#lfiestyle

[federicagiordanophotography]

[norcani]

i think its because i mostly watch booktube and most of those people are aspirational "lifestyle vloggers".

youtubers vastly overestimate how much i gaf about their private life

[nicksbestie]

hi lovie <3 you know i've been feeling really meh lately so maybe something with luke where he takes the day off to spend time in bed with the reader and make her feel loved and wanted? just really soft and cozy and warm vibes please. i can be more specific too if you want!

ily<33

word count : 1055

warnings : descriptions of depression and medication

<3

enjoy!

Depression sucks.

There’s no other way to describe it. It’s a debilitating illness that causes so much pain over the course of your life, and for a lot of people, it’s incredibly difficult to handle, even with medication, therapy, and other forms of help. You knew first hand just how difficult it was, having been attempting to continue with life as normal as possible whilst managing it for years now. The only thing that kept you going during a lot of your bad days was the fact that you had a loving partner who always put his best effort into helping you feel better. Of course, with Luke’s job, he was normally very busy. But despite this, he always made sure that you didn’t feel alone, that he loved you, and that there wasn’t a place he’d rather be than with you. 

Unfortunately, you had been having a bad night, and were not looking forward to when he inevitably had to leave for a writing session with the band in the morning. He wouldn’t be gone terribly long, but you just didn’t feel like you could function by yourself. However, even knowing that Luke cared so deeply about your well-being, you didn’t mention this to him, knowing how taxing his job could be, and how much he loved writing and creating music, especially with the band. It was his outlet, his do-it-yourself version of therapy, what kept him happy most days, and you didn’t want to take that away from him. The reasonable part of you knew that he would be happy to spend time with you and soothe your hurt, but the irrational part of you that told you that you would be bothering him won out, and you kept your mouth shut.

However, what you didn’t know was that Luke could read you like a book. He knew as soon as you comfortably laid down in his arms the previous night that you were struggling, and the second that you fell asleep, he sent off a text to the band’s group chat informing them that he wouldn’t be there the next day. He managed to slip out of bed an hour or two later, seeing as you had gotten too hot in his arms and adjusted a little bit away from him. He wasn’t intending to be nosy, but as he walked into the kitchen, seeing your medicine bottles on the counter, he noticed there were way too many in there to be halfway through a ninety-day supply. He decided to place it on the backburner for right now, knowing that taking them might definitely benefit you, but he also knew firsthand that once you got into a slump of not taking them, it was difficult to get back on track. 

He personally had never liked being on medication, even for the smallest of things, because it made him feel like his happiness revolved around a drug. But even with this being said, he still dealt with it when he was prescribed them, knowing that they made his lifestyle easier on his mind. Getting something to drink before heading back to bed, he felt incredibly sad at the notion that because of his lfiestyle, you were probably feeling worse than you may have been normally, because he was gone so much more. He made a silent vow to himself that he would make as many changes as he could to be home more, and luckily his job was flexible even though it was so busy. There wasn’t much that he could do about tour, but he could try and reschedule writing sessions or do it over the phone from home as much as he could. Obviously there would be times he couldn’t, but he would still do everything he could to make it easier on the both of you and give you more quality time with him. He got back into bed with you, you still being absolutely knocked out, and fell asleep curled up next to you.

When you woke up the next morning, you were incredibly shocked to see Luke still there, as it was nearing 10:30, and he had told you that the writing session was due to start at ten. He was still comfortably asleep next to you, always a late sleeper, especially when he wasn’t on tour. He always used as much of that time as he could to catch up on sleep, attempting to get his schedule back on track. But, because you were under the impression he was late, you roughly  shook him awake, feeling bad when he reached up to rub one eye. It took him a second or two to form a coherent sentence, yawning halfway through it. 

“What’s- what is it?” 

“You’re late! You were supposed to be at the studio nearly thirty minutes ago!”

He yawned again, checking the time before rolling back over and pulling you into his arms. Now it was your turn to be utterly confused, wondering why he wasn’t rushing considering Luke hated being late. 

