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egophiliac · 7 months ago

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queen of diamonds, upright + reversed 💎

I've redone this like eighty times, I have to just be done with it now and stop staring at all my mistakes oh no 🫠

#art #twisted wonderland #twisted wonderland spoilers #twisted wonderland episode 7 spoilers #twisted wonderland book 7 spoilers #twisted wonderland episode 7 part 8 spoilers #twisted wonderland book 7 part 8 spoilers #coming in well after the fact but that's what happens when the art doesn't cooperate #and i just HAD to draw something for vil's ob (re-ob?) because i loved it so much #legit put my hand over my mouth and went “oh!” when i realized what was happening #i thought it was just going to be an idia thing because. y'know. closing out his character arc from episode 6 and all #so this was like. oh! oh we're going to get ALL the inky boys!!!!!#i wonder if this is why we got a malleus flashback so early...#not to mention everyone's dreams?!#i am braced for 90% of the dreams to be kind of jokey/inconsequential because we have SO many characters to get through #and most of the time will probably be spent on our lads (literally) dropkicking their emotional problems #but i am excited to see everyone regardless!#and also kind of terrified! what on EARTH will floyd be dreaming about. do i want to know.#i do but do i want to.#man. they're probably not going to get back to it but i do wonder what silver's dream was #what was he doing when he was like 'wait a minute' and noped right out of there #lilia: here silver i made dinner :)#silver: oh boy this looks great! ...YOU'RE NOT MY REAL DAD #ouuuagh i'm still deep in the blotsauce guys and i'm loving it #come make snowangels in the ink with me it's great

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monstermoviedean · 2 months ago

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dean is trying so hard with jack and it means a lot to me, actually. and i think the best evidence that they'll work it out is the fact that they start to when mrs. butters is around. at the beginning of the episode jack is staying in his room and not talking to anyone, and dean is insisting sam give him time and space. with mrs. butters helping keep them running and taking some things off their collective plate, dean and jack both can dedicate more energy to healing. jack comes out of his room more. dean talks to jack more. by the end of the episode dean is going out of his way to make jack feel special and cared for by making him a cake. nothing has changed. they just got space and time, and perhaps more importantly, genuine care from someone they could look at without feeling guilt and pain.

#this is why i truly believe dean and cas can work it out too. they just need time and breathing room #i think about this a lot in terms of 'a little relief'#my dad brought me dinner the other night - leftovers from a recipe we used to have a lot when i was a kid #and just that tiny little burden of having to decide what to have for dinner and having to cook it and clean up afterwards was off my plate #and it was such a gigantic relief #everyone deserves a little relief #it can make such a huge difference to get a reminder that you're not in it alone #spn #spn rewatch #15x14 last holiday

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stellewriites · 2 months ago

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really fucking grinds my gears how my dad knows just how to make me feel fucking guilty for putting up boundaries and saying no

#not even for a major thing!#barely setting a boundary even! just saying i don’t want to do smth!#asking me if i want to go for dinner one evening when he knows i work late most days and have said this for years - in fact said this exact #thing to him last week - so when i say no bc i finish late he just pushes and pushes #until im like this doesn’t work for me AND i hate eating out i dont want to go. just go with my brother that’s fine. and he’s suddenly #blunt as fuck in his messages leaving me on read or guilting me about the hours i work….. like get a fucking grip your over 50 bro #i try to be polite with it but he just gets in a fucking mood like please you are a Loser #i see you weekly (smth HE chose when i was a bairn) like im not making my job and life harder just bc you feel bad that you don’t see me #more often now #also i only hate eating out with him!! because it’s awkward!! i like to be in and out when i eat with friends and we’re all the same about #it bc we’re all very autistic lmaooo but with him he likes to chat and chat and chat which is fine but i don’t.. and he asks more personal #questions than when we’re just at his as if im gonna open up just bc we’re eating thai food 🙄🙄🙄🙄#like you Don’t get to know if im seeing anyone or if im queer or even if ive got fucking plans to go away with friends tbh #like deadbeat dads that try to emotionally manipulate their kids get minimal information actually !! 🤓☝️#stelle yaps #fuck sake #i knew he’d start doing this when my brother was back - he’s always played us off each other and he always gravitates towards whichever is #the ‘easiest’ child at the time which is my brother ever since i became an adult lmao #i just don’t tolerate his shit and i let him know it whereas e will play along #me and my dad are too similar in that we both know how to really cut deep in the other :/#it just all sucks #please please feel free to ignore #i just need to vent like hell bc he winds me up a treat so bad

