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another myth that needs to be gone is that the letter set up for a to be auditioned/hired and/or he orchestrated the whole thing (which tho we are still not sure what exactly he did except bringing in p0nd) just to get his way with a. like i know straight girls have fucked up ideas of romance, but that’s just gross creepy and wrong on so many levels
#like do you really want someone do that to you irl?#like really?#could never be me#this is the shit ppl get restraining orders for#not to mention it invalidates a#but who cares abt him in this fandom air#id say he got cast bc he’s a talented actor#but being realistic and remembering that it’s kp we are talking abt he prolly got cast bc he’s hot and can fight lol#watching a pretty basic bl rn and yeah he’s level of acting is something else compared to industry standards 💀💀💀#anyways..#that shit always annoyed me even when i was a cp fan#brought to you by this narrative being intensified on twt for some reason
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Tigerstar takes in the RiverClan Rejects (again)
! click the gif for quality that doesn’t suck
#THIS IS SO FUNNY TO ME . THIS IS THE THIRD TIME HES TAKEN IN EXILED RIVERCLAN CATS#why does this keep happening#I had this idea in my head ever since the blurb for ivypool’s heart deopped I just haven’t had the chance to do it til now#anyway . I think Duskfur would be guilty abt everything that has happened#she let frostpaw be exiled + invalidated her trauma omly to be like haha you were right granddaughter#not to mention both her kids just going evil??#so I added some grandmother guilt <3#and some frostpaw and Nightheart being friends because I will remeber them forever#once again gif quality seeks to kill me… looks terrible no matter what on iPad but ok when clicked on phone. Hope it’s alright#ivypool’s heart spoilers#ivypool’s heart#a starless clan spoilers#a starless clan#asc spoilers#warriors#warrior cats#cw blood#Duskfur#tigerheartstar#Tigerstar 2#Tigerheart#animation#Mothwing#icewing#frostpaw#Nightheart#sunbeam#illustration#meme#comic
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I am worried about what the 90 min will deliver but honest I was worried about what a full s3 would deliver well before June.
I don’t want it to be all plot and no romcom, I don’t want Aziraphale and Crowley to be separated for long, I don’t want the celestial system to still be standing at the end, in all its absurd unfairness.
But if they make it so that Aziraphale and Crowley getting together was god’s plan all along, I will actually riot.
#god is the baddie of good omens#i will die on this hill#not only would such an ending let god off the hook for so much evil behaviour#(not to mention the whole philosophical ‘problem of evil’ explored in the Edinburgh minisode#it would also invalidate their whole relationship#they are not fated they are the opposite of fated#they are a choice that’s the entire point of them#seriously I will riot#good omens#ineffable husbands#crowley#aziraphale#aziracrow#good omens season 3#good omens s3 speculation
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the IGN article has already been addressed by several users, but imo the points of critique raised by others were still often misinterpreted, or ignored entirely.
— so i’d like to talk about it.
beforehand, it is important to mention that it remains everyone’s respective responsibility to curate their own online experience. you shouldn’t purposefully expose yourself to topics that cause you distress or trigger you. however, general discussion should always be valid and welcomed. you have every right to voice your opinion on the matter and to be upset about this. please don’t feel guilty about venting and expressing your emotional response.
we also need to differentiate this specific interview from the fandom’s overall treatment and interpretation of gale. several of the posts i’ve seen on the subject tend to derail into the latter, without addressing the valid points many have raised or glossing over them entirely. this isn’t about the usual “haha gale eats shoes” joke or whatever new meme fandom comes up with. this is solely about the developer’s treatment of gale, the character, and about a specific, internal bias that has been prevalent throughout the entirety of the game, as well as their social media. this particular interview merely adding to the amalgamation of points mentioned.
yes, it is certainly unrealistic to expect larian to address every single companion in detail and to touch on every nuance possible, in an interview that broadly focuses on the game’s narrative and gameplay. there are, however, specific character sections. each companion received a headline that was reflective of their overall character archetype or provided quick insight into their development.