“You have to go! Why aren’t you getting up?” 

He cracked a small smile at your concern, pressing a gentle kiss to the top of your head. 

“Relax, love. I told them I wasn’t coming today. I know you need me here.” 

You were always anxious about being a burden, and because of this, attempted to squirm out of his grasp. 

“No, you need to go. I’m fine, I’ll be fine-” 

He cut you off with another gentle kiss, this time to your lips. 

“No, you’re not. I’m staying, end of story. We don’t have to talk about it, but I’m not leaving you when I know you’ve been struggling. You haven’t been taking your meds, which hasn’t been helping, and I know you need someone with you today. I’d rather be here, with you, than be at the studio, and I hope you believe me when I say that, because I have never meant anything more.” 

It didn’t take long for you to break down in tears, some happy that he was staying, mostly sad because you were feeling badly. However, he stayed there with you the whole day, helping with every small task you didn’t feel strong enough to accomplish on your own, and you had never felt more loved.

[thedevotionaltour]

you guys wish you had my lfiestyle where i have my whatever crash fanart i made for a final hanging up hugely in my dining room

[ankhlesbian]

Car in da shop til monday so i must go forage at the farmers market instead of grocery shopping #hunting and gathering #neanderthal #paleolithic lfiestyle

[lapsko]

we need a new generation of lfiestyle bloggers romanticizing waking up at noon

[bitterseadrop-a]

🎀 💓🌺 :)

let's  talk  romance.      /      accepting !

🎀  ﹕  ❛  do  they  aim  to  impress  their  partner  often  ?  if  they  do,  how  so  ?  ❜

⠀⠀not  really  ...  she  knows  that  she  can  be  hell  to  deal  with  lmao,  and  she  won't  commit  to  a  relationship  until  she's  confident  about  it.  at  the  same  time,  she  assumes  that  her  partner  will  know  what  they're  getting  themselves  into,  they  made  a  concious  decision  to  be  with  her,  so  she  doesn't  see  the  need  to  impress  them  to  retain  their  attention  and  affection  or  similar.  nevertheless,  she's  really  transparent  in  communicating  her  feelings  with  her  partner  though  ...  in  most  cases  at  least.  she  knows  what  she  wants  but  also  does  her  best  to  let  her  partner  know  what  they  mean  to  her.

💓  ﹕  ❛  what  are  some  signs  your  muse  has  fallen  for  someone  ?  ❜

⠀⠀if  you're  an  outsider  or  on  the  receiving  side,  it's  hard  to  tell  whether  she  has  genuine  feelings  for  you  or  not.  it's  due  to  her  playful  and  flirty  nature  that  her  intentions  aren't  clear  and  are  always  to  be  taken  with  a  grain  of  salt.  should  you  take  the  time  to  look  at  her  beneath  the  surface  level  though,  you'll  be  rewarded  for  her  efforts.  it's  easy  to  see  when  she  has  a  soft  spot  in  a  platonic  sense  at  least,  as  she's  quick  to  take  on  a  'bigger  sister'  role  even  if  her  feelings  don't  actually  run  that  deep.  for  romantic  interests,  actions  for  sure  speak  louder  than  words.  once  the  threshold  has  been  crossed  and  she's  committed  to  someone,  it's  definitely  the  opposite  as  she's  a  lot  clearer  in  communication  then.  during  the  painful  pining  and  courting  though  ...  you'd  be  hard  pressed  to  have  her  take  the  first  step  in  being  vulnerable  and  expressing  her  feelings  verbally.  it's  more  likely  that  she'll  keep  a  close  eye  on  her  person  of  interest,  making  sure  that  they're  well  and  might  even  brighten  their  day  with  small  gestures  like  gift  giving.  she's  definitely  the  type  of  person  to  remember  something  you've  said  in  passing,  but  she  won't  actively  go  out  of  her  way  to  get  that  item  though.  it's  rather  that  when  she  stumbles  upon  it,  she'll  pick  it  up  and  gift  it  to  you  later  or  just  give  you  items  that  reminded  her  of  you  in  general.

