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So this is love?










#bts#bangtan#kim namjoon#prince of my heart#kim seokjin#world wide handsome#universe wide handsome#min yoongi#king of my heart#jung hoseok#my sunshine my hope#park jimin#kim taehyung#taebear#jeon jungkook#sweet baby koo#i love them so much#they mean so much to me#my comfort group for sure#i miss them sm rn#i can't wait for 2025#💜💜💜
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honestly reaching the point where it just pisses me off so bad that so few people mask! and also less importantly that that's made it so much harder to make friends here!!!! like surely socializing outside of a bar will not kill you.....
#i think because rent is so expensive everyone has roommates or small places or no outdoor space so can't host friends#or like don't want to in any case#but even if you meet in a third location there's lots of parks and the beach.......#i know the weather is often bad but like surely someone can meet me halfway......and it doesn't even get proper cold like in the midwest#even with friends i've made in classes and things it bothers me that they never mask and are always posting instastories at the club or w/e#and it's often a weird negotiation with my partner's family bc they aren't antimask but they don't really understand why we do#or why we don't necessarily feel comfortable making exceptions for an extended family event or whatever#on the plus side some groups have started doing mask mandatory craft nights and concerts and things in the city#so there's that#sorry for being so negative i'm just like please god......#personal nonsense
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Irondad fic ideas #154
CW: this one's pretty gruesome. read at your own risk
Peter is a young child who's been kidnapped. His parents and/or his aunt and uncle were killed and he was taken. Along with a bunch of other little kids, he's been held captive and experimented on.
When the Avengers suddenly bust the kidnapping operation, the kidnappers try at the last second to destroy their research. They gas the small room where the kids are being held.
It's Iron Man who ends up blasting through. What he finds is horrifying. All but one of the children are dead.
The one who's left is just sitting among the bodies, crying, shocked, terrified. Iron Man carries him out of there, then once they're safe from the gas Tony steps out of the suit to comfort the kid while he's given oxygen.
Little 5-year-old Peter Parker imprints on his savior hard.
He just went through an unimaginable amount of trauma, then Iron Man burst through like an avenging angel. This is the first time he's ever felt protected in his memory. Tony holds the crying kid, and the kid can tolerate no one else near him.
This becomes a slight problem when they get back to base. But Tony can't find it in him to let SHIELD take the kid away, let them strip him of this one tiny bit of comfort. He keeps seeing all those other kids when he closes his eyes.
This one needs him right now. And if "right now" eventually becomes "this is my son," well. Who could've predicted that.
#sing it with me: codependency irl is bad but reading it in fic heals me on fundamental levels#give me separation anxiety peter! fiercely protective suddenly-a-parent tony!#irondad fic ideas#irondad and spiderson#btw sorry this is so gruesome y'all#cw: violence#idk is that the right tag?#just this image of peter being the only one of a whole group to survive wouldn't leave my brain#then him imprinting on his rescuer instantly#how tony might struggle with emotional vulnerability normally but wouldn't hesitate to comfort this child#iron dad and spider son#peter parker#tony stark#also imagine the moment a few months in when peter finally asks tony to be his dad#tony (crying): sure I can do that#imagine a moment where tony tells peter about his own time being kidnapped#imagine what would happen if the kidnappers (let's say hydra) CAME BACK#queueueueue#see announcements
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FRAME GAMERS i need your sage and wise counsel. i have talents. i have an artist's eye and can fly any frame you give me into the world serve centre.
but builds and number crunching do not fall under that. can somebody who knows more than me look this over. is there anything about this build that seems like the kind of decision somebody dying in the arctic would make
khora
whipclaw
is doughty the play here? i can't run influence since this is my 'i'm dicking around in steel path, where's the tellurium' build, room nukes are out because they kill enemies before they hit the dome. this works fine, but i'm curious
#warframe#don't even look at my companion builds they're all awful awful awful#i have two azure shards for energy since i run naramon and in groups it's pretty comfortable#will of course be memeing into prime sure footed when i get it. eventually#everybody who doesn't play warframe don't worry about all this. it's nonsense.
