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So, when Miraculous Ladybug Season 5 ends, can we all get together and do what the VLD fandom did to their show?
Like, just cancel it on Twitter or something???
#miraculous ladybug salt#ml writers salt#thomas astruc salt#we have more than enough examples#of this show's sexism#racism#and#abuse apologism#we can cancel it#ml racism#miraculous ladybug racism#ml sexism#ml misogyny#ml victim blaming#ml abuse apologism#ml leak#ml leaks#ml show bible leaks#ml salt
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They really ignored everything we've been "complaining" about.
its really funny to me how people say "you liked the movie better because the show has tropes you dont enjoy" sorry, what tropes are we talking about again? Abuse enabling? Child abandonment? Poor character development? Plot inconsistency? Characters getting dumb out of nowhere? Evil Rich people getting their way with zero consequences? oh yeah those are great
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I actually disliked the direction where I'd recently seen a bunch of the more reasonable S5-critical ML fandom people going. Those discussions and analyses were spiraling increasingly towards demonising Marinette over time, as we were left hanging with the s5 ending for a long time, and the fandom had nothing new to talk about.
I actually liked her flaws.
But then the canon does... this...
And I do admit, it's an in-character way to push Marinette towards a villain arc. Like, if I had to construct a darkfic scenario where Marinette goes evil and try to keep it as close to her canon personality as possible, it would look something like this. Which, I guess, means that it's theoretically easier for me to accept than, for example, S5's occasional incidents of Edgy Murderboy Chat Noir (how is that the same character who had TWO guilt-based mental breakdowns about accidentally cataclysming someone completely out of his control, including the main villain??!). I'm sure there are in-character ways to turn Adrien (or anyone else) into a villain, but Murder-Noir was Not It.
Of course another reason why the writing of Murder-Noir gives me extra heebie jeebies, was how it felt like an abuse apologia excuse, validating Gabriel's accusations for Adrien to not "deserve" autonomy, nor to experience or express any negative, inconvenient emotions. Murder-Noir feels like it's a writing choice directed at child abuse victims in the audience, who related to Adrien. "See, your abuser was right, you're horrible and overly emotional and out of control, so you NEED to be rigidly controlled for your own and everyone else's good!
Anyway.
While I admit that Marinette taking up Gabriel's mantle this way is technically in character, I cannot claim to enjoy the writing choice at all. I liked Marinette's flaws. I wanted to explore them. I did not want her demonised to this extent. She could have been meaningfully flawed without becoming better at being Gabriel, than Gabriel himself was!
After this, the only justification for the lovesquare to stay together, would be as a wish-fulfillment or "reward" for Marinette, and that's not enough for me. When I think about, if there was a real-life abuse victim in Adrien's position (minus the supernatural elements), and then they were friends with, and/orstarted dating someone who repeatedly treated them the way Maribug has been doing (and "repeatedly" is important here, it demonstrates unwillingness to learn from mistakes and be sincere about apologies – S4 was brushed under a rug as soon as Chat Noir superficially forgave!), ESPECIALLY but not only siding with the abusive parent and lying to the victim that the abuse they experienced was "not really abuse" and For Their Own Good, and demonstrated this complete infantilisation and lack of respect for the abuse victim, wanting to see them only as a palatable, innocent fairytale being who's not allowed to be inconvenient, express negative emotions, make informed choices mor generally be a complete person...
Obviously the right thing to do, for the abuse victim, would be to get the hell away from that person.
It does NOT mean that the person is irredeemable. They're just... not owed the abuse victim's forgiveness and continued presence in their life.
And I can't ignore that anymore.
We failed to get an arc about Adrien surviving and escaping Gabriel and healing. He has now been put into a position where, in order to ever be okay, he would have to survive and escape Marinette in order to heal.
I don't like this. It feels very hopeless and bleak and unenjoyable. I don't even think the story is gonna go there and free/heal Adrien (Astruc made it clear that Adrien isn't supposed to be his own character or have agency, he's supposed to be Marinette's accessory and that's never gonna change).
But as far as I'm concerned, any excuse for the lovesquare relationship to get back together after this, would have the unpalatable aftertaste of propaganda to make victims return to their abusers.
I don't like this trajectory!!!
#sorry but this is my point of no return#I mean the s5 finale already was but yeah#also I just keep seeing the fandom's 'acceptable' expectations go down bit by bit over time like boiling the metaphorical frog.#I don't wanna join the frog-boiling expectations for what's an acceptable outcome for an abuse victim.#that's what abusers do!!!#ml london criticism#murdernoir#gabenette#marinette villain arc#ml writing criticism#ml london spoilers#ml london special#lovesquare criticism#abuse#abuse apologism#ml fandom criticism#I just wanna see blorbos be meaningfully flawed without outright demonising them 😭#ml s5 criticism#canon darkfic toxic lovesquare is just not what I came for#I don't even wanna talk about the feligami mess or. think about it. it's just ??? nebulously awful vague blob ??? for me#marinette#adrien#garbage moth#gabriel agreste's a+ parenting#just got inherited by Marinette!!!
