#lack of stability
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I'm noticing that adults are often very offended when they see a child who has something they themselves didn't have in their childhood. I've had someone randomly start ranting about how their own grandchildren have 'too much toys', and how they don't appreciate any of it. They went on to explain how they, as a child, only had one toy, and they had to play with that one alone. They're also upset that children can now use phones, which also wasn't an option in their own childhood.
This is concerning to me, because while busy noticing all the things that children have, which are toys and phones, people don't tend to notice the things we had that are no longer available to the new generations. Planet free of pollution, free of climate change, adults got to experience that. Economy that isn't in this bad of a state, availability of jobs, education being worth something, financial safety, probability of owning a home. All of this has critically declined and turned into unstable, unreliable and difficult to manage situation for children, to the point where there's no clear path to a safe future anymore, for anyone. Current children have to invent jobs and find a way to produce a safe future without relying on an existing path, something that was available for most of the population in the past.
And the availability of phones and toys is not necessarily a luxury; back then nobody had a phone, or a mountain of toys, so it would be unusual and privileged for just one child to have it. But when everyone has that, it would be unusual and almost humiliating not to have it. The prices of these had reduced, they're more available and easy to get. The phones connected to the internet will ensure that the child will be exposed to a lot of information every day, and they'll have to find a way to deal with all that, it can become overwhelming and damage their attention span and emotional stability, if they're constantly exposed to distressing or disturbing information, which often finds its way to kids.
What will it mean for their life, if they had toys and phones as kids, but later on, they don't have a safe job? They can't hope to have a home of their own? They are not at freedom to financially plan their futures, their families, they have to depend on their own parents or relatives to get by? What will it feel like when they can't count on the climate and safe and reliable food sources? What when they're suffocated by the financial demands of just staying alive and fed? What if they don't have anyone to help financially? What if they're rendered mentally ill by the stress and perils happening in the world, all of it so close to them via constant overload of pain and suffering?
Having toys and phones is nothing compared to having an experience of a safe, stable, predictable life, on a planet with a normal, stable climate. We failed to secure this to our children. We have no business being jealous that they now have a phone.
#generational gap#climate change#adults being jealous and dumb#lack of stability#lack of a safe future
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There is an endless amount I love the last chapter of Mockingjay and the Epilouge. Genuinely sometimes I feel like I could write a whole novel sized thesis about it and still not quite be satisfied I got to talk about everything.
But I think on this list of my favorite details (which is a mile long) is that Katniss describes her daughter as dancing and playing. And her son as haveing 'chubby toddler legs' that he uses to follow after his older sis.
There could be no clearer way to show to me how happy and loved these children are. How loved and wanted and surrounded by safety and peace. Unloved children don't dance and play like this, children didn't have chubby toddler legs when Katniss grew up. To see these little details paints such a picture of how these children live, and prove their whole point of existence in the narrative from a writing perspective. It shows what the scars were for, what the pain that still lingers paid for. It assures us, even if it's vague, Katniss got to get out of this confusion.
She ended up being able to find and create what she wanted in the freedom she and others paid so high a price for. And while the loss it took will never go away and will always sting, that she got what she had coming to her, the peace and freedom she so craved and spends the rest of her life enjoying along with healing from the cost.
#I think when people realize there is a canonical REASON for Katniss's confusion the ending becomes 100 times sweeter.#Like yes teenagers are confused normally at the best of times but Katniss was confused because the lack of freedom Panem afforded her.#That is a theme throughout the WHOLE series. Katniss can never really put a firm finger on what she doesn't because she isn't give the#stability to explore anything or the time.#So the way she gets that time and stability post MJ? I love it so much#Katniss Everdeen#Toastbabies#The Hunger Games
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"I always wanted my friends to call me Gerry."
He never stayed in one place growing up. He could never bring himself to stay in the surface world. He stayed with Gertrude, as long as he could, but even that was lonely and dangerous and terrifying. And he never trusted her. He never trusted his mother. He never knew his father. He never had anyone he could rely on.
The last person he would ever speak to... and he finally decided that he'd found a friend.
Just... rest.
#tma#the magnus archives#gerard keay#genuinely teared up writing this. the more i think about him the more i want to start sobbing#and yet he helped so many people. so rarely does he show up in a statement and not save someone#he did his best to make his body his own given the lack of stability. it was still taken from him in the end#yet... he decided jon was his friend. someone like him. thrown into a world he wanted no part of and trapped there#being dragged along by currents he could not know towards and end that couldn't be predicted but that must be terrible#long after he should have gone from the world forever and just as he made the final choice to leave. he found a friend#gerry keay#i guess is also his tag#ok i need to make tea before i cry
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I just realized Li Chenzhou's hair sticks look a little like the Rama Ice Shards from mlc lol
Gotta love how the main mlc crew was scrambling over the ice shards for half the show and Li chenzhou just wears them in his hair to say "What, like it's hard?"
