#like in public or social platforms wtf.

[allegorism]

good for them.

[lowkeyrobin]

Platonic Ghostbusters x social media manager! Reader?

oooo hell yeah!! ; thanks for requesting and I hope u enjoy :)

GHOSTBUSTERS ; social media manager

summary ; you run the official ghostbusters social media platforms

warnings ; language

word count ; 746

masterlist

Podcast wanted to run the official Ghostbuster social media's but was quickly turned down at that. They needed someone who could actually be on top of that kind of stuff and whatnot. So, Stanz made a deal with Podcast that they'd get a social media manager, and he could act as their teammate with that, basically. Giving them ideas, giving them video clips and extra details, etcetera.

Most of the others didn't see a real reason for a social media manager, but as long as it wasn't their money.

Trevor offered to just do everything himself, but that was obviously turned down as well. The teens all agreed not to let the adults run the account either. They didn't need millennial - Gen X / Boomer humor flooding the whole account and making them look bad.

And that's where you came in.

surprisingly, Pheobe was the one to find you. she's seriously the most chronically offline person ever so the fact she ever opened Instagram was a miracle in itself

lots of talking back and forth and meeting the original four three ghostbusters to get input, then meeting callie & garry and the teenagers

you actually figured out that you used to be friends with Lucky as well, damn

you had managed social media accounts before, but you'd recently quit a few of those because of labor laws being broken so, yknow

you quickly formed a bond with Lucky, Trevor, and Podcast. you were kind of close in age to all three of them and they were all invested in the public image for the brand

setting the Instagram up was genuinely the funnest thing ever

the four of you were chilling in the living room in the firehouse (since sleepover stuff, pheobe was in her room reading) and you had your laptop in your lap and the three of them over your shoulders

the amount of laughing and cackling got some scolding from callie upstairs

it took everything out of you to not make the first post a video of trevor being soaked in Slimer's slime (which had been recorded by Lucky just by coincidence as they were investigating the attic again)

the first three posts, which were pinned, all lined up to be like a banner kind of logo with the theme song in the back, and they all played the same video, clips of the og ghostbusters and how they grew and then the new ghostbusters

the tiktok is its own thing, you allowed trev, lucky, podcast (and pheobe) to run it, but everything had to be ran by you first because pr shit

but thankfully no boomer humor or slang is ever being put on those accounts

most of those people don't even know wtf the internet is anyways lol

stanz has a personal vendetta against you /hj after you posted a .5 of him for relatable promo. he had no idea what you were doing but it was criminal that you made his forehead look so much more bigger than it already was

Winston gives you a bunch of old pics to post to trending angst sounds as well LOL

let's not talk about that tiktok where you, lucky, and trevor dance to/remake submissive and breedable by smosh ft bbno$, okay?

^podcast and pheobe were behind the camera cackling the whole time

lots of random pic posts on the insta as well because why not (most of them are the teens looking awkward, callie, gary & lars trying to look like cool scientists, or venkman, stanz, zeddemore & melnitz being classic, sassy old people)

the socials are never professional whatsoever, it's fun but it's not heavily controversial or obvious that you're there as a pr manager basically or just to manage the socials

like man they don't have the time to look at all the comments, take all the advice, reply to fans, etc

I mean that wage ain't that bad either LMAO

trevor is always bitching about how you make more money than he does /lh

you're not just a representative to them, you're actually family. you're just cool like that

"bro y/n is such a mc I hate them" and you'll reply on your personal w a "says you, reality shifter" or smthn LMAO idfk

always reposting ghostbuster edits / fanart etc because fandom culture 🙏

also I can't get over the fact the ghostbuster theme song is canon now either. yk damn well that shit is plastered everywhere thanks to you 💀

"do the ghostbusters respond??" "stanz said he loves your dog" "HELP HSEIJDLAKE"

10/10 experience

[somewhereincairparavel]

congrats on 400 follower event!!

as someone whos a jason grace stan i completely approve of the theme

my request would be warrior- about jason grace experiencing tiktok for the first time :)

Pjo social media au - Jason Grace edition!

