#like I said unfollow me but i don't think it was the indication

[iguessweallcrazyithinktho]

So are you writing for Jude or not

Omg listen y'all keep coming to my inbox asking this and I'm going to just say what I think. Is he stupid for posting that story with a heart knowing it said that place that shouldn't be named on it? Absolutely !! he is but at the same time it also said a moment of silence for those people who got shot at a game the day or two before. Is it upsetting absolutely but I don't think his story was even intended for that purpose hence why I don't think that shows his views on that situation. I don't think he supports those war criminals seeing how his dad feels about it(and Tory members but I'm not British so leave me out of it if i didn't get it right) on Twitter. He's not his dad of course he's definitely close enough to that man to share the same views. I'm not trying to kiss this man's ass(still think he was fucking dumb for not thinking before posting) and you can unfollow me on this but I think really the uefa needs to be called out for their stupidity of "politics has no place in sports" while actively making people who speak out on the issue sit to the sideline for no supporting baby killers

So now if you'll leave me alone and let me live my Tumblrina life that's be nice

[bluegiragi]

I hate to ask this cause it feels stupid but I dont wanna do a bunch of research on whatever the recent cod mw fandom discourse is,

but I saw the reblog of someone accusing you of supporting people who write sexualized pedophilia and that really is personally my only """"moral"""" with nsfw shit, (I'm a patreon subscriber and ig I just wanna know where my money's going) is THAT true?

i used to follow an artist who, 5-6 months ago made racist art featuring gaz and soap in a slave context, which I didn't like, retweet or interact with in any way. they also made under-age art of ghost soap, which I also didn't interact with . people on twitter called me out yesterday, for retweeting (months before this incident) other art they'd made as evidence I stood by/encouraged/was an avid fan of all these tropes. The art I retweeted wasn't either of these previous examples of art, but one where ghost and soap were sleeping in a bed together, as adults, peacefully. I can't emphasise enough that I have not interacted with this artist at all, for over six months. The callout in question has framed me as a close friend of theirs when, in truth, our total timeline of interactions could probably be counted on one hand, and I haven't interacted with her in so long that I genuinely forgot I was still following her.

The crux of all is this is that I did not unfollow + block this artist earlier on when the racist art was posted months ago, and then I retweeted a fic tagged with "non-con" (ghost gets soap off in a context where he can't really properly consent, they're in front of a crowd of strangers and they have to fuck, but both parties are into each other) written by a friend as I wanted to support their writing.

The pedophile claims are because I retweeted a fandom bingo post that defended loli-con without reading all the squares properly, and then immediately un-retweeted it when I properly read it. All in all, the post was on my account for maybe a few minutes.

The zoophile claims are because people say i support someone who wrote zoophilic fic and called people slurs, and I genuinely don't know who they're talking about there.

The anti-asian racism claims come from the original accusers in the callout thread thinking that I made Horangi's eyes in the monster!AU sensitive as a way of making fun of Asian eyes. The real reason is because he's a cat hybrid in that AU and cats are sensitive to light.

I tried addressing all this in a casual way earlier on in a misguided attempt to sort things out more 'civilly', and responded to an ask talking about my "support" for the artist who drew the slave Gaz art by saying the fanart in question was tone deaf and in poor taste. It wasn't enough for some people, so I'm happy to say it clearly- yes, it was racist, and the reason why I didn't want to be more aggressive is because I didn't want to extend all this mess by throwing this artist directly to the wolves - I genuinely believed them at the time when they said that wasn't that their intention, and think they should've deleted the post at the time, but not unfollowing was a decision that I made. I know now upon reflection that it was naive of me, unwarranted and frankly irresponsible to take a stranger at face value and believe they had good intentions, when the act of not deleting the post in question was evidence of a lack in remorse. In the moment, I'd thought back to my own personal experience with a friend of mine who used an asian slur in my company, who later sincerely apologised and legitimately cleaned up his act after I gave him a second chance. It informed my choice to not unfollow at the time, but there's a difference between someone you know irl for months and a stranger on the internet you've interacted with a few times. I shouldn't have coddled them in my response, and I'm sorry for not treating it with the severity it deserved. It was callous, and stupid, and indicative of internal biases that I ever thought it was a light enough offence to "see through", and I deeply deeply apologise. I promise from the bottom of my heart to do better.

That's everything so far. I didn't unfollow an artist when I absolutely should've, which i'll always strongly regret. I also retweeted a properly-tagged fic on my clearly 18+ nsfw account. I've undone both of those actions now. I hope this can be the end of it.

[bonyassfish]

aw, I was hoping these would be nice messages about me starting t tomorrow :(

this is very obviously the same anon as before and like, my friend I have answered this question already. this rabid obsession with rooting out perceived zionists is so bizarre.

this is what spacelazawolf has said: "i don't believe in the concept of states or countries, so my politics aren't in line with any ideology or movement whose goal is to establish a state."

hm...

do I agree with everything spacelazarwolf posts? no, of course not

do I think spacelazarwolf is a "pro-israeli statist zionist"? no, because I've not read a single post indicating that he believes that

I have to ask anon, do you think this is actually a good use of your time? do you think this is helpful to Palestinians? do you think Biden reads my blog and chooses to send weapons based on who I reblog from? if I unfollow spacelazarwolf, will it make Netanyahu keel over and die?

what if instead of feeding into your apparent obsession with my blog you go do something useful, like

Donate to a charity that actually works to support Palestinians

Donate to one of the many many gofundme's of Palestinians trying to escape Gaza

Buy an e-sim

Attend a rally or protest in support of Palestine

Stop bothering random Jews on the internet

[evilbihan]

A guide to writing Tomáš

This is a Bi-Han centric blog, but I really want to talk about the mischaracterization of Tomáš too because it irks me to no end and I believe he deserves better. Not to mention that most of his mischaracterization usually comes at Bi-Han's expense as well.

