#not my mom
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#currently moving to a new place right now#my house is currently occupied by my brothers family#wife and 2 kids#they got evicted recently#and apparently theres some unknown rule that single male (even if hes a faggot) cant live in the same house with someones wife (even though#that someone is my own brother) (and im still a faggot)#so my mom made me move from my own house to a small house provided by my brothers father in law#ok cool at least i got somewhere to live#but i have to move everything#clothes#computer#everything#to here#and i have to pay for everything#not my parents#not my mom#me#and turns out the house is broken as fuck#no furniture#no internet#not even a bed#so they asked me to fill it up#and of course i have to pay for eeeverything#did i mention its not my house#and because i still cant live there while its being fixed up#i have to live with my mom#im so fucking annoyed about this whole thing#its not fair how im being used like some kind of sacrifice for this shit#this whole thing ends up costing almost my 2 months wage worth#and my father
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It’s for the sheer terror of spontaneously obtaining more parents, all at once
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i have double the number of parents today than i did less than a week ago it’s scary
i do not! need more!
#unless it’s like… that one guy#for b#not my mom#she JUST came back to life#BACK UP!#tim drake#dc comics#bruce wayne#dc robin#dc#dcu#batman#timothy drake#batfam#asktimdrake#dc rp
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my mom: "I've never felt like an adult. I feel like I'm permanently twelve years old."
my mom: *needs to be sewing, sketching, or doing something with her hands to pay attention to a podcast or TV show*
my mom: *easily distracted, will quickly obsess over a new idea or project type*
my mom: "if you would've gone to public school your whole life, you probably would've been diagnosed with ADHD or something"
my mom: *has dozens of stories of both myself and her being the exact opposite of a Pleasure to Have in Class, blissfully ignoring instructions, doing our own thing, and being very impulsive*
also my mom: "everyone in this family is Normal™ :)"
#a growing list of things i didn't start noticing until i was an adult with a job who lived on my own#the one that drove me to post tjis was the twelve year old one because ive THOUGHT that before#many times#and she said it too so im like#'woman we are the same'#another driving point is the fact that when i go home to visit people tell me i remind them of my nine year old brother#not my mom#not my dad#not my adult sisters who look like me#its kinda hilarious#anyways gonna try and get a diagnosis in the next year or so wish me luck#once upon a time i wouldn't have bothered but im too easily distracted and forgetful at work so im hoping medication helps#calico is befuddled#and not so say that these symptoms make a diagnosis but they aint all that neurotypical either
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“When I cried alone for my mother-
You were never the person I wanted to appear.
You never have made any crying lessen or any horrible feeling lighten.
So I will keep crying alone for the mother I will never meet.”
- S. C. C.
#spilled thoughts#writing#spilled words#spilled poetry#spilled think#spilled ink#spilled writing#quote#poem#excerpt from a book i'll never write#mother#are you there mother#mom#not my mom#mommy issues
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went to hang out with my mom and aunties and one of them started spouting off about autism and vaccines 🙄
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oooooo to be a closeted transman in a family who is lowkey transphobic
vent on the tags lmao
#like my family is not that type of “trans is a sin” or blabla#but they really do comments out of pocket#like making fun of nonbinary people#which really scares me when I start doing my transition#its obvious they are going to start making fun of me#and saying stuff like “o but you were so pretty when you were a girl"#so I really been thinking cutting ties with them#which I dont really want to because I stll appreciate them#its just... I already have enough with dealing my internal transphobia and how shitty its this world to trans people#I dont want to add to the list “people I love start making fun to me” on the list#cutting ties just seem more eazy to do#not my mom#she is green flag... I hope#sorry for the vent#im in a family reunion and they bring up the topic and made me think about my trans identidy and my future again
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every time I have to deal with my mother guilt tripping me or saying whatever shit she wants to make me upset, it just makes me miss my boyfriend so much to the point where I feel embarrassed about it because I know I wouldn’t be this needy if I wasn’t living here
#and I know that like your partner is supposed to be there for you through the hood and bad#but like!! it’s not fair that this is the problem I’m having!! we’re not that old that we need to be dealing with parent stuff all the time!#I’m so fucking sad oh my god#if I’d just stayed in Seattle and found a way to make it work#I know everything happens for a reason but GOD#this has been terrible#he’s literally gonna graduate college#like that’s the big stress thing that should be in our lives rn#not my mom#I want to have this cute little life where I just do the jobs I want to do#and so does he and we make money and go home and see each other and just all of this cute shit#but nope! I’m here! in a room that I hate in a house that I hate!!!#godddddddddddd#I want to have the time to think about stupid things but I don’t!!#because my mom is just!! right there!!#she doesn’t even fucking get it and she’ll never get it until I leave#oughhhhhhhhhhh
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mom got me the wrong plushie but xiaos here now !!!
