#mspec strayt

[genderstarbucks]

Hey mspec monos! Why do you identify as mspec mono?

Nothing serious about this poll, I'm just curious (personally I'm abrosexual and on the SAM)

[ryanyflags]

quasicgender | mesriengender kelviangender | metisiangender

Some astral alignments (mspec monospec) orientationgenders

I saw orientationgender flags for other astral alignments, but not these 4, so I made them :)

Definitions:

quasicgender: when your quasic (mspec cenelian) identity is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two.

mesriengender: when your mesrien (mspec straight) identity is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two.

kelviangender: when your kelvian (mspec gai) identity is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two.

metisiangender: when your metisian (mspec strayt) identity is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two.

These can be thought of as alts to mspec cenelian, straight, gai, and strayt orientationgenders, since that's basically what those terms mean.

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The use this style of orientationgender flag as reference.

The flags colours are taken from their original mspec flags, and rearranged.

[yourfavusescontradictorylabels]

Ducky from Toy Story 1 (the mutant toy, not the plush from Toy Story 4) is mspec gai, gai n’ strayt, and mspec strayt!

Ducky from Toy Story is mspec gai, gai strayt, and mspec strayt!

[redtail-lol]

I got a question for the mspec straights

*this option ALSO includes people who are demigender/paragender/libragender, genderfae/genderfaun, xenoboy/xenogirl, and other nonbinary identities that are aligned masculinely or femininely, leading to a person still feeling cisgender or transgender

This is genuinely just out of curiosity. Specifically for mspec straights because I feel like people might portray them as "evil cishet invaders" (even though I fully support monogender binary cis mspec straights) when I feel it's a lot more likely that straights who are mspec, especially those who are mspec straights the way I'm an mspec lesbian, (attraction includes nb people) would be some form of fun gender fuckery

[littllast]

— halloween queerhetero flag !!

cr: kanewah on telegram

[mogai-reblog]

As pride month is coming to a close, here's a positivity post for people who are often not included in these types of posts!!

For the hijras, for the tritiya prakritis, for the Hindu queers, for the Muslim queers, for the Christian queers, for the Jewish queers, for any religious queers, for the people who have a specific cultural/religious identity and thus doesn't see themselves as queer/LGBTQIA+, for the pangender agenders, for the mspec monospecs, for the gaybians, for the gais, for the strayts, for the nonbinary people who consider themselves straight, for the cis intersex people, for the straight people who are in a relationship with a nonbinary person and sees it as queer despite them being straight!, for the Palestinian queers both alive and dead, for the severely disabled queers, for the mid-high support needs queers, for the intellectually disabled queers

For the overshadowed people, for the hated people.

Of the people, for the people

[revenant-coining]

hi! could you find a bunch of mspec mono terms? i’ve been looking for some kind of thing that has a lot of them compiled into one post, so it would be really helpful. thanks!

here ya go! we’re sure there is more but here’s all the one’s we found on tumblr!

Abro (x)

Abro Achillean (link)

Abro Cenelian (link)

Abro Equaric (link)

Abro Gay (link)

Abro Sapphic (link)

Abro Straightbian (link)

Abro Straightrian (link)

Abro Straightlian (link)

Abro Straightgay (link)

Abro Trixic (link)

Abro Uranic (link)

Bi (x)

Bi Achillean (link)

Bi Cenelian (link)

Bi Equaric (link)

Bi Het/Straight (link)

Bi Lesbian (link)

Bi Gai (link)

Bi Gay (link) 1

Bi Gay (link) 2

Bi Gay Man/Turian/Veldian (link) 1

Bi Gay Man/Turian (link) 2

Bi Straightbian (link)

Bi Straightrian (link)

Bi Straightlian (link)

Bi Straightgay (link)

Bi Strayt (link)

Bi Trixic (link)

Bi Uranic (link)

Mspec (x)

Mspec Achillean (link)

Mspec Cenelian (link)

Quasic (Mspec Cenelian) (link)

Mspec Equaric (link)

Mspec Gai (link)

Kelvian (Mspec Gai) (link)

Mspec Mono (link)

Mspec Trixic (link)

Mspec Sapphic (link)

Jupiteric/Mesrien (Mspec Straight) (link)

Mspec Straightbian (link)

Mspec Straightrian (link)

Mspec Straightlian (link)

Mspec Straightgay (link)

Mspec Strayt (link)

Metisian (Mspec Strayt) (link)

Mspec Uranic (link)

Omni (x)