#mysterious lotus casebook#lian hua lou#cheng yi#Fushanhai#li chenzhou#Xiao qiushui#go to the mountains and sea#赴山海#Anyways all things aside Cheng yi why are you so pretty consider my mental stability#There was a weibo hot Search earlier wondering if cy fans were going crazy from the lack of new dramas#Yes yes we are yingxiongzhi come over please#Atp cy fans are going to think up the most ridiculous shit from going stir crazy
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just because your peers are reaching “life milestones” before you doesn’t mean you’re falling behind in life. You’re not behind in life. You’re not you’re not you’re not you’re not and maybe someday you’ll believe it
#one of those nights folks!#I know when and if a person reaches so called life milestones is arbitrary!!! But why am I so behind???#it’s just. more people I grew up with are getting married and having kids#I don’t even think I want kids!!#it’s just that it goes along with them having the relationships and stability to do so!!#and I’m envious of that!#and it’s pathetic that I still blame all the bullying I went through for my lack of relationships when I know it’s really my own fault#for not bettering myself and going out and meeting people and instead waiting for a future where I’m no longer disgusted with my body#ack sorry if you opened the tags only to be slapped in the face with vent#it be like this sometimes
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!!! Blood !!!
Wake up babe, the Nile turned red
Just an idea that wouldn't leave my mind and that I had to execute in some way. Don't be shy, join them :>
It's their birthday apparently? or like today's Valdemar day, like the 5th of May? idk-
#my art#digital art#my artstyle#art#fanart#my art style#rendered#cooked#artists on tumblr#do not download#do not repost#the arcana#the arcana valdemar#the arcana fanart#the arcana game#the arcana courtiers#quaestor valdemar#valdemar#valdemar the arcana#valdemar fanart#thirstying like crazy#I be putting my anatomy skills to good use#those bandages were the death of me without stabilizer#I would dip in there so fast like a fucking olympics professional swimmer#I don't know who was the first to draw those stripes on them but I just followed like a sheep bc I think it looks cool#plz don't sue me for my lack of skills in blood and backgrounds#hope you enjoy#valdemar simps#unite#valdemart
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still thinking about bevin and how insanely good it is and how much POTENTIAL it has and how practically nobody ships it. it literally has something in EVERY SERIES.
in original series, ben and kevin almost immediately befriended each other. this is notable because ben, as we know, canonically doesnt seem to have *any* friends before the road trip, and we can assume that kevin doesnt have any either. even after they stop being friends, ben CONSTANTLY and CONSISTENTLY tries to help kevin and CONTINUES giving him chances to get help and get better, even at his own detriment and sometimes the detriment of his family. even outside of these chances, we can see how ben's inability to protect and save kevin affects him through the rest of the series and the way he treats people.
in alien force, especially in seasons one and two, ben ALMOST IMMEDIATELY trusts and befriends kevin, despite the fact that he, perhaps more than literally anybody else that we know of, has the most reason not to do so. he is even constantly reiterating the fact that hes friends with kevin and that kevin is important to him. hell, in the VERY FIRST EPISODE, kevin punches a hole in ben (as swampfire)s stomach, and ben STILL befriends him. and kevin BEFRIENDS HIM BACK!!!!!!! kevin literally joins the tennyson team practically MINUTES after reuniting with them. HE LITERALLY LET VULKANNUS TURN HIM INTO A LIVING TADENITE STATUE JUST SO THAT HE COULD GET THE HOLO FOR BEN!!!!!!!!!
ultimate alien is a mixed bag, i wont even try to argue that. but what we do know is that prior to the ultimate kevin arc, it was KEVINS turn to reiterate how much ben means to him. they have MULTIPLE CONVERSATIONS about it!!! and kevin RISKED HIS LIFE (again!!!) during the ultimate sacrifice just to get ben help when he was trapped in the omnitrix with the ultimates!!! and even AFTER THE ULTIMATE ARC, kevin and ben wordlessly walked off into the sunset TOGETHER. not kevin and gwen. not even kevin, gwen, and ben. it was just the two of them.
in omniverse, there was LITERALLY THE ROOTERS ARC. 12 year old kevin who carried around a picture of ben all the time. from hedorium to eternity, where even when ben and kevin were butting heads the entire time, ben was the first one to jump into action to try and save kevin. ben trusting kevin during the entirety of the rooters arc, from the second he went to warn kevin about the rooters, to he and kevin fighting in the hallway, ben never once gave up on kevin.
even in reboot, when ben and kevin are, again some of each others only friends. its in the way that kevin genuinely seems to think theyre best friends even from the moment we meet them, despite knowing that ben doesnt feel the same way. its in the way ben and kevin eventually end up fighting seemingly out of habit before they just go off to play and have fun and just be kids together. its in the way that kevin and ben always had each others backs when they needed it. its in the way that kevins obsession with ben reads more like a crush he doesnt know how to handle than in a frenemy relationship. its in the way that ben looks out for kevin even when hes told he shouldnt.
