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I'm here! *kicks in the door to give you love and affection...but also selfship questions*
You and Ume are going to an amusement park (or a botanical garden if you don't like them!) What's your date like?
If you were gonna give each other flowers what kind would they be?
And since you like astronomy, if you could, what star, constellation, or celestial body would you give each other? It could just be one that reminds you of him or one with a story you think he'd like or just that that galaxy/star in particular is pretty...and which ones he'd give to you too! Unless that's too weird of an ask then don't mind that one!
Also which one of you is the type to put their cold feet/hands on the other?
mari >: the astronomy one means so much to me. i was literally posting pics of telescope stuff from last spring on my insta again yesterday:’)
ok so we know i don’t wear my glasses! i can’t see the stars but i know where they should be. i can only do that because sirius exists!! it’s the brightest star in the sky so if i can see that one, ill know where everything else is. sooo i always need to seek out sirius first <:
ume knows i always point him to that one first whenever we go stargazing !! i finally told him that sirius is part of the canis major constellation, and i told him if he was a constellation, he’d be that one! they’re similar in the way i call him a puppy & also . he’s the biggest star in my lil world :^) sirius is also blue it just fits him so well also i would seek him out if i ever lost my way in a crowded setting !!! i recognize everyone just from silhouettes so i can spot him even from miles away hehehe
so.. i told him that and he pointed to the one next to it and asked what that one was. and yk what it was :O? there’s canis major (BIG DOGGIE) as well as canis minor (MINI DOGGIE). he started laughing n said ‘then naturally— that one’s you, huh?”
hehe so our constellations are right beside each other yayy !!! he’s the big dog and im the lil one right there (:
as for the amusement park, aaaaa!!!! WE GO ON ALL THE RIDES. he spun the teacup ride too fast and i got motion sickness and had to sit down. he also jumpscared me at the top of the ride that plummets straight down. WE SAMPLED SO MANY FOODS !! AND THEN FELT SICK !!!!
flowers ): i need to ponder more on this one. flowers mean very much to me ^ ^ <333
i run super warm !! i think im usually hot, however however, he does the thing. where he snakes a hang underneath my hoodie to put his whole palm on my stomach ?? he does it as soon as he puts ice in our water bottles and i ALWAYS TRY AND RUN BUT HE IS FAST ?!?!!
#umie!#🤍 from: mari !#🦢— mail !#i think about the astronomy one so much#like not even selfship just in general#that specific question is something i’ve thought about for literally years msmsmsmsn#i love star gazing so much#sometimes i do wear glasses#but usually not !!!#aaaa i love ume ):#aaa ):#mari ):
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I feel like I should say since there's been a recent uptick in a lot of communities I'm in/see stuff from a lot of white people pretending to be Asian, but you are not welcome here if you are in anyway stealing from Asian cultures for clout or the aesthetics of it
This includes if you're white and you give your self inserts Asian names, I truly do not care if your f/o is from an anime, you should not be using an Asian name under any circumstances. I hate that whenever I see someone using an Asian name online, I feel like I have to start searching their account to see if they're actually Asian or just a white person who likes the aesthetic of it bcs far too many white people will use Asian names here just bcs it sounds cool, with no regard for the actual cultural meaning behind it. Meanwhile actual Asian people will be mocked for their names, or treated like their names are too hard to learn to pronounce, or discriminated against based on their names
Asian cultures are not a fun little costume for people to dress up with. They aren't just a nice aesthetic, they aren't just a thing you can borrow from bcs you think it sounds cool
#my posts#selfship community#anti asian racism#like it's definitely a perpetual problem of white people not seeming to realize asian names are like#a thing that are tied to culture and identity#but it's gotten crazy lately with people pretending to be asian online for clout#just in the past like 3 weeks of things i've seen#we had the white woman pretending to be a japanese woman on comic twitter#the white woman who pretended to be korean to get a 'ownvoices' book published#(who btw. named herself kim chi. you cannot make this shit up)#and then the white guy pretending to be japanese to try to justify his hate of the new assassin's creed game using stuff around yasuke#like it's so draining. i hate how much this is a never ending problem#i hate how casually white people will use asian names#like worstie. i am a korean woman. but i am whitepassing and mixed so i never use korean names for my self inserts#bcs i have the privilege of looking white and people generally only knowing i'm asian if i say it#it feels inappropriate to me for me to name my self inserts a korean name#bcs that would then mean they experience the world in a different way than i do#even being whitepassing bcs of the way people treat korean (and other asian) names#if you are white you have no fucking right to asian names#idgaf if your f/o's an anime character. stay away from asian names bcs they are not yours to dress up in#vent a little bit sorry team#i've been dealing with white people doing this shit and being assholes to me about it for well over a year now. it's exhausting
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Not some guy I follow for villain f/o imagine starting to rb Gh.oap content..... I truly can't win 😮💨
#Your girl has like two “real” NOTPs#And they're both the most popular ship in the fandom (real hell)#But it's even worse when it's THIS one because it's for selfship reasons 😔#And for the record both the ship tag AND the general fandom tag are blocked#So I know how to filter my space okay I'm just silly and mad 😭
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Hadina thought I had
Hades: bitch are you depressed??
