#not trying to police labels but
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o yeah if you're bisexual but you hate all (and feel no Attraction to non fictional) men , you're probably not bisexual. just so you're aware
#not trying to police labels but#if you are attracted to any gender BUT men you are either straight man or a lesbian. or just sapphic in some way.#dont call yourself bisexual if youre not??#discourse#lets see if this one gets me paragraphs in my ask box HFKDNFS#also not hating on you if you do feel this way im not saying you gotta love men#but if you dont like men why would you call yourself bi lmaoo#also all sexualities can be inclusive to enby ppl so before yall come at me saying im transphobic or smth#which would be dumb anyways bc im genderfluid BAHAJDJKGBF#anyways im rambling
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I'm so tired of phrases like "anti-woke". Just say you're a racist/homophobic weirdo.
#dustborn#I was interested in this game#i thought it was an unique concept#and yes I can see where the game is trying to be “political” as steam has labeled it#but it's like shit not everything is a fucking “agenda”#are you mad because some of the characters are gay or POC?#or both#and to add insult to injury they were complaining about the police people being white men but the promo art has a black officer on it#they were showing you certain game mechanics#not everything in the game#it's ok for you to not be interested in the title but imo it's getting more hate than it deserves#especially from cis white men#i have purchased the limited release retail copy and I'm excited to give it a try when it comes#ryn rambles
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no one word is gonna encompass everyone’s experiences. quit freakin out about meaningless labels u dumbasses
#saw some brief discussion of the bi vs pan thing in my discord server earlier and my first reactio nwas#you guys are dumbasses#quit the fuckin infighting brew. just be what you wanna be. who fuckin cares#like who you wanna like. call yourself what you want. who cares.#if you try to police the usage of arbitrary ethereal terms to describe one's attraction to particular gender identities#which is in of itself an arbitrary#ethereal concept#newsflash dumbass! you are a fucking dumbass!#for a group of peoples against policing#us lgbtq+ folk seem to salivate and pounce at the opportunity to police one another#is it so hard to just chill the fuck out and let people live their lives#kinda why i stopped using labels tbh. i don't fucking care about all the stupid baggage and shit that comes with them
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things the US needs to address:
the collective psychosis that leads people to make posts like these
#in case it's unclear what i mean:#1.) blaming gen z men or any of the listed grifters is useless idpol#2.) half of your country did not 'vote against [your] collective best interests' lmao#if you truly believe that you have a fundamental misunderstanding of the position your country occupies in the global economy#and the benefits conferred onto its citizens for supporting the imperial world order#3.) i feel like OP kept this point purposefully vague (ofc social media has on effect on the common good. what effect specifically?)#but i'll still respond by saying#social media has helped immensely in exposing how often traditional news outlets lie retract revise and outright fabricate information#the more aligned with bourgeois interests they are the worse it is#the past year of western media's reporting on the genocide in palestine has done nothing if not highlight the incongruence#between what people see n share on the ground and what narratives corporate interests deem fit to disseminate through traditional channels#the importance of following independent (which does not equal 'unbiased') journalists has never been greater#4.) 'lazy minds and lack of empathy' empathy is not some bulwark against fascism. it can actually serve to further it quite easily#idk what OP is trying to get at here. lazy point = lazy response#5.) i can't say anything here that isn't summed up better by that tweet that's like#'american *sees something american happening americanly in america*: what are we a bunch of ASIANS?!?!???'#cause there's just nooo way politicians and public figures in the US could spew reactionary nonsense and get a huge following#unless the evil russians had a hand in it#cause it's not like the US is racism central or anything#come on now#(for those unaware i'm citing this tweet bc orientalism of this kind has historically been directed at russians/slavs in addition to#people from MENA and asian countries broadly)#6.) see point number 3 above; trying to police AI is a fruitless endeavor; people need media literacy in order to#understand the interests of the parties involved in the coverage of any event and better discern the truth about what's happening;#identifying the bias inherent to any news channel and then examining how that bias impacts its reporting does far more to help dispel#misinformation than just labeling anything you don't like or you think influences people the 'wrong' way as misinformation#anyway i'm done. clown.#sansgwilie
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as if i didnt need more reasons to hate freddit btw
#usually when people are transphobic abt my fnaf characters its just annoying and quickly removed#but this is somehow MORE infuriating to me bc theyre trying to police how I label MY OWN CHARACTER#this person is going to lose their fucking mind when they find out there's women out there who use he/him pronouns#and men who use she/her#and Ariana who is a she/they butch lesbian rooster animatronic oc PROUDLY
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I relatively rarely get misgendered by cis dyadic people, especially ones that claim to be allies. Ive almost never been able to talk a dyadic trans person into respecting my identity. This is fucked up
