#or his sexuality. hes just aro .
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Fun fact! This was the real tipping point that made Edgeworth run away after AA1, they just couldn't show it on screen because they didn't have the rights to Chappell Roan's music <3
(A spiritual successor to my "Hot to Go" joke from this post. Image description under the cut below)
[Image ID: a four page black and white comic of characters from ace attorney.
The Judge stands solemnly at his podium holding a gavel "Mr. Miles Edgeworth, you are on trial for the murder of blah blah blah..."
A cheerful Maya Fey leans over to Miles Edgeworth, who is staring straight ahead and looking very concerned
Maya: "Psst! Mr. Edgeworth! If you win your trial, can I show you Chappell Roan?
Miles: "What the hell, sure." Internally he thinks "Oh God I am going to jail"
A box saying "later" in the top corner of the next panel marks the passage of time.
The Judge smiles as he says "I declare you... Not Guilty!"
We see a full body shot of Maya dancing excitedly while Miles looks on, emotionless
Maya: YIPPEE omg you're going to LOVE this
Miles internally thinks "oh no, the consequences of my actions.
We see Miles standing in between Phoenix Wright and Maya looking apprehensive. Maya beams in excitement, while Nick puts a reassuring hand on Miles' shoulder
Miles: Alright, so what is this exactly?
Nick: She's a pop musician Maya really likes
Maya: You promised you'd let me show you, and it's legally binding because you said it in a court room!
Miles: That is not how the law works Ms. Fey
Maya: Shh just listen!
We see a panel of Miles' pensive face concentrating as he listens to "Hot to Go". He thinks to himself "hm".
Another panel zoomed in more. His pensive expression has grown more tense/confused as he listens to "Red Wine Supernova". he again thinks to himself "Hm" in a larger thought bubble.
We zoom out again to see Nick, Miles, and Maya standing together again. Miles stares forward blankly, eyebrows raised. Maya excitedly leans in.
Maya: Ok, that's her whole discography. So! What did you think?
Nick looks at him, waiting for his response
We get a panel of Miles, looking bewildered. He starts to speak "I..."
We cut again to see the three of them standing together.
Miles: I... don't think I like women?
Miles looks shocked and confused. Nick is bent over laughing, using a hand on Miles's shoulder to support himself. Maya looks outraged and appalled!
Maya: MR. EDGEWORTH! Just because you don' like her musi it doesn't give you an excuse to be sexist!
We see a panel of Miles looking stressed and confused. He leans his head on one of his hands, which messes up his hair, showing how he isn't his normal put together self.
Miles: I should rephrase that. What I mean is, Ms. Roan is clearly VERY assured in her feelings towards women. I was... unaware that anyone felt that strongly. I thought we all viewed these things with a vague sense of distaste and unease but collectively ignored it. Like how we do with climate change.
We zoom out again to see the three of them. Miles stands in the middle looking deeply uncomfortable and lost in thought, vibrating with unease. Nick and Maya exchange deeply concerned glances across from him.
With lingering unease, Miles begins to walk away.
Miles: Well, I should be going then. Goodnight.
Nick hesitantly raises a finger to point out an inaccuracy in that statement
Nick: It's four in the afternoon-
he gets interrupted by Miles who repeats firmly: I said Goodnight
Nick looks in the direction Miles walked off in.
Nick: ...He'll be ok, right?
Maya reassures him: Of cours Nick! I mean, what's the worst that can happen?
Jump cut to a closeup of Nick's hand holding Miles' letter which reads Miles Edgeworth chooses death in all caps. Then, below in smaller font, it says Also femininomenon was really good, thanks.
We see a panel of Nick glaring wordlessly at Maya as he holds the letter in his hand. Maya leans against the wall and looks away, whistling, trying to look innocent to avoid blame.
As a bonus, we also have a page that takes place a year later. Miles and Nick stand talking. Miles looks calmer now, and Nick smiles encouragingly.
Miles: In my time in Europe, I've been examining myself and my approach to law. Ultimately, the most important focus must be justice. We owe it to ourselves and to the people we serve
Nick: Wow, that's really inspiring Edgeworth. And, uh, hows the... the other thing going?
