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I don't want to see any images of Sieg Heils-- or any other revolting images like that.
This is what I think we should be seeing on our dashes instead. This is what I want to see when I open this app. This is the image I think tumblr should be flooded with right now.
Especially as we have new folks coming from other platforms.
What about you? Do you want to see Sieg Heils or do you want to see someone angrily ripping a swastika flag in half?
#fuck nazis#fuck trump#fuck musk#fuck them all#if you need to find this image just search in the gifs for 'rip nazi flag'#rip nazi flag#image is from#the sound of music film#fuck nazi scum#fuck neo nazi scum#this is the image we need to see#please reblog#can we flood tumblr with this image please?#if you don't want to reblog me fine just make your own post with ripping a nazi flag. tag me in your comments if you want i'll rb you#i don't care about the reblogs of this image#i just need to see this image all over tumblr right now#i think we all need to see this image right now#cw swastika mention#tw swastika mention#cw nazi mention#tw nazi mention#and i think we need to make it clear to the newcomers who have fled the big socials that this is how we do things here#every time someone even mentions the salute I am fucking rebooting this.#christopher plummer#also whilst everyone is talking about what musk did no one is talking about what 45 might have been doing that day#like taking the constitution. off the website#and all information on support for women’s choice#and taking USA out of Paris peace accords#and’s declared that legally ‘life’ begins at conception which is absolutely fucking batshit crazy#w what is behind the curtain when you’re watching a big giant head perform for all on stage
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I'm so tired. And Frustrated.
I'm tired of characters needing to be "in love" every time they love each other. Especially when the media goes out of the way to make it clear that they love each other without ever trying to define that as "in love". They love each other. That is just as valuable. That is Just as worthy. They can be partners without romance. They can be partners without sex.
They Can Be Partners Without Romance.
I am so Sick of not only the idea that for some god forsaken reason, Every single queer relationship needs to be labeled and categorizable to "count" as explicitly queer, but the idea that it needs to be romantic. The notion that characters and stories cannot be queer until you get to see a kiss or people are declared "boyfriends" or something else like that. We are Woefully shy of queer representation on the whole— I'm not saying you can't interpret media however you like. Do what you want.
But I am so sick of characters that Clearly mirror aromantic stories or stories about queerness that just don't focus on romance be called "not good enough" or "homophobic". Not every story is about romance. Not every partnership is romantic.
That doesn't make them not queer. That doesn't make them not important. I can promise you, those of us who don't or can't center romance in our lives? We Are living a queer experience. We are antithetical to amatonormative allonormative expectations for how life "should" be lead.
We get to see ourselves in those stories you're calling "not queer enough". Queerness is complex and weird and Fucking Queer. It's not an analog of straightness or cisness. We're not playing opposite to straightness or cisness. We're not operating in the same Framework— that's what makes us so goddamn queer. We aren't easily definable, and when we try to force ourselves to find one definitive way to be queer, we leave community behind.
So yes. We need more queer stories. We need more queer stories of all kinds that are messy and weird and romantic and aromantic and trans and ace and nonbinary and all over the place because every single story about queerness is going to be different. And that's good.
#yes this is about good omens#but it's also about little women#and it's also about frozen#and it's about a hundred different ways and a hundred different times i've been told i'm erasing queer stories by seeing myself in them#queer stories deserve to be complicated#we deserve to be hard to define#but also we deserve to be seen#in every capacity that we can#I generally participate in a part of fandom that heavily partakes in shipping#For me one of the most important parts of the story is the characters and their relationships with each other#but I cannot fathom how people who also find that to be one of the most important parts of stories can be so Reductive about what that mean#good omens#aromantic#asexual#sorry for the big rant#I just cried my eyes out to the season finale of good omens and came on here to be excited about it#but almost everything i saw was about a very different takeaway than the one I had
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The biggest hill I will die on is that Pauline would NOT be motherly and that Flanny did a massive disservice to her character by doing that
#If we REALLY want to assign a familial role to her#she'd be that aunt you never realized how fun she was 'til you were in your mid teens#because she had a really big and important job#and took every family gather as the one and only chance she had to get drunk on some good wine#that she had and would literally keep a tally mark on how many fights people got into#and lecture 16 year olds about their bad boyfriends#but is otherwise very put together and proper every other time you see her#also OH MY GOD CAN I HAVE JUST ONE FEMININE WOMAN NOT BE TURNED INTO A MOTHER PLEASEEE#I have a whole rant about how harmful that is locked and loaded#someone ask me about why we need more traditionally fem women to be intentionally childless#trust me I will have an answer#rambles#rangers apprentice#ranger's apprentice#pauline dulacy#john flanagan#and btw if you like mom Pauline because you think her and Will's relationship is sweet I do understand that#I just think that the way Johnny Flangoo handled it took away so much from her
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I think the reason I wasn't as exasperated with Arcane S2 despite its many issues is that I...thought the writing wasn't that amazing in S1, at least as much as it was hyped to be, so I went into S2 not being invested. I just wanted to see an animated work that was pretty to look at, good fight scenes, and hot people.
