#it makes him an emotionally mature adult who is looking after his own wellbeing and in turn looking after bucks

[ishouldbedoingalright]

people act like tommy leaving the date is the worst crime to ever exist and forget that buck is a whole ass adult who can take care of himself

[jinned]

bts react- them as your boyfriend

-the biggest dork of a boyfriend oh my god

-but tries to act cool™️

-when he buys himself hoodies he’s also subconsciously thinking of whether or not you’d like it

-he wants to buy the kind of hoodies you want to steal

-“this one is a nice color but this other one is cozier and y/n would be able to curl up in it so I should go with this one”

-lots of giggling

-and that cute embarrassed smile/eye scrunch namjoon does (you know the one)

-he would cup your cheeks in his hands ALL THE TIME

-on dates he just wants to stare at you

-like it’s borderline creepy…

-but he’s just so in awe of you

-constantly wonders what he did to deserve you

-makes playlists for you to listen to

-he’s the type of boyfriend that would 100% put you first

-gets so concerned about your wellbeing that he kind of hovers

-he wants a partner in life and wants to be able to learn and grow with you

-tries so hard to be perfect for you

-is the type of boyfriend that won’t shut up about you to random strangers or friends but honestly doesn’t even realize that you’re all he talks about

-when someone calls him out on it he gets reeeaaalll embarrassed and shy

-always says you need to take more pictures together but then gets so lost in the moment he forgets to take any

-we already been knew you gonna lose some ribs cause you’ll be laughing so hard around this man

-writes you awful corny love jokes

-he’s the type of boyfriend who will always take care of you

-you’ll never have to worry about anything basically

-treats you like royalty and would do anything for you

-lots of at home dates!!

-cuddling on the couch drinking wine and watching old movies

-or karaoke

-but not…regular karaoke

-“whoever sings the worst doesn’t have to do dishes”

-it’s basically you two screeching and making inaudible sounds into a microphone

-some mornings you’ll wake up and he’ll be acting out a role from a film and it’s your mission to guess what character he is

-until then no kisses >:|||

-Jin would be the relaxed kind of boyfriend but you’ll never stop laughing

-would 10000% sing you to sleep

-just wants to spend time with you. That’s his love language 

-you are the source of his confidence

-”If I could get y/n to fall in love with me then I can do anything”

-at some points in the relationship you will have to remind him that he is an adult and to stop acting like a child

-only gotta tell him once and then he’ll get his shit together

-the type of boyfriend to make you think “wow…he’d be an amazing dad.” a LITTLE too early into the relationship

-shy boyfriend

-wants to protect you but also wants to hide behind you

-just wants you to be as in love with him as he is with you

-reaalllly afraid he’s going to do something to mess things up :(((

-has the mentality of “push them away before they push you away”

-is just really afraid

-but once you break down those walls and show him that you’re here to stay and that you love the real him…

-the dorkiest boyfriend

-so many sarcastic jokes

-“aha!!” kind of laughs

-sees the relationship as 50-50 but understands that sometimes you might be at a 30 so he needs to step up and be the 70 (I hope that makes sense)

-S P O I L S Y O U

-you mention one time you like that one thing?

-it’s all wrapped up in a pretty bow on your side of the bed by the end of the week

-leaves you REAL CUTE NOTES

-“hi baby I hope you have a great day at work! Don’t forget to take your vitamins and take a water bottle with you. Never forget you are the most precious thing to me. I love you more than I can ever describe.”

-writes songs about you

-a lot of songs

-would want to hide you from the paparazzi to protect you but would tweet so many obvious things about you

-at the end of the day he just wants to be held by you

-he’s so afraid of losing you that he’ll go over the top with everything he does

-legit watches romantic movies or reads romance novels to “Study” how to be a boyfriend basically

-but then quickly finds out that type of stuff isn’t how the real world works

-I could honestly go on and on about the type of boyfriend my lil yoongurt would be cause he’s seriously the dream boyfriend

-not gonna lie hobi might be kind of a mess of a boyfriend. Lemme explain

- m o o d s w i n g s

-just emotionally all over the place

-he seems to feel his emotions 10 times more than a regular person

-when he’s happy he’s OVER THE MOON

-when he’s upset or angry it’s a lot of petty attitude

-those are on rare occasions though

-he’s the type of boyfriend that clings to you

-just needs you close 24/7

-is really easy to shop for???

-I don’t think he’d particularly take you out on lots of dates

-he’s prefer bringing the dates home

-like board games and crafts

-6 months in and he’s talking about babies

-highkey just really intense

-but it’s mostly in a good way

-never forgets your birthday or anniversary

-the boyfriend that goes “it’s our three month anniversary! I got you a gift!”