#i wanna clarify ive known MORE trans people than cis people. because of the circles i hang out in#ALMOST ALL dyadic trans people ive met are intersexist#we’re supposed to be a community. how did this happen?#dyadic trans people please im begging#dont dismiss the possibility that you could be acting bigoted about sex and gender just because youre trans#please please PLEASE reflect on this. please put active effort into unlearning what youve been taught about intersex people#im on my knees#please#your bioessentialist jokes and jokes at the expense of intersex people arent funny#and jokes erasing intersexism#and arguments erasing intersexism#and the label policing#trying to fit us into a dyadic paradigm of gender#please stop#lilac posts#vent post#tw intersexism
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#i am reading some stuff in the agatha tags#i know not a great idea#i just thought since I've been enjoying the meta posts atleast some of them I'll just keep a lookout for it#but as usual#the bs comes through#i have not seen one person who is mad coz agathario not been the focus#so either I've blocked all the idiots#or more likely people are preemptively policing others#which i guese is bound to happen but boy does it annoy me#i really don't care about them being endgame or getting happy ending or whatever#i felt the fandom as a whole also understands that and are just enjoying the ride#it's still mcu#we can be cautiously optimistic but especially with a story like agatha's#and her and rio's relationship being actually labelled as romantic antagonists#i fail to see how people even think that it's going to end as them getting some sappy happyily ever after or something like that#seriously do people really think that's in the cards#or it's just some wishful fanon thinking#i just want to enjoy the show as a show with all these interesting women characters#maybe i am alone in it but from what I've seen atleast on tumblr it feels the same for most of us here#i dunno what happens on other social media sites and i also actually don't care#it's always been like that especially wlw queer ships so yeah it kinda irritates me#i think i need to filter better and try focusing on the artsy stuff#anyways i am wondering if they will release teaser for next epi or not#I'll prefer to go without knowing anything tbh it is kind of exciting to experience it fresh without any spoilers#lets see#in the meantime i am rewatching the show and getting evermore obsessed with agatha and to some extent rio ha ha!#i am posting too much u can tell i am very invested now ...anybody want to pull me out? no? okayyy..down the road I go...!#i am so gay dude...fml#tag ramblings#for ts
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saw an exclusionist post so here's a reminder
specifically in reference to transmasc lesbians and trying to draw lines in the sand on who can and can't claim the lesbian label, about how being a lesbian is exclusive of loving men, with someone referring to the people they're attempting to exclude as "fandom gremlin transmascs and neo-mogai crazies."
I don't have the spoons for a proper response but i do feel like i need to make something clear.
on this blog we support fucky genders, fandom gremlin transmascs, and neo-mogai crazies. reblog if u love ur fellow fandom gremlin and neo-mogai crazy queers.
#tw ableist language#tw exclusionism#byrd chirps#oh and if you have a problem with this then feel free to sound off in the notes so i can block you#there's a fucking trans genocide happening right now i will NOT tolerate exclusionary politics around good-faith identities#also why the fuck do the labels matter? we're all a bunch of filthy queer degenerates to the people that want us dead anyways!#if you police good faith identities you're a fucking fed and functionally conservative#and yeah if we wanna work together on something basic and/or general i can play nice with you#but there's no way in hell that i'm just gonna allow y'all into our spaces just so you can try and push me out!#if you're a lesbian and you don't want to date enby/genderqueer/multigender folk that's fine!#nobody is saying in good faith that you have to date us! do you realize who you sound like right now?#gee i wonder who else argues for pushing nonconforming people out of their spaces because they think we're predatory -#- and expect them to date us? i fucking wonder!#if you can't handle gender fuckery then don't make it my fucking problem! i'm not out here making it yours!#and no me existing and sharing labels with you is not 'making it your problem'#look you have the general lesbian space. we have the subset of genderqueer/transmasc lesbian space.#you cannot claim to be supportive of enben (including nb lesbians) if that support doesn't extend to genderqueer/multigender folks!#anyways rant over im not here to fucking argue about my right to self determination#that is specifically what i came to tumblr to AVOID.#not gonna link op because i don't wanna put them on blast just.#op if ur reading this. skedaddle. to the person i was following that put it on my dash. skedaddle.#to the person who they reblogged it from. skedaddle.#out. now. i am sweeping you off my front porch with a broom. you are not welcome on this blog#oh and the person who i'm quoting from the notes? that goes double for you. out.#inclusivity#intersectionality
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tiktok lesbians are some of the most insufferable people ive ever encountered
#call themselves butches then hate on he/him lesbians Okay then#fucking FREAKS i hope they know it too#like genuinely they're worse than regular homophobes because how are u gonna be gay and homophobic shut the fuck up#the amoouuunntttt of hate i see about masc presenting lesbians and people who dont fit perfectly into hyperspecific labels like#jesus fucking christ man#get over it#queerness is about being Different and confusing stop trying to police peoples identities#its fucking annoying like#'trans men cant be lesbians thats contradictory to the labels!' okay but is it any of your business whatsoever#does it affect you in any way on the planet at all#fucking pathetic get over yourselves#and they have the fucking nerve to call themselves queer#blah blah!#not 75 stuff
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not me looking thru the notes of an excerpt from The Faggots & Their Friends Between Revolutions and people are tagging it as "q slur" "f slur" LIKE ???? you are completely missing the point. like so so badly.