Omni Achillean (link)

Omni Cenelian (link)

Omni Equaric (link)

Omni Lesbian (link)

Omni Gai (link)

Omni Gay (link) 1

Omni Gay (link) 2

Omni Gay Man/Turian/Veldian (link) 1

Omni Gay Man/Turian (link) 2

Omni Straightbian (link)

Omni Straightrian (link)

Omni Straightlian (link)

Omni Straightgay (link)

Omni Strayt (link)

Omni Trixic (link)

Omni Uranic (link)

Pan (x)

Pan Achillean (link)

Pan Cenelian (link)

Pan Equaric (link)

Pan Lesbian (link)

Pan Gai (link)

Pan Gay (link) 1

Pan Gay (link) 2

Pan Gay Man/Turian/Veldian (link) 1

Pan Gay Man/Turian (link) 2

Pan Straightbian (link)

Pan Straightrian (link)

Pan Straightlian (link)

Pan Straightgay (link)

Pan Strayt (link)

Pan Trixic (link)

Pan Uranic (link)

[ballsalsda]

lesbians I love you

gay people I love you

bi people I love you

pan people I love you

poly people I love you

omni people I love you

other mspec people I forgot I love you

trans people I love you

transmasc people I love you

transfem people I love you

transneu people I love you

non binary people I love you

other trans people I love you

transhets I love you

agender people I love you

neutrois people I love you

androgyne people I love you

bigender people I love you

trigender people I love you

quadgender people I love you

quintgender people I love you

polygender people I love you

pangender people I love you

other multigender people I love you

genderfluid people I love you

genderfae people I love you

genderfaun people I love you

genderflor people I love you

genderfaunet people I love you

genderfaer people I love you

genderfloret people I love you

genderfloren people I love you

genderflorer people I love you

gendersylph people I love you

genderselkie people I love you

gendersatyr people I love you

gendersatyret people I love you

gendersylphen people I love you

gendersylphet people I love you

gendersylpher people I love you

genderselkier people I love you

genderfrith people I love you

genderfrithet people I love you

genderfrithen people I love you

genderfrither people I love you

genderspirit people I love you

genderspiriter people I love you

genderspiritet people I love you

genderspiriten people I love you

genderfruct people I love you

genderfrict people I love you

genderfrect people I love you

other people under the vast genderfluid umbrella I love you

genderflux people I love you

boyflux people I love you

girlflux people I love you

bxys I love you

gxrls I love you

xoys I love you

xirls I love you

nb women I love you

nb men I love you

agenderflux people I love you

agenderfluid people I love you

demigender people I love you

demigirls I love you

deminonbinary people I love you

demiboys I love you

demiflux people I love you

demifluid people I love you

libragender people I love you

libramasc people I love you

libranonbinary people I love you

librafem people I love you

paragender people I love you

paraboys I love you

paragirls I love you

paranonbinary people I love you

alexigender people I love you

genderfluix people I love you

cis nb people I love you

trans nb people I love you

gay nb people I love you

strayts/straight nb people I love you

diamoric people I love you

quoigender people I love you

xenogender people I love you

gendervoid people I love you

neoboys I love you

neogirls I love you

neononbinary people I love you

abinary people I love you

atrinary people I love you

aporagender people I love you

maverique people I love you

kenochoric people I love you

intersex people I love you

intergender people I love you

centrigender people I love you

neurogender people I love you

azurgirls I love you

rosgirls I love you

rosboys I love you

azurboys I love you

asexual people I love you

acespec people I love you

demisexual people I love you

greysexual people I love you

aceflux people I love you

acespike people I love you

acejump people I love you

caedsexual people I love you

nebulasexual people I love you

fictosexual people I love you

yumesexual people I love you

objectum/objectsexual people I love you

autosexual people I love you

aegosexual/autochorissexual people I love you

apothisexual people I love you

cupiosexual people I love you

cavaesexual people I love you

quoisexual people I love you

hypersexual aces I love you

sex favorable aces I love you

sex neutral aces I love you

sex averse aces I love you

sex repulsed aces I love you

sex ambivalent aces I love you

aces that dont use sex favorable/neutral/aversed/etc labels to describe their feelings on sex I love you

