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"I walked along with the lingering thought that I knew nothing about the history of my late father and the lineage of my black ancestors; my ancestral memory felt akin to the iridescent surface of a bubble, like a feeling of loss upon awakening from a dream impossible for me to recall.
This series feels like the abstract idea that I have of myself, the acceptance that forgetting is also a starting point and a fleeting, necessary memory. Sama Guent Guii, in which my memory is a dream.
We are never the same when we wake up.
I have to think about this more...I see in me, deep within me, the traces of my ancestors. I am the past that resurfaces. A past that cannot be destroyed, nor diminished. I am the sedimentary rock of this fossilized past, the trace of living organisms...abstract in sensation...in reverie...
Where am I from? Who am I?
I am the past which reappears
I am what is transformed by their memories and my memories
I am these black bodies that I do not recognize
I am this blur
I am made of memory and oblivion
I am this monument of nature, this being that is continually being reborn
This other, who sees themselves as the other."
--Mame-Diarra Niang
#mame-diarra niang#abjection#blackness#on blackness and being#in the wake#ancestors#memory#lose your mother#saidiya hartman#art#photography#blur
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From the Deep: In the Wake of Drexciya with Ayana V. Jackson
"Artist Ayana V. Jackson creates an undersea realm honoring those who jumped or were thrown overboard during the trans-Atlantic slave trade." (Smithsonian Magazine, 8 June 2023)
Where There Is No Origin But Memory I
The Self-Forgetfulness of Belonging Will Never Be Mine I
Consider the Sky and the Sea
Some People Have Spiritual Eyes II (featuring the dress which also appears as "Use the Stars to Fix a Celestial Navigation Point," with materials including Ghanaian currency, paste, cotton, raffia reed fans)
When the Spirit of Kalunda Comes So Does Kianda
Some People Have Spiritual Eyes I
Reliquary: The Sea Has Nothing to Offer but a Well-Executed Grave
It is Only When You Lose Your Mother That She Becomes Myth
I Summon the Voice from the Deep I
[images from the official exhibition website]
Also -- for those interested, many of these garments and models appear in video-works in collaboration with other artists! Very cool.
#From the Deep#Ayana V. Jackson#art#african art#in the wake#transatlanticism#Lose your mother#Black studies#costumes#mixed media#multimedia#dresses#costume#gold coast#africa#National Museum of African Art#fantasy#critical fabulation#underwater utopia#african american#fashion#photography#critique#installation#museum#aquatopia#underwater#movement#dance
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"Where do you see the new book fit into the trajectory of your life’s work? I think I remain obsessed with the same themes. Each time, I think I am writing a different book, but I am wrestling with the same core set of issues. Wayward Lives is a different kind of formal experiment than Lose Your Mother, but it too is concerned with the form adequate to conveying the story of these unknown and anonymous radicals. Like Scenes of Subjection, it too considers the ways that forums of violence and dispossession yield other kinds of social formations, and the other set of possibilities that might and do reside in these formations, when we’re not all trying to be a subject, or a Mrs. I think that there’s a critical continuity in terms of the issues that concern me, and I think an ongoing set of formal questions."
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Every time I watch Dune I forget about it but I'm foaming at the mouth over how Paul has a vision of himself as a powerful, respected, divine figure with millions worshipping him and he just says "Somebody help me"
#AND NO ONE!!!!!!!! DOES!!!!!!!!#HE LIES DOWN IN THE GRAVE OF HIS OWN LEGEND AND HIS OWN FRIENDS AND WORSHIPPERS ADD DIRT TO HIS PIT#HIS OWN MOTHER SINGS HIS PRAISES AND BUILDS HIS PEDESTAL WHILE HE LOSES PARTS OF HIMSELF#EVEN CHANI CAN ONLY WATCH#eternally fucked up how Jessicas response to his “thousands worshipping at the shrine of my fathers skull” is essentially just#“yes you are my son! you are Duke Paul Atreides! this is your birthright#“i am so proud of you!” NO YOU EUGENIST FREAK YOUR SON IS FUCKING DOOMED#dune#dune 2021#paul atreides#dune part 1
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the modern villainisation of demeter will never cease to enrage me bc it wasn’t ENOUGH to just take a story of a girl being torn from her home from everyone who loved her and dragged away to be forced into marriage and twist and corrupt it until it was a romance story about female empowerment that wasn’t ENOUGH they HAD to take the original hero of the story the mother who went to every length to find her daughter again to bring her home and demonise her character until she was this horrific overbearing unloving mother. overprotective controlling without love. they turn the story of her grief at her YOUNG daughter being torn from her without her knowledge into the story of a misunderstood bad boy and a horrible cruel mother who won’t give him a chance and i really find it sickening. it’s ironic, that the ever misogynist age of hellenistic greece, has a better grasp of how disgusting and horrifying this situation was that a modern, self proclaimed ‘feminist�� era.