Rina: no!
Hades: *lifts a brow*
Rina: ……yes
Hades: come give your big blue boy a hug snoppy boopy bear
They kiss the end 💪🐺
#HELP IVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT THIS ALL DAYY#Disney hades#self ship#Disney self ship#disney f/o#Disney oc#oc x canon#💙hadina⭐️#🖇random things they’d definitely say tbh‼️#🖇pumpkinzz bs selfships💗#also I’m writing a fic this week because I’m depressed and no one likes me 🙈 /nsrs?? girl idk😭#SORRY IK IVE BEEN ACTING SO….passive?? I DONT MEAN TO IDJ#IM SO LONELY BRUH#I NEED PPL TO TALK TO ABOUT THEM BUT LIEK#AND NOT EVEN JUST THAT I WANT TO TALK IN GENERAL BUT NONE OF MY FRIENDS RESPOND#I NEED TO STOP VENTING IN THE HASHTAGS BRUH ITS SAD 💀💀😭
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no this is not an important topic BUT im curious. note: i forgot to put a "i literally don't care i just do whatever" option but. pick im bald for that i guess
#i'm very firm on my answer but im curious about the distribution tbh#trying to add nuance to the options but there's only so much i can think of#to elaborate on the polycule option it's like. i only want to see AxB when im an AxC fan if it's AxBxC at the same time#as opposed to AxB separate from AxC or AxB and AxC at different points in a character's life or just A(C+B) but NOT BxC#(even though there are polycules that look like AxC+AxB but not BxC. ugh idk just vote with your gut explaining's hard)#anyway i've seen ppl who're bothered (/neutral) by seeing alt ships bc they a) have fictives involved b) kin a character involved or c)#selfship with a character involved so like. im curious is what im saying. bc im generally pretty insistent on my own multishipping#but i get the a b and c reasons for ppl being uncomfortable. i also get things like characters being married or smth. im starting to think#my options for this poll weren't amazing (again) but whatever
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no way... is that him??? live??? i can tbelive it
AWUEYEFVDCSGBFYB
I cant tell if you're joking or not but... yes!!! I haven't seen it in person, but I have seen someone's uploaded recording of the whole thing on YouTube, and it's actually pretty silly and not too bad! I can't remember if it's at Disney Land or Disney World, but it's neat. On an old blog I had, a screenshot from that video I saw I actually made the header to my blog! I was giggling cause Chick called him a McLoser, and while I don't think he's a loser, I was cracking up cause it sounded like a McDonalds item. I was pretty surprised to see they gave Chick some stuff in it though!
It was at his racing achedemy thing :) which is funny to me cause this is like the third time they've given him his own racing achedemy in some form and it's been completely different each time. And it's a Disney official thing so it's their actual voice actors I love it.. I need to rewatch it, I can't remember if Jackson shows up in it.. I think he gets a name mention at some point? It's based around Cars 3! And Cruz plays a pretty big roll in it as well, of course.