fraysexual people I love you

lithrosexual/akoisexual people I love you

reciprosexual people I love you

other acespec people I love you

aromantic people I love you

arospec people I love you

demiromantic people I love you

greyromantic people I love you

aroflux people I love you

arospike people I love you

arojump people I love you

caedromantic people I love you

nebularomantic people I love you

fictoromantic people I love you

yumeromantic people I love you

objectum/objectromantic people I love you

autoromantic people I love you

aegoromantic/autochorisromantic people I love you

apothiromantic people I love you

cupioromantic people I love you

cavaeromantic people I love you

quoiromantic people I love you

hyperromantic aros I love you

romance favorable aros I love you

romance neutral aros I love you

romance averse aros I love you

romance repulsed aros I love you

romance ambivalent aros I love you

aros that dont use romance favorable/neutral/ aversed/etc labels to describe their feelings on romance I love you

frayromantic people I love you

lithromantic/akoiromantic people I love you

recipromantic people I love you

other arospec people I love you

aplatonic people I love you

aplspec people I love you

demiplatonic people I love you

greyplatonic people I love you

aplflux people I love you

aplspike people I love you

apljump people I love you

caedplatonic people I love you

nebulaplatonic people I love you

fictoplatonic people I love you

yumeplatonic people I love you

objectum/objectplatonic people I love you

autoplatonic people I love you

aegoplatonic/autochorisplatonic people I love you

apothiplatonic people I love you

cupioplatonic people I love you

cavaeplatonic people I love you

quoiplatonic people I love you

hyperplatonic apls I love you

friendship favorable* apls I love you

friendship neutral apls I love you

friendship averse apls I love you

friendship repulsed apls I love you

friendship ambivalent apls I love you

apls that dont use friendship favorable/neutral/ aversed/etc labels to describe their feelings on

friendship I love you

frayplatonic people I love you

lithroplatonic/akoiplatonic people I love you

reciproplatonic people I love you

other aplspec people I love you

afamilial and afamilialspec people I love you (not

doing a whole thing for this one, hands hurt)

other atertiary and atertiaryspec people I love you

aspec people I love you

loveless aspecs I love you**

pomo or other unlabeled people I love you

people who use a lot of labels I love you

people who use well known labels I love you

people who use microlabels I love you

labelfluid people I love you

LGBTQIA+ people I love you

queer people I love you

I love everyone, all queer people.

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*I do not know the aplatonic version of sex/romance favorable/neutral/averse/etc. Sorry if I didn't use the right term.

**I'm not loveless so Idk if that makes you uncomfortable I meant I appreciate you?? Idk

[mogai-sunflowers]

hello queers what orientation do you identify as? ik I can’t fit every option in the poll but I’m trying dndndnsn

[mogaimagic]

MSPEC4MSPEC:

An identity, where one chooses prefers or prioritizes their relationships with other multisexual individuals, for a variety of reasons including, safety, support, and understanding.

This includes any variety of mspec identities including bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, omnisexual, abrosexual, finsexual minsexual, ninsexual, mspec gays/gais/straights/strayts/lesbians, unlabeled mspec identities and more!

[eldorr]

Canyon Queerhet

Plain flag (left), Flag with stripe meanings (right)

This term/flags were originally posted June 5th, 2022.

Last year or so (actually around 2 years now upon re-posting) I made my own take on the lesbian/gay/vincian/enbian flags since I am critinclus/radinclus. However one of the two posts detailing these flags was lost, so I am remaking/renaming them, along with simplifying and cleaning up some stripe meanings.

The original flags I made were 9 stripes, and I didn’t like the way I simplified them into 5 stripes, so I’ve decided to make a simple 6 stripe one. Some of these flags will look very similar to the ones I originally did, and some will look way different.

This flag is coined as a Queerhet flag, however anyone who is Q4G (Queer for Women,Men,Enbies,etc), WLM/MLW/NBLM/XLNB/etc, or identifies their attraction to a gender as queer regardless of their own gender or other attractions. This is also inclusive of queers whose’ gender is queer, while they may be het/straight/strayt/etc. (Basically anyone who feels like queerhet, but may not 100% identify with the queerhet label for any reason, is allowed to use this flag, as long as they recognize it as the Canyon Queerhet/non-Q4G flag. You could call yourself Canyon Strayt/Pluralian/etc in order to make that connection.)

This flag stands for inclusion and solidarity within the Queerhet community, and between the Queerhet community, other non-Q4G communities, and other non-primarily non-Q4G Queer communities (Transhets/Cisgays/etc). Generally just look at the stripe meanings if you want the general idea, I go into more detail for my reasoning below each meaning. This is a LONG POST.

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The Stripe meanings:

Top/Vibrant Redwood: Aspec Queerhet, Monospec Queerhet, and Mspec Queerhet inclusion and solidarity.