PS I made it instagram instead because I don't use tiktok! I might even make a part two of this omg this was fun. I wanted to add videos like I did in the second one (with Percy and jason dancing ) but it wasn't supported by Tumblr so i added the Pinterest links to the first and last video of the face claims of jason dancing, just pretend like he posted it and check the video links out, they're super cute and so jason coded.

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➥blondepeterpan. anytime, don't ever feel replaced, bc you are always wanted, esp by me :)

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➥Italian.ghost.boy from one gay boy to another leo, I can confirm that jason is currently giggling and kicking his feet and is rethinking if he's actually straight or not after looking at your comment while simultaneously trying to convince himself that you are just a friend because he thinks you are too good for him :)

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➥blondepeterpan. wait. what boyfriend, I don't have a boyfriend.

➥blondepeterpan. Annabeth. What were you implying.

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[th3-c0ll3ct3r]

The sheer audacity of Ava Kris Tyson

The sheer selfishness. Stupidity. Entitled. The Wtf factor.

They're are 2 huge takeaway from this situation that I'll address and be as fair as possible.

1. The underage/pedophile situation

Diabolical. Absolutely diabolical. Underage texting should not be tolerated and the worst thing is that them deleted all tweets that could "be used against them". Is genuinely disturbing, that they were able to get away with this for THAT LONG

And it's clear the the legal system is not going their jobs of oh my goodness it was all public information, and yet it took about 5-10 years of them being around people the same age/younger for people to know.

I was and still am a fan of Mr Beast, because he has done NOTHING WRONG. He was not the one texting minor, engaging with them, so on and so on. Mr. Beast is an INCREDIBLE person and should not be dragged down by the mistake of another even if they're friends/co-worker.

But I can assure you that the trust that he and many other must have had in Ava Kris Tyson is gone.

Obviously theirs a clear difference between liking post and doing the messaging/interacting and they've done both.

It's an upset to the fans, his younger audience, ALL participants, Mr Beast crew, Mr Beast himself and his (now ex) wife as well as their CHILD

This should be yet another testament to the fact that both minors/people of the Internet are not being well protected by the social media platform they're using and it shows. It also shows the lack of actual action from.. Oh ya know... THE FUCKING POLICE, like in the UK (where I'm from) if they know about something, even just a little bit, you're on a list. No questions asked. They'll come to your home, take your information and you may be on a list until they catch the person.

I don't know what the policing is like in America but it doesn't look good.

Overall. Bad situation.

2. Transgender rights.

In the words of many (and accurately) they just set the community back 10 years. They're JK Rowling's wet dream. They're every conservative example A argument when it comes to trans rights. The absolute SELFISHNESS of this individual is jaw-dropping.

They've now set the president of "trans people could be pedophile" in the worst way possible. And what makes it worse is that the media tends to use key identificating factors, such as "black individual" or "British person".

So on every headline about Ava Kris Tyson it will all point finger to transgendered people. Sparking more debates about there rights.

I am fearfully for the Americans because Trumps presidential landslide is going to come due to recent situations and I will not be surprised if you use this as example a b c d e f n g as to why transgender people shouldn't have right. Why LGBTQIA+ people are criminals.

It's horrible. Humiliating.

And to be clear you can be upset about BOTH THINGS

A person being upset about the damage to transgendered rights is not saying that pedophile is good, because that's a whole new sentence. A whole new thing. A whole new post. A whole new argument.

But to conclude. Don't message or ask for nudes online EVER especially if you don't know the person. And do not let the actions of another take you down.

Edit: grammar/spelling (hopefully fixed lol) plus now fuck Mr. Beast, my guy just doomed all the charities he's helped.

[miraitenshi]

If you're comfortable sharing, what kind of things have people said to you when you've worn jirai kei in public?

