#men have it too fucking easy
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ugh i hate going out for a walk any given day will usually always result in getting catcalled, at least this time i got to flip and yell fuck off to the person in their face and they look dumbfounded it felt SO GOOD
#they didnt think i'd talk back but its my favorite thing to do#i literally just carry a pocket knife around bc i wont hesitate#but honestly i need a gun#men have it too fucking easy
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I wanna know ur Fontaine msq criticisms 👁️👁️👂I’m all ears
I'm not sure if you wanted me to talk about this secretly or publicly but! Here I go!
The TLDR: Fontaine MSQ aestheticised prison, poverty, child abuse, the justice system/court and didn't properly address any of it.
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Focalors/Furina has way too much of a sympathetic angle for a dictator who's lets people drown with her inaction.
Neuvillette feels Bad for sentencing some people to death/prison, but that's it. He's one of the most powerful people in Fontaine. If he felt like there are systemic injustices, I.E sending an abused Child to prison, he should be the first person to DO something about it, not just cry and be sad so the audience can be like aw, that's complex character writing isn't it? No it's not! And guilt doesn't absolve you!!!!!!! (These are stuff we deal with in OTCOJ read my fic now /j)
Meropide has children in it, both Sentenced there (Wriothesley) and BORN THERE (Lanoire), and this is just a quirk of the place. Not only that, Meropide accepts prisoners of all genders and crimes. There are abusers and abuse victims in one place. Do you know how bad that is? How much potential for crimes to happen in a place like that— oh wait, Meropide isn't under Fontaine's jurisdiction. If you are assaulted as an inmate it literally means nothing to the court.
Wriothesley had no qualifications when he took over. Depending on how long he lived on the streets, how old he was when he killed his parents, how old he was when he was first taken in by the orphanage, etc, the man might never have more than 4–5 years of formal education. Sigewinne probably had to teach him how to write reports. And do Meropide's spreadsheets. Edit because I forgot to elaborate on this one: This isn't a point brought up anywhere, which is bad, because when poverty and incarceration robs you of a proper education (and the rights to vote in many places too, too, by the way), it reduces your prospects for jobs, reduces many people's ability to get a home etc etc. Wriothesley was just, narratively, Given his position.
Meropide is an industrialized prison, and they portray this as a good thing. Prisoners are paid in coupons for their labour, and this is also portrayed as a good thing.
The One-Meal-A-Day reform was something Paimon gushed about being so great of a perk, that people might want to go to jail for food (could be interesting and reflective of systemic poverty if MHY had brains, but they don't, so I was just Pissed because essentially all Paimon wanted to say was "Prison isn't so bad, but still don't go to prison guys! Prison labour is really hard!"). By the way, in most real-world prisons they are obligated to feed you three meals a day. Because that's how much food a human needs. MHY went with one meal just so they can say "if you want to eat more, you have to work." And then the welfare meal is a goddamn gacha. So imagine you're a starving child who's too weak to work in the fucking robot assembly line, and you wander up for your first meal in 24 hours, only to luck in with a shit one. I'd kill myself.
They wrote Wriothesley, who's a victim of the system, into a guy who's say shit like "I'm the Duke I can do whatever I want" for a cool moment where he choke-slams an inmate (I know he was a bad guy. But also, in copaganda when cops are violent/disregarding protocols, they are always only portrayed to do that against bad guys, so what does our critical thinking tells us about this one?) They wrote Wriothesley, who was an inmate of a prison so bad, so notorious that it is the literal boogeyman of Fontaine, that has a legal (???) fighting pit, with an administrator who abuses his position to be unreasonable, to willingly stay in the place and become an Administrator who would choke-slam an inmate while saying a cool line about how he has the power to do whatever he wants. They wrote him, the guy who had to be fed on the streets by melusines, to think one-meal-a-day was a good enough reform (while he spends god-knows how much on his boat). This wasn't a victim-turns-into-abuser narrative either, they want all this to be seen as positive character growth.