#i dont know if this was in any relation to my last post but this cheered my up like a bunch so thamk you#whether it was intentional or not#used this as an excuse to yap a bit#warms my heart so much when people see things like this and show me it. like???🤧🤧🤧 ough. dont even get me started#this was just so sweet to me in general to me thank you!! was nice being reminded of his little live appearence :'))#forgive me for any typos or broken sentences the hampster wheel in my brain is still powering up#Lightning❤️🧡💛#self ship#selfship#selfshipping#self shipping#spamtoon#there would probably be far more exclimation marks and caps if i was feeling more chipper haha!#am i not following you on that blog?? i dont think i am huh
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suddenly remembered that xeno femslash February is a thing (that might not be the exact name)
I was only able to make one thing for ship week last year - that being the writing where Citri meets Vanea after waking up as Face Nemesis’ pilot - but if I can find the prompt list then I would definitely like to try and make at least something
#it feels like it’s been too long since i actually created anything (in general - let alone that’s a selfship thing)#I do have a couple of ideas for things but I just. haven’t ended up making a start on any of them#or any*thing* lately really. but that miiight be connected to the whole “being off of medication’’ thing#which I also realise I never properly shared here so‚ ah.. if I’ve seemed different or not like myself recently then. that might be why!#heart of the void#I keep struggling with the constant feeling that I don’t need to be saying whatever I say or post#which is a slightly new version of the previous feeling unable to post#but is no less limiting#so I’m trying to post more things even if they feel unnecessary#but because everything feels unnecessary it’s more difficult for me to figure out what *actually* is or not#(case in point: all this rambling)
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HAPPY belated BIRTHDAY TO THE ONE AND ONLY EAGLEBONES FALCONHAWK!!!
if you saw this on instagram NO YOU DID NOT BWJAJSHS
Taglist: @scaramutual @sentimentalstarlight @i-put-the-wit-in-dimwit @scientistkerberos @arsene-fixates
#PSA FOR ANY NON SELFSHIP AQUABATS FANS THAT SEE THIS: IF YOU WOULD NOT LIKE TO SEE IT PLEASE JUST BLOCK MY BONES TAG:#bonesy 🦅#OR MY GENERAL AQUABATS TAG:#AQB Lets Go! 🩵#OR EVEN MY AQUACADET TAG:#s/i: Ace the vampire
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getting an iced pumpkin chai in the morning and then my personal goal is to spend the whole day writing and i hope i can come back to this post tomorrow and rb w how much progress i’ve made!!!
#i have a love/hate relationship w this fic and i’m gonna rant to myself bc hehe it’s almost midnight so why not :>#okay SO. i for some reason just didn’t create any proper outline for this story and i think that’s why it’s taken me so long to write it#because i don’t necessarily have a why/a REASON for this story or plot… like even thinking abt doing the dialogue and trying to find flow +#cohesion is making me so 😐 and also honestly… i’m terrible at doing drafts in the first place#i don’t write linearly i jump all over the place while writing and SOMETIMES i can connect things but this time i could NOT#and i would focus on one tiny part for SO long and make no progress anywhere else like GIRL……… ENOUGH#but hmmmm yeah i also for some reason feel like esp w my writing it’s super robotic and doesn’t have emotion#like i’m not writing w suguru’s voice and instead i’m writing as the author and it’s kinda irking me#if that makes sense… hmmmm……….. also i might be doing dual pov so hopefully it doesn’t look too wonky#but yeah 😭 i need to work on scene setting & describing things effectively + doing show not tell#like i just made a mini outline rn and wow . it’s Not it at all 😭😭😭 there’s no WHY to the story and it’s making it hard to write#okay not necessarily a ‘why’ but like . What’s The Point of the story#sigh. i need to figure that out#also there’s so much stuff i want to add but i feel like it’ll be clunky + it’ll move fast or be weird#but my goal for tomorrow is truly and honestly write the meat and bones of it and then i can edit ruthlessly later on#i was thinking of getting it out this week but i forgot election week/don’t have anything really written either 😭#but hopefully next week if i try hard enough! the goal is before december bc i want this to be a november fic#but yeah that’s my mini vent @ me i’m glad to just talk abt in the tags#feels like for this story specifically it’s been a lot of looking at my docs instead of writing which is WHACK 🤨#also i don’t like my writing style + i want to write better in GENERAL#that’ll come w practice & doing it often though 😭#ALSO . SIDENOTE but why does tumblr not let me link things anymore like NDNDNDND SO STUPID#OOOOH AND . i need to start/finish selfship moodboards & also create wip lists for geto/gojo/toji but for REAL#as in wipe i’ll actually plan to write next not just ones i like the sound of 😭#ANYWAYS I’M SO SLEEBY……… honk shoo mimimi cult leader geto please pat my head to sleep and be kind to me#GIRL THIS IS LONG AS HELL OMFG . silence @ me 🤫 what a YAPPER#personal
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Me, begining Selfshiptober: I'm going to do Selfshiptober! It doesn't matter how long it is, just as long as I can finish it within the day! I'm already backlogged on fics, and I need to get back into the rhythm!
