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my father always says to me: somehow i have a daughter, but somehow not.
yes dad, and now imagine how i feel!
#can't be normal#not the daughter you want#not good enough#not easy#not present#not presentable#mentally ill#bpd#ocd#depression#traumatized#ptsd#anxiety#social anxiety#so tired#exhausted#weird girl#i don't belong here#not like other daughters#and he doesn't like my style#not feeling alive#not really here#creature
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Deku's first day on the job is going great
#bnha#mha#my hero academia#midoriya izuku#deku#mha manga spoilers#mha 430#doodles#habs art#the og is with present mic so this is like coming full circle which is beautiful#mic you'd be so proud of ur boy
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are they really “fem presenting” or do they just have boobs. are they really “masc presenting” or do they just have facial hair
#text#are they ‘presenting’ or ‘aligned’ as ‘masc’/‘fem’ or are you making assumptions based on uncontrollable physical traits
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also worth noting that "abusive" doesn't actually mean "irredeemable" either.
there's a lot of people that have done things in the past that were bad, because they weren't taught any better, or they were in an overall toxic situation where EVERYONE was shitty (like a cult), or they were just at an especially low point and hurt others for it.
you don't have to forgive them. you don't have to ever speak to them again. you can be angry with them until you die if you want.
but society cannot function if we don't allow them to move on. to change their behavior and fuck off somewhere else and build meaningful relationships without bothering you again. we need a path for people to change, or nothing ever will.
#like re: the last post#npd SHOULDNT mean 'youre an abusive person'#but also people who have abused people in the past can still become better people in the present#you know?#and as i metioned vaguely in that post. the way we currently treat people with NPD probably CAUSES THEM to lash out at and abuse others#if u abuse someone they lash back out at you and suddenly theres fun mutual abuse happening#so they need a way out of that cycle
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Congrats?
#this is the first pokemon presents where everyone is excited and no one is complaining which is the most unexpected part of all this#pokemon#pokemon z#pokemon x and y#pokemon black and white#pokemon gold and silver#pokemon heart gold and soul silver#serena pokemon#hilda pokemon#lyra pokemon#kalos#johto#unova
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There’s that post that’s like ‘everyone should get into a tiny niche fandom at least once’ fully agree, that was really fun -- but I would like to add that everyone should get into a fandom where their opinions run counter to major fanon because it really teaches you about sticking to your guns and trusting your interpretation of the text without having to rely on peer validation
because WHAT are people talking about sometimes
#aka: genuinely sometimes I think I live in a parallel universe and simply watched/read different things#full disclosure it does make you feel like a killjoy sometimes#because often times these fanons will be presented in a silly jokey manner#'oh so silly isn't this character so funny this is just my silly little headcanon'#and it's like yes yes lol lol but ok look me in the eyes and tell me you know that this is#at best only one interpretation of many and at worst simply not supported by the text at all#please tell me you know that#or in one specific example such a ubiquitous joke that is literally a significant theme of the work and i feel like SUCH a killjoy#being like 'ok yes very funny.....you know that was a major theme right?? tell me you know that'
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can everyone be normal about masculine presenting trans women. for the love of god can everyone please be fucking normal about masculine presenting trans women.
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when will we talk about the willful helplessness epidemic on here. So many people on this god forsaken website demand to have any and all things that exist outside their personal experiences directly, personally pre-chewed and spoonfed to them. And when you do, they'll then ask for you to swallow for them, too, because, you see, in THEIR experience..,
#this is about people who show up in the replies asking shit that has already been answered in the replies#this is about people who show up in reblogs asking people to explain very obvious things to them that'd take one second of listening to#others' experiences to be aware of#For the love of god if you're presented with information or turns of ohrase that conflict with your personal experience don't just sit down#Consider that perhaps things unlike you exist and that things that are one way for you may be different for others#This isn't difficult you just need to stop centering yourself as the only point of reference you have#you're not. There is so much more than you out there. And you can hold it and know it#you just need to get the FUCK OVER YOURSELF#fucking christ#mumblr#problemnyatic thoughts
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is this nonbinary person actually "male presenting", or did you just decide that based on your arbitrary idea of maleness?
is this nonbinary person actually "female presenting", or did you just decide that based on your arbitrary idea of femaleness?
perhaps they're just "presenting" as themselves and your binary biases are clouding your judgement?
#copped 'oh it's so fun to see a male presenting trans person wearing so much pink' today#hi what a weird fucking thing to say to a total stranger#trans#nonbinary#genderqueer#the system speaks
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teacher deku doodles ft. coworkers
#bnha#mha#my hero academia#midoriya izuku#deku#aizawa shouta#eraserhead#present mic#hizashi yamada#habs art#doodles#how weird do you think he feels being a staff member with all his former teachers#mha manga spoilers
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a moment of peace before the whole world shatters 😇
get your own print here ❤️
#do you ever cry while touching your pinky to a strand of your besties unruly hair#I call this aesthetic “warm angst” :'D#geto taking the pining to the next level#I imagine this takes place after the big village event#but before gojo finds out about it#just geto taking a moment to say his farewell to the life as he knew it#christmas present for my satosugu obsessed buddy @kymsys who lovingly made me read the manga at gunpoint. I hate you (affectionately) ❤️#jujutsu kaisen#jjk#satosugu#stsg#satosugu fanart#stsg fanart#gojo satoru#geto suguru#jjk fanart#anime#fanart#digital art#art#artwork#gojo fanart#geto fanart
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Dry Paint Palettes
No pain or elation, In the rows of cardboard houses The haunts of now distant Melodies and mantras – Friends and family chime But their words won’t sink They float alone to their islands Defiant in their gloom – The world’s colors run And bleed into each other Leaving paint palettes emptied And the heartsick trembling – This skeletal day Tolls dismally and…
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thanks google but i don't think i'm very interested in hearing what a youtuber named 'TheAlmightyLoli' has to say about politics in disco elysium. somehow
#disco elysium#a person that willingly chooses this username to present themselves to the world cannot be taken seriously by anyone ever
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having death on her knees... crazy stuff only agatha harkness could do
#the speech bubble saying good girl was not added but it's very present in my mind#so imagine it's there#also still debating if i like the outcome of this piece#first time drawing this agatha outfit and MY LAST#and i think the proportions are so off but i've been staring at it for so long i could no longer tell#agatha all along#agatha harkness#rio vidal#agatha x rio#agathario#agathario fanart#marvel#my art#lesbian art#evgarart
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