#nessa rants

[astraysimp]

Hi friends! I am here to tell you about my shop! I run it myself-doing it all, designing, printing, producing, packing and shipping- through Etsy! As of now, I sell stickers BUT I do want to expand to sell stationery and keychains in the future! I have a variety of cute stickers on there-and will be releasing so many more and there WILL be skzoo stickers! Anyone views, shares, support or orders are so appreciated by me and my lil happy heart! 🩷💕🫶🏻🥺

Here are a few of my designs 🫶🏻

[nessaiscute]

the biggest reason why ya novels should have more trans mcs cause it makes way more sense why in the love triagels two very powerful immortals would suddely want a human girl. like a cis girl who hardly has any issues is not worth the attention of powerful fey or other powerful beings. but a trans woman who has to fight for people just to respect her name, and the fact her very existace is being voted out of existacnce would cause a deity to have intrest in her, it would also make the mcs kindness and love make way more sense and come from a place where the diety wouldent laugh at this teenage girl for beig like ‘you deserve to live’ it wouldent come from naivity, it would come from actual hope.

[nessaiscuteandtrans]

the trans woman urge to get seperation anxiety when it comes to her blajah and not want to do anything until you get to see her again

[nessaiscute]

omgs i can relate to this

sent an ass pic to a guy visiting from england and got the most unwaveringly british response

[monpetitange]

Since the last week of november ive been busy almost everyday. Ive either helped at home with Christmas preparations or ive been working. Its been alot and I havent really had a free day. And since me and my boyfriend have different scheduals we havent really had time to talk, or well its probably mostly on my end ;v; but this have sadly let to me overthinking alot... Like I feel a bit worried when he havent text me in hrs bc i start to think his mad at me or i annoyed him, which isnt true. And whenever i wanna call i get cold feets. Like this weekend where i really wanted to talk to him or watch a movie, i got gold feet bc i saw him play wow and cod and I didnt want to bother him, again this is all on me bc my brain and I arent friends. But im working on it, im just very scared to annoy people or make them feel like im a burden to them ;v; so here i am in bed, regretting that i never called him ;v;💔on the bright side i will see him in just 3-4days but still!

[barbwillbrb]

Oh ho ho NO.

Kinkshaming in r/okbuddybaldur?

But of a rant under the cut.

Shared my Yurgir piece over on reddit because r/okbuddybaldur is a pretty cool place to share your silly arts and I just wanted to gush about the big demon man with the nice voice.

Instead… cue the Nessa jokes. And it wouldn’t be so bad if it didn’t seem like some of the jokes were coming off as “judgy.”

Look guys… I get it. I get the insinuation. He drugged the displacer beast. The dialogue is sus. Giggle giggle haha. Maybe he screwed the beast. Maybe he didn’t.

Let me make this very clear: there are honestly few characters in this game who haven’t done something pretty fucked up (for some of these characters, too, it isn’t a matter of guesswork— they explicitly did these things). Let me point out just a couple of popular ones:

- Raphael: Everything with Hope. I personally read a lot of SA connotations into that relationship.

- Astarion: Luring/kidnapping children for his master. I don’t care how he framed it, it is fucked.

- Dark Urge (specially default Dragonborn): Canonically had eaten people and may have engaged in necrophilia (still playing my first DU character so not sure, but I see it being a continuous debate topic). Regardless, they definitely have necrophiliac tendencies/thoughts that are very clearly stated

Now, I love all three of the characters mentioned above. But if we are gonna start pointing fingers and mocking people for the characters they like, insinuating there is some moral failing behind them for liking that character, you best be ready to back up your fave.

[vancsssa]

god why can't i like characters a normal amount

[nessaiscute]

It's simple they don't want mlw to exist cause they're still in 2012 where they think all straight people are evil

Transmasc Person: "I am a straight guy, since I am a guy who loves women."

Toxic Queer People™: "Ew, straight guys are all predators, since only non-queer people are straight! Anyways, discrimination against straight men isn't real, even when they're a minority."

Transmasc Person: "Okay, I am a lesbian, since even if I'm not a woman, I still have a connection to womanhood."

Toxic Queer People™: "Lesbian is woman-only! If you are in any way a man or not a woman, you are not a lesbian! Transmascs can never be lesbians or have a connection to womanhood/a lack of manhood! Stop invading the lesbian community!"

I dare you to make it make sense.

[simulation-machine]

Still working on the Orson house buuuuut figured I'd share something I didn't really explain yet. Sooo, remember this conversation? Welp, off-screen, Stormy totally did it. She got a hysterectomy, something vagina-havers who wanna unsubscribe from vagina-having really struggle to do if it's for fertility reasons. Here's a cisgender-centered but still very informative article about it on Teen Vogue. It's honestly incredibly fucked up to me that anyone, regardless of gender identity or reason, is often denied this type of procedure because what if it makes some peepee sad? Literally though. I once dated a cis man who was able to get a vasectomy at the age of 23 but several friends of mine, trans and cis, have had to fight for this fairly basic right denied because of often some hypothetical cisgender man's fee-fees about it. Because what if your future husband wants babies, or more babies if you already have any? :( Ridiculous. The real world is such trash about this, at least in the USA (and let's be fair, probably a butt-ton of other places too). Fortunately, the Sims don't reside in the real world, so I decided she was able to find a nice gynecologic surgeon to do it for her once Lou was weaned off breastfeeding. The stitches aren't quite out yet in these pictures, but eventually you'll maybe get to see this scar heal and pale overtime.

This right here is why Stormy is probably one of my most favorite heirs I've ever played. She's decisive, with strong convictions, she voices what she does and does not want, and hopefully this trait gets passed down the bloodline <3

[wastingf00d]

Nessa Barrett's music hits so different when you have an ed💀

[avid-idiot]

Day 426 of begging her to leave him

[astraysimp]

Me and my snac-kzoo protect/drawing series

[nessaiscute]

this is gonna be very tmi

But im so sick of being forced to be a top for people who wanna sleep with me, honestly it fucking pisses me off. It might be a sterotype but i wanna be topped, i want to be domnaited. i want all of that but it feels like im never gonna get it cause everyone into a trans woman just wants to me to top them. people have such werid hangups bout penis', i have the right to be topped. and im not hot enough for one of thoes mommy trans gfs, honestly im struggling.

[nessaiscuteandtrans]

heres something transphobes dont realize bout most trans people especially the older ones of us. I like being trans. I dont want to be cis i don't want to be like most women i LOVE being trans i love being a woman i love my girlfriend i love my friends, i don't cry myself to sleep wishing I was something I'm not, no matter how much you scream bout biology you can't change the fact I'm trans and I'm a woman, Im pretty im a woman and i dont regret a second of it i love the fact i CHOOSE to be a woman even if you murdered me tomorrow Im a woman and no gravestone or some old guy centruies later will change that i dont care what other people think

Im trans and proud

[nessa-writes-stuff]

Omg jenna i could care less about what meet ups you do and what you do at them im flipping underaged and even if i wasn't stop following me i don't know why all of these nsfw blogs do this

[monpetitange]

So i feel defeated at this point. Im leaving for Norway tomorrow to celebrate Christmas. Then we are celebrating new year in Sweden. And I felt super excited for it, but rn i feel pretty down. Because it turns out my bf do not wanna celebrate new year in Sweden and idk. I feel down. Because my family for super excited to see him again and here he is like slowly regretting it.