Me, during Selfshiptober: Is stuck in a brainfog and is now so far behind that it's day 11, and I have only 3 stories up so far Fuck my life man.
#toadscreech#doesnt help that the ones i have written#arent getting much if any attention#because ive only reblogged day 1#and i want to do a massive revlog once they're all done#but in general i dont feel like my selfship fics get much attention#i dont know#i feel like all my selfship stuff doesnt get much attention#and when they do#it feels like people rescind the attention#it happened when j did my stimboards#i dont know man#im tired of vying for attention from the selfship community#and i get some from some of my selfship moots#but even thats every so often#am i not putting myself out there enough?#its almost 12 am#i need to go to bed#toadvent#sorry for the tag vent#im just struggling mentally and j cant really do anything for it at the moment#so just ignore this
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one day ill be annoying ab my selfship again . although i enjoy that ppl enjoy my writing most of this is entirely self indulgent, projection, and for me . being so real .
#wispy chatters#i will never write inbox requests ever again ( /j... but only maybe executive dysfunction hits. )#( i dont know what to rlly write or hc w steven anymore and im in that weird kind of clingy to my interp era where like.#nobody seems to characterize steven right and i feel like im the only one but i dont wanna be a dick but most of its self indulgent so#ill keep it to myself. )#also bc i think i like. already put out all of the imporant steven hcs anyways LOL#ALSO also because ive been busy writing and rping selfship stuff w my friend involving steven instead of writing proper. which#preferable. this was mostly a side hobby to explode all of my hcs onto while i was struggling mentally#and had jack shit else to do.#sorry that i ramble a lot. no im not. this is my fucking blog . But yea#ive also been kind of negative or like. able to be interpreted as negative recently. which. yea kind of#lot of things and interpretations i do not fucking like in this fandom esp ab steven i just keep it to myself.#i just dont like fandom in general esp fanon and steven is such a fanonized character. which. yea he doesnt have much to work with#but hes got enough. idk#life goes on and all . maybe ill make a selfship blog... ill probably snag the url and then never use it.#im talking like im quitting the blog . i do that a lot. im not i just always do whatever i like even if i have 500 unanswered asks.#was easier to focus on writing any char i could in my depression era#its a little sad to see writing and hc posts and im like... i could get in on that. people totally think im a dead blog.#but idk what to add all of the main steven stuff has been squoze outta me.#not entirely but i put my full 100% steven into my self indulgent embarassing thoughts.#buuut yea thats kinda whats been. going on w me ig? Not really? fuck if i know
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sometimes i think the reason i am unable to talk about my self inserts or selfships is because of an ex friend from years ago. its always about their self insert and selfship (when we didnt know the term for it), it was always what would *their* f/o do... it was never on mine almost at all and if it was on mine it was always an afterthought or something. i genuinely never thought about anything of mine as vital. i mean yeah, i guess making it up as i went along was fun, writing silly stories and drawing silly art for my selfship was fun. but it just makes it so much more lonely than it should be
#yes i know i have to make the content and i have to be the one to talk about it#but i always get scared because i feel im just forever an afterthought to others#this isnt even with selfship just in general#this just bothered me a lot. it still haunts me and idk what to do#like what i talk about or say is so much less than what others are talking about or doing#so i never expect anything and when i do i get so surprised because wow?? you thought about me???#i think its worse BECAUSE i once asked that ex friend about a song rec for a s/i and it felt like i was asking the world of them :(#im so sorry on this vent everyone#its just something thats stuck with me and it really has impacted me a lot :(#ashley talks
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I’m in a pretty good selfship server but it’s not 18+ so I’m not always comfortable posting there lmfao, if you find a good one that’s 18+ id love to join it !! (Ofc no pressure at all if you’re not comfortable posting about it lol)
worm worm!! i'll let you know!!!
