#obssesive compulsive personality disorder

[colombinna]

i think i need to befriend more people with personality disorders and other 'scary' disorders bc i don't think i can be myself in the neurodivergent positivity groups filled with mostly only autistics and ADHD, if i talked about the shit that actually makes me angry and what i actually feel about certain things everyone would pile onto me bc i feel that people's support is still superficial. Like I don't even tell people I don't like dogs bc dog owners are fucking weird, and that's my most "normal" problem

[disabledsysboxes]

Cluster c disorders - 2

[ocd--culture--is]

fat moral ocd culture is "mmm what if in not fat enough to call myself fat and engage in fat spaces" when you're, in fact, fat.

[thereforeispam]

I'd like to hear ADHD + OCD people's thoughts on this because I often think constantly about the acronyms of a neurodivergent diagnosis in relation to Autism. ASD refers to Autism Spectrum Disorder and is less pronounced as compared to solely 'Autism' or even 'Asbergers', both with a dauntingly capital 'A'. While these groups both share their struggles, there's something more casual in the language of an acronymed diagnosis, and perhaps a bit more culturally articulated. ADHD is abbreviated for Attention Deficet Hyperactive Disorder. Okay, clear cut. Understood. We know what attention means. What deficet means. What hyperactive and disorder means. As a neurotypical or allistic person, you at least have a base-line understanding of an ADHD person's disorder. It's a similar case with OCD - Obssesive Compulsive Disorder.

But Autism? What the hell does that mean? How else can you use Autism in a sentence other than to discuss or degrade the disorder? People with ADHD or OCD say they "have" ADHD or OCD, but Autism is something you "are". I am Autistic. On a linguistic level, this is another reason why Autism is so misunderstood because, unlike other disorders, we don't understand it by its symptoms or idiocyncrasises, so it becomes this terrifying, unpredictable monster in neurotypical minds.

What is Autism? What can it be?

[fiapple]

not to be mean, but if you've never had a restrictive ed or bdd then maybe just stop talking about body checking? 90% of the time you lot have no clue what you're talking about, and as someone who's struggled with those issues a majority of my life, the misinformation it spreads can be really damaging to people who are sick regardless of their recovery status.

(please read op tags before you decide to argue, thanks)

[yasukematsudadefender]

For people in fandom who also are really into mental disorders can agree with me that Junko is so cluster B (borderline‼️‼️, antisocial, narcissistic, histrionic‼️‼️) personality disorders coded, Mukuro and Matsuda are cluster C (dependent‼️, avoidant‼️, obssesive-compulsive personality disorder) coded, and I give there Toko because SHE IS SO CLUSTER A (paranoid, schizotype, schizoid personality disorder) OMFG AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED THIS

[asafeplacetostay]

Um- hey! How is everyone doing?

Well, i wanted to thank you all for the 160 subs :) I think that growing on writing platforms such as wattpad, archive of our own, tumblr, etc is pretty hard, so i'm very happy for all of the support.

I know i haven't been consistant on one topic, bc i have this problem where i obsses over something for a period of time and in like, one month, i move to another thing. I have this condition of obssesive compulsive disorder (i was diagnosticated with this by my doctor) towards certain fandoms, characters, or even real people. I'm sorry if my stories are all over the place, or if all of the sudden i stop writing for certain characters. But well, i really can't help it.

I'm sharing personal information about myself in this platform and it is pretty scary, but i trust you guys! (most of you haha).

So currently i'm going to write about:

-Tokyo Revengers (only requests tho, about the Kawata Twins, Takemichi and MAYBE Mikey)

-i will write whatever you like about TR, you want romance? yes, you want platonic? fine by me, you want sex? YES SIR. Just try to be as specific as you can with the request (but also not too specific, i want my mind to create scenarios too, not copy a request and change it slightly)

-Dream smp (Only the characters or the real 'actors' of Ranboo, Tubbo and Tommyinnt, i want to clarify that i will NOT sexualise this people bc 1- wtf that's disgusting, they're minors 2-um, they are minors 3-they don't feel comfortable with it (they said so))

-i will write platonically or romantically-ish about said characters, but no like, suggestive themes

[itsalljustangst]

Mental Health, it's Important. Period.

Hello. How have you been? Like really, how have you been? Some of you must think that "I haven't have had a fever in a while so must be okay" or maybe "I have a little cough so I might not be okay" but that not what I meant when I asked How have you been. Today let's talk about mental health. Exactly, mental health because it is as important as your physical health if not more. So it important to talk about your mental well being.