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I just think it's so great that some parts of the fandom love to call Adrien spineless and cowardly because he was conditioned into being non-confrontational by his abusive father and believe that he should just stand up to Gabriel and grow a backbone, proving that they have no understanding of how abuse can affect people and are just perpetuating victim blaming and abuse apologism by downplaying Adrien's trauma and turning the effects of Gabriel's abuse into Adrien's deficiencies as a person, which is also what Gabriel does.
Guess the real Gabriel redemption arc was the fandom all along...
#MLB#Adrien Agreste#Chat Noir#Gabriel Agreste#ML Salt#ML Fandom Salt#Meta#My meta#I still see these rotten takes in this fine year of 2023#Why does this fandom love abuse apologism so much?
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Oh, I'm so sorry!
I'm not accusing Marinette of being an abuse apologist piece of shit.
I'm saying you are.
Terribly sorry the writers had Marinette's relationship with Adrien mirror Gabriel's in every way.
Not my fault you can't engage with that at all.
Did I say shit about her? DID I SAY SHIT ABOUT HER!?
No, I fucking didn't.
I said shit about you. Fucking coward who can't even go off anon.
Learn some media literacy and shut the fuck up about how much lying to a child abuse victim is so good for his girlfriend's character development.
#media literacy is dead#abuse apologism#ml fandom criticism#ml fandom critical#ml fandom salt#ml#miraculous ladybug
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I've been reading everyone's reactions to the finale for so long I feel like my brain is on fire
#like half are angry and confused#and the other half are like 'but we are meant to feel angry and confused!'#and then some who are somehow 100% happy with what played out#then there is#'it's abuse apologism' 'no it's not abuse apologism'#'gаbriel was redeemed' 'no he wasn't'#'it was еmilie' 'no it was аmelie'#aaaaaaaaa#ml spoilers#ml finale spoilers
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agreed.
the series made a point - multiple times! - that "hawkmoth vs cat noir = everyone loses". it was one of the key elements to maintaining the need for ladbug&catnoir to NOT know each other's true identities (and thus ensure the plot relevance of the love square).
there is no way to write a 14-year old facing their abusive parent in a way both consistent with the show thus far (s5 was all about emotional honesty & the series overall is idealistic)... and "kid-friendly".
it is a very, VERY bad idea to put a child in open confrontation with a parent like gabriel agreste.
not just dangerous in a "boss fight" kind of way but in a "you are putting a kid into a violent situation with their caregiver".
adrien (& thus cat noir) would NOT be able to fight his own father. hawkmoth/monarch could not be "taken down" without secret identities getting revealed because, for one thing, ladybug was only able to locate him because she LEARNED HIS IDENTITY. the "win" condition for S5 was the yoinking of gabriel's miraculous: i was very impressed by the boldness of the show in how the "ladybug vs monarch" finale went down. how much of its "something is OFF here" was deliberate versus being due to "we only planned for 5 seasons but got renewed for 3 more" has yet to be seen.
i suspect that gabriel "winning" was planned well in-advance, though the specifics of his redemption/changed!wish likely changed over time. the wish & "gimmi" were just too well-designed within the series lore to go unused. the full zodiac's worth of extra miraculous? THAT screams "this cartoon is trying to sell you merchandise"... standard practice for modern animation, tbh.
the extra miraculous DID allow the series to narratively set up its audience for how a "villainous victory" would affect the characters, their relationships with each other, and the story being told. shadowmoth's triumph, his claiming most every miraculous, was ALSO a very convenient means for the writers to get rid of all those "made for merch" super allies (from seasons 3&4) ahead of s5's Serious Plot Business.
oh! another reason why "cat noir vs gabriel agreste = everyone loses", aside from "do not try IRL" family dynamics, "hawkmoth is supposed to win" & love square retension for seasons 5+?
adrien is literally incapable of disobeying his father. not just because "do not try this at home" (effects of abusive family dynamics) but, like, actual magic. felix tried to get adrien's control ring from gabriel, like, 3 times? across different seasons? he kept failing. neither marinette nor adrien were going to succeed in ignorance where FELIX had failed (he had a whole villain arc about it). unless the writers wanted to write seasons 6+ of miraculous WITHOUT a lovesquare? ladybug AND gabriel needed to be oblivious as to HOW cat nr's presence consistently resulted in Bad Timelines for everyone: in the s5 finale proper, ladybug is only able to defeat monarch because... gabriel freaked out about how close her cataclysm-ready hand was to ADRIEN'S AMOK (&control ring). since ladybug is an idealistic teenager & gabriel was an increasingly immoral (& privately wealthy) supervillain? the ONLY way ladybug could have defeated monarch is via unwittingly threatening gabriel's son out of existence... or by killing him.
even then ladybug still - technically! - only defeated hawkmoth/monarch by getting gabriel agreste killed. from the POV of [future plot devices] & herself, anyway.
(that monarch was "dying via cat noir" anyway is just more fodder for the continued presence of the lovesquare/"ladybug & cat noir cannot reveal their true identities to each other")
for all the reasons above & more, cat noir could NOT have been present for the final battle against hawkmoth/monarch. it would have been a plot-holed character assassinating scenario RIDDLED with unpleasant, kid-UNfriendly Unfortunate Implications.