And then, the final kicker is, they gloss over his entire abuse. You can only read about these shit in his profile, which most people don't because they don't Have Him or doesn't care to unlock it/read it online, and they jammed his entire backstory into a flaccid info-dump at the end of his character story quest. This man isn't Allowed to feel abused and neglected and show any reaction to it within the narrative of Fontaine itself, because if they actually Gave Weight to what happened to him, they'd have to confront THE FUCKING JUSTICE SYSTEM they had NO PLANS on criticising. I don't think they ever explicitly said the fucking Crime-Theatre nonsense was Bad either.
I could go on, but this is already so long. But yeah, I hope this gave you an idea.
#and then. and im putting my most controversial opinion in the tags bc im scared lmao. but like... then... you have the fans..... doing......#the same fucking thing.#the amount of times I have seen Wriothesley used as just a side prop for Neuvillette to feel bad about shit. While Wriothesley is just.....#portrayed as having the inner peace and acceptance of a fucking monk. I was shocked when I read some fics I swear#they really said this man has no trauma at all! the stuff in his past? he's over it!#i hate that passivity when writing victims. like ok if One is written like that#sure. but MHY write all their victims like this#I mean look at fucking Lanoire#and Neuvillette sentenced him to prison after he killed his parents who were never confronted by the law. That's canon.#that's more canon than WRLT itself.#why weren't they confronted? did wriothesley try to talk to someone about it? why did he feel like killing them is his only option ?????#at least have there be some sort of conflict and friction there. How does Wriothesley feel about the court and Neuvillette when#this is the literal system that allowed all that shit to happen to him in the first place???#are you Sure he won't be at least a little wary? the fact that some people think he's Grateful to Neuvillette or even idolises him is crazy#because the man literally subjected him to prison. and if you want to portray his prison life as easy breezy and trauma free#you undermine his entire shitty little 'prison reform' narrative#and if you think he'd be completely 100% accepting of the justice system. Then why the fuck would he kill his parents himself#don't you see that the whole 'I'll accept whatever sentence in order to kill my parents' thing in itself is an act of defying the system#and I Hate#this idea. about being some of the most powerful men in the nation. and yet they can't fucking TRY to set up a better system or smth#i can't believe I read a fic where leaving starving street kids croissants is the most they (the characters and the writer) want to do#like. what the fuck. the whole point of that scene is just to make neuvillette feel bad and be like aw......... poor people exist.... OK???#this is literally how MHY would portray him though.... tbf..... This is what ppl would argue as 'in character'#I just think the character they're in is bad.#I will say I'm giving the fic a lot of grief. there's more to the scene than that. and. ultimately.....#fanfic is (saying this through gritted teeth) ........ recreational....................and free........... in the end.................#i dont think this is reflective of the writer. I do think it is reflective of the way the canon material (genshin impact)#presents in the audience who consumes it. most fans only want these guys to fuck anyway. not think about systemic injustices#canon doesn't make it about the systemic injustices either so why should we. the aesthetic of slums and prisons are just there for fun guys#IM JUST CRAZY OK. I SHOULDNT EVEN BE HERE THIS IS NOT FOR ME . I DONT CARE THAT MUCH FOR PEOPLE FUCKING AND I CARE TOO MUCH
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sobbing over the thought of mr reca calling you ‘my little starlet’ >.<
but he says it like my leetle starrrlet! 。゚(。ノωヽ。)゚。
#*throws a fit*#。゚(゚ノД`゚)゚。#i dreamt about him last night#it was a sleazy thing#in his trailer#anyway clearly i have a fucking problem#it makes me laugh too because like yeah obv he’s handsome and he’s got some white hair which is always a huge plus for me#but it makes me laugh because it’s like;;;; wow clari is that REALLY all he has to do/be??? a director/cinephile?????#yeah i guess i’m just That Easy#/super attracted to people who have the same passions as me#shrugs#oh well#could be worse!!!!!#to be fair it does seem like he has other traits i love in fictional men but yeah#the film bit clearly Got Me#girl loves film so much she loves anyone ELSE who ALSO loves film#bonus points if you’re a slightly sleazy slightly psycho old man <333#HAHAHAHA#the way griffin’s ‘baby i love you i miss you i can’t live without you’ song just came on shuffle#alright sunday i see you sit down#(the way i have this song saved to my favourites????? pathetic)#(i just love his voice so much leave me alone)#clari chatters#inky.reca
