#lgbtask

[patton-croc-agenda]

18. How do you find other LGBT people in new places?

Uhhh tbh I don’t? I’m really bad at spotting fellow lgbt folk unless they have like…pride items on. In which case I go !!!!FRIEND!!!!HELLO FELLOW NOT STRAIGHTCIS!!!! But thats only internal bc im too chicken to talk to anyone 

[uswnt-24-7]

1, 16, 37, 40 (for the LGBTQ+ girls thing)

1: How do you define your sexuality?

I’m kinda chill about the whole labels stuff. I don’t really put a label on my sexuality just cause I kinda just do my own thing, but I’ve been in a relationships with guys and girls.

16: How accurate is your gaydar?

It’s okay I guess? There’s definitely people that are better than I am at sensing that stuff. Luckily we live in a time where people are pretty open, so you don’t need to rely on gaydar.

37: Are you religious at all?

Nope. I grew up in a Christian and Jewish household that wasn’t strict and was never pushed on me. I only go to church on Christmas Eve if that gives you a better idea.

40: Are you comfortable with terms such as lezzie, lesbo, or dyke?

Personally, I don’t use those terms and can understand why people are uncomfortable and feel that they are derogatory. Can’t say I’d be thrilled if those terms were directed at me. There’s so many better ways to phrase what those words mean.

[seyelence]

Ask me things!!! I’m doing a 2 hour training course and some of it is boring me to death lol

[thecaffeinatedkansasbabe-blog]

Random Questions For Queer Ladies #WLWask

Below are some questions pertaining to women who like other women, conveniently categorized. Have others send you random numbers (there’s 130 of them), or simply answer them yourself. Please reblog!

SEXUALITY & COMING OUT: 1. How do you define your sexuality? 2. What pronouns do you use to identify yourself? 3. At what age did you first suspect that you are sexually attracted to other girls? 4. At what age did you come to terms with your sexuality? 5. Did you have an “aha I like girls” moment or was it more of a gradual realization? 6. How did your sexuality make you feel before you came out? 7. How did you become comfortable with your sexuality? 8. At what age did you first come out? 9. Who was the first person you came out to? How did they take it? 10. Do your parents know about your sexuality? 11. How out are you? 12. Do you now identify as something different than when you first came out? 13. Was anyone surprised when you came out or did people seem to already know? 14. Has coming out lost you any friends? 15. How soon after meeting someone do you usually tell them about your sexuality? 16. How difficult do you find it to sympathize with straight women? 17. Have you ever wished you were completely straight? 18. Agree or disagree: Everyone is at least a little bit gay. 19. If you are not a lesbian, about what percentage of the time do you find yourself attracted to other girls? 20. Do you think it is possible to be a true 50/50 bisexual, or is the percentage always skewed towards one gender? 21. How often do you find yourself trying to sneak a peek or stare at a cute girl? 22. How accurate is your gaydar?

RELATIONSHIPS & DATING: 23. What is your current relationship status? 24. What is the longest relationship you’ve been in? Are you still with that person? 25. Do you remember anything about the first time you kissed another girl? 26. Are you a virgin? If not, what gender did you lose your virginity to? 27. What is your ideal first date? 28. What personality trait are you most attracted to? 29. How flirty are you? 30. Would you ever want to get married, if not already? 31 Do you want have children someday? 32. Would you ever want to give birth? 33. How often are you asked if you have a boyfriend? 34. Have you ever liked or dated a girl with the same name as you? 35. Have you ever been on your period the same time as a girlfriend? 36. Have you and a girlfriend ever been mistaken for sisters? 37. Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? 38. Have you ever dated a guy? 39. Has a girl ever dumped you for a guy? Have you? 40. Has another girl ever hit on you? 41. Have you ever had a crush on a straight girl? 42. Have you ever had a crush on a woman who’s significantly older than you? 43. Would you ever date a trans woman? 44. Have you ever had a profile on a LGBT dating website or app? 45. Where do you think is the best place to meet a potential lover? 46. Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic?

