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d3m0l1t10n-lvrs · 10 months ago

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Idk if I'm ashamed or honored by the fact that I share a birthday with Barbie

#I'm both her biggest fan and greatest hater #like if you talk shit about her i will defend her with my LIFE #but she's gone downhill. a lot.#miss Barbra roberts get your shit together #btw if you don't collect dolls you probably don't know what I'm talking about #but basically barbie dolls are horrible quality now #and it's all molded on clothes and shit #and shes just not slaying like she used to #like just go and look up old barbies vs current babies #The magic is GONE #anyways that's my rant #diss barbie and I'll rip you a new one #but then immediately after I'll start shit talking her #my relationship with her is weird ik

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mioakem · 11 months ago

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Jason grace had two separate potentials to be apart of an absolutely gut wrenching, soulmate coded, beautiful, mind numbingly poetic romance but instead we got jiper

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thelilylav · 6 months ago

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The fact that Briar is listed as one of Rosabella's best friends in her profile but Briar's profile barely mentions her..

#oh they could be so angsty if mattel hadn't forgotten that they were related #i'm sure someone's said this before but whatever i think abt it too often #and yes ik rosabella is mentioned among briar's friends later but it's abt proximity ok #this is also partially bc mattel refused to give rosabella fleshed out characterisation and other friends #but i'm ignoring that too bc the angst potential of this is so much more fun #ever after high #eah #briar beauty #rosabella beauty #like rosabella constantly protesting bc she cares that much and her friends forgetting #and then her profile #idk something abt her always caring too much and it making her come off as overly sensitive #vs other ppl thinking she's a bit out there #am i projecting? possibly BUT SHE'S ONE OF MY FAVOURITE CHARACTERS IM ALLOWED TO #also briar probably has a hella weird relationship w her aunt and i need to see them in a room together #especially after briar goes off script cause her parents wouldn't have ever been ok w that #but her aunt? who's supposed to love everyone no matter what? who briar is probably super distant towards cause it's implied her mom #doesn't get along w her sister? oh u just know they both cried when she visited that day #n e way been meaning to make this post for a while and keep forgetting so

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faaun · 7 months ago

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i feel rly sad and conflicted abt one of my best friends on earth but idk who to ask for advice bc i usually would have consulted her in this situation lmao

#shes cool and i dont want to lose her and i know Logically i love her but atm i feel so strange towards her #and idk what to do abt it bc i know in the past ive like...over-communicated a lot and over the last few yrs ive been trying to not do that #bc thats an anxious impulse i think .so like . self control #AND IMPORTANTLY . i may actually be the problem here ?? ok again i love her i dont want to lose her etc but basically ive noticed a pattern #which is that whenever she gets a bf/a man (even fwb) in her life she basically stops talking to me and the limited interactions we do have #become abt him. and while i support her it is acc too much. like we barely talked while she was w her ex bf until he became abusive and #then we talked a lottt like all our convos understandably were abt him . and then when they broke up we kept hanging out so i didnt rly see #the pattern there but still she seemed to centre men a lot in her life like sbe was excited to not date and find herself and then #immediately afterwards started seeing this other guy with whom shes basically in a relationship now #hes nice and all but like . HES ALL SHE TALKS ABT . actually we barely talk atp but when we do its abt him #she sends me reels sometimes but its all abt being jealous abt him etc . and shes bi but she said she doesnt like the idea of dating women #bc theyre scary . and i thought she was kidding in the ohhh women r so beautiful that theyre intimidating way but no she was being entirely #fr . she explained jts bc she was bullied by a girl in the past but like...bro ur ex bf literally abused you like surely you see men are #capable of just as much harm? but obvs who she dates is her own choice . but anyway she has consistently made plans w me then cancelled the #like an hr before . or asked to call me and then proceeded to not do so . when i ask her to meet/call its the same she just doesnt respond #or she cancels ? and while i understand anxiety sucks it feels SO WEIRD STILL . maybe im the problem slightly too bc ik i have no right to #feel this way but it rubs me the wrong way that ik she has so much time to spend w him/calls him all the time despite meeting him just a fe #months ago whereas i just have to like ...be ok w not actually having talked to her for a long time #its gotten to the point where when she says do you wanna meet/call i automatically respond yes and then just assume it doesnt happen . like #there have been several times over the past few months i double booked plans over when we were supposed to call/meet bc i was sure she #wouldnt show up and ive been right each time #like she sends me texts that she misses me or im her best friend etc etc occasionally and then acts rly . contrary to that ?#ive talked to her abt the issue w cancelling on me twice btw. when i was still dating the situationship person she would get sooo mad at #them for not respecting my time and shed tell me i deserve better etc etc and then like . she doesnt seem to respect my time at all #anyway she said she understand and she admits to like...being flaky etc but does nothing abt it #and its not like i can tell her to stop caring so much abt men bc we sorta had convos like that b4 she got This involved w this guy #and apparently it did nothing and the last thing i want is to police her relationships or get in her way #its just AUSHD AUGH #anyway i rly miss her it just doesnt feel the same at all anymore