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Okay but the life of the legendary Shovana Narayan altered my brain chemistry, a superb academic record hold, a maestro in kathak and then also a civil services officer with a long distance marriage and motherhood
If she could do this in the 50s and 60s, wtf is stopping me from doing so, when I have never wanted just one thing to define me
#samridhi speaks#also to my ex who told me things likw your relationship will never work out with him because of different life goals#lol this woman married a diplomat and they managed a long distance marriage too#her husband paved doors foe collabs with the West with Indian dance back then#this is the kind of love I want sure physical intimacy is needed and what not but God I am never giving up all of this to marry#and I still remember him saying you give those soft mothet vibes who is a part time mother and dancer#bye I will girlboss all my life and be all right in front of guys like some of my cousins who think we girls his sisters will just marry#and settle down amd to my ex too for thinking I will be easy and live out a simplw life#fuck everything the only understanding men in my life have been my father brother and my boyfriend at this point#weird that he never grew up around sisters but still is so aware and understanding of women and our desire for dreams#lol I am ranting but yes I have an exam in 6 hours my sleep got over by 2.30#and then I was googling gpat niper prep#yeah it's first sem but I keep wanting to updatw on the info#and God knows what struck me to google dancers randomly who were into civil service academia and still being legends in the arts#then shovana narayan came up
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we need to talk about the psychological damage of being a girl with a mother who hates herself to the point of internalised misogyny
#had a whole convo where she was like “but what about male suicide?” every time i tried to talk about toxic and abusive men#truly depressing#“I'm from a different generation” yeah a generation of women too scared to get out of abusive relationships because of societal pressure#like she can't even see how fucked up the world is#she literally told me...a woman...her daughter that WOMEN have the upper hand and MEN have it easy#let me blow my brains out real quick#diary#rant
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i hate men.
#my sister is having a bad bad argument with her bf on the phone and wow... what a fucking idiot#one ex was physically abusive. another one was basically a nazi (that's why she left him among other things)#this one is a jealous dick who's saying she's '''easy''' because she didn't tell him outright how many boys she kissed in the past#(...... who. for FUCK'S sake. even cares about *that*?)#i'm so sorry for her because she's such a nice and pretty girl#with so many self-esteem issues and a great need for love and affection#she's strong too and dedicated to her work... and also has been through so much shit#she doesn't deserve all this. i'm not saying she's flawless because she's NOT. but she's my sister and i know her#she's a good one#anyway i'm 100% converted to misandry now. the only men i trust are my dad and my brother who compared to these assholes#is an angel on earth. fuck them tbh#val speaks#txt
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It's equivalent exchange via vampire law, the vampires are very strict in code and conduct. You can't just expect a vampire to eat you without getting something out of it after all, that'd be very disrespectful. You're putting that vampire in real danger by letting them consensually eat you, as it's currently ILLEGAL to do so without a formal form of contract issued by state law and a vampire blood ritual. Also most vampires aren't gonna jump your bones the minute they get a whiff of your blood, that's a harmful stereotype perpetuated by the anti-vampire crowd, most vampires are just trying to go about their business and drinking blood/plasma bag donations handed out by local charity organizations.
"without getting something in exchange" MOTHERFUCKER THEY'RE GETTING A MEAL. THAT'S WHY VAMPIRES BITE PEOPLE. THEY WANT TO EAT PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY SUBSIST OFF HUMAN FLESH YOU DON'T WALK INTO A SUBWAY GET YOUR SANDWICH AND THEN ASK IT TO GIVE YOU A FUCKING HANDJOB.