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE: 47. Have you ever cut your hair super short? If not, would you ever want to? 48. Is your nose pierced? 49. What is your opinion on septum/bull nose piercings? 50. Do you have any tattoos? If so, of what and where? 51. How muscular are you? 52. Are you or have you ever been a tomboy? 53. Have you ever been told that you don’t look gay, or that you’re too pretty to be gay? 54. Have you ever been mistaken as a dude?

FASHION STYLE: 55. Do you wear skirts and dresses? If so, how often? 56. Do you wear high heels? If so, how often? 57. How much jewelry do you typically wear? 58. How much makeup do you typically wear? 59. How often do you wear a bra? 60. How often do you wear flannel? 61. Have you ever worn a suit? 62. Do you wear any shoes such as combat boots, Doc Martins or Timberlands? 63. Do you carry a purse? 64. Do you wear any hats such as snapbacks or beanies? 65. Have you ever worn any men’s clothing? 66. Have you ever dressed in complete drag? 67. Have you ever shared clothes with a girlfriend? 68. If you want to get married, do you think you will wear a dress?

ENTERTAINMENT: 69. Who is your favorite LGBT celebrity? 70. Have you ever watched The L Word? 71. Have you ever watched Will & Grace? 72. Have you ever watched RuPaul’s Drag Race? 73. How well do you feel LGBT women are portrayed on television? 74. Do you listen to any LGBT musicians (i.e. Tegan & Sara, Melissa Etheridge, Chely Wright, Elton John, Sam smith, George Michael, Adam Lambert)? 75. Do you watch any LGBT YouTubers? 76. Do you have a favorite LGBT themed movie? 77. Do you have a favorite LGBT themed blog or website? 78. Do you read any LGBT magazines? 79. Have you read any LGBT themed literature? If so, do you have any recommendations? 80. Is there such a thing as “good” lesbian porn?

THIS OR THAT: 81. Boobs or butts? 82. Beer or wine? 83. Ellen or Portia?

BEING (SOMEWHAT) RANDOM: 84. How much do you like cats? 85. Have you ever been to a gay bar or a gay club? 86. How many LGBT friends do you have? 87. Do you have any LGBT relatives? 88. Have you ever used any words (or variations of) such as lesbian, queer, gay, or homosexual as a password? 89. How outdoorsy are you? 90. Have you ever driven an SUV, Jeep, or pickup truck? 91. How many rainbow items do you own? 92. Have you ever celebrated National Coming Out Day (Oct. 11)? 93. Have you ever participated in the National Day of Silence? 94. Have you ever attended a GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) type of club? 95. Have you ever attended a PFLAG (Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays) meeting? 96. Have you ever attended a gay or lesbian wedding? 97. Have you ever been part of a softball team? 98. Do you skateboard or longboard at all? 99. Do you play any video games?

FROM 1-10, HOW ATTRACTIVE ARE: 100. Muscular women? 101. Women who wear glasses? 102. Women who are covered with tattoos? 103. Women who are covered with piercings? 104. Curvy/plus-sized women? 105. Women with short hair? 106. Highly intelligent women? 107. Tall women (i.e. around 1.83 meters/6 feet or taller)? 108. Masculine/butch women?

GETTING SERIOUS: 109. What does equality mean to you?
 110. Do you consider yourself a feminist? 111. Do you eat meat at all? 112. Are you religious at all? 113. How do you feel about the terms “woman crush” and “girl crush”? 114. How do you feel when platonic female friends refer to each other as girlfriends? 115. How do you feel when people use the word gay to mean things such as stupid, dumb, boring, or idiotic? 116. Are you comfortable with terms such as lezzie, lesbo, dyke, homo, or tranny? 117. What are your views on gender identity and bathroom use? 118. Do you have any opinions on LGBT people in the military? 119. Have you ever been called a gay slur? 120. Have you ever been queer bashed? 121. Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality or gender identity? If so, please explain. 122. Does it really get better? 123. Americans: How did you feel on June 26, 2015? 124. How accepting of LGBT people is the city/community you live in? 125. Have you ever tried to “pray the gay away”? 126. How annoyed are you with how heteronormative society is? 127. What LGBT stereotype do you most disagree with? 128. Is there anything about the LGBT community that you wish you knew before coming out? 129. What advice would you give to a girl who is struggling to figure out her sexuality? 130. What advice would you give to a girl who is struggling to come out?