And then I kept getting emotionally sucker punched and look, I can talk about the things that frustrated me because I wish we had more room to explore all the intriguing narrative threads that were made and things were done justice, but...I'm holding jayvik, zaundads, timebomb, Vi and Powder's family (do NOT talk to me about episode 7), etc. in my hands and crying all over them. Also, wow the soundtrack and the visuals. Wow.
#speaking of hot people s1 made me go WOWOWHWOWOAHWOOOO about all the cool women like...they're all so cool#and so hot/beautiful like sevika? mel? vi? ambessa?#like is ambessa in the wrong for things? yes. but also...hot#mel is DISTRACTINGLY beautiful every time she shows up#vi is like. lol. look. if you have a brawler i will be looking and that pit fighter sequence was made for me#sevika has been hot since day 1#and ughfhafv vander is just so big...jayce is such a [redacted] so obviously i'd like him#anyway i think i should stop talking now#i wish we had what everyone assumed we'd get because of the s1 finale and the first few episodes of s2#instead of the avengers-like drivel#and i wish we got to see more development instead of skipping everything#cait's whole situation was a M E S S but uh. nice songs and visuals and emotional beats
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#this is another one im endlessly curious about#because every time i see people talk about needing someone whos at least 6 foot im like. why do you care specifically??#is 5 11 so different?#and also the inconvenience of a super big difference idk. just seems weird to me#but im also aro + ace as hell and never experienced attraction like that so maybe its just a me thing#nyxtalks#poll#height#height difference#i mean. i can see why a few inches difference is attractive. this is a tall women appreciation blog#but i wouldnt not date someone over their height n its not a thing i specifically find attractive. its just niceeee
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sorry if i unfollow someone or break a mutual but ive been seeing waaaay too many transmisogyny posts and stuff that doesn't feel good to see with my identity so like sorry in advance ig
#like yes i understand some of these posts aren't for me but im getting a little tired of seeing#'being masculine is okay'#'if you're a trans girl your masculine features are hot'#'i love girls with big bulges and deep voices'#yes i understand girls like this exist and are out there#but it feels like every time i see a post that just leaves me with a sour taste in my mouth#in their bio is always 'transmasc' or 'cis woman' or 'he/him'#im just so tired of it all please reevaluate how you view trans women please please please
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my favorite thing i realized is when someone makes thier mind up about you theres no changing it. when they need other people against you its because they feel threatened. and theres no point of staying because those people are already against you because someone else is. working in a pwi i see that my experience wasnt in a vaccum they are very aggressive and rude to black women specifically in these spaces. they do not want black women in academia.
#and even my coworker has asked me if theyre messing with us#she is getting frustrated by the way theyre treating ME lmfao#so now i know thier games i just smile and nod#they didnt turn on my key card to get into the building? must be IT (this is the second time its happened to me working at a uni...they wan#you to PROVE yourself to....work in retail like they want you to grovel and its like people show you thier ass then expect you to care)#they dont want to give me instruction? then i guess i just dont need to know and will get them every customer we get#they dont want to greet me? i smile and say hi to everyone#theyre shoulder checking me? ill make sure to greet them and look them deeply in the eye the next time i see them#i also work in a nursing home and had months of people gossiping about what i was or wasnt doing and how im lazy or whatever#they found out im muslim and have been making jokes abt that#i heard 'big mama jokes' from these people before that#and yet tehyre constantly understaffed#the retail job? i met with a therapist AND SHE apparently worked tehre and told me how unprofessional they are#so no sometimes IT IS your enviroment#instead of hoping theyll be better i just accept that people arent used to seeing black women esp fat ones#and being muslim just is too much and makes them short circuit#i wouldve told my younger self to drop out of my college and go somehwere else
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the hrt rly is working. now when i go visit my dad at the old folks home the other residents call me ‘young man’
#Maximum Gender™️#and my dad just kinda nods and doesnt say anything#like im not out to him bc hes already really confused and it just. idk it would make too many things even harder en#but hes heard a lot of people gender me correctly and just kinda sits there and ‘yep!’#so 🤷♂️#isaac clarke data log#my dads also significantly younger than the other residents there but im just glad he finally has help#genuinely i think most of the people who misgender me every day are people who are trying too hard to be like ‘well women can be masculine!’#like. i have sideburns. i’m packing. come on#every time someone misgenders me in public i tell myself it’s bc cishets arent used to seeing guys with asses this big
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i know i am being a wee bit oversensitive about this but it does get tiring to be stuck back in shithole florida for the semester and be a fucking public faggot spectacle every time i go to the grocery store or the library or whatever and log on and see people being mean and cruel and mildly to moderately transphobic towards each other over overpriced boxers or the artistic integrity of forcemasc fetish or fucking whatever. i know this is also mean but part of me is just screaming who gives a shit do you people not have any real problems do you all live in fucking portland.
