#lilith in astrology

[caturnmoon]

This is a really well written account on Lilith aspects that I agree (and resonate) with. 💯

𝐥𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐮𝐩 ❤️‍🔥

my ideas + observations on what lilith aspects might look like in daily life <3

Lilith-Sun Aspects: Getting noticed right away by people especially when a group setting, being liked by people on the surface level but secretly they disapprove or frown at your actions when you turn around, men judging you, standing your ground at all costs, not knowing when to back down, being a natural leader, challenging societal norms with who you are and forms of self expression, walking into a meeting or class wearing a bold outfit and peoples heads turning but not a word is uttered, getting dress-coded at work or school, your boss or teachers feeling uncomfortable to say something to you, people feeling like you are being "messy" when you question the norms, not addressing rumors. knowing you're gonn stir things up when you are walking into rooms and not caring, being told to change, being told you're too much, men wanting to date you but then wishing you would be "easy to work with" or wanting to date you and then get mad when they can't dominate you, you thinking "what don't they fucking understand? I just don't want to be like them" being afraid of your individuality not being recognized that you go to extremes at some moments

Lilith-Moon aspects: the type of people to actually answer with the truth when you ask them how they're doing and then you're kind of shook because you thought they were gonna sugarcoat and be like "I'm fine" being painfully honest or blunt, talking about feelings considered taboo (like no one really likes to talk about how they are jealous or bitter or other shit like that, they just hide it or project it) but lilith-moon will say they're feeling that shit. this reminds of the song wildflower by billie eilish. this aspect is women talking shit about you, having trauma with you, women in your life judging you or pointing fingers at you for not falling into the "good girl" category. being told you're wrong for how you feel, feeling intense or moody and other people being able to pick up on it, other people seeing you as magnetic but also unpredictable and they can admire you for being real with them but it also might scare them, mom saying you are a wild child or just too much to deal with when you get "emotional", you wanting to yell "no im not fucking okay and im not gonna sit here and pretend I am"

Lilith-Venus aspects: men want you and see being with you as a challenge, they want to be with you to show off but then get mad when they cant change you, being called a "tease" or saying that you lead people on, men lying about you, spreading rumors about you, men saying they "talked to you" or dated you after texting you LMAOOO.. just fucking lying! being villanized for your beauty, your beauty feeling like its making you a target, women seeing you as competition, women spreading rumors about your beauty (oh she probably got this and this done or oh she shes only pretty because xyz), men in relationships looking at you and thinking you are manipulating them when you're not doing anything, feeling like anything venus related (beauty, art, relationships) in your life gets distorted, your relationships always feeling like a battlefield, being sensual + in tune with your femininity and then people expect you to tone it down, you might do something like wear red lipstick or heels or a nice dress and be told its too much but someone without this energy in their chart probs wouldnt get that reaction, you wondering "what's the difference between me and her? Why do they treat her like that and me like this?"

Lilith-Mercury aspects: being blunt, hurting someones feelings without meaning to, getting criticized for whatever you say, trying to be more "polite" but then it feels so exhausting, cursing a lot, cursing from a very young age and/or in professional settings, saying what other people refuse to say for the sake of being polite or because its a "superior" this is the person that in the meeting will the supervisor "In my opinion, this isnt a good idea and it isnt helpful to us", people talking shit behind your back, the person who dissects other peoples words down to the stutter, punctuation and fucking COMMA! How did they say it? What word did they say first? lilith-mercury will read between the lines and force you to say what you are refusing to say or putting in a passive aggressive manner, might refuse to engage with passive agressive people until they say it with their chest, "could you repeat that?" energy, "what did you mean by that?" energy knowing damn well what they meant, talking about politics at the dinner table during the family reunion, talking about sex in the break room at work, playing the devils advocate, reading smut, writing smut, loving dirty talk. trying to use their words for something good but people always making them feel like everything they say is just always wrong, pausing before they strike with their tongue, hating small talk, feeling uncomfy with small talk, people trauma dumping or ovesharing or vice versa, feeling suspcious of people that use pretty words with them, they wonder "What do they want from me? They're trying to get something from me...."

Lilith-Mars aspects: the first to get to moving and get shit down, getting easily annoyed at people that dont have the same drive, being angry at weak people or people that cant keep their word, "Are you gonna help or just fucking stand there?", being seen as abrassive, people avoiding you or shrinking back because of it, men wanting to compete with you, people feeling threatened by your ambition, the type to get nice things in life and people spread rumors that you had to xyz to get it, people thinking you're being confrontational or too angry when you address something face to face and up front, feeling out of control with your anger as a kid, people trying to push your buttons to try to get a reaction of you and then acting shocked when they do, fiercely independent in their routines, working out intensely, craving intensity in relationships, lines blurring between love and war "If I'm going to be the bad guy might as well get something out of it"

Lilith-Saturn aspects: a major dislike of authoritative figures, feeling resentful at being told what to do, wanting to do the opposite of what you do, "im not following this rule just because its always been followed", setting your own standards and expectations, "I prefer to find out for myself", questioning the system or cultural and societal norms and traditions that you find antiquated or unfair, people respecting you for your disciple but wishing you were easier to boss around, other people saying you're too cold or detached but you just dont wanna give them the chance to fuck you over, finding peace in the space between order and chaos and you perfecting that mix, wondering if life would be easier if you were "softer", choosing to form your own opinions on people, "thanks but I can decide for myself", feeling like you're held to expectations other people aren't

Lilith-Pluto aspects: not afraid to talk about the ugly shit in life, the taboo, trauma, control, power struggles, fear, jealousy because youve been familiar with it before, people being a little afraid of you, people saying youre too intense or even dangerous, people projecting onto you and getting mad or "disgusted" with you when you see right through them, being able to pick up on changes in peoples mannerisms, digging deeper in conversations, people suddenly confessing things to you, people not understanding why they feel drawn to your presence, people either approach it or go in the other direction, you come across as someone who has been through a lot but its only made you stronger, "im not afraid of the dark parts of life", going through something traumatic and years later thinking about it and coming to realization that you wouldn't change a thing, that it made you who you are, being okay with being seen as the villian in someones story

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lilith in a woman's birthchart

aries lilith

lilith in aries intensifies a woman's connection to her primal urges and raw sexual energy. she embraces her desires unapologetically, often challenging societal norms or any expectations of passivity in love and sex. this placement fuels a fierce sense of independence, making her unwilling to submit to anyone’s control, especially in intimate relationships. in aries, lilith represents a relentless drive for self-expression, fearlessly exploring the darker aspects of femininity and sexuality. rebellion becomes second nature, as she fights against restrictions that seek to tame her, embodying the bold, untamed aspects of the feminine. rage and power are central themes—when provoked or oppressed, this lilith placement manifests as fiery outbursts, asserting her right to be free, powerful, and true to her instincts. her shadow emerges when she suppresses her desires, which can lead to frustration, impulsiveness, or an intense need for control.

