#non judgment

[sketchesinstillness]

"Today I will not stress over things I can't control or change." Said the tree.

"Trying to control what cannot be controlled, brings nothing but suffering. A tree that cannot bend will crack in the wind. whatever the present moment contains, always work with it.Be friendly with it. Because when you are friendly with it, you are friendly with yourself.” Added the tree.

[journalistgeocultures]

I twist myself away from their judgmental words and their blazing eyes, and I beg you to do the same.

I hear their laments, their sneers, their disdain. I hear their false defense of me, their derision for what we are. What we are, still.

“How could you?” They said.

“He’s not made for you”, They said.

“He will only hurt you”, They said.

And you did.

You did.

And then you didn’t.

You labored and looked at me.

You made a choice, and it was me.

I made choice, and it was you.

But they keep whispering. Oh, how they whisper… sounds just like screams.

“It’s wrong!” They said.

“He made you feel like you’re nothing” they said.

“So are you!” I cry.

“You all do the same, too!” I fight.

For they defend me in one breath and disparage my feelings in the other.

For they claim that I deserve better and but refuse me the man I want.

For they pretend to love me truly, but hate who truly love.

They tried to make me feel small for something bigger than I am. So, I straightened my back and let them shiver.

I keep walking the path in which my forgiveness and your redemption matter.

I will not judge past versions of you through the lens of who you are now.

I will not turn away from who you wish to be.

So, let them, my love.

Let them judge.

Let them erase my voice.

I only need you to hear me.

After all, what matter the most?

Their self-righteousness or my will?

We are ever changing. We are ever fighting the tides of your pain, your mistakes and my failures.

We are ever forging ahead.

We might not have always be a “Yes”.

But we were never a “No”.

From Anonymous.

To all the believers.

To all the lovers.

To all the shippers.

In the name of endurance.

In the name of patience.

In the name of kindness.

In the name of forgiveness.

In the name of life.

In the name of love.

[conscious-pisces]

[tubapun]

Never name your child after a pop culture character. Leave that to them when they transition in their 20s

[teaboot]

do u think physical build is an important part of being security? im 5'5 and think i look very timid, but ive seen some entry level security job listings around me that ive been interested in.

I've only been private security for around five years, so I'm still relatively green compared to my colleagues, but I personally am about 5'3" and I've been doing great!

And again, I'm not incredibly experienced, but if I were to make a hire, I'd be prioritizing a number of things before considering height.

Physically you need to be capable of doing your duties without pain- so if you have chronic pain, foot patrol may not be your bag, but CCTV monitoring might work. If you can't drive, being a site manager may not work, but working door duty somewhere local might be.

Physical presence- in regards to 'looking timid'- is something that you can work on if you want to, but sometimes an unassuming appearance is your advantage.

A "problem demographic" (using HEAVY quotations there) for a lot of places like malls and downtown areas is adult women with trauma, addiction, and mental health issues- they're seen by a lot of clients as "crazy ladies" and treated less like people by the general public, and a good number have very good reason not to trust men ESPECIALLY in uniform, but are more often than not perfectly easy to get along with if you're polite, respectful, and don't come off as a threat or authority figure. Being able to offer menstrual products and having resources around the area you can recommend is good, too.

And if I HAVE to move people out from behind buildings and such, saying "fuck off asshole" like folks imagine is NOT as effective as "Hey, sorry, this area is restricted, but here are some other places that might be okay- I need to do another check in about an hour, so heads up, and the church up the street is doing hot chocolate right now".

Really, if you want to do well in security- at least basic work- I'd say you want to focus on the following:

Wear your uniform and keep it tidy

Show up prepared and on time

Be able to approach strangers and talk to them

Keep a positive, non-agressive attitude, and be willing to give people the benefit of the doubt

Learn deescalation techniques to diffuse conflict

Have a strong handle on your personal emotions and opinions

Kerp calm and rational in an emergency

Learn basic first aid and get certified if you can, it's not technically necessary but I've used that more than I'd like to admit

Keep a strong moral compass

Really, I'd say it boils down to keeping to your sense of ethics, showing up on time, and knowing how to follow orders with nuanced interpretation.

Beyond that, you're golden

[peonysgreenhouse]

his horrified ‘what 😨’ is taking me out 😭

[bookwyrminspiration]

"isn't he glorious" and it's the most normal looking blonde guy you've ever seen

[xxplastic-cubexx]

i finished reading krakoa era and comic cherik are amazing SO i wanted to ask do you have any favorite issues/series i still don't really remember how to call it where cherik are also cool?? some iconis comic moments with them maybe??

im FARRR from finishing all of krakoa (ive probably barely even made a dent in this series), though i do think following the HoX + PoX issues themselves are great if we're talkin cherik-focused issues/books. i already said one of my fave aspects of cherik is their moments working together, so having a whole Omnibus dedicated to them Working Together and trusting each other (bonus points for Protective Erik with the Something Sinister bit) is already guaranteeing a sure spot in my Faves collection

one of my fave cool moments i've read so far- which is a moment i wager a lot of people can agree is Sick As Hell Visually if i may be so daring- is ABSOLUTELY this sequence from Inferno #4

any time erik and charles get to do some bamf shit together it is IMMEDIATELY peak to me this cannot be disputed and i'd be lying if i didn't say i bought this run solely for this moment here (ignore the fact they fumble this fight horribly that dont matter they looked cool as hell for five seconds !!!!!!!!!!!)

i can't wait to read more and find even more moments i love and want to tape to my eyelids <3 !!

[storybookprincess]

top ten panels that so perfectly tell you everything you need to know about gon that it makes you physically ill

[the-real-couchrat]

One of my favorite tropes in fiction is when the “wicked evil of legend” just retires and goes to live a normal life, and starts a bakery or something.

Bonus points if the heroes go out to stop them, but find them doing something really wholesome.

[thepersonalwords]

The highest freedom of mind comes from becoming non-judgmental.

Debasish Mridha

[nonbinarykai]

I love how there’s this very small subsection of the fandom who you can tell adores the movie but does not gaf about the show but pretend like they do so they don’t get eaten alive

[conscious-pisces]

“Real magic in relationships means an absence of judgment of others.”

—Wayne Dyer

[justastraymoa]

So I have a question

Any other people miss and crave Stray Kids and just wanna immerse yourself in them somehow someway until you feel less alone and ready to burst into tears? Or is it just me and I should go see someone for my issues??

Anyways I'm sad and miss Stray Kids even though I listen/read/watch/and look at them everyday multiple times a day.

That is all thanks for coming have the day you deserve.

[usefulquotes7]

Funny how your life improves when you surround yourself with positive, affirming, accepting and non-judgmental people. unknow