The only reactions I've gotten have been from guys, some teen boys were jokingly flirting with me and my friend (like "Hey you're sexy, wanna go out?" while snickering in a way that made it obvious they were mocking us)

And then I had one guy ask if I wore my shoes to look taller (I'm 156 cm but wear chunky platforms)

I'm sure you look lovely though and I hope you don't let anyone bring you down! They just have nothing better to do than criticise strangers

Sending you lots of love 💞

Bad experience wearing Jirai

Firstly thank you for being so sweet💗

To answer the question I’ve had a lot of bad experiences but one of the worst would be from last year which really made me not wear Jirai out cuz I’m so traumatised.

But basically I was just minding my business going to my uni lecture and there was a group of guys just outside the class staring at me. I have bad anxiety so I already knew they were gonna come up to me and they did. I had earphones in and one of them started talking so I took it out and asked what he said and he was just saying that I look really innocent and like a child. I said wtf cuz he was being really creepy and coming so close to me. During the lecture he sat next to me and kept whispering in my ear and saying he loves innocent girls and he could easily do anything to me.

I got so scared I literally was gunna have a panic attack so I left the class so fast when it ended and he started running after me asking me for my name and if I can add his socials. I literally ran so fast while having a panic attack. I ran all the way to my dorm and I didn’t go to any classes for a week or two and emailed my teachers about what happened.

The thing is this dude has been doing this to me for a few months. But at first he would complement me but then he started just sexualising me and saying creepy stuff and his friends would make fun of me saying I have a good body but ugly face and I look so childish not like other girls in my class. Saying things about my body and appearance in general just made me feel so fucking insecure and I haven’t been the same since that happened tbh.

I just decided to stop wearing Jirai out and I sold all my clothes and things because it affected me a lot. I still dress very cute and soft I try to incorporate as much Jirai into my fashion without fully dressing up like I used to. I’ve been heavily bullied in highschool too for wearing it. Just a lot of things happening that made me decide.

Aaaaaaaa I wrote so much idk if you’re gunna even read this or if anyone cares but yeh. I have so many stories of ppl harassing me and shit but we would be hear for years lol

I still encourage everyone to dress how you want and not let other people get to you. I hope one day I can get back into it. Rn I just don’t have any money to buy anything but food so it’s a bit of a struggle.

[hypergamiss]

so i was talking to this guy i met on a dating app (my friends were like go for it you’ve never been on a date) and we were talking for like 4 weeks we both have very busy schedules. yesterday he asks if im free on sunday so we can finally meet. i tell him yes, ask him for the details of the date. then i ask him to pick me up since he has a car and he says it’ll be a long drive for him and that he could pick me up from the train station. (but the restaurant is like a 15 min walk from there which to me is unnecessary) and that i probably won’t feel comfortable dressing up nice to get on the train, so i should wear something casual and should tell him if that works for me. i tell him i don’t want to get onto public transport and ask if he could get me a ride (thinking this won’t be a problem at all since the guy works everyday all day a 30 dollar uber won’t be nothing😭) and so then he says ‘hmm never mind lol’ and so im a lil surprised because i’ve voiced the fact that 1 i don’t have a car and the train journey will be over an hour and is quicker by car. 2 i wanted to look good for our date so why is he asking me to dress casual?? 3 why is the uber suddenly off putting like i asked him to pay my rent lol wtf (also please bare in mind that i’m a 20 year old student and he’s a 28 and works full time) do u think was i asking for too much? wasn’t really fond of him but id like to know for future reference.