[kinda-sorta-gay]

Daily #LGBTask

76. From 1-10, how attractive are women with short hair?

Depends on the woman! Some women really pull it off, but personally I love long hair..

77. From 1-10, how attractive are masculine butch women?

For me? Probs like a 2.. I tend to like women more on the femme end of the spectrum, but some butch aspects can be hot.

78. From 1-10, how attractive are highly intelligent women?

47264712 billion. Brains are HOT!!😍🔥

79. From 1-10, how attractive are tall women (i.e. around 6 feet or taller)?

Height doesn't make much of a difference to me, but I guess 7 or 8.

80. Have you ever been on your period the same time as your girlfriend?

Never had a girlfriend. Much to my dismay lol.

[aliciameade]

2, 3 & 4 please!

2. At what age did you first realize that you like girls?Around 14

3. At what age did you first come out?To people in my actual real life, around 20

4. Who was the first person you came out to? How did they take it?Officially to my sister, who asked me if I was moving cross-country to room with a girl because I was dating the girl. And I said yes and she said cool and moved on. The end.

LGBTAsk Me Anything

[nepnops]

ok so @capriast asked me to do the bottom half of the all of the questions from the “questions for lgbt ladies #lgbtask” bc a bottom is what i am (her words not mine). so here we go. 

45. Have you and a girlfriend ever been mistaken for sisters?

nope,

46. Do you carry a purse?

nahh. i have a reebok side bag that i use often

47. Have you ever wished you were completely straight?

HAH no. i like women too much.

48. Do you watch any lesbian YouTubers?

strictly lesbian? ally hills on occasion. but an lgbt youtuber i really like is anima gaming.

49. Do you like wearing combat boots or Doc Martins?

i’d wear both if i owned them. 

50. Have you ever been hit on by another female?

its hard to tell, when a girl is hitting on me or not. being hit on could just be read as a simple compliment by me. so not sure. maybe. idk.

51. How athletic are you?

AH HA. this question just reminded me i should work out more. 

52. How many girlfriends have you had?

one. or uh two? its a lil complicated? 

53. What is your opinion of septum/bull nose piercings?

they’re ight. u do u. 

54. Do you have any opinions on LGBT people in the military?

not really. 

55. Do you believe in love at first sight?

no. infatuation at first sight, yes.

56. Have you ever shared clothes with a girlfriend?

i would have stole sweaters if my ex and i were not long distance.

57. Have you ever been on your period the same time as a girlfriend?

i think so.

58. How flirty are you?

nnnnn if the girl is flirty back i am a flirt machine

59. Are you a virgin?

.........yes

60. Do you listen to any LGBT musicians such as Tegan and Sara, Melissa Etheridge, or Chely Wright?

lmfao who r those ppl? never heard of them. i love hayley kiyoko tho. OH and pvris. p sure they count since lynn gunn is gay.

61. Have you ever been told that you are too pretty to be gay?

yea from my mom

62. Have you ever used or would you ever want to use a dildo?

sure i’d want to, why not

63. Have you ever used or would you ever want to use a strap-on?

sure again. listen. despite what @capriast said abt me being a bottom, i’d try wearin a strap on. i can be a switch if i WANNA. 

64. Is there such a thing as “good” lesbian porn?

ya

65. Have you ever had a one night stand?

no

66. Agree or disagree: Everyone is at least a little bit gay.

disagree. 

67. What personality trait are you most attracted to?

confidence, probs. or quirkiness. 

68. Boobs or butts?

uh. boobs i think. not like humongous ones tho. 

69. Beer or wine?

BEEEEEER

70. What is your favorite lesbian movie?

i dont think i’ve watched one. 

71. Have you ever been personally discriminated against because of your sexuality? If so, please explain.

dont think so. my father has strongly implied that if we knew i was gay he’d kick me outta the house. so theres that. 