When you have a little fever you do go to doctor, don't you? A little fever might be just a symptom of something really big! Exactly same way loosing sleep or always feeling sad all the time might just be a symptom of a serious health disorder. But the difference is no one would call you crazy for going to the doctor when you have fever. Despite the popular believe, trust me when I tell you that you are not going crazy if you see a psychiatrist or seek professional help for your mental illness. Psychiatrist exists to help you stop before going crazy you see, it's a step before it. There is nothing to be ashamed of about your mental illness. It is as if someone claims that they are shamed that they have diabeties. Doesn't make sense right?

I am here telling you that if you are loosing sleep, or have negative thoughts all the time, or have trouble concentrating, or are sensitive, or have mood swings, or basically are not okay, then it's okay. You are not alone. There is nothing abnormal about it. Sometimes its okay to not be okay and admit it. Accept that there is something wrong with you and seek help, reach out to others who are willing to help, your friends, your parents, make them understand, talk to them or get professional help. You matter, your health matters.

So now that we have covered grounds such as what I mean by being okay or if it's okay not to be okay, we come to a more important aspect of this thing that is what exactly is mental health. Every sane person including me (who admittingly is not very sane but) would first Google it. According to Wikipedia "Mental health is a level of psychological well-being or an absence of mental illness - the state of someone who is functioning at a satisfactory level of emotional and behavioural adjustment". From the perspectives of positive psychology or of holism, mental health may include an individual's ability to enjoy life, and to create a balance between life activities and efforts to achieve psychological resilience" .

Waow seems like I vomitted a verbal mixture of gibberish but thats all we have. There are a few common mental illnesses we have heard about but don't know it's dynamism or only know the way it's portrayed in Hindi movies and TV shows like Clinical Depression (Nicely shown in movie Dear Zindagi), Suicidal Drepression (shown in movie Anjana Anjani by Priyanka and Ranbir) Anxiety Disorder, OCD (Obssesive Compulsive Disorder), ADHD(Attention deficit, Hyperactivity Disorder), DID (dissociative identity disorder, not is shown by Vidya Balan as Munjulika in Bhul bhulaiyan), Schizophrenia, Autism (The disease Priyanka Chopra/Jhilmil suffers from in Barfi), PTSD ( post traumatic stress disorder), Dyslexia ( Ishaan/Darsheel suffers from in Taare zameen par), Behaviorial Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Insomenia (Shown in movie Shandar by Alia Bhatt) and oh so much more that we haven't heard of. Tv serials and movies also fail to show the true dynamism of such illnesses and person suffering from those or only portrayed it on a very serious level.

These illnesses are as complex to understand as it is easy to explain. And I know sometimes you won't get it, won't understand,but doesn't mean you could discard it like it is a myth and not real. People sometimes might behave a certain way because of a certain issue might be that they over react or get irritated easily it ar distant or sometimes even rude. And sometimepeople behave in a Racist, Sexiest or Homophobic way but then they are just jerks and nothing can excuse it really. Sometimes issues such as stress, loneliness, depression, anxiety, relationship problems, death of a loved one, suicidal thoughts, grief, addiction, cutting, self-harm, self-Injury, burning, various mood disorders, negativity can lead to gates of hell or more common name mental issues.

Now that that's done. Let's talk about you healthy people around some unhealthy people, how you could help your friends with their mental issues. Obviously trying to play the professional is a big no because you don't know what you are talking about and might trigger their illness than helping them. You can let them know that you are there with them when they need to and tell them that it's okay, it will pass and they will be Okay. Be a good positive friend. The environment around them, keep it positive and heathy. Donot encourage unhealthy and toxic relationships, jealousy and Possessiveness and negative things. Stay positive and healty not only for others but also for yourself and your mental health.

[esprite-prash]

मनमंदिरा... भाग २..

भाग एक वाचून बरेच प्रश्न पडले असतील ना... त्याच प्रश्नांची ही काही उत्तरे आणि त्यामागचे अजून काही...

१)O.C.D. obssesive compulsive disorder.  या प्रकारात येणारी टोकाची स्वच्छता आणि वारंवारता यामुळे स्वत:ची आणि जवळच्या व्यक्तींची कुचंबणा होते हे निश्चित...

२)Social Fobia: भिती काळानुरूप बदलत जाते. सहसा ती कमी होत जाते. पण ती तशीच राहिली तर अर्थातच ती व्यक्तीच्या व्यक्तिमत्वावर परिणाम करते...