We get a zoomed in panel of Miles glaring menacingly at a suddenly nervous Nick
Jumping out again, Miles turns his back to Nick as he continues to talk
Miles: So as I was saying, justice is truly so important...
Nick nervously rubs the back of his neck wearing an awkward expression as he sweats nervously. He thinks to himself internally "Ooookay then, clearly still working through some things there"
/.End ID]
#Miles can handle horrifying truths about the death of his father and the nature of his guardian#but he draws the line at questioning his sexuality!#also. serious moment for a second#I think we focus a lot on moments of queer discovery stemming from attraction to the same sex#like that being the moment of panicked āoh no I'm differentā. Which makes sense and is valid!#But I think it's also compelling to explore the opposite but similar twist in your gut that is:#oh my god I don't feel anything in this situation where others do. oh no something something is wrong with me#and this is something that gay and lesbian people have in common with ace and aro people!#I feel such tenderness and kinship to everyone who has been in that situation#and it's why i will never understand why aspec folks are pitted against gay or lesbian representation#we are drawn to the same characters bc we had such similar experiences and isn't that lovely that we can find solace in media?#so NO FIGHTING. We should all be BEST FRIENDS. my brothers in arms. I'd die for you.#all that is to SAY: I personally read edgeworth as asexual and like demiromantic/gay.#but YOU can read him as just gay in this comic if you want <3#Also. i just thought it would be funny if it took a lesbian to make him realize he didn't like women#I think he would have no clue how to react to chappell roan. Same vibe as giving a victorian orphan a baja blast and a crunchwrap supreme#ok sorry shutting up now#ace attorney#ace attorney comic#ace attorney trilogy#gyakuten saiban#phoenix wright#naruhodo ryuichi#miles edgeworth#mitsurugi reiji#maya fey#ayasato mayoi#my art
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Translation: Junior, I have told you several times that Lily prefers to be single, remember?
Lily is the new aroace icon. That's all.
#Lily#duolingo#aromantic#asexual#aroace#yeah I know she had a crush on a drummer once#but that was just a one time thing#she can still be h/c'd as someone on the aroace spectrum#she has literally never been interested in anyone in that way other than that occasion#spanish duolingo#pride month#aroace pride#first post to reach 1k jeez#it always is a shitpost isn't it#personal headcanon#<- I thought it was clear enough before#apparently not looking at some reblogs#guys this is a headcanon post that I made#nowhere did I say that it was official#the only officially queer characters on Duolingo are Lin Bea and Oscar#Lin is lesbian Bea is bi and idk about Oscar#He never goes out on dates. just likes to paint and platonically hang out with Lucy in his free time#He's also most like aroace. Again: MOST LIKELY aro/ace.#like I know he's one of the ācanonicallyā (officially from the website) queer characters. But Idk what his sexuality actually is.#this is a SHITPOST
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Art prompt of Shen Qingqiu holding the aro flag (fits his color scheme)
the real reason this man doesn't realise he's tripping every romance flag in the story
#svsss#scum villain#shen qingqiu#sqq#aro#aromantic flag#i'm now just stuck on the idea of sqq trying to explain the nuance of pride flags to the Qing Jing Peak disciples#he Does Not Want to have this conversation#it started when he realised he was going to have to have The Talk with his disciples at SOME point and couldn't figure out a way#to finesse them into going to talk to mqf about it instead. it rapidly derailed as sqq got more muddled up in modern day terminology and#the Scholarly Peak Disciples would NOT fucking let it go#he would really rather die than continue this conversation; this man went through enough of his (2 lives) life without examining his own#sexuality he does NOT intend to start now!! please stop asking clarifying question!! you know what just don't have sex ever!!!#just!!!! don't date!!!!!! don't do that!!!! isn't it better for everyone to just not do that?????? conversation over!#my art#thanks for the suggestion!
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im working on a presentation on canon vincent for my friends rn and this slide is my favorite so far
#I KNOW HES ARO I KNOW HES AROOOOOOO#my vinny doesnt really gaf about labels when it comes to his sexuality he just goes with the flow but i knowww hes genderqueer and arospec#evil problematic aro respresentation save meeeeeeee
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It's sad how people ignore/downplay Luffy blushing only at the sight of faraway Zoro to keep maintaining "Luffy is aroace"... when the evidence for Luffy being "100% aro" is not really there,
it's just Luffy (& Zoro) reasonably rejecting anyone suddenly romantically proposing to him in canon & Luffy (& Zoro) wanting to keep adventuring + having his style of fun + find One Piece. & Zoro + Luffy having many more meaningful, weighty experiences together & stronger attachment than average would make them liking each other more than just friends have a higher probability of happening than most ships with either of them.
