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Do I low-key have the hots for my teacher? Maybe
I am weirded out by it? Oh yes, definitely
#my mind immediately goes to those messed up teacher x au fics i (used to) read#always thought having a crush on your teacher was weird. now look at me#and this was all made worse when my friend jokingly made a comment about us standing close to each other#after i told her i had to keep following him so he would give me full advice on smth#and she doesnt like him but i dont think he is a bad teacher. today i told her about having a private feedback session with him#(barely anyone showed up to get feedback from the teachers)#anyway i said that to my friend and i quickly realised that i sounded wrong (dirty) and she DEFINITLY noticed that and made another comment#my friend is a bully and makes it weird#but in my defense: i dont have control of who i like and what my type is#and i cant help it that he is kinda cute#okay jokes aside. he is a nice guy and a somewhat good teacher (with anxiety which makes him more likeable and relatable and funny)this guy#teacher crush
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@drifting-stars-mabel
The "post from another Dipper blog" that you included in your post "just intended to spread awareness" reads like this:
"You're getting publicly shamed."
"That's stupid. You're gross. Like really gross."
Yeah, this seems like a very fair post intended to "let people know" and not intended to harass or bully a kid. It's laughable that this post says "he is twelve years old" when the minor you're all bullying is real and actually that young.
None of you give a fuck about real people in the slightest, do you?
@pinetreethefinetree
And you said, "should they be writing the things that they are? No." Oh my God! Who the hell cares?? This isn't about shipping! (Or, well, it is, because none of you have real problems to care about.) But it shouldn't be — it should be about leaving people alone and blocking those who make you uncomfortable, not about harassing a kid into giving an apology that they don't even understand.
This is what you all are enabling with defending call out posts. "This guy should kill himself." "I knew there was something off about him." "I know what my next YouTube video will be about." ALL THIS HAS DONE IS ESCALATE THE SITUATION WHEN A SIMPLE BLOCK WOULD HAVE SOLVED THE PROBLEM.
As far as I'm concerned, you're bullies. Everyone supporting this ridiculous call out post against a kid is participating in targeted harassment.
#gravity falls#proship#''they made me soooo uncomfortable'' BLOCK THEM BLOCK THEM BLOCK THEM OH MY GOD IT'S SO SIMPLE IT'S SO EASY#i mean i clown on weirdos online too!! when people are weird to me i take screenshots and make fun of them—#—IN PRIVATE WITH MY CLOSE FRIENDS WHO I TRUST NOT TO HARASS ANYONE#I LAUGH ABOUT IT AND BLOCK THEM AND THEN MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE#i DON'T put people on blast to bully them#congrats guys. you exposed a kid to her first death threat#good fucking job.
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i hate how wwe isnt like...widely known if rhat makes sense? like duh its widely known but ur not gonna see ppl just everyday being a fan 😞 i always like to talk abt wwe and my wwe crushes ro my friends but i always end up feeling left out or stupid or weird bc im not simping for anyone that EVERYONE likes yk
#i tried telling my friend abt cm punk and it ended with me crying snd feeling weird#and ppl wonder (probably) why im so freaky on tumblr instead#atleast im accepted here!#like ugh taste is subjective ik but why r u able to just bully my taste while i compliment urs. make it make sense#ugh im so sorry abt the vent its just...sickening considering wwe is my hyperfix#:-(((#i just wanna talk abt cm punk freely without being considered weird since nobody fuckinf knows what wwe is 😞😞#wwe#cm punk#wwe monday night raw#punkoween yaps
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ok but can we talk about the transition from being the weird unattractive girl/boy as a kid to suddenly being percieved as a hot gay person bc that shit is so jarring. but also like really wholesome? like wow I don’t have to conform to cishet expectations of attractiveness and actually people find me really attractive for the natural way I look and present myself. that’s so wild.