३)Eating Disorder: करीनाच्या zero figure नंतर diet ची fashion आली होती. पण ती fashion किंवा craze disorder होऊ नये याची काळजी घेणे आवश्यक नाही का??? 

४) Asperger’s syndrom: हुशार पण हट्टी वागणारी, my life my rules सारखं वागणे आणि आणि सांभाळताना नऊ आणणारी ह्या व्यक्ती.. त्यांच्या कलाकलाने घेताना त्यांची जडण घडण करणं आवश्यक होतं.

५)Somatomorphic disorder: काही धक्का किंवा मानसिक आघात झाल्यावरची परिणीती एखाद्या शारीरिक त्रासाने होते. मग अगदी धडधाकट माणूसही अंथर��णाला खिळलेली असू शकते... 

६) Bipolar disorder : या प्रकारात मनातल्या टोकाच्या भावना व्यक्तीकडून नकळत व्यक्त होतात. त्याच्यासाठी normal असणारे  behaviour हे समोरच्याला shocking, unpredictable आणि imbalanced वाटतं.

७) अशक्य वाटणारे आभास, भ्रम आणि एखाद्या थरारपटाला शोभावी अशी एका खऱ्याखुऱ्या व्यक्तीची कथा... कारण काहीही असू शकते आणि त्याचा परिणाम ही काहीही असू शकतो...

वरील वस्तुस्थिती कधीतरी आपल्याही समोर येतात पण त्या आपण साफ नाकारतो. कारण त्याबद्दलच अज्ञान. आणि यामुळे या सर्वांबाबत एक नकारात्मक भावना तयार होते जी समाजासाठी आणि त्या व्यक्तीसाठी घातक ठरु शकते... हे चित्र बदलण्याची गरज आहे.. हा बदल एका दिवसात, किंवा वर्षात होणारा नाही. पण त्या साठी कुठेतरी सुरुवात होणं गरजेचं नाही का??? 

वाढत्या अपेक्षा त्यातून राक्षसी स्पर्धा, त्यामुळे येणारा ताण, आणि उरणारा एकटेपणा..ह्या सगळ्याचा परिणीती मनोविकारांमध्ये घडते... बदलत्या काळात जग तर जवळ आले, पण ‘self space’ च्या नादात आपली हक्काची, ज्यांच्या जवळ आपलं मन मोकळे करू शकू अशी माणस राहिली नाहीत.

काही गोष्टी sympathy ने सुटत नाहीत, तर empathy ने सुटतात. मनोविकारांमध्ये फक्त sympathy चा किंवा काळजी करून उपयोग होत नाही, तर बोलण्याने, समुपदेशाने, त्या व्यक्तीचे नक्की  काय  म्हणणे आहे, हे ऐकून त्याला थोडी का होईना पण मदत तर करू शकतो...

“I am Taking sessions with psychiatrist” असं कोणाकडून ऐकलं, तर लोक चार हात लांब जातात. मुळात मनोविकार म्हणलं की ‘ झिंज्या सोडून वेडे चाळे करणारे लोक’ हाच आपल्या लोकांचा (गैर) समज!! तुमच्या समोर हसत खेळत राहणारा माणूसही मनोविकाराने त्रस्त असू शकतो...

Mental illness is not contagious...you can’t catch it by being kind...

so moral of the story is..

Learn to be expressive, accept and respect feelings of other persons, and try to help them, if they need. and ask professionals for help... when you need....

आम्ही आमच्या मनातलं तुमच्या मनापर्यंत पोहोचवलं.आता तुमच्या मनातलं आमच्या पर्यंत पोहोचण्याची आम्ही वाट बघतोय...

[ocd--culture--is]

OCD culture is realizing schizophrenia is so demonized when u grew up, u heard ppl blaming schizophrenia if the murder happens to have it, or being portrayed as voices in ur head, and not the murder as a person. why is that ocd related?? because u start having intrusive thoughts that ar elike internal monologue,the sensation u like it when u don't but u aren't aware OCD can be intrusive thoughts,and that it ties to depression, so u are scared to tell everyone because they might be thinking u are insane and a danger so u keep it to urself, u start doing compulsions but make them look like normal facial gestures, sounds that ppl do, or hands but that people think u are bored.

Until u realize u had OCD all along, but u imagine how ppl with actual schizophrenia are demonized

THIS HAPPENED TO ME BUT WITH NPD