Honestly I think my take on the "Chat Noir was not there in the final battle" comes down to the fact that I kind of just don't think a satisfying final battle between Chat Noir and Monarch was actually possible.
I read a lot of fic, for example, and I've read the scenario play out a lot of times in a ton of ways and I've never been fully convinced of it tbh (and not because they weren't great fic!!). It seems just completely traumatic for Adrien in a way that the scenario inherently cannot properly focus on, because it's all happening in the middle of an action scene and Adrien is too busy being Mid-Battle to properly have a cathartic breakdown about it all. I mean, Chat Blanc already showed us what would happen if he did have a breakdown mid-battle (and why wouldn't he?). And though it'd be fun to have a big triumphant moment of him defeating his abusive father, Adrien simply isn't a character who would find that scenario triumphant, or cathartic, or anything other than viscerally traumatic.
Also, I agree that it's unfair that Chat Noir was not present— like it was unfairly tilted in Ladybug's favor— but I don't think it'd be fair if he was present, either. Because Marinette is, in fact, the main character. The main character whose character arc is primarily focused on her finding her footing as a hero and discovering all the responsibilities that come with that power (as opposed to Adrien, whose character arc is moreso about freedom and identity). And let's face it, in a fight between Ladybug and Chat Noir and Monarch, nobody would be focused on Ladybug at all. It's not about her. It's not her fight. She'd just be there as moral support and an extra set of hands, which really doesn't work for her character arc at all and is completely unfair to her!
Basically, it would just be Chat Noir temporarily acting as the main character and having the worst time of his life in the most un-cathartic battle for him possible left completely traumatized with Ladybug in the background awkwardly trying to comfort him after the fact? And then the season ends? And then the next season presumably goes back to Ladybug being the main character? After a time-skip to the new school year? It's just an ending that I feel like is a lot better in theory than actually on paper. And you can probably make an argument for ways that it could be made to work, where it would enhance Ladybug's story in a meaningful way where she still feels like the main character, and would somehow be triumphant for Chat Noir despite it probably being the worst moment of his life, and somehow not make the rest of the series following feel like bonus content as opposed to a continuation of the story...... but, I dunno. I think it's a lot easier said than done.
The fact of the matter is, I've always been waaayyyy more interested in how the aftermath of Gabriel's defeat affects Adrien than the battle itself. Post-Hawkmoth defeat is one of my favorite types of fic for a reason, and it's because the aftermath can be so juicy, especially for Adrien as a character. I think whether or not Adrien is actually there in the battle itself has always been kind of irrelevant to me, because no matter how Gabriel is defeated, his defeat will have immense repercussions on Adrien's life going forward. And the way they did it, Marinette is now a part of it in a more active way, too. Which is good for her character!
( Also, if he was there to triumphantly defeat Gabriel, would that mean he would just.... watch his father die? of cataclysm? a-and.... nathalie would just.... die, too? so he'd have three dead parents after all that? who he watched all die (or, in emilie's case, saw her corpse)? or is this a scenario where MONARCH BEATS CHAT NOIR and still makes the wish? is that cathartic? for Adrien to lose to Gabriel? Frankly, I loved seeing Gimmi and The Wish, it's been teased for so long that I was expecting it, and I loved the fact that Nathalie got to live as her narrative reward for coming to her senses and trying to murder Gabriel with a crossbow. I like that we got to watch a full season of Gabriel painfully dying to a cataclysm— poetically inflicted on him by Adrien, but of Gabriel's own doing. I like that Nathalie has presumably adopted Adrien after having an arc of her trying to be a parent to him once she realized nobody else would, that's so much more interesting than any other alternative. I just don't see how all of these things, some of my favorite things that season 5 gave, can still all exist at once with Chat Noir present in the final battle in any way that's satisfying. )
#miraculous meta#ml s5 spoilers#literary analysis#adrien agreste#gabriel agreste#ladybug vs hawkmoth#cat noir vs hawkmoth = everyone loses#hawkmoth meta#i do literary analysis for fun#media literacy has been defanged in western schooling for decades#& the primary demographic for miraculous is “kids & youth”#obligatory reminder: do not share your age online#i dodged specifying what “do not try this at home” entails for a hypothetical adrien agreste#bc the series itself is vague (reliant on inference & implication to show adrien's homelife) about it#neglect&abuse are too “kid-unfriendly” for marketable television afterall#i belatedly apologize to op for latching onto your very excellent post#it sums my additions up much more concisely#my additions are just details i've noticed as getting lost in fan outcries#remember when i was almost entirely asoiaf & tolkien meta on this blog#i will not be apologizing for finding literary worth in children's cartoons
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I know I'm late but
This is actually diabolical.
I don't know if the person who threw this togather was an unpaid intern or not, but this is another example of the shows team gaslighting us about how bad Gabriel actually is.