The Canyon Queerhet flag is radically inclusive of Aspec and Mspec queerhets, since most people thing of cis gays and transhets when they hear the term Queerhet. Anyone may ID as Queerhet for any reason. Monospec Queerhets should have solidarity with Aspec and Mspec queerhets.

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Second Stripe/Vibrant Auburn Orange: Multigender Queerhet, Genderfluid Queerhet, Genderflux Queerhet, Monogender Queerhet, Xenogender Queerhet, Agender Queerhet inclusion and solidarity.

Of course these are not the only genders included under this stripe, however these are some of the more excluded and misunderstood even by general queerhet spaces, so they’re here to explicitly say they’re included under this flag. There’s many reasons why someone who isn’t a binary monogender may describe themself as Queerhet. Monogender Queerhets should stand with Queerhets with more complicated gender identities.

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Third Stripe/Rusty Orange: Pronoun-Non-Conforming Queerhet, Gender-Non-Conforming Queerhet, Pronoun-Conforming Queerhet, Gender-Conforming Queerhet Inclusion and Solidarity

This stripe is here due to some exclusion in queerhet spaces against basically anyone that’s not a binary gender, and presents as such. This stripe is for explicit inclusion of they/them, it/its, neopronoun, nounself, emojiself queerhets, neutral, transneutral, transmasc, transfem, lavenderian, amaranthian, butch, femme, wisterian, transxen, xenic, queerhets. Gender and Pronoun conforming queerhets should include and have solidarity with non-gender/pronoun conforming queerhets.

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Fourth Stripe/Salmon Pink: Queerhet and Non-Queerhet non-Q4G inclusion and solidarity

This stripe is here to include non-queerhet non-Q4G in queerhet spaces, conversation, etc. This stripe stands for and includes anyone who has Queer love for any gender, is queer gender-wise, and doesn’t primarily identify as queerhet. This includes, transhets, strayt, rubian, umbalian, etc. This stripe can also include queerhets who are not explicitly non-Q4G, and may be NBMLW/NBWLM/NBLM/NBLW queerhets. Non-Queerhets are not the enemies of queerhets, and queerhets should include and have solidarity with other non-Q4G.

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Fifth Stripe/Burnt Pink: Femme Queerhet, Futch Queerhet, Butch Queerhet, Twink Queerhet, Otter Queerhet, Bear Queerhet inclusion and solidarity.

This stripe is here partly for the same reason as stripe number three, however with the added notion that Femme/Futch/Butch are not lesbian exclusive terms, and that Otter/Bear/Twink are not vincian/gay man exclusive terms. There may be many reasons someone would use these terms, Femme/Futch/Butch generally relate to gender-presentation, and Otter/Bear/Twink generally relate to one’s body. Of which there is a lot of fatphobia in queer communities, so this stripe is primarily here to focus on challenging what a queerhet “looks like”. Futch queerhets are not the enemies of Femme and Butch queerhets, and Bear queerhets and just as valid in their queerhet identity as Otter and Twink queerhets. Be inclusive and have solidarity with other queerhets, even if they don’t “look like” queerhet. Challenge fatphobia, transphobia, and queermisia in your own communities.

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Sixth/Last Stripe/Vibrant Rich Purple: Otherwise Marginalized Queerhet inclusion and solidarity.

Like I mentioned in stripe number five, there is not “look” to being queerhet. This stripe is for the explicit inclusion of otherwise marginalized queerhets, whether they be BIPOC, a religious minority, trans, intersex, polyamorous, chronically ill and/or disabled, neurodivergent, fat and/or a bear, etc. Include and have solidarity with other queerhets, whether or not they’re like yourself. Challenge bigoted rhetoric in your own communities.

[genderstarbucks]

Demi- Mspec Strayt Flags!!

Demimspecstrayt is a term for individuals who identify as 'partially' or 'half' as mspec strayt.

Demibistrayt is a term for individuals who identify as 'partially' or 'half' as bi strayt.

Demipoly/plystrayt is a term for individuals who identify as 'partially' or 'half' as poly/ply strayt.

Demipanstrayt is a term for individuals who identify as 'partially' or 'half' as pan strayt.

Demiomnistrayt is a term for individuals who identify as 'partially' or 'half' as omni strayt.

Demiabrostrayt is a term for individuals who identify as 'partially' or 'half' as abro strayt.