#inspired by a convo with a friend today lol#but also like. I so distinctly remember having this realization when I was like 13!!!#bc while I never felt ugly I WAS the weird nerd girl who got bullied a fair bit#and then one day a little while after coming out as bi I was thinking and suddenly was like.#wait a minute. I’m gay and I like girls with short hair. gay girls like other girls with short hair. I have short dyed hair.#I AM the cute girl with short hair!! woah!!!!!!!#it just opens up your world a bit yknow??? like there’s not just one way to be attractive#and also judging yourself only by the standards of the average cishet man or woman’s taste can make you feel so undesirable#but the way queer people love is so much more varied and accepting and it’s so freeing#anyways. I love entering my ‘wait holy shit I can pull’ era.#like I always knew I had it in me and I’ve always been confident but now it’s validated lmaooo#I always knew I was pretty as hell!!! I knew it!!! even if boys pretended to like me in order to bully me!!!
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i had to listen to multiple people admit to wanting to kill/abandon their baby if it came out autistic or special needs and i had to just sit there in disbelief.
this is so normalized ts isnt a joke it makes me scared and im not even autistic or special needs (well im not 100% sure actually.) but still it hurts and has hurt my heart for years when i see people talk down to autistic people like they’re babies or the evilest people alive like uhm…buddy you’re harassing someone over something they cant control that will never be funny in my eyes. never has been and never will. why worry about others? you have a life of your own. focus on yourself and what you’re going to do with you life.
#im sorry this has just been brewing in my head for the longest#and it got heightened monday when i saw a friend of mine laughing at the jokes and even playing into it#its scary#you want to kill slmeone because their brain doesn’t operate the same way yours does?#how closeminded and selfish can you be.#its like that with self expression as well#dont break societial rules or you’ll be ‘weird’ or bullied#that makes zero sense to me#we weren’t created in a copy machine#we all arent going to be the same#and thats okay#differences are good#changes are okay#you dont have to bully others because they dont fit into the rules youve boxed yourself in#that’s genuine loser activity#you shouldnt be worried about what someone’s wearing if youre not wearing it#anyways rant over guys im STARVED
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a friend who'd wait :)
#im posting this very late because i was sort of weary of how it came out and ended up messing w it until it was like 4am oops.#and i have plans tmrw so... oh well! i did my best and ill put it out while i can!#and i tried to make the scene match barnard's colors lol#finn's ocs#finn's art#i know i said id do more sillay stuff with the simpler screentone only style but i had a couple more of these in me#and this is the first piece im making thats like an actual part of the story too rather than just setting stuff for fun#i wanna write something to go with it too but for now ill just sort of briefly explain the context in the tags here:#barnard has a pretty bad case of OCD and his compulsions have made it difficult to make friends in the past#he was never outright bullied or anything but people just didnt really have the patience to deal with it#he has compulsions that include stuff like walking through doors until it feels right and needing things to be perfectly aligned#which in group settings has lead to people having to wait for him to finish his rituals and join them#they might find it tolerable at first but eventually they grow impatient and hes just... not invited to stuff anymore#but juno is a newer member of the guild who ends up frequenting the same library. hes also kinda a little weird#and they dont become fast friends or anything but just sort of naturally spend time in the same place#though they never plan meetups they eventually fall into a routine. around the same time theyd just both be at the library#and read next to each other. and maybe talk a bit. and eventually they end up walking back to the guildhall together#since theyre going to the same place after all. and juno always waits for barnard outside the door#eventually barnard asks if this bothers him. juno kinda just tells him 'of course it does' without any malice or anything. just a statement#barnard is surprised and apologizes and juno says not to. but the next day juno doesnt show up at the usual time.#barnard assumes hes committed somekinda more by bringing it up. he ends up staying there late reading to get his mind off it & not ruminate#but when he leaves juno is in fact still waiting for him down the hall (see pic) having collected a bunch of books literally abt ocd#he fell asleep bc barnard stayed later than expected. and hes an eepy guy generally. and also one very bad at expressing himself#but now barnard gets that juno's 'of course it [bothers me]' had the implication of 'but its worth it' which no friend has previously done.#and from the interaction juno was also able to understand that this isn't something barnard just does for the hell of it so. he studies.#and checks a bunch of stuff out because he thinks it could help his friend too (theres ocd workbooks and such- i remember working w them)#and thats the point where they became more ''friends'' than ''pleasant library acquaintances''#from there on they also do get into juno's problems. whole other bag of worms. but this specific scene is more about bernard from his pov#sorry about when i said briefly explain. i lied </3#but compared to the whole sequence im picturing its brief so shhh
