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lovemyromance · 7 months ago

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I have a little rant lol.

In general, the entire acotar fandom is immature and toxic (I honestly think its gotten so bad since nesta's book came out). Most of these people are grown women and men arguing back and forth about characters and ships. It's bad enough that its been going on for years that its sad. "I'll laugh at the elriels or gwnyriels or the eluciens if their ship isnt endgame" Do the people who say that realize how embarrassing they are? Many people are going to have good and terrible theories but bashing people and harassing people over fictional characters is just immature. I also hate when they say "its that [insert ship] the one who is being the most toxic and weird" NO. its all of you. None of us know who is going to be endgame no matter the theories you have or anything. YOU DONT KNOW. So, please, can we stop this already? its getting annoying and weird. This fandom has made it incredibly difficult to know who the next book is going to be about when its right in front of their eyes. Sarah has not made it impossible to know who the next will be about and I think thats why shes been so quiet about because everyone is being so aggressive about this ship war. I just know the moment she announces the couple, she'll get a ton of hate when its not even her fault because people love to twist her words on paper and thinks she's probably doing that but it could mean a whole other thing. Yall have let theories get to your head and twisted words so much that I think it's incredibly unhealthy for all of you to be acting this way. Stick with who you ship or love and of course, you can have beautiful theories, but toxicity is not necessary. No need to go back and forth about who is the real "endgame".

I mean yeah this fandom is insane. Sometimes as I'm aggressively typing out a reply to an anon who calls me a delusional psychotic bitch bc I made an Elriel post they didn't like, I genuinely just blink and think what the fuck am I doing?

It's partly why I didn't want get involved. At all.

I still try to keep to myself. Only even entertain the antis if they come to my posts. I stick to my own tags.

But there are people - and you're right they are from both sides, as I have also said multiple times on my blog -that go out of their way to start a fight on posts they know aren't meant for them.

These are the people that are making this fandom so toxic. Like I understand, no one person can be responsible for a fandom's collective behavior, but you can be responsible for yourself at the very least.

I have always made it clear what i believe acceptable behavior for discourse in this fandom is and isn't. It's not something I can personally enforce for others, but I can follow myself.

It really is crazy how out of hand this fandom has gotten because other people can't control themselves. If I see an anti Elriel post I don't like (and I don't follow any tags, actually, so I see ALL the ships posting), I have the self control to ignore it and keep scrolling.

This fandom has been overrun by childish adults, intent on being louder than the rest. It's crazy how many disgusting things have been said over just fictional characters, it makes me wonder what these people are like in real life.

At the end of the day - there's going to be a book and one side is going to be proven right. It's not worth all these vitriol that's been spewed across all sides just to "be right". I at least, would be perfectly fine to read an Elucien book. If Elriel does happen, I'm certainly not going to lord it over anyone's head and laugh.

Not worth my time. Not worth my energy.

#elriel #acotar

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listen-to-the-inner-walrus · 1 year ago

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I don't want to be the bearer of bad news, but this is pseudoscience. Snopes has broken the article down here, but brief explanation from a psych graduate who hasnt done this stuff in detail for a few years:

for one, you cant test for tetrachromacy with this test.

the resolution of the colour spectrum will never be good enough on a phone or computer to test for it.

also, this just isnt how you test for tetrachromacy.

[this is mentioned in the snopes article]

for two, so much of this is worthless fluff.

how you see colour can affect how you dress but not to the extent this article suggests. it vastly understates autonomy.

just because you can see the "full range" of colours doesnt mean you hate yellow. thats just stupid.

for three, these percentages are bullshit.

we dont have a fixed percentages for how many tetrachromats; percentages vary wildly from 15% to 50% of (cis) women and 8% of (cis) men. other percentages ive seen are 2% or 12%.

the most favoured theory for why someone is born with four cones in their eyes is that they are born with XX chromosomes to a colourblind parent with XY chromosomes. i dont feel like i could effectively translate the science behind it so if youre interested, i think this paper explains it well.

also all of this is before we distinguish between functional and non-functional tetrachromats. the vast vast vast vast majority of people with four cones do not experience colour differently to trichromats.

i can pretty much guarantee that anyone reading this is not a functional tetrachromat or a "true tetrachromat"

for five, i wasnt speaking in hyperbole.

there is a single functional tetrachromat identified in the world through decades of study.

heres some news articles about it. [x] [x]

so yeah, sorry to spoil the fun but yall arent true tetrachromats.

diana derval, who wrote the article and made the test, simply hopped onto a popular topic (the black blue gold white dress) because she works in "neuromarketing"

(which is just one of those words that doesnt mean anything. neuro means relating to the nerves or nervous system so shes somehow using that for advertising ¯\_(ツ)_/¯)

she wrote this article essentially as if it was an advert because thats her job. she also just lied the whole time.

btw for anyone wondering how i, who is basically a layman in this topic, noticed that this was pseudoscience; the red flags for me were the fluff in the article (clothes or the colour yellow), the percentages being 25% 25% and 50% because youre just not gonna see a normal distribution in this topic, the article being originally posted on linkedin, and using a popular meme (not always a red flag but still).

obviously i did recognise that the percentages seemed weird but this isnt my field so id probably have ignored that without the other red flags. i did also try her test and got over 39 colours which was the tipping point for me to looking into it further.

25% of the people have a 4th cone and see colors as they are

Given the sudden interest for the color of dresses and vision, here some of the fascinating findings we did recently.

The color nuances we see depend on the number and distribution of cones (=color receptors) in our eye. You can check this rainbow: how many color nuances do you count?

You see less than 20 color nuances: you are a dichromats, like dogs, which means you have 2 types of cones only. You are likely to wear black, beige, and blue. 25% of the population is dichromat.

You see between 20 and 32 color nuances: you are a trichromat, you have 3 types of cones (in the purple/blue, green and red area). You enjoy different colors as you can appreciate them. 50% of the population is trichromat.

You see between 33 and 39 colors: you are a tetrachromat, like bees, and have 4 types of cones (in the purple/blue, green, red plus yellow area). You are irritated by yellow, so this color will be nowhere to be found in your wardrobe. 25% of the population is tetrachromat.

You see more than 39 color nuances: come on, you are making up things! there are only 39 different colors in the test and probably only 35 are properly translated by your computer screen anyway :)

It is highly probable that people who have an additional 4th cone do not get tricked by blue/black or white/gold dresses, no matter the background light ;)

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#sorry for ruining the fun yall #but its pseudoscience