Karlach: 'The Labrador of the Party'
Lae'zel: 'She's So Young'
Halsin: 'A Creative Risk'
Shadowheart: 'The Jason Bourne'
Wyll: 'We Lost a Little Bit of Narrative Room'
Astarion: 'Much of What He Does Is Out of Fear'
Minthara: 'It's Not a Redemption Arc...But She's Got a Lot of Love'
and last but not least:
Gale: 'The Guy Who Starts Off Annoying Everyone'
what followed was a brief discussion about their respective storylines, each being addressed with a certain level of respect, empathy, and consideration. except for gale. all that was mentioned in regard to his character was the narrative impact of gale’s suicide. talking about the overall logistics of this ending, the visuals of the cutscene, and how, to them, his sacrifice felt like the right ending and how in many ways, it is.
Chrystal Ding, Lead Writer: On a very human level, you have the guy who starts off annoying everyone, he's constantly asking you to give him your most treasured possessions to eat, otherwise he's in trouble, and at the end, he gives himself for the world. Sven Vincke, Founder: And he had the choice already once before where he wasn't ready for it. So it's a very powerful ending, and it comes in different permutations.
gale is the character who is initially annoying companions and players alike. he is verbose, enthusiastic and has a tendency to break out in long-winded rants. he repeatedly asks for your assistance, to help him manage his condition. to spare himself and his surroundings from an untimely, explosive death, he must consume items that you’ve carefully collected. gale is, essentially, a liability. a ticking time bomb. he already had the option to have his life be a meaningful sacrifice, but he wasn’t ready to die yet. now, that the party has reached the end, he has another chance to give himself up for the world.
short after, gale’s section of the interview quickly diverts into a more general discussion about the difficulties of playing as a wizard and other classes.
larian claiming that there is a universal “right ending” in a game with many branching paths and choices very much contradicts the definition of a role-playing game. where it is solely in the player’s hands to decide what direction to take and what outcome they deem to be the right one. moreover, it is important to remember that the interviewees weren’t just any developers, but consisted of two lead writers and larian’s founder himself. some of them industry veterans who are, to an extent, pr-trained. we all know that fandom often sees statements from developers synonymous with word of god. as such, the implications and impact are truly unfortunate.
if larian was referring the SA survivor and stated that “the right ending” for him was to return him to enslavement or to hand him over to the gur. that for all the death and misery he (involuntarily) assisted, his sacrifice would at least grand them a slither of justice.
astarion caused death, perpetuated racism, and now that you have handed him over to the gur hunter, he is offered a chance to give himself back to the world.
it is then deemed the right choice for him because it is the most narratively satisfying/impactful/powerful outcome in the context of the overall story. the majority of us would agree that such would be a rather tactless statement, no? not specifically for mentioning it in relation to astarion as a character or his influence on the narrative — he is fictional, after all, but because of the real-life implications and the very real stigma the affected face. we can't deny that it would be hurtful to irl victims. maybe we would even fault the writing altogether for such biases. after all, why should astarion be the only character whose redemption and healing are considered to be significantly less important in the grand scheme of things?
fiction functions as an abstraction and simulation of our social experience. we are supposed to get invested, to explore the meaning, examine the parallels, or maybe just to enjoy stories for the sole purpose of indulging in the occasional escapism. perhaps a way to temporarily forget about one’s limitations and the prejudices we face. in many ways, chronic pain/impairment, suicidal ideation, and autistic traits appear to be disorders & symptoms that are perhaps less relatable to some, and that they are maybe not as sympathetic to.
it truly would’ve been nice to see larian approach this interview with more professionalism. opting for a simple, diplomatic “actually, there is no right ending. the sheer variation in choices makes such a distinction impossible” would’ve more than sufficed.
this isn’t asking for larian to touch on every nuance possible, in an interview that largely resembled the flow of a regular conversation. it’s about asking for the same level of consideration and care that was granted to the rest of the companions. it’s about addressing gale’s particular brand of trauma with the same level of basic human decency. maybe we even could’ve received some new bits and pieces of insight on gale’s development, rather than the regurgitation of every shallow reddit/tiktok take we’ve seen up to this point. alas..
