#no more romance baiting.
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It’s awesome! I love supernatural, but one of its flaws was the bizarre way they dealt with Destiel, including actors telling fans to stfu about it.
the OMFD KISS™️©️®️ felt like such a triumph. 🥰
I saw two humans in love, not two men. It transcended that.
no more BS. They’re in love. Period. NORMAL!
David Jenkins really gets us!
Bravo to Taika and Rhys who performed and developed the characters with such skill.
i saw this tweet ( @forpiratereasons ):
i immediately started sobbing. i truly can’t put into words how special Our Flag Means Death is to me. but, i’m going to attempt it anyway.
i was trying to figure my sexuality during the height of my fandom days. being mocked by the cast and creators of shows that were actively queerbaiting us, only to have them try to make us sound stupid when we called them out on it. it really did not help. it fucking sucked.
i had to spoil OFMD for myself about half way through, because i couldn’t handle a show doing that to me again, and in 2022.
instead, i found a show that not only follows through, but whose show runners, cast, and crew celebrates the queerness surrounding it. embraces the fandom. loves the show as much as we do.
that is so fucking special to me.
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I’m gonna be so for real right now I really genuinely think my favorite brand of “ship” has always been & will always be the kind that’s always building & never stops because it’s not like they could ever be endgame but it’s also not like they could ever stop caring. Like. I can think of many tv shows even just off the top of my head that lost any & all appeal once my otp got together. Like the best relationships in fiction are always gonna be in a constant state of friendship slash “hey was that romantic?” slash drama or discord & conflict slash “platonic love isn’t a downgrade” slash “buuuuuut…. Still. maybe just maybe it is romantic after all” slash “if they ever actually become a couple & get happy & stable I’ll be immediately bored I don’t even exactly want that also it’s so unrealistic & would never happen” like. Give me that insanity before giving me a stable romance any day of the week babey
#this is about so many dynamics#it’s just my personal fave brand of fictional dynamic#currently thinking about#Jeff x annie#though lol#also consequently#Jetzula#but like. this is just. a personal feeling / preference that I have in general lol#I like the dynamics where it’s questionable if it’s even romantic the most#which is why I love queer bait so much lmao#I really do. I know I’m not supposed to but like#god Dean & Castiel? Emma Duval & Audrey Jensn?#faith & Buffy?#I’m sorry but those dynamics are all. always. so much more insane & delicious than boring old canon romances#I said what I said 😂#anyway#rose.txt#random thots#not that random. I’m rewatching community#Jeff x Annie is where it’s atttt baby#ideal fictional dynamic#they can never be an actual couple but they can never truly keep it platonic either#& I think that’s beautiful#community rewatch
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Man, Villain or Morally Grey Glinda is SO fun to me as a concept but they always give her such lame or weirdly heterosexual motivations?? Why are y’all doing my girl like this? 😭
How is the “Glinda orchestrated events to become the uncontested ruler of Oz” theory for the movie better than most actual villain Glinda depictions?
#just to be clear I’m NOT talking about wicked here#obviously she’s not a villain there but also her moral greyness is explored well and have pretty much nothing to due with Fiyero#been trying to read more Oz adaptations recently and it’s been very hit or miss#this post was sparked by me being baited with Vampire Glinda as a concept#just for her main motivation to be wanting to marry the wizard?? very lame#especially since the plot centers around a gay romance#oz#land of oz#oz books#Glinda#Glinda the good#oz stuff#oz series#Wizard of oz
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open fire emblem fates > go to the records hall > open supports > click nyx > click laslow > read > cry > close game. girl who will be okay
#i cant even tag this with my fates tag im not playing the game#sorry i think ive posted about this support conversation more times than literally anything else it just makes me so emo everytime#they infest my mind like worms that i cant bait out#they r so. romance. to me -> girl who is aroace#they make me froth at the mouth#i have so many thoughts on them constantly i just cannot word it in a way that doesnt make me sound like a fucking nerd#which i am but i like to give the appearance that im not. i dont think its working.#but grrarrhgghhherhhsf#ive already written my essay (‘essay’ it was like five paragraphs) on them i wont do it again#i’d probably just say the same damn thing over and over but its like#it gets me everytime it really does
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One thing about Idolish7 is that there is SO much love between the characters and it's not romance baiting, just deep sincerity
