#lovers in a dangerous time

[gnossienne]

Elevation (1998), dir. Stephen Cummins

[1000-silverfish-in-a-hoodie]

The BNL cover of Lovers in a Dangerous time is infinitely gayer than the original because of the year it was released

[senorboombastic]

Track By Track: Girlfriends and Boyfriends - Lost in the Noise

Words: Andy Hughes (Photo Credit: Alex Carre) My partner recently bought a DAB radio and I’d love to say it’s BBC Radio 6 Music day and night, but it’s mostly been Absolute 80s since we plugged it in and I’ve been loving it. Though I only just about made it into the 80s (born at the tail end), there’s something about the musical output of the decade that I can’t get enough of. Enter Girlfriends…

[zonetrente-trois]

Lovers In a Dangerous Time [Live & Acoustic] - Justine Giles Ft. Sarah Houston

[rebeccaotool]

“Nothing worth havin’ comes without some kinda fight,

Gotta kick at the darkness ‘til it bleeds daylight.” 

[correct-hermitcraft-quotes]

Tango: We're lovers. That's all you need to know.

Impulse: Platonic. This is a platonic relationship.

Skizz: Not to me!

[justaz]

arthur becoming king and showering merlin in gifts to the point where it looks like hes a nobleman. camelot going yup thats the kings consort, i think we’re two months away from a royal wedding. visiting nobles/royals who have no idea about “merlin and arthur” treating merlin like a nobleman until he corrects them. visiting nobles/royals who DO know about “merlin and arthur” not being surprised in the slightest. merlin getting away with everything and blatantly stealing from the kings plate during a feast and they’re all just like “yeah alright” idk just merlin being spoiled by his bf who isn’t his bf but who desperately wants to be

[mel-kusanagi]

just one lil smooch

[pharawee]

Why are you running away?

[apuff]

my chemical tober :D

[selfishpresley]

Listening to Lana Del Rey’s Honeymoon album and licking these photos…

This is Ultraviolence coded.

I neeeeed to be his young girlfriend with daddy issues!!

[mejomonster]

I am begging you, if your partner insults you, curses at you, screams at you, starts many conversations by accusing you of something (and if you two talk about this situation - you continue having arguments instead of just solving problems together), you feel in danger when near your partner, you feel safer when away from your partner, or your partner hits you, please please consider leaving them.

Just consider leaving the space they're in, and going to a friend's house or a family member's and staying for a day. Do you feel safer? Calmer?

You do not have to be friends with a person who disrespects or harasses you. You do not have to be friends with someone who hits you, who tells you you're stupid/ugly/annoying whatever, who screams at you when you spill food or forget to do the dishes instead of just asking "hey could you please clean this?", who doesn't accept a "no" from you such as "No I do not want to be touched right now." Please tell me you'd be kind enough to yourself to stop seeing a friend who hit you or told you you're worthless or screamed at you for not reading their mind (no one can read minds).

So if a partner does those things, you're allowed to stop seeing them too. You are allowed to love someone, to care about their wellbeing and want good things for them, and also REMOVE YOURSELF from their space and life. You're allowed to think "wow I love this guy, I am sad he's depressed, I hope he feels better" and also think "but he keeps calling me ugly and stupid, and every time I see him he insults me and screams and I get scared, I should stop visiting him and stop answering his calls and texts so I am no longer in situations where I could be insulted and screamed at." You are allowed to love someone, and ALSO protect yourself from them! You deserve to be safe! You deserve to protect yourself first, care about your own wellbeing first, care about if YOU are safe and content, even if it means upsetting someone else. Even if someone else would rather you were hurting, if it meant you kept seeing them.

You deserve to be respected. You deserve to be spoken to kindly, to feel you are safe from physical harm, to be talked to as a person with value. From strangers, friends, and lovers. If people are hurting you, if you feel worse being around them, you are ALLOWED to leave and put yourself in a place where you are no longer being hurt. You deserve to prioritize your own well being.

[shortstrawberry]

Alright Donna stans, gather around. It's big brain time.

Did ya all notice how out of all the LIs, Miranda was most scared of Donna? Miranda went out of her way to try take us away from her. Miranda also said that Donna is dangerous.

Just what exactly has our local florist done to get Miranda of all people batshit scared?

[dangerouscommiesubversive]

There should be a word for the particularly strange feeling of self-knowledge you get when you recognize a theme or motif in your own work and know, in that moment of recognition, exactly how it got there.

[throwawayasoiafaccount]

god tywin lannister deserved worse

just remembering elias death and i wanna puke and the way tywin talks about elia and what happened is so damn gross

but rip tommen and myrcella we all know what’s about to happen in the next book :/

the cycle of violence just keeps spinning and damn you tywin for beginning it

(i got a bit crazy in the tags 💀)