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[bdollbrittneys-blog]

Wanna take a bath with me🥵🥵

Chat me up on telegram, below is my telegram channel link to chat with me.

@Brittney_ts

Don’t forget to reblog

[riddimtwink]

[gothicgirlh-9]

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The stunning Natalie Mars 🖤🖤🖤

[therealmistressmidnight]

Disconnected Desires: The Struggle of Intimacy with ADHD

Intimacy is often painted as this magical, deeply connecting experience, but for someone with ADHD, it can feel anything but simple. One of the hardest things to explain is the constant battle between wanting to be present and the brain’s refusal to cooperate. It’s not that I don’t care or don’t want the connection—it’s that my mind seems determined to pull me away at the worst moments.

The Mental Struggle

Imagine this: you’re in a tender, intimate moment with your partner, and instead of melting into it, your brain starts throwing distractions at you like darts. Did I leave the stove on? Is that laundry still sitting in the washer? What am I even supposed to feel right now? It’s not just frustrating—it’s heartbreaking.

Sometimes, I can’t even pinpoint what pulls me out of the moment. It’s like my brain builds a wall between me and the connection I desperately want to feel. And the more I try to fight it, the stronger the disconnect becomes.

The Emotional Disconnect

The detachment isn’t just mental—it’s emotional, too. There are moments where I feel like I’m floating just outside my body, watching myself go through the motions. It’s not because I don’t love my partner or find them attractive. In fact, I feel the opposite—I want to connect so badly, but it’s like my emotions are on a delay.

Then there’s the shame. It’s so easy to spiral into guilt, wondering if my partner thinks I’m not invested or if they’re somehow to blame. That internal dialogue is a constant companion during these moments, which only makes it harder to pull myself back.

Sensory Overload

On top of everything else, there’s the issue of sensory overload. A light touch that should feel gentle might suddenly make my skin crawl. Background noises that should be easy to ignore become overwhelming. The heat of a hand on my body might feel suffocating instead of comforting.

It’s like my senses are on high alert, ready to pick apart every sensation until I can’t focus on anything but the discomfort. And once that happens, the intimacy is gone.

The Isolation of It All

What makes this struggle even harder is how isolating it feels. Intimacy is supposed to bring people closer, but ADHD often makes me feel like I’m on an island, completely disconnected from my partner.

It’s difficult to explain to someone who doesn’t experience it. How do you tell the person you love that you’re struggling to stay present when they’re being so vulnerable and open with you? How do you admit that, in the middle of such a tender moment, your brain is doing anything but cooperating?

When the Struggles Win

There are times when the struggle is too much, and I just want to give up. It’s exhausting to feel like I’m fighting my own mind every time I try to connect. And even though I know my partner is patient and understanding, it doesn’t stop the guilt from creeping in.

It’s not easy to talk about these struggles, and even harder to live with them. Intimacy should feel like a safe haven, but for someone with ADHD, it often feels like a battlefield.

For those reading this who share these struggles: you’re not alone. And for the partners trying to understand, know that it’s not about you—it’s about how ADHD shapes the way we experience the world, even in the most vulnerable moments.

[mellowyouthbluebird]

Message me on telegram if you what to meet up

Telegram: @Katrine_jackson

[ivangkr]

I am not tired😈

[jumpingjoolie]

Over time i have collected these sonic x pride flag pictures and they’re just so silly to see. I don’t hc most of the characters sexualities I just have these cause they’re so goofy lmfao. Like you got half of them in raging shock burning in fire 😭‼️💀

[philipchris7]

Loving the 🍌 🍌 .....yummy

[bdollbrittneys-blog]

Good moaning💦🍆🍆

Chat me up on telegram, below is my telegram channel link to chat with me.

@Brittney_ts

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[shortpersontm]

somebody wanna tell me why i can’t find a #lesbian tag on tumblr? 🤨 on TUMBLR?

[riddimtwink]

[gothicgirlh-9]

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Always a good reblog 💜💋🌈🕸🕸🕸

[veraspecials]

Hey guys who is ready to go on a long ride with me🤭❤️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🔞

[d4nnyartss]

Jolene I hope this finds you well, now that I've scrolled through your Tumblr a bit and seen that you are nothing but an imbecile I've decided to take my friends advice and publicly humiliate you (and have some insults, of course)

You are genuinely and shockingly one of the most stupid fucking people I've ever had the displeasure of meeting. All your posts are about nothing but negativity and murder and Idiocracy. Please for the love of God do some fucking research or open a book or literally fucking anything that might hopefully fill your head with enough brain cells to craft a response that doesn't have a typo in it. The "libturds" (as you affectionately call us) do not want to take away your rights, nor do we want to force you to take hormones and become transgender, nor do we want you to do anything against your will. In fact, all we want you to do is not be a dick! It's hard for you, I understand, since the only thing you've ever known is sucking on the old, white, rich men's dicks! Does it taste good? Being fed propaganda and swallowing it down without a care in the world? Is it fun posting about murdering other people simply for wanting to live their lives free of fear or execution for their existence? Actually, I should simplify those questions, since clearly that requires too high of critical thinking skills for you to comprehend.

You are an asshole. Period. Fuck Donald Trump, fuck Elon musk, fuck you, and fuck all the other Republicans. You have NO place on my blog and NO right to tell anyone else what to fucking do with THEIR BODIES and THEIR LIFE. Get one of your own for fucks sake.

Kisses from the LGBTQIA+ community that's not going anywhere 💚

[caitlyn--k]

Intro Post :

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My name is Caitlyn, I use She/Her, He/Him, and They/Them pronouns (in short, I have no solid preference). I am a lesbian.

I am a Dissociative Identity Disorder Alter, not a roleplay account. If you wish to roleplay with someone, please do not contact me for it.

Endogenics and Pro-endo, please do not interact with my blog. I do not partake in syscourse; I believe in what I believe, and I take responsibility for my own emotional safety online. I will block freely if I find myself uncomfortable.

My asks and messages are open — I enjoy interacting with people, so interactions are encouraged. But, considering the fact I'm not fronting all of the time and we have work and classes, remember I may not always respond immediately.

Thank you for reading. ♡

Ignore my awkward tagging, I likely will never get used to it lol

[sarahm2fcd]

Good day my fellow dressers/trans I’m only new here hoping to connect to a wider community of people like me and others who support the people we are. First question anyone got tips for makeup etc I’ve tried before but can never get a finish im happy with