I don’t think that you are asking for too much at all. Knowing that you were communicating with him from a dating app already indicates(to me) that he’s a low effort type of man. I know some people have success with dating apps, but the vast majority of men on there are there because they can easily talk to(a lot of) women that they would never have the courage to approach in real life. Think about it like this: why would he go out of his way to send you an Uber if all he had to do to talk to you was swipe his phone screen? Imagine if he saw you in person one day and he was a nervous wreck thinking when would be the right time to approach you and get your phone number or social media? He replayed the scenario multiple times in his head until he finally made the bold move to come up to you and say something that would be perfect to break the ice. He went through ALL OF THAT, just to tell you “hmm never mind lol.” I highly doubt that if he did all of that, he would not send you an Uber. Instead, he would be thinking to himself that he went through a stressful emotional roller coaster to get your attention and that he didn’t do all that work for NOTHING. So that $30 Uber? He’ll be thinking that’s nothing to him and make it a luxury vehicle while he’s at it.

Again, I am not discrediting those who have success with dating apps. I’m simply giving you my perspective on why I believe MOST of the men on those platforms are not serious. I do not think you did anything wrong or absurd on your part, and any man who asks you to lower your standards (especially when you’re being perfectly reasonable) is not worth entertaining.

[spiritunwilling]

ok pause the mitski. theres lots of examples of bad internet apologies. ppl are still making ukelele jokes. or that one brunette girl who cried. and that other person (maybe same person?) who monetized hers? and on one hand yeah these examples r rlly insensitive and revealing of how the creators behind them didnt gaf abt the harm they did but its also like well what if they did a good apology. what then.

bc like the other thing i remember from that youtube era were these 'body language experts' who would take these videos and zoom in on, like, dilation of eyeballs or hand placement or whatever the fuck psuedoscience they thought sounded cool and smart and go "oh yeah see this here. she's insincere because her frown was 0.5 inches too shallow. if she really felt bad she would frown deeper". (on a lower note they did this 2 amber heard too). and overall everything just gave the impression that. like. if someone said the same thing but hit all the correct social cues, they would be able to do it right. even though that's just about understanding and hitting social cues, which doesn't have anything to do with sincerity or willingness to own up to harm and change.

[sidenote dude in minecraft (which i am playing intermittently between typing this) i just found like three different diamond veins in like a <20 block radius at y=0 wtf is going on]

i mean like i guess when i say all public apologies are inherently performative i dont mean that everyone who issues one is a sick and twisted master manipulator or that everyone who issues one isn't actually sincere. like. srry man thats just how it goes. everythings a play when you're on a stage platform. but idk. the way that creators then go about with that performance. as well as the way the public receives those statements. is interesting to think about. as well as i guess. what both parties are actually looking for, what they really want. out of these kinds of things.

[graciebaberams]

What do you think of the Brittany Mahomes thing 💀 obviously we don’t stan her and she’s not representative of Taylor, but as a poc fan it does make me feel icky seeing Taylor hang out with her as recently as TODAY when this has been viral for the past few days and brit’s response yesterday was “ppl hate you when you’re successful.” I just! I love Taylor so much but what does that say about you when you welcome these people into your inner circle and embrace them and have no doubt given them more exposure and clout? 💔 It also reminds me of when she trav brit and patrick went out to dinner in Amsterdam w another chiefs couple who are MEGA public trumpies, ppl tried pulling the “u need to be civil with work friends” card (which I already side eyed as you don’t fly across the world for a show and dinner of someone ur not friends with) but now knowing basically the whole group are racist asses makes me wonder wtf is going on??? Does she truly not care anymore like I’m sick. Oh but all the poc ppl talking about it across platforms are ofc being called Vipers in empath’s clothing jfc

Tbh, and @heystephen has said it well many times, but Taylor after being massively cancelled sees a lot of valid criticisms and callouts as the same or similar type of harassment that she received. She is the type of person who does not listen to others and has to find things out for herself. As a black person, yeah it’s deeply upsetting to me that she continues to associate herself with such people, but at the end of the day, what can I do about it? I can educate others, pass resources and information on, and do MY part to be active in my community, but she is accountable for what (and who) she associates with both publicly and privately, and that is not my problem.

I’d love for Taylor to be more publicly socially aware, but the more people ask her to do things, the less she seemingly wants to do them. Pushing her does not work, and my influence is very minuscule (to her), so I try not to expend my energy on it. If that makes sense. I appreciate your everything you’re saying.