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What do you mean people don't share food?? I love Raven opening up Ghost to being adventurous when it comes to tasting things. Does she share food with the others? Price, Nik, Gaz? What about Ghost sharing food with them? XD
Yeah, more than you think! I don't think it's about selfishness (not for all cases at least). I think if you grow up in a certain way, food becomes a sort of security. When food become one of the few constant growing up, then it becomes more than just food, it would feel like you're taking something private to them if you're sharing food. Probably have something to do with control and comfort zone too, if you're poking your fork into a meal, it's like you're crossing a boundary.
Not everyone grew up with food sharing culture! I like to think Ghost is maybe one of these people who feels this way with food, if not I just think that Ghost is just Ghost, being blunt with his habits eating alone and stuff so when Raven offer her food he doesn't know what to do or react lmao
Yeah Raven shares her food freely, wouldn't hesitate to give a whole drumstick for a stray too, cuz she grew up starved, and food is comfort she would not hesitate to share
She would fight anyone who takes more than what she offers though
I don't think Ghost would get use to sharing food around, at least not as openly as Raven. Maybe he'll just casually drop a bag on Soap or like slide the plate over to Price with a single grunt and leave
#I was gonna say that this is a guy thing but i also dont wanna sound like an instagram influencer lmao#but this is something i see more in guys#like you'll have a group of guys going out in mamak (road side Malay hawker stall in Malaysia) or anywhere#they'll all order their own things and eat their own stuff#sure there's the occasional “ay bro lemme get that fries bro” “nah fk you get your own” but that's it#maybe it's vulnerability??? idfk#whereas when I go out with girls we would share our plate of food and all#we do the thing where everyone order something different then we all get to try it#my ex was like how i did Ghost in the latest doodle LOL#he wasn't familiar with food sharing concept#like we would go to cafes and stuff and he'll order that one specific drink or dessert#and so one day i just decided to ask if he wanted to try anything and he said why and i asked well have you tried em?#“no” do you wanna “why” maybe you'll like it “oh...uh sure”#yeah idk LMAO#it just never occured to him#i dont blame him because constant and repetition is comfort to some people so#idk if i make sense im just rambling lmao#ask response
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#so I have a ‘friend’ who is a complete control freak and I’m starting to think she’s a narcissist too lowkey#I wanted to host an ides of March party on Saturday and she was so vocal about how dumb she thought it was#until our other friends voiced interest in it. then she was all over the idea.#well she automatically assumed we were having it at her apartment until I said I thought we could have it at my place since we have#the fenced in yard and fire pit and it’s supposed to be perfect fire weather this weekend. she got huffy about it but ended up agreeing#well I made a comment in our groupchat saying I would get little ceasars pizza to add to our potluck#(everyone was supposed to bring a stabbable food or Roman themed food or whatever)#she immediately starts ranting about how gross she thinks little ceasars is and how we cant possibly do that#I told her she was supposed to bring a dish anyway and that I was paying for the pizza#and she was like ‘why can’t we just get a different brand and stab it with knives?’ and at this point I’m over the entire conversation and#I’m just like ‘do whatever you want ig’. so then she sends a pic of frozen pizza and asks if that would work and I was like sure Idc#so TODAY she makes a comment in one of the group chats about how her fuck buddy is coming into town and she’s bringing him to the party#I messaged her privately and was like ‘I don’t think I’m comfortable with him coming.’ and she goes ‘#‘can I ask why?’ and I very calmly go ‘because I’ve never met him before and this is my parent’s house.’ also she never asked me if it was#okay and I’m exhausted from traveling the past two weeks and don’t have the bandwidth to meet new people rn. I just wanted to hang out wit#my friends. and she comes back with ‘I just assumed we always had an oven door policy so I didn’t think I had to ask maybe because we ALWAYS#hang out at your place??? who in their right mind just assumes shit like that? so she starts saying that she doesn’t think it’s fair to#leave her fuck buddy at her apartment for that long and that she’ll just skip. I told her I didn’t want her to think I don’t want her to go#so I offered to move it to next weekend so more of our friends could come too and she agreed. then she asks if I want to tell everyone or if#she needs to and so I sent our group a message just explaining that since a lot of people were too busy this weekend we could move it to#next weekend so everyone could go. THIS BITCH then proceeds to send a message about how she’s probably busy next weekend but everyone can#come to her house on Saturday to watch movies instead. like wtf???#I feel crazy rn because she’s making me feel like a grade A bitch over this#and I’m just…..SO fucking mad about all of this.#Liz’s personal tag#Liz rants
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also uggh sorry to rant here rq ( might delete later if my dumbass dont forget ) but tbh this has kinda been bouncing around my mind where I only restrict having oc art / lore / etc on this blog cus dude it's honestly really demotivating to just have it flop really badly on twt.