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padawansuggest · 1 year ago

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Like the whole 'living at home in your 20s means you don't gotta do anything' trend needs to die. Sometimes I go into dads room with the ENTIRE PURPOSE of asking dad if I can make him something for dinner lol. Some of you just have zero want to take care of family. Couldn't be me, im making him a grilled cheese just cause he asked if and said he doesn't feel well lol

#I’m not saying this as a child who thinks they HAVE to take care of fam #but man I love my dad yeah I’ll make him food for no reason other than move #than love wtf you on that you can’t help cool di #cook dinner #this ain’t even about not loving your fam #some of you just take advantage of them to an unhealthy degree and both sides make jokes over it #like maybe it’s just me and fam casue our love language is gifts and as #acts if service #but nothing makes me happier than to see his happy grin and just pleased love when I make him dinner just for him #we’re both picky eaters too #sometimes our safe foods don’t #match. but we’ll still try and make something appropriate for the other if not amazing

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itshomobirb · 1 month ago

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if my parents keep talking to me im going to (remembers that suicide jokes are bad for mental health) go outside and dig a hole to narnia

#borbtalks #'borb u got a letter from vsp. why are you paying for vsp. i dont think u need it bc of xyz. oh you're getting mail from y insurance?#they're a good company. im also covered under them. are they cheaper than ur previous one? they must be. did u know medicare has a page #online where u can compare all the plans? well did you? ik you've been on medicare longer than me but idk if you knew :/#sooo do u have a valid drivers license? oh when did u get it renewed? when does it expire? we were looking at car insurance earlier...#oh btw when are they gonna reevaluate u for disability? do u know? when did they last reevaluate u? when do they reevaluate others?#ANYWAY. what if i brought over x's dog. the dog that stresses ur cats out so much that they puke everywhere and spend all day hiding :)#wdym it'll stress [cat] out. what if he. didn't get stressed? :)'#like SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP #cant even walk into the bathroom without her trying to talk to me. can't make dinner w/o her trying to talk to me #and of course im the bad guy in telling her not to stress the cat out #just by saying 'vet says he's not supposed to get stressed out. he's at a higher risk for blockage if he does #which will KILL him.'#same woman who sat next to me while i was the phone w/ the phone company. petting the cat and whispering 'oh borb abuses u doesn't he?#maybe ill just steal you away one day. keep u away from borb. oh yes borb treats u oh so horribly.'#and my dad. sitting on the other side of me. said absolutely nothing.#i get it. im the family's designated fuck up!! the designated brat !!!! and no one gives a shit if my feelings get hurt !!!!!!!#i swear. my mother could smack me and everyone would rush to her side and comfort her stinging hand

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patrice-bergerons · 17 days ago

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there has to be a happy medium between my parents where one has the audacity to grumble because i am not sponsoring an entire uk trip for his entire 4 person family (including visa costs, plane tickets and hotel accommodation) when he can very well afford it himself, and the other, for whom I arranged a hotel for the night today, just called to tell me her medical appointment for tomorrow got cancelled and to ask if i can cancel the booking (with a refund) and she can just take the next bus back home since she is at the terminal, when she has literally just travelled five hours to get to that city in the first place ☠️

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topicaltropic · 6 months ago

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oops! all wips

#dndads #1st img is morgan . tried to solidify the type of person that would marry glenn & jodie and its like #manic pixie dream girl meets wife under bedsheets. fun loving carefree extremely irresponsible i imagine shes as much a bad mom as glenn is #a bad dad #close family dinner for each day of the week #i imagine its very depressing cool for kids sad for adult/college life meals #i had like a pmv/animatic of tmbg erase to nicks everything but ill never finish it sadge!#comic in the middle i was gonna do like a immediately after the final where willys defeated and schools out for summer norm and scary run #into eachother while theyre walking home #and scary would ask whats wrong and normal would be like #well knowing that the entire world ended because of me has been sort of weighing #on me yeah“ and then scary would go ”normal...do you wish that *was* the reason?“ which would lead normal getting dumbstuck cuz she hits #the nail on the hammer. and then hes incredibly defensive and hes like uh b buh NO !!! MAYBE !!! and scary would share her experience #but itd make normal more resentful cuz hed be like well it all worked out for you in the end with you and your dad and you mom who all love #you. and then scary would get irked and start to call him out but then now that the bottles been uncorked his resentment would start #spilling out.#“you burned my house down! i thought it was *my* family that had the connection with the doodler ! but why- when- ”#and normal would be so frustrated and he couldnt get his words out and hed refuse to look at scary while she looks at him w/ the hardest #look of conflicted sympathy and pain #and all she could say would be stop comparing yourself to me and shed mean that in the most compassionate way possible and norm would just #be like i know #and then the bus would come and scary would have to go but shed look back and then be like “am i still coming over saturday to play #and him busy crying would just give a thumbs up #god now that i write this out maybe i will draw it i have a little bit of time left why not #to me i think scarys someone normal would have the easiest time being mean to #one because of his latent misogyny and this like unconscious superciliousness he holds towards her yet shes the one receiving the #validation he sorely craves and knowing if theres anyone he could talk to and whos understand what hes going through its her so though he #isnt able to be emotionally vulnerable or engage in a deeper level but he does feel comfortable enough to lash out at her #last pic is if nick woke up post doodlerized and found himself on cassandras couch (where the teens placed him) and shes there to greet him