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ilyas-cori · 4 months ago

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mind drift 2

sitting on the ground with my back against the wall

smoking outside a concert hall between acts

analyzing peoples behavior's

a 40 year old man sits beside me, he is balding and is holding on to the very few follicles of hair he has left. i like to see his hair as resembling him being at a concert to feel like a 20 year old again. I came up with a lot of theories of why would he be at a random concert alone, then few minutes go by and he gets a call at 10:30ish pm. From what i can pick up, he has been waiting for someone since 8pm and i could just hear the desperation in his voice, so i figured it must have been a woman he was waiting for. Because if there is one thing i learned from men in society is they would do anything and everything if it means being touched by a woman or being seen by a woman. So i stopped analyzing the guy that is so clearly in his midlife crises and i lit a cigarette, i tried to give the person i was with a bit of insight of what i was thinking about because this whole time i have been completely silent. To no surprise the person seemed unamused at my thoughts and remarks that i had made at people, he chose to reply with ha that true or yeah followed with the usual fake laughter as if i was a comedian testing his jokes to his friend. I moved on and continued being silent and every time the person asked if i was okay i would just say i was tired and that works instantly (its funny how people notice you have a lot on your mind but you can get them off your back easily by acting a little and saying you're tired). I felt shame for every man and woman, boy and girl there everyone and i mean everyone was there to show off their body and outfits as if they were a lion seeking to mate, using their bodies as sex dolls in a sense, they reek of a smell only a few people can notice, i am one of the unlucky few. Whether its the men dancing around the foreigners and while dancing they would look at the foreigners to seek approval and if the foreigners made as much as a eye contact they would get the approval they were looking for and continue moving their bodies in a disgusting fashion that is full of sexual tension. Or the women that are more complex and come in different kinds that are there to see how many disgusting apes would look at them or make sexual remarks about them because this (in a sick and twisted way) would help with their self-esteem, you can pretty easily notice them by how they keep making eye-contact with the apes like their signaling them to turn on. But other women i feel sorry for, the ones that are there to prove to themselves they can wear and do whatever they want or in a different caliber the same ones but they are trying to get comfortable with their bodies because in their past one or few many people made comments about their fat arms or their big feet or or or..... so on and so forth. One of the many reasons i hate humans is we have this idea that we need approval from people whether we hate them or not as long as their higher up in the societal beauty standards then their comments are more valid then our own, it can reach a dangerous point if a person can not break that mindset and set their own beauty standards. Everyone and i mean everyone can rock whatever look they have, whether they have fat arms, big noses, big feet, big hands, small dicks, small ass, small tits whatever society made them to believe that that would be a fault, they can easily make it they're pretty side, they just have to love them selves and not care about anyone's opinions (easier said then done i know). on the topic of opinions i like to believe other peoples opinions come from inside our heads thus leading us to be ashamed of our looks. I like to admire beauty in all forms, and nothing is prettier than someone confident and beautifying their natural looks. Sending love love love to everyone and every-thing but on a real note i want to kill yall humans and make you emotionless and full of ideas that can never harm us.

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antiloreolympus · 3 years ago

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10 Anti LO Asks

1. im sorry, yall cant tell me RS is some peak of writing when she can't even keep a tone consistent in a single episode. one second its a horrific sequence of violence and abuse for shock value, then the next second theyre making slapstick "jokes" and making goofy expressions. its good to have moments of comedy and lighter episodes to break up the tension, but those tonal whiplashes cant be forced together in nearly every episode. it just gives away rachel doesn't know what she's doing.

2. IDK why RS sounds so angry in her break post? Yeah it's very obvious it was Webtoons making her to do it but them finally showing some care for their creators to not burn out isn't a bad thing? I doubt the writing will improve or the art will go back to its former standard once it comes back, its too late for that now and her former style has been gone since 2019, but having a break isn't a bad idea. I know she isn't used to actually being told what to do by Webtoons is right in this scenario.

From OP: So, from another webtoon creator on twitter, the Remarried Empress creator went on break and only got like 1/10 of their income when they came back. Other webtoon creators were also saying that while on break, their income is basically non-existent. This might not be the reason RS wouldn’t want a break but this is a pretty understandable reason, especially since it’ll affect her livelihood.

3. I don't think an asexually budded kid would have hades lusting after them, i think it would be bad in the fact hades clearly only sees family through biological means. the bad dynamic would be in he wouldnt accept the child because theyre not what he wants because theyre not from him physically. if that wasnt the case he would have doted after young thanatos like a prince since he would be the child he never had, not mistreat and abuse him like how hades actually treated him as a literal child.

4. it should also be pointed out stuff like PJO and Hades game almost entirely get critiqued because they actually implement being diverse and inclusive and even (gasp) have main characters and relationship be BIPOC and LGBTQ+, so it's usually pissy white kids hating on them, meanwhile LO critics are the exact opposite in being overwhelming BIPOC queer women and people calling out its main gross, status quo protecting choices and regrssive ideals. i'm just saying their critiques are not the same.

5. LMAOOOO guys what if the "dread queen" persephone we see isnt actually her, but the asexuality budded heir she makes for hades? like RS just puts all P's negative traits in this kid (Melinoe maybe? she is the goddess of nightmares) and has her be the dread bringer while P gets to stay the uwu precious bean queen, and its just a fake out of her "daughter" being confused for her because theyre clones of each other. the panel stays canon w/o actually developing P. thats my fan theory now.

6. tbh if LO started out with the more simple style there would still be art critique but not to such a degree now. we saw how much effort it used to have, so to see such a stark decline since then opens it up way more to criticism for it, because we do know what it once was, and it seems both pure laziness and burn out has caused it to entirely go away. even rs' non lo art now is all in the more current rushed style, so its safe to say that old style is just not coming back, sorry to say :(

7. i feel like a lot of the stans dont get that a lot of frustration at LO is the fact its a very subpar product, especially now, made by an entitled white woman who constantly whines about "haters" who gets everything handed to her for her mediocre work (which is often the work of her underpaid team), meanwhile many more talented, hardworking, and diverse creators (like her own co-workers) who are making so much better products are left in the dirt. How is that not frustrating?

8. I feel like the anon who likes Thanatos and Minthe being likeable and the anon talking about Persephone never being able to stand up for herself/ never being punished go well together.

Minthe and Thanatos do face consequences for their actions. Hermes doing more souls behind Hades back made Thaantos look worse on paper and Hades chewed his ass out for it. Thanatos went to Helios and was burned. We even see Thanatos get nervous when Daphne talks about a Persephone. He’s aware of his actions and what may happen.

Minthe is also aware of her faults actions etc. after she slaps hades she says she needs to apologize, she knows what she did was wrong to Persephone when she sees it on the camera and freaks out. She even wonders why Persephone hasn’t ratted her out yet until it’s used as black mail. Minthe apologizes to hades right before she knows they’re gonna fight about the break up. She even sulks after her fight with Thetis but doesn’t blame anyone else but herself. I’m excluding when Hades fires her because Hades brought her as an employee first into his life girlfriend second and treated her as disposable and tried to smooth things over by just throwing money at her(I’ll pay for your schooling if you never try to bring up the fact I dumped you for a 19 year old, no hard feelings right?;)

But Persephone the worst she is aware is that she’s bad at her job that she doesn’t even do any more. Persephone is just a cloud in the sky not aware of her own actions but that’s fine since they have no consequences and if there’s almost consequences don’t worry hades will throw money at the problem.

I wouldn’t say Minthe and Thanatos are likeable because they face consequences but they’re more rounded out characters with flaws, power in their narrative, overcoming and hiding faults.

9. Persephone telling Hades she will explain to him why torturing mortals is wrong and why Elysium is needed is basically "I can fix him" narration. Change my mind

10. That’s it too bc other than Hers and Persephone (which really isn’t a “mentor” relationship and has some rather gross things about it considering Hera only cares about her for Hades’ sake) there’s no genuinely good female relationships of any sort. Daphne and the nymphs are just said “to be like sisters” to Persephone but we see no actual proof of this. There’s no good mother and daughter relationships with Demeter, Métis, Leto, even Hera to her own children. The only decent mother relationship is towards Rhea and her SON Hades. Minthe and Thetis were horribly toxic with Thetis especially taking advantage of Minthe. Artemis and Persephone aren’t friends at all, Persephone is instead closer to a guy who had her kidnapped and basically forced her to admit she was SA’d to him! Hera only likes Echo because she’s “one of the good ones” and it’s a gross repeat of HxP being a boss lusting after their worker, but it’s a #diversity win because it’s between two women? I suppose the only “ok” female relationship is Athena and Hestia, but that also comes with the fact they’re the only confirmed LGBTQ+ rep used to oppress the poor straight couple, are still hyper gendered in their designs, and from Rachel’s own mouth is deeply ace-phobic and a horrible depiction of actual gay relationships. For something claiming to be about women and female empowerment, it fails on every front to even show women as anything other than props for the mens’ consumption and benefit.