#literally every time i go outside some old fuckhead is glaring daggers at me for existing and it's only gonna get worse#average guy on the street thinks i shouldn't be allowed to work with children At Best. at worst they think i should be in prison#i haven't been hatecrimed since graduating (2 years ago) but that's mostly because i can't be easily cornered all the time anymore#and my blue college town is a lot better i'm not a spectacle but people are often still really weird about me including professors#idk man i'm fucking tired i wish we could all just focus on the big problems in a constructive way#don't wanna be thinking about how even people in our community wanna say this shit about us#whether it's ppl being weird about trans men or seeing other trans men be weird about trans women#all around it's just like cut this shit out right now
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I HOPE JAMES AND LOGAN CAN STILL BACKFLIP
#LAST YEAR WHEN I SAW THEM W MY SISTERS THEY OPENED WITH WINDOWS DOWN AND THEY BACKFLIPPED AND I SCREEEEAMED#they know how to put on a show alright#they have amazing stage presence and they KNOW HOW TO PICK THEIR SET LIST#ive never seen such. masters of knowing how to control a crowd of screaming women#tales from diana#the best thing about having sisters-in-law is having a group of ppl to see big time rush with#when i was in fifth grade writing about them in my diary every night it was just me and kaily stanning together#my brothers needed to get wives so i could have an irl btr fan club#(my brothers like big time rush too they just dont identify as fans... but they ARE)#(when dan lived at home in the pandemic. we watched big time rush on hulu on the couch on friday nights)#(it was fun i look back on that fondly.) (the sitcom also holds up and is hilarious still if anyone else was wondering)
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been waiting all season for oz and ed to properly meet and it did not disappoint. they were IMMEDIATELY faggy and bitchy to each other and i’m obsessed <3
#also love oz’s obvious crush on jim#gertie being like ‘he’s probably with some hussy!’#babe your son is gay x#he surrounds himself with men and the only women he interacts with are his mother and his mother figure like…#i love a mama’s boy <3#nearly finished s1 and it’s been a vibe so far#every new character and hint to the future has me like !!!#the flying graysons and the hint to dick!#young jonathan crane on his way to become scarecrow#and obviously young selina/ivy etc#and harvey (dent)!! like oh honey you have a big storm coming and i’m excited to see it#weird that harvey is an adult where some of the others are kids tho#bc bruce/selina/ivy all being kids makes sense#but like i get it its bc harvey is kinda needed to be older for the plot#whereas the others make more sense as kids#also it’s a vaguely different canon and it can twist things imao#anywaysss fun times#i’m excited for the next time oz and ed meet and the inevitable result of oz learning that ed isn’t who he thought <3#gwen rambles#gwenposting#got(ham) posting
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jesus fuck i feel bad for your poor girlfriend. just tell her you're a radfem
My gf knows I hold radical feminist views. Even before we've dated, I've talked openly and loudly about female liberation and sex based oppression, abortion access, hookup culture making young teens think theyre abnormal for not craving sex at 15, my thoughts on shaving, etc. She's even told me that talking about these things has helped her not feel the compulsion to shave her arms anymore.
She knows I'm a feminist and that I have radical views. The only thing I've never explicitly stated is that I'm gender critical of the trans movement as well (bc in general, this is social suicide and I have a career I want to protect). I have spoken about my gender critical views, I just don't call them that in conversation. Like I've ranted about the usage of terms like "boy clothes" and "boymode" to describe comfortable lounge clothing and that clothing has no gender. We've even debated about single sex spaces and even talked about JKR's funding of Beira's place. Like shockingly, we can disagree on things and still be together.
