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Happy Valentine’s Day everyone! (Also pls ignore that Valentine’s Day was almost 10 days ago okay ty)
#constance rtc#rtc#digital art#pastel pink#bubbles#like the object#not the character#maturing is realising that#pink is a good colour#like I used to despise it#but#it’s pretty :)#ride the cyclone#is that enough tags?#ok one more#sugar cloud
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the way the Doctor stopped himself when he got angry with Donna, walked away, put his hands up looking guilty af and apologised? Lives rent free in my head
#ten would have finished the ‘you spilled the coffee’ line and the argument more than likely would have escalated#at least that’s what I think#but look at this mature boi realising what he was saying was perhaps a little too mean#stepping away and apologising#AND THEN HE COMFORTS HER SECONDS LATER#david tennant#tenth doctor#doctor who#donna noble#fourteenth doctor#fourteen x donna
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It has come to my attention that people who haven't read the comics don't realise Wallace was the one who harassed scott into being his friend. Like he saw that nerd at uni and went oh yeah that's my guy now. This bitch would not shut up and showed up at his house uninvited to hang out till scott gave in and befriended him, then they got suuuper drunk and scott let him crash at his. He comes to family dinners, is best friends with his sister, and chats to his mum.
He despises envy more than anything and is furious when she tries to mess with his life again and scott gets hurt, so he cooks him breakfast and comforts him. He coaches scott in fighting and helps with strategies so he doesn't get his ass kicked. He bullies him to leave the house because there's a heatwave and he wants to make sure he doesn't get heatstroke. Like they're close enough Wallace walks around in his underwear (though scott whines about it).
I've seen people assume Wallace supports scott out of pity but that man is a bitch and morally questionable (affectionate), I do not think he would put up with it at all if he didn't want him around, especially given he can barely afford to support them both. When they stop living together he doesn't just kick him out it's because their landlord kicks them out, he actively enchorages scott to move in with Ramona out of care for him and offers to stay with him if he needs it, though ends up signing a lease with his boyfriend (in his defence scott didn't ask for him to stay and decided to try make things work with Ramona) but still let's him stay at the new apartment with them when Ramona kicks him out.
Yeah he's mean to scott sometimes and makes fun of him/is brutally honest but he basically became part of Scott's family and part of that is calling people out when they're being a total jackass and teasing them, he's that kinda guy and scott knows that he doesn't actually hate him or something. Yeah scott will do puppy dog eyes if he wants something but wallace is frequently nice to him on his own initiative and scotts not a suck up to Wallace, he can be a bitch right back at him.
They're a really important part of each other's lives. though I can understand people not familiar with the characters who watched the show thinking Wallace doesn't care about scott being gone, literally all the characters reacted super casually. Bryan has tried to clarify his way of trying to cope is him "being a jerk"/disconnecting/acting apathetic. Also in the show o'malley basically confirms Wallace had feelings for scott and that was why he had the affair with Todd and you can quote him on that, aswell as scott admitting how they became roomates was "somewhat gay" in the comics, so there's definitely some weird more than friends emotional mess tied in there.
comic panels i reference under the cut
TLDR wallace lives with him because he cares about him, whether you read that as still somewhat romantic or now platonic, with either interpretations fitting better with different versions of the story
#scott pilgrim#this comic means a lot to me if you cant tell#it made me less scared of growing up reading it for the first time in middle school and countless times since#because it makes it clear that yes scott starts off as an immature selfish self centered asshole#it is made very clear and if the reader still idolises him imo it is 100% on them and a reflection of them as a person#but the comics give him the time and care to give him real character development and shows him realising all the shitty things he's done#he learns from and owns up to and faces his mistakes and in turn matures as a person#and I know mid 20's isn't old but to 13 yr old me I was supposed to have my shit together by 18 man#so seeing him be shitty and fail as an adult and still become a better person meant I wasn't doomed if I messed up#also that relationships suck sometimes and thats ok#you can fix it or move on#anyway#ig this includes scollace ?#scollace#wallace wells
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"they both had valid reasons" and "aziraphale was wrong" are statements that can and should coexist actually
#fearandhatred#aziraphale had reasons for leaving and crowley had reasons not to follow#but in the grand scheme of things? like everything? aziraphale is wrong#maturing is realising that aziraphale and crowley's relationship was romantic yes but also extremely toxic and unbalanced!!!#and that is not ok but it does not make a character irredeemable!!#good omens#good omens season 2#ineffable husbands#aziracrow#crowley#aziraphale
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So I started reading call down the hawk,,
(Not exactly how I pictured it since I don’t have the art skills but we all start somewhere rIghT
#maturing is realising that at some point you’ll have to actually study to get better at drawing#like learning textures colour theory perspective etc#I’m not that mature yet#call down the hawk#the dreamer trilogy#the raven boys#the raven cycle#trc#ronan lynch#trc ronan#trc art#trc fanart#the raven cycle art#the raven cycle fanart#ronan lynch art#Ronan lynch fanart#declan lynch#lynch brothers
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people act like tommy leaving the date is the worst crime to ever exist and forget that buck is a whole ass adult who can take care of himself
#yeah he's coming to terms with who he is / his identity etc etc#but tommy isn't responsible for that#he hardly knows buck#tommy has his own peace to protect and if he doesnt want to be involved with someone who doesn't understand their feelings yet then he is -#100% within his right to do that#it doesn't make him some awful human being#it makes him an emotionally mature adult who is looking after his own wellbeing and in turn looking after bucks#don't think people realise that tommy giving buck some space to breathe by leaving the date and EXPLAINING to buck why he is leaving#was actually the catalyst for buck speaking to maddie and eddie and thus beginning to work things out for himself#but alas#i forget that a large portion of “fans” don't know how to behave like adults#and have blinkers on when it comes to buck and what they want to see#it's giving uwu little bi baby buck needs to be babied#no babes he's an adult#yes it's rough coming out / figuring out your sexuality in later life of course#but he is also an adult and has a large support network around him#he's okay girls#911#bucktommy
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One of the many tragic aspects of Mikuni's character is that if he were to prevent the affair from happening, misono wouldn't be born.