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carcarrot · 11 hours ago

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opening tumblr to complain abt being sick and then immediately closing it

#not doing good (stomach virus)#im better now than i was earlier though #tw emetophobia #especially after throwing up whatever made me sick #really hate having to go through that but if i must then i must #i think ill be okay for dinner later. rn im in slug form (lazing around wrapped in a blanket #love when i was a kid and there were a couple times when my dad was like 'youre making yourself sick' like why would i do that #dad is also sick i think it must have been something we ate yesterday. betrayed by beloved shrimp #please let me know if i should tag anything else i know this isnt fun to hear about

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clarabowmp3 · 4 months ago

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#my dad picked me up from my dorm tonight #and when we reached home I was telling my mum abt my day and how I’m having a hard time with one of my modules #and she was like oh just work harder for it #would it KILL her to be a little sympathetic??? genuinely??????#istg just because I’ve shouldered most of my burdens on my own doesn’t mean that I sometimes don’t want a little emotional support #and wanting that support doesn’t make me weak either #it’s just so hard to convince myself with a mother like her #and even tho I was stressed at school it took me less than 5 min at home to immediately feel 10x worse so #I want to get away so bad #I might start planning to stay over at my dorm more often now #tw food #like I’m in such an immeasurably bad mood rn I didn’t even want to have dinner #but I’m hungry #but I’m also so pissed off i don’t want to eat #I feel so horrible #whatever

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yardsards · 10 months ago

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having an emotionally intense dream and just having to get up and do your morning stuff as usual. wack.

#eliot posts #had a dream last night i was a teenager again but i had a new family #an older sister (half the same as my real life one half someone new) helping me out and not getting impatient #a new dad (new to me in the dream too) who actually cared #he told me ''you've spent so long trying to be polite and go unnoticed to not make yourself a target‚ that you now fibd yourself unnoticed-#-and forgotten all the time‚ even when you need people to see you. but don't worry‚ i see you''#he cooked me dinner after a long day of school and band practice and fussed over ne when i was sick

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werewolf-on-high · 2 months ago

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Actually losing my fucking mind rn why cant anything go RIGHT

#venting down here mb #worked on my halloween costume for WEEKS just to find out I'll be stuck alone at home #my whole family has felt like shit all month #my dads been hounding on me recently to get a job when i just want a break #my friends haven't been speaking with me bc they're busy. and im not angry about it! i'm just scared they don't know how much i miss them #i haven't been taking care of myself because my mental health hasn't been anywhere near good since 6th grade #im apparently a disappointment to my father because i didnt make dinner today #he also got after my mother for that #and my hormones are out of whack rn so thats just the icing on the cake ig #i can feel a breakdown rapidly approaching. can't wait to find out when that'll hit

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ghostzzy · 3 months ago

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man. the fucking 4D chess.

#my dad calls and says one of my brothers is potentially sick and is like. do u still wanna get dinner.#and it’s like. well. not if me & my gramma are gonna get sick.#so then it’s like. do i go to dinner with just my gramma?#the only reason i saw my mom yesterday instead of today is because i had plans w my dad & co.#but if she finds out my plans changed and i COULDVE seen her after all she would be hurt.#so i can invite her & my other gramma too?? make it a double gramma & mom bday dinner?#even tho they are on opposite sides of the family they get along okay?? so maybe it’ll be fine???#AYGH. I HATE WHEN PLANS CHANGE!! IM TOO AUTISTIC FOR THIS….#izzy.txt

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aroacesigma · 4 months ago

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i cant fucking stand her oh my GOD