🌺  ﹕  ❛  would  they  be  willing  to  change  any  part  of  them  for  a  partner  ?  if  not  how  far  would  they  be  willing  to  go  ?  ❜

⠀⠀uhhh  no  definitely  not  LMAO.  like  mentioned,  she'd  assume  that  her  partner  enters  a  relationship  with  her  knowing  full  well  who  she  is,  what  she  does  and  what  she's  capable  of.  she  doesn't  hide  her  lfiestyle  and  especially  not  from  someone  who  pursues  her  or  reciprocates  her  feelings.  if  they  can't  handle  that,  they  won't  be  able  to  handle  her.  it's  simple  as  that.  that  doesn't  mean  that  she's  without  rhyme  and  reason  or  that  she  won't  go  into  any  compromises,  though  she  very  much  dislikes  it  if  you  tell  her  what  to  do  or  she  gets  forced  into  something.  she's  happy  to  change  small  things  or  (  bad  )  habits  if  her  partner  wants  her  to,  like  smoking  or  cutting  down  on  drinking  for  example.  if  she  gets  told  to  completely  stop  drinking  though,  it  certainly  rubs  her  the  wrong  way.  she'd  understand  where  her  partner  is  coming  from  as  she's  fully  aware  that  while  it's  a  coping  mechanism  for  her,  it's  still  a  self-destructive  one.  nevertheless  she's  once  again  also  like  ....  you  know  what  you  were  getting  yourself  into.

[suitupweird]

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[thesyllabusforclass]

[dapperseoul]

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[kendyldiaries]

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[tnbtheories]

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[gregpowell]

Treasured Wealth.

[yahoogossips]

小心犯眾憎!睇戲時避免做呢5件滋擾事

迪士尼真人版《阿拉丁》近日在港上映，入得場預咗多小朋友會嘈啲，不過有網民喺FB專頁「生仔要考牌系列」投稿，指當日入場冇遇到扭計小朋友，反而遇到一位離譜家長!

呢位家長可能擔心小朋友聽唔明英文，又追唔上中文字幕，於是將戲中英文對白逐句用廣東話即時翻譯，「聲線仲要係有感情咁演繹個人物」!樓主指雖然家長把聲幾好聽，但呢種行為確實造成滋擾，不過樓主同該名家長座位有段距離，就算發出「sh」聲提醒都冇咩作用，持續到電影中後段先冇再出聲。

唔少網民批評家長行為自私，亦有人搞笑講「精靈，第一個願望幫我將個家長滅聲!」睇戲時安靜、關電話係常識吧，可惜香港實在有太多自私嘅人喇，一齊睇下仲有咩睇戲犯眾憎行為:

1.帶小朋友入場睇唔合適嘅戲

小朋友幾時扭計你唔會估到，如果戲中突然有情節嚇親小朋友爆喊，又或者好似上面例子咁，帶一個唔識聽英文睇中文嘅小朋友睇戲，就算冇即場翻譯咁極端，都好大可能會悶親小朋友，搞到佢坐唔定，騷擾到人又麻煩到自己，何必呢。

2.不停開手機

睇戲前溫馨提示「唔該熄咗部電話喇」，電話響時好應聲，加上場內燈光昏暗，打開電話螢幕發光嘅話，都係會影響到身邊人。

3.踢凳

睇一場戲至少要坐一至兩粒鐘，轉換坐姿在所難免，但都唔好不停踢到前方椅背。

4. 討論劇情

睇戲見到劇情愈來愈緊湊，點知聽到身後有人不停討論劇情，或發問一連串冇必要問題，同樣令人好困擾，我一定會忍唔住同佢講:「睇完戲先講得唔得?」

5.進食聲浪過大

未必套套戲都係音樂界澎湃，如果現場係睇緊套悲情文藝片，食嘢太大聲實在令人難以投入感情。

圖片來源：《阿拉丁》