#young el gee bee tees trying to be ~unproblematique~ by policing others for their labels#and excluding others for not being like them 🙃#we're meant to be a community.#stop acting like a cop. stop acting like the ppl who wanted to put us in neat little boxes and exclude us in the first place#vic.txt
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Developing an allergy to any mention of the Doc as being monosexual in any direction tbqh. They have literally always been 100% bisexual please I’m so tired
#gal’s DW opinions#i would never try to police anyone’s headcanons BUT#he didn’t kiss both rose and Jack in the same season for THIS#in my headcanon or view of canon:#their preference skews towards women in most incarnations but always includes other genders#*incarnations I’ve seen at least#probably their preference in this regen has switched to favor men more often but they are still bi#(this gen=14 I mean)#(based on the spoilers I’ve seen)#pan and queer also apply but they don’t really care for labels#they just love people and go with the flow#(and I’m just bi-ased towards my label lol get it? puns!)#calling them Doc to avoid the main tags I do Not want a fight#*posts in the dead of night and hopes no one sees*#disclaimer not all bi/pan folks even have preferences and I know that#but the doc seems to
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i have to protect trans fems with my life im so fucking serious
#i know a lot of queer people and im alwayssss trying to get them to unlean their holier than thou bullshit#the fuckin 'never doing anything wrong is better than starting to do things right' mindset#u know the one. the goddamn yaoi is bad and bi lesbians are bad and if u like xyz cartoon u obviously condone everything in it#as a trans masc i see this shit repeated by other trans mascs alllllll the fucking time and it makes me CRAZY AND RABID#obviously its not exclusive to this group and not everyone whos trans masc is like that#but i see it all the time and im BEGGING people to shut the fuck up#anyway. what the hell was i talking about#make safe spaces actually safe fr#u dont have to understand other peoples labels ok identity policing doesnt help ANYBODY#people HAVE to learn solidarity for fucking real u dont have to like people but u have to fight for their right to exost#be mortal enemies for all i care but dont fucking spread hate campaigns founded in label policing#subjugating our queer peers serves oppressors.#talkin
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its been a few days now and i just want to say if you are going to claim yourself to be an anarchist (especially if you put it in any socmed bio for some reason), you have to AT LEAST not police people.
if someone is doing something, or engaging with something, or hell even saying something you have no right to tell them to stop if they aren't harming someone else. if they are in some way harming themselves, you still have no right to police what they do. it doesn't matter if it makes you uncomfortable, or if its not something you would do/say. if you are truly an anarchist then you should believe that all humans deserve autonomy and a right to do what they want to do with their body, time, and words.
this seems really fucking basic to me, but lately i've seen (on twitter and tumblr) lots of people with either "acab" "antifa" or "anarchist" in their bio absolutely policing the shit out of what people do, say, or even like. its odd and a bit tiring. if you can't handle letting people do their own thing, then you simply aren't an anarchist and thats okay. but if you do actually read theory and you do believe anarchism is for you, then please for the love god let go of the cop in your head
#i have run into the most unpleasant people this past week#and all of them had 'anarchist' in bio and all were super into policing people#and like if you are going to say self immolation is irresponsible and evil then you are DEFO not an anarchist LOL#but also if you are like going after someone bc they like lolisho stuff or any goddamn ship you aren't an anarchist#or if you are trying to impose identities onto people or control how they label themselves you are also not anarchist#you should be worrying about yourself and the impact that you leave on the world and others around you#idk i just think all anarchist worth their shit tend to work on themselves more than trying to control others
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// *daily reminder that this blog will post about muses and certain shows that are considered problematic or controversial solely because of the topics they cover, the fandom behind the show, and/or the creators themselves. please understand that i do not care for the creators or worship them for creating said shows. i enjoy the content for myself only.
// *so if you plan on coming onto anon to trash on my interests or try to privately talk to me about how my writing is problematic, my muse choices are problematic, or me talking about shows in general is bad and you want me to change my view? don’t even fucking try it. you WILL be blocked. if you don’t want to see me post about shows i like, you are free to ask me to tag things if you wish to follow. if you can’t do that, unfollow and block me.
// *i’m tired of seeing my friends be bashed for their interests because of the creators behind it. it is NOT hard to separate the art from the artist. no one is the same when people have similar interests. don’t chase after people because you dislike something that they enjoy and YOU have the urge to try and change them.