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nonokoko13 · 11 months ago

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Call me Mahoro because I also think her brother is hot af Btw the plot twist in this series is that Arajin is going take his crush last name but not because of her. Sorry for the spoilers peace and love in the planet Earth

And could somebody make this Marito teddy bear real? It's a basic and essential need atp

#bucchigiri?!#/jk #look her brocon thing is weird and uncomfortable but she can be funny as hell #can you blame her for liking Marito. Look at him #his design is so cool #and so it is his personality and caring relationship with Outa and how clingy abd touchy he is to people he likes (Ara-teen)#and the nicknames are cute too #and his voice too #move Arajin is my turn #Unpopular opinion: Arajin is also good. Ik he's an ass to Matakara and it's probably completely undeserved and uncalled for but #he has some of the funniest reactions in this show. He's pathetic like a wet kicked cat waiting outside my door to let him enter #he made awful decisions and all to get laid and tbh him letting the hormones do the reasoning it's the most teenager thing ever #Most of us had been annoying af and horrible at processing information and taking hints or making important decisions #He's relatable for all the wrong reasons and he's very real for that. If you dislike/hate him I get it though. Very understandable 👍#god I wanna talk about why I think he's acting like that with his childhood friend so bad but these tags are already too much #anyway I advocate for Arateen rights and wrongs. Also for the Bucchigiri teddy bear collection #mahoro jin #arajin tomoshibi #marito jin #Mariteen #jin marito #jin mahoro #tomoshibi arajin #♡ — shut up noko #woah imagine it turns out to be true Arajin will be Arajin Jin. Wild stuff. Lmao even

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kavehater · 6 months ago

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Chappel Roan saying she’s sad she’s demisexual and then there’s me being aroace as a whole like don’t you think I’m even more sad 😭

#not saying she’s not allowed to feel sad at all #just makes me think about myself LOL #I hate being aroace it’s like everyone’s part of a secret club I will never be a part of #and that people don’t tend to understand and if they do they never uphold that fact #like I actually have thrown up before from the concept of being in a relationship because it’s horrifying #and disgusting to me in a practical sense #like I don’t want to throw up every time I start thinking about those things I just want to be normal #and not panic like a relationship sounds like even worse than a death sentence #ppl think aroace is cute and problem free but it’s literally so uncomfortable and inconvenient when you’re in a world which a) doesn’t #understand wth aroace is b) doesn’t respect it at all c) has shit povs on what friendship is and how it can be more fulfilling than somethin #and d) how badly it impacts some ;-; like ik it sounds easy but try telling yourself omg I want to have a forever bestie #but then said forever bestie will never end up truly putting you first because they’d have a partner who will be their number one #and as usual you won’t even be second place you will be last like always #because I’ve noticed that the moment ppl get a partner suddenly they become their forever bestie role and then I can’t have that cause it #freaks me out and disgusts me all at once so I’m literally just cursed with forever feeling lonely and not meaning anywhere near as much to #someone who you wish could even look your way the way you do to them …#honestly by the day these reminders make me feel more and more aplatonic but it’ll simultaneously always feel like a hole in my heart #because apparently being aroace is like being some weird person and some freak #and not in the 𝒻𝓇ℯ𝒶𝓀𝓎 type of connotation LMAO I mean just plain freak #and then that loneliness will always accumulate and accumulate and accumulate until I physically cannot handle it anymore or I take matters #into my own hands and just off with her head to myself LMAO #dora daily #and that is why despite aroace being cool to me it’s just not placed in an environement which makes it cool #as those assholes tend to say oh meh meh meh you never struggled girl … we’re in the 21st century every person in the lgbt community is #living the life dating who they want and being with who they want #but allegedly it is but a crime I can’t like anyone and that nobody fucking listens to me when I say I have an attraction deficit #and that they take it upon their hands to define what I’m attracted to or head canon me as whatever they are #I swear I’m not even fucking worth that shit just leave me alone 😭#I promise like if I was with somebody they will regret the day they were born by being with me LOL I am not all that in fact me being aroace #is saving them from torture ☠️ anyways ! rant over :3

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forgechildofheph · 5 months ago

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Is it possible to still like a character but dislike/feel iffy about their canon relationship/portrayal?