72. From 1-10, how attractive are muscular women?

10000000 i love strong women holy shit, fuck me up

73. From 1-10, how attractive are women who wear glasses?

10, they cute

74. From 1-10, how attractive are women who are covered with tattoos?

9. hawt

75. From 1-10, how attractive are curvy/plus-size women?

im not too into curvy women tbh

76. From 1-10, how attractive are women with short hair?

8, v noice

77. From 1-10, how attractive are masculine butch women?

7, i’m more attracted to futch girls like me but butch gals r cool

78. Has a girl ever dumped you for a guy?

nope

79. Lesbian couples tend to look alike. Why do you think that is?

this concept goes for gay and hetero couples too, not just lesbian. but idk. i think theres some science behind it.

80. Do you have any LGBT relatives?

i have like, 4 gay aunts, a gay uncle, and gay cousin on my moms side lol.

82. Would you ever date a trans girl?

ye sure!

83. How has being out affected your relationship with women, in general?

not by much. i have good friends that accept me for who i am so not much has changed. just lotsa gay jokes. 

84. Have you ever had a crush on a woman who’s much older than you?

nah

85. Do you have any celebrity crushes?

they’re not crushes really. just woman that make my heart go “HHHFHFHGH” yknow? 

86. What does equality mean to you?

being, treated equality? is this supposed to be a trick question? 

87. If you could live your life all over again, would you still be attracted to other women?

probably

88. What stereotype about LGBT women do you disagree with the most?

that lgbt women tend to cheat a lot. what a horrible and negative thing to say abt a group of people. 

89. What advice would you give a girl who is struggling to figure out her sexuality?

u may hop from label to label from just tryna categorize ur sexuality. and thats completely okay. you will understand urself someday, no need to rush anything. find friends who will support u no matter what.

90. What advice would you give a girl who is struggling to come out?

dont come out if u arent sure you’ll be safe afterwards. if ur sure u will be ok after coming out, come out to the person one on one, while they’re driving a car. apparently thats better bc ur not forced to make eye contact with the person and the person has to keep their chill bc they’re driving a car. so yea. 

OK IM DONE @capriast not doing this many questions at once AGAIN

[babiebryn]

2 31 34 37 62(sorry XD) 66 68 80 88 90

Oh boy okay,,,

2. At what age did you first realize that you like girls?Idrk. When I was really young I always had an idea that I liked them but I liked guys too so I thought that was just me wishing I was gay but then when I was 14 I “realized” I was bisexual. But now I don’t like guys romantically at all anymore so I guess I’m lesbian now

31. Have you ever worn any men’s clothing? If my parents would allow it I would and I will when I turn 18 but rn the closest I’ve worn to men’s clothes are unisex shirts

34. Who is your favorite LGBT celebrity?Tbh I’m not that into celebrities for some reason but if I had to pick one it’d be Rebecca Sugar for creating my favorite show

37. What is your ideal first date?I think I’ve technically already had one? But if I have to describe my ideal one,,, idrk something casual? I don’t like really formal settings they make me nervous. Idk

62. Have you ever used or would you ever want to use a dildo?I never have. Idk whatever my partner is okay with. I don’t really have a preference I guess

66. Agree or disagree: everyone is at least a little bit gayS T R O N G L Y A G R E E

68. Boobs or butts?Boobs!!

80. Do you have any LGBT relatives?None confirmed. My parents have some suspicions about certain relatives, but my family is Indian and homophobic so no one in my family that is possibly gay is out for fear of being hated by the rest of the family.

88. What stereotype about LGBT women do you disagree with the most?That those of us who like dating more masculine girls secretly like them bc they like men or smt, that one really pisses me off

90. What advice would you give a girl struggling to come out?Don’t be afraid to come out of the closet bc of what people think, unless you think it’s going to be a danger to you in some way. A lot of cishets think LGBT people are not only weird but defects and inferior. Your sexuality or gender doesn’t make you inferior to anyone. In fact, if there are people who dislike that you are what you are, I’d say you’re superior to them bc you’re above all that petty negativity and discrimination. Plus, it becomes a lot easier to find people who can relate to you when you come out. However, in the end it’s all your choice to take it as slow or fast as you want, so don’t feel pressured to come out if you really feel you aren’t ready.

