#long distance relationship problems

[she-said-hello]

if you get to physically be with your significant other and touch them and kiss them and love them in person, please don't take it for granted. there is nothing i want more than to hold her.

[homoqueerjewhobbit]

Me when I haven't seen my partner in a while: Sure, sex is good, but have you ever dipped a double stuff oreo in nutella?

Me when we're together: Sex sure is good.

[pxl8ed]

I got to spend a whole week with my girlfriend and now that it’s over… I wish I could’ve stayed longer… my heart hurts having to leave her like that. I didn’t want to leave. I wanted to stay and be by her side. Sure, we can still face time and call and stuff, but I miss being able to touch her. I miss how soft her lips are on mine. I miss sitting next to her and holding her hand. I miss falling asleep next to her. I miss the feeling of resting my head on her chest and listening to her heartbeat as i fall asleep.

I hate that we are so far apart. I know it wasn’t a “goodbye” and more of a “see you later” but the later isn’t soon enough.

I know realistically that the next time will also (unfortunately) be a temporary visit as well, but I wish it wasn’t. I don’t want to go another day without you in my arms.

[bloggingboutburgers]

Don’t mind me still a bit sad at the moment y’know

[everdrawing]

It's 100/10 experience being transgender together with your best friend.

[vampireink]

And if I must go one more second without the sweet warmth of your presence, I may disintegrate. Oh how I wish I was able to crawl into your skin and be one with you forever and always.

[Kas]

[long-distance-love]

One day you'll wake up from long distancing, because the last meeting will never end. You'll look to your side, and they'll be there with you, in bed, after a long day. Your sides are pressed together, you're drifting off, they're on their phone looking at memes. It'll sink in then that it's finally over. And it'll also sink in that you and them never will be.

[yjichan]

[bikeboyblues]

love him so much wanna blow raspberries on his tummy and hear him laugh and try to push me away

[angelsyrip]

crushes give me psychosis.*

[haunted-house-sys]

As a system with a partner system with pretty good system communication on both ends; our days are NEVER not eventful.

We could be having the most casual day, body doubling, just existing in the same cozy vibe. Then suddenly one of us glance around the inner world and end up DYING of laughter, or a headmate could pop in and say the most bizarre thing, or a gatekeeper comes in to drop some knowledge, or even someone slides in to just give some gossip on innerworld relations.

This is the positive side. This is something that happens and we all instantly are here to be included in the loop.

But being a system with a system, our days are never uneventful.

We are long distanced partner systems. We keep in touch with texting and facetime calls and constant updates (because our headmates love to yap to them). The outer world is full of stress and trauma. We strive to keep each other semi sound with everything.

Sometimes there is rapid switches that happen and we have to clock it for them, and try our best to help ground. Never know who to call for. Sometimes theres blurring and panic that flows through them and all we can do is talk to them while they go nonverbal as we sit in hopes for a body manager or a soother steps forward.

Sometimes BPD or ED episodes are triggered, and we have to do our best to reassure, ground, and motivate. Sometimes theres suddenly meltdowns and break downs or negative triggers, and we have to sit there and watch them cry and try to self soothe, as we just talk.

And if that's not hell on earth to watch each other suffer, while feeling helpless and understanding what is going on with each other... i dont know what is.

Being a system with a system is fun, but it also is difficult. We understand each other. But that also means we understand the headaches, the lost feelings, the amnesia, the disgust we feel in body, the hate when we see our camera or the body in the mirror, the sick feelings from "nothing", the fear and anxiety that runs through when something happens, the nonverbal, the meltdowns, the stress, the trauma, the pain.

But we also understand the jokes, and the fun, and the stupid comments, or when theres that empty look within their eyes, the sudden reactions to virtually "nothing", the sharing voice, co cons, co fronts, the energy swaps, the everything.

If you're a system with a system; im proud of you. Im proud of you all. Especially if you support and stand by each other whether or not is your specific partner or another headmate through the good, bad, and the ugly. Im proud of yall who actively help and improve each other, and help tackle difficult times together. Im proud of yall doing your best from a distance or right next to them.

Y'all the real ones.

DNI if you are: Endo/nontramagentic + supporters, minors, anti furry, anti LGBTQ+, etc.

- 🔥

[burned0utstar]

I'm getting tired of dying for you.

I can't stay up every night letting your sadness consume the both of us.

I will burn before I stop loving you but loving you can't mean destroying myself because of you.

Not even for you. Not even with passion or devotion.

Just destruction. Pure bloodshed for the sake of seeing it drip out of our bodies.

[bloggingboutburgers]

Last time I had to do this was already a month and a half ago but that latest song I listened to gave me long-distance feels so don’t mind me

[evanwevand]

Miguel is saying that you were unfaithful to him with a girl who lives in your city and who is your friend.

This must be ragebait or something at this point bro ☠️☠️☠️

I BARELY have female friends irl and the ones I have are either ace or lesbian, anyways GET YOUR NOSE OUT OF MY FUCKING PERSONAL LIFE AND LIVES OF PEOPLE YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW ABOUT IN GENERAL BRUHHHHHHH

[vampireink]

And I can not decide if your face appearing in my dreams is a blessing, or a curse. I am momentarily satiated by the loving moments we shared in my mind, yet I am distraught. Distraught because I miss you fiercely with every fibre of my being, and I despise the distance that stretches between us. I feel as though my body is on fire, and I am burning for my longing to be finally held in your arms as you took me in my dreams.

[Kas]

[long-distance-love]

I hope you'll get to hold your long distance lovers close very soon. 💕