#ml salt#ml writers salt#thomas astruc salt#gabriel salt#anti miraculous ladybug#SERIOUSLY WTF IS WRONG WITH THIS SHOW#tw: abuse#abuse apologism
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If the Miraculous writers want to make the point that abuse victims are immature and infantile and volatile and need to be controlled by an authority for the sake of their own and the greater good, and therefore Adrien simply cannot be treated as an equal to the Great Marinette, then... I don't think they should be writing the two of them as a romantic couple. The inherent power imbalance is just no good.
(Don't get me wrong, even more so I just think that they shouldn't have taken that stance on abuse victims to begin with.)
#ml writing criticism#ml writing salt#ml s5 criticism#ml criticism#ml critical#abuse#abuse apologism#I'm not blaming the characters I'm blaming the writers#the characters deserved better writing
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Every now and then I still see arguments about how "Chat Blanc and Ephemeral were meant to inform us that Adrien couldn't take part in the final battle," the implication here being that there is no possible way for Adrien to ever react in a convenient manner to this news, and that his only reactions could be "he loses control and goes berserk," or "he gets controlled by his dad." I have already expressed my views on these takes, which is that they are excuses and justifications for bad writing. But I still feel that in trying to insinuate that they are valid explanations for Adrien's inability to be part of the finale, the point of those episodes is missed, and I'll elaborate on why they aren't even good excuses now.
Despite what Thomas Astruc may suggest on Twitter, that the problem is not with Adrien in these episodes. As evidenced by episodes like The Collector and even the aforementioned Chat Blanc, Adrien is perfectly capable of fighting his father. The issue that presents itself in these scenarios isn't that Adrien can't control himself and can only react poorly, it's that Gabriel chooses to hurt his son. None of these situations happened because of anything Adrien did, they happened because Gabriel manufactured the situation into something that he could use to gain control over his son.
The issue here isn't that Adrien finding out makes him react poorly (which is a hot take of its own), the issue is with how he finds out. In both Chat Blanc and Ephemeral, Gabriel manipulates the situation to his advantage. He knows Adrien's identity before Adrien knows his or even knows that his own identity has been compromised. Gabriel is in control of all the information, and he engineers the situation to cause the most traumatic reaction in Adrien so that he can exploit it and take advantage of Adrien's distress. The issue here isn't Adrien's reactions, it's the fact that Gabriel is in control. By framing the message of Chat Blanc and Ephemeral as proof that Adrien can only react poorly to Gabriel's revelations and abuse and using that as an excuse to justify him sitting out the conclusion to his own arc is bafflingly weird to me.
And it just ends up sending the message that Adrien is apparently "too emotionally immature" or whatever the salters say, and therefore he can't ever find out about his father, or it'll only cause disaster. The blame for not being able to walk out of the situation and continue fighting the good fight with no negative effects whatsoever is placed on Adrien by insinuating that it's some inherent flaw in him that he'll never overcome, rather than acknowledge that things only happened the way they did because Gabriel specifically manipulated events and information to achieve his desired outcome. Rather than blame the abuser for his actions, the blame is placed on the victim for his reactions. That's not good.
And it ends up with the alarming implications that abuse victims are irrational and too emotional and are to blame for their reactions instead of it being the abuser's fault for driving them to this point, which is some gross abuse apologia. Indeed, the finale of Season 5 takes this one step further by having Marinette lie to Adrien about his father, because knowing would surely have him react in ways that are inconvenient for herself and everyone else to deal with (this is the writers' motivation, not Marinette's). And we can't have Adrien's trauma matter other than when it is beneficial to Marinette, now can we?
But I digress. Back to my point.
There is a simple solution to the problem of Gabriel taking advantage of Adrien. Since the issue is that Gabriel is able to manufacture the situation to his advantage because he gets to know all the information beforehand, have a reversal of that and have Adrien find out first. Have Adrien find out that his father is Monarch first, and that way, he'll have time to process everything and react to it with the support of his loved ones before he goes to fight his father with clarity and asserts his freedom. It would be a great extension of Adrien's arc of reclaiming his agency and freedom from Gabriel to have him be in control of the situation while Gabriel is blindsided.
A part of Adrien's arc is about finding relationships in which he has unconditional love and support. Have those come into play as he confronts Gabriel. Have them actually matter. There are so many ways to do this.
Have Marinette be present alongside him and have her be able to support him in a meaningful way as he faces down his father.
Have Felix prove he cares for Adrien by telling him the truth about his father and his amok.
Have Nathalie actually support Adrien by letting him know important stuff and giving him his amok back.
This is a non-exhaustive list, but my point is that there are so many ways to override the very specific situations that were present in Chat Blanc and Ephemeral and tilt the scales in Adrien's favor. It would be a better way to deal with this than to just dismiss the point of those episodes by making it seem like the problem lies with Adrien and his reactions than the fact those things only happened because of Gabriel's specific manipulations.
But there is one very simple solution to this whole issue, and it is right there in Season 5 itself. There is proof written straight into the show that Chat Blanc and Ephemeral are not the status quo. See Marinette giving into Gabriel's threats in Chat Blanc and contrast that with her going up against him and defying him outright in Pretention in a way more personal confrontation. The difference between the two episodes is that Marinette is allowed to grow. She is allowed to develop as a character and prove that she is different from the Marinette who gave into Gabriel's threats. So if she is allowed to change and develop as a character and react differently, then why can't Adrien?