Tomáš is not the sad, broken, overly sensitive crybaby the fandom likes to portray him as. Every time I see yet another version of the same fanart where poor Tomáš is bawling his eyes out and running into Kuai Liang's arms because Bi-Han was being "mean" to him, I immediately unfollow the artist. Tomáš is a grown man, it's disgusting how the fandom keeps babying him. Not to mention it's getting boring and on top of that, it's completely wrong characterization of both Bi-Han and Tomáš. In the scene where Bi-Han snaps at him, Tomáš barely even bats an eyelash. He looks confused and annoyed if anything, not heartbroken, and he certainly doesn't break down in tears either. Tomáš literally chose to talk back to Bi-Han, he's not afraid to say what he thinks, which is proven by the fact that he even confronts Liu Kang for letting his family die. Tomáš is courageous and he stands up for himself. This man watched his entire family get murdered in front of him and chose not to let it haunt him. ("Their ghosts no longer haunt me.") Of all three Lin Kuei brothers, he's the one with the highest emotional maturity, choosing not to let emotions cloud his judgement, unlike Kuai Liang (blind anger/hatred) and Bi-Han (frustration). Tomáš is so much stronger than people give him credit for. He's not some damsel in distress that needs saving and he definitely doesn't need Kuai Liang to defend him, especially not from Bi-Han who respected Tomáš and his skills enough to let him join them for important missions when he had everyone else in the Lin Kuei at his disposal. It's awful how some fans deliberately paint Tomáš as weak and Bi-Han as cruel, so they can make Kuai Liang look better.

A lot of the traits that define Tomáš are usually taken away from him in fanfics and fanart and given to Kuai Liang instead. Tomáš is the loyal, brave and kind brother who wants peace above all else, who wants his brothers to reconcil, who is truly selfless and respectful, even towards some of his foes. Believe it or not, Tomáš is not the "soft" brother. He chooses to be kind and fans mistake it for weakness. Despite being angry at Bi-Han, Tomáš doesn't want vengeance against him. He wants his brothers to stop fighting, for Earthrealm's sake and because they're family. Tomáš might be the youngest of the brothers but he's wiser than them. He has seen enough death and bloodshed to know no one will come out of this war as a winner.

Tomáš used to idolize Bi-Han, not Kuai Liang. Bi-Han, who is known to be cold and ruthless. As I said before in another post I made, Tomáš is no less ruthless than his brothers. He is not sweet and innocent. Just like Bi-Han and Kuai Liang, he was trained to be a lethal and stealthy warrior. Even before joining the Lin Kuei, Tomáš was a hunter. He grew up in a family of hunters. Listen to his taunts at the end of each round and the way he giggles while performing one of his fatalities. Tomáš enjoys hunting, he enjoys the thrill of it.

There is no part of the story or any intros that indicate that Kuai Liang and Tomáš were ever close before their falling out with Bi-Han, but it is said that Tomáš used to admire Bi-Han. I don't know why the fandom made up the wholesome bond between Kuai Liang and Tomáš because of that one scene in which Kuai Liang conveniently tells Smoke that they're brothers because he needed him on his side. Kuai Liang doesn't even bother interrupting when Bi-Han reprimands Tomáš. He even questions Smoke's resolve. What brought them both closer are a few shared ideals, such as the wish to honor their father's legacy and continue their duty of protecting Earthrealm. Kuai Liang is now the only family Smoke has left, which is why he's doing everything he can to prove worthy of his trust. He calls himself the Shirai Ryu's second in command, he's the one who recruits Hanzo, he's supportive of everything Kuai Liang does and never contradicts him despite having different opinions than his brother, possibly out of fear of losing his family yet again.

Tomáš is a very curious and open-minded person. Unlike Bi-Han and Kuai Liang who are both equally disgusted by the idea of fame and stardom, Smoke seems eager to play a part in one of Johnny's movies when Johnny suggests giving him a role in a film he made. He's also the one reaching out to others to try and bond with them, to make friends. He tells Raiden that he wants to visit Fengjian, he asks other characters questions about themselves etc.

Tomáš is without a doubt traumatized from what he's seen and been through. Similar to Bi-Han in the previous timeline, Smoke is concerned that he's tainted by evil due to his nightmares about the Enenra. Ashrah reassures him that her kriss can't sense any evil, but there's a chance he might still become corrupted.

I hope this makes sense and will help writers and artists out there to portray Tomáš more accurately in their works. Too many people in the fandom have a wrong idea of who this character is.

[generalpalacefishgoop]

You know the posts recently about bbh neg on twter, the timing of it with that going on, makes me want to hurl, they don't give a shit about "victims" or the real issues. They just want to dunk on the next cc they hate using the current "momentum".

You know what, I say let them go ahead and try to "cancel" Bad, really, go ahead. They're just regurgitating shit DSMP fans has said over the years again and again about Bad. Its fcking funny actually. Oh not forgetting they had to invent new ones or ones THAT THEIR FAVES HAVE DONE TOO BTW, to "cancel" Bad. To think I was looking forward to QSMP fans being "healthier" or "better" than DSMP ones, oh boy am I sorely disappointed.