#i will be honest....i do think enstars has a lot of romance baiting that isnt baiting more than it is just typical enstars chaos#but i dont know....for some reason i7's love between everyone seems so....sincere?#like you cant even call the flirting with tsumugi romance baiting because you can usually tell its done more for laughs#and the one time it WAS a bit romancey it was actually addressed in the most painful. way. possible#still not over at what-if type friendships btw#idolish7#fandom spamdom#note's notes
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Resetting Lady is truly the most mental manhwa/webnovel ever because the reveal that the main character locked her fiancé in a room with hounds to try and kill him when they were young is. Like. Not even a fucking worry for her. It's dramatically revealed by someone trying to convince her she's been brainwashed and then isn't even addressed between her and the fiancé. It hasn't even come back up again, and we immediately move onto her convincing her father to commit suicide
#not a quote#resetting lady#spoilers#resetting lady spoilers#suicide cw#the whole story is suuuper messed up but the hounds thing is super interesting bc the premise is that she 'went crazy' AFTER....#reincarnating 100 or so times & being killed. so the 1st life at least is supposed to be a more innocent romance#which begs the question that she starts grappling with about how much is regression & how much is brainwashing#suicide baiting#my posts
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not gonna lie it feels extremely biphobic to make every small physical interaction between buck and eddie into something sexual atp. buck has always clearly been okay with physical intimacy with his friends, eddie especially, and it's really discouraging to see post-coming out affection solely reduced to buddie. just because he understands he's into men now doesn't mean every time he touches eddie he wants to fuck him
#like of course they're going to be close at the bachelor party they literally always are#even if you strip away any and all romance potential their dynamic is insane from a purely platonic pov#and i wish more people were willing to just. discuss their friendship at that level#buck literally comes out as a bi has an entire boyfriend and people are still baiting themselves with a noncanon ship#anyway. feeling very much like a hater lately. hence all the hating posts
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Anyone have any romance light* fantasy novel reccs? Preferably ones not set in modern day. I keep reading fascinating blurbs and then immediately lose interest when they imply there's going to be some good ol' fashioned Het Romance in it and I am so tired. So tired.
*romance light here meaning like. The romance is at best the D plot. Or non existent, that's also good. Or it's very very slow, not because the characters spend all their time pining and will-they-won't-they-ing, but because they're getting to know each other and eventually falling in love, or they have better things to be doing right now. Think Graceling, or Earthsea, or the Six of Crows duology
#and of the D plot romances I'd prefer if they were queer but anyways#this is probably too picky to get many reccs but I have to try#I'm just so tired. I don't care about your romance and ship bait. Tell me a *story*#Like should I try the books anyways?#Are the blurbs lying to get more people to buy them and there isn't actually that much romance in them?#I can find content warnings online for so many things but people don't tag romance unless it's the A plot. the genre#and I don't want B or C plot romance either!
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Me watching futabas confidant Unlock scene: aw this is so cute, they're so siblings. I love this :3
*the thought passing through my brain reminding me she's romanceable*
Me:
#EVERY DAY I remember this game forces heterosexuality against my will#and futaba being romancable skeeves me out even more bc it really feels like. imouto weirdo bait..#and i haaaaaaaate that#i love futaba leave her alone...#al rambles
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It’s the girlboss x loser ship I am gonna like this one
#I am a simple gal. I see romance with emo loser and bubbly girlboss I have to support!#SKSKSKS This seems interesting gonna try to catch up they are cute#I liked it more than I thought I was going to tbh#like it’s kind of a weird concept but it had kind of a funny execution so I’ll take the bait for now#dangers in my heart#yamada#ichikawa#anime#also heigh difference…… makes head for brrr