[ccboomer]

1, 2, 4, 18, and 19!

1. How do you define your sexuality? 

I think of myself as queer, because I like all encompassing-ness of the term. Like, I’m bi, poly, and I’ve been feeling more genderfluid recently? I’m not positive, but it’s something I’ve been exploring, and I like the idea of having room to breathe and explore that comes with queer. 

2. At what age did you first realize you like females? 

Hahaha, this is something I was just talking about with my sister. Looking back, I totes had a crush on my bestfriend in 1st grade. But I grew up watching Xena, where having a semi-romantic relationship with your best girl friend was just a normal thing, and you both totally dated other people but your girlfriend was The Relationship. (Like, rewatching Xena makes so many things so clear to me.)

But I realized bisexuality was a thing when I was in 8th grade, and realized that’s how I identified. 

4. Who was the first person you came out to? How did hey take it? 

I honestly don’t remember? I remember coming out to a friend my freshman year, but I also remember that I was already out to some people? Most of my friends were cool with it -- the one friend I came out to freshman year wasn’t, but that friendship was in the process of fizzling out anyway. 

18. What is your ideal first date? 

Who knows, man? All my first dates so far have been awkward. I’m either reserved while I feel the person out, or I’m in like, Customer Service Mode. So like, maybe an ideal first date would be one where I felt comfortable with the person, and we got food and maybe walked around somewhere, or hung out somewhere and talked and just sincerely connected even if I’m awkward and alternately don’t-talk and talk-too-much. 

19. What personality trait are you most attracted to? 

I love it when people are passionate. Like, we don’t have to love the same thing, but I love when I watch someone light up about something they like, even if it’s silly or embarrassing or hella heavy. That kind of dedication to something... It’s nice. It’s getting swept up into someone’s bubble for a moment, and sharing in that excitement and love and I just... I dig it.

[stillcian1675]

For the massive gay ask thing; 128, 129 & 130 please!

Oh uhm, these are kind of hard questions but I’ll try to answer as best as I can.

128. Is there anything about the LGBT community that you wish you knew before coming out?

I’m not out to everyone yet, only close friends and lowkey the internet so let me preface that by saying that’s my experience. That and I don’t actually have a lot of interactions with any LGBT people except people who are already my friends…or like, events/online. But if there’s one thing I wish I knew about the LGBT community, it’s that despite all of us being queer, there’s still a lot of discrimination and uninformed/unfair assumptions going on between different groups. I’m bi/pan and it’s frustrating how bi-erasure is more common than I’d think. People tend to assume I’m straight (I would assume) or lesbian (if I’m at any sort of LGBT event) and that’s not fun at all. I’m not trying to be negative but yeah, just wish I knew that even though the lgbt community is good in general, it’s still not always that great of a space for me.

129. What advice would you give to a girl who is struggling to figure out her sexuality?

First off, take your time! Try different methods, whether just talking to close friends/family (if they’re understanding), looking up people speaking up about their experiences on the internet, dating people… and don’t worry if you don’t really settle on anything or if none of the labels/sexualities fit at first. I’ve been on this journey for a few years now and I’m still finding things out about myself. So just, take it at your own pace, and remember that it’s about understanding yourself so *you* are the one that matters, first and foremost. :)

130. What advice would you give to a girl who is struggling to come out? 

Oh man.  I would need some advice on this myself. Haha. I’m half kidding. Well, I haven’t told my parents or any relatives, so I guess my best answer for this is, figure out first if you want to come out. There’s various reasons why you might not want to come out, or why it might not be the best idea to, or even unsafe to. Think through those first, before you decide if you want to come out. And if so, to who. Please don’t ever feel pressured to come out. If that’s the reason why you’re struggling, it might be best to relook the *why* of why you want to come out. 

However, if you’ve already decided to come out but just don’t know how to… maybe a way to do it would be to start with someone you think would be more understanding? I’ve tested the waters by watching videos of lgbt characters/people with friends I want to come out to and gauging their reactions first - whether they are open and willing to be understanding. So far I’ve been quite lucky that my friends are open about it? And then maybe after you’ve come out to the people who are more likely to understand, then you can work your way up to the others who may not be as …understanding but whom you still wish to come out to? That’s about all I have to offer. I hope some of it was useful or helpful. 

