#long distance relationship problems

[she-said-hello]

if you get to physically be with your significant other and touch them and kiss them and love them in person, please don't take it for granted. there is nothing i want more than to hold her.

[homoqueerjewhobbit]

Me when I haven't seen my partner in a while: Sure, sex is good, but have you ever dipped a double stuff oreo in nutella?

Me when we're together: Sex sure is good.

[truelovez2]

Long Distance Relationship Quotes

Long distance relationship is one of the most difficult to sustain. As such you require some inspirational and cute long distance relationship quotes to keep you both going. Long distance relationship is very demanding and requires constant nurturing. It is very difficult to keep the romance alive when the distance between you is not two blocks but thousand miles. As such the love birds can find solace in love quotes for long distance relationship.

Also when your partner is finding it difficult to cope up with the distance between you both or one of you are feeling low. Then you can lift your lover’s morale by texting him/her an inspiring and cute long distance relationship quote. These love quotes for long distance relationship are the best way to assure your mate that it is feasible to have a happy ending despite the distance between you both.

Other factors which couples have to cope with in long distance relationship are the loneliness and dying romance. In such a situation only some motivating and emotive long distance relationship quotes can lift your spirits. You can post a sweet love quote for long distance relationship on your lovely better half’s timeline or send a cute message on the chat. So that the next time your mate logs in, the first thing he/she will come across is a heartfelt message from you. This will surely bring that childish smile on his/her face.

The next segment is a collection of touching and cute long distance relationship quotes. These love quotes reciprocate the feelings of the couples who are dealing with the blues of the long distance relationships.

Love Quotes for Long Distance Relationship

I relive every second I have had with you. It’s all I have to hang on to until the next time I see you.

Missing someone gets easier every day because even though you are one day further from the last time you saw them, you are one day closer to the next time you will.

Why can’t you just teleport yourself here?!

Sometimes, people who are thousands of miles away can make you feel better than people right beside you.

Separation is not the end of love; it creates love.

Tonight, I resign myself to missing you. For I know I have the rest of my life to wake up next to you!

Absence is to love as wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small and kindles the great.

Distance is not a big factor in a relationship but communication is. And commitment is the biggest of all.

I will see you when I fall asleep.

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

The distance between us may limit us from seeing each other but the love that we share will pull us through.

Whenever I start feeling sad because I miss you, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss.

I think we dream so we don’t have to be apart for so long. If we are in each other’s dreams, we can be together all the time.

I do not know why life separates the closest hearts by putting miles between them.

Distance means so little when someone means so much.

We are the perfect couple; we’re just not in the perfect situation.

True love does not worry about the distance between, for the heart and soul travels through one’s words.

In true love the smallest distance is too great, and the greatest distance can be bridged.

I hate the stars because I look at the same ones as you do, without you.

Love is missing someone whenever you are apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you are close in heart.

Distance is only a number, feelings can’t be measured, and time doesn’t exist when you have someone you can’t get off your mind.

Love knows no reason, no boundaries, no distance. It has a sole intention of bringing people together to a time called forever.

Being away from you is the most painful thing ever. But it’s worth it because of the day that you will hold me in your arms, and never let go.

Forget all the reasons why it will not work and believe the one reason why it will.

It is going to get harder before it gets easier. But it will get better; you just got to make it through the hard stuff first.

When you feel like quitting, think about why you started.

I stupidly smile at my phone when I see your name on the screen.

It turns out that not where, but who you are with, that really matters.

[pxl8ed]

I got to spend a whole week with my girlfriend and now that it’s over… I wish I could’ve stayed longer… my heart hurts having to leave her like that. I didn’t want to leave. I wanted to stay and be by her side. Sure, we can still face time and call and stuff, but I miss being able to touch her. I miss how soft her lips are on mine. I miss sitting next to her and holding her hand. I miss falling asleep next to her. I miss the feeling of resting my head on her chest and listening to her heartbeat as i fall asleep.

I hate that we are so far apart. I know it wasn’t a “goodbye” and more of a “see you later” but the later isn’t soon enough.

