#makes me wildly uncomfortable

[the-jackals]

makes me wildly uncomfortable to see actual adults ask other adults, on television and/or media that will inevitably be seen my millions of people, things that should not be said in polite conversation.

like i get that pedro pascal is beautiful and amazing and very skilled, but "pop a slutty knee out" and "slutty little waist" and "daddy" are all thing that we talk about between each other because it won't reach whoever's ears it's about. And if someone does find what we say, it's put down to silly fandom banter and that's perfectly fine with me.

But like. Objectifying a whole ass man on public [television] and using the word slutty without a thought just. Idk maybe it's the SA/gen abuse survivor in me that's triggered by it but i don't. I don't think that should happen?

Like bless Pedro Pascal for putting up with it all the damn time, but what happens when an interviewer pulls that shit on someone who's been harmed by the language and can't or won't put up with it?

dgmw like i'm very happy that popular media is getting progressive with its use of language and acknowledging and praising of people who aren't white cis hetero christian men

but also very concerned about how close some people are to making objectifying people okay

[marzipanandminutiae]

me, for years into my adulthood: caling myself a woman just feels so weird! I'm so used to saying "girl!"

2023: girl math!!! girl dinner!!! hey girlypop!! what are all the girlies doing? what's the girl version of the Roman Empire? explaining the fall of Prussia But For Girls!!!!

me: I am getting "woman" tattooed on my forehead brb

(t*rfs fuck off)

[satancopilotsmytardis]

Shigaraki feels like the person who whilst pinning, would make him and Dabi on the Sims4, and have them kiss.

Spinner is watching him do this which a look of complete disbelief.

Huh, that's an interesting interpretation, but not one that I would apply to my headcanons or characterization of him! If you enjoy the idea tho, have fun with it!

[priestofporcelain]

𝜗♰𝜚 His glass eyes glisten in the candlelight and I am filled with envy... Will I ever look at such a small flame with so much wonder? Will I ever be able to warm my little hands on one?

[spandexual]

Genshiro! I'm enjoying the morphing of genshiro in my mind from genba being like "hey i'm here for the threesome your husband invited me over for" to "hey the way he treats you kind of sucks, would you like an aquarium date and a shag to help you feel better" when taiya is preoccupied with sakito. Reminds me of the exaid crushes evolution

LOLLLLL yeah there's shades of that in there. I'm waiting with bated breath for The Reveal next week... we still know virtually nothing about WHY Taiya knows Genba or Ishiro, hopefully it's addressed sooner rather than later bc it's kind of a crazy thing to leave until the 30s lol.

But yeah I deffo see Genba being just a leeeetle judgemental of Taiya re: his treatment of ~Chasshiro~ and that evolving into something more. He clearly likes Jou or at least finds him and his smooth brain amusing, but it seems more playful with him, he seems softer with Ishiro in the admittedly few scenes they've had together. As for Ishiro omg just get a new boyfriend this one SUUUUUCKS and if it's the suspicious orange who's probably from space then well how is that any less alien than a zillionaire who's like 20. I know they said Taiya's supposed to be older than that bc Jou's supposed to be the youngest at 20 and then it's Mira > Ishiro (surprising to me, I would have thought he was supposed to be older given his job) > Taiya > Genba >Sakito but Taiya is the most Only Just Left His Teens And Now Thinks He's Grown character ever

[mii-chan-x]

yeah so i certainly had an experience on toontown today

[moeblob]

She's the right hand woman of a crime boss and then the little guy is the agent trying to take down the organization and she's like "oh my what a good little boy!" and watches him practically wag his tail and is like ....... wild.

So then she later is talking to her boss and gets a call the agent is back and she's like OH LOVELY. And tells their henchmen not to engage with the agent AT ALL she wants to deal with him and then winks to her boss and says he needs to get lost. So then she hurries to the agent and is like "IT'S THE CUTIE!" and he again flinches and blushes and is like "m-m-ma'am! hello!" and once again she just. Is like ..... wild.