examples from tv: daenerys targaryen (game of thrones), jessica jones (jessica jones), buffy summers (buffy the vampire slayer), maggie greene (the walking dead), olivia pope (scandal)

taurus lilith

lilith in taurus embodies sensuality and the deep connection to physical pleasure. a woman with this placement has a powerful sense of sexual empowerment rooted in the indulgence of her body and desires. she embraces eroticism through touch, comfort, and nature, demanding satisfaction on her own terms. her independence is expressed through self-sufficiency, particularly when it comes to financial stability and personal security. taurus lilith refuses to be dependent on others, especially in love, often taking control of her own life and resources. this placement's shadow emerges in the realm of possessiveness and greed—she may cling to relationships or material things, using them as a shield against vulnerability. rebellion comes when she's forced to conform to roles or standards that conflict with her need for stability and pleasure. feminine power in taurus lilith is steady, grounded, and fierce when provoked, manifesting as rage when her sense of security or sensual fulfillment is threatened. she harnesses her power through patience and persistence, standing firm in her boundaries and her right to enjoy life fully.

examples from tv: cersei lannister (game of thrones), cristina yang (grey’s anatomy), cookie lyon (empire), claire underwood (house of cards), fiona gallagher (shameless)

gemini lilith

lilith in gemini thrives on mental stimulation and variety, making her sexual empowerment stem from curiosity and the freedom to explore her desires in intellectual and communicative ways. a woman with this placement often uses her words and wit to seduce, understanding the power of conversation and playful banter in igniting desire. she rebels against limitations on her freedom of thought and expression, craving experiences that keep her mentally engaged. her independence is defined by her need for space to explore different ideas, lovers, and life paths, refusing to be confined to one narrative or role. the shadow side of gemini lilith may emerge as manipulative tendencies or using her words as weapons, particularly when her autonomy is threatened. she might also struggle with inconsistency, driven by the fear of being tied down or bored. in terms of feminine power, she’s sharp, quick-witted, and resourceful, with the ability to outthink her opponents or charm her way out of difficult situations. rage surfaces when she feels intellectually underestimated or silenced, often leading her to rebel through provocative words and clever schemes.

examples from tv: villanelle (killing eve), blair waldorf (gossip girl), samantha jones (sex and the city), lorelai gilmore (gilmore girls), margo hanson (the magicians)

cancer lilith

lilith in cancer embodies a deeply emotional and instinctual form of sexual empowerment. a woman with this placement taps into her sexuality through emotional intimacy and nurturing energy, using her sensitivity and vulnerability as sources of power. she desires deep, meaningful connections and is empowered by the safety of emotional bonds. independence for cancer lilith is defined by her ability to protect her emotional boundaries, often rebelling against roles that require her to sacrifice her needs for others. her rebellion is quiet but profound, as she fiercely guards her right to care for herself and her loved ones on her own terms. the shadow side of cancer lilith may emerge in the form of emotional manipulation or possessiveness, especially when she feels threatened or unappreciated. she may use guilt or emotional withdrawal as a defense mechanism. feminine power for cancer lilith is rooted in her ability to create and destroy, to nurture or cut off care when her emotional needs are not met. rage surfaces when her vulnerability is exploited or when her deep emotional world is disregarded, leading her to fiercely defend her sense of emotional autonomy and security.

examples from tv: norma bates (bates motel), gemma teller morrow (sons of anarchy), fiona goode (american horror story: coven), nora durst (the leftovers), rachel green (friends),

leo lilith

lilith in leo exudes a powerful, magnetic form of sexual empowerment that thrives on attention, admiration, and self-expression. a woman with this placement embraces her sexuality with confidence and flair, craving to be seen, desired, and worshipped for her uniqueness. she finds empowerment in shining brightly, unapologetically owning her desires and passions. Independence for leo lilith comes from her refusal to dim her light or be overshadowed by anyone—she rebels against anyone or anything that tries to suppress her individuality or diminish her power. the shadow side of this placement can emerge through arrogance, vanity, or a need for constant validation. she might manipulate situations to stay in the spotlight, or become excessively dramatic when her sense of self-worth is threatened. feminine power for leo lilith radiates from her charisma, creativity, and ability to inspire others with her presence. her rage surfaces when she feels ignored, undervalued, or disrespected—she will fiercely reclaim her throne and demand the recognition she believes she deserves, even if it means burning bridges to do so.

examples from tv: elektra abundance (pose), katherine pierce (the vampire diaries), lucille bluth (arrested development), margaery tyrell (game of thrones), rachel berry (glee)

virgo lilith

lilith in virgo embodies a unique form of sexual empowerment rooted in the pursuit of perfection and authenticity. a woman with this placement often finds her desires interwoven with her sense of self-worth, leading her to seek a deeper understanding of her body and sexuality through meticulous exploration and analysis. she is independent and rebellious in her quest for self-improvement, often challenging societal norms regarding beauty and sexuality. this independence is expressed through her insistence on high standards, whether in her relationships or her own self-image. the shadow side of virgo lilith may manifest as excessive self-criticism, anxiety, or perfectionism, leading her to suppress her desires if they don’t align with her ideals. she may also struggle with shame regarding her sexual needs, viewing them as messy or less refined. feminine power for virgo lilith comes from her analytical nature, as she harnesses her intellect to navigate her relationships and sexuality. rage can surface when she feels her boundaries are crossed or when her need for order and clarity is disrupted, leading her to assert her power in a calculated and sometimes cutting manner.

examples from tv: hermione granger (harry potter), molly hooper (sherlock), ann perkins (parks and recreation), daria morgendorffer (daria), miranda bailey (grey’s anatomy)

libra lilith

lilith in libra embodies a complex interplay of sexual empowerment rooted in relationships, aesthetics, and harmony. a woman with this placement often finds her desires closely tied to her ability to create beauty and connection with others. she seeks empowerment through partnerships, using her charm and diplomacy to navigate her desires, often wanting her relationships to reflect her ideals of love and balance. independence for libra lilith is expressed through a strong sense of self-worth and the refusal to settle for less than equitable partnerships; she rebels against any form of imbalance or injustice in her relationships. however, the shadow side of libra lilith can manifest as indecisiveness or a tendency to people-please, suppressing her own needs in favor of maintaining peace and harmony. this can lead to a build-up of resentment and rage when her boundaries are crossed or when she feels unappreciated. feminine power for libra lilith is found in her ability to captivate and influence others, often using her social skills to assert herself. rage surfaces when her ideals of love and justice are compromised, leading her to fight fiercely for her right to love authentically and demand respect in her relationships.

examples from tv: maya hart (girl meets world), marissa cooper (the o.c.), veronica lodge (riverdale), luna lovegood (harry potter), serena van der woodsen (gossip girl)

scorpio lilith

lilith in scorpio represents a profound and intense form of sexual empowerment, where desire is intertwined with emotional depth and transformative power. a woman with this placement embraces her sexuality as a force of both creation and destruction, often drawn to the darker, more taboo aspects of intimacy. she seeks to empower herself through experiences that probe the depths of her psyche, using her sexual energy to connect with others on a profound level. Independence for scorpio lilith is fiercely guarded; she rebels against emotional vulnerability and demands authenticity in her relationships, often taking the lead in navigating the complexities of intimacy. the shadow side of this placement can manifest as obsession, jealousy, or manipulative tendencies, as she grapples with intense emotions and the fear of betrayal. feminine power for scorpio lilith lies in her ability to transform herself and those around her through her magnetic presence and profound insights into the human condition. rage can erupt when she feels betrayed or her trust is violated, leading to a fierce and transformative confrontation that challenges the status quo and demands respect.

