as a hopeless romantic and with the heart of a poet you may think that it's inevitable to get over it — this heartbreak, this pain. if someone mattered to you this much, if everything with them meant so much, then how can you go on living without them? but there's nothing commendable about yearning for a love years later that could never manifest into something healthy, long term, and mutual in your life. unrequited love? one sided love? the one that got away? an almost lover? yeah at someone you gotta have to stop romanticizing that. you don't want material for shayari. what you want is to eventually move on and meet someone else and have a fulfilling and meaningful life because that's what is commendable. that's what is beautiful and that's what is poetic. a life well lived. a life well loved. not being hung up on one person or the idea of that person. the way our brains are wired is that you cannot really keep drowning in the memory of someone for over a year. if you decide to move on and let go at some point and go out there and meet other people, you will find someone who will make your heart smile again and whose jokes you will find funny and who will make you want to risk getting hurt again. it's honestly inevitable. so don't let them lie to you. don't let them make you believe that you have to live, if you are a romantic, if you have truly loved, as someone who never moves on. that doesn't make your love for that person any grander. it only makes your life less meaningful and more miserable. sadness can become a habit especially when it's sadness in love, or rather sadness in the lack of love. you can fall in love with that kind of sadness. you can glorify it. you can get so attached to it that you'd rather keep it than attempt at happiness in love again. don't be that person. love and let go and love yet again. the poetry is in that.
When Anaïs Nin said "I have belonged to you in a way you haven't to me." and when Pir Naseer said "na ho unpe jo mera bas nahi ke yeh ashiqui hai hawas nahi, main unhi ka tha main unhi ka hun woh mere nahi to nahi sahi" and when Byron said "although I am not beloved, still let me love." when Faiz Ahmed Faiz said "Ik tarz e Taghaful hai so woh unko mubarak, ik arz e tamanna hai so hum karte rahenge" and when Mary Shelley said "although I may not be yours, I can never be another's." and Ahmed Faraz said "Dil bhi pagal hai ke us shakhs se wabasta hai, jo kisi aur ka hone de na apna rakhe" and when Alexandre Dumas-Fils said "no matter how long I live, I shall live longer than you will love me." and Mirza Ghalib said "Muhabbat mein nahi hai farq jeene aur marne ka, usi ko dekh kar jeete hain jis kaafir pe dum nikle" and Lemony snicket said "I will love you if I never see you again, and I will love you if I see you every Tuesday." and when Jigar Moradabadi said "Duniya ke sitam yaad na apni hi wafa yaad, ab mujhko nahi kuch bhi muhabbat ke siwa yaad"
وعدہ آپ کو چھوڑ آنے کا تھا۔
نصیحت آپ سے قمر پھیرنے کی تھی۔
مگر جہاں آپ کو چھوڑ کر مُڑنا تھا
ہم وہیں سجدے میں گر کر
آپ کا بچھڑا ساتھ مانگ آئے۔
"Waada aap ko chhor aane ka tha,
Naseehat aap se qamar pherne ki thi.
Magar jahan aap ko chhor kar mudna tha,
Hum wahin sajde mein gir kar,
aap ka bichhra saath maang aaye."
rone ka mann kar raha, Dil baitha ja raha hai but ro bhi nhi paa rahi hu.. kisi se baat bhi karu toh bas dusro ki sun rahi actually sun bhi nahi rahi hu..ya fir bas sunne ki acting kar rahi hu..kyuki kuch samjh hi nahi aa raha hai.
Kuch samjh hi nahi aa raha hai aage kya karna hai..jindagi me kitna kuch karna hai mujhe kitna kuch paana hai lekin filhaal bistar tak se nahi utha ja raha hai..yeh likhte waqt mere haath kanp rahe hai yeh sab kyu ho raha hai mere sath yeh sab kab khatam hoga
Darr tha jis baat ka mujhe wahi hua..pata tha mujhe ki tum nhi pasand krte ho mujhe fir bhi aas lagakar baithi thi ki ek din karoge...
Ro bhi nhi sakti hu.. na hi mann halka karne ke liye apne dosto ko kuch bata sakti hu..jitni khushi ke saath unko tumhari aur meri baatein batati thi ab kis muh se batau unko ki baatein abhi ho toh rahi hai but kush nhi hu main kyuki tum khush ho kisi aur ke saath baatein karke..
Jo main tumhare liye mehsoos karti hu..jaise main tumhe apne paas chahti hu..waise tum bhi chahte ho bas farak itna hai woh main nahi..
sapno ki duniya se bahar aana pad raha hai shayad isliye kuch samajh nahi aa raha Ya fir isliye kuch samajh nahi aa raha hai kyuki tum mujhe samjha nahi rahe ho, adat ho gyi hai mujhe sirf tumhari baatein samjhne ki or ab aisa nahi ho raha aur ya fir isliye kyuki main tumhare alawa or kuch samjhna hi nhi chahti.
Itna soch liya h tumhe ki tumhare alawa kisi aur baat ko socho toh samjh hi nahi aati.
akhir me na tumhe samjh paayi na kisi aur baat ko, tumhi batao ki main kya karu..ki sab samjh aa jaaye mujhe..
One Side Love Shayari in Hindi: एक तरफ़ा प्यार ऐसा प्यार है जिसमे सिर्फ किसी एक को ही इसकी कीमत चुकानी पड़ती है। अगर आपने कभी किसी से सच्चा प्यार किया हो लेकिन उन्होंने आपके प्यार को नहीं समझा और आप अब भी उन्हें बेइंतेहा प्यार करते हैं तो हो सकता है आपका एक तरफ़ा प्यार किसी न किसी दिन उनका ह्रदय पिघला दे। सच्चे और एक तरफ़ा प्यार की यही ताकत होती है की वह बिना कुछ किये बहुत कुछ कर जाता है। आपके इस प्यार के लिए यहाँ One Sided Love Shayari Hindi Mein दी गयी है। यह शायरियां आपके प्यार को और गहरा करने में सहायक होंगी।