#milk-post

[bishops-of-the-old-faith]

Can I do M!A without being on anon

yes! just remember to specify the # of asks it lasts for or we probably wont ever get to it ^^''

[askthedaycareshow]

Lunar you should get bloodmoon to drink milk * if allowed I hand him a jug of milk*

lunar:ok hey blood moon try this

lunar:lets not have bloodmoon drink milk anymore

bloodmoon:bloodmoon is ok

[angelxxreaper]

“Places shiny button” will this work?

yes good job :)

[desertmile]

Can I give milk a glass of milk :)

"Woh, milk for me?"

"Thanks friend!"

[xxwitherrosexx]

Lady death since Phil is pink now you should go talk to him, as Phil really sweet when he’s pink

I know he is ^u^ Pink is really sweet.

He gets so excited about us both being moths, it’s honestly pretty adorable 🥰

[gravityfallscustomplush]

I really like your gravity falls plushy posts, there so wholesome

Awww thank you so much! I love taking them places and taking pictures of them so it makes me happy when other people enjoy the end results!🥰

[calamitys-child]

What's everyone's favourite flowers that aren't like. The normal ones. Like everyone's a fan of roses and sunflowers what's a more niche one. One you don't get in gift sets. Mine's sweet peas

[superkursunaskr]

[whoify]

chibnall on gay doctor: hmm… well since the fans want it… i suppose we can insinuate that it would be possible for the doctor to feel a gay feeling

kate herron and briony redman: We Will Get The Doctor Dicked Down

[giantkillerjack]

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

[pinkbuck]

911 + dumb buck moments

[milkteamoon]

t4t jmart is an especially funny flavor to me because I think if Martin discovered his boss was trans he would think it was really cool that he has something in common on a deeply personal level with the guy he wants to be respected by and if Jon found out his coworker was trans he would think that this is just another attempt of Martin trying to Show Him Up, personally

[askthedaycareshow]

For the creator is your bloodmoon two people or are they one person

yeah thats his only answer-alice

yes he is one person in the au-creator

wait who tf are you-alice

WELP GOTTA RUN ANYWAY THANKS FOR THE ASK BYE (runs for the hills-creator

AYO WTF-alice

[angelxxreaper]

( thank for answering, and yes I was talking about pushingblueroses, is there Another one? If so is that one during the Antarctic empire faze as I would like to interact with that timeline as it’s my favorite )

((Ooc: I currently do not have an smp earth phil blog no.))

((Ooc: …….however…. :) ))

[desertmile]

What about milk

Milk is me, but more of a me I want to be actually. They're comfortable with who they are. And can wear cute clothing while I can't - I'm big ugly haha. They fit into any of the Undertale universes because of how they look. They're not a Sans but "appear" as one? kind of- idk uwu

[xxwitherrosexx]

Hello lady death, if it’s not to much trouble to ask can you turn Phil pink

hmmmm

i could. but would he be okay with being pink?