Let them run their mouths about Bad. Cuz I'm 100% sure the CCs , QSMP admins, and Quackity give 0 shit about them. Etoiles knows and has already expressed how he knows that Bad is overly hated by the fandom and how he receives neg on the daily. Despite knowing that, he's still cordial with Bad. And he even expressed how he tries to not be "angry" or "frustrated" at Bad or else the parasocial fucks will come running to "defend" him from "evil" BBH when he has said a million times over that its not a fcking big deal, and hes just expressing himself NOT IN A NEG WAY. but noooo parasocial fucks be like "oh no my skunkrly wrunkly his feelings got hurt oh no" same shit with foolish fans. Fcking blind af. Esp the new ones who hasnt experienced the prank wars in dsmp. Fcking joyless fucks who cant handle a fcking block game that theyre not even playing. But thankfully, Etoiles stopped being so concerned, and well, yk with Foolish lmao same old same old.

(Disclaimer: SOME FANS NOT ALL, IM TALKING ABOUT THE TOXIC PARASOCIAL FUCKS, YES EVEN THE BIG ACCOUNTS ON TWITTER WITH THOUSANDS OF FOLLOWERS. You know who. Big numbers doesn't mean they're more RIGHT. A parasocial fuck is a parasocial fuck. Also, when I say parasocial, I mean the ones who are toxic and project themselves onto the CC. Being parasocial is fine, if it's the healthy kind, if you know what I mean)

I digress, there's no fcking unfollows or subtweets from CCs to Bad, unlike with D or F. In fact, some CCs and CLOSE FRIENDS of Bad's have always praised Bad and defended him TO THIS DAY. If that is not enough of an indication of how unproblematic he is, Idk what else to say. Just fuck off and live a life in constant misery and hatred ig. That's why don't respond to fucks like that. Just mute em. They can yap all they want but it means SHIT ALL if you don't see it. BBH's community is WAY WAY smaller than the whole fandom (and theres wayyy more toxic fucks) so bbhs community saying shit back to the toxic shits will also mean SHIT ALL. They CLEARLY don't watch Bad anyways so what's the point. Better way to deal with this shit is fight the misinformation, that's all. Spread more positivity and give ppl FULL context and CORRECT information. If you see some shit against Bad, report it and send it to whatever ban list qsmp uses. Send it to mods or something. Ik that Bagi's discord has something like that.

Oh but ppl be like /rp or /lh or "it's just my opinion", who gives a shit. Still report them. We're not dumb. The mods or whoever admins are not dumb. That negative toxic fuck smell on it, is fcking obvious enough.

STOP GIVING THEM ENGAGEMENTS. We can happily stay in each others bubbles without ever talking to each other, AND THAT IS FINE. Don't let the negative fucks in. Mute and report them, and I guarantee you, that fcking stranger on the Internet, you'll forget within DAYS. those fuckers won't even exist to you, vice versa.

THEIR WORDS HOLD NO POWER OVER YOU OR THE QSMP COMMUNITY. KEEP THE QSMP COMMUNITY HEALTY AND SAFE. Fuck them toxic shits.

[midnightmah07]

Boundaries.

As I talk more to people on this platform I feel a bit of a necessity to state some boundaries just to be safe

- please NEVER refer to me as the b word or anything offensive like that, I can handle aggressive humor with people I get closer with but I don't like when people call me these things even if it's playful.

- if you can avoid curse words please do so!! I personally don't like them because of my religion, so if you can avoid speaking curse words near me I'd appreciate it! This is not a hard rule as I won't mind if you curse a few times, but if you have a really dirty mouth please try to tone it down when talking to me.

- please use tone indicators when making jokes that you believe may be mistaken for something rude, especially if we're not that close.

- I don't like being tagged on stuff by people who I don't know/barely know. It feels like you're trying to force a friendship that we don't have, so I'd appreciate it if you don't do that. I actually don't mind being tagged tbh it's not something that bothers me, but I'd like it to be by my moots/friends or to at least be asked if I'm ok with it.

- I don't mind hearing ramblings, I love seeing how excited people talk about their passions, but please ask if I'm comfortable with you doing so beforehand and be careful with how often you do that.

- please do not flood my inbox. I don't mind people coming to my inbox frequently but if what you're sending me can be talked either in DMs, comments or reblogs, do not send me billions of asks. It makes me uncomfortable and honestly makes my blog a huge mess. If I come to my inbox and see like 10 asks from the same person I will not answer.

- on that note, I may add that you guys do not info dump about your OCs 24/7. I do like hearing about other people's OCs, but a lot of the times that's literally the only thing they're talking about. I'm not a dumpster, I'm a human being with my own interests. If you're just coming to my inbox to dump your OC's lore, and it starts feeling like a monologue and not a dialogue, I'm just not gonna answer until you start talking to me normally again. I'm sorry to sound a bit harsh, but it's tiering when people only talk to me to dump about their OCs.

- don't look down and badmouth my religion in any way, shape or form. Being a Christian is the most important part of me and it defines who I am as a person, so please be careful with what you say. Also, my views, beliefs and convictions are and will always be dictated by my religion, I will not attack you for believing something different from me but respect is a two way street, if you attack me for saying stuff accurate to my religion and faith, you're getting blocked.

- don't talk about political issues with me unless you're willing to be respectful. I've seen a lot of friendships being torn because of how different their political views were and I'd hate that to happen to me and my moots. In fact, if you can avoid this talk, please do so. If you must know my stance politically, I mostly align with conservative values.

- unless you were rude to me or attacked me, if you see I have you blocked/soft blocked, it's probably not personal. This is the internet so I will block/unfollow people who post stuff that make me uncomfortable/I don't think what they're saying is correct. Doesn't mean I don't think they're a good person, just means I don't want to interact with them. I have NOTHING against them if the day ever comes that I block/unfollow someone on Tumblr "at random"

- don't talk about anything nsfw/explicit with me. I might not be a minor but this type of talk still makes me very uncomfortable. If you send me something in my inbox that's nsfw/explicit I will delete it and pretend to not see it, however if you do it because you want to make me uncomfortable or if you do it more than once I will block you.