& people keep "forgetting" both aro and ace are spectrums like why? I suspect just to keep Luffy away from Zoro?? (who's more popular to be shipped with other characters than Luffy due to being more classically appealing in a mature/less cartoony way, when Luffy is so much less childish & silly than he seems, he does have that deep-seated emotional maturity, like not caring for power + knowing how to motivate Laboon & downtrodden people to keep living/let the Strawhats help, & confidence + cheeky intelligence/sharpness to him that Zoro really resonates with)
Iām constantly metaphorically knocking on ppls doors at night w a big printout of luffy blushing bc HELLO? we seeing this???? from what Iāve gathered, it was only the second time heās blushed (the first being when robin said she has strong friends). and itās just. itās a big deal. i will be reading into it. Insane. insane that he took one look at zoro from a distance and starting blushing like that. āoh heās just happy to see himā luffy???? BLUSHING LIKE THAT!!???
#zolu#also mood to the other things u said I just get distracted by the āluffy blushingā bit#lmaooo woops#one piece#also I respect all interpretations of his sexuality#important to remember aro & ace are a spectrum#and if he was blushing bc of feelings for zoro it would not invalidate that bc there is no one way to love#I tried entertaining other zoro x ships but after seeing his relationship w luffy there was no way
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just bc im a lesbian doesnt mean tht i wont at times become deeply entranced with the beauty of male actor or character. it just means i wld rather be locked in a room with a man with a knife than do anything romantic or sexual with one
#NO OFFENCE TO MEN AS PEOPLE THAT EXIST. but also i shldnt have to say tht after saying this yk#also b4 u say ooh ur aro tho why do u need to specifcy u wldnt do anything romantic w a man when i wldnt with a woman either#i am actually pretty romance favorable. like i would be in a romantic relationship with a woman if it wldnt ruin my life#with how it is rn . i think i like and want all the parts tht make up a romantic relationship i just dont experince romantic attraction#but anyway i was here to talk abt my sexuality not my romantic orientation#this post was originally like 'im remembering why there was such a huge overlap with my og major starkid hyperfixation#and me identifing as bisexual' but the thing is is the main main guy from starkid i remember being attracted too#was infact . rob. and thats aged badly bc of it being revealed that hes a fucking creep since then#but also just now not that we should ignore tht but regardless of that i just. dont see it at all#maybe it is that news subconsiously turning me off him but i really dont see that much what i liked abt his appearance#but who rly inspired this post to me is infact . jeff blim ? which is suprising just from the fact tht i dont ever remember#having tht big of a crush on him with that og starkid hyperfixation. but well he is a very beautiful man . giggling a little bit. sorry .#also becoming a bit obsessed with joey richter but thts just standard lesbian obssesion with a weird little man#not attractive to me im just obssesed with him. hi#also posting this now so when i finally watch the fnaf movie i can rb it abt josh hutcherson#anyway. does anyone read these tags do these long rants i go on like. turn ppl off of my posts. sometimes i wonder#flappy rambles
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satoru is gay/aroace and suguru is bi/demiace if you get it you get it ššš
#pride month has me thinking of my sexuality hcs a lot ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦.#i just . Yeah#HEAVY on satoru being ace i will die on my little hill ā¦. but i also see him being on the aro spectrum !!!#and sugu is soooooo fucking bi+demi coded i donāt even need to explain myself . heās my dream man#when i think of stsg itās always like ā¦.#satoru falls in love with suguru and then never falls in love again#and suguru tries to sleep with people after leaving satoru behind but legitimately Canāt#he can only get it up when thereās a deep emotional connection and his bond with satoru was so deep he just canāt replicate it#:ā3#theyyyy . make me happy#BUT YEAH I JUST .#gay toru/bi sugu means sm to me#and ace toru/demiace sugu means even moreā¦ā¦.#iāve been seeing lots of sexuality hcs on the dash too lately ā¦.!!!! so i wanted to share my own :3#ari noises ā©
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while i love valgrace, recently iāve started loving the idea of aromantic jason + leo who has an unrequited crush way moreā¦ like i love happy endings but i seriously cannot be anything but tragic with this pairing
#piper and the aphrodite kids being the only ones who know about leoās crush#maybe him and drew bonding bc she says she knows what itās like to love someone who doesnāt love you back and never will#(we love drew tanaka in this household)#leo never getting the chance to properly get over jason bc he died#leo feeling so damn guilty for loving him knowing how happy jason was to figure out his sexuality after everything with hers#*hera#just#UGH#pjo hoo toa#percy jackson and the olympians#leo valdez#jason grace#aromantic jason grace#aro jason grace#aromantic
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Were you aware that there is discourse in the fandom on whether or not Mori is an actual pedophile? Despite the infamous line ("I prefer the women in my life to be under twelve.") and Elise's existence, this is an actual debate that happens.
