they made with the animation in a lot of places - like who says you need to have one style all the way throug#arcane#arcane spoilers#arcane season 2#arcane s2#op
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chapter cards for thirteen: november - april
read on ao3
#I did want to post this bc it's been in my drafts for a while and I do like these#it's fun seeing them all together like this#like my metamorphosis covers master post that was so fun#it does feel a little bit like. I dont know.#meta or ironic or something#that I had to stick a hiatus right down the middle of the chapters#and right at the moment where [redacted] happened#it feels a little bit poetic for there to be a chasm there#watch me like get really inspired next week and write all of may and then none of this means anything lol#who knows#but anyway I like these#april in particular feels so fun and spooky#I love emilie agreste she scares me#autumn asukiess I know you now what im talking about#ml#miraculous ladybug#miraculous#my art#adrien agreste#emilie agreste#ml fic
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I really like this human design doodle for some reason so I'm posting it separately too
#idk. something about how i get a new art style with every fandom i get into#remus looks really fun and i like the colors a lot#i have. SO many notes on their designs <- mentally unwell about these two in particular#sanders sides#tss#janus sanders#remus sanders#tss janus#tss remus#janus ''classy'' sanders#he's so funny. and gay. i love him#remus has a bunch of stick-and-poke tattoos in this design but you can't tell because 90% of his skin is covered#lbau#drawing#art#digital
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nothing is more sacred and healing than being a dragon age fan who doesnt hate a single companion in any of the titles. cannot recommend it enough honestly. its all neutral and up over here. i see the opinions and i permit them to pass over me and through me. and when they have gone past i will turn the inner eye to see its path. where the opinions have gone there will be nothing. only i will remain
#even characters i dont reallyyyyyy care for its like. i still like them. they still add something that i truly value in the media#oghren ? friend shaped . sebastian ? much love to you brother. blackwall is a mutual i will never speak to but whose posts ill always like#i think the reason is because every single chara (give or take a few) is awful. theyre all cancelled. if i singled one out in particular#it would just feel weird to me bc theyre all like that lol#theyre ALL cringe they should ALL be making youtube apologies#i stand with all 40 of my cancelled wives
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I thought of something. So we know that Vere has a longer lifespan than the average human, right?
A snapshot several decades later — the larger part of a century, really — Vere looks pretty much the same as he did the day you met. Maybe he’s wearing his hair differently nowadays, faint crow’s feet and smile lines finally beginning to show on his face but aside from that, he is mostly unchanged in appearance. He walks through the halls of a place he’s called home for…a long time now. There’s the broken lute neither of you ever got around to throwing out from when you first tried your hand at replicating the music of his favourite Hightown lutist. Cupboards and drawers filled with his art supplies, your gloves, rolls of spare linen he’s swiped from the Lowtown clinic ages ago. The walls are adorned with his best drawings — many of them are safely kept in his sketchbooks, but there are many he’s proud enough to display in the open. Several of them are portraits of you over the years. He can’t find it in himself to take them down yet. There are so many other memories, relics of the love the two of you have shared over the years strewn throughout your home.
He makes his way to the kitchen where his fruit oolong tea has been cooling on the counter and begins to whip up a new monstrosity of a meal. His neck and chest are bare from the collar and harness that has been forcibly imposed onto him a century ago. Actually, only one thing adorns his neck now — a necklace fashioned from the ribbon in your handfasting ceremony. You made it into a necklace for your first anniversary together. He hasn’t taken it off all this time. Still fiddles with it when deep in thought, a habit that carried over from his years in chains.
Sometimes he finds it deeply unjust that he’s lived more years in chains than he’s lived with you — his anger and bloodlust briefly soothed with the knowledge that eventually…the years he’s spent in hell will be surpassed by the number of years he’s spent loving you.
#that’s the fate of things though isn’t it?#it’s somewhat comforting#that you will always be loved for longer than you’ve lived#also yeah in this imagined scenario it occurs after mc has died#but after living a full and wonderful life with Vere!#anyway this spawned from my desire to see his collar and chain replaced with something that means he is loved#like an engagement necklace#touchstarved#touchstarved game#touchstarved vere#vere x reader#vere x mc#touchstarved headcanons#my ramblings#I’m always so emo about Vere in particular#something about him…aaaaahhhhh!#i love him
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thinking about these 21 frames btw. if you even care.