[cyarsk5230]

nevergrowup-tv 

37m ago

Ranking things people and brands have done in regards to Taylor/Travis from "weird and please don't do that again" to "this is creepy and dehumanizing":

anyone who is planning their wedding or otherwise saying they are meant to be together forever (including digging up the fact that Travis and Marjorie Finlay share the same birthday - wtf)

journalists who keep asking Travis' teammates (and coaches and other NFL players and so on) about Taylor instead of about their job

NBC using Taylor songs without permission to promote games/commentary on football

people taking pictures of them at private events without consent

football fans being generally misogynistic and saying Taylor is ruining football

swifties flocking to Travis' comments on all social media platforms calling him their new dad or otherwise weirdly commenting on the fact that he's dating Taylor

swifties flocking to JASON's comments and doing more or less the same thing

brands like Heinz jumping into the seemingly ranch joke and actually selling products inspired by the joke

that friendship bracelet thing that the stadium or NFL or whoever decided to do

treating Taylor like a commodity for a sports team to make money and get publicity (see: Mark Cuban)

[thatiswhy]

#when you reblog a relatable post and the op is shocked. Shocked! that anyone would reblog a post on the tungle #’it was a personal post!’ bitch that’s what we’re all here for #i deleted obviously but like wtf? if you want no reblogs TAG THE FUCKING POST ‘don’t reblog’ it’s not hard #yeah i’m still shirty months later! i don’t appreciate being put in the wrong with a backhand shove out of nowhere #i do not reblog posts that feel THAT personal to be clear #it was a normal fucking level of personal #rrr

YES!!! Also "why are you adding to my post" I'm not talking to you. I'm doing standup monodrama in my literal bathroom for an imagined audience of myself, my favourite little dude living in my head rent free, and whichever two to five mutuals are most arsed in that time period to actually read through my shit, informed by a delicate mixture of my general state of being, major world events, and the last few posts I saw. The exact same thing you were doing, on this here microblogging platform with social features. If you want any interaction to be a separate thing, 1. you're on the wrong platform, 2. make the post/blog private and just 3. don't look at your notes. If you published it, publicly, on a public platform, it's now public. I'm sure your wittily worded threeliner about buying cheese will be fine.

I love when people are like “I can’t believe you reblogged that despite their user name, icon, bio, and last twenty posts” bc to me my dash is the only part of this website and I’m not slowing down to look at urls you could all be the same person

[kinokoplum]

Kinoxiety Diary #3 ( a bit long)

Hey guys.

Yesterday I saw a story in Facebook that triggers my anxiety.

My ex’s story that said he will come for me and another story that shows like a picture of a Grim Reaper and said things about how I created him as a monster and that I’m scared of his dark side. It was really disturbing. In our years together, he didn’t really shown or do like a boyfriend at all. I lived with him in his parent’s house because I was new at the metro. All of my mental health problems started on that house. His parents talking shit about me. Him not a proper boyfriend and whenever I confronted him how he always play games with his friend or how he acted when his friends are around like I am not there or I am just a maid or a baby sitter for him.

Yes, I asked him to help me with my studies but that’s it. And he pointed that at me. Like wtf?

I left him cause I am full already with that mental abuse I took from his parents and from him. When we got a little fight he will make it big and even punch the wall. He won’t listen to me and I’ll be the one to give up and starts soothing him. That’s when I started not to talk to him that made me upset or he will get upset and starts to wreck havoc in the house.

It’s like I cannot move or think freely when I’m there. So when I moved out the house with all my courage I was really happy. Even though his parents stop talking to me and said that I am ungrateful and use them for money and all. Which is not. I cannot even eat freely the foods in there if they won’t say I can eat or him and his cousin are eating. I work hard to earn money and to afford living in an apartment. And they still talk bullshit about it.