Idk what the point of your message really was. Is it "your poor gf" bc I complain about her very gendie/tumblr-q***r viewpoints? Or do you feel bc I'm a radfem it makes me a bad partner and that my gf is suffering by being partnered with me? I love her and want the best for her, but it doesn't stop me from being frustrated when she supports a movement that infringes on womens rights. I feel like I'm allowed to complain on my personal feminist tumblr about that lol
#the thing I appreciate a lot about her is that she does debate and hold discussion about various topcs with me#but what bothers me the most and just demonstrates how cult like the tq rainbow+ community is is how anti debate she is on those topics#we can talk about sex segreated spaces and mostly agree but then she has to mention TiM's and holds a 'no debate they're women' stance#and her defense of them is always so robotic or comes off as her quoting a stanza every 'supporter' has to say. ev#*even during our talks about abortion in her automated caveat about tq+ people she mentions tims being affected by the abortion ban#like they're not. but including them in everything is the preprogrammed response. and that is at the core of my complaints abt her stances#they aren't actually hers. its just rhe most progressive thing to believe and regurgitate. it frustrates me bc she is v intelligent#but she in general holds many libfem-y beliefs. maybe in the long run our relationship won't be sustainable idk thats a bridge for later#ik eventually I'll have to lay out my thoughts i don't tell her now and see what happens#I've come to terms that she may breakup with me over my gc radfem views.#I've come to terms she may break up with me over my views on the trans movement as she's a big supporter of it. thats her decision#but again. its a bridge for the future. and i will be respectful of her decision. I'm not entitled to a relationship or her love#anyway just rambling at this point. time for my meds lol.#anon#like am i a bad person for not telling her how i feel the tq movement is regressive af. i dont get the angle of this message#sorry if I'm missing the point of what you're trying to say to me
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★ thinking about nanami who, contrary to popular belief, is completely oblivious to just how big his dick is.
because this is a man who rarely ever watches porn due to him finding the performances highly overdramatized, so he hasn’t really had the chance to compare his size to other men. and while he’s by no means a virgin, he’s always assumed that the women who have told him he’s ‘big’ were just aiming to flatter him — his mother raised him to be humble, after all.
but it’s not until he gets you (the sweet girl he’s been seeing for the past few months) into his bed that it dawns on him that he might be a little… larger than average, to say the least.
“k-kento— ‘s not gonna fit,” you whine pitifully beneath him, fat tears beading along your lower lashes as you squirm against the mattress. “‘m sorry but... i-i don’t think i can take it all.”
and nanami can do nothing but gape at how giant his cock suddenly seems in comparison to your little fluttering hole, his angry reddened tip trying (and failing) to slowly push past the first ring of resistance inside your spongy walls.
“o-oh, sweetheart,” he rasps out, adam’s apple bobbing harshly as he swallows down the thick lump that seems to have arisen in his throat. “i’m sure we can make it fit, no? just… just try ‘n relax a little more for me.”
“i’ve been trying to relax this whole time,” you hiccup, trembling hands pawing at his bulky arms positioned either side of your head as he peers down at you sympathetically. “you’re just too b-big, ken.”
he exhales deeply, leaning down to press a tender kiss to the corner of your mouth as a form of apology for what he’s about to do— before swiftly using all of the strength in his lower body to thrust every inch of him inside in one go.
and you’re squealing, nails no doubt leaving crescent-shaped indents in the skin of his muscular biceps as you thrash against the sheets, desperately trying to adjust to the feeling of being so completely and utterly full, your poor cunt practically being split in two to accommodate the sheer size of him.
“christ— ah, there we go,” he grunts, sweaty strands of blonde hair falling over his forehead as he forces himself to stay completely still above you, allowing you ample time to get as comfortable as possible. “see, darling? i told you we’d make it fit.”
but nanami can’t bear the idea of you struggling this much every time the two of you are intimate, so he comes to the conclusion that he’ll just have to make sure that by the end of the night, your insides are moulded to the exact shape of his cock.
that way it won’t be such a difficult fit next time, right?
#!! hellokittyish#jjk#jjk x reader#jjk x reader smut#jjk smut#jjk x you#jujutsu kaisen#jujutsu kaisen x reader#jujutsu kaisen x you#jujutsu kaisen smut#nanami#nanami x reader#nanami smut#nanami kento#nanami kento x reader#nanami x you#nanami kento smut
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Why are British teenage girls so unhappy? Here’s the answer (Caitlin Moran, The Times, Sep 13 2024)
"The report, by the Children’s Society, found that British 15-year-old girls are the most unhappy in Europe.
British girls aged 10-15 are “significantly less happy” with their life, appearance, family and school than the average boy — and their happiness is still declining.