#anti lo #anti lore olympus #lore olympus critical #lo critical

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pingintech · 5 months ago

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what the fuck does this mean??? transfemme people are transfemme people why are we using agab to try to dismiss or diminish the struggles of someones identity or experience how the fuck is this gender praxis yall youre just reinventing the gender binary

also just because transfemmes can be women and have uncomplicated relationships with womanhood doesnt mean thats the only way to be transfemme nor is it the only way to be a woman!!!

its not misogyny to suggest a woman can have a troubled relationship with being a woman in a society geared towards men

im a binary trans woman i spent plenty of my first years of transition striving to pass and meet some perfect ideal of femininity i believed would let others see me an ideal that i felt i wanted and had missed out on but putting on frilly dresses everyday and wearing makeup and acting stereotypically feminine in a bid to pass felt like i was putting on a costume i was playing a part

its self evident that thats not all being a woman is because i still am a woman despite the fact ive done a full 180 on my approach towards being me towards being a woman

womanhood includes me because ive seen me as i am now in other women and because i get to define what being a woman is to me

but i felt that i needed to achieve some high art form of femininity to be a woman because of the societal pressures and expectations i was raised with and at the time hadnt yet unlearned

so YES i have a troubled relationship with womanhood not just my own misconceptions the beliefs and views society holds of women as a whole but even now i dress more masc i wear whats comfortable im authentically me in a way that isn't traditionally femme and yet im constantly misgendered by men and other women who see me and feel i dont meet what it means to be a woman womanhood has a problem with me but i am still me im still a woman

its not misogyny for me to struggle as a woman in a world that expects so much of women in fact its a very common experience for women in most parts of the world lol

and all thats just me as a binary trans woman there are plenty of nonbinary transfemmes who have totally different and more complicated relationships with femininity and gender because of how society treats them how assholes LIKE YOU treat them as if its misogyny for them to exist simply because they arent strictly abiding to the gender binary

and nonbinary transfemmes dont need to have a complicated relationship with gender to exist!!! you can be assigned female at birth be transfemme and have a really chill relationship with womanhood

the odds arent very high because people like you exist that stand to try and dictate what womanhood even is but regardless suffering isnt a prerequisite for being transfemme despite ones agab

there are plenty of binary intersex trans women demigirls agender bigender or gender fluid folks who were assigned female at birth and identify somewhere on the transfemme spectrum theyre all valid and nothing about their existence is transmisogyny an attack on "real transwomen" or an indication that theres really anything wrong with being a woman inherently

watch your tumblr feeds trans friends because once you let posts like these infiltrate your feed and go unexamined you leave yourself vulnerable to these terf talking points

you need to learn how to spot stink like this and really examine your views on gender and sexism and society read queer theory and consider your biases

this is not me judging any of you who saw this post and were lulled into the line of thought especially since recently theres been a lot of hate geared towards transmascs in the community and people who are trans and were assigned female at birth but you should try and question where some of these talking points are coming from what the goal is if the goal is nothing but creating division and exclusion then maybe theres something to think about

not to say there hasnt been some division created by trans male voices speaking for the transfemme experiences instead of letting transfemme folks tell those stories but there are valid ways to critique behaviors within our culture and then theres mud slinging blatant hate against anyone that isnt you

there is no wrong way to be trans*

femboys crossdressers transvestites transgender people transexuals nonbinary people intersex people two spirit people drag queens kings and everything in between they all deserve a spot at our table they are our siblings and they face similar oppressions if they want community with us they DESERVE community with us they have fought long and hard for it i will not stand for anyone trying to cut off the limbs of our mighty tree to sacrifice it to some conservative demon in exchange for promises of assimilation

if trans people who arent you disgust or scare you then maybe you need to take a step back and realize that youre treating others the way many treat us with revulsion ridicule and hate

if you want so badly to finally be able to turn the tables and be the leopard to eat other peoples faces then maybe you shouldnt be trusted

implicit in the idea of AFAB transfems is the conception of transfem as an identity category that indicates primarily a troubled, intermittent, or circumspect relationship to womanhood. this itself is transmisogynistic. transfems are perfectly able to have a relationship to womanhood as simple as being a woman.

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nightswithkookmin · 3 years ago

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I have watched the photo booth photos coming out this week. And JK and Tae first. I wondered if Jimin and Suga would be next. But it is Hobi and Jin. So perhaps Suga and Jimin tomorrow. Is it just me or does Bighit seem to be Really pushing Suga and Jimin? I do honestly believe Suga and Jimin are close but not romantic. Jimin has never looked thirsty for Suga and he certainly has for JK. Thoughts on wtf is up with Bighit and Ship Agenda?

Please don't get me started on this cos I'm afraid I won't be able to stop myself 😭😭😭

For now I'm busy fighting the stigma

But this too is a weight sitting on my chest!

WHAT THE FUCK AT ALL IS A MANLY MAN!I stand with Harry Styles, Zac Efron and all these men who have come out to speak out against unrealistic male body standards and the toxic masculinity in the entertainment industry as well as everywhere.

What about this look is a "submissive gay man" look. 😒

Straight men and Women get butt stimulated, take fingers and dicks up their asses and ARE SUBMISSIVES TOO. IT'S CALLED SEX. Why do you stigmatize some men for their sexual preference and applaud others for theirs?!

If straight men can be submissives, gay men can be submissives. And if being soft looking makes you look gay then EVERYONE IS GAY.

Just look how ANDROGYNOUS AND BEAUTIFUL AND MANLY Jimin looks even without make up!!!!!!!

Jungkook have said he resembles his father and yet he calls him pretty and charming and sexy! You think Jk is confused by his looks?

Do y'all know how much Tae weighs!!!!!!!

That don't look life a soft weak man to me and he is not buffed up crazy!

And the tuktukker's on the bird app and Yt comments claiming he wants to be Tae...

I can I assure you he does NOT!!!!!!!!!!

This is the most absurd thing I ever heard in all my shipping life!!!!!! Y'all are a piece of work!

I'm gonna have to take this over to Kofi from now because some people out here just lack the range and depth to have nuanced conversations about these things and it makes it so hard to talk about some things.

What makes you think I can't talk about the good bad and complicated aspect of life and culture and beliefs or ships? Why do I have to hate BTS to point out if they say something misogynistic or homophobic or racist or exude toxic masculinity?

Have they themselves not said they have learned the most from Armies who've called them out on certain things like the misogynistic song lyrics, cultural insensitivity and all these other things?

Y'all don't confuse me with the fake woke wannabes and edgy folks out here who just want to make themselves palatable to yall. Y'all do them a disservice when you don't stay honest and real.

Expressing concern over POSSIBLE toxic work environment having a negative impact on a member does not mean I am afraid that member would lose their sexuality or sexual orientation. Jk looks nothing like Jimin but I still think HE IS GAY.

And it's presumptuous to assume that if any member had been in Jimin's position that I wouldn't have expressed the same sentiments.

How many times do we hear women celebrities complain about unrealistic body standards and the pressure to look a certain way in the industry? How many times have Male celebrities complain of the same pressures they feel in conforming to the looks yall praise as 'manly?' How many times have RM not looked at Tae or JK and talked about how he's own body isn't up to par and that he needs to pick up or work harder? How many times have Jk talked about fasting and dieting to lose weight? How many times have he called himself 'fat' and that he needs to do this or that?

Forget that Jimin has talked about eating disorders and nearly working himself to death to look a certain way? Why do y'all do that? Why do yall make it hard for us to dialogue about these things and bond over shared concerns or hold diverse views and bond over that and yet even learn from those diverse views?Why does someone you disagree with gotta be evil, and crazy and anti?

There's nothing wrong if you prefer a buff Jimin. There's nothing wrong if HE prefers that himself. But leave room for us to discuss the whys of it all. Leave room. If you think his work environment does not impact his choices that's fine. But don't come for me for also believing it might be impacting him or he might be succumbing to the pressures of the work place.

You think if JK started saying he wants to lose his body muscles or if Jin or RM said that I won't wonder what is motivating that decision too? It's absurd if the only reason y'all think I have is a nefarious gay agenda.

As for BigHit and the Ships

It's like WHY!!!!!! WHY CAN'T WE HAVE ALL THE SHIPS SAILING AT THE SAME TIME!