I know realistically that the next time will also (unfortunately) be a temporary visit as well, but I wish it wasn’t. I don’t want to go another day without you in my arms.

[gothic--vampyre]

Me, as I try to focus on writing while my bf is looking very delicious scrumtious yum yum on call, so so far away from me:

[everdrawing]

It's 100/10 experience being transgender together with your best friend.

[vampireink]

And if I must go one more second without the sweet warmth of your presence, I may disintegrate. Oh how I wish I was able to crawl into your skin and be one with you forever and always.

[Kas]

[yjichan]

[long-distance-love]

I hope you'll get to hold your long distance lovers close very soon. 💕

[bikeboyblues]

love him so much wanna blow raspberries on his tummy and hear him laugh and try to push me away

[queenofthursday6599-blog]

Mmmm Jinx AU where after being taken in by Silco, thinking she's been abandoned by Vi leads to her not latching on to Silco as the most important thing in her life who she must be loyal to above all else, but full on swinging into the direct opposite direction and becoming like Sevika.

[This AU is in part inspired by the idea of Jinx becoming more idealogically like Sevika, but also from OG Jinx's personality.

OG Jinx is a character who's primary drive is her own personal enjoyment and happiness. Which comes from building weapons, causing explosions of all kinds, and pranking Piltoveans.

Jinx doesn't go out looking to kill people, she goes out to to have a good time, and if people happen to die while she's having her good time, then that doesn't really concern her.

Like there's this one quote about OG Jinx that basically boils down to: "If Jinx found a box of firecrackers that had a person sitting on top of it. She'd light the fireworks without even thinking about the person on the box because she was so focused on her excitement about fireworks, that she didn't even notice the person."

OG Jinx has prioritized her own personal enjoyment over everything else, that people potentially dying as a result of whatever she's doing is so completely irrelevant, to the point of her being effectively unable to perceive the potential collateral damage.

It's not even that OG Jinx wants to kill people, or enjoys killing people, it's just that people dying while she's doing what she loves isn't even a linked phenomenon in her brain. Because people (who die) are going to die eventually with or without her actions, so why shouldn't she enjoy herself even if people happen to die while she's doing so.

Jinx's loyalty to Zaun is prioritized in the same way in this AU. People are going to die with or without the revolution happening, so they might as well have the revolution.]

Loyal to the dream of Zaun over any individual leader.

I mean, she still comes to love Silco as a father figure, and he still comes to love her as a daughter, but also much like with Sevika, they're both fully aware that if Jinx ever comes to the conclusion he isn't the person who's the best bet for securing Zaunite independence, she'll abandon his gang and possibly go elsewhere.

Or even more so, if she comes to the conclusion that he's worse for Zaun than he is good, possibly kill him herself.

Which I feel like wouldn't stop him from loving her more than anything else.

I think he'd just consider it another aspect of her that makes her the ideal Zaunite. The ability to put The Cause even before her personal feelings and attachments, something he's still not able to do.

Basically this Jinx thinks of her loyalty to Zaun and her personal love for individuals in her life as entirely disconnected to each other, with Loyalty to Zaun being her default.

Which adds a number of complications to her relationships. Specifically her being totally unafraid to fight to the death against her loved ones without an ounce of remorse, and then thinking of it as a complete non-issue in the aftermath if they both survive.

Like she fully still considers Ekko her friend by the time Vi gets out of jail in this AU. Full on "We try to kill each other on alternating Thursdays, but that's no reason to stop being friends" feelings.

Which also results in her not feeling an ounce of shame in helping him and the Firelights out when it comes to basically anything they do that isn't in direct opposition to SIlco.

I mean, the Firelights are also working towards bettering Zaun just like she (honestly believes) is, they just have different opinions and methods of how to do so from Silco's gang. While also serving different parts of the community.

[And yes, Ekko and the rest of the Firelights have complicated feelings about Jinx in this AU. None of them know where she stands with them.

She'll help them without expectations one day, and then turn around and kill some of them in a confrontation without an ounce of hesitation the next.

Some of them hate her, some have mixed feelings. Others just think she's completely mentally unstable, and shouldn't be trusted considering she seemingly flips between being ally and enemy with no warning.