#ramblings #i cleaned up the entire fucking kitchen while shes eating her dinner that we were suppoed to do together #and she promises. she PROMISES that she will clean up the TINY FUCKING PILE of things that i left for her to do #literally like 5 things #she cleans up one of them #and then makes more of a mess.#that i have to clean up.#and then when i ask her why she didnt i wasnt even rude #she acts like its my fault. and im the bad person #and shes so fucking condescnedngin oh my god she acts exactly like every bully ive ever fucking had #and then lies to our dad that she totally definitely cleaned it up 🥰as i am in the middle of cleaning it up #will i get an apology? hell the fuck no!! but she ill probably knock on my door in 5 minues to tell me about her FUCKING ice skating #I DONT GIVE A FUCK OH MY GOD #this seems so petty but its stuff like this every day #you guys dont udnerstand the way she talks to me #the way she acts #she wont touch anything ive touched she looks at me like im disgusting #im not disgusting am i disgusting i swear im not #ive asked my parents ive asked my friends they say im not gross and dusgusting and unheygenic what am i donig wrong why does she think this #whywhwywhwywhwywhwy #why does she hate me so much #i hate myself so much #every time i interact with her it makes me hate myself

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whatevertheywant · 5 months ago

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I really really really really really fucking wish that I didn't hang on to petty bull shit that my parents say despite being nearly 30 years old

#and it's usually shit they mean nothing by #but those little digs and remarks are still fuxkibg irksome af #my struggles with eating are not known to very many people because i rarely talk about it outside of my very tight circle of like 4 people #and no one thinks the fat girl struggles with thqt #even if they don't say it out loud i can tell when certain people don't see it as a problem since I'm losing weight #or just don't believe me #anyway i bought a 2 piece from kfc yesterday and got 2 extra sides bc i was very hungry and high af #my dad just HAD to be like dAmN lAuRen #and i know he meant how much i spent on everything #which also not his business but i digress #it's hard to make myself spend money on food sometimes because I'm painfully aware of how fucking poor i am #fast food like 1-2 times a week special groceries and my thc vape are usually the only luxuries i get outside like streaming #sometimes i don't have the executive function to make food or i have sleep for dinner bc that or poverty #so comments like that do piss me off #and whether i agree or disagree isn't the point #you don't get to pick what does and doesn’t stick #I'm just over everything idk #personal

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lesbianpegbar · 8 months ago

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watching the raimi spidermans as an adult and im kind of in awe at the reputation raimi mj has like. idk man she kinda just exists. and maybe cut her some slack for peter leading her on over and over and over again. i think she deserves to kill him with hammers for the shit he pulled at the beginning of 3 i'll say it idc

#shes just kind of a woman. a woman who literally survived domestic abuse and is making it all on her own might i add #like yeah dawg shes gonna be a bit insecure but tbh its like. not even bad at all. its a perfectly normal level of being maladjusted #like her getting so upset about the reviews and at first i was like okay i get it but also itll be okay girl #and then she was like reading these words all i can see and hear is my dad and its like OHHHHHH. okay. yeah noted valid #i have things to say about how shes WRITTEN. like how she obvi plays into the damsel in distress role and the. things shes often forced #to wear #but like idk when she shines mj kinda fucking kicks ass. last night watched 2 and her doing a nyc ass whistle at doc ock ruled hard #rewatching these its just like ohhhhh you arent actually annoying or evil youre just a woman in a series of movies from the 2000s #so everyone thought you deserved the death penalty for some reason. okay #the majority of the time ive been watching these i feel like pete kind of treats her like shit if anything #ive been snapping whenever she lays into him i wont lie. like she ate him up at the proposal dinner #idk why this became an essay i guess this has kinda just been an epiphany for me #anyway. mj Get Behind Me. tbh all women from films from the 2000s Get Behind Me #mine

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spookykestrel · 2 years ago

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As someone who gets irrationally angry when people (esp my family who know I have to sit in the same spot) take my seat, I really want to know what other people feel

#what bothers me the most #is that my mom has a designated spot #and everyone knows #so no one sits in it #I have a designated spot #but i all the time come home from school or work an find my dad is sitting in it #or like at the sunroom table #there's six other chairs #and plenty of spots on the couch #so WHY do people take my spot #i specifically started sitting there because no one else did #and have sat there for years #and i tell them to move #and i tell them it makes me upset when they sit there #AN D THEY DONT RESPECT IT #grrrrrrrr #like at the dinner table if we have guests and they sit there i'll move #(or more likely chose not to eat at the table)#but normally i'll let them know beforehand hey this is my spot if you would've mind chosing a different place to sit #idk #its so small #but i hATE people taking my spot #or like in the cafeteria or on buses or whatever #i find a spot that no oneelse is in #and then stick to it #polls #kestrel calls

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