Boys’ life satisfaction, meanwhile, remains broadly stable. (…)
But I still didn’t have an “aha!” moment about why this so disproportionately affects girls until… I talked to some teenage girls.
It was at a party, and I went to vape with them on the patio. Because I take my nicotine like children do.
“Duh — it’s the boys,” one said when I brought it up, as all the others agreed.
“The boys?” I asked.
My last book, What About Men?, had been all about how much boys struggle these days: their loneliness; their suicide rates. I’d spent the past year feeling very sympathetic towards boys.
“Yeah, well, who do you think they’re taking out their unhappiness on? It’s us,” another girl said.
“One boy at school used to draw a picture every day of how ugly I was,” a third girl said. “Every day for two years.”
“They’ve all got ‘Rate The Girls’ polls on their WhatsApps,” the first said. “They mark you down for weight gain, haircuts, what you say.”
“But then, if you’re hot, it’s just as bad, in a different way, because they’ll be talking about how they want to f*** you.”
The girls discussed coping techniques. Bad news: none of them worked.
“The only way you can stop them is if you become ‘one of the boys’ and hang out with them. But then,” the second girl said with a sigh, “all the other girls call you a slut. Because you’ve gone over to the boys’ side.”
“Surely it’s not all the boys?” I said. “There must be some nice boys?”
“Oh, yeah,” one girl said. “But they keep their heads down. Because… well, look.”
She showed me the Instagram account of her friend. Under every picture she posted of herself — smiling in a new dress; with her dog — dozens of anonymous accounts had replied with the most rank abuse.
“Fat.” “Slut.” “You gonna try and kill yourself again, for attention?”
“They’re all boys from her school,” she said. “And look, this one boy tried to defend her.”
I saw a series of messages from a brave teenage boy, posting things like, “You’re all big men, leaving these replies under anonymous accounts.”
As I could see, this boy immediately became a target too. Mainly accusations that he was “white knighting” this girl: “You wanna f*** her, bro?”
“So,” I asked, “you don’t think it’s social media pressure to be beautiful, or the economy, that’s making girls so sad?”
“Well, yeah, them too,” the first girl said. “But, Monday-Friday, 9-3, I’m not on social media. I’m not… in the economy. I’m just with these boys. And no one talks about how horrible they are.”
I thought about another recent report, showing a 30 per cent ideological gap between Gen Z men, who are increasingly conservative, and Gen Z women, who are increasingly progressive.
I thought about Andrew Tate, who has nine million mostly young male followers — and faces human trafficking charges, which he denies.
And I thought: maybe these girls are on to something. Maybe more people need to vape with teenage girls and ask them for the school gossip."
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When I think of the ways people have hurt me - the ways people have gone out of their way to hurt me, the ways people have changed themselves to become hurtful to me, the ways people know my hurt and hurt me right there - I can only see now, how I will not hurt back the same.
#every time i have to face a situation where i am dealt something that could not even exist a moment in my head as a thought im reminded#in fact it matters to me very much how anyone hurt me on purpose. and it always will. and what matters most to me and i wish would matter#more to others is that you can justify anything. stop justifying ways to hurt people on purpose. dont give it back. dont make it or let it#happen. do that and become that and i could only trust you completely. prove that to me in honest to your soul and i could only love you#in response and forever.#its just. you meet people who are hurting and who demand you hurt as well with them through some justification. you only ever break this#cycle by not justifying that someone should hurt with you actually. and personally im very very effected by years and years and#years of that that dawn on me now only in this good holiday season not one year removed from when i started this big personal journey#both by my own concious choices and others but chiefly here by others. ive long since forgiven myself for that choice but now its just#fool me once again. i have no tolerance for it in anyone. i feel myself boiling over when i see these things happen let alone trying to#creep up in front of me. i only feel that boiling stop once once these things stop or these people stop or i am alone or make myself alone#your results my vary but ive personally had the most disgusting intimate year with myself my soul my brain body and psyche this year as#a result so far. still held on steely to my hobbies and my passions and my love for everything i do still as sweet as ever and still#the same person so many many different things and people tried to bring down and destroy. so from the bottom of my heart if you have put#yourself in my way this year i feel sorry for you and your loss. to the hall brothers & your lame ilk. your will break yourself some day.#my brothers my sisters my cousins my aunts my uncles i hope you never live this year down for what i saw of you and every year before.#and from the bottom of my heart if you have put yourself beside me this year you must already know that terrible tired sadness.#my good friends and my true family that have me i hope i never let you down and i hope we only prove ourselves better still.#anyways. know your worth trans women. know your worth and refine yourself always. nothing else matters first and foremost.
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