examples from tv: daphne bridgerton (bridgerton), raven reyes (the 100), faye chamberlain (the secret circle), jessica pearson (suits), annalise keating (how to get away with murder),

sagittarius lilith

lilith in sagittarius embodies a dynamic and adventurous form of sexual empowerment, where desire is closely tied to freedom, exploration, and a thirst for knowledge. a woman with this placement embraces her sexuality as a journey of discovery, often seeking experiences that broaden her horizons and challenge conventional boundaries. she finds empowerment in her independence, rebelling against any constraints that limit her exploration of love and intimacy. this desire for freedom can lead her to unconventional relationships or sexual experiences that reflect her adventurous spirit. the shadow side of sagittarius lilith may manifest as restlessness, a tendency to avoid commitment, or a disregard for the emotional needs of others, as her quest for personal truth can sometimes overshadow relational harmony. feminine power for sagittarius lilith is rooted in her optimism, charisma, and philosophical approach to life, inspiring others to embrace their own journeys of self-discovery. rage can surface when her freedom is threatened or when she feels stifled by societal norms, leading her to assert her desires with fiery passion and unyielding determination.

examples from tv: chloe decker (lucifer), jessica day (new girl), emma woodhouse (emma), arya stark (game of thrones), june osborne (the handmaid's tale),

capricorn lilith

lilith in capricorn embodies a grounded and pragmatic approach to sexual empowerment, where desire is often intertwined with ambition, responsibility, and a drive for success. a woman with this placement tends to view her sexuality as a powerful tool for achieving her goals, embracing her desires with a sense of seriousness and intent. she finds empowerment in her independence, fiercely rebelling against any societal expectations that dictate how she should express her femininity or navigate her relationships. capricorn lilith women often seek stability and security in their partnerships, and their desire for commitment can sometimes lead them to play the role of the caretaker or the one in control. the shadow side of this placement may manifest as coldness, emotional detachment, or a fear of vulnerability, as they grapple with the societal pressures to remain strong and composed. feminine power for capricorn lilith lies in her resilience, practicality, and ability to navigate challenges with grace and determination. rage can surface when her ambitions are undermined or when she feels her worth is dismissed, prompting her to assert her power in a calculated and formidable manner.

examples from tv: leslie knope (parks and recreation), miranda priestly (the devil wears prada), selina meyer (veep), betty draper (mad men), alicia florrick (the good wife),

aquarius lilith

lilith in aquarius embodies a unique form of sexual empowerment that is characterized by originality, freedom, and a progressive approach to desire. a woman with this placement views her sexuality as an avenue for self-expression and experimentation, often breaking societal norms to explore her identity fully. she finds empowerment in her independence, fiercely rebelling against traditional expectations around relationships and intimacy. this rebellious spirit allows her to forge her own path, valuing her individuality above all else. the shadow side of aquarius lilith may manifest as emotional detachment or aloofness, as she navigates her desires with a focus on intellect over emotion, sometimes leading to difficulty in forming deep connections. feminine power for aquarius lilith lies in her visionary nature, as she inspires others to embrace their uniqueness and challenge societal norms. rage can emerge when her ideals of freedom and equality are threatened, prompting her to assert herself in unconventional ways, often rallying others to join her cause for change and liberation.

examples from tv: harley quinn (harley quinn), raven baxter (that's so raven), jules vaughn (euphoria), eleven (stranger things), maeve wiley (sex education),

pisces lilith

lilith in pisces represents a profound and ethereal form of sexual empowerment, where desire is deeply intertwined with emotional sensitivity, intuition, and a connection to the mystical. a woman with this placement often views her sexuality as an expression of her dreams and fantasies, embracing the fluidity of her desires while exploring the depths of her emotions. she finds empowerment in her independence, rebelling against rigid norms and societal expectations, allowing her to navigate relationships in a way that feels authentic and freeing. this can lead to a rich inner world filled with creative and spiritual pursuits, but the shadow side of pisces lilith may manifest as escapism, emotional turmoil, or a tendency to become enmeshed in unhealthy relationships. feminine power for pisces lilith is rooted in her ability to empathize with others, her artistic expression, and her capacity to inspire deep emotional connections. rage may surface when her boundaries are violated, or when she feels misunderstood, prompting her to assert her needs and desires in ways that can be both gentle and fiercely protective.

examples from tv: rory gilmore (gilmore girls), willow rosenberg (buffy the vampire slayer), misty day (american horror story: coven), felicity smoak (arrow), cassandra cain (birds of prey)

in houses

lilith in 1st house: dominance, seduction, magnetism, self-possession, fierce individuality, rebellion, authority defiance, primal instincts, raw sexuality, unapologetic self-expression, boldness, power struggles, intense presence, liberation, untamed energy, fearless identity, taboo exploration, dangerous allure, radical self-assertion, outlaw spirit, rage against norms, subversive behavior, sensual dominance, mundane rebellion (e.g., fashion, body image), boundary-breaking, unconventional beauty, reclaiming body autonomy, embracing shadows, provocative demeanor, empowerment through defiance

lilith in 2nd house: sensuality, material indulgence, self-worth rebellion, desire for luxury, possessive power, financial independence, sexual value, taboo desires, reclaiming body autonomy, feminine wealth, empowerment through possessions, breaking societal value systems, self-sufficiency, erotic self-esteem, rage against dependency, unconventional assets, financial rebellion, ownership of desires, untamed sensuality, transforming wealth, valuing the taboo, monetizing sexuality, body as currency, empowerment through self-possession, rage against materialism, rebellious spending, resource control, luxury as rebellion, sexual magnetism for wealth, power through resources

lilith in 3rd house: seductive speech, provocative ideas, rebellious thoughts, taboo conversations, feminine intellect, outspoken power, unfiltered expression, rebellious learning, intellectual freedom, sensual communication, dangerous curiosity, breaking communication norms, manipulative language, empowerment through words, verbal independence, taboo knowledge, bold self-expression, radical opinions, persuasion through seduction, communicating desires, verbal power struggles, erotic messaging, empowering sisterhood, breaking intellectual taboos, subversive writing, secret messages, outrageous ideas, feminine rage in discussions, challenging mental limitations, verbal empowerment

lilith in 4th house: emotional independence, rebellion against tradition, home as sanctuary, feminine rage in domesticity, intimate desires, subversive family dynamics, sensual home environment, nurturing empowerment, hidden emotional depths, radical self-care, taboo family secrets, intimate power, feminine heritage, liberation from familial expectations, emotional authenticity, challenging home roles, shadow work, domestic rebellion, sensuality in privacy, reclaiming family narratives, attachment to the past, breaking generational curses, empowerment through vulnerability, nostalgic desires, emotional boundaries, secrets of the heart, transcending domestic norms, radical family structures, reinterpreting femininity at home, sovereignty in emotional spaces

