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So this is love?
#bts#bangtan#kim namjoon#prince of my heart#kim seokjin#world wide handsome#universe wide handsome#min yoongi#king of my heart#jung hoseok#my sunshine my hope#park jimin#kim taehyung#taebear#jeon jungkook#sweet baby koo#i love them so much#they mean so much to me#my comfort group for sure#i miss them sm rn#i can't wait for 2025#💜💜💜
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Irondad fic ideas #154
CW: this one's pretty gruesome. read at your own risk
Peter is a young child who's been kidnapped. His parents and/or his aunt and uncle were killed and he was taken. Along with a bunch of other little kids, he's been held captive and experimented on.
When the Avengers suddenly bust the kidnapping operation, the kidnappers try at the last second to destroy their research. They gas the small room where the kids are being held.
It's Iron Man who ends up blasting through. What he finds is horrifying. All but one of the children are dead.
The one who's left is just sitting among the bodies, crying, shocked, terrified. Iron Man carries him out of there, then once they're safe from the gas Tony steps out of the suit to comfort the kid while he's given oxygen.
Little 5-year-old Peter Parker imprints on his savior hard.
He just went through an unimaginable amount of trauma, then Iron Man burst through like an avenging angel. This is the first time he's ever felt protected in his memory. Tony holds the crying kid, and the kid can tolerate no one else near him.
This becomes a slight problem when they get back to base. But Tony can't find it in him to let SHIELD take the kid away, let them strip him of this one tiny bit of comfort. He keeps seeing all those other kids when he closes his eyes.
This one needs him right now. And if "right now" eventually becomes "this is my son," well. Who could've predicted that.
#sing it with me: codependency irl is bad but reading it in fic heals me on fundamental levels#give me separation anxiety peter! fiercely protective suddenly-a-parent tony!#irondad fic ideas#irondad and spiderson#btw sorry this is so gruesome y'all#cw: violence#idk is that the right tag?#just this image of peter being the only one of a whole group to survive wouldn't leave my brain#then him imprinting on his rescuer instantly#how tony might struggle with emotional vulnerability normally but wouldn't hesitate to comfort this child#iron dad and spider son#peter parker#tony stark#also imagine the moment a few months in when peter finally asks tony to be his dad#tony (crying): sure I can do that#imagine a moment where tony tells peter about his own time being kidnapped#imagine what would happen if the kidnappers (let's say hydra) CAME BACK#queueueueue#see announcements
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Tbh, nothing has made me sympathize more with Kipperlilly Copperkettle than her anger issues.
Cause anger is an emotion we feel when we're missing something. When we need something and can't get it. It's a balm to make us feel better when things don't go our way.
When things aren't fair.
#d20#dimension 20#d20 fantasy high#fantasy high junior year#d20 spoilers#fhjy#fantasy high spoilers#of course just cause you feel like things are unfair doesnt mean they actually are#and the reason why its an anger issue is cause the anger has befome detrimental#its warped from being somethjng to comfort you when you feel powerless to a tool you use against others when you fedl slighted#part of why anger issues are so hard to overcome is cause of how good it feels in the moment#even if you feel terrible guilt afterwards#the catharsis of releasing anger can be such a relief#that you dont even realise youve started looking for reasons to be angry#youre listing things that are terrible with the world just so you can feel better by getting angry at them#things like capitalism and people who bullied you and how your boss is a terrible racist#things that everyone can get angry over#until they get more personal and warps your judgment#“my boss called a group of immigrant a bunch of racial slurs” “his secretary was there too she can back me up”#“when i brought it up with her she says she wasnt payjng attention or something” “shes peobably racist too and thats why he hired her”#it becomes easier to make jumps like that instead of giving people the benefit of the doubt#easier to justify your anger with the smallest slights#until youre yelling at a pedestrian whe. you almost ran them over#“sure it was a red light but they shouldve paid attention and seen me coming too”#anyways this is all to say kipperlilly probably has some issues to deal with#idk if shes actually behind this plot or if shes being manipulated#doesmt stop her from being a total dick tho#but it does make me a little more sympathetic to her
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also uggh sorry to rant here rq ( might delete later if my dumbass dont forget ) but tbh this has kinda been bouncing around my mind where I only restrict having oc art / lore / etc on this blog cus dude it's honestly really demotivating to just have it flop really badly on twt.