With that being said, the reason why he would want to be misonos' father becomes simple. It's because that's the only way to prevent the affair from happening, and still make sure his little brother is born.
I mean, someone's gotta do it. (Im sorry lmao)
Im thinking he goes back in time, offers Hokaze to marry him to solve the money digging issue, meaning she wouldn't have to go after his father. Preventing the affair, preventing his mothers death & countless others, while also making sure misono still gets born eventually, except it's as his.. and Hokaze's son.
...yeah
And this might be the first time you'll find me not rooting for him.
#i mean i STILL am just not THAT plan#to give himself to an adult he knows is responsible for the problems in his life as a way to prevent those problems??#yeah no that would be the death of me#why am i posting this? because i dont like the “Mikuni had a childhood crush on her” allegations#sorry not sorry#they just dont do justice to the story in my humble opinion#also do you realise how young he was at the time of the affair? he was like YOUNG YOUNG and yes he was mature for his age but lets not#servamp#servamp manga#mikuni alicein#alicein misono#anyway#i also think that part of the reason is because of the situation he was put in as a child where he had to parent him#bc Kiriko was mentally unstable and mikado...is mikado#but that's another conversation#also its late at night so pardon the unprofessionalism#not that im sure its a word or that i was ever professional to begin with#honestly these tags can be a whole new post on their own lol
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Azriel's mate
okay no, I thought Az and Elain were like the cutest mf's ever but now I'm kind like Lucien and Elain?? Actually really work??? And SJM should give us more than breadcrumbs??? And also that frees up room for Azris - and I'm not a fan of putting two random guys together, but Azris actually works. Like spymaster and the Heir to an enemy court with more secrets than we could possibly count, not to mention the pure angst if Az had to pick between the Night Court and Eris- SJM needs to drop an Azriel book ASAP because that man has SO MUCH GOING ON and we don't get to see half of it because nobody ever pays enough attention to him.
And I used to HATE Eris with a PASSION but now he's lowkey a fave. like he's such a mamas boy, and he's so cunty it's amazing. he's lowkey giving regulus black.
#acotar#azris#eris vansera is a national treasure and deserves more recognition#that's it that's the post#Azris is just superior#Elain and Lucien are a close second#maturing is realising eris is actually so sound and elain and lucien deserve each other
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it is extremely strange to say you think astarion was a 'baby', that he wasn't an adult mentally, that he wasn't fully developed when he was turned into a vampire, and in the same breath say you romance him/want to fuck him.
#fray.txt#if you truly believe he wasn't mature/an adult when he was turned#despite that going against actual d&d lore#why on earth are you saying you romance/fuck him#do you not realise how weird and sus that makes you sound#bare in mind again in d&d lore astarions brain is fully developed when he turns - its just elven culture is different to ours#when it comes to adulthood#so ur NOT weird for romancing him/sleeping with him#BUT IT IS WEIRD TO THINK HES MENTALLY A CHILD AND DO THAT!!!!!!!!!
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yor forger
#i used myself as a reference so im not showing the photos this time. apologies#i was originally shooting a reference for something else entirely. but realised i needed to pin my hair up#and ended up with an even better reference lol#also the breasts are not mine. unfortunately. i was laz-- i mean i had no time to research breasts anatomy so they're not very accurate#i don't want to put the mature warning on this bc i don't want people in the sxf tag think it's corn again 😞#this is artistic nude#i don't know how to draw yor in a more realistic style at all. i can't tell if i recognise her here myself#so if you don't either i understand why#spy x family#sxf#yor forger#yor forger fanart
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thinking about situationship with trent based on you’re losing me by taylor swift :( especially where you guys were friends before. he says that he doesn’t want any ‘label’ on you guys considering the spotlight that he is currently under. so you guys aren’t dating, but you guys do things that a normal couple would do, but no commitment.
at first you were fine with it, his job does mean that one slip up can mean your personal life being on blast, paparazzi, articles & such.
but lately all you wanted was to shout from the rooftops at how you wish he was yours.