Adrien's major problem in any of these situations is that Gabriel is a controlling asshat. To ensure that these situations do not happen, Adrien needs to break free from Gabriel. I posit that the easiest way to allow Adrien to not react in ways that "don't end well," is to allow him to grow and develop as a character. It would allow him to start truly breaking free of his father in such a way that when the time comes for the final confrontation, Adrien is not so easily susceptible to his manipulations and can fight back against him. It would allow him to have agency in the situation that he did not have at the times Chat Blanc and Ephemeral took place.
But unfortunately, the writers did not want to give Adrien growth and development and agency, because that would mean making him something other than Marinette's prop and love interest. That also seems to be the point of the amok rings, since their only relevance in the story is to make up a reason so that Adrien cannot go against Gabriel and needs Marinette to do it for him, and the show presents this as some great quandary to which there is no discernable solution other than simply removing Adrien from the battle altogether so that Marinette can complete his arc for him. And it sucks.
In conclusion:
#MLB#Miraculous Ladybug#Adrien Agreste#Marinette Dupain Cheng#Gabriel Agreste#Nathalie Sancoeur#Felix Fathom#Meta#My meta#S5 Finale#ML Salt#ML Writing Salt#ML Writers Salt#I actually liked Ephemeral#Too bad it became retroactive abuse apologism
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I do think that Adrien forgiving all this would be "consistent" with his character, as in, his character at this point is someone who's been conditioned to put up with abuse and stay in abusive relationships and remain palatable, passive, and convenient. It would, however, be the antithesis of the character development he needs in order to stop being an abuse victim and start claiming agency.
Adrien shouldn't just be the crash test dummy for Marinette's character development (which she does NOT seem to be having!!!) to learn not to be(come) an abuser. Adrien's fate should not forever remain controlled by whether or not condescending people with power over him might finally grant him the basic human right of not getting treated as a Lesser Being anymore.
I don't wanna watch a miserable slowburn where Maribug just slowly spirals into treating Adrichat worse and worse for drama, but SOMETIMES it looks like the story acknowledges that it was wrong and she's remorseful, so MAYBE she will do better the next time (and then the situation just gets worse instead). At this point, following the show itself is starting to feel like being in an abusive relationship, where the canon will let you down, spout abuse apologia and get a big chunk of the fanbase to parrot it uncritically and judge and shun anyone who shows discomfort. But then, occasionally, the canon will show apparent remorse and imply that It Can Change For The Better, Just Stay And Watch, You'll See, (You Were The Bad One For Doubting It). That's, like, one of the main reasons why people stay in abusive relationships.
For the record, I actually really liked the emotionally difficult aspects of S4 lovesquare development. But by now it's getting clear that they weren't setup for later positive character development or improvement; the character development consequence has just been Adrien learning to further diminish himself, and start believing that he deserves to be treated badly, and that his free-willed actions would just damage and ruin everything. And now, the new special has pushed him further than ever before down that hole.
Maribug has now managed to break Adrien's spirit more thoroughly than Gabriel ever did.
Endlessly forgiving and staying with the kind of people who keep doing this to him, is the exact core thing Adrien needs to unlearn and get away from, in order to ever heal and be ok.
I really wanted Marinette to be there and learn to support him in that development, but she's made her big choice and sided with Gabriel instead.
Yeah, I am sorry, but Adrien just becoming kinda angry and then accepting Ladybug's 'apology' would be the complete character destruction of Adrien. I mean, his character has been treated pretty badly throughout the whole show but this is a whole new mess now. Normally, Adrien should go crazy at this point, but ofc the narrative wont allow that to happen.
Everyone around him has been lying to him about everything; His father has been lying to him. The person he sees as his hero and partner (Ladybuy, but who is also Marinette, so Adrien is being lied to by his partner and love interest at the same time and he doesnt even know it). His other close friend aka Kagami and kinda his cousin (Felix) have been keeping secrets from him and outright lying to him now (in Kagami's case for LB's sake). Nathalie is lying, and even Plagg has to lie. Adrien really has no one to actually rely on or trust. His entire agency is being ignored in favor of 'being protected'. It's just crazy how much Marinette/LB actually parallels Gabriel. Adrien has no say in anything, has no one to trust, has no agency, has no control, he is completely disregarded. And realistically in the narrative, this sh.t should have serious consequences and a character change moment for Adrien's development and reaction.
I do wonder how Plagg's gonna be handled here, we haven't actually seen him go back to Adrien yet. Marinette certainly didn't order him to not tell Adrien the truth, though I'm also not sure that he could outright say that Gabriel is Monarch, since Gabriel was, however briefly, his Holder. Plagg might squeak by with that excuse.
This would be a good time for Adrien to become closer with Nino I think. Nino's terrible at lying and keeping secrets, but that's exactly what Adrien needs right now.