When I met my boyfriend he was really kind and care so much for me. It was not hard not to fall in love with him. I know its wrong that I was talking with another guy while I’m in a relationship. So I kept it to myself until I got the courage to break up my ex.

My boyfriend (now) understands the situation that I don’t want to let our relationship out in the public.

But my ex stalked me in all my social platforms and saw the about me of my boyfriend.

My ex is so angry and threatened me that he will kill his self if I don’t follow his wishes. His one wish is to live with me in the apartment. He is trying to get me again.

It was a bad move from me but I was so scared. While he is in my apartment he kept threatening me with a knife on his hand and trying to slice his wrist. We had a fight about that. I tried to take away the knife and at one time the knife was pointing at me. But thanks God he stops. I was tired and exhausted. I can’t focus work. It’s like going back to that house that I cannot move freely. (It is already MY apartment.)

My boyfriend was so worried about me. He keeps the communication on and we are still video calling even if he is there. Every night we fight over a knife. When he wanted to talk with me and promise it will be a calm talk but later on he will be angry and threatening me again to kill his self.

My friend and my one of my co-workers are the two persons that knew about my situation. They told me to kick my ex out in my apartment. That they assure me everything will be fine and if he keeps insisting about it I can just call the police or the authority to report of this disturbing behavior.

So I did. It was peaceful until today again.

I didn’t block him yet because that was he wished. But now, my friend told me to really block him so that he can see me or disturb me again.

[tammyfeabakker]

Marketing is bullshit these days... To do this you must have social media accounts. Frankly I do not like social media. I got shit to do other then being on social media platforms. If you don't have the following your idea fails. It's bullshit. If you don't have many social media platforms you sink. I don't like social media because it pisses me off makes me cry happy sad wanna kill someone hug someone all in matter if 5 mins. I have a hard time getting through the shorts. Something always breaks my heart. I can't even be on here everyday because I got shit to do. I also think it's a ploy to keep us in the house while they collect data on us to use it against us. Not to mention data sells it's a trillion dollar market. It pisses me off the scamming phone calls from people that bought my data from someone else it's my fucking phone I pay the fucking bill. But everyone is making a profit off my data.its invasion my phone is not propaganda not advertisement. Not public . I talk on the phone talking to my kids propaganda shows up. That's talking a personal conversations is public domain now. Selling your soul without knowing it. Well if this is how it's going to be fuck this. To market my kids store I have to sell my soul so others can profit off my data fuck that! Job sights another scam. Put your data in for a job 17 phone calls from warranty people health care solar. They say don't put your info online like wtf the want ads in the paper don't exist anymore.

[your-villainous-neighbour]

Wait wtf????? I just saw that post about the social media ban? What?????? I didn't know anything about that?????? Have i missed something?????????? I'm so confused

It's not on you, Indian media has just been suspiciously silent about this

Lmfao. I wonder why.

It's still unclear whether they'll be banned from tomorrow, or anytime soon, but according to news websites it's very likely.

The Indian government rolled out new laws in February, demanding that social media companies appoint Indian compliance official to oversee their content, essentially, and personally go over/take action against "objectionable" content.

(That doesn't sound fascist at all, does it?)

All SM companies had a three month compliance period- three months to change things- and they've done nothing. Unlikely they'll change their minds in the next few hours.

Either it's because said companies KNOW their platforms won't be banned (though there's no real basis for this assumption, that the public knows of anyway) or because they don't really care very much. Which is fair, they value their users' privacy. As they should.

Unfortunately, this means it opens them up to making THEM liable for criminal action carried out on their platforms

Hence the worry that they'll shut shop in India.

That being said, it's still only speculation. I don't think there's any concrete reason to panic right away.

[meowdarame]

Omg love did you already answer about your bitchass ex cheating on u and about your worst sex experience for your event? I feel like that’s some hot ass tea please kindly spill for us if you’re comfortable doing so

@sanrionymph sent the same ask but i’m going to answer yours, nonnie!