you guys talk, laugh, sleep, joke, act, like a couple, so why are you not?
the situation went downhill when you have taken notice at how loosely trent used the term ‘situationship.’ at clubs or parties or just getting coffee in general, he would always get hit on by gorgeous women.
you weren’t insecure, because why would you be? you guys aren’t together.
so why does it hurt like hell every single time he would entertain these women and flirt back?
one day you finally had enough and decided to call it quits on whatever terms the hell you both are on.
trent didn’t understand, it was going fine. but then when he sees your teary eyes, the way that your lip wobbles and your scratchy voice when you said “you’re losing me, trent.” his stomach dropped. he royally screw up.
his heart ached, all he wanted was to be yours, and you wanted the same. guess the timing didn’t work out very well.
he tried to argue, at the same time invalidating your feelings and how much it was affecting you. so when you repeated, “stop. you’re losing me.”
his hands started to shake because he knows deep down that he already lost you. so when he left your house, you knew it was the last time you’ll see him. until your paths cross again.
he lost you and you lost him.
#lets talk trent <333333#he just doesn’t want you to be under the pressure that he was in :(((#he cares but he doesn’t really know how to show it :((#im in my feels :(#the dress x you’re losing me mash up really inspired this#got me sobbing and shit#maybe youll get together again one day#when you both are mature#and grown#and he realises how much he misses you ☹️#and maybe you guys work out#trent alexander arnold#trent alexander arnold blurbs#trent alexander arnold fluff#trent alexander imagines#trent alexander arnold x reader#trent alexander arnold fic#trent alexander x you
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something something guys who think of the backs of the girls they love
and girls who pinch the cheeks of the guys they love
#funny coincidences and all that~~~~~~~~~~#especially since both of the guys are associated with the colour green i m e a n—#i just really love how hw isnt afraid to have the guys fawn over and dote on their gfs#unlike many other love stories yk?#seeing the guys shower their lovers with affection is the best part!!!!!!#who needs emotionally repressed male leads when you can have affectionate hw male leads#even ‘cool’ and ‘mature’-ish guys like yu and kodai (to a degree) are super loving towards their respective gfs#and now!!!! we get to see nagisa: a cool-ish and mature (compared to like lxl) adore hiyori!!!!!#…oh. wait. i think i get why there kinda feels like there’s an narrative disconnect between nghy#hiyo is more of an idol series character (despite not being an idol) yet her romance with nagisa seems to be more on the love series side#so the way the two series are intertwining *now* after all these years of being somewhat of separate entities#(despite overlapping characters like the sanbaka + arisa and hina + sena) may feel a little wonky#juri is different bc she has p much nothing to do with the idols. she’s just in it for the vibes#but for someone like hiyori who’s super involved in the idol side to suddenly be introduced to the ‘love’ side of things…#especially since her retconned romance was with another idol… and all that old pre-nagisa novel stuff with yujiro…#idk i think the nghy romance could’ve been handled better had it not been for the [redacted] anime#…wait i think i realised something else. it could be a coincidence but!!!!! wait a sec#the dude from gamushara
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ive just seen a second 'callout post' genuinely what is this app
#please i thought we were grown what happened to being MATURE#adulthood is realising adults are more childish than actual KIDS#blah blah!#im laughing but dear lord#not 75 stuff
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how did we let steven moffat get away with this in 2012
#“haha what if sherlock & john were actually a gay couple” . “no of course sherlock & john aren't a gay couple where did you get that idea”#I am joining steven moffat's war on lesbians on the side of lesbians#the first stage of maturing is realising that bbc sherlock was never that deep and johnlock was not the frontier of the gay rights#movement that many tumblrinas thought it was. but the second stage is realising that actually no fuck that guy he was still unnecessarily#pretentious and demeaning to young queer people#(pls don't come for me moffat stans. I do actually really like most of moffat's run. I contain multitudes)#doctor who#madame vastra#jenny x vastra#steven moffat#sherlock#bbc sherlock#johnlock
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springtrap 👯♂️ for @ravenmccookies >:]
#fnaf#springtrap#william afton#my art#i realised i hadn't shaded the legs so i deleted the post but that also deleted the ask#this was your ask right?? omg i hope i tagged the right person#i think springy has been trying to spite me for dressing him in this outfit lmao#this post was supposed to be less suggestive but the legs were not cooperating. but anyways i thint it turned out well in the end.#i hope you like him and his smug lil face :3#drawing a middle aged man in a skimpy outfit is a tumblr rite of passage so i'm glad i did it#honestly idk if this needs to be tagged as mature or not. prob not but let me know if i'm wrong.
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Syaosaku has to be one of the cutest romances in all of anime.
#cardcaptor sakura#syaosaku#sakura kinomoto#syaoran li#I was just watching a compilation of their romantic moments#and I love how it developed overtime#I love how once Syaoran realised how he felt he handled it really maturely and wanted to confess#I love how when he confessed Sakura didn't accept it straight away but instead thought about it#and realised later that there was something there#just every scene of theirs is so perfect#mine#mine: texts#mine: ccs
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