-your family just ADORES HIM

-easily jealous

-ultimately is the ideal boyfriend once he gets past his own insecurities

-if you guys argue he will be the mature one to make you both sit down and talk it out

-ever wish you could date a golden retriever? WELL SAY NO MORE

-jimin would be the most loyal boyfriend

-would feel bad leaving you to hang out with his friends

-so many cuddles

-will literally fetch anything for you

-you need anything? He’s already on his way to the store to get it for you

-comes back with flowers and your favorite candy

-the type to get you presents just because they reminded him of you

-lots of romantic dates

-definitely the “my best friend is my boyfriend” type

-you are the center of his world and all he wants is for you to be happy

-if you have younger siblings he’s always excited to see them and play with them

-he really quickly becomes an addition to your family

-he’s really insecure so he needs constant confirmation that he’s a good boyfriend and that you love him

-the type to make a sims family with you

-“look y/n! Our sims have 8 kids!” 

-sometimes he’s so clingy it’s annoying

-like gadayum can’t anyone pee without holding their boyfriend’s hand??????

-he’s the opposite of Yoongi. Yoongi would be more likely to push you away due to his insecurities but Jimin will cling too much because of his insecurities

-Jimin would be the most attentive boyfriend ever like wow what a precious gem

-so so so sooooo goofy

-lots of adventures!

-wants to take you out all the time

-never go to the same restaurant twice

-wants to capture every moment with you via camera

-sometimes you have to remind him to actually live in the moment

-loves to hold onto you

-is not afraid of pda

-gets bashful when you do the simplest things. Like kissing his cheek randomly

-he can’t take it

-lmao sorry but if you’re a female reader he gonna play with your boobs ALL THE TIME

-not even in a sexual way just if it’s there within his reach it gonna be in his hand

-sometimes he gets a little intense with how childish he is

-if you try to have a serious conversation with him early into the relationship it might not go as planned

-he has a harder time letting go of his goofy and carefree side so you’ll just have to really sit him down and explain that you’re trying to be serious and want him to act the same

-after a while though it’s SOOOOO much easier

-I don’t wanna say you have to train him to be a boyfriend but you’re gonna have to train him to be a boyfriend

-what I mean by train is that you’ll have to teach him what you like and what you expect/want from him because a lot of the dating stuff won’t come naturally to him

-but don’t worry he’s got it down and will do anything to make you happy

-just be careful not to make him feel like he’s not good enough or that you’re trying to change him

-definitely wants a “my best friend is my significant other” type of relationship

-out of all the members he’s most likely to be self aware of if he’s ready for a relationship or not

-“yeah I really like this person but I’ve got a lot going on so it wouldn’t be fair to them.”

-he’s not romantic by the book but definitely romantic in his own way

-takes you to art museums and shows you his favorite paintings

-if you look closely a lot of the paintings reflect love and inner turmoils

-you basically have to read in between the lines with tae

-oh sweet baby boy :(

-the cutest boyfriend :(

-like…the ones you see in movies kind of boyfriend

-the “this has to be scripted” or “he stole this off the internet” kind of boyfriend

-memorizes you to a T

-you’re in a bad mood? Comes home with flowers and your favorite snacks

-tucks you in at night and gives you temple kisses

-also kind of a lost boyfriend ™️

-he’s just…trying real hard to figure things out

-jungkook’s google search list:

•”how to be a good boyfriend?”

•”best places to take your girl/boyfriend”

•”how to know if you’re in love”

-wants to WRESTLE

-like play wrestling where you’re both laughing and just grabbing each other and trying to pin one another down

-is scared when he realizes it could lead to something sexual

-just wants to be a dork with you

-another “my best friend is my boyfriend” type of guy

-but also babies the fuck outta you

-is so polite and respectful to your family that they’re suspicious

-gives THE BEST boyfriend hugs

-always smells good

-the type of boyfriend that buys you the giant ass teddy bear and a giant bouquet of flowers

♡𝓇𝑒𝒶𝒸𝓉𝒾𝑜𝓃𝓈 𝑒𝓋𝑒𝓇𝓎 𝓉𝓊𝑒𝓈𝒹𝒶𝓎 ♡

© do not copy, modify, translate, or repost. Jinitude 10/22/19

[thedadmag2-blog]

Your kids and Mental Health

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[luanna801]

I need to make a post about how dang USELESS nearly every adult in DNAngel is, because seriously.

Starting with the teacher, who is possibly the most useless person in the entire series. Let’s start with this scene, where Wiz-disguised-as-Daisuke almost drowns in the pool:

Satoshi: Dove in to save Wiz/Daisuke and is already giving him CPR, because Satoshi is a dang boss like that.

Riku: Going off to get help.

The teacher, who is supposed to be the adult here: Standing around like a blithering idiot doing nothing.

????? First of all, why was someone not on lifeguard duty? I’m assuming Satoshi wasn’t the lifeguard, because he had to dive into the pool fully-dressed which is, you know, not how lifeguarding is supposed to work. So... what gives?  If this school has a swim class, there should be someone assigned to save anyone who might be drowning. They shouldn’t just hope a random person who knows CPR happens to be there.