Ekko's feelings are especially complicated, as you can imagine.]

None of this is to say Jinx doesn't feel just as deeply about the people she loves, as she does in canon. It's just that trauma has convinced her that unequivocal loyalty to an individual vs an idea is a very easy way to be hurt.

Detached logical decision making as a way to avoid being harmed by making emotional mistakes. Which is what she feels is why she failed so much as Powder.

The belief, that she was so obsessed with gaining approval from individuals in her life, she never had a real personal goal to strive towards that she could measure progress and growth to. Resulting in her always feeling like a failure, even when she was doing good, or at least improving.

She's still deeply hurt by Vi choosing Caitlyn over her (as far as she could tell), the Firelights taking Vi, and her accidental killing of Silco while spiraling in the wake of her Shimmer surgery. She's also extremely frustrated by her freak out on the airship where she shoots Eve (pink haired Firelight).

Because she feels like those are instances where she gave into the impulse to emotional over reaction to specific individuals that caused all of Powder's problems.

She was so focused on Vi, and her desire for Vi's approval, that she couldn't fight the Firelights as effectively as she normally would.

She was so focused on Vi seemingly leaving her to go off with Caitlyn that she couldn't focus on fighting Ekko on the Bridge, resulting in her getting far more injured than she normally would have, and nearly not succeeding in getting the crystal back.

She was so triggered by thinking she was seeing Vi on the airship, that she completely lost it and started shooting indiscriminately and caused the job to go south and injured people on her own side.

She was so caught up in her spiral and hallucinations at the tea party, that she shot Silco based entirely on instinctual protective instinct when hearing the hammer being drawn on a gun on her vulnerable loved one, rather than anything intentional on her part. Which she'd previously had always sworn would be the case should it ever come to her killing Silco.

That if Jinx ever killed another of her loved ones, it would be because she knew with certainty it would result in the betterment of Zaun, not because she made a mistake because she was being an over emotional idiot.

I think the only major change from this Jinx's actions in the Season 1 part of the story would be how she went about stealing the Hexgem, and why she did so.

In canon she does so because she failed a job, and felt like she needed to do something big to prove to Silco that she was capable, in order to gain validation from him that she was. Even though he never tells her he doesn't think she's capable, just that she needs to take some time off because she had an episode.

He said "take a mental health day, even if you don't think you need it," and she responded, "so you think I'm a fuck up?!"

In this story. it's more that Jinx is so focused on what she could potentially do with Hextech to help the revolution and Zaun as a whole. That she was already planning to steal some research notes and crystals to get experimenting with it on her own terms, before the job gone south, and the new advancements in Hextech being whispered about for progress day.

Getting her hands on the newest form of Hextech is just her getting lucky.

This also means she doesn't steal it the same way. She doesn't do anything to kill any Enforcers, but she does cause a distraction with what seems to be a box of fire works going off prematurely on "accident".

With her swooping in to steal the notes and hexgem while everyone's busy with trying to contain the panic the fireworks accident is causing to really pay attention to what she's doing.

Which the Enforcers do react to, but everyone but Caitlyn disregards as an accident. As once it's clear that nothing other than a few decorations got ruined and people getting startled came of the fireworks incident.

They're far more concerned with the stealing of hextech that's happened, and Viktor's testimony of a young woman with long blue hair sneaking out of their lab.

With the fireworks incident being dismissed as an accident that's completely unrelated to the burglary of the Hextech lab. Beyond the burglar potentially using it as a convenient opening.

Caitlyn's not convinced, and it's already happened so close to the airship shootout incident, so she still goes down and ends up freeing Vi from Stillwater with some of Jinx's drawings as evidence, from the airship shootout.

Which does mean that her trajectory in the Season 2 part of the story would be a bit different.

She still goes into a depression after Silco's death. Mostly because she feels that she's broken her most important self imposed rule: not killing because of personal feelings about someone, but for The Cause.

She killed Silco not because she felt killing him would make things better, but because she was scared and spiraling and in that vulnerable emotional state, she defaulted to the same way of thinking that had gotten her loved ones killed the last time.