*sighs* alright, get ready because lowkey this was one of my most toxic arcs /hj

also warnings: mentions of abuse, toxic behavior, stalking

on another note: lowkey this story sounds so bad LMAO and i’ll admit that this mf put me thru HELL, but i’m okay now and i honestly see this story as pretty funny!!! i highkey use humor to cope! so there’s no need to like express pity and such, if anything it’d make me feel more uncomfy HAHA. but yes, ‘tis all! hope you enjoy my la croix version of my euphoria ass life!

i dated this dude in my freshman year of college. honestly don’t know why but maybe he gave me the right amount of attention at the wrong time. who knows?

the relationship was alright at first! (in hindsight tho i realize he was HIGHKEY love-bombing me lol but anywho!) but eventually he started becoming more and more of a dick to me: comparing me to his exes, forcing me to help him w/ his laundry and get groceries 🤢, and just kinda hiding me from the public? like his close friends knew we were dating but there were MULTIPLE times where we were walking on campus and i would try to hold his hand and he’d shake it off 😭 talking about “people can see us” OMFG IM GETTING HEATED JUST TYPING THIS LOL but he also like never posted me on any social media platform. ever. like one time we went on a date to this museum and he was taking all these snapchats and videos of LA but never took one of me….? now listen, i usually don’t care about this stuff, like social media validation is whatever to me and i’m not gonna FORCE my s/o to post me HAHA but i just found it soooo sus that he kept me so private.

anyways by this point of our relationship we were like arguing everyday. like it was a MIRACLE if we had one (1) peaceful day. like we were the type to argue w/ each other at cheesecake factory (shoutout drake!) there were soooo many other things that he did too that i won’t go into because lowkey they’re really fucked up so i’ll spare y’all the fine details. and because we were so toxic, i asked him if he wanted to take a break (especially since this was around when COVID first hit and everyone was heading back home because campus was closing up and kicking people out). my ex said no and that he wanted to be with me even though we were gonna be like 2500+ miles apart. so we stayed together even after he moved back to his hometown.

but i had this weird gut feeling he was on tinder tho… this one time i like quickly glanced over to his computer when he had his email open and accidentally saw an email that said he had a “new tinder match!” so i was like wtf…. hmm… so when he moved back to his hometown and i stayed in LA, shit just only got worse and this gut feeling only grew stronger. so i made a fake tinder account, used tinder passport to set the location to his hometown, and swiped until i found him. it literally only took 6 swipes. we matched the next day and i texted him thru my fake tinder account and he responded.

NOW if you’re wondering why i didn’t just leave him when shit got toxic, here’s my answer: i was lowkey so scared of him LOL like there were so many close encounters with this man where i lowkey felt like (???) i was not safe? idk. so yea i was scared to break up w/ him because i didn’t know how he’d take it if i just left him “out of the blue.” i presumed that since i caught him cheating on me and i had a VALID REASON to break up w/ him, he’d let me go with little resistance. unfortunately i was wrong because he stalked me for like a year after that LOL oh how naive freshman year dice was </3

ANYWAYS tl;dr i made a fake tinder account, used tinder passport to set my location to his hometown, and matched w/ his slimy unwashed ass! there were other little hints and clues that pointed to him cheating on me for a while but it’s so long ago that i lowkey forgot HAHA

[seasurfacefullofclouds1]

Hi, sometimes I'm looking for old Louis interviews, waiting for new content. I reviewed Louis' interview with Nick Grimshaw. I don't like him, I always thought he was jealous of Louis, so I ask you if you think that between Harry and Nick Grimshaw there was also a romantic relationship as well as friendship? (I never liked Harry as a person, I see him as capable of fucking the world for a career and I think he made Louis suffer / hurt a lot also in terms of betrayal).

I tend to think that Nick had a crush on Harry and Harry took advantage of it for self-promotion. Nick was an access to young English celebrities when Harry needed them. Nick was happy to be seen with a hot 1D star: socially he also benefited from the friendship.