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#in the kindest way possible i think that some of your guys' queer microlabels are predicated on incorrect assumptions#about what is or is not typical of most people's gender and attraction.#you can call yourself whatever you want.#but just be aware that Straight and Gay and Transgender and Bisexual and Man and Woman and Nonbinary and other 'boring' labels#have always held capacity for more nuance and diversity than you've even thought to imagine#rigid definitions of queerness are a new and generally unhelpful development in the history of our community#and i promise that people before the internet era didn't just all have a simpler relationship with gender and sexuality than we do#again. you can call yourself whatever makes you most comfortable. that's the goal.#it just makes me feel weird when people demand or assign microlabels to historical figures or celebs who have not IDed themselves#or strangers on the internet/in their class.#apparently at my brother's very progressive middle school there is such a culture of everyone needing to neatly label themselves#that he just picked a sexuality to tell his friends even though he doesnt know#(which is pretty crazy because my middle school experience was only a decade off and a few miles#and there was definitely still homophobic bullying. but anyway)#i doubt that that's an uncommon story considering how you can log into tiktok#and find pages run by 11 year olds confidently stating a list of queer labels#people absolutely do figure out that they're queer/trans/gay at that age to be clear. kids been be queer and know it and that's incredible.#what makes me worried is kids feeling like they have to scramble to figure themselves out and clearly identify themselves to their peers#so they can be neatly categorized and as an expected virtue signal#<- is aware that this still isn't a problem in most parts of the world and that this is a much better problem to have#than homophobic bullying and internalized homophobia/transphobia#idk I'm rambling here
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ok let's catch up quickly
#so i went on a few dates w this guy. long hair beautiful face kinda looked like a girl (good) said yes ma'am when i told him to do smth#(also good) film student great at photography including candids. made a sheath of leather for a sword pin i have . et cetera.#he asked to cuddle and i was like iggg and then i felt Nothing and i was like ohhh yh ok ok yep lesbian#like he meets almost all my criteria but. yeahhh no . also at the end of that date he had some weird takes. anyway broke up w him and told#him actually im p sure im a lesbian (again) and he was like yk thats the second time this has happened to me this week but its ok bc ive#fallen for this girl from berlin. and then we cooked together. anyway . met a beautiful butch lowk in love w her. weve been on (1) date.#have two exams in a few days havent studied enough going to like end it all basically. my research partner kicked me off our research#(expected(it was always skinda sketchy)) which was devastating + it happened in a lidl 15 hours into a journey from bordeaux#to go back to the UK. my friends were kinda busy paying for baguettes but also they heard this whole exchange and are kinda mad at him#my friend of 10+ years is coming over in a few days. my evil ex situationship person that i decided to stay friends w because i kept#insisting they are a good friend and not evil and also extremely beautiful? turns out shockingly enough they were evil. tried to fix them#and then i realised due to their entire friendship group being ppl like me (Every Single One of their friends are ppl they met on dating#apps then led on then dumped and proposed staying friends w) and are collectively extremely attracted to them and not over them they#keep validating the most diabolical shit they say/do to hace a chance w them. they broke up w their ex and the way they keep leading#this poor girl on and making her heartbeeak worse and saying that they want more power over her and want her to beg for them back etc...MY#JAW HAD DROPPED esp bc i didnt even know the ex was in the picture BECAUSE ME AND ONE OF OUR FRIENDS (that they also dated) HAD JUSR SLEPT#NAKED TOGETHER IN THEIR BED W THEM. GIRL. anyway that is the least of the diabolical stuff they said but no we are moving onnn#this was b4 the beautiful butch btw. anyways . i have a mitski concert tmrw i think?? idek anymore#i used to have a crush on this guy very briefly and then it disappeared and then i realised if he fundementally changed everything abt#himself then maybe id like him but ofc i didnt tell him that but i still think abt it sometimes but anyway thats irrelevant now bc 99% sure#even if he did id still not find him attractive (lesbianism). please recommend good overnight moisturisers btw i have super dry