#marcus syd

[unladyboss]

MARCUS HOTNESS

[tigerbaulm]

EVERY SECOND COUNTS !!

[drrav3nb]

Carmy & Sydney being married af/fools in love in and everyone noticing

Bonus:

[mon-chef]

“Sydcarmy shippers are creating romance where there isn’t romance!”

“Carmy said Claire is peace!”

“Claire and Carmy should be endgame!”

Respectfully shut the hell up. Carmy is far too busy experiencing the horrors to be correct about anything. This man has to make fancams of Sydney in his brain just to function.

The IMMEDIATE sigh of relief after Sydney pops into his mind is actually hilarious. Carmy is a LOVERBOY.

[sage-lights]

smosh pit proudly presents: the wenching hour (a courtney miller birthday special)

[hipsternumbertwo]

Try Not To Laugh Challenge #146 - Courtney's Birthday! [x]

[chefkids]

Iridescence can stop the hauntings

Carmy thinks he is haunted by the memory of Claire. Really he is haunted by Sydney.

The Fak's used the password iridescent to stop Sammy from haunting Theodore.

The term iridescent describes something that changes colors depending on the angle and how light reflects off of it. It also something often used by plants and animals for mating for many birds, butterflies, and fish. What else do we know that changes colors?

Marcus and his little white violet, which is meant to symbolize innocence.

But he also wants to use the violet dessert to create some magic.

We also know the magical mythology of the flower turning from white to purple by cupid and becoming a love potion.

He said he wanted to make a white violet, but we keep seeing him using purple.

Marcus and his desserts have always brought Syd and Carmy together.

With the first donut, Carmy and Sydney initially rejected it and she ended up breaking up with him quitting.

We saw that Carmy did try it and then Sydney told Marcus she had also eaten it off the floor and they ended up back together in the end.

Then Marcus had Sydney and Carmy try his Copenhagen sundae and they made up at the end of the episode for a hot second.

He showed them all the new desserts with the new donut and the cannoli and they ended up screwing under the table.

This new White Violet dessert he's been working on seems to be turning out more violet than white. If Marcus creates some magic by making it iridescent and change colors depending on if it's meant to be given to someone white/platonically vs violet/romantically, that could be what changes the dynamic between these two and makes Carmy's intentions and feelings for Sydney clear.

[heardchef]

[unladyboss]

ASSUMING SYDNEY GOT HER OWN APARTMENT

With the help of Marcus

That means more hanging out with any or ALL of those guys

CARMY, Richie, Marcus, Luca, Connor

Anybody!!!!!!

[darkostudios-blog]

I really wanna know what Carmen’s reaction is gonna be when Sydney tells him that Marcus asked her out. Because as we know, Carmen has NO IDEA why Marcus snapped at Sydney and it was definitely not normal. So when Carmen asks “yo what was that about” and Sydney pulls up with “Marcus uh asked me out.” What will happen then???? What if she doesn’t say anything? What if Marcus tells him? Will Carmen spiral ?

[sydcarmyfan]

Everyone needs to apologize to Sydney

Richie called Syd a random broad, shouted at her, and accused her of blowing the guy for the review. Yep, Sydney needs an apology from Richie.

Carmy shouted at her, and kept leaving her to do everything by herself, and stood her up for their “inspiration” date at Kasama. Yep, Sydney needs an apology from Carmy.

Marcus shouted at her. Yep, Sydney needs an apology from Marcus.

Tina tried to sabotage her. Yep, Sydney needs an apology from Tina.

Sydney is unproblematic AF! I need everyone to apologize because WTF…like she’s trying to help the restaurant but y’all keep trying her. Sydney had every right to leave in s1 and if she leaves in s3, it’s on them.

[mon-chef]

Sydney “Call-Out Queen” Adamu

I love how Sydney calls Carmy out, one because she’s advocating for herself (and the team), but also because it’s so helpful for him.

Most of the things Carmy does are a result of his deep seated trauma. He’s so in his head (literally all the time ) and she has the power to shake him out that.

As someone who has had some similar struggles to Carmy I can tell you that it is so so helpful to have someone wake you up out of the mental shitstorm and remind you that you exist outside of the terrible things in your mind. And no matter his reasons; his outbursts are impacting the people around him. Carmy definitely has to be reminded of this, especially when he’s in the workplace, and especially when he is THE BOSS. (Sidneote; I hear that kitchen environments are generally people just screaming at each other and I think that is soooo fucked. Maybe I am just a sensitive little bitch baby but I don’t think anyone deserves that and especially not on a regular basis :(( Everyone needs to be more like Chef Terry.)