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you know i've got it bad when i come back to tumblr to rant about my fucking stupid baka life. i am just. i'm chewing and munching and crunching on my own limbs. i had therapy where i talked about [redacted] and that seemed to help it a bit. but i feel like a big stupid idiot that talks too much and lets too much info slip. i feel so vulnerable and i don't even get to be held and loved. i'm getting nearly all the anxiety and pain of being vulnerable and honest in love WITHOUT THE LOVE. i literally want to fucking choke myself out. i want to run into the woods and bite trees like a fucking beaver. i hate how much bigger he is than me because every time i think about it i feel like i'm going to die because i KNOW. i know. how good it would feel to be his little spoon. his hugs are already insanely good. they already make me feel small and held. i just lay here every single day. every single night. and just fucking Yearn bro. i just. imagine. being spooned. and i feel like crawling out of this 3rd story window so i land head first on the concrete. then i might be put out of my gay misery. i shouldn't have to suffer like this, during PRIDE MONTH. catching feelings is homophobic
#i am insane. this is making me insane#genuinely i told my therapist like#i know so much about my brain and my trauma and have all the answers so much of the time#but with love? romance? nothing. zilch. nada.#my life has not been one full of relationships#for various reasons#i've been working a lot on myself in therapy and in transitioning y'know#so i've focused more on that and getting myself to a place where i feel like i can love and be loved without doing or receiving harm#or at least as much harm as i would've when i was less stable/sure of myself#but as a result i have so much unresolved unexamined romantic bullshit#and being fucking in love with someone like this? someone unattainable? yet who keeps doing shit that fucks with that notion???#it's like. this is psychological torture. i swear to god. he's not and i know he isn't because he's so kind but i STG he's fucking with me#like i stg he knows i like him and is fucking with me to see if i'll take the bait and ruin oir friendship#see if i'm the kind of jack ass to make a move on a man in a relationship#i'm not. so i keep trying my best to be chill. then bro looks me up and down and touches me and it's like WHAT! ARE! YOU! DOING! BRO!!!!!#i'm going to bed man i'm gonna fucking throw up this shit is killing me i'm so serious rn
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casualty twitter account dropping a preview clip of ryan advising cam to try mirroring jodie to get close to her and ryan and cam are literally mirroring each other as he says this, i swear to god if this tedious excuse for a love triangle doesn't end with ryan and cam getting together i'm gonna start a riot
#bbc casualty#at this point it's gotta be deliberate i mean come the fuck ON#i know casualty played the baiting game with jez and max but they're not gonna get away with that anymore#and let's be real the cam/jodie/ryan love triangle is so fucking boring#it's like ethan/alicia/cal only WORSE#because jodie has zero romantic interest in EITHER OF THEM#at least ryan and cam have something interesting going on between them#and jodie's family story is far more interesting than any tepid romance they could possibly give her right now#still not convinced this isn't just gonna be bait again because man the max/jez bait burned me BAD#but i will try to be optimistic
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I think from that oshi no ko post from a couple days back some people are getting the impression that I dislike Aqua/Ruby as a ship, so I should clarify I actually am a fan of it. I just don't want it to happen in the actual manga and am sure the story isn't going that route. I can see a strong story with that ship, and I appreciate fanfic authors who go for it! But that strong story is very clearly not Oshi no Ko, lol. The way the story has been written is just very much not setting it up at all. How they interact in the actual story is at odds with the main themes of the manga.
I can see it working all the way through to the end of the LoveNow arc, but you'd have to rewrite a big chunk of Tokyo Blade, and then literally everything from Miyazaki Return onward would need to be thrown out. I think the ship is cool, and if it were actually the focus, I would love to read a story like that. But as it stands, I would be angry if the ship was endgame, because it would mean the author was just completely contrasting everything that was set up, and the story would be worse for it. If I had to make a prediction I think Aqua will likely end up with Kana, if he ends up in any romance at all. (That's kind of a shame to me, just because I find Kana the least interesting main character of Onk, but it is what it is.)
#cw incest#i don't consider anything the series has done with aqua/ruby to be incest bait not because i dislike incest#but because ive read enough incest romance series to see clear differences in the way the characters are treated#if its bait its really bad bait.#the lovenow arc felt more like romantic aquaruby than anything in the movie arc to me#hmm. this kind of makes me want to write up a meta about what parts of the themes each of the 3 main ships represents#look forward to that soonish!