#maybe id make one?#honestly even outside of selfship i just wanna join a new discord server#an active one#that is at least 16+#i really like talking to people LMAO#ive considered making a new server outside of the prairie thats more for general audiences rather than close friends#but idk#monnie answers
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i always think like oh my militaryboy sad tired man type is new all things considered and then i remember like. boone (been in love with him for 10+ years) giroro (kinnie love) rage (bf oc i got obsessed with) rythian (another kinnie love also for roughly 10 years) all of these pre-selfship days and imlike. Ok. Maybe not
#ithink i just think its new bc i only really noticed it after i started selfshipping bht it really has been. um#its been around.#even outside of selfship like just general favorite characters from things tend to be sad old men#like some of my fav videogame charas that i dont selfship w are like....cor.vo dishonored agent47 hitman.... ezio asscreed but only the old#version LIKE OKAYY like ojat. Like okay.#.txt
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🌈 for aqua!!
Hi George!! Thank you very much for sending this!!~
I will also be tagging @winds-beloved in this answer, because they happened to ask me the same question! So, thanks to you as well, Merlin!~
(source: this post by bewearships)
send me a 🌈 + one of my F/Os for my sexuality/gender headcanons for them! - ..Despite Aqua being one of my main romantic F/Os (and certainly who I would call the first F/O I "actively" selfshipped with, despite not knowing of the term at the time), I addmitedly don't have any particularly significant or stand-out headcanons for her! If I had to give you a concrete answer at this moment, I'd probably say that sexuality-wise she's a lesbian, while gender-wise she's cis but she has given it a lot of thought before settling on that conclusion.
I hope that this is alright! Thank you again for sending this ask in~
#a call from the void#heart of the void#selfshipping#love: wayfinding waters (aqua)#out of the inbox#selfship asks#george tag!#and also because they also sent the same ask:#merlin tag!#when i say ''significant'' headcanons I mean like.. the ones that mean a lot to me that i will very much defend#for example my headcanon of luna as an ace lesbian is one that i have had for a while and will probably always stick to#whereas for a lot of my headcanons they aren't particularly.. concrete? they're just the headcanons I have for that character at that time#and generally my only actual deciding factor any specific way for those will be seeing friends' headcanons and agreeing with them#but even then not all of my headcanons are exactly the same as my friends'! so it's all not actually very set-in-stone. sorry#all I can tell you is that all my romantic F/Os like girl(?)s because I ship them all with myself and I myself am a girl(?)#shoutout to whichever friend it was who first called me/aria a ''girl(?)''. you finally found a way for me to describe my gender. congrats#and now if you'll excuse me it's half past one in the morning and I can sense myself going on a *massive* tangent here if I'm not careful#so thank you kindly once again for the rainbow and goodnight#why is this the only time of night I can seem to be able to answer asks
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its kinda really funny when i see selfship posts about how my f/o loves me or most recently that he didnt really die. and like live your life if thats how you selfship then great! but like midori is not cooking me breakfast in the morning and he soo deserved to die when he did
#okay he probably would cook me breakfast but i wouldnt trust him enough to eat it#if i thought midori died only for it to be a dream and i woke up next to him id beat his head in#honestly very sad that so many selfship imagines feel so... generic to me? they never fit the complicated relationship i have#even my like regular romantic f/os like chiaki or yuri it just still doesnt fit#anyways i might rb an ask meme cause why not idk#midori my beloathed#klepto talks to himself#klepto selfships
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