Y'all do this ridiculous scheduling and pairing as if they are night nurses running shifts! Why the fuxk can't we have all these ships coexisting wholesomely side by side AT THE SAME DAMN TIME!

This is how the conspiracy theories begin- of Tae kook finally getting back together and putting Jimin in his place. No one is putting no one in no damn place! Tae kook is not real.

I can't. I really can't!

Someone beam me up. I just can't anymore.

I might as well delete my Tumblr and move to Jupiter with BTS.

Signed,

GOLDY

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bassiter2 · 4 years ago

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many cis gay men are really not all that fixated on their partner’s dick. in fact, i’ve had sex with several who weren’t even very fixated on their OWN dick, due to desensitization or something else making it difficult for them to climax witth other people. many are fixated on asses, many are fixated on chests, and many just want to make out. many are focused far more on body contact, pleasing the other guy, and intimacy in general than any body part.

many cis gay men just want to top and won’t interact with their partner’s dick unless asked. many just want to bottom and certainly couldn’t care less exactly what’s going inside them. there’s a whole subculture of gay men who consider their dicks useless in sex and keep them locked in chastity cages, and many of those men even have sex with each other.

interact with gay men in real life and you’ll know that a hatred for trans men or even a belief that we’re “really women” is not at all common. some level of ignorance about trans men is common, but i’ve found it extremely quick and easy to help others understand when ignorance is all they have (surprise surprise, most people actually have a desire to understand things that they’re confused about instead of aggression against it).

they see someone who looks like a man and that’s all that matters. the only time they give a single shit whether my dick is attached to me is when they want to give head, and even then, plenty are still down because the primary enjoyment that they get from that is the weight in their mouth. the vast majority of cis gay men will even tell you that while they know for certain that they’re not attracted to women because looking at women does nothing for them, they’re not disgusted by vaginas. some are curious about it. some are actively into it.

and not to fucking mention, there’s plenty of cis gay men not interested in sex at all, and therefore their partner’s genitals wouldn’t make a difference to them???

once again, i’m fucking BEGGING you to interact with gay men in real life if you think that genitals are the biggest component in attraction or relationships or ESPECIALLY the perception that society has of you. or shit, maybe go outside at all. i guarantee you’re not gonna see any genitals hanging out in the open but you’ll still definitely be able to percieve genders and maybe even be attracted to some of them.

tldr; the general cisnormative assumption that every man is gonna have a penis and vice versa is not the same as yalls reactionary obsession with reducing ppl to genitals just for the sake of just hating trans people. sex essentialism literally only works in theory and falls the fuck apart once you actually start existing in real life.

#transphobia #ok to rb

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katsukikitten · 4 years ago

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Warnings College AU sexual and adult themes. Yall know the drill okay

Chapter 2

Bugzapper⚡💔: i have a proposition to make.

Jiro flashes Mina her phone as she sips iced coffee in the blessed air conditioning of the cafe.

"That's never a good sign." She comments, moon bright eyes glued to the phone as she thinks.

"What's not a good sign?" Uraraka asks from across the table, the two girls fill her in.

"Oh." She racks her brain on what that could be, "Okay well I'm dying to know, now."

🎵Music to my soul 🎶 : What do you want airhead?

Jiro's text sent a surge of excitement through Kaminari. It was exactly what he needed after three hours of begging and bribing Bakugou to allow the sorority in or at least invite them. His fingers fly across the screen setting up a date and time for a "meeting over lunch" to discuss the proposition in further detail.

Meanwhile across campus, you huff, eyes narrowed as a rare emotion is pulled from your fingertips in the form of deadly ice. Pulling the moisture from the air to freeze it or pulling any water towards you to keep your flank safe as your opponent rushes you at breakneck speeds.

You hated this fucking guy, cocky, brash, so God damn arrogant in the way he held himself, in the way he spoke. It made you nauseous just thinking of him.Had you known he was the male star of this university you wouldn't have transferred, yet you still needed to transfer didn't you? Anything to get out from under the shadow of a certain Todoroki.

No one cared to admit or to notice, that your quirk was different from Shoto's. You could manipulate water towards you to freeze, and manipulate whatever was already frozen. Your ice was denser and more durable than his and dare you say it colder than his too. Yet no one gave a shit, his was ice AND fire. You were just a one trick pony and a trick they already saw. Your opponent's taunting doesn't help matters much.

"I've already seen this before Ice Brat. Did ya forget where I fucking went to high school?" His hand heats the ice as he activates his quirk before three deafening blasts ring out.

As you allow him to break down the ice you act on pure rage, securing some revenge from the first time he signed your hair. Pointed icicles lie in wait and once the wall is fully down you give him a nasty smirk before sending the straight his way.

You're supposed to melt your weapons before they hit your opponent, neither of you are supposed to go all out per the professor's and college's strict rules in the athletics department but Bakugou always does. Somehow his big stupid mouth spews something that eggs you on. As if someone were shoving bamboo skewers beneath your skin, under your nails, sending you into an unheard of rage.

Normally you were as your quirk, icy, unbothered by the world but Bakugou, God you could wring his neck. Freeze his hot blood as you watch him turn into slush beneath your feet.

He expects you to abide by the rules, to splash him with glacier water but he realizes it too late. That you won't he let's off a quick blast, shattering two of the four deadly points. One grazes his cheek as he just barely dodges while the other lodges itself into his arm.

You have half a mind to twist it. You pull at his blood bringing it into your arsenal. Blood red needles and bullets surround Bakugou.

"I don't think you've seen this before.." You say darkly ready to release your hold and shred him into, give him a taste of his own medicine. Maybe he would see how bitter and nauseating he was. He smirks, opening his mouth to retort but you send your ice his way aiming for non vital spots although the ice creeps closer to your heart begging it to hit something vital. The inside of your ice palace begins to reek of burning sugar and spice, he plans to let out an explosion to bring this whole place down from the inside out.

Just as he is about to detonate and just as the blood and ice are about to pierce skin the professor bursts into the gym.

"I step out for five minutes and this is what happens?!"

The ice and blood return to liquid splashing across Bakugou as his skin pops. The professor takes in the damage from your ice and his explosions, still better controlled than most of his other students quirks.

"I gotta stop pairing these two together." He murmurs to himself before dismissing class. With a flick of your wrist the ice fortress melts, returning to the reservoir below the gym floor, ignoring the molten glare that is sent your way.

"You're such a bitch." Bakugou growls as you pass, flinging blood from his fingers as he wipes at his face. You offer him a fake pitying smile before heading into the women's locker room.

"Fucking asshole." You hiss, forcing the sight of his garnet gaze out of your mind. Instead turning your attention to your buzzing phone in your locker. It's a few missed calls and some texts in the girl's group chat. Briefly you wonder if you ever should have joined that stupid sorority, it was small, non toxic, and would look good should you need to transfer again.

Not only did you somehow get elected the president but you also became friends with the three other ladies despite your best efforts not too.

Mins: Prez we might have a way to save the sorority...lunch after you're done with training?

IceQueen ❄: Hope it's good, the Dean already put the house up for sale. Let me get ready and I'll be there shortly.

Mina presents her phone to the crowd around her, Kirishima, Denki, Sero, Jiro and Uraraka do a small celebration. Denki more so than anyone else, he knows the combined car washes will be more than enough to fix up the house, he also recently learned that you had the power of negotiation on your side. Having just listened to Mina retell the story of how you got free food for a month from a bar for yourself and your friends. And not from some sleaze who wanted to sleep with you either, no it was from the owner himself.

Denki is hopeful and so are the ladies indicating that this may be his best idea yet.

You arrive at the small bistro early, spying your party on the front patio. The three men had seen you in person before, they knew you were easy on the eyes but up close you were breathtaking. Manicured nails but nothing gaudy, normally nude or soft shades, light makeup, mascara at most as far as they could tell and your outfit was well put together. You were what the world called plus size but everyone else called thiccc. Your confidence oozing in your light blouse tucked into your black skinny jeans, uncaring that you had a pouch.