She protected Vi who she loved, and couldn't defend herself, based on gut instinct. And it resulted in the death of another loved one, and the complete destabilization of Zaun.

Now because Jinx is more focused on Zaun than on her personal relation ships, I don't know if she fires on the Council immediately after Silco's death the way she does in canon. I don't really think she would.

I could see her doing it because she's still in the peak of the Shimmer high, which is heightening all her emotions. Driving her to seek revenge on Piltover in her grief. Even though if she could think more clearly, she wouldn't do it, and would instead wait to gather an actual following and doing an organized and planned strike to be the most effective.

But I could also see SIlco's death snapping her back to reality as she sees it. That she simply takes the gem, her guns, and Silco's body and Disappears, vanishing into the night with neither Vi or Caitlyn knowing of the weapon she's built or what she's going to do next.

Which could have interesting repercussions on the story. Considering Piltover's council would to have agreed to Zaunite independence on the conditions of handing over Jinx.

Except the man they made that deal with is now dead, no one (except Sevika) knows where Jinx is to hand her over, and the Undercity is and of itself divided on handing one of their own over to Piltover (to potentially be executed, because of how dangerous Hextech can be, and a lot of the counsel fully thinking Zaunites are inherently dangerous, not to mention thanks to Caitlyn, Jinx is a known weapons builder, so what else do they think she'll do with access to Hextech other than build weapons) in order to gain independence.

I'm sure the chem barons would have no issue handing JInx over, because then they'd be free to divide up territory and completely take over with no one like Silco holding their leash, or PIltover dictating what is and isn't legal on their side of the river in the first place.

Oh the Firelights would be around to oppose them, but they'd never really were able to gain any ground beyond causing problems for Shimmer production.

But I'm not sure how more ordinary people would react.

I mean, in this AU it's pretty well known that Jinx holds the idea of Zaun above anything else, and was willing to help people who weren't affiliated with any specific group, as long as doing so wouldn't harm the independence movement of Zaun.

She's not really shy about expressing that stance, it's just up to everyone else to believe it or not.

Jinx, who would use her high position in Silco's circle to help ordinary Zaunites. Be it from one of the gangs overstepping and trying to start rackets Silco had forbidden, from unjust arrest from Enforcers, or even pointing them in the direction of the Firelights if she thought that was for the best.

Declaring that so long as the help she gave random people didn't harm or slow the march towards independence, helping her fellow Zaunite was helping Zaun, was part of the fight toward an independent Zaun.

She's the Loose Canon, shooting for Zaun and no one else. Loyal to no kingpen or Chembaron, but to The People of Zaun as a whole.

She has a bit of a following even without firing on Piltover or turning the Grey back on them. She's a bit of a living folk hero to some people, especially those she personally helped out of a bad situation, for no reason other than "I could, and doing so doesn't hurt anyone else. So why wouldn't I?"

Not to mention I definitely feel like Jinx would be way more intentionally politically educated in this AU than she is in canon.

JInx as she is in Arcane, never really gave a shit about Zaun's independence beyond what it meant to Silco (and later Isha), and she very obviously never bothered to learn anything about politics. At least nothing Silco didn't force her to learn.

But with Jinx's primary drive being Zaun, I feel like she'd definitely be way more politically minded, and while I do think she would consider turning herself over to Piltover to secure Zaun's independence (in a direct parallel of Vi's willingness to hand herself over to get the Enforcers to leave the Undercity alone to keep her family safe).

I don't think Jinx would actually go through with handing herself over.

Not with the Undercity being actively torn apart by gang disputes in the wake of Silco's death, no way of ensuring Zaun's prosperity after handing herself over, and no way of securing actual tangible betterment of conditions in Zaun even with Zaunite independence.

I mean from what we're told, Piltover's offer of independence was essentially cutting the Undercity loose.

Stopping their dumping of industrial waste into Zaun's water supply, ceasing utilizing of Zaun's air duct and water system for the climate control of Piltover's Hexgate system, release of Zaunites from Stillwater (or at least transfer to Zaunite custody)), and the Kiraman family handing over control of the vents that suppress The Grey over to someone from the Undercity weren't anywhere in that deal from what we're told.