skin#right. the friend of 10 yrs. we had a hard convo abt why she essentially bullied me in year 8 and it made me highly bitter but i also love#her and ik things are diff now its been like . Many Years . and shes going to stay a while I HAVE TWO EXAMS I DONT HAVE TIME but i love her#its fine. i think i might just switch into medicine and do the whole become a neurosurgeon thing (which was my plan B) bc plan A is looking#kinda impossible rn. I WANNA TALK MORE ABT WHAT THE EX SITUATIONSHIP PERSON SAID but i wont bc i dont wanna be too mean but also . MY GOD#i had a conversation w a philosopher friend about whether i have a moral responsibility to try to fix them bc unleashing this on society#feels wrong and he said 'probably but...run' so yeah im not talking to them atm. second date w beautiful butch on monday btw IDK WHAT TO#WEAR. she said she likes fems. im just gonna wear the shortest ralph lauren skirt i have w the cute leg warmers and hope 4 the best#its 1:15 AM im abt to drink coffee and start studying bc what the FUCK man. also almost finished watching the boys its very good#one of my best friends is struggling rn it is breaking my heart i want to take the burden from her i miss her very much
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Justin said I smell nice and I told him it was one of my wizard smells, and then we got silly with it because of course we did
#dnd#dungeons and dragons#dragonborn#druid#gnome#wizard#the zhartook quote is verbatim but I think my actual (initial) response was 'SURPRISE IDIOT IT'S ME >:)' skjhgjkdfg#this was in character in spirit of course but I'm allowed to editorialize my own blorbo bullying her friend#also for the record this isn't flirting on either end-- STRICTLY teasing on mel's part they have absolutely no interest in each other#he's A Kid and she sees him as A Kid but that just makes it funnier to give him a hard time about stuff like this gfkjhkfd#in other news this perfume is good for her but not quite perfect; I've been blending Sigil with Industrial Sabotage#which *I* like but it definitely IS like... Weirder. maybe less palatable lol#sigil is another 'wizardly incenses' type blend and sabotage smells like gunpowder and burnt wires#also yes of COURSE I found a website selling Weird Wizard Perfumes and bought a bunch of Weird Samples for my OCs lol#zhartook#my OCs#melliwyk#vale walkers#dungeons and doodles
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gruxime makes me a little insaneeeee esp from maximes perspective cus its like. damn. a hell of my own creation.
#like even outside of shipping or w/e if maxime hadnt embarrassed gru at homecoming they cld have been friends. more even#meeeee when im miserably unhappy in my group of friends trying to live up to something i can never be#instead of being myself w ppl who get it#it does make me smile that they seem to be on good terms at the end of 4 and makes me think that like. maybe gru never rllyyyy hated him..?#like to maxime it was world ending catastrophe but gru likes destroying ppls will to live for fun even as a kid#autism to autism communication… FAILED.#undecided on if gru wld have liked maxime back or not. at least in canon#ummmm. i think it cld be possible. but in a weird confused rivarly kinda way#like maxime is so bad at giving mixed signals that gru genuinely cant tell if he likes him or wants him dead for ages#like when ppl go ‘oooh hes just being mean cus he likes u’ but like. genuinely#um kind of a tangent but my thoughts for gru at lpb is that he mostly keeps to himself and doesnt rlly have any friends#but he dgaf (effect of literally never having had anyone close to him b4)#in comparison to maxime who is all abt cliques and surrounded by ppl …. but still alone 😔💔#i do think some of maximes friends wld be actually nice tho. like in the same position as him#everybodys just trying to fit in. u know#anyways i think gru wld spend 99% of his time either alone or chilling w the minions#but its just nicer for him to mostly be left alone instead of bullied by like. the whole school#btwwwww interesting that when maxime mocks him at the reunion 1. everyone laughs and 2. gru looks surprised that everyone laughs#like hm damn maybe having crazy popularity and connections pays off. Damn.#he doesnt seem to be bullied while actually at the school as ppl cheer for him at the show#i think this is maybe a byproduct of gru being considered a failed villain in the current day#HEY BTW i thought it was a littleeee strange that gru being an avl agent isnt like. common knowledge among villains. seems like big news#that wld have leaked somehow. but idk maybe he got lucky or the avl covered it up#but damn after the reunion they DEFINIETLY all know. cld be an interesting setup to dm5 [blinks cutely]#lol. anyways. my thoughts
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If that is what you got from me making a post where I joke about how actual society off of the Internet isn’t going to crucify me or harass me for enjoying something perceived weird, and thinking differently than the average person, all while staying in my own lane (and this isn’t even talking about me expressing that a lot of this is - probably - because of autism meaning my brain is LITERALLY WIRED DIFFERENTLY BUT THATS OKAY) I genuinely question your compassion for people who are different than you.