yas, ik likes / views shouldn't equal worth but I think you gotta understand that getting a fanart piece to 1.7k, and then posting artwork of ur oc and it barely breaking 100 is actually saddening cus it's like. damn. ( only exception seems to be meiro tho but i kiinda wish my other guys also got just as much love )
idk and honestly the most interest I've seen in my guys is on here ( there are some people on twt but most of it is literally just my friends ) maybe I'm being dramatic about this and this is like. dumb and i'm asking for too much out of randos in my computer screen but idk man
fuck my chud life
#editing in tags but i think i also just generally feel more comfortable explaining my guys on tumblr compared to twt#probably because tumblr doesnt seem to be running rampant with weirdos and also interactions honestly feel more. personal and genuine?#im not sure how to describe it properly but tumblr is like going to a social group in a nice cozy house and twt is a cramped stadium#i think this is also because i'm Shy as fuck and having a smaller but genuine audience is nicer compared to having 4k anon eyes on me
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can't believe i get to hang out with my manager this week ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
#mm#wow we've never been to each other's houses before#i get to make us my mojitos and we're gonna have a marathon and there's a restaurant she really likes across the street#quesabirrias and blackberry mojitos... 🤤 I've always wanted to grab a drink with her sometime and it's nice that we can do that#more comfortably ^.^ i love one on one time with her 👩🏽❤️👩🏾👯♀️ yayy im so excited ♡#i hope i don't embarrass myself (。ノω\。) my flattery already flows out of me. she's so beautiful.. and like. really great#usually i either click w people or i don't but we got a lot closer over time and now we're so comfies with each other ♡#my friends and coworkers have also usually been two completely separate groups w one exception.. I've never had a#coworker who is also a good friend of mine before.. im so different with ppl outside of work esp if we're comfies w each other#a lot sweeter for sure (。ノω\。) ugh.. ma'am u drive me crazy. what am i going to do with myself 🙂↔️💕#anyways. i hope she has fun‚ i would like to be the best host i can be 🫡 anything for you my dearest
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{ He is slowly but surely getting done, both in icons and character information. God forbid him having proper tags any time soon though, but at least I'm doing something. Character information can be found here so far, just know it's not finished yet. }
#{ Additionally my Leon is not like the canon Leon because I based him off my Discord friend's version of Leon. }#{ And yes I asked his permission. He actually said he was extremely flattered by this since I love his Leon so much. }#{ So y'all will have to check out his character information in order to know what the specific thing about him is. }#{ I'm sure some people won't like it and others will probably be okay with it. }#{ But I'm not confident or very comfortable writing canon RE characters because of how in-depth they are. }#{ So I went with something I was comfortable with because I know it so fondly due to my friend. }#{ So I apologize to anyone who's unhappy about it but this is the version of Leon that I'm comfortable with because I've been writing with-#{ this version of a Leon for quite literally years with my group of RE friends from the old days. Viktor (my friend) has been with me- }#{ since forever playing Leon just as my friend Crissy has been with her Claire. These are my people and they inspire me every single day. }#☣ [ ' Tԋҽ σɳҽ ɯԋσ ʅҽαԃʂ Ⴆҽԋιɳԃ ƈʅσʂҽԃ ԃσσɾʂ. ' ] - ✡ Oυƚ σϝ Cԋαɾαƈƚҽɾ ✡
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I wish I could become friends with you but I have severe social anxiety and am also 17
there's nothing technically stopping you from being my friend! we've already got something in common-- anxiety buddies yay!!