LIKE I JUST!!!!!!!! im not going to bash on other ships. i am NOT going to bash on other ships. but i just dont understand how it is that more people dont ship them.
#ben 10#ben tennyson#kevin levin#bevin#ben 10 alien force#ben 10 ultimate alien#ben 10 omniverse#ben 10 reboot#ben 10 2016#actually i am gonna bash on other ships a bit because i mean. come the fuck on.#gwen is literally borderline abusive to kevin throughout their relationship#and rook and ben is... fine. but it lacks a depth that ben and kevin have#and you might try to bring up the feats that rook and ben have bore witness to#including but not limited to seeing the creation of the universe#and to that i just have to say... so? ben and kevin (and gwen) went to the forge of time together#and kevin literally sacrificed his sanity and stability to save the universe and the people he loved#rook and ben are fine. but theyre lacking. and gwen and kevin are literally a horrific couple
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Let's be real for a second. Gonna keep it a buck fifty, Dick Grayson is not the sane and rational member that people make him out to be.
That man is a few seconds away, at any given point in time, from killing someone else or killing himself. He bottles up his emotions just like his dear old dad taught him to. None of them are the sane and rational one, that's what makes the batfam silly. They're all depressed vigilantes who just want to make a difference.
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There is SO MUCH going on in the Poe Clan I keep starting posts and deleting them trying to put it into words, like, yes, it is toxic codependent 5th-dimensional gay vampire chess, but it's also like---what if you lived forever and grew jaded and bored with humanity like all vampires do but also you still had the same emotional vulnerability you had in 6th grade.
#the story hits in that very specific intersection of dawning awareness and intelligence#but lack or morals and self-stability#the poe clan
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there is some symbolism iv never considered in that one episod of pt5 where zenigata rescues fujiko before she kills lupin
#there are many timelines and variations in lupin as a serie so that every ship could work#in my own prefered timeline lupin finally gets the hint that fujiko plays him like a fiddle#to me she does like him but he is an instrument to her#she is cold hearted and calculating and always thinking about relationships in terms of profit#i got some ideas abt her background that justify this. essentially she kills the detective that is after her and with that kills#the soft part of her that she couldnt control before#eventually and despite his affection lupin gives up the objectifications and the desires he projects onto fujiko#whom uses his delusions like a master tbh#thus allowing himself to consider zenigata. he plays with zenigata the way fujiko plays with him#hes just not as calculating. he feels pity and remorse where fujiko doesnt#he finds the thrills and the doubts and the lack of trust and the risk of betrayal in zenigata. the things that he loves the most#he isnt about stability. he thrives in the unknown. he loves that zenigata could backstab him and does so sometimes#and in that lack of stabilty some form of stability builds up. there is familiarity#and most importantly there are rare times when they can put the game aside and just chill#just enough to gather the energy to go back to trying to kill each other#plus zenigata pampers him during those breaks and he loves that#he acts with carelessness but he does care. in that regard he looses to fujiko#at least thats how she sees it. he doesnt see caring as a flaw#and zenigata is so sweet. he really is. and lupin loves to stirr up the crazy in him#fucking loonies the both of them#so in essence zenigata doesnt really 'save' him from fujiko but he becomes lupins new favourite toy to throw around#fujiko is only upset that because of that ugly looser of a detective her grip on lupin is loosening#she does find ways to use that newly developed affection luzeni has to her advantage thou#lupin is still her instrument she just drags zenigata along now#fujiko is such a good and interesting character and deserves so much better honestly#despite my love for TWCFM i wish there was another serie centralized around her where her ruthlessness is examined#and her cunning is studied. and the proper law enforcement she should face the same way lupin does#shes like a million times smarter and more ressourceful than him. steals much more. embezzles. manipulate#lupin is just a small time pickpocket next to her. she isnt about stealing a painting shes about emptying the pockets of the richest men in#the world. her goals are much more ambitious
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at 3am crying over James Sunderland
#ann's talk ⋆𐙚₊˚⊹♡#THE CAR SCENE WHAT THE HELL#they just took away my lack of emotional stability. My God#silent hill 2 remake#silent hill 2#james sunderland#silent hill 2 remake spoilers
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According to my Don lore, by the time you find him in the Caliente house he hadn't spoken to his mother - really spoken to her - in at least two years.