You needed that extra fat to keep from freezing by your own quirk. The only thing you needed society to worry about was your intelligence and your power.

Both were SSR ranked so what did you fucking care that your body was ranked lower. They were stupid in thinking you'd skimp power in the name of vanity.

You recognize everyone at the table and internalize the dread you're feeling. Scheming is afoot and you're the last to arrive. You can tell by their half finished drinks and picked over appetizer, still you sit and act unaware. Denki goes to hold out his hand first for a formal introduction causing a sly cat smile to settle over your glossy lips.

"No need, I'm aware of who the three of you are. Sero we share our lingual class, Denki, our chemistry class, and Kirishima we share two classes, world studies and villain hero theory. Truly a pleasure." You tell then your name before ordering something to drink from the lingering waitress. Sitting stick straight with your shoulders backs has the men mirroring you.

"Well ladies I take it the plan to save the sorority involves these fine gentlemen." You ask coolly and they nod. After a moment of silence Mina and Denki go to speak. Awkwardly encouraging the other to speak until Minai clears her throat.

"As you know they are a newly formed frat with Sero as their president. They moved into their house about a month ago and they say it is quite large. So they have invited us to move in."

"How do you propose we ask the college to have a co-ed house? What does this fraternity home even look like?" They knew you would be quick to ask questions Mina answers the first while Denki provides the answer to the second.

"Union and Diversity. Forming close relationships now to carry over into our hero careers."

"The house needs some work but looks a lot better than what it did." Denki shows you before and after pictures as you gesture for his phone. He passes you his electric yellow case with nervous hope tingling beneath his skin. You swipe through the photos.

"You boys did a great job on the outside. Inside needs a lot of work. Hardwoods will be easy to fix, they are original but don't seen to be damaged, a good scrub will spruce them up. Wait, are those?" You zoom in on the photo of the living room, "Are those foldable camping chairs and a VHS tv?"

They gulp loudly as they nod, your purse your lips in disapproval.

"I can fix that." You pass Denki back his phone, assuming that all the roommates will be present, "I see the main focus was the kitchen but some of the appliances seem to be on their last legs. I can fix that as well."

"Soooo….So it's a yes?" Jiro asks, feeling relief for the first time in months since they received the letter of eviction.

"Gotta get the college to agree first." You think on it a moment, "But I'm sure we can arrange that. Uraraka can you draft an email to the Dean requesting an official meeting regarding our sorority? Be sure to explain in detail our situation, how we are being forced to disband by their account and the solution we have. Make sure it's an afternoon meeting too. The dean hates to miss golf with our rival university's dean."

With the plan set in motion all of you return to your evening classes. Jiro nudges Denki in the ribs, listening to his heart race from their closeness.

"When are we going to tell her about Bakugou?" She throws her almost lover a look that he seems to wither beneath. His jaw tics before he retorts.

"I think we should wait to see if this even works first."

After a week the important meeting arrives and as you thought the Dean is already exhibiting signs of impatience. He is more than ready to wrap this up and you already know his answer is going to be no. Already trying to get it out before the four of you can even have a seat.

Still you weren't the Ice Queen on campus for nothing. You saunter into the room, mineola folder filled with your copies of counterpoints pressed firmly to your chest, you can already see he doesn't have the copies you sent him. You place the folder down and open it, leafing through the pages as you speak.

"This request is going to be approved and here are the reasons why. An example of sexism could be made that a new fraternity was approved housing, new housing, after a decades old sorority was deemed "too small" both parties are similar in count. Second funding and donations are easily influenced with letters to alumni and especially by attendees to this university. My transfer from YAU has brought in revenue of roughly 2.6 million dollars, increasing your diversity for women when this is normally a male dominated school. I am aware that my transfer had even encouraged other students from YAU to transfer here. Which I'm sure is one of your favorite bragging points to tell Dean Fraunk during your weekly golf trips isn't it? So it would truly be a shame if these points would come to light in the investigation of my return to YUA just months before the university sports festival. I do look amazing in Ice Blue you know. Matches my quirk a lot better than Maroon." You put the ball in his court, he is visibly upset, eyes flying to the facts that you've presented. All important, viable facts. You were right MMU was known to be a male dominated school and the media would have a field day if they uncovered a mistake he happened to look over. Not to mention you were his main bragging point, Dean Yuzi always talked about how he had stolen you, the female star of rising heroes, from YUA. The silence in the room is amplified by the ticking of the clock, seconds accumulating into minutes as it counts down his T time with his old college buddy and rival. He gulps nervously, knowing what he has to do in order to keep both his bragging rights and a law suit under wraps. He looks up to you as you wear your stone cold face, making him think of a loan shark who hasn't been getting their payments on time. He is fearful for your future boss.

"I believe I have no choice but to approve."

"Correct." You respond, "Now we have a bit more to discuss. I noticed that classrooms 456 and 215 are being remodeled. Those gently used flat screens will be given to our house since it is technically college property. Common space 3 and 1 are being renovated in dorms A and B. We will accept the leather arm chairs as they are in good shape but we demand a new couch. I know it is in the budget as I help plan the budget. I also believe it is time for an allowance for our hybrid house." The Dean shrinks away from your tenacity, nodding as that is all he can do.

"Well this is a generous offer and should cover most of the basic necessities such as a new fridge and mattress. The aesthetic we will be raising funds for. Kindly spread the word, we don't want to take up more of your time and be late with your 'meeting' with Dean Fraunk." You place a flyer on his desk as you turn on your heel. The rest of the sorority, mouth agape following suit. Yuzi looks down at the flyer, head hung in a mixture of disbelief and shame as he reads over the neon paper advertising a co-ed car wash.

He just hopes you and Bakugou are worth the trouble.

#bakugo x reader #bakugou x reader #bnha x reader #bakugou katsuki #bnha au #bnha college au #bnha imagine

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sapphicbabywitchposts · 4 years ago

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ty lee is an air nomad cont.

ok i know yall know of the ty lee is an air nomad theory, but all that takes into account is her eye and hair color, heavy spirituality and fighting style. so i just had the biggest fucking brainwave of all time. if yall look at pictures of aang and ty lees outfits from their first introduction they look very similar:

as you can see, they both have:

a tight under shirt of a lighter color, with sleeves that end, or are tightened at the elbow, they both flare at the end

a light colored baggy pants that are secured slightly below the knee

a waistband that sits at a slightly dropped waist, of a darker color

a sort of popped collar that is attached to the undershirt.

an overshirt type thing of a darker color.

pretty shapeless shoes.

this is in comparison to fire nation clothing like the gaang in book 3:

they have:

pointy or toeless shoes,

formless or slightly bagged pants

the popped collar as decoration, not as an undershirt, they also seem to be much thicker

there are seams or closures down the front that are not included in air nomad clothing

no flared sleeves, also the sleeves end mostly at the shoulder

TY LEE’S CLOTHES ARE AIRBENDER OR AIRBENDER INSPIRED

not to mention her hair, there are no braided hairstyles seen on fire nation women, whereas airbender women seen in flashbacks seem to keep their hair up in ponytail or braided styles like ty lees.

Also their hair is kept much longer than mai or azula’s hair, azula seems to have mid length hair while ty lees hair while up and braided reaches her waist.

All of ty lees style choices seem to be based off of airbender culture, which she would have no access to. the fact that she strayed so far from mainstream firebender fashion.