Like.
I honestly do worry how you handle meeting someone who’s just a bit different than you. You must be someone who immediately bullies someone you think is weird, even if they have done nothing to you except have fun.
#news flash! it’s okay to be weird!#it’s okay to enjoy weird shit!#and it doesn’t make you a ‘psycho’ or whatever!!#as someone raised with the family mantra of ‘let your freak flag fly’ I’ve always known it was okay to be the weird person#being weird makes you unique!!!#idk if anon can comprehend this but I actually have multiple friends who aren’t in fandom who LOVE hearing me update them about fandom#my sibling asks me constantly if there is new fandom drama#whenever I meet up with another friend one of the first things she asks me is what’s going on with Harry#I literally ranted to my husband’s best friend yesterday about fandom#and I have given (a requested) speech at a dnd game once to explain larrie#and even if none of those people believe it#or think it’s a little odd#they still enjoy my company#they still find me perfectly sane#because! being weird! isn’t a crime!#everyone would love much happier lives if we embraced our inner freak side#insert ‘don’t dream it be it’ from rocky horror picture show here#(okay actually people irl DO bully others for being weird and collectively as society we know THOSE are the bad people)#(but these anons don’t really understand nuance here)
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Sometimes I see sexuality or gender headcanons about characters and im just like dude im pretty sure they don't know what half those words mean
#random thoughts#'robbie valentino is panromantic demisexual' he looks like a self-described emo kid who would call me slurs in high school#yeah sure MAYBE he's those things but does he have the words for them? absolutely fucking not are you kidding me#and even if he did he would NOT use them. he's like those cishhet girls who make out with other cishet girls when they're drunk#he'd have like one homoerotic penpal througout high school and they're sending each other letters like it's the fucking victorian age#practicing calligraphy and shit (it's just cursive but even more completely illegible)#robbie DOES give off demisexual energy though. he'd just call it having taste#and he would bully people in his school who call themselves that#not like physically but emotionally. mean girl energy.#honestly the gravity falls teen friend group gives off that super emotionally abusive energy#like they talk shit about other people in their school and think they're above everyone else#except thompson he just gets like really quiet and awkward#let's be real robbie had an antagonistic relationship with a fucking twelve year old he's not thinking about gender or sexuality#he'll think about it for like five seconds before going 'that was weird let's go make flamethrowers out of old hairspray cans'#he would make fun of gender non-conforming students to distract people from the fact he's wearing eyeliner#he puts on eyeliner for the first time like 'huh. time to push this to the back of my brain for the next five years'#also robbie dyes his hair. that's canon. unrelated but i think it's funny#gravity falls#his middle name is fucking stacey???
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i look for irl friends everywhere but its always. my fucking coworkers. like inevitably the place im gonna find my best friends isnt gonna be through school or hobbies its the other ppl who are also working alongside me for just above minimum wage.