#ovids version made me cry#imagine you’re just a nymph watching your friend torn away from you by the literal king of the dead#and despite knowing how powerless you are against him you still choose to stand up to him#to stand up for your friend#imagine being so torn apart by the grief of losing her you weep yourself to death#imagine turning that story into a good girl/bad boy romance#weird#anyway#the story of persephone is personal to me#bc i wish my mother loved me like that#demeter was a good mother#you all suck for portraying her as anything less#idc if you disagree#‘oh myth is open to interpretation and reinterpretation’#okay. well i don’t care.#there’s such thing as bad interpretations#making demeter the villain is a bad one#making hades a misunderstood protagonist is also a bad one
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Fed love from silver spoons, reasons to be grateful… 🥄ᯓ★
#your origin#theo wood#fiona frost#so. im losing my mind cuz these lyrics hits too close to home man.#THIS 🗣️ IS 🗣️ THEIR 🗣️ SONG 🗣️ YA 🗣️ HEAR🗣️#heavy on the mother & their differences part RJWGAGA#fav song after famine lane tho.#silver spoon freaking nepobaby gal facing a guy who has a famous father but neglected and yet.#these two individuals be having the most insane character conflict I ever made ‘cause if you see#theo freakin envy fiona-still a future event this post-but ITS FUCKING CRAZY#BUT THIS IS LIKE THE FIRST TIME THEO ACTUALLY DOES NOT KNOW WHAT TO FEEL#uugh.#ts4#sims 4#simblr#my sims#ts4 edit#sims 4 edit#maybe this considers a pre-valentine post no? kinda edgy whats wrong w me
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Vulcan's hottest punk band is Kolinahrsty, with their hit single "I Purged All Of My Emotions To Piss Off My Dad"
#star trek#star trek tos#vulcan#vulcans#kolinahr#kollinahrsty#vulcan punk#cousin to uptown funk#I did write a vulcan funk parody once#anyway spock is the frontman probably#we were talking in the discord about a book where sybok's mother left sarek to achieve kolinahr#and so what better way to bug your dad than to also leave for kolinahr#meaning sarek loses the battle of who has better emotional control sitting there with his human wife#kolinahr can be petty too#spock#sarek#sybok#amanda grayson
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The Marriage of Aegon III and Jaehaera Targaryen.
They are so Henry VII Elizabeth of York coded...
#imagine you lose your entire family you're forced to marry the daughter of the man who killed your mother#(but she's still family)#your mother was eaten by a dragon and your new wife has a dragon herself#you marry a boy. you don't know him. he has your father's name. his mother put a bounty on your baby brothers head#(but he's still family there is no one else)#Aegon/Jaehaera dynamic would have ate and DEVOURED#literally one of the most tragic Targaryen failmarriages of all time!!!#'you don't want Aegon to be happy!!!' no he's a fictional character I want to be entertained !!!#tell me honestly there's not more meat to this story if Jaehaera lived. aren't things more complex.#jaehaera would be so isolated Aegon at least has Viserys and his sisters who does she have. Gaemon Palehair? maybe#asoiaf#hotd#aegon iii x jaehaera#aegon iii targaryen#jaehaera targaryen#house targaryen#dance of dragons#jaehaegon
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#mcfucking losing it#luke hughes#jack hughes#jack fascinates me#you are your father#you are your mother#you are a middle child and yet ??#im not even saying anything but my mind is hamster wheeling
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and when i eventually deactivate 🤭
#THE URGES ARE THEREEEEEEEEEEE </333#beloved twoomfs (twt oomfs) see me everyday on there just Asking if i should#the world’s strongest soldiers in fact…………#BUT LIKE I KINDA WANNA. but also i don’t want to lose my moots#idgaf abt my writing to be honest i do not like it#i’m getting my ass whooped by other nature rn so i can say whatever i want#*mother nature .#curse you autocorrect you pray on my downfall CONSTANTLY#but yeah omg :3 i might i might not#i shouldn’t be hasty but……….. that delete button is looking REAL delectable 🤭#but like also . i GENUINELY do not think it’ll make a difference on anyone’s timeline SO IT’S A WIN EITHER WAY TBF………#will most likely delete this tomorrow bc i’m a different person at midnight and in the morning#anyways it’s 1 am i enjoy posting when dash is dead and i am HOPPED up on soda so . perhaps i will write and then go to bed :>#CRAMPS . begone#i will say honk shoo mimimi in advance . honk shoo mimimi <3#IF YOU SEE THIS AND THEN NOT SEE IT IN THE MORNING MIND YOUR BUSINESS . a lot can change in 7 hours#personal