#Percabeth shippers pls dont come at me #I like annabeth ok #I just feel weird reading the books and how she's portayed at times #I dont want to be jumped #I just think they both need to grow more as people themselves before getting into a relationship #theyre kids who never had a chance being kids #and theres healthier ways to show affection and it was cute when I was younger but rereading the books now just fills me up with dread #i just think they both need therapy first #gods i feel like a sniper is aiming at my head #just to reiterate: I like Annabeth #but not Percabeth #I don't like any of the ships in general tbf #like the part where they talk about what Percy will do for college while in Tartarus #that one was sweet #judo flip and all the “punching” was unnecessary #And the canonically lowering his self esteem #and the healthy dose of fear in that one kane book i forgot the name of #and why can't the “punch” be a playful “nudge” instead?#Idk I just see myself in Annabeth a lot but when I see how she's portrayed w her actions I'm horrified #because it takes a lot of hurt to be gentle and ik Annabeth is a sweetheart at her core #Cerberus in book 1 Her dream to be w her family in book 2 so on and so forth #like shes strong and soft at the same time but why is the soft part not that shown? Thats part of her complexity #gods i love annabeth chase #but Percabeth????#There's a lot of good fandom written percabeth #but canon Percabeth????#I wish that sometimes her character was written about more instead of just being a generic stronk female lead #yeah i said it #she's more of a strong female romantic character than “Annabeth Chase” herself #better off as friends and I'll die on this hill

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milfygerard · 16 days ago

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Whether I'm gonna be your wife vs Is a one-night or a wife

lavender haze clears honestly looking back on taylors career and how she wrote abt marriage that song is kind of crazyyy to think about

#ask #anonymous #taylor swift #ik it was a little cope and theres a lot going on but #putting out a song straight up rejecting the idea that she Has to get married and obsessively tracking her relationship #because what is she if she isnt a woman desperate to fulfill her Womanly Duties #is CRAZY #she just said it!#she said you guys are being fucking weird and misogynistic regardless of my actual feelings on marriage

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leapinarmadillo · 1 month ago

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ohhhh. i forgot that people used to say michael was getting surgeries in order to look like diana ross. ugh. i don't think there's anything to that but............ugh.

#that's tough #maybe i'm wrong but i get the impression she and michael never really REALLY talked about their situation #which. diana...... maybe she didn't realize how serious it was for him but... idk. she did seem kind of uncomfortable about that #like i feel like she knew he felt a way about her that didn't fit with the maternal relationship #i think it would have been responsible of her to put him in his place if she wasn't interested in that too #which maybe she WAS but felt like it couldn't happen #either way... you know him well you know he's not normal you know he's got weird attachment issues #a lot of this is based on rumors and My Feelings i realize that. i'm just thinkin #i thought jermaine described it in an interesting way. that michael had this 'fascination' with diana #'she was this dream for him... he had this ongoing fascination with her... he loved her'#ok should i go into queer michael speculation mode. well i'm always there lbr #..........so #1. gay men obsessed and fascinated with diana ross. many MANY such cases #2. looking up to her as a mentor and an idol. ik i just said i don't believe the rumors that he was trying to look like her #but that's just. of course that's a persistent rumor #they had similar roles within their groups. ofc michael grew up covering the supremes and even Being diana a j5 skit #huh. michael Becoming one of his older female idols and friends. where have we seen that before #i'm just gonna say .#i have no idea who he truly wanted to be. who he WAS deep inside #but i think he was inspired by a lot of artists especially women and he Did want to emulate them AND he had a natural draw #towards feminine things/expression #no matter how deep or far that went for him i also know that he recognized his privilege in being a male artist #that comment about madonna 'well she's a woman...' which people cite as a moment of misogyny #not at all. that was a moment of putting himself into a woman's shoes and understanding her position and potential jealousy #(i'll defend THAT part of it. the 'witch' comment well there ya go there's your misogyny lol. rest assured!)#whatever i'm not truthing in any way. i love the topic of gender and there's MUCH mj gender discussion to be had

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wildevenusian · 3 months ago

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i just don’t understand. why say ur ready to talk if you aren’t?