#gale dekarios#gale of waterdeep#baldurs gate 3#bg3#fandom discourse#at first i didn't even want to make a post about this but here we are#reducing the discussion to “blorbo trauma” feels like a very condescending/belittling approach#ultimately invalidating a lot of thoughtful points that were raised#this is tumblr. getting invested in fictional people and overanalysing every little scrap of content is what we do.#so to mention it once more: you have every right to be upset#it speaks#sa mention#suicide mention
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Im sorry i cant get over that stupid Midsommar "female rage" tiktok comment. Like these are the same White women who were praising Ari Aster for this movie for allegedly being "feminist" & portraying the "inherent trauma of being a woman" or whatever the hell & using it as a prime example of "female rage", but then when someone points out that Aster himself has said this isn't a happy ending because of the main character was manipulated into and by a White supremacist cult then she switched it up and said "well Ari Aster is a man so his opinion doesn't matter".
Like are u praising Aster & his film for "accurately" portraying "female rage" or are you dismissing his messaging & intentions within his own movie because he's a man & therefore doesn't & can't understand "female rage"? Are you admitting "female rage" is for White women? Why is the messaging of White supremacy in Midsommar irrelevant if it's so prevalent throughout the film? Where is the "female rage" for White supremacy & the nonwhite female character who was murdered by the cult?
#like if men don't understand 'female rage' & any opinion they have about it is invalid then why praise Midsommar for it svrx#cult mention#cult tw
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whoever thought it's a great fucking idea to sit tf down and count hypothetical money quackity would make from streaming FREQUENTLY, laying it out with passive agressive comments on how this could save qsmp from the financial downfall - literally NOBODY FUCKING ASKED, GET A DAMN LIFE. i am once again aggressively tapping the sign saying no way fandom can get into every business thinking it is their sole right to fix things, presenting their opinion as the only correct one, moreover, trying to talk as if they are the expert on the subjet, MOREOVER, trying to speak like his damn BOSS. (spoiler: you are NOT). it's pure manager anti behaviour. whatever happenned wtih treating ccs like humans they are, amirite !!! i understand being disappointed and angry with him over how things turned out, but at this point some fuckers will not be satisfied with anything Q does, it's never going to be enough. (fuck these people sincerely, as well as their irrelevant ass takes). (in general, Q was never a long stream guy, at the beginning of the year he did mention he wants to stream more, doing things he likes, but then shit hit the fan, so. literally one of the recent streams he did, the one where he painted, he did because he felt sad and wanted to do smth nice. he is literally not your type of streamer who'd grind for money and subs, idk what to tell ya)
#qsmp fandom neg#qsmpblr neg#qsmp discourse#discourse#not to mention they compared q's stream hours with BBH. ARE YOU OKAY???#not to mention twitch has its own share from all the revenue and it just gets bigger with each year#idk shrugs im just tired of how weird ppl behave twrds q sometimes#this post IS about these people AND IN NO WAY I AM TRYING TO INVALIDATE WORKERS . THAT'S A WHOLE DIFFERENT SENTENCE.
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hurricane shutters: up
tablet: plugged in
age old resentment towards [redacted]: returned
#im not even that mad/disappointed about the ign article#im mad at specific ppl who i shall not mention here.#like idk shoot me but epler has a point about not invalidating prev choices.#like give me a vague sandbox PLEASE#but just know. if [redacted] has 0 haters i am dead#i am just. lmaooo. i hate being right
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Hi again! Thanks for taking the time to answer, it honestly was very helpful!
For the first point, the thing I had in mind was the last 4-sided dive from 43:23. To your point, it's honestly less explicitly mentioned that I remembered; but what I had in mind is Matt saying: "He's watched it [...] There's a lot of broken information [...] He's had time to sit with it, to find something that is very important to him and is now showing it to you for reasons he has."
And about the last point, it's not condescending at all! "Wait for it" is something I tell people a lot and I am told a lot when watching something with a lot of excitement, it happens! But my problem isn't really that I can't see them making horrible decisions in the next episode (I'll sure they will, they don't really have non-horrible options and I'm looking forward to it!); my problem is that the set up to whatever is going to happen has been so sympathetic and understanding that even if Luds manages to prove that are problems here with the gods, it will be kinda impossible to then follow it up with "therefore I think they should all die actually!"