There were fandom stories of Harry hanging out with Nick playing video games until the early hours. Also a few stories of Nick being publicly snarky toward Louis (e.g. the Fiji story) which… why. Wtf was the need?

HSHQ used Nick’s platform all through 2017 but after August 2018, they were done. They act cordial in public, but the friendship is in deep freeze. No romantic relationship. I feel like it’s not really an exes vibe.

Nick’s interview with Louis in 2017 was kind and very nice, I thought.

[legionnaireslover]

Let me be absolutely clear  -  it isn't any risk to BC's career that propels me to counter the wacko "theories" of people like Aeltri and Gator.   It's the effect on the fandom.  The Haters' incessant interjections into perfectly innocent and fun posts by fans is disruptive. 

And it's poisonous to any vulnerable people who are prone to believe conspiracy theories.   Perfect example - Msclaritea.  She has totally embraced the racist, homophobic, paranoid rantings of Aeltri and Gator and uses her Twitter platform to spread the most horrible lies about innocent people (not all of them are "celebrities" either).

Aeltri also uses MANY social media platforms to spread LIES and spurious INNUENDOS about everyday people who aren't in any way "public celebrities".  She's tried to do it to me... saying I'm harassing her on her tumblr account (never once have I posted anything to her on her tumblr), accusing me of being a paid shill for Sophie Hunter (WTF?), accusing me of threatening Louise Brealey, etc.

Answering back to that kind of person is essential.  I'm not going to sit idly by and let her accusations stand without some kind of resistance.

What Gator and Aeltri do is NOT an innocent "hobby" like gardening or collecting stamps! 

It's destructive, cruel and manipulative. It's based on lies and conspiracy theories. It is hateful and hurts and influences naive hanger-ons who are vulnerable.

The other side of a joyous fandom that celebrates the talent and generosity of BC is the ugly, hatefilled world of the Haters/Skeptics. 

There's no truth to it, but that doesn't matter to those spreading the lies.  Their narrative (BC is a sick, manipulated, man-child who needs the Haters to break free and dump his wife and disown their children to be "successful" again) is EVERYTHING to them.  They want to spread this mantra wide and far and are determined to keep it going.  

All I'm saying is - here is REALITY and it doesn't match up at all with the Haters narrative.

There's nothing wrong with presenting FACTS to counter LIES.

I will say that the way the relationship came about had me skeptical. Not sure I bought into the escort story, but it seemed rushed and awkward at first. But the theories got so outlandish they were comical and a bit sad.

At the end of the day, this is an actor none of us really know. And to fake 3 children…..well no one could agree to that nor sustain it. And why does anyone really care?

The Haters apparently think it is perfectly acceptable to "care" so much about BC's personal business that they have spent over 10 years demanding that he dumps his wife and disowns their 3 children.

They've woven a HUGE conspiracy theory as their narrative and now that's the ONLY thing that matters - maintain the NARRATIVE!

What it really comes down to is (and studies have indicated a strong correlation) that people who fall into these "rabbit holes" are lacking control of their own lives.

So they create a world where THEY are the controlling factor (at least THEY think they are!).

Thus, they suddenly have access to SECRET "SOURCES" who reveal the truth (only to them, mind you), they become social justice warriors with a "NOBLE" CAUSE (they are doing this to end BC's suffering and others like him!) and they KEEP EXPANDING the conspiracy NARRATIVE as each new "ultimatum" or "deadline" passes without BC conceding to their demands.

The narrative just kept on growing until it morphed into a multi-generational world wide vendetta perpetrated by, among others, BC's own mother (!) and involving THOUSANDS of people.

It actually is much more than "a bit sad". Aeltri, Gator and Mstoxictea have tried their darnedest to harass and intimidate ANYONE briefly connected in even the remotest fashion with BC. If anyone even mentions on social media that they saw BC and Sophie together, those three jump all over them and call into question their character and then proceed to weave them into the conspiracy!

Their behaviour is outrageous.