[bluejaybytes]

I’m curious why you found Inside Out 2 insulting? I recognize that everyone is different, but as someone with an anxiety disorder I personally found it pretty relatable

Throughout my teenage years, when my anxiety was at its most debilitating and my coping skills were basically nonexistent, I was repeatedly met with the idea that "every teen is a bit anxious". This, to an extent, is true, being a teenager IS scary and you're probably going to have some level of anxiety. However, I had an active anxiety disorder. I was prone to frequent panic attacks, skipping school because I couldn't even fathom the idea of going to class out of just sheer intense dread and fear, and all around just having an extremely bad time. I went into the movie with an already decently negative expectation because of that, I didn't like how anxiety was shown to show up ONLY when Riley became a teenager, BUT I was willing to set aside my own distaste of it for the sake of like, I do get why they went the direction of adding new emotions as characters, as much as I disagree with that.

However I found it wildly insulting because I feel the level of intense anxiety Riley is shown to have breaches what I'd consider a "normal" level of anxiety and instead feels more like an anxiety disorder, which, again, it angers me to be once again met with the idea that you only get anxious once you're a teenager, or when signs of much higher levels of anxiety than just normal nervousness are brushed aside with that excuse.

Barring that issue, though that is the biggest in my opinion, basically at every corner I was annoyed by something. This movie felt like it could've been incredibly relatable to me, I was a horrendously anxious teen (Still am anxious just not a teen and also I'm better at coping now) in competitive highschool sports (Yes marching band IS a sport I DO die on this hill), but like... it just continually let me down. The coach is genuinely an asshole, doing things like not showing what the expectations are and then proceeding to single out who she knows are the newcomers as breaking rules that had not been properly established, failing to recognize Riley clearly struggling mentally, and honestly, the biggest sin, fucking letting her in the sport at all. Riley's outburst at the other players should've gotten her taken out of the running entirely, I refuse to believe otherwise.

Which, this is kind of all over the place because I'm not really writing this as a full proper breakdown and more just "Jay angrily rambles to an anon with no direction", but hey, SUPER don't like that Riley's over-practicing isn't really called out at all as being harmful. The ROOT of it is, we know she's only doing that because anxiety is driving her to do that, but like... she performs really well. She's met by the older student (I forget her name, God) with positivity for this, and I'm personally just kind of uncomfortable with how her overworking herself is viewed as just like... neutral. And it's only the fact it's stemming from anxiety that's bad.

There's a lot more (I found the pacing bad, I think, ESPECIALLY given that this is a childrens movie, Riley should've been given EXPLICIT help from the people around her barring just "her friends say they're still friends", I think things like anxiety driving her to look at the notebook yet NOT considering the janitor walking by is just... stupid, and in my experience, not at all how anxiety manifests, ect, ect), but ultimately this is not like, a serious breakdown, more just me listing off the top of my head the things that really fucking annoyed me. Also, Ennui was a stupid character. I mean all of the new emotions were fucking stupid because they're all VERY derivative of OTHER emotions if you've made the commitment that the entire range of human emotion be boiled down to just joy/sadness/anger/fear/disgust, but whatever.

I thought the video game guy was funny though. I'm a sucker for those kinds of jokes. I like that his hair routinely was clipping through his outfit

[twig-the-edgelord]

I am always 30 seconds away from just blocking half of tumblr

[twentyfivemiceinatrenchcoat]

thinking sashisuri thoughts ………

[nick-close]

Sometimes I think about the jschlatt fan who stopped supporting dndads because the cast was ‘problematic’. I wonder what they’re doing right now.

[hiroshotreplica]

I know that my "am i bi or not" post is basically apart of the tumblr ecosystem now as its own entity. But is it really so hard to avoid putting sexual comments on a minor's post

[goblinbugthing]

subnautica is such a fucking great game im so mad that it scares me too much to play it

[fallenandproud]

fun fact, the breaking point that led me to finally cave and make this sideblog was watching youtube shorts and the algorithm decied to throw a TON of hazbin hotel / helluva boss stuff at me and one came up with Lucifer Charlie's dad just as like. one of those edits and THEN i scroll and THE NEXT ONE IS SOMEONE DRAWING THE FALL FROM HEAVEN and i decided right then and there that on top of my demon fixation coping mechanism i now am going to project heavily onto LUCIFER HIMSELF.

[freckle-lee]

I’m sorry people are not treating you like a human being. I hate that people can hide behind anonymity or see someone posting about kinks and fetishes and start to think oh this person is just an object for my entertainment

honestly you would actually think i was some kind of AI porn bot the way some people message me! i am too soft for this lmao!

[valeechtine]

Its such a toil to get through some of these post EW quests when you actively dislike Garlemald, plesse god I just want to be in DT already