#ask#anon#there's absolutely no pressure to talk to me if you don't feel comfortable#but i promise i'm nice! and i'm always down to talk to new people#if you ever decide you want to say hello then feel free! i try to be someone people feel comfortable approaching ^_^#also your being 17 wouldn't really get in the way of being my buddy. p sure one of my moots is like 13 it's all chill#so long as boundaries are mutually respected there's nothing wrong with making a friend with someone outside your exact age group#although i'm only 19 myself so idk if i'd consider ~2 years a big age difference anywho#ANYWAYS#point is i'm friendly. and i won't force u to talk to me or anything but if ur feeling brave i like yapping with folks :]
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For anyone else who may need to hear this today:
You will find people in your life who exactly what you can give is enough
You are allowed to set boundaries, you are allowed to not give everything
Looking after yourself means you can give more in the long run
You are enough
#putting the rant in the tags in case people find it comforting to relate#and also ahh#but without ruining the post#turns out my ex told one of my friends “im so glad you can give me that they couldnt”#were pretty sure that he meant emotional support#i put myself under stress to support him and it still wasnt enough#i did things that i was chill with doing but didnt care for and didnt have the energy/capabilities to pretend to enjoy#but it wasnt enough#two days after this he messaged to be like oh hey i miss us and i miss us being close#fuck you dude#im not mourning us youre alone in that#i dont even hate him and i know that he didnt mean bad from it#but man it got me thinking#dodged a fucking bullet#this is vaguely ace rather than aro themed#i am still both but my aceness is coming out in this post#sorry aros#ace#asexual#tried to make it vague so it fitted both though cause i feel like both groups can relate tm
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decided to leave my job and i'm gonna fr gonna cryyyyy
#literally can't work with my new boss bc i can't trust her#she went to the head of the department with complaints abt me without ever speaking to me or giving me any indication she was unhappy#and various other reasons im not happy w management and the school in general#HOWEVER#i love the kids sm and im gonna miss them and worry abt them 😭😭😭😭#im literally scared for some of them bc it feels like the other teachers have no empathy for some of my favorite kids#one of them who is so so sweet and when he cries i'm the girst to comfort him bc everyone else thinks he needs to toughen up 😭#also my new boss sucks so so bad and is gonna be such a bad influence on him and all the other kids#and my main co teacher said she's gonna quit if i do so i cant even beg her to look out for my babies and take care of them 😭💔#and it would be unprofessional to mention any concerns to the parents but genuinely some of the kids would be better off elsewhere#like im actually worried about it#i dont want some of the really sweet sensitive kids to lose their sweetness bc they're being treated unkindly#and the worst bullies and spoiled kids are the ones the teachers dote on#so it encourages some of the sweet ones to act out for attention#anyway 💔#i really do need to go tho#and i'm sure i'll love the kids at my new job#but im so sadddd#also its unlikely i can find a well paying job w this age group even tho i love this age group#its basically impossible not to get attached to them at this age and i get to pick them up and hold and cuddle them and stuff#and you cant really do that with the older kids sadly#literally on the verge of tears even seriously thinking abt leaving#things have been p bad for a while due to management but i never seriously considered leaving bc i love the kids so much#but i literally can't see a future here#and my new boss clearly hates me and im worried she's going to try to get me fired#she already made up a bunch of lies about me and its only been three weeks#anyway i only make 15 an hour so hopefully i'll at least get more somewhere else and i know i'll still love the kids#its just really hard#which is why i've stayed this long#i was p unhappy before my new boss even started bc of the way they treated my old boss
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when I was a very impressionable, socially stunted and nerdy gay 14 year old, my high school drama club put on a production of dracula, and I had never read it. i was in the crew, and mostly just sat around the auditorium and watched them rehearse. all the main roles were played by a friend group who had incredibly fun to watch chemistry off stage. the Dracula was this very very VERY tall person with long hair who was in my chorus class and insisted on singing soprano from time to time despite naturally being a bass (... estrogen when, queen?). the Johnathan was this short Flynn-Rider-from-Rapunzel-looking twink who was (in my mind) fought after by women around him. the Jonathan and the Dracula intentionally made their interactions extra homoerotic (I overheard them talking to the English teacher director about it one day) and would spend off time at rehearsal trying to do the dirty dancing "time of my life" lift. because I was 14, I unironically shipped them. the Mina was so beautiful and had a face that, imo, would be cast in one of those terrible BBC/netflix period dramas now. she had been friends with the other two since before I started high school. because I was a polyamorous 14 year old, I also shipped the Jonathan with the Mina. i had a crush on the person who played Lucy in the cast since middle school, they were my age but so cool and likeable they melted into the older drama kid friend circle effortlessly. i had some interesting emotions about the scene where Lucy is covered in blood in a wedding dress. during the final cast and crew party, the Dracula threw a chocolate flower into the group and I caught it then proceeded to hold onto it for years after. then they all graduated, besides the Lucy. anyway, those are the versions of all the characters that live in my head when I read my Dracula daily.
