#lovekay

[lovekayllc]

LOVE KAY Heavyweight Youth Sweatpants. AVAILABLE NOW! #lovekay #youthfashion #clothingbrand #design #fashion #youthapparel #foryou #embroidery #urbanoutfits #fyp #explore #explorepage #trending (at San Diego, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CoaZ2VCvJKH/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rosiehrs]

hi can i he added to the taglist for fanwars?

NO😡😡😡😡 (yes ofc b)

[arymorefantasy]

Finished!!

Oh my god, I love Marissa Meyer, she is just AMAZING.

PD: Kai is my new boyfriend!! :)

[lovekaiii]

"You are worthy"

The inability to receive support from others is a trauma response.

Your “I don’t need anyone, I’ll just do it all myself” conditioning is a survival tactic. And you needed it to shield your heart from abuse, neglect, betrayal, and disappointment from those who could not or would not be there for you.

From the parent who was absent and abandoned you by choice or the parent who was never home from working three jobs to feed and house you.

From the lovers who offered sexual intimacy but never offered a safe haven that honored your heart.

From the friendships and family who ALWAYS took more than they ever gave.

From all the situations when someone told you “we’re in this together” or “I got you” then abandoned you, leaving you to pick up the pieces when shit got real, leaving you to handle your part and their part, too.

From all the lies and all the betrayals.

You learned along the way that you just couldn’t really trust people. Or that you could trust people, but only up to a certain point.

Extreme-independence IS. A. TRUST. ISSUE.

You learnt: if I don’t put myself in a situation where I rely on someone, I won’t have to be disappointed when they don’t show up for me, or when they drop the ball... because they will ALWAYS drop the ball EVENTUALLY right?

You may even have been intentionally taught this protection strategy by generations of hurt ancestors who came before you.

Extreme-independence is a preemptive strike against heartbreak.

So, you don’t trust anyone.

And you don’t trust yourself, either, to choose people.

To trust is to hope, to trust is to be vulnerable.

“Never again,” you vow.

But no matter how you dress it up and display it proudly to make it seem like this level of independence is what you always wanted to be, in truth it’s your wounded, scarred, broken heart behind a protective brick wall.

Impenetrable. Nothing gets in. No hurt gets in. But no love gets in either.

Fortresses and armor are for those in battle, or who believe the battle is coming.

It’s a trauma response.

The good news is trauma that is acknowledged is trauma that can be healed.

You are worthy of having support.

You are worthy of having true partnership.

You are worthy of love.

You are worthy of having your heart held.

You are worthy to be adored.

You are worthy to be cherished.

You are worthy to have someone say, “You rest. I got this.” And actually deliver on that promise.

You are worthy to receive.

You are worthy to receive.

You are worthy.

You don’t have to earn it.

You don’t have to prove it.

You don’t have to bargain for it.

You don’t have to beg for it.

You are worthy.

Worthy.

Simply because you exist.

-Jamila White, @inspiredjamila

[kimi-zzz]

The bros didn't like me but they like the new bed!!😝 貓兄貓弟怕了我不打緊！愛我的貓兜就行了💋✨ #loveisallaround #loveKay #cat #cats #bro #catBed #chunky #chunkyBed #vegan #veganYarn #heartcoreveganyarn #veganlifestyle #superChunky #cozy #hkig #instagram #instashop #instagood #instahk #hkiger #hkinstagram

[komidikata]

aku resah lalui hari tanpamu

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[lovekay-design]

[kadesmode]

Have you ever taken a cab ride back into yourself? #lovekay (Taken with Instagram)

[lovekayllc]

“Ideas” & “Flowers” Youth Hoodies. From our Vintage Collection. Releasing 02/24 #lovekay #youthfashion #clothingbrand #design #fashion #youthapparel #foryou #embroidery #urbanoutfits #fyp #explore #explorepage #trending (at San Diego, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CoaWOLKvU39/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[lovekayllc]

“Ideas” Hoodie. For Adults & Youth. From our Vintage Collection. Releasing 02/24 #lovekay #youthfashion #clothingbrand #design #fashion #youthapparel #foryou #embroidery #urbanoutfits #fyp #explore #explorepage #trending (at San Diego, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CoX-tKDS6ex/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[lovekayllc]

“Outer Growth” by Finnigen Rynehart.

LOVE KAY X FINNIGEN RYNEHART

Available tomorrow!!!

[lovekayllc]

GIVEAWAY ALERT! Entry will be available 02/10/23 - 02/27/23 There will be 5 winners randomly selected. 1st: LOVE KAY Duffle Bag 2nd: LOVE KAY Backpack 3rd: LOVE KAY Beanie 4th: LOVE KAY Drawstring Bag 5th: LOVE KAY Tote Bag Requirements: 1. Must be Following. 2. Like this Post. 3. Share & @ me on your story. EXTRA SLOT: Comment and @ a friend who isn’t following. Winner will be announced: 02/28 Winner will be Direct Messaged. Products will be shipped Free. #lovekay #youthfashion #clothingbrand #design #fashion #youthapparel #foryou #embroidery #urbanoutfits #fyp #explore #explorepage #trending (at San Diego, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CofozKOyPEP/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[lovekayllc]

Flowers Hoodie in Light Pink available now!

[lovekayllc]

Introducing our very first collaborative project with @finnigenrynehart releasing in APRIL. Stay tuned for announcements!! Please go follow & support my brother @finnigenrynehart Some of the most stunning & intricate paintings I’ve ever seen. #lovekay #supportyourlocalartist #clothingbrand #design #fashion #foryou #painter #urbanoutfits #fyp #artist #explorepage #trending #canvaspainting #custom #collaboration (at San Diego, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp5rZ7Lv_Mh/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[lovekayllc]

Treat the world with LOVE, & it will give you flowers. - KAY #lovekay #youthfashion #clothingbrand #design #fashion #youthapparel #foryou #embroidery #urbanoutfits #fyp #explore #explorepage #trending (at San Diego, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CpvVZRqJf8E/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[lovekayllc]

“The Highest Human Act is to Inspire.“ - Airmiess Joseph Asghedom Thank you to everyone & all the artists at @artandbeersd for showing Kaylia that Art takes time, practice & a lot of patience. She was really moved by everyone & their work. #lovekay #youthfashion #clothingbrand #design #fashion #youthapparel #foryou #embroidery #urbanoutfits #fyp #explore #explorepage #trending (at San Diego, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CprRXnrOR1T/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=