#i forgive him#not my mom#i love her but she keeps doing this and I really wish she'd just talk to me about things#personal posts and stuff idk
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I was feeling agitated and artblocked yesterday so I decided to give my brain a rest by watching TV and then the next thing I knew these were in front of me
#what did they put in Phineas and Ferb that inspires these sort of deranged comics in people. this is my own personal MOM HOLY FUCK#long post
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filipina miku!! my mom helped me with her outfit ^_^
#THIS TOOK ME FOREVER RAAHHHH#i had help from my mom with stuff like the parts of the traje de mestiza which is the outfit shes wearing#this trend looks so much fun and i wanted to join in.. im first gen canadian though so ive never been to the philippines and only#know thru stories of my parents growing up. im proud of my heritage but there are some things i didnt grow up with that#make me feel disconnected from my culture. so it was nice to talk to my mom abt it and ask for her help with this :3#the pleated tapis is meant to resemble her skirt.. i had no way of adding her stockings but i noticed the piano key design#so i used that for the saya. the bandana is meant to resemble her hairties and shes wearing bakya wooden slippers with embroidery#i kinda wanted to add the panuelo to resemble her tie as a finishing touch but i forgor ;w; just imagine it i guess#my mom really likes this. shes a little confused abt the blue hair and i had to explain her hair is like that but she thinks shes pretty#originally i wanted her holding the woven pamaypay and fanning herself because ITS HOT ITS 25 FUCKING DEGREES TODAY#but i couldnt get the pose right so i settled for this. i wanna draw her and brazilian miku high fiving ill do that tmrw#my art#myart#hatsune miku#miku worldwide#philippines#vocaloid#miku
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My friends who have never experienced flooding, and who are about to deal with it from this storm, please remember:
1. NO. YOU CANNOT MAKE IT THROUGH THAT WATER ON THE ROAD. I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU'RE DRIVING. TURN. AROUND.
2. DO NOT GO WADING THROUGH THE WATER. EVEN IF YOU JUST WANT TO SEE HOW DEEP IT IS. THAT. WATER. IS. CONTAMINATED.
3. IT IS CALLED FLASH FLOODING FOR A REASON. THE WATER RISES AND SURGES IN A FLASH. STAY. HOME.
4. If you're at risk of flooding, raise up any of your belongings now. Put the legs of tall things in buckets. Know where your important documents are.
5. Stay safe.
#not sca related#I have lived with Hurricanes and Tropical Storms my whole life and I am experienced with storm flooding#please listen to the voice of experience#I want you to stay safe#SCA Mom#SCA Aunt
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my grandpa was a good man. and it really wasnt his fault - recreationally lying to kids is a proud family tradition - but he told me, once, that cutting a worm in half resulted in two worms.
i think he said it so i'd be more morally okay with fishing? i actually dont remember the context.
point was, he told me this, and he understimated (by a very large margin) how much i liked worms. i was a worm boy. very wormy. and after hearing that, i went home, and i dug through the garden, flipped over every rock, did everything i could to gather as many worms as i could, and then i uh.
i cut them all in half. every worm i could find. all of them. with scissors.
i then took this pile of split worms, and i put them in a box with a bit of lettuce and some water and stuff and went to bed expecting to double my worms overnight. i have math autism, so i had a vague understanding that if i did this just a few times in a row, i would eventually have a completely unreasonable amount of worms.
i was very excited to become this plane's worm emperor.
(i think i was...six?)
anyway, i did not become the inheritor of the worm crown. i instead woke up to a box of dead worms and cried. a lot. i got diagnosed with panic attacks as a teenager, but i think i had them as a kid, i just had no idea what they were. i was kind of processing that a.) i had killed what i had assumed was every single worm in my yard, and thus would have no more worms, and b). i was going to like, worm hell.
(six year babylon spent a lot of time worrying about god.)
so i kind of freaked out, and i climbed a tree, because god can only smite you if you're touching the ground (?) and i sat up there mostly inconsolable until my mom came out and asked, hey, what's up? what happened?
so i explained to her that i had killed all of the worms, forever, and was also Damned, and she took me to the compost pile, and we dug for all of five seconds and found like twenty more worms.
the compost pile was full of worms.
she then told me that a). there were more worms, and we could put them back under rocks and stuff and recolonize our yard and b). that one day, i would die, and go to heaven, and be able to talk to the worms face to face. that i'd be able to tell them all that i was very sorry, and that i killed them on accident, driven only by excessive Love, and that she was positive they would forgive me because worms have six hearts and no malice.
at that point, i think i was sixty percent tear-snot by weight, and i had no choice but to gather enough worms that i could hug them. which my mom helped with. and then after that she helped me put some worms back under each rock.
and for my epilogue: i spent a significant portion of my childhood in trees. and for many years after, even when my mom didnt know i was watching, i would catch her giving the space under the rocks a light spritz with the hose. not because she loved worms.
but because she loved me.
#anecdotes#memories#worms#moms#the hazards of recreationally lying to children#dont treat my grandpa too harsh#story time#stories#babylon#animal death#religion
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#seri.txt#these just made me laugh idk 😭 my mom and dad r also both like this#idk if someone’s posted these before but idc#seri’s hits
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I don't know who needs to hear this, but
YOU DO NOT NEED TO START A NEW HOBBY!
STEP AWAY FROM THE TEXTILES!
YOU DON'T NEED MORE YARN!
THAT FABRIC IS NOT CALLING TO YOU! LEAVE IT ALONE!
#Mom can you pick me up I'm scared#That siren song is playing again#But wouldn't it be neat to dye spin weave sew knit crochet tat#OMG save me#Hobbies#Textile Arts#Crochet#Knitting#Weaving#Spinning yarn#Cross Stitch#Quilting#Never has Grandma Iris' voice been so loud in my head#(Miss you forever Grandma Iris)
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the names of certain mob-involved trans women have been changed
#i should do more dumb comics from My Life#i just always forget the funny things lol#also they take very little time since i put very little effort in uwu#also im not short my mom is just like 6 ft 2 leave me
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