With that all said, feel free to talk to me whenever you want, just be mindful of these boundaries :))

[saucerfulofsins]

https://www.tumblr.com/saucerfulofsins/755751308382945280/lou-has-publicly-stated-multiple-times-that-he-is

before like where put private on twt we where able to found that he liked pro trump and pro life tweet

also one of his stans was followed by him and she was very very happy and decided since he was following her to make a video presenting him a go fund me for a family in gaza that needed help she said that since it’s something very important to her it would be wonderful if he could’ve made a donation

he then unfollowed and blocked her

also on his ig profile there was ableist, sexist, racist, xenophobic and fatphobic meme posted by a 30 yo man and also he took pics of women at the gym and posted on his ig

he deleted the photo just now after being dragged about this thing

and let’s not forget how he told how tommy behavior towards chim and hen was just silly corny and teasing

Yeah I didn't wanna say anything I couldn't back up with sources, but I don't think any amount of sources about LFJ's personal issues could make me like this guy. Big ick.

And like. These are choices he is making! This is the way he chooses to present himself! And I know I keep coming back to this, but it's his focus on his own masculinity that I find most fascinating. It reminds me of a text I read for my BA thesis (which I did on representations of masculinity in 3 Middle English romances):

Experience indicates that the masculine gender is fragile and tentative, with weaker biological underpinnings than the feminine. It requires strong social support to maintain fictions of superiority based solely on a measure of physical strength. (Jo Ann McNamara in Medieval Masculinities, p.3 (1994)).

And it really feels like he feels superior because of his physicality/masculinity, when personally I find that quite threatening? I don't think there's anything inherently cool about it either, and most of all, I don't think that is the message 9-1-1 as a show is telling. It's completely out of tune with the show's message of talking, opening up, being vulnerable, letting people in. His "edgy humour" is also doing the opposite, it feels very late 2000s youtube, completely lacking any sort of moral compass or empathy. (I hate it enough that I've ended friendships over that kind of bullshit).

I think the reason I keep circling back to masculinity is because I think everything he does is filtered through it. It's the first thing he says about Tommy, and he clearly sees Tommy as more important than Buck, which I suspect is because he considers Tommy more masculine. And I hate it! I fucking hate it! Because if masculine masculinity is the epitome of cool, and that's admired by him, then everything else is automatically the OPPOSITE of that and therefore weak/not good.

[the-sour-patch-crew]

Sorry I'm one of your followers and I gotta ask are you yourself radqueer? I've had very very bad experiences with them so id I were to say I wasn't safe for radqueers, I would.be moreso meaning of radqueers come around, my space is no longer safe for *me*

Just need to know if I need to unfollow,, thank you

Kit here, and im going to answer this as if it was directed only at me. Ashe feels similarly, and the other two have zero idea what any of this means.

I don't think I am? Most radqueers in system spaces I see paired with transID stuff, which I am VERY uncomfortable with. I don't go in radqueer spaces and I don't know enough about them to even begin to know if I'd classify as one or could relate to it in any meaningful way. I block transID and radqueer accounts (because they are paired together so often) when they show up in tags because of my own discomfort. Radqueer is one of those identities I see around that I've had little interest in getting myself wrapped up in discourse wise.

I have a very complex relationship with my own gender, sexuality, and overall identity, but it's not something that is ever going to affect anyone else outside of me. This does influence how I treat others who seem to define themselves in good faith. I think from what I remember seeing radqueers are known for being accepting of good faith labels, but to a radical degree. While I am all about letting people express themselves how they want, as it rarely affects anyone else, I wouldn't say I'm radical. I am very critical of plenty of things in online spaces and critical of a lot of labels people use. I am a complex individual with complex opinions that are always changing the older I get.

Now to all our followers

We would appreciate it if you would refrain from judging us based on any past community experiences and instead base it on how our account makes you feel. As a follower, if anything we've ever said has made you feel unsafe, then you are welcome to leave. No hard feelings. However, if there hasn't been anything said or reblogged that indicates us being problematic to your health and safety, then I would say I am safe to be around.

I don't know what your experiences are, but I've always strived to be an accepting and welcoming individual. Doesn't mean I agree with everyone I interact with, but ideally, no one should view me as unsafe. Anti endos may, but that's only because we are a target to their hate. People I speak to online are strangers, my followers are wonderful but still strangers. I am by default polite and civil with strangers. That's just how I do things. Don't assume it means I'm something specific because of it.

Most of these current day communities and discourses I know ZERO about. General queer, system, and kin stuff is kinda my spoon limit for getting involved with online. My opinions and stances are complex. It's like politics. I'm not going to agree with everything or be the poster board child for either side. There's always complexities and nuances that can make someone not belong to either side or fit into a community. I've found that to be my lot in most things.

I'm furry, queer, plural, endo safe, daemian, and all together, I suppose, alterhuman. I don't use other labels unless it's to explain specifics, like my sexuality.

-Kit

[noyzinerd]

You ever just have a person you see every day? Like you don't know their name or anything. Maybe you see them at the bus stop or you pass each other every Tuesday at the grocery store and they always give a little wave. But then out of nowhere, one day it just stops. It feels silly, because you didn't really know them. Hell, you never even talked to them, but it feels like a constant in your life has changed and you've lost a friend you didn't even realize you had.