[technoxenoholic]

i think some lgbt/etc. people have mixed up the concept of "passing" as a trans person (ie: being automatically read as your correct gender by other people; or more memetically, "passing" as in "getting a good grade in being your gender") with the idea of "passing for" something (appearing to be something you may not actually be at all)

and i think some of this is on purpose -- transphobes believe trans people are not their real genders, so they will also believe that even if trans people pass (have their gender read correctly by other people), it means they are just passing for their gender and they aren't really their gender. (they are though, whether they pass or not. fuck you, transphobes.)

as well, if you believe trans people are their gender, but you still interpret "passing for" as meaning the same thing as "passing"... you are then perhaps going to interpret "passing for straight"... as though it means being straight.

(i do think some of it is just accidental conflation due to the very similar terminology, but some of it is definitely also malicious and purposeful.)

either way, i think perhaps that is why some people act like "you can pass for straight, therefore you are not actually queer" is a valid argument. ie: "you can appear to be straight, therefore you are being correctly read as straight, therefore you are straight."

obviously, it's not a valid argument. mspec and aspec people Are Not Straight (in the heteronormative sense, even if an individual mspec/aspec person uses the term "straight" and/or "strayt" as part of their personal identity labeling). passing for is not the same thing as passing. queer people are queer, no matter how queer they do or do not seem to others.

and like this is not even to get into the subject of mspec/aspec queer folks who can't pass as straight for a myriad of reasons, because "not currently holding hands with someone perceived to have your same gender" is not the be-all, end-all of seeming "unqueer"... nonbinary, genderqueer, gnc, and probably intersex people are going to be more aware of this from personal experience than most! but that's another discussion i don't have the spoons for currently.

(do not tag this post for the use of "queer". if you would have to trigger tag it, then simply do not reblog it at all.)

[your-bigender-big-brother]

can you do a combo of mspec, cenelian, lesbian, gay, veldian, darcian, and bennetian? it's like eclipian/jeularian (dioxian/mesrien & mesque/asterian/velaurian) and calistian/despian. it's being mspec and both straight/strayt and gay/gai with men, women, and non-binary people. I don't know if there's a straight equivalent to cenelian (not sure if cenelian is stellian/diamoric)

This one might be a little complicated for me, anon! I've never done more than five flags in a combo and I can only do more if the flag has a specific symbol, like the demi- black triangle or the pi symbol on polyamorous. I could probably do it if you took two of the flags off of your request! /notmad

(Trust me, I gave it a try but the gay and lesbian flags threw me off.) - 💙💚

[imoga-pride]

would it be alright to use gai and strayt if one is basically nonbinary but prefers to use genderqueer as a label? not sure if that's a generally ok thing to do or if it'd be better to find genderqueer-specific terms or make alternatives using the same definition but with "genderqueer" in place of "nonbinary". Asking because I found that terms through your blog btw

that would be fine for me (but I'm not the coiner). originally, it's defined as "feeling gay/straight in a nonbinary way". in my opinion, anyone can feel they're gay and/or straight "in a nonbinary way", that doesn't specify you're nonbinary. even binary people could feel that way, don't you agree?

many places you can find them being used as "nonbinary version of gay/straight". for example, there's a wiki using strayt as interchangeable synonym of enbyhet. I see there's an overlap between being a straight nonbinary person and being strayt. while some use them in identical ways, nonbinary/binaryn't people can feel their straight attraction in a binary way. or simply being "regular" hetero whose gender is nonbinary.

if a binary het or binary gay said to me they experience their gayness/straightness "in unconventional ways" and feel that strayt/gai resonate with them, I wouldn't worry about it.

but in lack of specific terms, there I would suggest coining something prefixed with neo- (like neopronouns, neoAGAB, neogender, neomale, neofeminine, neocis (neocisgender), etc.). for example, using "neogay", "neogai", "neogae", "neostraight", "neostrayt", "neohetero"/"neohet" would mean being a new type of gay/gai/gae or straight/strayt/het(ero). but that would only be useful if you prefer these instead of simply gai/strayt or gay/str8. quasi- is an alternative

genderqueer is often described as "noncisnormative" gender/identity. so if we use "nonbinary way" as the same thing as "noncisnormative way", that would allow you to be strayt/gai. but that's what I think and could be wrong. I'm just commenting and showing my perspectives/points of view.

also, if you think about "contradictory labels" (lesboy, turigirl, saphboy, mspec lesbian, lesbian trans man, etc), it depends on you if you are open to/accepting of these experiences.

[littllast]

halloween queerhet flag.

made by astro (me) !