I don't think that Adrien becoming angry but accepting Ladybug's apology would completely destroy his character, it'd be pretty consistent with it. I DO think that in order to be satisfying, we'd need to see Ladybug be tempted to fall into her old ways, her old patterns, of hiding things from him and lying to him, either to "protect" him or because she wants to control his reaction to something. And instead being truthful and letting him react in whatever way he does, knowing it's his right.
#I do not enjoy the demonisation of Marinette but like... the canon is doing it. not me.#I would prefer it didn't. I actually liked Marinette's flaws. I am not opposed to stories where people who care about each other-#-hurt each other. but this one went WAY past an event horizon where I have no reasons left to root for their relationship.#please just break up and have therapy far away from each other!#tbh I have been more hurt by Plagg being in the know witht the lying to Adrien gang than Marinette#because Plagg had previously become that one sole person who was 100% on Adrien's side over anyone else#Plagg represented Adrien's agency and freedom and a chance to be Imperfect while still worthy and appreciated#the kid really needed a shoulder devil tbh.#and now even THAT has been lost!#of course in Gabriel's perfect world EVERYONE would treat Adrien the way Gabriel wanted Adrien to be treated 😭#but it just feels like misery porn. why am I supposed to be invested again?#Adrien used to have an 'escape route' and a chance to connect with and be loved by people who would support him against Gabe#and now all that has just been taken away. what the heck am I even supposed to be rooting for anymore? it's all just miserable.#ml writing criticism#ml s5 criticism#ml london criticism#lovesquare salt#kinda? I wanted to like that relationship but the canon just kept pushing until it became impossible to root for 😿#abuse apologism#adrien#marinette#marinette salt#(I don't want to be doing Marinette salt either but the canon has opted for her villain arc and I think ppl wanna be able to filter)#imagine if people had as much faith in bad shonen manga eventually starting to treat female characters better. as ppl do with ML and Adrien#also yeah I'm still blaming the writers not the characters. the characters aren't real.#also I'm not like judging anyone for playing emotional investment roulette with 'it will be addressed properly later' but. I can't. sorry.
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I’m always wondering if it was better or worse for BBT and Young Sheldon creators to say that Sheldon is NOT on the spectrum. But then I see how they treat neurodivergence on shows like Miraculous, and go probably better they keep away from stuff they don’t understand.
I suspect what happened with Sheldon’s character is that they probably modeled him after people they either didn’t know or didn’t care were on the spectrum and by the time everyone was like “hey this guy is obviously autistic” they’d made fun of him too many times to suddenly claim being pioneers of sitcom neurodivergent representation without also having to accept responsibility for their past attitudes towards him
I do, however, think the red itchy sweater episode was fantastic in delivering a message regarding some forms of neurosis
As for ML, it is, at its core, a tell don’t show series. These characters are in love, are close friends, are good at X and Y, are passionate about this and that, hate Z, so on and so forth. We rarely learn about characters and happenstances through actions, to the point where very clear irrefutable events are verbally retconned by random characters and we’re supposed to accept what they say as canon over what we saw. It doesn’t matter if characters are noticeably queer, neurodivergent, good/bad at something, biased about certain people/subjects, struggling with XYZ, etc. If someone doesn’t outright state it, it isn’t canon. This is where the crew loves to claim brownie points for representation but doesn’t actually do anything that might upset the Suits and their bigotry. They have an ethnically diverse character lineup but they’re all perfectly assimilated to white french culture and rarely acknowledge their own supposed heritage. They criticize police abuse but have the victims apologize to their assailants. They have queer characters but their relationships are mostly implied off-screen so they have plausible deniability. They have kids whose parents are clearly mistreating them to the point of leaving lifelong scars and affecting their ability to become functional members of society but it’s obviously not abuse.
I swear there’s some kind of disconnect between the dialogue and the action lines on the script, like no one member of the crew knows what the other is doing and everything is just taped together at the end with no revisions
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Is there anyone taking one for the team and watching the new ML special in order to warn people how much worse the abuse apologia in the fandom spaces is gonna be afterwards?
#ugh I still like stuff like fanworks based on the earlier seasons but DAMN the canon is making the fanbase unsafe#people just gonna uncritically parrot canon-vindicated abuse apologia justifications left and right#and if you ask them to please tone down the abuse justifications. you're considered the bad guy.#ml fandom criticism#ml fandom salt#ml writing critical#ml writing criticism#abuse apologism
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Just saw a post that said MLB is bad because it portrays Adrien as a victim (poor little white rich boy meow meow) and boyyyyy am I gritting my teeth about it. I wasn’t even in the salt tag, tumblr just recommended it to me for no reason
(It also said that the show is sexist which to be fair, yeah, it is sexist but to blame an abuse victim who has been brainwashed his entire life via mind control is a bit much)
MLB is bad because it portrays the abuse victim as a victim????
??????
I genuinely do not understand the idea that Adrien is somehow less of a victim because he is rich and white. In fact, I utterly loathe the very idea. It's such an awful thing to say, that someone's abuse does not matter because they are rich and white. But I'm not surprised, cause I have seen a lot of that victim blaming rhetoric in this fandom from a few Adrien salters who'll go like "Oh he's rich and white and privileged so it's up to him to grow a backbone, he has no excuse" and other deranged and rancid shit like that, and even people who've said with their whole chest that Adrien's abuse doesn't matter because he's a white boy (tbf they are a very very small minority but they're there).