I also love the way she calls him out and the fact that she doesn’t baby him. She’s clear and assertive but she isn’t malicious, she doesn’t hit below the belt, and she doesn’t make him feel small. She’s so compassionate, it is inspiring.

[ciaomarie]

Yes, we are insane BUT they made us that way! The way her voice got soft and higher, like DANG GIRL!!!! Sorry I couldn't embed the video here. Just click on the View on Twitter link I also posted the link in the comments.

[diningwiththeasquiths]

The Bear + text posts (The Onion headlines)

[thoughtfulchaos773]

2x04 + 2x09

[moments-on-film]

Moments on Film: The Bear Season 3

Now that I have had a few days to process and fully…..digest S3, I am back with my most visceral thoughts.

I must say, distance did not do anything to ameliorate how I felt about this season. There were some beautiful moments, I really enjoyed episode 1, for example, and I truly appreciated the opportunity to learn more about how Sydney comports herself as a leader, Marcus‘s beautifully inspired and fresh creativity as a chef, Tina’s journey, Natalie’s inner struggles, and more backstory on chef Luca.

What I am having so much trouble with this season, is Carmy. I knew this would happen. I knew S3 would be the belly of the beast, as I predicted 🔗 here , but it was still so hard to take in.

Those of you that have read my work know how much empathy I have felt for Carmy. I have rooted for him. I see how much help he desperately needs and I am always hoping he will find a way to course correct when he gets off track. Carmy ditching Sydney in S2 and lashing out at Richie in the finale felt like a punch to my gut. I was so hoping those two relationships would be nurtured this season but in fact they got worse.

I want to be clear, I have had so much compassion and empathy for Carmy and his emotional problems, due to the cycles of abuse he has had to endure. What I absolutely cannot excuse or reconcile this season is how his behavior and actions are hurting, stifling, and traumatizing those around him.

Another thing I really want to uplift is that yes, this is a show that emphasizes found family. But at the end of the day, this is a business, he is in a leadership position, and everyone who works there is an at-will-employee. In my opinion, Carmy has completely failed as a leader, on all fronts. He has never exhibited leadership skills, with consistency. And as supportive member of the “family”, real or otherwise, he is nowhere to be found. Carmy has actually created a hostile work environment that is legally actionable and litigious with his mood swings, verbal and physical abuse and erratic behavior.

It is a stone cold fact.

I was rooting so hard for Sydney and staff to walk out the door this season. That’s how bad his behavior is. Sydney deserves better, plain and simple. Everyone working at The Bear does. Another point I want to uplift is that while Christopher Storer created the show, it is his sister, Courtney, “Coco” Storer who is the chef on whom he based much of the plot. Courtney has also moved from Culinary Producer in seasons past of The Bear to Co-Executive Producer and even “Story By” credit on this season of the show.

There is something Courtney said a few years ago on a podcast that has stayed in the back of my mind because I always wondered if it would be used as a plot point for Sydney. She shared a story of a restaurant she worked at in Los Angeles. She was promoted to CDC, loved her team and really enjoyed working there. However, it was not all perfect. She was constantly burnt out and at a physical and emotional deficit due to the stress. She suffered panic attacks. She also shared that she was not officially a partner with a stake in the restaurant, and she felt like she needed to have her own back because at the end of the day, no one else did. Although it was a difficult life decision—-she quit.

Forget Michelin stars. If Carmy cannot create and maintain an environment people want to work in, with him, he will end up completely alone. It also may already be too late.

I understand this season is apparently in two parts, I understand that everything happens for a reason. What I can’t understand is how I am meant to root for a character that has contributed to Sydney having panic attacks, has hit Richie, has yelled at Marcus during what must be the worst time in his life and who was about to lose it on Tina if Sydney hadn’t stepped in, saved her, and saved him from himself. Completely unacceptable behavior.

Carmy needs professional help. I have said this many, many times before and I am going to say it again. Carmy. Needs. Professional. Help. He cannot continue to let his triggers and emotions be his master. He is in a leadership position and people’s jobs are depending on him. He cannot offer any more hollow apologies, he has to back them up with consistent action, or I will continue rooting for the staff to leave or for him to step down.

If he doesn’t make the time, energy, and effort to stop the madness, slow down, take a beat, remember all of the gentle and beautiful mentorship he actually did receive through his rise as a chef, lead with his heart, build trust and repair his relationships, especially with Sydney, with Richie, with his sister and her new baby, he will lose it all, because he will have lost the one thing that truly matters, the people he is supposed to care about and the people who care about him.

Does he have it in him to turn this all around? At this point I am not sure. And if he doesn’t, I believe what “grows together”, and they really did, all grow—-will in fact, go together.

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