#not fandom#ask danny#WHY ARE YOU ASSUMING I THINK VAMPIRES WILL IMMEDIATELY WANT MY BLOOD#I THINK OF VAMPIRES AS COMPLEX AND NUANCED HUMAN BEINGS#I JUST ALSO WANT THEM TO KILL AND EAT ME. THE FUCK IS SO COMPLICATED ABOUT THAT#IF I SAID ''OH I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH MEN'' YOU WOULDN'T BE IN MY INBOX BEING LIKE ''uhm actually''#''not every man is going to want to fuck you the moment he sees you''#NO SHIT I DIDN'T SAY THAT BROTHER NOR DO I THINK IT. I JUST STATED WHAT /I/ WANT. NOBODY ELSE IS INVOLVED HERE.#BUT THE MOMENT IT'S ABOUT BEING KILLED AND EATEN SUDDENLY THE CONCEPT OF DESIRING IS SUDDENLY TOO FUCKING COMPLICATED FOR YOU PEOPLE.#also im cute and easy for large predators to take advantage of. vampires definitely want me sooooo bad and you're just jealous.
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Sometimes I think men find me “easy to talk to” because they forget that I’m a woman. And then when they do, they flip out on me. And I’m kinda fed up with it.
#tiger’s roar#I can’t help what I look like so maybe get over it#and accept that YEAH WOMEN CAN have inner lives and prefer being direct and dorks too#are. we. friends. or. not.#and if that’s not the ‘problem’ then GET OVER YOURSELF and maybe try giving initiating open communication yourself a try#but yeah. THIS comes up A LOT with other men too#I’m either objectified or ‘surprisingly easy’ to talk to#and yeah. FOR ONCE. I thought I had a friend. attraction be damned#and as far as attraction went. FINALLY adored vs objectified#and I was FINE not ‘doing anything about it.’ life happens. and maybe I wanted to grow the friendship more ANYWAY#but. ‘manage expectations’ are you KiDDING me#maybe YOU need to not project YOUR demons onto me and put words in my mouth!#do you believe me or not#what even IS a friendship to you#or are you JUST like EVERYONE ELSE#assuming shit about me. only finding me ‘easy to talk to’ because I don’t ACT ‘like a woman’#if that’s not it? then find your nerve and PROVE ME WRONG#JUST ONCE. PROVE ME WRONG#because my actual so-called ‘expectations’ are ACTUALLY damn universal and fucking LOW#not whatever the hell you think they are
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I hate constantly questioning and not knowing what identity I am. I am fully 30 years old and still do not know what I want. I usually just know what I really DON'T want because that's usually what is offered to me. I'm very good at finding what I don't want.
At this point if I am actually asexual or demisexual I would not be surprised. Because I got repulsed a woman who was being extremely forward on the dating site I was on. We did not know each other at all (literally the second message I got from this woman was sexual and all I said was hi). Am I crazy for thinking that maybe we should at least try to get to know each other first???
#so perhaps biromantic was acurate after all?#I'm guessing I'm more likely demi and that I'd be interested in trying things if it was with someone I trusted and adored#she was verified but someone pointed out to me that she might have been a guy pretending to be a girl to try to get women's attention/pics#don't worry I didn't fall for it if it was a trick#like I could probably die before ever having a relationship- I don't want to but trying to connect with people is just awful#by which I mean I feel like I'm going to be forever single and that used to not bother me at all#there is nothing wrong with being single but I feel like there might be something wrong with me that everything I try ends up being wrong#I know I don't want kids or to date anyone with kids- which is hard to avoid too now too b/c everyone seems to already have kids even on HE#I just don't want to be a parent or step parent so please miss me with all that too#My families' new puppies are the most responsibility I want so I don't want to deal with anyone's kids sorry but no#I feel like I have no right to be as particular as I'm being but I don't want what I don't want#questioning#wlw dating#biromantic demisexual but saying bisexual is just easier but is also easy to misunderstand#b/c boy do I hate how fucking hypersexualized bi women are by literally everyone so I don't feel so connected to 'bisexual' any more#b/c most of the time I feel like 'ew leave me alone'#and not just at men any more it seems
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hi! Could you make a list of your top 5 HBO war characters?
hello!! as hard as this may be, i can!
IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER
my top 5 are:
lewis nixonnnn my hot mess of a man
george luz love of my lifeeeeee
eddie jones, actual owner of my leash
hoosier MY OG PACIFIC MAN
nate fick HE IS IN MY VEINS
#the band of brothers side of this was particularly hard bc i have too many men in easy company i must be stopped#no THEY must be stopped#also ack ack and burgie deserve to be on this list but i had to be cruel and efficient in my choices#harry welsh is genuinely on this list tho bc he's my fucking guy and i would go to war for him so he's there too#but i had to limit how many guys from each show i chose#anyway#theys my men#special mentions: webster liebgott compton BABE FUCKING HEFFRON!! burgie!!!!! walt baby boy hasser!! doc bryan#*inhales* don malarkey!!! skip muck!!#julian's inbox
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i hope whoever decided quiz show should be in megamix got fired. but also i kind of hope they got a raise because idk what we'd do without quiz show bad jokes n that's the basis for like 90% of them-
#puppy rambles#rhythm hell#rhythm heaven#quiz show#quiz show is bad by the way#it's fine if you like it (/gen) but it's just. genuinely a bad game#it's not a rhythm game. rhythm heaven minigames are literally called rhythm games#like literally. i'm pretty sure they have been since tengoku (i'm just assuming based on silver's translation to be fair)#quiz show literally doesn't require ANY rhythm whatsoever#there's not even music playing for 90% of it#in tengoku there's literally no reason to copy the rhythm. it's literally easier to just memorize it and/or check the wiki#the extra button presses are just fuckin' tacked on at the end of the sets so it's really easy to just add one or two to the number#quiz show is the fucking worst rhythm game. there's so many games that could've been in that slot instead#even if not bon odori or toss boys or rap men or something we could've gotten showtime or wizard's waltz or tram & pauline#or LITERALLY ANYTHING OTHER THAN QUIZ SHOW#i'd even take fireworks over quiz show. i don't even LIKE fireworks#i forgot to list samurai slice origins n polyrhythm but those too#we truly do live in the worst timeline#anyways jokes about quiz show being bad are still funny in my opinion idk why people get so annoyed by them#every fandom has jokes that people just repeat endlessly this is the rhythm heaven fandom's#alongside “watch the male lizard practice his new rhythms” and that kinda shit#the Instinctual Fan Club Response™ as i've proclaimed it. aka hearing someone say/reading “i suppose”#and internally (or externally take your pick) going “III SUPPOSE‚ HEY”#i say that's a joke but also i just genuinely do that. someone says i suppose n i'm just like “III SUPPOSE‚ HEY-”#these are the ways we keep ourselves sane in our wait for rhythm heaven 5-
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my full name's rizlène and most people call me riz or rizou but yall better start calling me RIZZ bc the way i pull bitches and hoes of various kinds is fucking gravitational my brethren
#it IS easy to seduce men so i wont give myself too much credit. BUT#making their grown asses blush and giggle and stutter in a flustered damsel fashion? an art form. and baby i am michelangelo u hear me#ngl these past months have been fucking rough on every single aspect of my daily life EXCEPT that. ego boost maximus skfjdk#anyweh. too bad most of em arent worth the shot but at least im having fun with this e-hoe phase#(astarfirullah😭😭)#rizcore
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actually you know something. i have got to stop watching media with people with british accents. i’ve had such an overload of british accents lately it’s absolutely ridiculous. i’m starting to think in the cadence of charlie hunnam’s voice in queer as folk it’s going to drive me to smash my head through a window.