can u believe this post is what got me to reach tag limit

#vaugepostimg on main about an irl don’t mind me #i just. am feeling sad bcus i have been trying to keep my distance and respect the space they said they needed. and then they reached out to #me for their book club and said we should chat and i got excited! i miss my friend of course i got excited #still let them take the lead. i want them to be comfortable. they said they’d lmk what day they were free #and then proceeded to ghost me for like. almost two weeks??#(it was 10 days but !!! still!!! almost 2 weeks from them suggesting i come to book club which would’ve inherently necessitated an irl talk #and then after all that yesterday said they actually weren’t ready which. hurted #tbf i knew something was up after like 2 days of them not replying so it’s not like i was fully caught off guard it just really hurt #and like i feel weird bcus our social circles are really overlapped and i spent a lot of time with them last winter and i had thought #that would happen again this winter. we would swim together a lot and i consistently went to their house dinners #bcus if i care about you i show up! and i’m understanding ! bcus i am patient and kind person and as a triple taurus i’m not tryna rush ever #especially when it comes to people’s emotions ??? especially if someone has told me i hurt them???? like ik im an autistic lesbian but #despite popular conceptions on that particular identity. im not fucking evil ????? if you ask for space i will give you space !!!!!#and like when it comes to emotions and conflict i’m blunt but i’m caring and it takes a lot for me to be disinfranchised by people #or relationships. so i’m not saying i don’t want to still be her friend #i’m just. noticing behaviors #they did tell me that they were very avoidant in conflict and i told them i’m very much not and like. now that i’m on the receiving end of i #idk what to do!! i’m not gonna chase her down like they’re grown!! and again!!! if you ask for space i’m going to respect that!!!#and like honestly. i’m happy she at least gave me the curtesy of saying they weren’t ready to talk even if it took her mad long to do it #so like. who tf knows when we’ll talk. if ever. probably when she wants the validation of our friendship if it even happens at all #bcus again. she reached out not to reconnect and clear the air but to check if i still wanted to come to her club she was starting #ik in earlier conversations she was worried no one would come but ig she found people. which like good for her tbh but to be honest i feel #discarded?? i’m feeling like i’m failing to not project too much so i gotta stop but idk man i’m just feeling weird about it all #and then i had the thought today of like. is this what i want in a friendship? someone who goes back and forth abt whether or not i’m worth #which again. kinda wasn’t expecting that bcus we spent so much time together last autumn/winter/spring like. many times per week!!!#so the idea of not being her friend all of a sudden?? feels fucjing weird to think about #but like? i don’t want to feel this way this is what i hate about west coast/white people conflict resolution!! there fucking isn’t any!!!#and i can’t deal with that! i can’t spend my life with people who aren’t going to engage with me as a person who cares about them #humans are fallible creatures and were only here on earth for so long so why are we wasting time here? what is the point of all this ???????#but then the guilt and shame say i deserve it all and at that point i just need to stop so. i’m gonna stop now lol

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coffincoitus · 1 year ago

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every time someone (or even myself) jokes about the "it's not dead it just went to live at the farm<3" classic lie, I remember the time when I was a kid and my family hid the fact that my grandfather had died for like a whole month by saying he was at the hospital recuperating 😭

#i found out the truth bc my older sister thought I was asleep and began to talk about him being dead over the phone with a friend #i think till this day lying in that bed waiting for her to finish the call and leave #and keeping my breathing even and trying not to move or make a sound while processing everything I was hearing #was one of the most surreal moments of my life lol #it completely shaped my relationship with grief i think (in the sense that i dont. grieve that is)#anyway. it was weird back then but now it's just kinda funny jshdjs #ik ive posted about this before but every now and again I'll remember it and chuckle a little

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birthdayplant · 8 months ago

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realizing bass player had a hidden motive behind our 6 years of friendship the entire time

#they had an incentive the entire time and just wanted to hit bc i felt so objectified when we started dating #they said they spent a lot of time fantasizing about me and idealizing me and that should’ve been my first sign to bounce #entirely rushed the beginning of the relationship and got mad at me for changing my mind ab wanting to have sex #amongst a bunch of other red flags i completely overlooked #and ljke ik i said i wanted to remain friends after breaking up with them #but last night i felt so disgusted thinking about them that idk anymore #i’ve been avoiding her but like i think i should call her out bc she did make me incredibly uncomfortable #don’t date musicians in your city yall they’re all weird

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heyitsphoenixx · 9 months ago

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