#he prefers not talking to her cause its peaceful#and her lack of stability made it easy to drop contact or lose it#<3 anyway pt 2 of my update is coming
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Thanks to someone going back and liking a relevant post, I was reminded that I was talking about cutting my hair short again OVER A YEAR AGO when it was not quite shoulder length. It's down to my collarbone now and I keep fighting with myself about chopping it all off. I think I'm there mentally but the one worry is that I'm job hunting and my mum (( so very "helpfully" )) suggested that potential employers might "judge" me if I have short hair. She couldn't (or wouldn't) explain what kind of judgement she meant but it still worries me. I'm having a hard enough time finding a job as it is so I don't want to put another hurdle in my way if I can help it.
I've been telling myself that I can cut it once I've settled into a job but it's SO tempting to go ahead with it sooner.
#look I'd love to be ~true to myself~ and everything but if looking more feminine helps me AT ALL with landing a job I'll take it right now#i know that it's a choice lacking in integrity & I generally advocate for people allowing themselves to be authentic despite others opinion#but if this helps me at all in the effort to get a job and get the fuck out of here then I'm willing to bend my stance a bit#and if other people need to do the same then go for it. we have to look out for number one and for me at least that means attaining -#- financial stability and independence at (almost) any cost#i don't know why I have such a complicated relationship with my hair after I've done so much to it#probably in part cause I have ALWAYS had lots of people commenting on it so subconsciously I know other people are looking#idk it's all very stupid but if this is how the game is played then I guess I'll try. at least until I'm somewhere more stable#if you read all this then thanks I guess I needed to rant#august talking
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just over here casually suffering, as one does.
#i’m having a crazy allergic reaction on my skin that the steroids aren’t even touchingggggg#but i’m being soooooooooo brave about it#i’ve been literally In Distress for days now bc i was stressed out and lacking every hormone#my body did not know what to fuckin do#but i finally did a t shot and saw some friends so i remembered what emotional stability was again#tomorrow i am going to SLEEEP#and eat soup#and SLEEP!#(WHEN will side sleeping return from the war… 😔😔)
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i know that a majority of the characters in aftg with visible scars and injuries don’t necessarily have permanent or chronic injuries but it’s a nice change of pace to see fan art depict injuries and scars across the board. comics really shy away from characters being visibly hurt for longer than the story “requires” or showing past physical trauma outside of one off moments and it’s especially wild that characters so reliant on physical fitness aren’t regularly depicted with tools to aid in the upkeep of that. both in canon and in fanon??? for something with a plot as outlandish as cape comics it’s so refreshing to see scars and kt tape and braces be a mainstay in aftg fanwork. love u recovery devices. love u body maintenance tools. love u sports medicine
#this whole post could just be ‘love u sports medicine’#but in just stating that that art of jean in the hinged brace#IM JUST STARING**#i did the same thing with serpaz art when i got my first knee brace#it was so clunky and not as well fitted as an everyday brace would be but STILL#i felt SEEN!!!#sports med is such a huge part of my existence i really froth at the mouth over the thought of s character in a brace#that handful of panels with steph in a compression/knee cap stabilizing brace in batgirls??????#i made a buTTON OUT OF IT#all this to say#i bought kt tape again#forgot how much i like it#putting kevin in my pocket that’s a permanent injury#hand injuries are so difficult#kevin’s is canon but neil and jean are high contenders#jean for his LCL and the overcompensation injuries that would inevitably come from a lack of proper rehab#on top of overexterion and the sheer amount of physical abuse#neil for#being neil#just look at him#he’s never once had access to pt and the nerve damage alone is staggering#kevin can mitigate overextertion with his insanity about sports med but neil left to his own devices doesn’t have that background#kevin buy him a freeze sleeve#or four#this could be its own post#i had an ortho appt this week so i’m usually sappy about art with injuries#flynn.txt#aftg
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also thinking abt the mpv section of razorverse rn bc of this. i'm constantly changing my mind on how maple should die buuut i think i'm gonna have reedshine do it. have mapleshade see it as "the one who carries appledusk's legacy killed me" perhaps....
#i wanna overhaul reedshine bc i feel like she was really done dirty in the narrative. shes not really... allowed to be a character#shes upset w apple for two seconds before shes like ''eh its fine''#so i might be like. she has a fucked up toxic relationship with him where shes aware hes cheating on her and doesnt care about her#but stays with him out of a lack of respect for herself and bc she wants the stability for their kits#and when the reveal happens shes kinda humiliated but still feels the need to stick up for apple bc hes ''soooo sad''#and is paranoid she'll be looked down on for dumping him ''when their kits need a father and hes experiencing intense grief''#when she kills maple its out of self defense. maple attacks her and reed acts on adrenaline and kills her
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