[I don't think everyone on the counsel would have agreed to it if it was, they're all complete capitalists, no matter if some of them value sapient life more than others (Mel, Cassandra) on a conceptual level.

I believe the ones who outright hate Zaunites (which some of them clearly did) would have staunchly opposed if it meant having to alter how they actually approached how they ran their businesses, vs just cutting Zaun loose.

Hell I think those councelors would have gotten even more lax with their business regulations. I mean, Zaun wouldn't have been part of Piltover, and their citizens not their legal responsibility any more.

So why should anyone from Piltover worry about them dying? The trenchers wanted independence and if they can't survive without Piltover's support, how's that anyone's problem but the trenchers?]

It was, if you hand over Jinx, we'll legally make you not our problem any more.

Which I don't think a politically educated Jinx would go for. It would just leave Zaun to the messy power struggle that appeared because of the power vacum caused by Silco's death. None of the Undercity's actual problems would be solved, besides Enforcers no longer being able to harass them.

So the Zaun Piltover conflict would stay more political and less outright invasion than it is in canon as a result.

[truelovez2]

Long Distance Relationship Problems

Don’t get shock, if you are facing long distance relationship problems in your life. Like any other relationship, ldr does have ups and down of its own kind. Long distance relationship couples have to put extra effort to carry their relationship and make their true love succeed. Perhaps you must have seen the perfect couples, made for each other kind people start fighting and end up their relationship because of long distance relationship problems.  There are many assumptions about long distance relationship and its problems by the couples and that makes them petrified of separation.

There are many successful stories of long distance relationship couple and on the other hand there are many people who have ruined their relationship and faced a very bad phase of life by long distance relationship problems.  Even though, some couples have maintained a beautiful long distance relationship and proved that love is divine and has power to manage everything. If two individuals are connected to each other by the bonding of love then can manage all the types of problems including long distance relationship problems. But they must have strong understanding and trust for each other.

The most grueling job of couples starts when they have to sacrifice their priorities for a single call, and understand partner’s situation without even complete clarification and explanation. Long distance relationship problems have many issues and situations for which you can’t blame a single partner or the situation. It’s about everything around couples their attitude, circumstances, feelings and etc.

LDR Problems

Lack Of Trust

Lack of trust is the biggest problem of any relation either it is long distance or not.  A relationship must have the strong pillar of Trust. You must trust on your partner and believe in his/her words. Especially in long distance relationship, you are left with no choice then to believe your partner. Questioning, doubt and explanations make your relationship weak and lead to end up the relation in bad phase. If you can’t trust your partner and start making your own stories for one single miss call.

Becoming Strangers

When you are away from your partner, you tend to make different habits and attitude towards life. Your partner is living in different situation and location from you and you can never understand the exact needs and requirements of it. Perhaps you feel that you are talking to someone new a stranger, because of different activities and thinking towards life. These types of situations occur when the couple are not connected to each other much. When they create their different lives without their partner in it, It has to be solved by keeping in regular contact and sharing all your regular activities.

No Dependency

Having a long distance relationship, make you free from your partner and create a new personality of you who is not dependent emotionally or physically on their partner. This self-dependency creates gap and differences in the relationship. It is must to be dependent on your partner emotionally at least when you are in long distance relationship. Ldr problems look for such circumstances and start putting sour in your mind about your partner.

[angelsyrip]

crushes give me psychosis.*

[cherryst4rg1rl]

I wish

[vampireink]

And I can not decide if your face appearing in my dreams is a blessing, or a curse. I am momentarily satiated by the loving moments we shared in my mind, yet I am distraught. Distraught because I miss you fiercely with every fibre of my being, and I despise the distance that stretches between us. I feel as though my body is on fire, and I am burning for my longing to be finally held in your arms as you took me in my dreams.

[Kas]

[long-distance-love]

I can pretty much promise you that the day you move together and stop long distancing will be just as memorable an anniversary as any other in your relationship.