#live and let live for fucks sake

[andromeda--system]

Finally realized and came out as a plural system today. Let's look at what the Tumblr community has to offer about plurality support as a complex trauma survivor.

oh.

oh no.

oh fuck.

[fbfh]

did you know that Dean wakes up one morning and realizes he has a fucking bombshell of a wife/husband/spouse, a cozy (slightly rural) suburban house, and not one but three fucking daughters???? Did you know that he woke up one morning to toddler giggles and little kid bickering and baby babbling????? and your girls come charging in hushing their little giggles so they don't wake up mommy and daddy and so OBVIOUSLY he has to pretend to be asleep so he doesn't foil their plan. he focuses all his energy on keeping his face and body relaxed, keeping his breathing even. they're whispering and babbling and Dean peeks an eye open and looks at the love of his life and these three angels with their daddy's attitude and their mama's heart. they have your eyes and his smile. they're... the best parts of both of you, and there's something entirely new and beautiful in each of them too.

Bobby Dean is your oldest, and her 4th birthday is just around the corner. She's 3 and 3/4 right now, and won't let anyone forget it.

Your second is Jodi John, or JJ informally. She's fought her way half way through the terrible twos and is already getting a head start on the whole 3 going on 13 thing.

Mary Cass, or Cassie, is your youngest. She's just over a year old, and wants to do everything her big sisters do.

And Dean is looking at your little girls, and at you. He sees the way the morning sunlight dapples in through the window and illuminates their tangled hair and disney princess nightgowns. Your face is all puffy from sleep, and you still smell like the apple pie you made yesterday.

it's real, he realizes. that pipe dream that apple pie life.

you gave that to him. you did that. you turned his deepest, most unspoken desires into a reality like it was nothing. and every ounce of joy and love and peace he feels every moment of every day, he owes it all to you. You try to tell him on occasion when he gets all sentimental on you, he deserves it. he deserves every good thing he feels, and he's so great with the girls, he's a natural dad and you couldn't possibly dream of a better husband to do it with.

Because at his heart, Dean is a family man. He's your family man.

[captainsavre]

My FSH is high, which means that I can't... Maya and Carina || Station 19 - 7.05 ‘My Way’

[serailovesbagelsetc]

Annatar/Sauron/Halbrand: telling mirdania he thought she looked like galadriel for a moment while being inappropriately touchy-feely with her in a wistful manner

Galadriel,wherever she is: he's doing something really stupid right now i can just feel it

[laniidae-passerine]

Oddly for a sequel show, Cobra Kai is putting far too much weight on the original TKK film. They keep acting like this is teenage Johnny and teenage Daniel going toe to toe, but these are adult men. They should have lived adult lives and processed adult experiences and emotions before getting to the beginning of Cobra Kai’s story. Why can’t Johnny ever seem to grow up in a meaningful way? Why does Daniel keep chucking his healthy wealthy family life to the side to get involved in random ass karate shit? Why do they refuse to truly mend the fences between them? I understand showing trauma affecting them and TKK being an important moment in their lives, but the show acts like that was THE important moment in their lives. Nothing was bigger or more life changing than that (basically a high school karate tournament that happened one time) even though they’re decades past it. These characters aren’t truly allowed to be adult men grappling with the past, they’re written like stunted teens who are simply walking through some strange daydream life where they’ve got kids and jobs. And if the writers don’t ever treat them like adults, they’re never going to act like it nor will they ever grow in meaningful and permanent ways.

[crybabybat]

Hey my handlers are saying that I’m not getting enough enrichment in my current enclosure and it’s vital to my wellbeing that I be transplanted to a decently nice downtown apartment with a well-outfitted kitchen. And also that one of my fulfillment needs is one hundred thousand dollars annually.

[celestie0]

yall i think im gonna make “in holy matriphony” hella sex driven bc the edging in kickoff is starting to drive ME crazy like i need at least one of my fics to just be gojo sluttin the reader out constantly 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[graycious-tea]

Now I’ve been shipping buddie for yeaaarrsssss (aka 2 years lol) but all the toxic Buddie stan’s are like just making me want endgame BuckTommy/firefly sooooo baddddd (also Lou is just such a dork I wanna keep him in my pocket) (ps don’t attack me this just my opinion) (pps the fact I have to say that says a lot)

[lynxfrost13]

would you guys still love me if hypothetically something bad happened to Kosmos and Dorredt

[dont-miss-me]

Fellas, is it harassment of Rogueneto shippers to make ONE post about the ship, on MY OWN BLOG, and then never talking about Rogueneto again anywhere else?

On a more serious note, I need you guys to understand one thing, because some of you are acting ridiculous: Rogueneto isn’t just a fandom invention. It’s part of both the canon comics and now the show, and people are allowed to comment on parts of the media they consume, including posting about something they don’t like. Fandom ship discourse rotted your brains if you think people expressing their dislike of certain pairings is an attack on people who love that ship. Like, I had seen plenty of Rogueneto shippers talking about how much they dislike Romy/how awful Gambit is/etc, how is it different from me posting something slightly negative about Rogueneto? I also had seen plenty of posts like these that I thought are just dumb and untrue, and you know what I did? I ignored them. It is that simple.

[faaun]

the ultimate goalpost-mover says she loves you very much.

[gothambelfry]

"kunidazai is healthier than skk" annoys me so bad bc those are two very different relationships in dazai's life you Have to stop comparing them

[ask-the-shichibukai]

OPLA AU: do you remember that masterpiece of live action history we saw in ep 5 when Captain Usopp entertained Mihawk with his tales for Oda knows how long in the Baratie? That's my totally-ignoring-the-timeline take on that.

Karaibari island (Crossguild HQ), 5 a.m, Crocodile's office:

Mihawk (carrying Usopp tied from head to toe on his shoulder like a sack of potatoes): Crocodile, I request you to enlist this young man in our ranks as the main source of my the crew's entertainment. Unlike the clown, he's actually funny.

Crocodile: Oh, really? So it's true what they say about you going around adopting idiots like a duck-mom. That brat you brought here even looks and sounds like a drunk moron, so why should I oblige your request?

Mihawk: Because if you don't I'll find another way to relieve my boredom that is not your precious organization. And then, just out of spite, I'll go free Doflamingo from Impel Dawn and send him your way.

Crocodile (still severely sleep deprived): You can't keep on using this threat to get me to agree to your whims forever, you bastard! (a glare contest and awkward silence later) Okay strawhat's brat, you can start tomorrow! But forget about any form of payment until you'll have thoroughly proven to me that you are not a fraud!

Usopp (still drunk): Ehh where am I? Why am I tied? Who are you guys?? Heeeeelp!!!

[frumdyke]

so fucking tired of all the xmas stuff already im not gonna survive another month of this. xtians need to keep it to themselves at least a little bit

[impatient14]

😃✨TRIGGERED✨😃

[sophsun1]

Can Debbie not emotionally manipulate someone into changing their plans because she doesn't agree with them for five minutes pls?

I'm giffing the wedding episode and when Justin announces he's going to the white party with Brian, she lays the guilt trip on him so fast as if going means he's doesn't care about Mel and Linds which blatantly isn't true. He's shown to love them both very much but that doesn't mean he can't also want to go away with his boyfriend for a weekend, both can co-exist at the same time.

Even Mel though disappointed manages to say that Justin deserves to have some fun after what he's been through even if she doesn't mean it. Debbie's retorts are always dripping with disdain and some form of 'ugh, you're behaving just like Brian would' again with the passive aggressive digs. i'm tired.