Another thing to add is her sisters style, they all wear braided hair like ty lees. It seems to be a family thing that ty lee doesnt deviate from even when trying to be very different from her sisters. She mentions in the beach episode that she hates being part of a matched set so why does she wear her hair the same way as her sisters? it might be because the hairstyle is significant, a tradition passed down from her ancestors to keep airbender pride and tradition alive. ok edit because i just had another brainwave:

ty lees fashion and hair are just acceptable versions of fire nation ones, the survivors of the air nomad genocide were surely baited into communities that resembled air nomad lifestyles and killed, ty lees ancestors must have been very smart to conceal their lineage to the fire nation. So heres my new theory, ty lee’s fashion is just an assimilated version of fire nation fashion.

if you look at her overshirt it looks like the fire nation like (shoulder pads?) that the soldiers and other fire nation residents are seen wearing:

if you look at her oufit you can see the triangular shaped overshirt and slits in the overskirt, which looks very much like ty lees overshirt and overskirt.

another thing to note is her signature hairstyle is also an assimilated version of azulas hairstyle. If you go back to avatar yangchens hair, you see a braided hairstyle. But if you notice other air nomad women have low hairstyles such as this woman:

this was something that kind of refuted my theory about ty lee as she has a high ponytail, but if you look at azula and other firebender’s hair it is in a bun at the top of the head, so if you combine airbender hair with fire nation you see ty lees high braided ponytail.

She and her ancestors had to keep everything inconspicious as to not get caught and killed, and honestly the detail of the fashion makes this theory so much more layered and more believable to me. More so than the eyes and hair color theory. If we ever get more comics i would really love to see more of ty lees family because it could open up so much about how they escaped the genocide.

#atla #team avatar #ty lee #gaang #mai #azula #theory #airbender #katara #aang #sokka #toph #yangchen #zuko #firebender #earthbender #waterbender

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fireandfolds · 3 years ago

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about me

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the-paris-of-people · 3 years ago

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18, 19, 20 for nhie ask game please!

tw: eating disorder

18. What’s something that you wish they would have done differently this season?

Honestly I didn't like Devi's apology after starting the rumor about Aneesa's eating disorder. Was it in character to get up on a table and shout a public apology with the rest of the student body watching? Yes. But the proper apology would have been in an one-on-one, intimate setting. I also feel like the implications of gossiping about anorexia so flippantly should have been discussed in more detail. NHIE has the perfect platform to bring awareness to that problem. I'm glad they linked the wannatalkaboutit resource at the end, and I don't think they handled the issue super poorly, but there could have been a trigger warning before the relay episode (I personally didn't see one, lmk if yall did!) or discussion from a professional's POV of how the rumor was fucked up. At the same time, I've never experienced an eating disorder so the show's handling of the issue is not mine to judge, but those who have been affected by one.

I also just hated how Devi tried to cover up the rumor by launching a student investigation. Yes it was in character and ultimately she confessed but I would love to see her take better accountability for her actions.

I also would have been fine with Aneesa not accepting Devi's apology and Devi learning that it's not people's job to accept her apologies (because I think that's a huge issue with her) I think it's a valuable lesson that sometimes if you fuck up, people won't forgive you, or at least take more than a few episodes too (I've heard this happens in BoJack Horseman and happened a bit in Crazy Ex Girlfriend too)

Smaller opinion: I also thought Fabiola and Dr. Jamie Ryan were ROBBED of screen time. They should have been in there more!

19. Just anything you want rant about, get something off your chest.

Okay, multiple things. Can we like, give Ben Gross some friends? Like he has no friends besides Malcolm, who sucks ass so he doesn't really count.

Also, I'm hoping the show pulls a Crazy Ex-Girlfriend and fully diagnoses Devi's mental health problems so she can adequately seek out more intensive therapy and medication if she needs. I really want her to be her best self, she definitely has had character development but she still lacks the ability to self-regulate emotions and actions. I hope season 3 gives her a lot more therapy than this one did (though I adored the scene where she broke down to Dr. Jamie Ryan. Again, I'm in love with Dr. Jamie Ryan)

Also I hated how Sasha (Eve's friend) constantly insulted Fabiola and no one completely stood up to her. It was rude as fuck and I did not like her. Justice for Fabiola!

20. What are your hopes/theories for season three?

Okay I have a few theories. I think that Nirmala or Aneesa will end having the individual episode. I hope that Nirmala and Devi forge a bond and Devi will realize appreciate the connection she has to her dad through her.

In general, I hope that Devi will learn to overcome her internalized racism/misogyny and appreciate Kamala and not see other Indian women as competition. I think this season was a step in that direction after her encounter with Aneesa, but I would love to see her talk that out in therapy. (wow all my headcanons include therapy)

I hope that Eleanor goes back to dating Oliver because I actually loved him and think he's hilarious and sweet. I also am hoping for more Sharon and Mr. Wong because they are the best and totally under appreciated.

I think that Ben will end up being Paxton's boyfriend tutor and I'm hoping they forge a friendship! Paxton will ultimately realize that Ben knows and cares about her better than anyone and chaos will unfold heehee

I'm hoping Paxton continues to grow and develop as a character and grow more confident in his ability to be intelligent. My biggest fear is that Paxton is afraid he isn't smart enough for Devi, and her leaving him for Ben would only reinforce those ideals. I hope they ultimately realize that Ben is a better fit for her, or they break up for other reasons.

Honestly, at the end of season 3 I just want Devi to be happy and mentally stable. Again, my hope for her is that she receives a diagnosis for her mental health problems and ultimately gains the proper treatment she needs (because I don't think therapy once a week is enough for her) I absolutely love Ben and Devi together and I'll be so so so happy if season 3 culminates with a confession of love, as long as Devi has grown into the person she wants to be. I think that she and Ben need to cultivate that trust and security in their relationship again that was lost after dating other people, and she needs to show up as her best self for Ben as well (because let's be real she has screwed him over and he doesn't deserve that) I would love if season 4 ended with a big romantic gesture of Devi to Ben because the sweet boy deserves it!

Also, comeback of Dr. Jackson!!! (#I love him)

#anon #answered #never have i ever #yes i was nit picky but i have a lot of thoughts #team devi get mental health help #also im here for this post inspiring gifs of dr jamie ryan and sharon

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normal-thoughts-official · 3 years ago

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because i always see ppl citing it as the "exception" to single LI books:

Dakota is annoying and boring as a LI, their romance was just as forced as any other single LI book, and WEH remains the only choices book i started and didn't even finish because it was genuinely so boring

this fandom is so boring now lol. can we start drama for fun? gimme controversial opinions again

#i agree with the 'single LI books are fine' take in theory #in practice i have never liked one #but i think thats less the fault of the single LI-ness and more of PB in general loving to write toxic romances lol #like even in books with multiple LIs the Obvious Writer's Favorite is always without failure the worst person uve ever met #and the side LIs that they dont give a crap about are actually fun and nice #so single LI books end up being an annoying nightmare because of the LIs. not the fact that theyre single LI books in itself #tbh i have played several single LI books without knowing they were single LI because it just felt like any other choices story #with one LI being The Worst and pushed down ur throat #but anyway #the point is single LI books are not a bad thing in theory but in practice i will not read any single LI book pb releases god bless #playchoices #i actually agree with all of those except for the ones that mention specific books as i havent read any of these so i cant say #and the ILITW outfit cuz yeah the female one is tacky but the male one is great #like it might be just me being deprived of any male outfits that have even a hint of personality #but i loved it and it was such a relief to see it #accessories!!!!!!!!!!! im fanning myself #and the see through shirt.... idk it had a very queer quality to it that pb NEVER gives male MCs #i felt Seen��#and i have conflicting feelings about the erasure thing because while yeah the biphobia is rampant in this app and fandom #(why would u even hc someone as straight unless its because u like. hate them)#i consider that each play is a different canon #like i see tom sato being into men as as canon as tom sato surviving in the end of ILB #it depends on how u played the game #so like in me playing it lives there is no hint whatsoever that he liked women so why is it erasure to hc him as gay #when the bisexuality is not there #on the other hand yall are biphobic af and love to erasure bi ppl and characters so like i do side eye these hcs greatly #the only reason i even hc tom as gay is because i ship him with andy #and i like to make ppl who are dating trans ppl gay for that Extra Validation #but most ppl are just like 'my LI is gay/straight because im a woman/man and i wouldnt date a dirty bisexual'#like hmmkay

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momo-de-avis · 4 years ago

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what are 2 books you feel you should be financially compensated for reading (beyond reimbursement for purchasing them)?

hard mode: nothing by zuzas.

now those are high stakes

first of all, this is hard for me to answer because I genuinely cannot read a book through to the end if I don't like it. I won't go past fifty pages if it's annoying me. So there are only a handful of books I can say I hated because I wasted time reading them, and even those I didn't finish.