yas, ik likes / views shouldn't equal worth but I think you gotta understand that getting a fanart piece to 1.7k, and then posting artwork of ur oc and it barely breaking 100 is actually saddening cus it's like. damn. ( only exception seems to be meiro tho but i kiinda wish my other guys also got just as much love )
idk and honestly the most interest I've seen in my guys is on here ( there are some people on twt but most of it is literally just my friends ) maybe I'm being dramatic about this and this is like. dumb and i'm asking for too much out of randos in my computer screen but idk man
fuck my chud life
#editing in tags but i think i also just generally feel more comfortable explaining my guys on tumblr compared to twt#probably because tumblr doesnt seem to be running rampant with weirdos and also interactions honestly feel more. personal and genuine?#im not sure how to describe it properly but tumblr is like going to a social group in a nice cozy house and twt is a cramped stadium#i think this is also because i'm Shy as fuck and having a smaller but genuine audience is nicer compared to having 4k anon eyes on me
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okay lol mini rant in the tags sorry i just HAD to get this off my chest 😭 sorry if this is very incoherent and poorly worded or structured or whatever i'm just. pretty out of it and i cannot really think to write this properly. well, that or i am probably just illiterate actually. Yeah that's it lol
#why are friendships so complicated#in my last year of senior high school at an all girls school#i transferred last year#and it's just cliques left and right#they all hate each other#i'm the type of person who can vibe with all of them even if their personalities are very very different#i am kind of friends with everyone in the sense that i can find common ground and have interact comfortably and enjoyably#my friend group from grade 11 (theyve been friends w each other for so long and i was the newcomer) dissolved this year bc things went down#i dont know the full extent of what happened#but those five friends split and three have merged with another group#the group that isolate my other two friends and seem to not like them#at least the “leader” of the group anyway. Not so sure about the rest#and now i am stuck in the middle lol. I have other friends from other groups but they have their own groups#the three girls already have each other and the new group (it's kind of a mix of me excluding myself on purpose and them not including me#in things presumably bc i am still “close” with my other two friends they don't like#it is a weird dynamic because me and the other group the three other girls merged with can vibe with each other#we can laugh with each other and enjoy each others company when theyre not talking shit (they rarely do it in front of ppl so i havent rlly#seen the full extent of it)#and also my two other friends are obviously closer to each other than with me since theyve been friends for way longer#i remember i had a conversation with one of my friends from the three girls that split away#it was something like i have to tell the class this and that etc since im the president#and i am not a very assertive person i am also very scared of being disliked. I told her i didn't want the class to hate me and she said#“everybody likes you you are friends with everyone”#it really doesn't feel that way. why do i feel like secretly they are talking shit#again i dont even know why we split up#but now i am just. Stuck in the middle#the thing is ive never even heard my other three friends talk shit and do nasty stuff with the new group/the main clique of the class#i havent seen the bad side to anything that i hear whispers about because ive never seen it#i havent been subjected to it either#i feel like i am wrong about a lot of things but i am just. blind or too deep into my people pleasing tendencies to not realize shit
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I wish I could become friends with you but I have severe social anxiety and am also 17
there's nothing technically stopping you from being my friend! we've already got something in common-- anxiety buddies yay!!