However, to your second point, I do think I need to sit with this a bit longer and maybe go into the main tag to read some bad takes to make it more understandable lol, so feel free to not publish this at all if you don't want!
No worries and glad it didn't come off as condescending!
I really do think the situation is that Ludinus does think the gods should all die for this. For what it's worth I think this is what makes him a great villain and a very compelling and real one. I really do believe there are people who see an impossible life-threatening situation and judge those who act imperfectly out of self-preservation and terror more than those who lie down and let themselves be killed.
For of lack of a better way to put it, and deliberately avoiding any specific irl political positions, I think it is always a good exercise to consider why someone may hold political views that are entirely batshit fucking nuts to you. I think of Brennan's "personality pre-dates ideology" line a lot because a lot of political views I find hateful or lacking in empathy or lazy or stupid are based in either valid but not objective emotions; or in good intentions lacking a firm grounding in reality. One will never get anywhere invalidating their feelings, because they do really feel them; the only way forward is to say "just because you feel these real feelings does not mean you can take these harmful actions." So I do think, for example, that Ludinus is genuinely hurt and traumatized. It's just that I don't think he understands that other people's response to hurt and trauma isn't "so kill everyone who caused this" and indeed they might think that's just as bad if not worse. And again, very intelligent people can still fall into this trap.
#answered#Anonymous#i mentioned before that the anti-god people ENTIRELY rest on appeals to emotion and like. that's the key#i think they genuinely do not understand that many others don't hold the same emotions and experiences they do#and that this is not invalidating; it just means that other humans have rights and agency and don't bow to their whims#honestly this is the core of 99.99% of fandom discourse and no small amount of modern political discourse#someone's like DOESN'T THIS MAKE YOU WEEP? and you're like no? I'm a different person than you with different feelings?#And they're like oh so you're evil and you're like. no i am just. a person who isn't you and has a different perspective#(this is as i mentioned before a CLASSIC tactic of right-wing religion. HOW COULD YOU NOT WANT TO GO TO HEAVEN well it's not real)#cr tag
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Neopronouns culture is consantly having people ask what Xe/Xem is and than going into a ramble that the first Neo that was used in 1789, and that the first neos where Thon witch was a mix of the words that and one!
And then just have the People go “well it’s not valid”
Neopronoun user culture
#neopronoun#neopronouns#neopronoun user#neopronoun user culture#yea i definitely get the urge to ramble. i have a post outlining the basic history of neopronouns#it's annoying when people assume no one was using neos before the 2010s#but even more annoying when people still dismiss neos as invalid despite being told about the history of their use!#also ou was the neopronoun used in 1789 and thon was coined in 1858 i know that can be confusing since many people don't mention ou#however i think (correct me if i'm wrong) thon was the first neopronoun to be recognized in dictionaries#either way it was the first neo to become somewhat common usage
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its so funny hbomberguy uploads a video like once every millenia, but when he does he manages to send every person he scrutinizes into oblivion, never to recover
#hbomberguy#not to be a hater but.... 🙈 i fucking hate james somerton and internet historian so much YESSS#internet historian is an edgy right-wing dickhead that makes edgy 4chan videos and hosts racists (including himself)#and james somerton is THE WHITE CIS GAY MAN QUEERS ARE WARNED ABOUT#plagiarism aside he prioritizes white gay men as the worlds biggest victims CONSTANTLY; and invalidates nbs women and poc#the video he did on jeffery dahmer made me want to scream in anger bc he goes on and on about gay men and how women dont care about them#but doesnt fucking mention a god damn thiny about how he targeted black gay men over white bc he knew he could get away with it#like he talks about queers but he only gives a shit about white gay men. thats it.#anyway sorry im tired and bitter but byeeee to these youtube bitches pls dont come back lmaao
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Literally annoying as shit *someone makes a good point about how big events like award shows are used to distract from a violent attack* *random person on the internet * “oh so you’re saying I shouldn’t SLEEP now?! I’m not allowed to eat and take CARE of myself? How DARE you!” I am banging my head against a brick wall as we speak, I can’t.