#he talks in a very particular way there it's not just the accent. some may call it overacting EYE call it realism. man's character was 15#do you guys wanna talk about that show? i'm making a list of the top tv FREAKS i know and vince and stuart are placing second#anyway. i have got to get on a diet of strictly american movies for a few days. well maybe i'll rewatch slaughterhouse rulez#but OTHER than that.#still awake as shit btw. jesus christ i got classes tomorrow.#and they're all going to suck probably. trying to have a positive outlook tho. but they are going to SUCK#i'm stuck in two basic level classes (intro to film. me. INTRO to film. i'll start eating wallpaper) and both of those are 2 hours long#and no one i know will be in them because it's going to be all fucking. sophomores probably. oh god.#and the other two. one will be easy enough but the other the professor is my advisor and he is USELESS as fuck i do NOT want to see him as a#actual professor. are you kidding. he's useless. and he's got bad vibes. hashtag misandry#god too many of my professors this semester are men what if that was my last straw#i'm kidding it's fine. what the hell was this post about originally. i''ve just been typing.#oh yeah. the british accents. literally driving me crazy. no one recommend me any more movies unless they're all in the american south#beth.txt
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oh my god what if Leon's dumb bad at communication extends beyond just Luis and to Claire too. she just comes home from seeing her gf (steve burnside) and checks on Leon and there's a fucking man, Luis, in bed with him even though Leon explicitly told her multiple times he wasn't going to tell Luis anything or see him at all until after he's given birth and mostly recovered and she is not pleased because she is a Luis hater
#she knows that historically luis serra is a fucking loser with no job no money absolutely nothing and he hops from relationship to#relationship and there's rumors he's cheated on several gfs too#and also leon's only boyfriend was krauser so she is worried he has bad taste in men#so she's just a hater bc she fears that luis is going to break leon's heart too and doesn't want him to have yet another thing stressing him#out when he's pregnant and needs to try and take it easy and relax#she'll come around when luis has proved himself
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Maybe you still see me as that beautiful little boy that would ask for kisses
Maybe I still see you as the little girl that would always find a way to give me one
#I tell you what if it means you and me I would take that dar#we are one: me it does feel that way#me: ring fingers on men are longer than their index finger#her: that is a fun fact#like here let's make her look at “her” for 20 minutes then give her that#like the three finger pledge#take a look#and yes amy does look like christi#i like amy better though#here you can use my car: me: like you're heaven sent....kinda from hell but that's ok me too#also I have to remember she's your half too#like imagine a step father kids love so much they want to be around them#not the experience I got#but I suppose an idea of how a Keck meme should be viewed#I support my family as best as AI know#yeah she does look a lot like grandma though#maybe I am supposed to hand deliver that note...yake a page out of my book if you will#I can go easy on myself because I woke up and I am think my lost Love is talking to me#like this money you told me to get ok sure here*shrugs* ....I still want to fuck you so bad though#our dream bank is more powerful than their bullshit banking#I think that is the essence of it anyway#I had to blow out a sub woofer to fix that boy#and the name my Son is just like it's fine we take care of our dogs#their little ear twitches the flecks of the 6 and 7 seals guiding them#dog is like you need rubs ground yourself master
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actively live laugh loving through a crisis of sexuality except its not in the fun way (the fun way is: oh my! am i gay? i should find a hot dyke to experiment with)
im twenty three years old i cannot seriously be wondering whether or not i like boys. i already did this shit in middle school like can we not
#bro i literally did conversion therapy about this shit 😐#if it turns out that im bi im gonna be so mad like im not even kidding#a year or two ago i had this little blip of a moment where i was like... surely im not bi... right?#but i was in a HAPPILY committed long term relationship so i was content to just like. never examine it too deeply#bc i was like. well its not like im going to be in a position to find out so it doesnt really matter lol#but now im wicked single and its like ive been pressing “ignore” on a pop up for too long and now its gotten to a point where its#completely unavoidable#do i like men!!!!!!! fuck if i know!!!!!!!#its not like i can just find a random guy and be like hey can we make out real quick i need to check something#bc im so legitimately terrified at the idea of being NEAR a man like that#but being scared of engaging with men doesnt mean that you're incapable of being attracted to them#like. i know i like women. thats easy to check. can i see myself spending the rest of my life with a woman. yes. check.#is the idea of being intimate with a woman appealing. yes. check.#like i know that shit. its not even a question.#but with men its like: i dont fucking know!#can i see myself spending the rest of my life with a man? no. because the idea of that hasnt even been on my radar since i was fourteen#like. it was either i was going to end up with a woman or i was going to be celibate for the rest of my life.#and any thoughts of “ending up with a man” before that are those of a girl who grew up in a heteronormative society and didn't know another#option was even fucking possible!#god and as for being intimate with a man. i dont know! “does it excite you?” i dont know!!! i have no fucking clue!!#and the fact that i dont have that gut reaction or desire is what made me feel so sure about being a lesbian#but i legitimately dont know if i have the capacity to feel that way#and like... i wont know if i dont check. but how the hell am i even supposed to go about doing something like that???#is this comp het?#i dont fucking know!!!!!!!#whatever it is its not fun or sexy and its REALLY killing the vibe
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