The main argument made is that despite the general creepiness of the whole thing, Mori never actual touches or interacts 'inappropriately' with a child and that most of his lolicon moments and tendencies are played as a joke, an unfunny and distasteful one, but a joke nonetheless. People argue that since weird stuff like this, lolicon and shotacon adults who gush and blush over children in a context that is presented as satirical or comedic, is very common in anime and manga, that Bungou Stray Dogs employs these tropes as well since Mori's supposed pedophilia isn't a relevant part of his grander character outside of a few moments and that, along with his portrayal in the BEAST spin-off, confirm that he's not ACTUALLY a pedophile.
I suggest that you check out this analysis on twitter (I refuse to call it X), it's long but damn, it is a good read and is, in my opinion, a wonderful take on Mori's whole character and it also explores this argument in more detail: https://twitter.com/ohne_rotes_blut/status/1742741217736273965
-Sincerely, š
I'm gonna be honest anon, your message made me doubt the linked thread. But that thread essay on Mori was genuinely an incredible read and I'd recommend anyone who dislikes him read it. The main arguments aren't that he doesn't touch her, it's a joke, etc. it's that the source material he's based on AND the deeper character interactions in BSD support Elise being a reflection of his regrets (how he treats ppl despite caring abt them) and desire to have a family (but he can't bc ?? Bc Mafia? Bc ace aro? Bc he knows he treats ppl like shit? Bc he did somewhere in the past and abandoned them? Who knows!!).
I love when the English/Literature/Writing majors make character analysis threads š¤©
This analysis is the same type I've done that make me continue to assert that Junichiro and Naomi aren't siblings because the source material by irl Junichiro is about a couple who pretend to be siblings because it's "indecent" that they live together!!!!!!!
#ask answered#š anon#Mori bsd#i was picking up on a lot of this anyway (hc him aro/ace. never thought he actually sexually interacted w Elise. considered her his daughter#a lot of it just feels creepy which i don't blame ppl for picking up on and drawing a line at#i do think I'm gonna need a bit more from his character in bsd before I'm fully comfortable joining the mori defense squad#but i will continue writing for him bc damn he's Hot bro one of cards in bungo tales makes his hands look sexy as fuck š„µš„µš„µ
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Aro representation :D
Good for him
Heās living his best life and getting invested in his friends romantic life since he has none of his own. Maybe one day he will find someone to be his platonic partner. ā¤ļø
#I never made the conscious decision to make him aro#it just got built into his character when I made him#same way that I didnāt intentionally make Augustine ace-spec (heās apparently jester-sexual) but it happened anyways#jester is hoarding 99% of the sexuality for himself
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I have to admit that it's so frustrating to me that people are doing this "He's canon ace but not canon aro" thing. It feels like people wanting to have it both ways at the cost aro people. If you're going to say only what's explicit in the text matters, then be honest with proper embrace of Death of the Author and disregard what Brennan said outside the context of the text. If you want to invest meaning in authorial intent, than be honest about the authorial intent with Riz. It's hard enough being aro in fandom as it is without people playing both sides of the fence on this
I'm sorry that there is a lack of aromantic representation, but you can't decide what the authorial intent was for the author. He could be aro! There's a lot of subtext and ways to read the story like that, but it's just as easy to read it as him being demiromantic or gray romantic or even just a late bloomer. Because of this, I can't confirm the authors intent unless he states it. I don't personally have an opinion on it, I just like Riz, and I'll like his character no matter what his sexuality is. I'm not going to disregard a statement from a cast member, especially when I doubt Brennan would have said without Murph's permission. That, to me at least, is confirmation of authorial intent.