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like the wu ming reveal was all very nice but since this all happened nearly a thousand years before the events of books 1, 3, and 5 its like...okay? everything about their relationship in the flashback I either found creepy or didn't care about 😭 ik some fans like the idea of a character so loyal he's willing to destroy a whole country on the word of his god slash crush but umm I do not! also hc disguising himself as the child who was hanging out with xl was so weird why did he do that. age gap creepiness aside it was just stupid and eliminated a chatacter I was really excited about. and it pissed me off when he kicked qyz off the sedan chair like let him sit!!! his single-minded focus on xl got so so old and his insistence on inserting himself everywhere was intrusive and annoying! to me. got real tired of his 'fuck everyone else I got dianxia' mindset. immature. annoying. and unfair
#lwj is reserved and cool to strangers but hes not actively malicious or sadistic#he cares about his family and home and students and music#he does ignore ppl more than I'd like but hes not actively dismissive like hc often is#a small moment from the book I liked was when he first encountered 'mxy' he nodded respectfully in acknowledgement#obvi this doesnt mean mdzs or the writing for him isnt homophobic. it is. it has its own issues. Ive never even reread mdzs#but I think tgcf is just a less serious and more shallow and wishy-washy romance at its core#AND lwj is literally less petty and vengeful thab hc is even tho what jc allegedly did was way worse than what fxmq did#and lwj has literally a reputation for being petty so it doesn't seem fair that hc doesn't#actually tho I think much of that came from drama viewers who saw a gay man being kind of a dick to the guy who 1. was a dick to him first#and 2. suicide baited his loved one so I maintain thats reasonable#hes not unfair or short w anyone else#wait I lost my sentence structure. drama viewers labelled him as petty for being reasonably dickish to the dude he hates for good reason#which IS homophobic. but the comparative scale of mqfx's offenses + the fact that it happened so long ago and xl has long since recovered#makes hc look way more petty and unreasonable. but its not reflected in fan treatment or desc of him. tbf he gets over it by the end tho#ik cunty is a fun word but its not the only accurate one#tgcf txp#mdzs txp
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to no one's surprise i'm here to talk about tlbt LMAO but i really do enjoy it!!! xaeryn is an engaging and clever narrator and it is not an exaggeration to say i was losing it over the way you've upped the stakes in the most recent chapter, both with the cliffhanger and with briony's revelations. i adore how you've reinterpreted canon elements as well as incorporating magic into the 20's setting! also the way you write red & the circle crew is incredibly charming and i love seeing new chapters appear on my dash -em <3
Thank you sm Em!!
I love Xaeryn bc she's a bit more... formal and stiff and forthright, a little more serious, than my typical MC in games like this. She does have a warmer/softer side, there's just only a few people Red who can bring it to the forefront, and it makes her such an interesting POV to write for something like this. All the things in canon I've written her have been with Red, so it's really shown more of her more relaxed side. Having her interact with a bunch of different characters in this lets her show of more of who she is and I love it. Poor Shery and her crush tho
It's so fun playing with ways to bring in canon elements and make them fit with a 20's setting. Figuring out which of the cast would lean more heavily into slang, how they'd dress, oh I can nod to Chandry here and put Red's warhammer in the museum since he's not actually using it, and here's a nod to the Equalizers in the Blade/Trouble/Trick/Wen cameo, and here's a way to work in the Faceless Lords when my protag isn't. um. what she is in canon, let's say. (there's at least one, possibly 2-3 more coming >:3)
I've been plotting out/sitting on Briony's revelations for a while now, and I was so excited to finally get to cover that in this chapter. It was supposed to be in the last chapter, before I realized how LONG it would have made what was already a beast of a chapter. And if I'd put that in there things would have gone a different direction and Ryn/Red might not have gotten their Moment while he was patching up her hand. Since I'd been sitting on that scene since I started writing this AU, OBVIOUSLY it had to happen. xD So Briony and Darius got shifted back a chapter and got to have their 4k word conversation/info dump without me wincing too much about the length.
And yeah. That cliffhanger. *cough* I'm equal parts sorry and cackling like a banshee for that. It has pretty much always been the plan. Gotta up those stakes for Ryn, in a couple different ways. I have PLANS for how that's gonna resolve and it's going to be so much fun to write.
I love the whole Circle crew dynamic and the camaraderie and teasing and matchmaking and everything, it's a joy to write. I'm definitely going to write at least Pan and Neon's visit during the gala as a side vignette at some point(Pan POV, I can just tell he'll be fun as a narrator xD), and there's a couple things I'd love to do Red's POV on for this bc he was having Emotions.
#tlbt#putting in in the fic tag so i can read your lovely words whenever i wish :D#seriously tysm <333333#love that i deliberately went ''sure tall redhead bookworm is usually my type but i'm gonna avoid him and romance OTHER PEOPLE in this if''#when i first played shoh#and then failed HARD at that bc red's basically designed as me-bait xD#charming friendly 6'4'' redhead bookworm with wanderlust and a warhammer and i thought i could *RESIST HIM*?!?!?!? more the fool i
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gonna lose it /guarantee
bnha 394 leak rant in tags
#the more i think about it the more i'm certain this is bait#and#i so desperately want to be proved wrong#but. you know#i'd rather it just have veered away from romance altogether#damnit i want the characters to find themselves and not need that plotline#but i feel like we're past the point of no return here#and that was the closest thing to a confession I've seen where it could still be announced as platonic#all the art of them looking so fucking in love with each other#if it's just some twisted lesbian fanservice#like the history is all THERE#it frustrates me so much that it's not obvious and i really hope it's confirmed one way or another and doesn't fucking drag on
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