I feel so unbelievably saddened for some reason seeing them gone. I had gotten so used to seeing them liking and reblogging all of my posts with quippy tags that I enjoyed reading practically every day and I would occasionally see and like their posts from time to time too. I still remember getting excited seeing their profile picture popping up in my notifications and wondering what they might have said to a post I uploaded. I never engaged with them at all, never said anything, but it was just nice to see them.

I feel like I'm going through mourning.

What's worse is I don't think they'll ever see this and know what they meant to me as a follower, as a fellow Sterek, as just a user that occupied the same space as me.

So, I know it might not feel like it, especially in the cold vastness of the internet where it feels like you're shouting out into the void, but whether you realize it or not, someone somewhere sees you and a small part of their day won't be as bright if you were gone.

I don't say it enough (or at all, really) but I really do appreciate and enjoy all the people who interact with my blog in any positive way. Yes, I notice you people who like and reblog literally everything I've ever posted, yet still don't follow me (and, no, I don't take it personally). Yes, I do recognize people's profiles who have followed me since the beginning and always pop up. And I read every reblog, every tag, and every comment and I very much do laugh or consider responding to each and every one but I always hold back for the sake of keeping my blog decluttered for a better viewing experience for the rest of my followers. And, yes, I do notice when someone who's followed me for a long time, or has even interacted with me personally, suddenly unfollows me without any indication as to why (and, yes, it does make me a little sad). I might not say anything or respond, but if you've shown up in my notifications a good number of times, or have added anything in the tags when reblogging, I absolutely do notice you and have read the little things you've written and it makes my day better and I will absolutely miss you if you were suddenly gone. I even considered making a follower appreciation post once but quickly realized that would take ages and I would inevitably miss someone and make them feel bad.

To make a long story short, I see all of you and if you have ever interacted with any of my stuff in a positive way, you absolutely have carved out a little area for yourself in a corner of my mind. I appreciate you all, love you all, and would, without a doubt miss you.

@haleshomeforthederanged, I hope you're tearing it up out there in the real world or hopefully still skulking around here on a different account. Either way, Imma miss ya.

[pearwaldorf]

On the bird site I subtweeted a person I was mutuals with at the time. Apparently it is some sort of extremely terrible faux pas to do something like that to a moot? So I figured the easiest way to deal with the issue was to unfollow them.

Like yes, I'm being a cunt about it, but I was not aware that being a mutual with somebody on social media indicated some sort of special status. I had literally never talked to this person, even though we're in the same fandom.

I know On Here and other social media websites we talk a lot about our mutuals being some sort of sacred bond, but most of you fall into the category of "I wouldn't lend you a toaster but I don't want you to die*." I wish you well in the same abstract sense I want for everybody in the world, but I would not know you from Vishnu or Jesus if you smacked me in the face.

And that's okay! We don't need to all be besties! We can be like the barista and regular customer whose order you know and can have waiting when they see you walking up! Or the person you nod to every weekday when you're waiting for the bus! There are many sorts of acquaintances and levels of friendship that you and the other person define! It is absolutely not the follow.

* I can't find what comedian said this but I swear it exists. I think she was British.

[powerpolyculeshowdown]

okay so I weirdly got unfollowed from you even though Tumblr lied and claimed I was still following you (like when I looked at the blog the only thing it said was 'get notifications' but you were not in the list of people I was following) so I hope that that's not indicative of some kind of weird fuckery that's going to keep this ask from going through

ANYWAY

the original reason I went to send you an ask

did you know the author of Iron Widow is on Tumblr? and has apparently been here since 2013? cause I did not and I'm like. idk I think it's really cool (I also don't know why I didn't think to check before lmao so this may not be news to you but I'm kinda excited by one of my favorite authors being on the site and I know you like Iron Widow so I had to share)

-shark anon

a few weeks ago tumblr has me flagged as a spam blog so maybe thats why?? idk its the only thing i could think of

and yes, i know! i've followed them for a while cause i rlly liked their youtube videos, and they're actually the reason i wanted to read the book, i lowkey had a huge crush on them for a while and the script for their videos was so good plus they did an amazing job pitching iron widow tbh, so even tho i havent read much scifi i just knew i wanted it and im glad i got it cause i love it so much!!!!

for anyone curious the author is Xiran Jay Zhao, p sure they use their name for every social media. on the rare occasion i check instagram i rlly like their shorts there as well sklahdla

[antiradqueer]

I have a mutual who says it's transsage and trassnspecies and that "otherkin/therians and transspecies are brothers we are in the brotherhood. Transage is, for many people, a trauma thing." it responded to an ask saying that being a rq is harmful with "unfollow me then LMAO". this is a minor, and I sometimes see it interacting with adults. I mention this because even though it claimed to be anti-proship, some of these adults are like, "I'm not proship but I fit the definition" so you're proship then??? (so called "neutralshippers" who turn out to actually be either staunchly proship or antiship piss me off) these adults also post nsfw stuff and allow minors to interact. I lowkey think my mutual is being groomed, but I don't wanna make assumptions…what do I do? It's such a nice and funny person, I don't want it to turn for the worse, but I risk getting blocked and smeared as someone hateful. plus one of its moots said, "why are we the transgenders cool for breaking the constructs and fucking around but these others that people make out to be only ever constantly in purposeful bad faith not as cool and sick ??? I dont really get it." there's no indication of whether they're an adult or minor. I don't really know what to say other than it seems unconsciously TERF-ish. I also don't think it's "cool" to be a white person wanting to be black or something like that. that doesn't break any constructs it's just racist. what do you say to that?

tricky situation you have there, anon...

unfortunately you can't force your mutual to listen to you. however you could offer them an ear I'd they need one, maybe voice your concerns over DMs without accusing them of being a bad person, etc. however, it's very likely they'll snap and don't want to listen, yell at you or whatever - people don't like to hear what they're doing is not as cool as they think it is. nobody wants to be the bad guy, naturally...