I can understand why you're frustrated, but there aren't (or at least shouldn't be) sides. I'm simply saying that Riz is not canonically Aromantic, which is true. However, this does not mean that Aromantic people are somehow wrong in saying that they believe he is! Just like many other things, it is up for the viewer to decide currently.
If Murph comes out and says Riz is Aromantic, that's it. He's Aromantic. But until then, it's up for interpretation. You aren't wrong for saying he's Aromantic, but neither is someone saying he's not Aromantic.
I am so glad that Riz resonates with you, but others don't have your same experience and might relate to him in different ways, and their experience and interpretations aren't less valid than yours.
The world isn't black and white. There are so many nuisances that can be beautiful if you allow yourself to see them.
I'm not on the fence. I know exactly where I stand. Riz is canonically asexual and he has no confirmed romantic interests, although he has been shown to be less interested than his peers. This could mean many, many different things, but saying that thinking Riz is asexual but not aromantic is being on the fence is discounting real people who are asexual and not aromantic.
It's not all or nothing. I'm not out to get you or hurt anyone. It just frustrates me when people state their interpretations of media as facts and get upset when other people have different interpretations. Your interpretation isn't more valid just because it's more diverse. That would be like me reading a book where someone was never stated to have a race, but I decided that their character would make more sense if they were black, so now they're canonically black, even though I don't know what the author imagined them like. Just because it's adding diversity doesn't make it more morally correct. It doesn't make it more incorrect either. It just makes it your interpretation.
I know you're probably sick of hearing this, but it's up for interpretation, and you can't fault people for having a different interpretation of a character.
#another long one#oops#I feel like im getting repetitive tho#all I ask is that you dont act like aromantic Riz is canon before its confirmed#its gonna get peoples hopes up#and then what if hes not?#people will get upset#it will be like klance where everyone thought it was canon and then harrassed the creators when it wasnt#headcanon whatever you want#just remember that you might not be right#because its up for#say it with me guys#*interpretation*#thats not to say youre wrong#I didnt personally ask Murph what his plans were for Riz#I have no idea what Riz's sexuality is#and I dont really care#because I like him for his character#not his sexuality#its important to have representation#so fight for representation that has no room for different interpretations#so is Riz aro?#i dont fucking know#thats up to your own interpretation until its confirmed#and if its confirmed ill just delete all this to keep people from being confused#riz gukgak#dimension 20
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so i went on a date today.
#it went really well#we met up at 4pm for like walk and coffee and then maybe pints after#tell me how its now 3am and i am just now getting into bed#fully yapping for hours w that guy#and we kissed and i was a bit like oh hes nice but idk if im like sexually attracted to him but after that smooch yeah okay#i can get down with this#but now im kinda spiraling bc i didnt bring up being aro and idk when you bring that up#and im like gaslighting myself again that maybe im not aro bc today was so fun but like#watch me date this guy for like three months then the aro signs will be strong w me#its just like hyperfixation excitement but idk#or is that the gaslighting and i acc do feel romantic towards him#god i wish my brain made sense to me sometimes#oh also this was my first first date since jan 2023 so like its been a minute for me#anyways maybe i should stop panicking and just like enjoy it as it goes#bc just bc first date went well doesnt mean its gonna become a thing thing for sure right? so no need to worry rn#i liked holding his hand tho and him kissing me on the cheek and usually i dont like that#but also i was three drinks in so maybe it was alcohol courage idk??? aaaaaaaaaaaaaa#being aro is so confusing#aromantic
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Girl help I'm having aroace Miguel O'Hara thots