But there are two, and one of them I actually talk about it all the time

First of all, fuck you, Flaubert. Fuck Emma Bovary. Fuck that book. Not only financial compensation, but emotional of some sort, cause you go through the 7 stages of grief reading that piece of garbage. Not after, during.

Like, every time I try to explain why I hate Madame Bovary so much I tell this little anecdote about my life. It was probably 2AM, I was still living with my mom, and I was in the living room. Back then, the History Channel---before it became exclusively devoted to Aliens, Hitler, and World War II---had a super interesting show called, I believe it was, Great Books. I caught only a few episodes, there was one on Janes Austen, another on Dostoevsky---and yes, one for Madame Bovary. Which was the one I saw that night.

And on that night, I was just chilling on my ass, and there was this expert on Flaubert explaining how the guy came up with the idea for the book. This woman had a PhD in literature. She studied Flaubert's life and history down to the letters and his intimacy. And I chuckled to myself, completely alone---and listen, you're free to believe whatever the hell yall want, but I swear on my cat this shit is true---and said to myself: "I bet this guy ran away to a cabin and dressed himself as woman to write this book." In fact, I hate Madame Bovary SO MUCH I've making this joke for YEARS, and it's why I call that pile of regurgitated french trash "literary transvesty" because it is literally a man playing dress up with no counter-balance to the absolute derailment of this woman's down-spiral. It's just the story of Emma Bovary going off her rockers, and there's no point where there might a slight indication of societal criticism. She's just a piece of shit. You know, at LEAST Tolstoi gave us Kittie and Levine as a counter-point. At LEAST Tolstoi built-up an immense backdrop with Stepane's adultery to understand the horrid treatment Anna is subjected to. At LEAST we are given a good characterisation of Karenine enough, whereas Charles Bovary is limper than a soggy sock. The only Ken doll I owned as a child had more charisma, and that bitch had no clothes.

And AT THAT POINT in the documentary, that lady expert with a whole PhD says something to this effect: APPARENTLY, Flaubert DID run off into a cabin in the fucking woods or some shit, and he did so with a locket, and what was in that locket? The hairs of his lover. Like, oh my God, I hate you so fucking much.

What I hate THE MOST about Madame Bovary is that despite being a shit book and shit story, and having been written by a guy who purposefully isolated himself from the woman he loved in the ass of the world, with a piece of her hair, as he dead ass attempted to "become a woman", whatever the hell that meant (but then again, so did every romantic writer back in the 19th century), this motherfucker was trialled in a court of law for this book (because adultery, women are frail, scandal, blah blah blah), and his defense was so amazing he actually coined a very important term in writing called Indirect Free Speech. Like, I genuinely hate this motherfucker but this absolute genius final take on his shit book just makes me hate him more. (For reference, this is where I learned this, Hans Robert Jauss explains this in his book Reception Theory)

The second book I think I deserve financial compensation for wasting the like, 3 days I wasted reading those first 100 pages or so, was Juliet Marillier's Daughter of the Forest. Oh my God. Listen, back in the day, like every teenage girl in the early/late 2000s, I was discovering paganism and that kind of crap, so I had a lot of wiccan friends. And there was Charmed. Not the rebooted crap, the OG Charmed, when Rose McGowan was closeted terf and we believed she was cool. Everyone loved Charmed. And everyone who bought into the new-pagan stuff and wiccan stuff, they were all introduced by one of two ways: either it was Charmed, or The Mists of Avalon. Either or. No other way. At least around my circle, that is.

So I had a lot of friends squealing over this one book from Marillier. I was absolutely obsessed with Arthuriana because of Mists of Avalon, and my wiccan/goth friends were all over me telling me "OH you GOTTA read Daughter of the Forest if you love Mists of Avalon". It's comforting to know the one wiccan friend who persisted with that crap went wacko and literally vanished into the horizon because I wanted to smack her in the face with that stupid book.

Basically, at the time, I was balls deep into Irish Mythology. And as I read it, I thought it was EERILY SIMILAR to the Children of Lir. Evil stepmother transforming her step-children into swans? Hm? The one thing that threw me off was that, in the story, the hero had to sew these shirts from some godawful plant that fucked up her hands, and that ISN'T in the original Children of Lir story. Then again, Children of Lir is genuinely not a compelling story. Of all Irish myths, it might be the least compelling.

However, I recently learned that IT IS the same tale, despite what Marillier sold as being "inspired by the Brother Grimm". It turns out the Children of Lir is a tale known throughout Europe, spanning from Spain to Ireland, with some variations, and it exists in Germany, where the sewing of the shirts with that weird plant is a plot point. So I guess that was a determent, considering the story is set in Ireland. Also, you can tell the story was written by a herbalist because, oh my god she goes off about plants all the time.

I basically stopped reading because the heroine is a bit obnoxious and it felt like the plot was going nowhere. And at some point, it was literally a book about plants. Like, Marion Zimmer Bradley's books can be boring (take the Forst House, which is one of my favourites, there's gotta be like 100 pages in there about Eilan's boring life picking flowers, but it builds up to her character, at least). But this one, it was going nowhere, while at the same time, Bretons were landing in Ireland? What? My anger came from when I checked the wikipedia page before I gave up because I wanted to see if there was something redeemable in that shit, like, come on, motivate me. And when I read that there's a fucking rape plot thrown in there that bears no relevance for no other reason than... I don't know, fear of men? I gave up. That was definitely when I stopped reading and decided to set it aside. It's weird cause, from what I remember, I think the author wanted to write it in pagan Ireland, but I don't remember a single mention of a pagan god? It was so convoluted, man.

And why the Children of Lir??? I 100% share the opinion of Sorcha Hegarty from Candlelit Tales regarding the Children of Lir: it is THE LEAST interesting tale in Irish Myth, and also---and these are her words, not mine---the least Irish lmao

Honourable mention: Thérèse Raquin by Zola is another one that made me SO FUCKING PISSED OFF that piece of shit book REQUIRES psychological counseling. Like, financial compensation isn't even enough to go through that crap.

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answering questions I’ve been asked on TikTok✨

QUESTION: how did you get into reading?

So, when I was in middle school (many moons ago) we had this thing called AR Testing. Basically, you read a book and take a test on it—the questions were things that happened in the book, it was really simple. If you got a good grade, you got points. The more points you earned, the more eligible you were for the reading party at the end of each semester. Me, being the nerd I am, got top of my class because I went through 8th grade level books like it was nothing. The librarian at my school brought me books from the high school to read since everything was easy for me, and alas, my addiction began. And now that I have adult money, it’s a true addiction. Also, telling my father “I’m bored” and his response being, “go read a book or something” so thanks dad.

QUESTION: what’s one book you ALWAYS recommend to people?

This one is tough because I’ve read THOUSANDS of books, but if I had to choose one, it would probably be Confess by Colleen Hoover. I fell in love with her work in high school when I first read Ugly Love, but Confess is the type of book that pulls at your heart strings, y’all. It has everything people love: humor, sexual tension, drama, love. GO BUY THE DAMN BOOK. Or honestly any book by Colleen Hoover—she’s a fucking amazing author.

QUESTION: outside of making TikToks, what do you do for a living?

I currently work at a restaurant and hate every second of it. If anyone tells you to become a server, DONT. It’s not worth the hassle, I promise you. Sure, you can make decent money but the amount of rude customers and shitty tips you receive each shift is very disheartening. If you really need a job, do anything BUT work in the food industry.