#ask#anon#there's absolutely no pressure to talk to me if you don't feel comfortable#but i promise i'm nice! and i'm always down to talk to new people#if you ever decide you want to say hello then feel free! i try to be someone people feel comfortable approaching ^_^#also your being 17 wouldn't really get in the way of being my buddy. p sure one of my moots is like 13 it's all chill#so long as boundaries are mutually respected there's nothing wrong with making a friend with someone outside your exact age group#although i'm only 19 myself so idk if i'd consider ~2 years a big age difference anywho#ANYWAYS#point is i'm friendly. and i won't force u to talk to me or anything but if ur feeling brave i like yapping with folks :]
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For anyone else who may need to hear this today:
You will find people in your life who exactly what you can give is enough
You are allowed to set boundaries, you are allowed to not give everything
Looking after yourself means you can give more in the long run
You are enough
#putting the rant in the tags in case people find it comforting to relate#and also ahh#but without ruining the post#turns out my ex told one of my friends “im so glad you can give me that they couldnt”#were pretty sure that he meant emotional support#i put myself under stress to support him and it still wasnt enough#i did things that i was chill with doing but didnt care for and didnt have the energy/capabilities to pretend to enjoy#but it wasnt enough#two days after this he messaged to be like oh hey i miss us and i miss us being close#fuck you dude#im not mourning us youre alone in that#i dont even hate him and i know that he didnt mean bad from it#but man it got me thinking#dodged a fucking bullet#this is vaguely ace rather than aro themed#i am still both but my aceness is coming out in this post#sorry aros#ace#asexual#tried to make it vague so it fitted both though cause i feel like both groups can relate tm
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my irls are literally the best ppl ever and i feel so lucky to know them
#statement.txt#feeling sappy rn <3#my friends found out ive not had a party since i was a teenager and are DETERMINED to make sure i have one this year#a friend helped me rent the location i wanna have it and another is gonna help me decorate#and i told them not to get me anything and now they're like 'oooooooo i got u somethinggggggggggggg'#i love them all so much#i dont know where i'd be without this group i literally met them last year and now i work with one of them 4 days a week#and we hang out until 5 am sometimes and they make me feel like a person#grahhhhhhhhhhhh i love them#my alters even feel comfortable around them which is wild bc they rarely feel comfortable around ppl irl!!
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But what about... The OC......
#wow i have a ramble tag now#rotating amaris as usual. don't mind me i'm normal about my made up guy#came to the wonderful (?) realization he's never really had to manage money. he knows what money is and he's handled money before#but he has never done accounts or whatever. his clan has an accountant whose job that is#treasurer of the clan lmao#and the inquisition obviously has people for that too#maker willing when he & dorian get to have an domestic (-ish) time together after everything#dorian is going to realize his partner has never done his own accounts#i mean. has dorian?? are they both looking at their money like 'okay how does this work?'#or more realistically. 'this can't be that hard. i know how money works!' <- amaris says that and he does not. not really :')#other things about him: if he's upset and trying to work through things he wants company#but it's either just chilling with one person quietly. or chilling while other people are there to provide background noise#the issue is he needs to determine which one it is#because if he needs quiet one-on-one having a group of people not including him in a discussion#is going to feel like he's not a person and he doesn't have friends. which is bad#but if he needs [asmr tavern ambiance 3h - special with your loved one's voices]#then quiet one-on-one is too focused on him and scrutinizing and pressuring. not good for working through difficult feelings either#what is rarely going to work is being alone in his room. but he still does it lol#also. i hope inquisition makes you choose between duty and loved ones and then it twists the knife about your choice no matter what#amaris is going to pick duty if it comes to that. and he's going to feel like shit about it#and some of his loved ones (cough. dorian) are also not going to love it. i need it to happen#but for now he's burning the candle at both ends to avoid having to pick :) surely that'll end well too#also home is his clan except not 100% (and even then they've settled in wycome so. not the same if he goes back)#but it's not skyhold either. kind of but not really#kind of sad but i think the closest he has to home right now is going on missions#the tents and his companions and nature around and concrete tasks#that's when he's barefoot most. that's the comfort sign. quiet and barefoot. that's at home comfy amaris#he's not running around skyhold barefoot. how unbefitting of the inquisitor!#but somewhere in the emerald graves with just friends around? in the evening after a long day?#he's listening to the companions chatter and he's barefoot and he's outside. and he falls asleep easily after
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when I was a very impressionable, socially stunted and nerdy gay 14 year old, my high school drama club put on a production of dracula, and I had never read it. i was in the crew, and mostly just sat around the auditorium and watched them rehearse. all the main roles were played by a friend group who had incredibly fun to watch chemistry off stage. the Dracula was this very very VERY tall person with long hair who was in my chorus class and insisted on singing soprano from time to time despite naturally being a bass (... estrogen when, queen?). the Johnathan was this short Flynn-Rider-from-Rapunzel-looking twink who was (in my mind) fought after by women around him. the Jonathan and the Dracula intentionally made their interactions extra homoerotic (I overheard them talking to the English teacher director about it one day) and would spend off time at rehearsal trying to do the dirty dancing "time of my life" lift. because I was 14, I unironically shipped them. the Mina was so beautiful and had a face that, imo, would be cast in one of those terrible BBC/netflix period dramas now. she had been friends with the other two since before I started high school. because I was a polyamorous 14 year old, I also shipped the Jonathan with the Mina. i had a crush on the person who played Lucy in the cast since middle school, they were my age but so cool and likeable they melted into the older drama kid friend circle effortlessly. i had some interesting emotions about the scene where Lucy is covered in blood in a wedding dress. during the final cast and crew party, the Dracula threw a chocolate flower into the group and I caught it then proceeded to hold onto it for years after. then they all graduated, besides the Lucy. anyway, those are the versions of all the characters that live in my head when I read my Dracula daily.