lilith in 5th house: creative seduction, liberated sexuality, playful rebellion, passionate self-expression, daring romance, taboo desires in love, feminine artistry, joyful defiance, sensual creativity, radical pleasure, empowerment through play, challenging societal norms, erotic imagination, shadowy fantasies, romantic independence, unconventional love affairs, reclaiming joy & passion, desires for attention, feminine energy in performance, rebellion through art, embracing inner child, empowering flirtation, sensual games, exploration of taboo themes, joyful expression of rage, eccentric dating, breaking artistic boundaries, celebrating sensuality, nurturing creative passions, spontaneous empowerment

lilith in 6th house: empowerment through service, sensual self-care, rebellious work ethic, challenging health norms, intimate routines, radical wellness, subversive daily habits, erotic labor, feminine power in work, liberation through productivity, taboo health practices, emotional healing, breaking work boundaries, sensuality in the mundane, personal rituals, rage against conformity, redefining success, nurturing independence, empowered self-discipline, exploration of body mechanics, workplace defiance, radical approaches to fitness, emotional labor, transformative routines, sacredness of everyday life, awakening through service, liberation from toxic environments, embodied wellness, self-expression through work, challenging societal expectations

lilith in 7th house: empowered partnerships, desire for authentic connection, rebellion against conventional love, challenging relationship norms, feminine power in partnerships, seductive negotiation, intimacy through independence, taboo relationship dynamics, emotional power plays, radical honesty in love, defying societal expectations, erotic exploration of relationships, unconventional commitment, fierce loyalty, reclaiming personal space, duality of desire, rage against betrayal, negotiating boundaries, partnerships as power dynamics, sensuality in alliances, transformative relationships, flirtation with taboo, feminine rage in love, exploring polyamory, reinterpreting partnership roles, authenticity in social interactions, nurturing independence within love, unmasking social facades, empowering others through love, rebellion in romantic norms

lilith in 8th house: empowerment through intimacy, desire for deep connections, rebellion against emotional vulnerability, challenging societal taboos, feminine power in sexuality, transformative sexual experiences, radical honesty in intimacy, exploration of desires, shadow work in relationships, liberation through shared resources, subversive passion, unmasking hidden fears, erotic power dynamics, reclaiming sexual energy, resilience through loss, rage against betrayal & deception, mystical sexuality, exploring the taboo, emotional & sexual healing, challenging possessiveness, depth in emotional exploration, secrets of the heart, sensual transformation, empowered shadow self, reinterpreting intimacy, emotional alchemy, sacredness of sexual connection, defiance through shared intimacy, liberation from fears, navigating power struggles

lilith in 9th house: empowerment through exploration, desire for freedom & adventure, rebellion against dogma, challenging societal beliefs, feminine wisdom in travel, erotic journeys, radical perspectives on sexuality, embracing philosophical desires, taboo subjects in education, liberation through knowledge, exploring cultural taboos, adventurous spirit, rage against limitations, sensual exploration of beliefs, empowered spiritual journey, radical honesty in beliefs, freedom of expression, challenging traditional roles, transcending boundaries, mystical experiences, self-discovery through travel, passionate about diverse cultures, emotional & intellectual expansion, defying conventional wisdom, sacred sexuality in spirituality, evolving belief systems, liberating philosophical discussions, empowering education, embracing the unknown, shadow work through exploration

lilith in 10th house: empowerment in professional settings, desire for recognition & success, rebellion against corporate norms, challenging societal expectations, feminine authority in leadership, sexuality as a power tool, radical honesty in public persona, taboo topics in the workplace, liberation through career choices, ambition with authenticity, defying traditional roles, rage against patriarchal structures, exploring personal brand, sensuality in professional relationships, empowerment through visibility, unmasking public facades, emotional strength in leadership, transforming the workplace dynamic, passionate about personal legacy, navigating power struggles, reinterpreting success, challenging authority, feminine rage in professional spaces, shadow work in career choices, evolving public image, embracing unconventional paths, empowered ambition, sensuality as a form of influence, exploring taboo in reputation, redefining success on one's terms

lilith in 11th house: empowerment through community, desire for authentic connections, rebellion against conformity, challenging social norms, feminine power in friendships, radical ideas in social circles, exploration of desires in groups, taboo subjects in social discussions, liberation through social activism, defying collective expectations, rage against social injustice, passionate about shared ideals, challenging the status quo, emotional depth in friendships, sensuality in group dynamics, empowered through social networks, exploring alternative lifestyles, shadow work within groups, redefining friendship dynamics, feminine rage in collective movements, evolving social identities, unmasking hidden desires, transformative friendships, exploring sexual identity in community, empowered collective expression, subversive camaraderie, reinterpreting loyalty, navigating power within social circles, sacred bonds among women, embracing individuality within groups

lilith in 12th house: empowerment through self-discovery, desire for spiritual freedom, rebellion against repression, exploring hidden passions, feminine power in solitude, unraveling subconscious desires, radical authenticity in introspection, taboo themes in spirituality, liberation through self-acceptance, embracing the unseen, challenging internal limitations, rage against self-sabotage, passionate about healing, exploring mystical experiences, empowerment in dreams, shadow work & transformation, subversive insights from within, redefining personal spirituality, sensuality in isolation, navigating hidden emotions, feminine rage in solitude, evolving through inner conflicts, defying the subconscious, exploring repressed desires, empowered intuition, challenging spiritual norms, embracing the shadow self, emotional depth in solitude, exploring fantasies, transcending societal expectations

all observations are done by me !!! @pearlprincess02

main masterlist

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(Astroctober Observations)

☄ - Ascendant aspecting the Moon, the native's aura can standout, their looks in general are quite adorable, especially the eyes (doe eyes)

☄ - Juno in Air Signs. (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) they desire for lots of communication in their relationships, i swear you'll share a lot of laughs with them

☄ - Sun square/opposite/conjunct Moon, these natives are those people with a strong mind yet sensibile soul, they often have to think logical vs emotional

☄ - Capricorn Moons/Moon at 10°, 22° even if Moon can feel different in these placements, it will act very mature and independent, Capricorn Moons natives are the most reliable people ever

☄ - Earth/Water in Sun/Moon/Rising (Lilith or Venus) give dark aura, and is not in a bad term is just their yin energy ☯️

☄ - Eros (433) in Capricorn/Taurus or Virgo want a mature love, they also want to search for a long lasting relationship

☄ - Moon in the 9th house natives can at some point in their lives to move away to a place they like/feel peaceful at

☄ - I love Sun/Venus/Mercury in the 9th house and their love for others cultures/traditions/ is truly unique

☄ - A stellium in your birth chart is when you have 3 or more planets in the same sign, a stelium indicates a big focus depends on the house to have it

Aquarius Stelliums - Innovative, unique, different, humanitarian, helper, working in online/social media

Stellium in the 7th house - Big focus on your relationships, maybe your biggest goal is to get married/having a happy relationship with your partner

Scorpio Stellium - Evolving, transformation, healing, inherited/legacy things, secrets (maybe finding secrets that were hidden from you),

Stellium in the 11th house - Influencer vibes, a big focus towards your social groups, friends, chimestry around people

Stellium in Sagittarius - Discovering, searching, staying wild, boredom, curious, bold, travel, religion, spirituality/ocult

☄ - Having Sagittarius/Jupiter in your 4th house can indicate expanding your home, maybe changing your home a lot and in exotic places

☄ - Sagittarius/Jupiter in your 11th house helps you to manifest friends fast. You can manifest things more easily

☄ - Sagittarius/Jupiter in your 1st house, this is a lucky placement to have because Jupiter helps you so much, especially to get out of bad situations

☄ - Heavy Pluto energy in your chart can make you attracted to horror/dark topics such as movies, songs, art etc..