[maandarinee]

answer 1 - 14 of the lgbt ladies ask meme u nugget i dARE U

alright u chicken wing, here we go

1. How do you define your sexuality?“???” (so first I thought I was bi. Then I saw this and this tumblr post and I felt totally enlightened and realized I’m probably ace. But then, a couple of months later I found out that a general “meh” regarding sex can also actually come from birth control pills? Which I have been using since I was 16 or so, so I now I don’t know whether I’m actually ace or it’s just the pills ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #CRISIS

2. At what age did you first realize you like females?17-ish, I think. I lived very long with my “girl crush” believes

3. At what age did you first come out?At  20

4. Who was the first person you came out to? How did they take it?That was actually you, @duscaenorange, and I believe your reaction was somewhere along the lines of “lol same”The first time I came out to actual real life friends people was in a group chat to two friends back from school, and their reaction also turned out to basically be “lol same”

5. How out are you?Not very. I’m out to like 3 real life people and some tumblr folks, but I always feel like tumblr doesn’t count lmao

6. Has coming out lost you any friends? nope

7. In general, has being open about your sexuality or gender identity affected your relationship with other females?I wouldn’t really say that I’m open about my sexuality in my daily life, so there were definitely no affected relationships

8. Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality or gender identity? If so, please explain.No, but then again as I said, I’m not really out, so…

9. Have you ever wished you were completely straight?Yeah, just being straight would beat my whole “?????” thing I have going on right now

10. Agree or disagree: Everyone is at least a little bit gay.Disagree

11. If you are not a lesbian, about what percentage of the time you find yourself attracted to other females?I go “hot daaaaamn…” every time I walk past a pretty girl, so the answer is probably 100%

12. Do you think it is possible to be a true 50/50 bisexual, or is the percentage always skewed towards one gender?I think 50/50 is possible

13. How often do you find yourself trying to sneak a peek or staring at a cute female?like every day

14. How accurate is your gaydar?My gaydar is bullshit, I never know whether it’s telling me “They’re gay” or “You’re being gay right now”

► send me lgbt ladies asks

[pandakong]

59, 70, & 89!!

Bless you, Whoopi!59. Do you watch any LGBT YouTubers?

I actually keep my YouTube following pretty small. If we start back in the day, I used to watch literally every coming out live video on that website. For real, I would just binge them every few months. I sort of touched on it in a previous question but the main few I watch:

Marinashutup for stuff about feminism

Geek Remix for Let’s Plays (Mari and Stacy both like multiple genders)

Hannah Hart for bad puns and positivity 

Brian Jordan Alvarez for absurd gay humor and his awesome webseries

And I’ve seen Carmilla and will watch UnsolicitedProject for Pillow Talk sometimes

70. How outdoorsy are you?

I’m not very outdoorsy… I don’t like bugs and I’m scared of going to the bathroom in the wild. I will give hiking more of a chance now that I’m slightly more fit nowadays though. I’ve literally been too intimidated to talk to some girls because of how outdoorsy they are.

89. What does equality mean to you?

Big question! I know this is an LGBT ask, so I’m sure it’s trying to sway thinking toward that community. If we look at that specifically, it’s things like benefits for spouses, adoption, equal opportunities (i.e. not be discriminated against), funding and resources for health issues that disproportionately affect the lgbtq community. A more loving and accepting society... But equality is a lot more than that. If anyone is oppressed then there is no equality or justice. Things like wage equality and equal opportunities in career and life are important for poc, women, lgbtq, and disabled people alike, and all configurations of a mix of any marginalized group. Equality would be making all of these identities a non-issue. There’s much to be done fighting discrimination, both interpersonally and institutionally. 