Secondly, why are two fourteen-year-olds the only ones being remotely useful or proactive here while the adult who is supposed to be in charge of their wellbeing stands around wringing her hands? Legit, what was she going to do if Satoshi hadn’t been there to save the day? Because personally, I get the strong impression she would have just stood there until it was too late. 

And in case you think I’m being unfair in that assessment, check out her reaction when Daisuke and Riku fall down a ravine on a school trip:

OH MY GOSH, WHAT THE ACTUAL HECK IS WRONG WITH YOU.

Two students might be dying and she’s just worried about what she’s gonna say to their parents??? And how it might affect her teaching career? Like????? Maybe show some actual concern for their wellbeing, you self-absorbed dishrag.

And ONCE AGAIN literally every 14-year-old in this scene is being more of an adult than the actual supposed adult in charge, from the random girl who’s having to comfort her teacher about what happened, to Saehara and Satoshi who are the only ones having an actual productive conversation about the best way to get Riku and Daisuke back.

In the end, Satoshi ends up being the one to call for help when they’re in range:

And the one who goes off to look for Daisuke and Riku:

Throughout all of this the teacher apparently just...? Blithered about her ruined career and the awkward conversations she was gonna have to have? Seriously, as far as we can tell, she does literally nothing while two of her students might be dying at the bottom of a ravine. Yet again it’s down to Satoshi to be the only one dealing with this in a mature or useful way. Because Satoshi Hiwatari, despite being 14, is apparently the only damn adult in this story. 

(Incidentally, all of the above happens while Satoshi is still in full “DAISUKE AND I CANNOT POSSIBLY BE FRIENDS BECAUSE WE ARE A NIWA AND A HIKARI, WE MUST BE ENEMIES, IT IS DESTINY” mode. Because clearly, constantly trying to save your Mortal Enemy TM’s life is just how Mortal Enemy-ing TM works. LOL okay Satoshi. So good at being enemies, those two.)

Oh, and speaking of Satoshi (as we always should be), let’s talk about this scene:

So... the school knows Satoshi lives alone? And apparently has no way of getting in touch with his dad to find out if something’s happened to him? And no one sees any issue with this?

I’m putting this one on the school as a whole rather than this particular teacher, but seriously... what the hell, dude. I’m pretty sure it’s not normal for 14-year-olds to be living on their own in Japan, even if they are unusually smart 14-year-olds. And maybe that could get a pass if the 14-year-old in question seemed incredibly happy and well-adjusted, but Satoshi is the opposite of that.

I could make an entire separate post about this honestly, but here’s the thing: I don’t blame the adults in Azumano for not figuring out about Krad or any of the things Satoshi’s going through because of magical Hikari curse weirdness, because there’s no way they could be expected to guess any of that. But I absolutely blame them for not figuring out his dad is abusing him, because that’s a real-world issue that people like this teacher should know to be looking for, and there are huge warning signs that no one picks up on.

You literally have this kid who they know lives on his own, even though he has a father who supposedly should be there to look after him on a day-to-day basis. He barely talks to the other kids in his class and has obvious trouble socializing normally. He constantly seems depressed and emotionally withdrawn. Oh, and for some mysterious reason he doesn’t want to get undressed when the other kids are swimming (see above scene).

One would have thought this would set off giant “HELLO! THIS KID MIGHT BE BEING ABUSED!” warning bells in any teacher’s head, but apparently not, because every adult in Azumano Junior High is completely freakin’ useless.

What gets me about this is... this is a series with a ton of magical weirdness going on, but none of these are magical scenarios that an ordinary teacher wouldn’t be equipped to deal with. If your class is going swimming, you need to be prepared for the possibility that someone might start drowning. If you’re going on a hiking trip, ideally you should be on top of things enough that two students wouldn’t fall down a ravine in the first place (again: no weird magic was responsible for this. Riku was climbing to get Risa’s hat and Daisuke went after her, and if you’re in charge of a bunch of 14-year-olds in a place with dangerous ravines someone could fall down, you should damn well be keeping close watch to make sure something like that doesn’t happen), but if it does happen, you should at least have some kind of contingency in place to find them as quickly as possible. If you have a student who pretty obviously has something weird going on with his home life, you should be able to pick up on those signs and be prepared to get involved if necessary.

But no??? This teacher just??? Does nothing, every time. Blithers uselessly while students are almost dying. Makes other 14-year-olds be the only ones to take charge and do anything useful about it. Notices nothing about what’s going on in her students’ lives. Doesn’t seem to particularly care what happens to them, except insofar as it puts her in an awkward spot.

Who thought this woman was competent to be put in charge of a bunch of teenagers? And how the heck has she not gotten fired a dozen times over by now?