☄ - Jupiter in Libra/7th house or Jupiter at 7° 19° can make you to have luck in your relationships, and is not about getting the right people, is about the people you get in relationship, it comes with their own benefits (If is Retrogade then you may have a hard time finding the right person)

☄ - Jupiter in Leo/5th house or at 5°, 17°, 29°, these people can get to be known really easily, people are attracted to them like tom after jerry, also you are your own source of inspiration and joy

☄ - Cancer Venus/Moon/Rising can be shy at first because they want to feel secure/safe around that person

☄ - Venus in the 10th house, this placement is makes you to attract partners who can before older than you in age!! But to also attract partners who are very mature and respectful

☄ - People can find themselves very attached to you if you have your 4th or 5th house ruler in the 11th house

☄ - Venus square or opposite ascendant doesn't mean the native is ugly or bad looking, with those aspects most times indicate you have your own style and you like to dress how you want, like not having a specific clothing code

☄ - Lilith in Virgo/Lilith in the 6th house or Lilith in Virgo Degrees 6°, 18°, can find themselves being quite critical about things in their life, sometimes you just have to let things happen

☄ - Lilith in Aquarius or at 11°. 23° Lilith finds herself being in a extremely rebellious energy, people with those placements will do the things in their own way

☄ - Lilith square Moon or Mars natives can hide a deep frustration inside them and that thing can explode something and create a big conflict between the native and other people

☄ - If you have Moon in Sagittarius or at 9°, 21° Degrees aspecting Pluto/Saturn or Lilith this can indicate having your freedom getting taken away/can represent religious trauma/religious conflicts

☄ - Taurus Placements especially Sun/Moon/Rising, I love how deep these people are attracted to nature/background and their environment

☄ - Where you have Taurus in your chart can indicate where you feel the most sensual

1st house - they're sensual 24/7, always feeling sensuality in their veins

7th house - feeling the most sensual around their partners

4th house - feeling the most sensual when they're in their own home/when they're home alone

10th house - in their career/being seen by the public as sensual

12th house - their subconscious, soul and mind has a sensual energy

☄ - If you have Venus in the 4th house or Venus rulling your 4th house (Libra or Taurus in the 4th house), these natives are good for creating a harmonious home space

☄ - Sun Pisces/ in the 12th house or Sun at 12° or 24° degrees, When Sun touches the misterious Pisces energy, everything for these natives can feel like a dream because of the Neptune effect also when it comes to charm...you're gorgeous!!!

☄ - Moon in Aquarius/Moon in the 11th house, you're gonna get so easily attached by them and is you gonna relate to a lot things together

☄ - Mars in the 9th house can make people attached to your culture/tradition, let's say you're Italian for example, people will be attracted to your cultural background

☄ - People born with Pluto in Libra can experience a very big change towards their relationships all their life, your partner can be different from the past one and so on, also they need to put standards in their relationships

I love 1st October so much!!🫶🏼🖤🖤 I hope you all will have a good month!! Hoa hoa hoa season finally started 😭😭😭

Harmoonix~🤍

[plutonianeris]

Lilith in a Man’s Chart

⚔ (Desires and Fears) ⚔

LILITH IN ARIES OR THE 1ST HOUSE: He desires… a fierce, bold woman who speaks her mind, unapologetically confident, physically striking, with a “warrior” presence, strong-willed, and ambitious. Yet he judges… her fiery temper, stubborn independence, her need to lead, and tendency to always push boundaries, fearing she may overshadow him. She’s a head-turner who challenges his ego, but he can’t help but be magnetically drawn to her raw, unapologetic self-expression.

LILITH IN TAURUS OR THE 2ND HOUSE: He desires… a sensual, earthy woman with a natural beauty, radiating confidence in her body, deeply feminine, stable, and deeply grounded. Yet he judges… her indulgent side, attachment to comfort, materialism, and her strong, almost unyielding sense of self. He’s captivated by her luxurious aura and self-worth but worries she’s too “set in her ways” or unyielding. She represents everything lush and abundant, yet he feels guilty for craving her stability.

LILITH IN GEMINI OR THE 3RD HOUSE: He desires… an intellectual seductress, sharp-witted, endlessly curious, youthful, with a playfully unpredictable vibe, constantly keeping him on his toes. Yet he judges… her restlessness, inconsistency, her flirty nature, and tendency to change her mind too quickly. He’s enchanted by her cleverness and conversational agility but worries she’s too elusive or difficult to pin down. She’s a breath of fresh air, yet he finds her fickle and hard to trust.

LILITH IN CANCER OR THE 4TH HOUSE: He desires… a nurturing, deeply feminine woman who feels like “home,” with an intuitive soul, sensitive and caring, offering comfort and emotional warmth. Yet he judges… her moodiness, clinginess, her need for closeness, and deep-rooted emotional intensity. She has a soft, inviting presence, but he worries she’s too attached or overly sentimental. She makes him feel safe, yet her deep need for connection triggers his fears of entrapment.

LILITH IN LEO OR THE 5TH HOUSE: He desires… a glamorous, radiant woman who commands attention, bold and expressive, with an unapologetic love for the spotlight, charismatic, and magnetic. Yet he judges… her dramatic flair, need for validation, vanity, and constant craving for admiration. He’s intoxicated by her confidence and fiery passion but feels conflicted about her need to be adored. She’s the ultimate “queen,” yet he resents her for needing so much attention.

LILITH IN VIRGO OR THE 6TH HOUSE: He desires… a refined, intelligent woman, naturally beautiful, organized, humble, practical, and modest in her allure. Yet he judges… her critical nature, reserved demeanor, her perfectionism, and focus on details. Her calm, collected vibe captivates him, but he worries she’s too controlled or restrained. She’s the picture of grace and order, but he struggles with her hidden intensity and desire for perfection.

LILITH IN LIBRA OR THE 7TH HOUSE: He desires… a charming, elegant woman who embodies grace and balance, socially skilled, visually captivating, and refined in her style. Yet he judges… her need for approval, indecisiveness, flirtatiousness, and desire for partnership. He loves her aesthetic appeal and harmonious nature but feels unsettled by her people-pleasing tendencies. She’s the ultimate muse, a perfect partner, yet he worries she lacks independence.

LILITH IN SCORPIO OR THE 8TH HOUSE: He desires… a mysterious, magnetic woman with an intense aura, deeply passionate, alluring, and transformative, unafraid of the darker aspects of life. Yet he judges… her secretive nature, emotional intensity, her fascination with the taboo, and her ability to see through him. He’s drawn to her power and hidden depths but fears her ability to unravel him emotionally. She’s intoxicating, yet her raw energy both intrigues and terrifies him.