#dracula daily#this is a treat for anyone who knows me from high school im sure#the holding onto the chocolate flower for years after is a metaphor#something something socially isolated child knows and dearly loves a group of people whom they never interact with#and found comfort in through the act of ritualistically watching them every day after school for months#my face when my stunted ass internalized real ass people around me as my blorbos#i wish i had the social skills to talk to any of them at the time. they were all so nice!#i did however reconnect with the Lucy in the last year or so. we went on a walk in the woods#and i learned a lot about them that i never knew despite growing up beside them#i wish we'd had more time to hang out before i moved. theyre cool
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fighting to hold myself back from saying i love you every time he says something that reminds me of it
#boink#the thing is that i love telling my friends i love them#but some people im not sure how comfortable they are with that#like i dont want to overbear yk#anyway i love him a lot and he very often says things and i just#says something very characteristic of himself#and i kind of just#i---. you.... youre.. silly#sometimes all i can do is just look at him and try not to smile too broadly#its just hopeless and i know i love him as a friend and i care about him#but i am also seriously starting to worry that i am actually falling in love with him#i dont know if thats possible#i am probably overreacting#but hes so caring and smart and beautiful and blunt and clever and obtuse and radical and pragmatic and soft and loud and bright#and he makes me feel safe and worthwhile and important#and god of course hes not perfect#but is anyone?#i love being around him#talking about whatever. anything.#i could listen to him talk forever. he listens to me talk forever#about big things and small things and nothing#i love sitting with him and saying nothing#i love his high laugh and the way he waves with his fingers curled#i love the freckles on his neck and the five oclock shadow thats so light its only visible from up close#i love how he never lets me get left out of a group#i just love knowing him
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hate funerals bc the last one i went to my friend cried in front of everyone that she was to blame for her brothers death and it broke my heart like idk why anyone thinks speaking in front of a group is emotionally healing right after a death i think it can cause the bereaved way more confusion and pain tbh like theyve barely had a few days to confront what happened and you want them to speak eloquently in front of friends and loved ones? im sure some can and do find it healing, but the way many people force people to go up and speak bc they'll "feel better" or regret it is so mean and cruel in my eyes
#i think funerals should focus as much as making sure the bereaved are care for#memorials are way better in my opinion and less importance should be on the funeral in terms of group activity :/#the healing comes from being surrounded by loved ones and speaking to them#not necessarily monologuing at them by yourself#but im sure some find that comforting and ok#my friend was fourteen and terrified and traumatized
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Love it when I stumble upon a new blog for someone I used to write with like, five years ago, and find out I'm still blocked. Homie. Was the beef that bad.