QUESTION: what’s your wattpad story about?

First question: which one? I have about 30 drafts sitting there waiting to be posted. But, I’m going to assume you’re talking about the Harry Styles fan fiction I’ve been working on for the past 4 years and haven’t had the courage to post. I’ll tell you a little about it: Elaine Aldridge is forced into a betrothal to a man she’s never met & loathes. She goes to his court and realizes things aren’t what they truly seem. And the guard her future husband sticks on her??? None other than Mr. Harry Styles. Add in some magic & deaths and you’ve got my story— The First Prince. (Honestly, that’s an extremely shitty description so if you wanna check it out go to my wattpad account)

QUESTION: how old are you?

Ahem. . . twenty-one.

QUESTION: what is your dream career?

Being a published author and having people rave about my books. That’s all. Or, an editor for a publishing company. Imagine reading all day and being paid for it🤩

QUESTION: what was your least favorite read of 2020?

I already KNOW I’m gonna get shit for this but....... the wicked king. YALL I LITERALLY COULDNT GET THROUGH IT IM SO SORRY, I STILL HAVENT FINISHED IT

QUESTION: current favorite author?

Sarah. J. Maas. I don’t know what it is about her writing style, but it’s addicting. Throne of Glass is hands down the best series I’ve ever read. A Court of Thorns and Roses is the first book I’ve EVER reread. Her stories truly suck you in and hold onto you—you get lost so easily in her writing and it’s like once you’re done with a series, nothing will compare. Or, at least that’s how I felt after finishing Kingdom of Ash. Honorable mentions: Jennifer L. Armentrout, Penelope Douglas, L.J Shen, Elle Kennedy and Kennedy Fox.

QUESTION: any recommendations/tips to give to a new reader?

I’ve always given this advice to people who want to get into reading: find what you like and start with that. If you like romance, I’ve got a list for you to choose from. Mystery? Another list. Sci-fi? I GOT YOU. Fantasy? Yes! Sports fiction? It might take me a second but I’ll find you a book. Nonfiction? I’m zero help in that category, honestly. The point of the matter is that you’re never going to enjoy a book if you aren’t interested in the underlying topics.

QUESTION: do you ever find yourself comparing your life to fictional life?

Yes. All the time. I daydream about being apart of the Inner Circle and living in Terrasen with Aelin and Rowan. I think about what it would be like to have real powers and a mate. It drives my boyfriend crazy—but he loves me anyway.

QUESTION: what are your most anticipated books of 2021?

Here’s a list:

A Court of Silver Flames by Sarah J. Maas

The Crown of Gilded Bones by Jennifer L. Armentrout

Gods and Monsters by Shelby Mahurin

Crescent City 2 (Untitled) by Sarah J. Maas

A Vow So Bold and Deadly by Brigid Kemmerer (I just ordered this one & it arrives tomorrow)

Blessed Monsters by Emily A. Duncan

QUESTION: why did you start a Tumblr?

Honestly, I used to love tumblr when I was in grade school (way too young to be on here then but what else is new). I like having an extra space to get my questions and comments out without having to compress it into a 60 second video for TikTok to see. Tumblr is a good place to blog & post things like this.

QUESTION: what’s your favorite song right now?

I’ve listened to Carry You by Novo Amor every day for the past two months and I cry each time.

QUESTION: why write Harry Styles fan fiction?

Simple: I love Harry Styles. I’ve been a fan of him and One Direction since they were on X FACTOR. Read that again. X. Factor. I used to watch their performances on YouTube before WMYB even came out. Of course, I love all of the 1D boys but I was always a Harry gal. And I look up to him in a way—I’ve read things about people wishing they knew him personally and honestly? I would never want to meet him. I like the version of him I’ve cooked up in my brain over the past 10 years. I like the symbiotic relationship I have with his music. Fine Line is a ✨masterpiece✨. HS1 is a ✨work of art✨.

now, some topics I’ve been asked way too many times and want to finally get to:

QUESTION: political views?

the saying “anyone but trump” has been in my brain for the past four years. No, I’m not a republican. No, I’m not a democrat. I like to think of myself as a progressive (ahem, liberal) Did I vote for a democratic candidate? Yes, and I’d do it again and again until the US isn’t one of the worst countries—I’m sorry, businesses— to be apart of. I wanted Bernie but got Biden, and I’m alright with that. And my girl Kamala🥳

QUESTION: how did you feel about the BLM protests?

I went to multiple BLM protests and donated a lot of funds to BLM & other organizations. It’s 2021, people... stop being fucking RACIST. And don’t be afraid to call racist people out! Black Lives Matter, even if no one is posting about it anymore.

QUESTION: thoughts on abortion?

your body your choice, queen! not my uterus, not my problem.

QUESTION: there was a comment on an old video of yours talking about r*pe, why did you delete the comment?

I made a video when I first started my account on TikTok about reading in public and feeling “turned on” by it. Go watch it if you don’t know what I’m talking about. BUT, some ignorant male decided to comment and say “this is how girls get r*ped”. Whew. So. I deleted the comment because ....

I am a victim of sexual assault. Along with a lot of other women. 1 in 5 women have been victims of sexual assault. Talking about being r*ped isn’t funny.

No one else needed to see his comment. I reported it immediately and his account was shut down.

I never got justice for what happened to me, and the fact that some random male—who had never even met me or seen me before my video showed up on his FYP—had the nerve to comment that? Unacceptable.

this question isn’t as controversial but

QUESTION: what’s the best way to get out of a toxic relationship?

okay, let me just start off by saying that the people around you who love and support you are going to be your backbone. Leaving a toxic situation is hard, and every situation is different, but my best piece of advice to offer you is don’t be afraid to ask for help. Your loved ones are going to be there for you when you need them, even if you don’t believe they will. If you explain what’s happening, someone you know and love will drop whatever it is their doing to make sure you get out safely. good luck my babes.

now, back to our regularly scheduled program:

QUESTION: any tips on making tiktoks?

Literally none. I post what I think is funny and relatable and if anyone agrees, I’m satisfied. Even if it’s one view, it’s good enough for me. So I guess my one tip is to not base your life off of an app and followers.

QUESTION: favorite Harry Styles fanfic?

DONT MAKE ME CHOOSE. Duplicity is up there, along with Stall 1&2, and Kiwi. After? Absolutely not.

QUESTION: favorite WEBTOON?

y’all already KNOW. LORE OLYMPUS BY USEDBANDAID. Rachel is a genius and I have reread the series a million times. Hades is my soulmate and Apollo can rot in the fiery pits of the Underworld. also, if we’re talking about other webcomics, reading Walk on Water on mangadex...🤫

QUESTION: favorite movie?

Howls Moving Castle. I will be getting my “a heart is a heavy burden” tattoo very very soon.

QUESTION: I read your Elain theory on tumblr, can you explain a little more?

I thought I was pretty straightforward but I’ll say it again: she is always the “good” one and it’s too suspicious. SJM has already given one Archeron sister a happy ending, Nesta’s is obviously inevitable, but Elain? She has too many options for a happy ending. Lucien, who is her “mate”. Azriel, who is intrigued by her slightly. Her human guy—I don’t remember his name—who is disgusted that she’s not human anymore. Or, alone, planting flowers all day. BUT! My point is that she’s not truly happy. She was forced into the Cauldron just like Nesta. She was ripped away from the life she loved so dearly and didn’t want to give up. The man she was going to marry now hates her guts because she’s a High Fae. She has the perfect set up for a villain plot line and I’m all here for it.

well, that’s all I feel like doing tonight. hope you enjoyed my little q&a! be kind, and talk to you later! byeeee!

#a court of silver flames #acotar #harry styles #one direction #sarah j maas #throne of glass #wattpad #tiktok #elain archeron #howls moving castle #lore olympus #q&a time #walk on water #persephone #lore olympus hades

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