I don't have great advice on this, I know ._. good luck tho!

[majaloveschris]

I always say we can talk about everything here, as long as we do it respectfully and don't cross the line I set for this blog. And I respect your viewpoint, but I don't believe I am who you believe I am.//

I am not the anon, but I think their hate is more directed at the fandom in general than you, but have decided to use you as their punching bag which is wrong.

You are absolutely right, you have the right to your feeling and assumptions on this situation and you should not be told how to feel. And you have never done of said anything to indicate that you do not respect other people’s opinion. You are one 3.5 blogs on this platform that has been absolutely amazing with the way you think.

If you don’t mind I would like to say a couple of things in regards to this situation because I do feel for the anon. I have personally blown up in another blogs inbox after they posted something that I didn’t agree with. I did apologise because it was not fair to them. I was in wrong because I took out my frustration on the wrong blog.

As a spectator, or someone who watched the fandom from a far and joined in 2020 after the lily james fiasco I can say that the fandom took a complete new shape after the new years 22 incident. And it was disgusting, disturbing, and absolutely mortifying to watch.

I have to say I lost respect to a lot of blogs on this site, especially OG blogs. I think blogs like you who properly and rightfully criticise Alba and co for the problematic things they do are getting lost in the noise others are making in the fandom, because lines are being crossed and boundaries are being pushed in the name of calling out everyone involved in the situation the the message is lost.

Now when people look at the problematic behaviour of Alba and co they will have to see the other hateful things fans have said and done along side them, the way the fandom went around the situation and talked about it and him got the message lost. And that is very frustrating. I have to agree with the anon on the part that he is being bullied and harassed and when it comes to the bigger picture people will only see that and it’s frustrating.

This place has turned into a place of hate and every little thing done is a new way to mock him and it is no longer fun. And when you try and reason or point out this behaviour you only get blocked or mocked or yelled at and this is not recent this has been happening since day one.

I’ll give you a personal example: I am 26 years old, and I look 15, it’s not just my face but my physical appearance, I am short and quite thing and have no great development so I actually look like I am barely grown up. When people started talking about how she looked and how disgusting it was it triggered me, because it made me there something wrong with, like I am not worthy of being noticed or that who ever liked me will probably be a creep or sometime of disgusting groomer. And that I should only date guys who look like they have not passed puberty so that the aesthetics of the relationship don’t look wrong ( and don’t come at me with age thing because I am talking about appearance) it was hurtful and I tried to say something ( and I feel like people will come at me for this) they attacked me, it took a long time to recover from what people were saying. I stepped away from the fandom because everyone was so awful.

Now the situation is a million times worse, because some people have taking it to a whole new lever, you cannot enjoy a picture of him without some mocking him, you cannot have a discussion or a little fun with someone turning the whole conversation nasty and hateful. I stopped going into his rages and unfollowed everyone because it was too much. People are using every simple piece of gossip and turns it and twisted in away to fit the narrative that he is an awful human being.

I personally don’t care about this whole situation, because this is Hollywood he could be doing so much worse TBH. I am probably one of the few people actually looking forward to his projects and cannot wait for them to come out. But it’s the hate has me stepping back and noting wanting to engage with him not him. Because at the end of the day we have no clue hate happens behind closed doors. I love gossip and I love to sit here and speculate but again the fandom took that away from people like me because of their behaviour.

Honestly after the photos came out from the new year I took a step back and took a look at everything as whole, and I realise that unfortunately this behaviour currently happening is not really that unbelievable, the way people were behaving from last year it’s actually shocking some blogs are not sending him “go kill your self” messages and I would not be shocked if that happens soon. And yes I know that a horrible disgusting thing to say but from the way certain people talk I would t shocked if they do say it and support it. I know this horrible and disgusting to say but when you look from the out side that’s where this fandom is going with it’s current behaviour. Don’t come at me for saying this but this is just my observation.

I just want to make it very clear that non of what I said is directed at you mod you are not included in what I said but this regarding the fandom and blogs in general. Like I said you are one of the three sane blogs on this hell side.

I am sorry for my English it’s not my first language and I hope my message come across properly and nothing gets taken out of context I tried my best.

I think the whole NYE thing was the last straw for a lot of people. I believe that the fact that people consistently connect every single woman who has ever breathed next to him or followed him, while many of them do not want him to be in an actual relationship, creates this strange contradiction. I remember a lot of people being against it before anything about her came out, or we started to believe it was all just a bad PR relationship because of her age, which I never really cared about because she is a grown up, the problem is that she doesn't act like one.

I still love Chris, and I believe that if he had known all of this about her at the very beginning, he wouldn't have signed a contract. Sometimes people say stuff about him that I find really cruel and unnecessary. I know he got himself into this on somewhat level, but bullying him won't solve anything.

I know how you feel, and this is one of the things you can't change, and nobody should be bullied because of it. I think it's natural that most people in their twenties look younger than their actual age, and there is nothing wrong with you. I believe the issue in her situation is the way she behaves and represents herself; this is why she appears so much younger in our eyes. Ana, for example, also has a "baby face," or whatever we call it, but she acts like a woman, a grown-up and mature person. But you shouldn't feel bad about the way you look, and people shouldn't make you feel this way either. You deserve love, and you can date whoever you want. You're an adult, and the way you wrote it all down shows that you're a mature adult, and the man you'll end up dating won't be a creep or whatever just because you look a little younger. I know sometimes what people say online can be hurtful, but a lot of people dislike Alba, so the things they said about her don't apply to you.