LILITH IN SAGITTARIUS OR THE 9TH HOUSE: He desires… a free-spirited, adventurous woman, curious and wild, with an exotic allure, a wanderer at heart who craves exploration and new experiences. Yet he judges… her lack of commitment, her restless nature, idealism, and refusal to be “tied down.” Her boundless energy and zest for life inspire him, but he worries she’s too independent and fleeting. She’s a true wanderer, and while he’s captivated, he fears she’ll never stay.

LILITH IN CAPRICORN OR THE 10TH HOUSE: He desires… a poised, ambitious woman, polished and mature, with a commanding presence, professional and self-assured. Yet he judges… her serious nature, focus on status, her discipline, and her calculated approach to life. He admires her strength and sophistication but feels uneasy about her ambition. She’s the epitome of class and success, yet he worries she’s too focused on her own goals to truly let him in.

LILITH IN AQUARIUS OR THE 11TH HOUSE: He desires… a unique, eccentric woman, unconventional and free-thinking, deeply independent, and unapologetically herself, with a progressive outlook. Yet he judges… her detachment, unpredictability, rebellious spirit, and resistance to tradition. Her originality and unorthodox style captivate him, but he feels unsettled by her unconventional ways. She’s the ultimate individualist, inspiring and intriguing, yet he finds her hard to understand.

LILITH IN PISCES OR THE 12TH HOUSE: He desires… an ethereal, dreamy woman, deeply spiritual, mysterious, and compassionate, with a creative soul, connected to a world beyond the ordinary. Yet he judges… her vulnerability, elusive nature, tendency to escape reality, and deep emotional tides. He’s enchanted by her mysticism and gentleness but fears losing himself in her depth. She’s a muse, enchanting and otherworldly, yet he’s wary of her inner mystery.

[earthcrumbs]

LILITH SIGNS AND YOUR SHADOW SIDE

Lilith represents your shadow side. Your Shadow side is home to one of your most primary fears… a fear that has considerable amounts of power over how you navigate life (your choices, your actions etc.) Our lack of awareness over this shadow side is what keeps us trapped in cycles of self-defeating behaviours.

Each Signs Shadow Side/ Primary Fear

ARIES = fear of unworthyness

TAURUS = fear of scarcity

GEMINI = fear of rejection

CANCER = fear of abandonment

LEO = fear of change

VIRGO = fear of failure

LIBRA = fear of loneliness

SCORPIO = fear of loss

SAGITTARIUS = fear of meaninglessness

CAPRICORN = fear of neglect

AQUARIUS = fear of powerlessness

PISCES = fear of vulnerability

But shadows cannot exist with without light . Lilith has two sides: a dark side and a light side. If we are able to come to terms with and heal our shadow side, a transmutation to our light side will occur.

When our shadow side is brought into the light, we gain clarity over what hold us back like the unconscious fears behind our responses. It enables us to make effective change which brings us closer to our most aligned self. Black moon Lilith gives us what we need to heal

[caturnmoon]

Astro Tea of the Day 🍵

🍵Just me sharing some opinions on some popular social media portrayals of astrological placements that don’t get the respect they deserve or can be misunderstood. 🍵

• Some folks do a wonderful job in their Lilith observations on here and other platforms but the others? Makes me cringe. Lilith isn’t the overly sexualized “sexy aesthetic” like some make it out to be. Those of us who are Lilith dominant in our charts, truly KNOW the pain that exuding Lilith energy and learning its lessons can bring to us. I have Lilith aspecting not only all of my inner planets, but my ascendant, MC, Pluto AND Chiron. Ain’t jack shit been sexy about the themes I’ve had to experience within those lenses. Sorry not sorry. While this can give you this “mysterious beauty” this is usually a tender subject for those heavily affected by Lilith in their charts. Perhaps they’ve been sexually objectified their entire lives by men and looked down upon by women for this reason. They ruffle men’s feathers just by asserting themselves and taking up space. Some of us have experienced extreme smear campaigns and systemic abuse. The perpetual rebel and scapegoat in society. Shits not sexy or easy. Lilith is the dark liberation of the divine feminine psyche. That righteous feminine rage akin to the goddess Kali Ma. Lilith demands sovereignty to herself first and foremost and the freedom to express her authenticity free of patriarchal shame and stigma. She’s wild, messy, dark but progressive. Seeking duality and freedom.

When these energies are given the love and respect they deserve, true healing can happen and that rebelliousness and autonomy can be put into wonderful use. Helping those that also are the outliers of society find the beauty in their rugged edges and authenticity. This is what Lilith can teach us all.

Until next time 🖖🏼👽

[yrotic11]

Lilith in the 11th house Composite

Ok this is gonna be a harsh start off but Composite Lilith in the 11th house could mean when you guys get into an argument the other could talk shit about you to their friends or vice versa. The friends know you don’t even mean it and you two will go right back to being with each other anyway, but will support you in your shit talking☠️😂

So yea it’s an indication of your immediate friend circle not liking the other person you’re with in this composite this is at first maybe. this goes for both sides. Especially the male in this dynamic the female friends of the girl he’s in this composite with, will not like him/be in disapproval of you guys dating.

The girls will talk shit on him depending on the sign/ element. If it’s an air sign it will be personality based insults rather than physical appearance looks like if it were fire or earth here. It’s typically not unwarranted, Lilith in the position only activates if the essence of her placement is ‘called’ upon. Could be a lot of socially unacceptable shit coming from the male with this composite chart. Lilith for a woman is her empowerment, Lilith for a man is his insecurity/shame where he showcases his bad and uncouth behaviors.

So put that together in a composite chart and you get two different povs in one relationship. If you guys share a friend group the male could behave in a socially unacceptable way to the female friends/ acquaintances of the girl in this composite. It’s nothing like cheating or flirting although it definitely could be..it’s more so of a back handed insult/unnecessarily blunt kind of energy coming off the male. It’s petty and the girls clap back. Your girl friends respectfully tolerate him..and not genuinely like him☠️

Lilith in the 11th composite can also mean you share friends that may face ridiculing by societies standards of sorts.. just for the way they are. Like having queer friends and friends apart of the LGBTQ with this composite, you may especially attract friends of that caliber while together regardless of if your a homo/hetro relationship or not. The female in this composite is more open hearted to taboos of life and people in general here with this aspect and that part of her is highlighted within this relationship, she feels like a safe space for these new people/friends. People with this placement in the natal chart would probably somewhat relate as well😭

Um on a more lighter note you two with you guy’s friend group might like to play horror games all together a lot. Or together you find yourself doing more riskier things with the friend group. The energy of a 11th house lilith natal, synastry and composite is such an iconic energy. Chaotic but ICONICC.

You like to get that thrill in with your friends while you two are together in a friendship and the friends love it/have invigorating fun doing activities with you two like games or maybe traveling somewhere because you as a pair just make things feel 10times more engaging. It’s addictive to see from the outside.