#OFMD#OFMD Season 2#OFMD S2 Trailer#Gentlebeard#Blackbonnet#Edward Teach#Stede Bonnet#Edit#i'm dying scoob#you know it's bad/rough when just a few frames of them LOOKING at each other is enough to do me in#BUT STEDE'S FACE IN PARTICULAR IS KILLING ME TOO#like they look like they're discussing a fuckery or something of that nature because of how his eyebrows go up#but either way#crying and sobbing and shaking and throwing up over them BEING together#BREATHING THE SAME AIR
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hi, I'm sorry, but I'm freaking out because what do you MEAN someone bookbinded my fic if i'm butter (then she's a hot knife) and it's BEAUTIFUL!? and it's MASTERFUL? and it's making me CRY!?
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gaze upon the absolute thoughtfulness, creativity, and BEAUTY of this bookbinding! the siblings represented as the tablespoons of butter? the net weight being the word count? the 'Penelope is 24, and this love' quote from the last chapter? the grade being the rating? the yellow pages!!!! I am SOBBING this may be the most gorgeous artwork anyone has ever done for my work, and I'm just so humbled and gracious and floored over it. please give her some love because this is a masterful bookbinding.
#polin#penelope featherington#colin bridgerton#bridgerton#bookbinding#penelope bridgerton#like what do you MEAN someone made something so beautiful out of my story????#i've been lucky enough in the past to have amazing artists create art of my fics (shout to ez in particular!!! i still have your print!)#but this is the first person who has done a bookbinding#and i didn't even know about it until i did a random google search!#just so honored honestly#Instagram
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#digital art#line stabilization#i've been doing digital art for so long that i didn't even know it was a thing in some programs until a couple of years ago XD;#i don't personally use it because i think it's important to practice making neat marks#but more so because i think it tends to give line art a sort of generic and lifeless feel?#i think most people like that because it feels 'clean' but i'm not a big fan - i want to see some character in the mark making! <3#however i totally get using it if you have shaky hands etc or just need something in particular to look less hand drawn#anyway i'm just curious if a lot of people use it or not#poll#polls
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Corsets are fun! Frills are fun!
#I was drawing a lil comic with her in a corset and i was like. well she's too cute actually i have to keep goign#isat#in stars and time#mirabelle isat#corsets DO come in plus sizes and in fact. the myths about them are wrong and they CAN be worn comfortably#you just gotta treat them right. like binders#art#fanart#kitscribbles#in fast and food#HA SURPRISE. i think she would totally dress like someone from the past for the fun of it even in a modern au#looking at vintage french fashion. oh actually#she doesnt have any particular style in this one that i tried for but maybe.... maybe i SHOULD try for something#the poofy shoulders. i NEED to include that
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people be like "stop calling mxtx a genius, she's not even the best author in her particular niche",
and i'm like "but have you considered that i don't care if she's not objectively the best author as long as she's able to write characters and stories that make me go Insane for literal years?"
#like who else does it like her#(don't answer that. it's a rhetorical question)#the only other author who's ever been able to keep me up at night thinking about blorbos#is j r r tolkien#and tbh that was when i was younger and more into that particular flavour of fantasy#there's just a very particular something about those two and their writing#that makes my brain go brrr#if you know what i mean#mxtx#svsss#mdzs#tgcf
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to preface this post i am anti-advertising i think we should explode the entire industry but it's sooo funny when you people make posts like "and they don't even work!!" like. sorry to be the bearer of bad news but yes they do. that's why we have to put up with so many despite everyone hating them and thinking its annoying. because they actually work really well and make a shit load of money
#it actually would be way better if they didnt work and made no money bc businesses would abandon them#this isnt like stocks where everythings abstract and is essentially gambling (i dont understand stocks)#like ppl in the ad industry create things. that make a tangible and quantifiable impact on the business#which is then used in further ad planning. it is NOT all smoke and mirrors#like its fake in that the industry is not providing a necessary service the way like. grocery stores are#but its not the level of fake where everything is abstract like theres deliverables#moreover there is an extensive body of academic work specifically on how to make ads more effective#ALSO i think some of u views ads like. as if they have a win condition. which is you buy product#but in current advertising this is pretty rare and comparatively ineffective#which is why you see MANY ads which dont seem to be selling anything in particular. or which have nothing all to do with the product#the 'win' condition for THAT kind of ad is something more like 'viewers remember our name'#like. ex i would say ads for temu have not been effective on me bc i havent bought anything from them#but temu probably thinks they were SUPER effective on me because i talked abt them like 5 different times at work#and i do in fact know exactly what the company does and what they sell#and they were able to capitalize on the reputations of existing companies (wish shein etc) to build their own brand#good idea generator
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