I understand you, and I'm glad you took a step back when you felt overwhelmed. Your mental health is the most important thing, and you did the right thing. I agree that we need to hold celebrities accountable, and they need to be called out when they do something bad or questionable. But there is such a big difference between calling somebody out and bullying or tearing them down. Death threats are never acceptable. I would never, ever send them on—even to those I hate the most—along with the "you should kill yourself" messages.

Your English is perfectly fine btw ❤️

[reginrokkr]

ONE. I go by Lyria and I'm a 25+ year old student. My first language isn't English so if you were to find any mistakes I can possibly make, feel free to drop by and tell me. This blog is a low activity RP blog of Jinhsi of Wuthering Waves, heavily headcanon based on canon factors and bound to change as the story progresses. Furthermore, the blog is not affiliated with the fandom, meaning that what the fandom where my muse belongs does doesn't represent me. Until further notice, this blog is on semi-hiatus indefinitely. Established in June 1Oth, 2O24.

TWO. I tend to write more multi-paras or novellas more than one-liners, or unique paras. This said, at times I might be posting one-liner calls to break the ice and reach out to more people to interact with! I'm aware that some people struggle by wanting to match the length of the reply, just know that there's no need to match the length of my replies! I admit that I tend to write a lot, but don't let that be an issue to you. If anything, as long as you write enough to have something to work with, that's enough.

THREE. For comfort reasons, this blog is highly selective and private. However, if I receive asks about the game or headcanons, this is not a requirement. Sometimes it takes me a lot until I follow back. If you see that it’s taking me a while or I’m not following back, I have nothing against you. Do not expect me to agree with everything that’s reblogged under any circumstances nor expect me to feel offended by something that makes you feel that way. If I see any behavior that translates into guilt tripping or any similar attitude for not thinking the same, it will earn an instant unfollow Reciprocity goes a long way. I’m a very patient person, and I understand that life obligations make it harder to dedicate time to what I believe is a hobby. That’s why I think that are more indicators of interest than those related to direct RP interactions between our muses, such as liking posts be it OOC, headcanons, etc. If I see that months pass without any of this happening, it is likely that I will unfollow as I’m not comfortable with the sensation of follow for follow. If I follow you, it’s because I interact with you.

FOUR. Godmod and infomod unless we’re talking about a pre-established thread is a no. Please, don’t do that. If I don’t reply to a meme or a thread, there’s a chance that Tumblr ate asks (which happened to me twice by now, hopefully it won’t happen again) or that I forgot in case of the threads. Coming to me and asking doesn’t hurt, but I’d be grateful if you don’t pester me for responses. If you send a meme ask and you want to make it into a thread, you're more than welcome to do so! In the event you'd like to plot something out before doing that, feel free to drop by my IMs or asks and we'll discuss something out.

FIVE. In terms of exclusivity, I used to practise one-sided exclusivity with me only adhering to the portrayal of the person I’m shipping our muses with and say that the other person can ship with someone else’s portrayals of the same muse as I write without a problem which I’ll still be implementing. However, it’d be wrong of me not to admit that it’d be nice that if we’re shipping our muses, that said exclusivity is reciprocated if possible. Regarding smut content, it'll be tagged with a plain #explicit tw tag. It won't be put under read more, but rest assured that R18 visual imagery won't be used, only writing.

SIX. Art credit.

SEVEN. Blog roll: @reginrokkr (side blog attached to this blog).

[reoseuta]

welcome to Amaya’s garden! this garden is very wide and has so many plants that are tricky. thus, it is important for you to have this guide map so you don’t get lost and stay on the flowery path. please read carefully. 

⠀ 🍱🐈‍⬛ ( About Amaya!⠀ )

☻ Basic Information. 

♡ the full name is Amaya Lunaria Irvine.

you can call me simply by the nickname Maya / Aya. you can also create a new respectful one. calling me by my old aliases is restricted only to those who were actually present during the old days.

♡ is using SHE / HER as pronouns. 

I wouldn't mind being called as other pronouns, but calling me as the specified pronouns is appreciated more more more. 

♡ is in her legal age. 

♡ is having these types of personality classification: INTP (MBTI), 5W4 (Enneagram), Ravenclaw (Hogwarts House). {click on those types to read the outline about it}.

☻ Random Interest or Favourite Things of Amaya!

♡ consuming (eating & drinking):

• milk.

and I love many of creamy and milky food or drink.

• tea. 

not to mention about tea's aroma too. 

• milktea.

♡ watching:

• childhood cartoon / animation. 

I always be a childish person, so I keep the excitement towards these, for example: Strawberry Shortcake, Tinkerbell, Spongebob Squarepants, My Little Pony, The Backyardigans, etc.

• Narnia. 

simply it is the only film I can think representing me the best. everyone knows how attached I am to the film. I will be back once I decide another film that’s decent to be written here. 

• animal documentary.

my favourite animals whose documentary I love to watch are: wild cats, sea animal, wolf, penguin!

• ASMR.

my favourite triggers / categories are: roleplay, plucking negative energies, positive affirmations / complimenting you, fixing your eyes, fixing your vision, hand movement, soft spoken.

♡ listening:

• upbeat song or music.

the detailed genre is EDM or electronic-pop.

• KPOP.

I stan ENHYPEN to the fullest. following by BTS and TXT that I was fully stanning as well, whose song is still casually listened by myself. and a fair knowledge about the rest of HYBE groups and these survival shows: I-LAND, YG Treasure Box, &Audition, RUNext?, Dream Academy, I-LAND 2: N/a.