And they may have said the show was sexist, but I doubt they really understand why the show is sexist. Here's a hint: it's not because the abuse victim is a white boy. That's such a ridiculous thing to focus on. My advice is to just block them and move on, they ain't worth your time and attention anon.
Thank you for your ask!
#MLB#Miraculous Ladybug#Adrien Agreste#Chat Noir#ML Salt#ML Fandom Salt#Asks#I really do love the fandom but sometimes I wonder if it's worth it if it means people get to spout abuse apologism like this
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hii! feel free to ignore this if you want i don’t want to make you uncomfortable or anything! What about Pervy stepdad price unknowingly making Reader jelly?? n like when price finally acknowledges his sweet boy,Readers being huffy n puffy with him, pouting n crying at him. Pushing away his daddy when his only trying to make his baby feel better. maybe soft punishment?? soft yet stern stepdad price?? rough fucking but like his praising reader also?? maybe like, possessive but like not in a bad way?? for both reader n price?
ONLY IF YOU WANT TO OFC!!!!! if you don’t feel like doing it or anything i completely understand!!!! have a great day/night ‼️‼️‼️
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OMG HI ML !!! hope this is how you wanted this ask, i kinda got caught into a rabbit hole of description but hey whtvr :] lots of pouty reader and some daddy Price
// CW ; tm!reader , step-dad Price , jealous reader , soft and rough , spanking , praise , lil bit of degradation
Stepson!Reader who is pouting all day, your arms crossed and brows furrowed, cause of his daddy’s new work friend.. Huffing and whining, feeling ignored and left out when Price brings you to work, only to talk to his new friend the entire time, paying no attention to his sweet boy.
Stepdad!Price who doesn’t even notice his poor baby is feeling jealous, just neglecting your needs unknowingly. You are upset all day, hunched up so people don’t approach you, even going home early without telling Price.
Stepdad!Price who follows you home not even 20 minutes later after noticing your absence, entering the home annoyed that you left without telling him,noticing you curled up on the couch. Rolling his eyes at your pouty lips and glassy eyes. He just sits on the couch next to you, pulling you close despite your protests and little pushes, placing his hand on your thigh. Staring into your eyes unamused at your little tantrum.
Stepson!Reader who just keeps huffing and being snarky, annoyed and unable to communicate properly. Being bratty with your pouty lips and puffy eyes, John who keeps rolling his eyes and letting out loud sighs of frustration, not knowing whats wrong.
Stepdad!Price who just snaps, pulling you over his lip, rubbing his large hands over the backs of your thighs and arse, a resounding smack fills the room followed by whimpers tumbling out your mouth. John’s other hand moving between the wet spot between your legs, your cock rubbing against your pants in the most pleasurable way, just nudging the head whilst the fabric clings to your drenched cunt.
Stepson!Reader who can’t help but let out quiet apologies after the seventh spank, yelping and whining loudly, squirming as your daddy’s fingers explore your tight hole. “M-m sorry daddy..” you mumble, red in the face with tears running down your face whilst your pussy is also running but with your delicious juices.
Stepdad!Price who rewards your apologies by battering your insides with three of his sturdy fingers, your hole clenching around his digits tightly as you cum with a loud yell. Your legs shaking as your orgasm crushes you like waves, your breath shaky matching your legs. John pulls you up, groaning about how much of a bitch you have been all day, his voice conveying his annoyance as he manhandles you to be laying underneath him on the surprisingly soft couch.
Stepdad!Price who grinds his hard dick into your crotch, making your dicks rub together. Your eyes still glassy and wet as your daddy grips your hips tightly, pulling your pants down as he takes his hard cock out his pants, his precum dribbling from the red tip. Rubbing the head of his dick along your slit, your rim catching his tip. He places his hand on your cheek, a complete juxtaposition to the tight grip on your hip as his cock slips into your cunt.
Your puffy eyes release even more tears as your daddy’s cock starts pounding into you, abusing your walls as he groans in your ear “Fuckk sweet boy.. What's got you so bad today? You’re my-my good boy, what's wrong?” he asks softly, genuinely wanting to know what's up despite your inability to talk as the breath is stolen from you with each and every thrust from his bulbous cock.
Your eyes rolling back and mouth opening in a silent shout as you clench around your daddy’s cock, your juices running down his dick and balls, his hips don’t even falter as he keeps battering your cervix with his head. Groaning as he calls you a good boy, ignoring the shake in your legs due to the overstimulation of two orgasms as his dick pulses into you. His cum spurting out in hot ribbons as he kisses your sweaty forehead and holds you close, keeping you plugged up on his cock as he murmurs in your ear “I’m yours baby boy.. All yours. And you’re mine, no one else's. You are mine.”
