#nonbinary post

[sapphic-sprite]

love the term genderqueer bc my gender is exactly that: queer

[acewhowantsspace]

Haha what a great start to my day.

Just a warning to anyone on TT, just came across an account (@ the_reasons_i_drink), which is run by a 'Grumpy Gay who calls out bullshit'.

Very blatant hatred for nonbinary people (the one I saw, at least. I can't speak for the rest of his videos), and summed up being nobinary to 'lol, privileged white woman with pastel hair wants to feel different' and said being nonbinary isn't real.

Odd, isn't it, how homophobia and transphobia can come from right in our own community. It hurts more, I think.

Just wanted to put that out there so anyone reading this can just block him so you don't see that on your for you page.

Not putting this out there to go attack him! His comments are filled with people agreeing with him. Just block and walk away. I'm just flabbergasted at how, in the year of 2024, this is still a problem for enby people.

Happy Pride Month, I guess.

[marshroons]

I like so much pets that create a challenge for me.

Fighting pets that refuse to obey and need to be properly educated.

Shy pets who are too embarrassed to obey their owners and need the appropriate incentives

Wild pets that resist and fight and that need to be tamed and domesticated.

Sneaky pets that need to be trapped so they don't run away, tied up and educated so they don't hide.

Magical pets that have their own traits and need to be handled in different ways.

I love all of them, and all their challenges. Is fun to see them becoming the perfects pets for me.

[theetherealraphael]

Honestly, this. I identify as a trans-nonbinary demiboy. Does that mean I'm not enby? No! I IDENTIFY with the label, so I am enby.

Please, for the love of whatever eldritch being that controls us, LISTEN TO US. WE KNOW WHO WE ARE BETTER THAN YOU DO.

-sincerely, a very pissed non-binary demiboy who doesn't know what sexuality they should be and uses he/they/it/really just not she/her.

a lot of y’all out here making posts about how much you support enbies but will invalidate them if they don’t fit the mold.

the mold is white, naturally androgynous, non aligned, short hair, really skinny, afab, actively transitioning, identifing as trans, binding, pansexual or asexual, listening to indie or alt music, has a crowcore aesthetic, and maybe dyed hair.

let me clarify, if you fit this mold as a nonbinary person, you’re valid and you’re nonbinary. i’m not saying you aren’t.

i’m just saying if this is the ONLY type of nonbinary person you support, you’re enbyphobic.

nonbinary people can be poc, lesbian, gay, bi, amab, binary aligned, not transistioning, not identifying as trans, fat, and overall not fit your “ùwú enby space babey” aesthetic.

let nonbinary people exist the way they do.

stop treating our identities like things to be discussed or debated NO MATTER WHAT SIDE YOURE ON. nonbinary people are nonbinary and are valid, end of convo. our validity was NEVER up for debate. periodt.

if you take away one thing from this, let it be to LISTEN TO NONBINARY PPL.

- sincerely, a very pissed black autistic bisexual nonbinary person who uses they/her

terfs/gender critical people and transmeds/truscum, don’t even BREATHE near this post.

nonbinary people can add on but binary trans ppl and cis people should only spread.

[noahsfault]

Queer 👏 people 👏 are 👏 not 👏 all 👏 fucking 👏 activists 👏

Stop quizzing us on queer history and asking us questions we aren’t qualified to answer about the world and about politics and about our identities

Stop trying to back us into a corner so you can justify your discrimination on the basis that we don’t know what we’re talking about or can’t “defend” ourselves to you

Stop treating every queer person that stands up and says “I want to be treated like a person” as if they’re an activist

Cut that bullshit out

Marginalised people just want to exist and be happy

I don’t know everything, and that doesn’t make me undeserving of your respect or my human rights you fucker

I don’t even owe you the stuff I do know- I still am entitled to basic fucking respect

TLDR; Queer people shouldn’t have to be historians or scientists for you to not be a fucking dick

[queerism1969]

[mischa-makowka]

[marxistmiku]

funniest possible response to getting my gender marker changed

[yuribeam]

for whoever needs to hear this:

starting HRT doesn't have to be a huge momentous all-or-nothing decision. you can just try it like you would an antidepressant you've been informed of the risks of.

there won't be any immediate irreversible changes overnight. you can always stop, change your dose, change your delivery system, decide it's not the right time. you can even microdose if you want to.

you don't have to tell anyone. you don't have to announce it if you don't want to.

stop waiting for a perfect time in your life because it won't come.

stop waiting to reach a mythical level of certainty that never comes to anyone, for anything.

you've been thinking about it long enough. if you have the opportunity, just give it a shot. you're worth the courage it takes to make a change in your life.

[savagegood]

“Did you see the way that little girl looked at me? Kids. Little kids. They grow up believing that they can be a hero if they drive a sword into the heart of anything different. And I’m the monster? I don’t know what’s scarier. The fact that everyone in this kingdom wants to run a sword through my heart or that sometimes I just wanna let ‘em.” “We have to get you out of here. Over the wall. We won’t stop until we find some place safe, okay? We’ll go. Together. No matter what we do, we can’t change the way people see us.” “You changed the way you see me... Didn’t you?

NIMONA (2023), based on the comic by ND Stevenson, who came out as transgender in 2022

[sapphic-sprite]

cis straight people will never know what it’s like to have to pretend to be someone your not around friends parents because they wouldn’t let you hang out with your friend if they found out your were gay and trans.

[acewhowantsspace]

PRONOUN UPDATE

I go by He/They now. I prefer the names:

James

Jamie

Or Jay.

Thanks y'all

[homoqueerjewhobbit]

Wow, this "gender free" fashion brand sure doesn't have any AMAB models.

[brasideios]

Mentioned I was non binary during a conversation earlier this week. Someone I've loved my whole life, who claims to love me, looked me in the eye, face screwed up with disgust, and said, 'You have mental problems - you know that, right?'

You can only see how little their love is worth when you refuse to be what they want you to be.

I will not be bullied into silence. I will not conform.

Why should I be uncomfortable for the sake of their comfort, when they feel free to insult and invalidate me openly, even smugly?

No. No. No. I won't.

To every single person who thinks they get to decide who the fuck I am - or who anyone else is, for that matter - Go. Fuck. Yourselves.

And to anyone else who's facing this kind of bullshit - Don't let them tell you you're the problem. You aren't. They are.

[incorrectbatfam]

You're literally gay??? And it's pride month??? And Israel's our only safe haven in that region???

There's no pride in genocide

[queerism1969]