#leviathan yells at folkel

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A narc abuse believer has reblogged from me so here's your Fucking reminder that no disorder is an abuser disorder. Your abuser(s) did/do not abuse you because they have an Abuser Disorder, they abuse(d) you because they believe(d) in their right to control you and had the means. And no, no disorder fucking creates that.

To abuse is a choice, and it's a carefully protected bolt in all the larger systems of oppression. To have a disability born out of being abused, that fucks You up, is not a fucking choice. And is certainly not a fucking protected bolt in the larger systems of oppression, rather the fucking opposite.

Yes, people with Any disorder Can choose to abuse. As well as people without that disorder! And people with that disorder are not fucking More Likely to abuse! And don't fucking armchair diagnose other people!

And the fucking case of parental abuse. You were not "raised by narcissists", you were raised by people whose literal societal role is to abuse you. Which Very Much does not absolve them. Parents are cops, and more. Read up on youth liberation and stop throwing *other survivors* into the fucking meat grinder.

And the fucking nerve to put anti-narc shit into the *npd* tags. You know well it's a Disorder, not an Abuser Personality Type that the abuser Chooses, and still demonize us.

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All the fucking fanart where there are a white character and a brown character, and the brown character's eyebrows are shrunken, while the white character's are literally larger than in canon.

fanart companion to "he would not fucking say that." he does not fucking look like that

[dyspunktional-leviathan]

Did you know? You can make a post about intra-human oppression/abuse without implying that oppression of nonhuman animals is perfectly fine.

(I mean. I know the point is you *actually think it is fine*. Change or go fuck yourself)

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When I am treated “like a child” because of my disabilities the thing fucking isn’t that they “should treat me as adult” the thing is they shouldn’t fucking treat actual children and youth like that

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Sure you reblog posts about supporting psychotics and OCDers but then you act like a psychotic / OCDer in your life is some kind of a fucking dark lord or some thing that deserves to be depersonized and degraded if they have a delusion or a compulsion that they cannot hold completely inside their head without you ever knowing.

Yes, including if it directly affects your life. You can address that without ableism, actually.

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This is literally just the same as if you'd put a real photo in a contest for hyperrealistic paintings. Fuck off.

Lmao.

[dyspunktional-leviathan]

Talk about that upcoming Australian law without positioning it as if "just" cutting socmed for under16s would be okay or promoting those who do, or I'll cut your internet off myself.

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The leftism leaving people's bodies the moment someone has an eating disorder and doesn't talk about it exclusively in a "I wOnT lEt iT rUiN mY LiFe" way.

I've literally fucking witnessed a bunch of self-proclaimed Mad Pride'rs shit on someone being "pro ed" for having a clearly labeled ED vent blog. Iirc the blog even had disclaimers like "not pro just vent".

[dyspunktional-leviathan]

Stop fucking lying to folx about what intrusive thoughts are. They do not have to be about “harming oneself or others” (in ways that *you* think are Objectively Harmful, not what might be harm to oneself to the individual experiencing them, of course, yea). They do not even have to be about actions at all.

Intrusive thoughts are your brain picking a theme that distresses you the most and bombarding you with thoughts about it because it thinks it’s protecting you from it that way (basically like an allergic reaction). That can be anything for anyone. And you don’t fucking get to decide what is distressing or non-distressing for others.

[dyspunktional-leviathan]

This on my dash again so now I'm putting this right here.

You really fucking can talk about stigmatized features being erased in favor of more normative ones without talking about "frankensteining faces that make no sense".

Mixed heritage people with atypical combinations of features, like myself, hear you. Other people with atypical features hear you. People with *facial deformities* hear you.

In my lifetime of realism-aimed drawing I have learned that unless it's literally completely physically impossible, *any* mistake you ever make while drawing faces is someone's real face, just less common. And the. Specific fucking words. "Frankensteining faces that make no sense". Thanks for the dehumanization! Already felt that about my very real face way more than enough in my lifetime!

How to draw Black characters. Because it's way too obvious when you drew a white person and gave them Black skin.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRg6YsKN/

-fae

[dyspunktional-leviathan]

Our blessed toxic yaoi vs their barbarous abusive shipping

Btw Intermission fandom this is still directly aimed at you and your trademark "character A has total power over character B and constantly nonconsensually harms them But they also get some damage from it all and B is attracted to them so it's not abuse, and if you ship abuse you should die"

I think I'm even done mulling over how I had not talked about this earlier or about making a huge post about it

And so very very much aimed at everyone else this applies to

And to make this clear

I support shipping abuse

Shipping abuse does not affect victims of abuse

Insisting that fictional abuse is not abuse does

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The year is 2024 and almost the fucking entirety of tumblr trans discourse looks like only men and women exist. I’m so fucking sick of you all.

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I think my disability benefits should include the legal right to beat up with my mobility aids anyone who thinks that dependency should mean giving up autonomy.

Signed, a dependent, currently abused, really fucking needing a non-abusive caregiver but not knowing if I can ever have them, disabled person.

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“Where would Jews not be considered settlers” you absolute fucks there’s a difference between living somewhere your lineage is in one way or another “not from” and oppressing, expelling and murdering the people there

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Raistlin: *is explicitly multiply chronically ill*

Fans in at least two different languages: why does Raistlin look ill???

Also yes, he was already disabled before the Test of High Sorcery! Stop forgetting that challenge!!!!

[dyspunktional-leviathan]

"Help these people, because the people harming them will also come for you" shut the fuck up shut the fuck up shut the fuck up shut the fuck up

Help because they are being harmed not because you might also get