#x trans male reader#cod x reader#cod x male reader#cod smut#x transmasc reader#cod fanfic#captain john price#captain price#captain price smut#captain price x reader#john price smut#x male reader#x reader#price x reader#cas speaks
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in which johnny lawrence is in second place to daniel larusso yet again, but we all know boys don’t cry.
g/n reader x johnny lawrence / g/n reader x daniel larusso (he’s lowkey the villan in this lmfao—)
warnings: fighting,swearing,insecurity, toxic masculinity, emotional abuse in the household. ⚠️ANGST NO FLUFF HERE⚠️
based on the song boys don’t cry by the cure , thank you to spence ml @mictodii for the inspo <3
i would say i’m sorry if i knew that it would change your mind
verbal communication was not johnny lawrence’s strong suit. he tended to be a more action oriented human being. especially when he started bullying daniel larusso, soon after he first arrived in receda. all it took was one black eye to develop around daniels eye, for you to break things off with johnny.
it had only been 2 weeks since he had moved to receda but more fights had arose between you and johnny than you had ever had in your 9 and a half months of dating.
“i’m not dating a bully.” you told him forcefully, your y/c iris’ full of disappointment and animosity, were now trying to dig away at the guilt and hurt in his own.
but i know that this time i’ve said too much been too unkind.
“well it’s not my fucking fault that larusso always gets what he fucking wants! i have nothing left, so if your going to leave me for him that’s fucking fine with me i wouldn’t expect any less! just another brick in the fucking wall.” he spat, now making full eye-contact with you.
johnny immediately knew that he had fucked up but it was too late, your eyes once full of disappointment were now doused in confusion as you didn’t even know who you were talking to at this point. as you bit the inside of your cheek, you turned around and walked the other way not wanting to say another word to johnny as you ventured home.
the moon didn’t shine that night. nor did the stars. the plethora of clouds had made it hardly visible to view the only thing you could count on one hundred percent of the time.
i try to laugh about it , cover it all up with lies.i tried to laugh about it hiding the tears in my eyes.
the next day at school you didn’t look, nor speak to johnny lawrence. he gazed at you from across the halls and lunchroom but it didn’t fix anything.
“johnny what happened between you and y/n?” bobby asked, as he had noticed you hadn’t even acknowledged johnny. johnny laughed bitterly.
“nothing man, we’ve just been off lately, nothing major.” he told the blonde boy as he looked at you, a bright smile on your face as none other than daniel larusso was talking you. joking with you. making you laugh.
cause boys don’t cry, boys don’t cry.
johnny glared at the brunette, trying not to let tears form in his eyes.
i would break at your feet and beg for forgiveness, plead with you but i know that it’s too late and there’s nothing i can do.
johnny had came up with a plan to get you back and apologize. he had bought you your favorite flower and was going to surprise you. he even wrote out a thorough thought out apology in hopes that you would forgive him and he could get you back.
soon enough, every fiber in johnny was inflamed with resentment and anger. daniel larusso had his arm wrapped around your shoulder. he was kissing your cheek. and he was complimenting you.
so i tried to laugh about it, cover it all up with lies, i tried to laugh about it cover the tears in my eyes.
that night bobby had called johnny to see how it went.
“so johnny did you get the girl back?” he asked him. johnny chuckled.
“nah man it’s funny cause she wasn’t home. her mom said she was out with her friends so..yeah.” he lied straight through his teeth. the moments of you and daniel playing in your head again. tears soon began to spill uncontrollably.
“woah johnny man, are you crying? hey it’s okay man.” bobby tried to console once again over the phone. soon enough sid, johnny stepfather came up the stairs.
“boy would you quit that racket?! and stop crying like a little girl, cause boys dont cry! you hear me? boys don’t cry!”
i would tell you that i loved you if i knew that it would make you stay but i know that it’s no use and that you’ve already gone away.
johnny knew it from the day he met you, he loved you. he was just waiting for the right time to say it. however he never got to. daniel had taken you from him faster than a blink of an eye. it was too late. he wasn’t getting you back and he knew it. what was the point?
misjudged your limit, pushed you too far, took you for granted, thought that you needed me more.
johnny didn’t know when enough was enough. so when you broke up with him, he was distraught. he never really understood what he was missing till you were gone and far far from his reach and in daniels now. johnny truth be told couldn’t live without you, and unfortunately he had to find that out the hard way.
now i would do most anything to get you back by my side
johnny tried, and tried to get you to talk to him, and hear him out. but there was no use. you were happier with daniel. and he knew that and understood he had to come to terms with it as well. even if it was going to be hard. he valued your happiness over everything and if that happiness came from someone that wasn’t it, then so be it.
but i just keep on laughing, hiding the tears in my eyes
on the surface johnny seemed okay. he seemed as if he had moved on. sensei kreese had taught him to channel all his grief and anger into karate and cobra kai but within every laugh was hidden tears. because we all know. boys don’t cry.
fin.
AN: why did this lowkey suck. okay bye.
#karate kid x reader#karate kid imagine#karate kid fanfiction#johnny lawrence x reader#johnny lawrence x reader oneshot#daniel larusso x reader#daniel larusso oneshot#song fic#angst#boys dont cry
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