♡ seeing:

• red colour.

and also starting to love these colour lately: ash purple / navy, gray, white.

• floral pattern. 

• art 

I doubt I can produce an art by myself, but I have always been the #1 enjoyer of art. you will often find me engaging to posts about adorable and beautiful images!

• fantasy / dreamy / whimsy theme of many things.

♡ reading:

• Archive of Our Own (AO3) 

yes I read AO3 and I am so loud about it. (pssst— only for the NSFW ones. please do not tell my parents!)

♡ playing:

• psychological tests / personality indicators.

as I said, I believe in some theories regarding character classification such as MBTI, Enneagram, and Hogwarts House. you probably think how could I call it a game to play, but for me, theory is a fun game! that's why I talk about it A LOT. 

• Sudoku.

• 2048

• Plato.

trust me, I am only good at playing Plox and Ocho (though I am getting worse and worse at playing it). the rest is.. meh (just rely on luck). 

• Zepeto. 

I just love to style the looks there. 

• Dream House Days. 

I started to leave the game. 

• The Sims 4. 

I am still very much a beginner and needing an intensive guidances.

⠀ 🍱🐈‍⬛ ( About Amaya’s Cyber Account!⠀ ) {click on the title to get linked to the cyber account}.

☻ Important Reminders / Warnings.

♡ not accepting followers without consent.

♡ possiblity of containing a sensitive topics, and making you uncomfortable. 

because I often express and sharing my view that might be differ from other's. if you want to see it less often, or not at all, just use the available features: unfollow / block / mute. 

♡ not a fan-account. 

if you wonder why you don't often see my enthusiasm towards my idol, this is the answer. I have another account specialized for that purpose. 

♡ likes to deletes tweets. 

that’s most likely caused by my unstable sentiment about my tweets that I have posted and even under more unclear reason. so, you may find some of my tweets missing suddenly, no need to question why.

♡ not a roleplay account, so please don’t treat it like one. 

I can use whoever or even whatever as my PFP (profile picture), regardless of my muse in RP. although I use my RP muse as PFP most of the time as well, that doesn’t mean I portray them in cyber. so don’t associate my image and character there with the person I use as PFP. 

♡ very slow to respond. 

I admit this is my personal problem, which is always having difficulties gathering energies to reply to DM or mentions, so I apologize in advance. I tried and am continually still trying to be more consistent, regardless.

☻ What's Inside?

♡ opinion or just simply an expression of anything inside of her mind. 

♡ tiktok videos.

♡ mundane topics. 

♡ RP topics. 

open and closed. 

♡ some of mature topics. 

yet I tried to make it not to be explicit. 

⠀ 🍱🐈‍⬛ ( Another Access to Stay Connected with Amaya!⠀ )

♡ KKT.

{click on the text to access the other account}.

[hebizuka]

Good day, Tumblr. What better way to revive this ancient blog I opened so many years ago than to talk about my feelings to the sounds of my playlist? (Hoping to make this a format of sorts.)

Today's theme seems to be time, in many ways. And as the Quantic song I linked shows, it's not for good reasons.

The month of July is usually a joyous one. It's the month of my birthday and that of my significant other. In fact, both of our birthdays are on consecutive days; mine is on the 20th and his is on the 21st. I'll never pass up an opportunity to say how lucky I am to know him, but today's post is not about him.

This particular year should be extra-special. This is the year I turn 30. The big three-oh. Gonna put my twenties and the successes and mistakes of this past decade into the past at last. Pouring one out to feeling old.

But I'm not feeling happy about any of this. I'm just getting the reminder that I keep making mistakes. Some mistakes I don't even know I've done, and I still keep paying for them today.

I met a friend when I was no older than 16, all the way back in 2009. Many many many things happened, as they tend to when you know someone for this long. Trials, tribulations, on-and-off friendships, and maybe feelings of more along the way. Yet, my friendship with them managed to survive all the way until 2021. Suddenly gone from all contact lists. Unfriended, removed, as if it never happened.

I've never gotten any indication, clue, or hint as to why. No real bad conversations or negative moments before that point. Until a few days ago! When I realized this old account, was still following hers. So what's the best way to send a sign of life and an attempt to communicate again? I couldn't think of anything better than an unfollow/refollow.

Today I find out I can't read said blog anymore. I was most likely blocked. I can't shake the feeling this is deliberate.

Previous versions of myself would have shaken Hell and Heaven, earth and sky, bitched and moaned until I got an answer... or became too tired to keep shaking things. Today... Not so much. That's no longer how I want to do this.

I'm almost thirty. I don't really have the energy for this anymore. Some days I convince myself that my thirties will be just like my twenties, only with more experience, and that I'll never run out of energy and I'll live forever. Other days... I feel like I'm fifty and weighed down by my life experiences and mistakes.

I don't know what I did to lose someone so suddenly and without explanation when I've known that person for so long. Was I the one who was a bad friend? Am I allowed to use the word friend anymore?

I'll probably never know what happened or why she blocked me.

But I do know one thing. I spent too much time in my twenties dwelling on the past. Sometimes, time is the enemy; when you let it become your enemy. Spend too long looking for answers you'll never find, and it will only occupy more of your mental space, become more important, and weigh you down.

Z, In the remote chance you're reading this, I don't know what I've done to you. But you've made your point. Moving on and respecting your decision - something I used to have extreme trouble doing and accepting - is the only thing I should do. So, I will.

I just want to say I'm sorry, for whatever it is that I've done.