Betting my MONEY on that person being American bc the relatability factor always has been & continues to be such a major issue here. Americans do literally think in terms of “I’m not Palestinian so why should I care” “I’m not Arab so this isn’t really my concern” “ok but do you expect me to just STOP MY LIFE???” and this entitlement ends up breeding actual disbelief for the idea that others could care about other people despite not suffering the same problems or hailing from the same backgrounds. Their recourse is either to shame you for it or get defensive for their own indifference. Its such a tired pattern
(Also worthy to add that it’s not just rooted in relatability and hyperindividualism and a lot of these people are in fact simply anti Arab racist lmao)
#I also did not wanna mention this bc not everyone needs to have this background to care for Palestine#But when it comes to Arab countries Iraq has quite literally been destroyed by the US and the US continues exploiting it to this day#No one needs to have that kind of connection to care about Palestine but I find it genuinely hilarious the anon didn’t infer that ofc I’d#Care so vehemently about the liberation of literal Arab people as an Arab girl#And especially an Iraqi one#Iraq itself is no stranger to imperialism / undue occupation.#They were basically invalidating that too but it’s par for the course for people like this#I wanna say they didn’t know ab the Iraqi War but i think they did#i genuinely just think they lack critical thinking skills
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Tw Rape Mention
Rape trauma does funny things to your psyche sometimes because I'm pretty sure my rape trauma is at least partially responsible for my obsessive incest kink but at the same time I don't think I'll ever be okay with receiving anal due to the exact same rape trauma.
#sorry for my casual wording of all this it helps me not feel as horrible about it#tw rape mention#op is a proshipper#in case y'all care that much#watch some people invalidate my trauma because im proship#i love anti culture so much#(that was sarcasm)
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So hey remember how one of THREE entire choices we could get from the previous games was "who did your Inquisitor romance"? Remember how they could only give us three because each one of them was going to be sooo important and impactful you guys not just a one-liner surely we don't want that
So how the FUCK was Sera "the only one who could make Blackwall let down his guard" when my Inquisitor was smooching him in front of her entire court?? BIOWARE EXPLAIN
...of course we all knew that this choice was just basically "romanced Solas/didn't romance Solas" toggle but could you AT LEAST pretend that it wasn't and throw in a couple more lines come the fuck on
#not to mention that you could just not recruit sera#or cole#or never do blackwall's quest#so much for not invalidating any choices#veilguard#veilguard spoilers#playing veilguard#my screenshots
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Hnnnnng
I can't see a post about Chappell Roan without going into fight-or-flight anymore because I was literally called "not queer" (teasingly but it hurt) because I don't listen to her music
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I'm 5/6 in queer identities
I'm not cisgender, not allo(romantic/sexual), and not hetero(romantic/sexual); the only non-queer part of me is being perisex (as far as I know)
Not listening to ONE artist doesn't change that
I like and listen to rock/alt music; I don't DISLIKE her or her music, it's just not my vibe
Trying to live as a queer person whose identities are often involved in discourse and seen as invalid, even by other queers, is hard enough without things like this...
#shitpost#screaming into the void#queer#vent#vent post#queer community#queer identity#queer identities#invalidation#queer experience#queer stuff#queer vent#discourse mention#exclusion#queer exclusion#chappell roan#not her fault just tagging for mention#not cis#not allo#not het#not cisallohet#gatekeeping#queer gatekeeping#queer music#queer thoughts#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lgbt community#lgbtq community
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"iron man was always a dick" i will not engage. i will NOT. ENGAGE.
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omg people are acting like bioware broke into their homes, destroyed all copies of the previous games and deleted all their save files personally can we please be serious
#madelyn rambles#the secret is your choices never really mattered#each game is its own contained story#any mention of choices from previous games are neat and fun#but for the most part ultimately irrelevant#this does not completely invalidate your playthroughs of previous games#you still had those experiences and made those choices#but each game is a new story!#they take place in the same setting yes but have only tenuous connections to each other#this has always been true bioware's just good at disguising it
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