Lilith is a really raw and forward energy , she looks you deep in the core of your soul so Lilith in the 11th can mean you can get comfortable with your friendships/new acquaintances you make during this relationship fairly well and quickly. There may be more female/feminine friends than male.

The comfort is strangely natural and if the ruler of your Lilith/11th house is in an earth sign it can make the friends you guys make during this relationship almost long lasting even if the relationship itself is not more, long lasting especially for the girl.

As for you two as a couple with this placement there could also be ..some like online freaky stuff. Idk uhh, take that how you will BUT..YOU WILL absolutely have some kind of mixture between freaky and or taboo shit and the internet-webs. Like for example those horror games I mentioned bc Lilith rules the scary and banished stuff in society/generally speaking. So along side Pluto she’s definitely a horror gal. Mixing the internet (11th house) with a dash of thrilling horror/or taboo/freak stuff(Lilith).

This Lilith could also mean you guys are unafraid of breaking social/societal norms while together. It’s practically unconscious how easily you guys naturally fall into this dynamic. Like for example the girl is more calm one and the guy is more emotional one and you two will feel shamelessly about it. Or you guys are quite literally gay like either two gay boys two lesbian girls already lol. Regardless something is gonna be different and particularly unique within this relationship. It’s kind of like you are you and I am me and I respect you in your nature bc we’re weird in a way that compliments the other.

Could also indicate you guys never really had a friendship phase. Like from the jump.. just been absolutely..shamelessly freaky and open about how you feel with each other. The girl/more feminine energy in this dynamic could be a little restrictive(in a more hetro dynamic) but that’s not stopping the thrill at all..

Anyways I think that’s it. See yalsssis😘

[middlenamesage]

Thinking about how women, on the whole, have been more open to astrology in these modern times since it’s been shunned by science and religion. That unfortunately also works to the advantage of people who would like to keep astrology known as just a silly, dumb girl hobby.

But astrology has been around in all cultures since before all major religions. People have always sensed that we can look to the sky, containing the macrocosm outside this microcosm, for understanding.

I wonder what that says about women that they have been more open to believing in this connection we have with the cosmos (and nature) than men have been?

I think that merely on a physical level, womens’ bodies have a deeper connection with the cosmos. We have cycles that can sync with the Moon, and we are the sex that brings life from the spiritual to the physical realms, which is a very intimate encounter with sacred forces. Because our bodies are made for an even more intimate connection with nature and the cosmos, I think our minds evolved that way too. I think that on average, we have more developed intuition, and we are more concerned with nurturing life, so we can have a more developed interest and/or ability to see connections between life and natural phenomena.

Black Moon Lilith is still in nearly an exact conjunction with Venus retrograde in Leo, so female empowerment is the name of the game right now. 🖤 I know I’ve been having many thoughts the last few days relating to the natural powers that women have, so I wanted to share some as they relate to womens’ relationship with astrology.

Bask in your primal power today, lovelies!

[freebirthcharts1]

About Lilith in astrology

Prominent Lilith placements (so to me, that’s a hard aspect to any of your personal planets, especially the big 3. When researching I end up also taking trines and sextiles into account because Lilith is Lilith)

People with prominent Lilith placements tend to be either the worst person you’ve ever met or they are the best person you’ve ever met. They tend to have extreme character-qualities, bordering on mental illnesses. It can be either psychopathy (you see this with a lot of criminals, / gangsters). Schizophrenia (they can be delusional). Depression, borderline. Narcissistic personality disorder.

This might be a questionable statement but I think it is true, this is my experience and research. If you want an elaboration, I’m open to try to explain further ⬆️⬆️

It is so, that they have a lot of strength of character. They were raised in tough circumstances, maybe their dad was absent, their mom’s a drunk (or the other way around!), they learned how to take care of themselves. They can also be extremely caring and empathetic to others. Anyway they toughened through trauma, experienced hardship. They might turned out a little bit crazy and unhinged.

Through that hardship they also learned connecting spiritually to life. Maybe they are exceptionally gifted with animals (you see this a lot), they have profound intuition.

They are very artistic. Very creative. It’s to do with great creative ability. Maybe they can sing, maybe they can write music. They want to make it big, and they can. They are most likely to achieve greatness.

It’s interesting because it’s not considered a big influence in someone’s chart! In my opinion it is, or at least it’s the most interesting. I always, always look for someone’s Lilith. In fact, I research people’s charts TO research Lilith. I think it can do wonders!!

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[boring-brooklyn-babe]

Lilith in Taurus and Indulgence in Desires 🌚 ♉️

Taurus is all about pleasure, sensuality, and indulgence. And Lilith in Taurus is like a bottomless pit of desire. You want it all, and you want it now.

You’re the kind of people who will eat a whole pizza, then feel guilty about it, and then order another one. And you won't stop until you’re completely satisfied.

But it's not just about food. It's about everything. You want the best of everything, and you’re not afraid to go after it; You want the best sex, the best clothes, the best vacations. And if you don't get it, we can get pretty damn angry.

But you know what? There's nothing wrong with that. It's okay to want what you want, and it's okay to go after it with everything you've got.

So, if you've got Lilith in Taurus, embrace it. Enjoy the pleasures of life, and don't apologize for it. And if anyone gives you shit about it, just tell them to go order their own damn pizza. 

[esotericfaery]

Black Moon Lilith in Libra - June 29th, 2024 to March 27th, 2025

One on one interactions explode between the sexes, particularly in romance.

Indecision increases.

Radical views of femininity or against other traditional values crop up.

Maintaining close relationships of any type becomes difficult to, in some instances, impossible. Don’t allow diplomacy to be twisted into egotistical control.

Lilith in general is, despite popular belief, not a demon herself. She’s a form of the dark divine feminine who is for helping us to drive out demons, by stirring up shadows which need to be dispelled.

[astroismypassion]

Hiiii <3 I hope you are doing well ! If u won't mind can u explain lilith in the 7th house in a man's chart ? Thank you <333

Hello,

oh interesting!

LILITH IN THE 7TH HOUSE IN A MAN'S CHART

could go in extremes in the matters of legal contracts, law, equality, fairness, marriage

might act controlling towards their romantic partner

could also often rebel in a partnership, like they like to go their own way just to prove that they are in charge of themselves

they might not be as romantic and see romance as awkward

they might also try to control actions of other people due to not feeling comfortable when others are in charge of them

@astroismypassion

[thelucidlabyrinth]

Lilith in Astrology Through the Signs and Houses

Lilith has gained significant attention in the field of astrology, captivating enthusiasts and practitioners alike. Often referred to as the “Dark Moon,” she represents a primal, untamed energy that resides within each individual. Not a physical celestial body like the Sun or Moon, Lilith is rather a hypothetical point in space. She symbolizes our deepest desires, hidden fears, and unexpressed…

[stellinaverse]

My past lives ( astrology)

Thing with my lilith

The birth chart assuming that I had several one night stands in my past life causing problems with relationships now. Why? I need to figure out happiness in other ways, and hating sex in this lifetime is often theme. (Needing it but doing it is painful)

Whenever I meet someone who is familiar to me or “soulmate” “other half” we are never complete. Long distance, trauma, “I give up” and etc. Thats def. karma

Strong desire to get back my other half. Taking a step to forget these people is a huge challenge for me. Because it's not about falling out of love, it's just giving up.