#dracula daily#this is a treat for anyone who knows me from high school im sure#the holding onto the chocolate flower for years after is a metaphor#something something socially isolated child knows and dearly loves a group of people whom they never interact with#and found comfort in through the act of ritualistically watching them every day after school for months#my face when my stunted ass internalized real ass people around me as my blorbos#i wish i had the social skills to talk to any of them at the time. they were all so nice!#i did however reconnect with the Lucy in the last year or so. we went on a walk in the woods#and i learned a lot about them that i never knew despite growing up beside them#i wish we'd had more time to hang out before i moved. theyre cool
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Thinking about all the rumours about a potential P4 remake, my mind really has just kept wandering to things I'd want to see and, excluding the obvious stuff that people would expect from me (Yes, I do want a Yosuke romance, he's been one of my all-time favourite characters since I was 13), I think the main thing I want is just some of the scenes being able to fully lean into their tone and atmosphere thanks to higher quality models and animations. Especially since a big thing I enjoy about P4 is how calming and relaxing the setting is, and then how that contrasts to the overarching story.
And the thing that made me realise this is the scene where you can go into the TV to confront Adachi by yourself. Because it's a great scene, really unsettling... But then the vibe gets kinda dulled by the big goofy smile on Adachi's model. Then my mind just kinda wandered into how neat it would be to get a more cinematic take on that scene, especially since they could probably show more reactions from the protagonist as well.
I dunno, I just had an idea floating around my head for the past week or so and had to ramble somewhere.
#i probably did a bad job explaining#i suck at putting my thoughts into words#like i dunno p4 is probably my comfort game in the series#which i know is probably an odd thing to say about the game where you have to solve a serial murder case#but hey inaba's a nice place and the party is the one that feels most like a friend group to me#it's cozy#feel free to ignore i'm not entirely sure myself#persona 4#persona 4 spoilers#i guess??#if the remake is a possibility???#i'll play it safe just in case
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One fun unintended consequence of having the shuffle rule every year for the BOTC World Cup is that it’s like a social reset on shuffle-and-go vs bag-building games.
I’ve seen it for at least the last two years, if not the last three — the world cup’s Shuffle-Then-Change-Up-To-Five rule forces a lot of games where you just let things happen, and even groups who aren’t actually playing World Cup games will use that rule quite a bit. And then we get wash back of that for at least a few months — lots of shuffle-and-go, even for non-TB scripts. And then slowly through the fall people start being really deliberate about trying to build bags with potential wild interactions (ie boffin-philo-cannibal-alchemist-wizard-level shit), which can be very fun, EXCEPT that when the wild thing doesn’t happen the game is often poorly balanced in other ways because the bag was built with this one edge case in mind.
And then the World Cup comes around, and people start randomizing more, and the cycle continues.
#I am LOVING some of the Djinn rules this year btw#and I’m also branching out of my comfort teams a bit#which is difficult because I listen to games like a podcast#so for TPI/Arif/Patters streams I know everyone’s voices and don’t have to look at the screen to know who is talking to whom#(and I can almost do the same for CBOTC except that Mia Autumn Hallow Monica and DJ all have the same voice)#but for other groups I have to look at the screen pretty often to make sure I’m not mixing up who’s talking to whom#but god I love this game#BOTC#Blood on the Clocktower
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was wondering if I should vacuum before my friend comes over for dinner and was also having despairing thoughts about the state of my shower tile but then I remembered what HER bathroom looks like and well. I don’t need to be worrying about all that
#for my own comfort I’ll vacuum tonight but not scrub#it truly is something to be the member of the friend group who has their shit together the most#pretty sure it would never occur to her to clean the bathroom at all never mind before a guest arrives#we do have fun around here#rare pic of me in the wild
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