#fuck what if he wanted a daughter and the companionship of other spiders (initially) bc he was desperate for non-sexual and non-romantic#affection/connection???#man so desperate for familial love that he made the spider society AND dimension-hopped#makes me wonder how the dead Miguel had Gabriella#cloning??? assuming the dude was going by the comics backstory and was a geneticist#maybe Miguel in ATSV wasn't a geneticist????? no test tube baby for him I guess#does this stem from my need for more complex ace rep? Probably???????#where's that post with the āI need more passionate aces - aces who get fucking madā#bc THAT'S HIM OFFICER#Miguel O'Hara the angriest aro ace in the business#the thots are thinking#because y'all KNOW he wouldn't have trouble making a baby the conventional way I've seen those fanarts the PTA mums would be all over that#even his fucking AI was falling in love with him in the comics#so why the fuck did he need to hop dimensions to have a family?????#mmmmmmm sex and romance repulsed motherfucker coding detected#this is in no way a jab at anyone else's hornyness for him tho#character.ai away my dudes#honestly the art and writing coming out bc of sheer thirst for this man is incredible to me#I just want an ace character I could go to anger management class with#bc I'm over here existing in a perpetual state of annoyed at the only ace rep being robots/aliens/emotionless#bc all that is the fucking coolest and all but eeeeeeeh#gimme an ace who could foreground familial relationships and friendships and show me how devastating they are when broken#rather than act like passion and love and emotions are unavailable to people without romance and sex#gimme an ace character who is emotional and worldly and irreparably fucked up#gimme ace Miguel O Hara#ATSV#spiderman across the spiderverse#spiderverse spoilers#atsv spoilers#atsv miguel
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Tears in the Water
NA contemporary slice of life romance about a competitive swimmer with anxiety at a sports university
they start seriously questioning their gender when they make some new friends and start dating a trans volleyball player
queer friend groups, aspec characters
#Tears in the Water#aroaessidhe 2023 reads#trans books#nonbinary books#asexual books#i enjoyed this overall!#a good slice of life with lots of gender feelings#a few nitpicks:#there were a lot of likeā¦.jumping STRAIGHT into 3 paragraph dialogue about feelings about gender or sexuality or anxiety with no breaks#which like isnāt inherently bad I just think there could have been more of a lead up/build a lot of the times to make it feel more like a na#natural conversation#(the occasional word-vomit-monologue is fine but this was like. all the time)#re: the aroace side character; heās ace and questioning if heās aro and we mostly see that through the lens of negativity;#or heās talking about his feelings as if itās a negative thing to the MC and the MC is like telling him heās probably aro and itās valid#I guess there is an important space for aros who donāt want to be aro coming to terms with it (and he is happier about it by the end!)#i just donāt relate lmao iāve never wanted to be allo. lmao.#i think something felt just slightly off about how it was written and discussed? maybe more the fact that it was through the MCs eyes more t#than anything#and also shoved into one chapter rather than. spaced out a bit idk#(also I donāt understand knowing youāre ace but not really knowing anything about being aro? but i guess that is also probably something#people experience irl)#(anyway; not a āthis is bad representationā criticism just a ācould have been slightly betterā one)
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thinking about the guy from my programming class who i think was lowkey into me and who showed me the love poem he was submitting for next month's fine arts journal issue (it was in spanish and he made me read it to hear my accent i cringed so bad) and when i told him i was probably gonna submit a platonic love prose poem because i was aromantic he was like oh okay and like 10 min after our conversation he was like "but like how do you know you're aromantic because i used to think i was aromantic and it turned out i had just accumulated guilt from trauma" and i don't wanna assume but i lowkey think he was just trying to get me to say that maybe i wasn't aro (or assuming me being aromantic comes from trauma which is kinda wild to tell someone you barely know and even if it could be right i'm not trying to bring that shit up in a casual convo) but i just answered "idk i just do" and he was like "... ok that sounds right" as if an answer to that could sound wrong. pissed me off a little bit
#i don't usually tell people about my sexuality but like i felt cornered#tbh i'm not even full on aro but i felt like it was beginning to be ambiguous on his part so i had to stop him#he made read his love poem in spanish for funsies for fuck's sake#and honestly i could have been more flexible w someone else but i'm really really not into him#also i don't wanna push stereotypes but how do you just assume a girl in programming class for fine arts is into guys#if anything i'm into girls more#i thought i looked a little bit like a butch :(#i felt the need to share because i'm not a social person at all and very rarely end up in this kind of situations#.rambling
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