#ⅹⅳ loci phantasma ( ooc. )#i left a group rp server for my own comfort and because i didn't explicitly say why the whole gang ended up blocking me#like.... my dude i just didn't vibe with one of the new folks. that isn't a crime. and it isn't lying#but yeah sure continue to find out my urls and block me. ill return the favor. it makes it easier for all of us#negative tw#more. lamenting than drama intended. more disgust with who i used to he#my brain wasn't even fully formed 5 years ago#like. looking back at it. i was so cringe#i was so desperate to fit in and feel wanted and - yes. even popular. i wanted to be desired#and unfortunately chasing that high usually does finish in being cast aside once you're no longer hot shit#i honestly would not be surprised if i had just been tolerated and they were looking for a reason to cut me off. thats happened before#when you're a glutton you will eat until your stomach hurts. i would gorge on the attention even though -#it ached afterward. i was so embarrassing lol
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me: nervous about my first fansign experience despite being assured it was just as fast as hi touch
my first fansign experience: EXTREMELY POSITIVE and also so fast I feel like I blacked out and can't remember the order the members were sitting in (except for that I think Haruna might have been first and Tsuki was definitely last in line at the table)
I went through the line saying hi hello thank you, etc etc to everyone and I'm still riding the high of 1) one member telling me she liked my hair and thought it was pretty, 2) another member brightening up over my eyeliner + gems and saying I looked pretty, and 3) tsuki signing my album, looking up, and pausing with the album held aloft to tell me I was very pretty before handing the album to the staff so they'd give it back to me :')
#telomirage.txt#I know we know this but they are all SO beautiful and they're very good at their jobs#they went All In for hi touch and group photos#and the concert itself has cemented a place in my top ten I think :')#so many great performances so much good energy and (for the first time ever I think) NOT A SINGLE BARK FROM THE CROWD#about halfway through the set my friend leaned over to say she didn't think she'd heard any barking yet and I was like 🤫 shhhhhhh#we have to see if we can make it. AND WE DID IT#'is barking really a huge concern?' several groups who have toured here are convinced it's our 'thing' and that's not a legacy I want lol#I got a snapshot with haram and she was so sweet#but also the staff taking the polas must have miscommunicated because haram was like 'pose three?' and put her arm around me and I was#like 'okay sure why not' because if that's the one she wanted to do I wasn't going to correct her 😂#I wish I'd recovered fast enough to turn a little more to stand more comfortably with or without a polite arm around her as well 😂#but she was Ready and it was fine lol#god also they told us they loved our energy and were thankful for and proud of us and I only teared up little bit#and I only cried a little during two (or three???) songs so 💪🏼🌟#also the sign I made turned out great 🌟🌟#the drive home was mostly fine which is good#a great first day of vacation for sure
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i wish i could find any decent blogs about ace pride/positivity because i go out into the world and i read books by ace people and i read what people have to say about their lives and i feel so seen then i come on tumblr and it's a bunch of people just constantly fucking whining and dwelling on the negative and i swear to god if i hear one more person call asexuality "valid" im gonna scream like. where are the posts where people talk about their experiences navigating friendship as an adult when all their friends have partners? posts where aplatonic people talk about what they love?? posts where people share silly stories about awkward accidental flirtation??? posts that make it so we can talk about the parts of being aro/ace/etc that are good and positive and hopeful???? asexuality is such a complicated experience and it can definitely feel scary and alienating in the same way all queerness can, but im so tired of reading posts about negative shit when my experience of being ace has been primarily a positive one
#it's just suuuch a tumblr reaction to be like 'no one has heard of my sexuality...... oh this makes me a victim i should blog about it'#like what about just joining a queer group and talking to people about it??#or again just making posts about your experience and showing people that it's a positive one#but the obsession with outside validation really tips me off that these people are motivated by insecurity#they don't feel comfortable being proud of being ace unless someone tells them they can#but they seem to feel very comfortable expressing self-pity#im sure these are mostly young people so i will cut the tumblr community some slack#but come on guys stop being such negative nancies all the time i truly just wanna party#we'll serve cake the ace community will like that#bri babbles
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I'm in the metro and theres what appears to be an entire class of fourth graders in here on what i assume is a class trip. props to the teachers here who look super at ease in a packed subway car with their kids; it's not an impossible task by any means, im pretty comfortable with transit-with-large-group-of-children procedure myself, but its smth i know can be super nerve-wracking (it definitely took Years for me to be confident about it)
#im super comfortable with it mainly bc i make very very sure my group knows my rules by heart before we even leave camp#(granted my group is usually teens so it helps that they also know what theyre doing)#(but ive handled a group of ~25 ten-year-olds and its really not so bad as long as you have clear expectations#and also a co-counselor you communicate super well with)#mattie chatters
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