#idk if its the minimum wage thing or the job field im in. maybe something about a kitchen job just attracts the coolest ppl ever#either way kind of hate that development of my social life is always dependent on like. having to work for money#but it kinda selects for ppl i can get along w ig. like dawg i just cannot be friends w rich ppl#never could relate to like. the stereotype of highschool rich bullies who make fun of u for being weird an poor cuz like#most ppl at my highschool were also pretty poor but. kind of feel like im encountering that in my adult life#like either theyre stuck up an dont wanna interact w me at all#or im like. trying to connect w someone who thinks its normal that both their parents own a tesla#having friends who are like. poor or who were also in foster care is kind of more important to me#than having other friends who are queer i realized#like. i just have more in common w someone raised by their grandparents who isnt that familiar w queer culture#than i do w someone immersed in the culture whos parents make 100k#but i mean now i sorta have both im no longer the only queer in the kitchen#my boss is like the most badass dykiest dyke ive ever seen#i mean im gonna keep trying to find non-worker friends though. my boss told me i should go to a gay bar skfhjgsdj
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chat how to be meaner and less approachable irl so that weird bitches stop trying to be friends with me
#adri is not making sense#by weird i don't mean tumblr weird#i mean the type of girl who would treat someone who's neurodivergent like they're four#and a girl who literally used to bully my friend
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being the only autistic kid in a small town school was probably the worst experience a person can ever have
#i live in the middle of nowhere and i went to a school that had like 20 other people in my grade#and iwas the only one who didn’t fit the mold of cishet neurotypical christian whatever whatever#i also had anger issues from having my home life be fucking awful n people loved to use that to their advantage#imagine having a whole school constantly gang up on you for literally just existing#why does my existence make you want to fucking murder me i dont understand#i still feel to this day as if i shouldn’t be allowed to live and that everyone on the planet hates me#thank god high school was a better experience for me even tho some ppl had issues with me i ended up finding true friends#bc i left there lmao#im literally going to change my legal name one day bc im afraid of being known as that one weird girl in middle school.#why do i have to live this life?#i never share my face online for this reason too#what if one of my bullies finds out abt me and starts going off in the comments about how i was weird in middle school???? it’s fucking ……#i don’t go out bc im afraid of ppl recognizing me. for existing.#actually autistic#cptsd#bullying#so fun……………….
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there is smth to be said abt how chihiro is always always always depicted in feminine clothing in merch + supplementary material despite her horribly written backstory like.
at some point, if she really wanted to 'stop pretending', she could easily make the choice to wear smth more unisex and 'subtle' but she always goes for the cutest, most feminine looking outfits and its like girl........ girl.....!
#and do NOT tell me its for non-spoilery reasons that shes still included with the girls and always wears cute feminine outfits in merch#pretty much everybody whos brushed against danganronpa knows whats going on with junko#if chihiro really truly was just A Cis Boy Crossdressing To Avoid Bullying (which inherently doesnt make much sense to me)#then like. you think said Cis Boy would... idk... at least try toeing the line between feminine and masculine expression more...#nobody is forcing 'him' to wear cutesy outfits and frilly dresses and brightly colored tops and short shorts in the summer...! just sayin#her internalized transphobia was absolutely self-devouring. honest to god#it ate her from the inside#junko probably took a lot of her self realization and mental peace away abt her gender expression w that memory wipe#its so fucked up. jesus christ#and then u play the game and sakura is forced to touch her corpse to discover the 'truth' and everyone just instantly switches#to masc pronouns with no struggle#its so badly written lmao#lets not even talk abt the whole physical strength = masculinity thing going on with her#also ive entirely given up on caring abt how other ppl perceive her gender#its a battle nobody will ever win#canon says shes a cis boy#her continous choice to express femininely#even in scenarios where she'd likely have 'come out' to her friends#saying otherwise#its just like#as long as you arent telling me to kms over a trans hc#then i dont have the energy to care#bc ppl who see her as a cis boy will not listen or change their minds#and i will not change my mind abt seeing her as a girl#i will say tho ppl who make older chihiro designs#and give her an out of nowhere square jaw and broad shoulders#and is like 6 feet tall#you are weird. i know what ur doing
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