#and as far as attraction went. FINALLY adored vs objectified
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Sometimes I think men find me “easy to talk to” because they forget that I’m a woman. And then when they do, they flip out on me. And I’m kinda fed up with it.
#tiger’s roar#I can’t help what I look like so maybe get over it#and accept that YEAH WOMEN CAN have inner lives and prefer being direct and dorks too#are. we. friends. or. not.#and if that’s not the ‘problem’ then GET OVER YOURSELF and maybe try giving initiating open communication yourself a try#but yeah. THIS comes up A LOT with other men too#I’m either objectified or ‘surprisingly easy’ to talk to#and yeah. FOR ONCE. I thought I had a friend. attraction be damned#and as far as attraction went. FINALLY adored vs objectified#and I was FINE not ‘doing anything about it.’ life happens. and maybe I wanted to grow the friendship more ANYWAY#but. ‘manage expectations’ are you KiDDING me#maybe YOU need to not project YOUR demons onto me and put words in my mouth!#do you believe me or not#what even IS a friendship to you#or are you JUST like EVERYONE ELSE#assuming shit about me. only finding me ‘easy to talk to’ because I don’t ACT ‘like a woman’#if that’s not it? then find your nerve and PROVE ME WRONG#JUST ONCE. PROVE ME WRONG#because my actual so-called ‘expectations’ are ACTUALLY damn universal and fucking LOW#not whatever the hell you think they are
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