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RidoAce Week 2024 - Masquerade | Puppets
"Sie hielten mich an Drähten fest, als Puppe, die man tanzen lässt. Doch ich werd' keine Marionette sein!" (Elizabeth the Musical)
(Rough translation: „they kept me bound on strings as a puppet that was made to dance but I will not be a marionette“)
#ridoaceweek24#twisted wonderland#twst#shia tart#riddle rosehearts#ace trappola#acerido#acerid#ridoace#chat is it gay to lose your body autonomy together…..#im ngl i feel so mixed abt this one lol#other ideas included ace handing riddle scissors to free himself of his mothers strings!!
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The exact moment that Plas and Woozy meet.
Context really doesn't change much here. You'd think it would. But it really doesn't.
#and that kids is how i met your mother#woozy put that down#it's dangerous#someone could lose an arm#the original jack cole run is so important to me#the only plas for me tbh
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silent skies
#art#ffxiv#xau#final fantasy xiv#lineart#sketch#endwalker#i consider myself agnostic but through venat and hydaelyn and how i view xau's bond with who she considered her heavenly mother#are the closest i've come to understanding how religion might move people#to lose and kill your god out of necessity might break you yes?#the idea of losing the POSSIBILITY for comfort or to be heard is very bleak if you thought it was there in the first place#i hate video games because they force me to think
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The fact that Chise's deliberate choice to spare the mother werewolf in the shortcut ended up with innocent homeless people dying so that she could access the path again, and to drag Philomela away at Lizbeth's bidding of all things too... Does she even know this happened 😬
Like... Chise paid the price for the werewolves' passing as well instead of making them the price for Lucy and Seth to pass. She even paid it in sheep, absolutely refusing to give the guards human meat. But humans were sacrificed in the end anyway, first by that same werewolf as the price, and then by Chise who, in pursuing Philomela, caused a bloodbath at the very mansion the werewolf brought her to.
#mahou tsukai no yome#mahoutsukai no yome#mny#mahoyome#the ancient magus bride#tamb#hatori chise#mother werewolf#something about slowly losing your humanity#something about the inevitable#meta
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RA MIRAN’S ACTING 😭‼️‼️‼️ WHAT THE HELLLLLLLL
Jeongnyeon: The Star is Born E11
#she’s not mothering plenty of beautifully written kdramas for nothing😭‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️#the pain the anguish the raw emotions of being at the precipice of losing your head over your own actions mYGODDDDDD#thats MOTHER!!#jeongnyeon#jeongnyeon the star is born#jeongnyeon: the star is born#jeong nyeon#jeong nyeon the star is born#jeong nyeon: the star is born#ra miran#ra mi ran#kang so bok#kang sobok
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realizing so much of jinx's s2 storyline is being forced to speedrun a mile in vi's shoes. cackling
#cosmically mandated karmic get along t shirt#but like. accidentally ends up having to older sister-mother a child -> seen as some sort of hope for revolution#(which we don't get a tonnn of on screen with vi but there is#absolutely something notable in how everyone seems to Know Her and who she is at 15)#-> loses what she was protecting -> gets jailed#like. lmaooo. the universe is saying you WILL understand your poor sister's point of view so help me god#i was obvs aware that ishas's presence is a way of making jinx empathize with vi but i hadn't really thought about the rest of it#arcane#jinx
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