#LGBTask

[souljinss]

Random Questions for LGBT Ladies #LGBTask pt 2

I’m doing the second section now yay (check out the original post with the same title)

RELATIONSHIPS & DATING:

23. What is your current relationship status?

- Single

24. What is the longest relationship you’ve been in? Are you still with that person?

- Sadly, it was two and a half months. But no, I’m not with them

25. Do you remember anything about the first time you kissed another girl?

- Yes

26. Are you a virgin? If not, what gender did you lose your virginity to?

- Yes, I’m a virgin

27. What is your ideal first date?

- Literally anything, as long as we both have fun

28. What personality trait are you most attracted to?

- I’m attracted to people’s kindness. How they treat the people around them and how they react to things and whatnot

29. How flirty are you?

- I’m like, unconsciously flirty. I can do it when I’m not trying, but the second I do try it just doesn’t work

30. Would you ever want to get married, if not already?

- Yes yes yes

31. Do you want to have children someday?

- Absolutely

32. Would you ever want to give birth?

- Yeah

33. How often are you asked if you have a boyfriend?

- I’m not asked, but people suggest it to me all the time “why don’t you have a bf” “you’re beautiful you should have a bf” like shut up

34. Have you ever liked or dated a girl with the same name as you?

- I didn’t know her enough to like her, but we were definitely talking and whatnot. Her name was spelled differently, but it was still the same name (we even had the same birthday like why weren’t we soulmates lol)

35. Have you ever been on your period the same time as a girlfriend?

- I don’t think so?

36. Have you and a girlfriend ever been mistaken for sisters?

- We lived apart so we never hung out

37. Have you ever been in a long distance relationship?

- Yes. She was my longest relationship too

38. Have you ever dated a guy?

- Kinda? Idk if I want to count those as relationships but yeah

39. Has a girl ever dumped you for a guy? Have you?

- No, but I dumped a girl for a guy yes. We weren’t together, but I was still questioning my sexuality at the time and I chose the guy I had a crush on rather than be with her (still regret it tbh)

40. Has another girl ever hit on you?

- Yes

41. Have you ever had a crush on a straight girl?

- I do right now, actually. Kinda sucks x1000

42. Have you ever had a crush on a woman who’s significantly older than you?

- No

43. Would you ever date a trans woman?

- Yes

44. Have you ever had a profile on a LGBT dating website or app?

- One or two lol

45. Where do you think is the best place to meet a potential lover?

- Anywhere, honestly

46. Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic?

- In some ways

[seekcoffeeandfindhappiness]

10, 14, 56, 60, 64, 66, 72, 77

10, Agree or disagree: Everyone is at least a little bit gay.Agreed. Some people are just in denial about it.

14, How accurate is your gaydar?Straight women stole lesbian fashion and killed my gaydar

56, Who is your favorite LGBT celebrity?Too many but I’m really into Rhea Butcher and Cameron Esposito these days

60, Do you have a favorite LGBT themed movie?IMAY or ICTS or Kyss Mig

64, Beer or wine?🍷

66, How much do you like cats?Now that I actually live with one? Not at all

72, How many rainbow items do you own?2

77, Have you ever been part of a softball team?Yup

[clara-is-brave]

lgbt asks- 7, 36, 57 :^)

7. What is your current relationship status?

I’m single (its been my current status for the past 21 years and God knows when it will change…)

36. Who is your favorite LGBT celebrity?

 David Bowie. 

57. If you are not a full blown lesbian, about what percentage of the time do you find yourself attracted to other females?

Well, I am bi. I’d say I’d find myself attracted to other females like 80-90% of the time. But the same can be said about males. When you’re bisexual, it can easily be both to where one doesn’t negate the other. 

[kinda-sorta-gay]

Daily #LGBTask

16. How accurate is your gaydar?

You know what? It's actually surprising me how good it is😂 I'm usually not wrong if I think someone is gay, but plenty of people probs slip under the radar.. gaydar*

17. Have you ever been to a gay bar or a gay club?

Yeah once! Mostly gay men and old straight couples though.. Damn Midwest!

18. How do you feel when platonic female friends refer to each other as girlfriends?

I don't see why it's necessary, it's just hella confusing. Especially in this day and age!

19. Have you ever had a crush on a straight girl?

I mean isn't that just like a right of passage?

20. Ellen or Portia?

...dude... it's fucking Ellen!