Had more check-ins, (stalking, social media likes), and “fake friend” states than text messages or calls, or eye-to-eye conversations from people crushing me. A guy faked being gay to stay close to me, a girl lied about having a crush, I helped her, turns out it's me.

I lost 3 friends this way. I'm tired of this.

[lilacstro]

Lilith in a man's chart

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Well, I do not really think that effects of planets and asteroids manifest drastically different for men and women, however, we can get flexible and talk about it from the gender's pov, and it can somewhat still be relevant for both

Lilith in our chart shows what society considers taboo, discarded, dark. Of course it is called black moon Lilith. You may find somewhat relating to the descriptions of it to your own sign too maybe, that is very possible. If we do not work with asteroids, I would see Neptune and Mars and a few other aspects and houses in both the genders chart equally when I do readings to see what toxic patterns, even in relationships is something that could be fallen for, but for some people, it is Neptune in a Man's chart and Mars in Women's and this again can again be explained if we think about the gender psychology, and this is not wrong at all.

Lilith can provide extra information in this context and can talk about things we are oppressed for or like to keep hidden out of shame, so that manifesting as desires, even in wanting that reflection in someone is nothing very surprising, after all we seek what we are and what we lack :) If we think about it through a gender lens, in a man's chart, Lilith can say about the kind of women he is attracted to but feels guilty about and it randomly hit my mind right now so I thought of making a post before I forget about it or get busier since I was not working today since its a weekend lmao. Anyways let us see.

I would like to add that lilith is quite a sensitive topic in my eyes and I do not like to say random things, so I would try to keep it like that :)

note: please please please consider aspects to other planets, and especially what sign those planets fall into :) especially look for challenging aspects, if it does not resonate, scroll past :)

Aries/1st: Attracted to women who embody Lilith’s qualities openly, challenging his self-image. These women might seem dangerous or too intense, confronting him directly with his own desires. Attracted to bold, independent, and assertive women who challenge him. He might feel conflicted about his attraction to a woman who is so self-sufficient and probably more capable than him, gives me "i like mommy kinda older dominating women vibes" because of whatever reasons that maybe.

Taurus/2nd: Drawn to women who represent sensuality and security, yet he may feel guilty about his attraction to materialistic or possessive traits. Drawn to women who embody sensuality and groundedness. He may feel a mix of desire and guilt for being attracted to someone who prioritizes physical pleasure and comfort. There can also be liking for women who may like physical, material things that people would say is "too materialistic" or "a gold digger" or maybe in the opposite, "someone who would spend on me, spoil me with things"

Gemini/3rd: Fascinated by witty, intelligent, and unpredictable women. The duality in her nature may intrigue yet overwhelm him. He may like someone who is mentally stimulating, somewhat the vibes of someone who keeps on creating some kind of activity or I may say drama, especially mental and emotional that keeps things going and so that the "fire does not go out" or "the relationship does not get too boring" and I am telling you this is a real thing for many people.

Cancer/4th: Attracted to nurturing, emotionally intense women. He might struggle with his desire for someone who is so emotionally deep and protective. But the reason to feel ashamed could rather be feeling that this challenges his masculinity, he may feel afraid that I crumble in for someone like that, I hope I am able to speak clearly. He may even like someone "who would look after him like his mother" or something like that. Attracted to nurturing, private women who remind him of home or maternal figures. His attraction could feel too close to comfort, stirring up childhood issues or familial expectations, probably even someone his mom or family would not approve of, something that would need to be private.

Leo/5th: Drawn to charismatic, confident, and maybe "attention-seeking: women. His attraction could be tinged with discomfort over her need for the spotlight. Again some kind of drama vibes going on here, he may also like to be like "I want the baddest bish kinda women"/ "i want people to find her cool more than me" as if she brings him validation from other people for whatever reason, a show off in some ways and that indeed is yeah not something you can say normally lmao but that is another thing that you probably cannot handle that once you get someone like that. He may feel guilty about being attracted to someone so focused on pleasure and self-expression.

Virgo/6th: Fascinated by women who are meticulous, intellectual, and somewhat reserved. He might wrestle with his attraction to someone "who is smarter than him", "more capable than him" or "someone who does not talk at all to any man in the town because she has other better things to do", "someone who knows what do and when, a problem solver"

Libra/7th: Attracted to elegant, charming, and socially graceful women. I would say there could be things as coming off as superficial or something because the attraction could largely be looks based and how much other people find you attractive, taking proud in "i want the girl everyone wants" " a girl out of everyone's league". There could also be thoughts like "i want a girl who has some kind of fame or status" This also makes me feel like wanting someone who plays hard to get, liking the chase.

Scorpio/8th: Drawn to intense, mysterious, and powerful women. His attraction may feel taboo or overwhelming due to her depth and potential for manipulation. Something like I want someone who I put through hell but does not leave, that is how I would know she is the one. I want someone who probably can validate my shadows, someone who is so sexy, alluring, someone people have their eyes set on but cannot dare to approach because of how scary and overwhelming it is. Drawn to women who are intense, sexual, and transformative. His attraction might feel forbidden or dangerous, tied to deep psychological fears and desires.

Sagittarius/9th: Fascinated by adventurous, free-spirited, and philosophical women. He might feel uneasy about her need for independence and love of exploration. Someone who probably is open for trying new things, going to most unethical, questionable places and do crazy fun things, it might be super awful to say and I do not agree w this at all but i cannot find better ways to put it so Id say someone who has some kind of a questionable character in some ways, but wanting that fun and wildness unleashed together. He might feel uneasy about being drawn to someone so free-spirited and broad-minded.

Capricorn/10th: Attracted to ambitious, authoritative women who focus on their career or public image. His desire might be mixed with discomfort over her focus on success and authority. He may actually be someone who likes being under control, someone who can tell him what to do, direct his moves so he does not have to do anything, maybe avoid accountability, one other thing I can say is "someone who would earn more than me", "someone who would provide for me". His attraction might conflict with traditional ideas about gender roles or power dynamics.

Aquarius/11th: Drawn to unconventional and detached women. He may feel conflicted about his attraction to someone so rebellious and independent and someone who society kind of already finds eccentric in some ways, someone kind of outrageous, someone who actually has guts and discards societal values and goes against them, going for someone who is probably called crazy or kind of an outcast by people, different than everyone else all together, some unique internal and external appearance. wanting to make someone non committal, committal etc.

Pisces/12th: Someone who rather submits to him. Someone who is probably very spiritual or religious, gives me the vibes of "ah I wish I had someone who I had total control on" "someone who I would save from the bad guys" .Fascinated by women who are elusive, spiritual, or tied to secrecy. His attraction could feel like a deep, hidden longing, connected to his subconscious fears and desires.

i love you all<3

xoxo

[yrotic11]

Lilith in 6th house in the solar return chart can Indicate your pet might die/face very serious health complications that year. 😞i unfortunately know this aspect from experience rip bubby🫧🥀.