#// *ive had my own friends who have pretty big anti-creator labels slapped into their bios but people cant fucking read for shit#// *so dont come to my DMs to change my mind when im set on what i like#// *i AM aware of what i enjoy#// *i AM VERY AWARE. im not stupid#// *so dont test me when you try to police my shit. its my blog for fucks sake#🐺 * 𝐌𝐎𝐍𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐄𝐒 : out of character#🐺 * 𝐌𝐎𝐍𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐄𝐒 : public service announcement
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random oc facts, of the "they have problems" flavor
#oc talk#1- luca developed claustrophobia from the time he was locked in the school's bathroom by her bullies#2- chase got his depression from his mom; who also has it; except she goes to therapy and has meds so its now somewhat controlled#he was quite the spoiled kid by both his parents but his mom was the one who would always agree with him and give him everything#even if he was in the wrong and the worst piece of shit he could be. she felt guilty about him getting clinical depression for 'her fault'#so she wanted to 'compensate him' for 'ruining his life'. he was still pretty harsh with both of them so.#one day he told her to kill herself and go to hell over a minor thing; that same night he went to see finnley#so he never knew his mom actually tried to kill herself if thats what he wanted. his dad was kinda bitter for a few days#but eventually forgave him. and as i said none of them told him anything so he never knew.#3- maverick still gets nervous when he sees cops or hears police sirens - hes always on the edge#whether theyre going to actually arrest him some day. he doesnt know if zachary's body was ever found as he avoided tv for that reason#like he hid it in an abandoned house. it was a horrible hiding place but it was the closest he had and he was panicking with a dead body#so its not like he could do the smartest things in that state. also of course he left his dna everywhere- finding him would be really easy#but it never happened since zachary came back before anyone noticed his disappearance. and with a new appearance#its was like the old zachary people knew just stopped existing entirely. you cant do a murder case without a body#so it was just labeled as a sudden disappearance. however mav is paranoid over it when in his non-empty state#and when hes empty hes so focused in finding someone new to obsess over he stops caring- maybe he could even find someone on prison!#4- rafael doesnt talks to his family due to charlotte manipulating him into believing theyre all horrible people who hate her#and in fact they hate her! mostly his sister. they hate what she did to their son/brother but hes so blind and easy to manipulate#they stopped trying to knock some common sense into him. his sister was afraid this would happen eventually bc he was always gullible#SPECIALLY when hes in love. and well guess what happened!!#5- on the topic of charlotte; she has both tried to kill herself AND kill someone. well; her 'suicide attempt' was more likely#wanted to get hospitalized but not *actually* ending her life. in her mind that would make her parents notice how much they hurt her#with their 'favoritism' towards raven. girl they literally never had a favoritism YOU are the one who think so!!!#she never got what she wanted though-- she ended up vomiting the pills and suddenly got too embarrassed to talk about it#and guess who she wanted to kill? exactly; raven! they would sometimes see each other on family reunions and it was weird#she bought anti-freezer and brought it to a reunion-- she has been on a barista course so technically no one would think anything#if she made drinks for everyone. but raven was just so insistent on seeing the process-- due to actual curiosity-- that she couldnt do it#so she came home with an anti-freezer and incredible frustrated lmao. she was 17 though so its not like it was thoroughly planned#but you know. the intention was there.
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if i loved you less i might be able to talk about it more (home, like noplace is there 2014 studio album by american emo band the hotelier)
#rant incoming XP i am always overflowing with emotion#the emo band poll is PISSING ME OFF and it literally wouldnt be if they called it the pop punk poll but theyre calling it emo and#mcrs gonna win and theyre my favourite band and the best there but#idk labels dont have to be serious but if yr gonna call it a genre poll then yk#im not gonna be like. MCRS NOT EMO 😡😡 bc they def do have elements and you cant fully seperate them from the genre#but those rly Arent emo bands emo is such an important genre to me#to me emo is about desperation and grief and its kind of inherently a suburban genre almost like#midwest emo is so much about the suburbs and the way it creates this desolate childhood trapped in glass forever#anyways the best band that represents this is HOTELIER !1!!!!!!#home is a fucking perfect album .#housebroken is actually the best midwest emo song and jusr one of the greatest songs of all time but they GET IT#achggg its so perfect the layer of it being about like. police abuse and that experience of teenage recklessness growing up in northamerica#the cycles the trap!#but also tje personal touch of like#i listen to that song and i remember why i started seeing myself as a wolf when i was a kid#lycanthropy loneliness cycle of abuse#your bark might seem bad but ill show u the scars from when the state sent you over to deliver your teeth#are you fucking KIDDING MEE AHHH#commitment to the pain when irs all youve ever known... try to take out my claws expect a visceral reaction try to muzzle me up#ill lash out ill bite back..#anyways
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