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pup-pee · 1 day ago

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ITS THEMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#i honestly dont know Y i started rambling BUT I DID SO IF ANY1 WANTS 2 READ IT ITS DOWN THERRREEEEE #well ok ik Y its bc im insane about kart just AAAAAAAAA let me try 2 mask my giddiness 4 a wee second #i just ihvae such a specific idea of them about this conversation in my head askjhfakfla #how they r so similar in their differences that things like “advice” or “perspective” hit harder 2 eachother?#so i just AAAAAAA i jsut AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA #bart in my head is much less scared 2 take a step even if there r a MILLION steps #if he wants 2 start solving an issue HE WILL START.#kon on the other hand 2 me would perhaps get a bit depressed about it #he will think about the issue but not WANT 2 take the “next step” ((sorta speak?)) until he has a vague understandign of how he wants 2 mov #bc of past experiences how that didnt exactly work out 4 him #like tldr; bart when scared tackles the problem head on in his own way while kon when scared bcomes a bit paralyzed #again i dont uhhhh im not super confident in my characterizations of these guys no matter how muhc i love them bc i havent read every comic #book in the world & just AAAAAAAAAA most of this is me thinking about them l8 @ night akjsHFljksagfajhfwe #which is rn #ANWYAYS IDK IF UR READING MY RAMBLE THERE MAY B NO POINT AKJSHFJKW #TY 4 THE TAGG!!!!!#I LOVE THIS ART ITS SO COLORFUL!!!!#& ITS ALSO THEM!!! BUT ALSO JUST SO GOOD & THE DIALOGUE MAKES ME HAVEA CRISIS ITS SO GOOD #TASTE LIKE TRIX THE CEREAL & IT REMINDS ME OF CHILDHOOD & THE THINGS IVE DONE WHILE SCARED OR SHOULDVE DONE #REFLECTING ON EVERYHTING #THE CRAYON TEXTURE IS SO NOMMY NOMYM I EAT ITT!!!!!#i love u bright blue lineart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3333 #the stars make me happy #reblog

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theambitiouswoman · 2 days ago

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Im the girl who asked the advice for the guy who just broke up. He invited me at his birthday today and kissed another girl in front of me..

left the birthday telling him that I thought that at least we have interest in each others he told me that he explained wrong and there's no interest. And how he was able to do this in front of me....

I feel my chest so heavy rn I can't sleep and he even made me go back home at 4am alone and didn't even asked me where I was etc. I felt teased from all of his friends.

During today he didn’t even text me and I know it’s his birthday but he could send me at least an are u ok.

I hate him so much for what he did to me

I’m so sorry you went through that. What he did was deeply hurtful & you didn’t deserve any of it. Watching someone disrespect your feelings like that, especially so publicly is a cruel experience.

Right now, it’s okay to feel angry and upset. You have every right to feel what you’re feeling—don’t let anyone minimize that. But try to remind yourself of this: his actions say everything about him, not about your worth. Someone who truly values you would never treat you like this.

Moving forward, I need you to remember a few things:

1. Men are very direct. Take what they say at face value.

2. No one is going to reject attention— it doesn’t mean interest (re read 1).

3. Always take mixed signals as a no.

4. When a man wants you, nothing you or anyone can do will change his mind.

5. Emotionally unavailable people aren’t emotionally available to anyone. If they were emotionally available to US, they would be emotionally available. No confusion. ( re read 1)

This might sound a little blunt but you just simply do not deserve to have been put in that position.

You deserve someone who is sure about you. Is clear about their intentions and only wants you. If you have to over think and analyze, hope, wish, try to convince, it’s is not for you. And honestly not everyone should be for you because you are special, amazing and unique.

Also, don’t talk to that guy again please, he suck’s 💗

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popppyfur · 28 days ago

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sometimes when i like characters thisssss much i like drawing unnecessarily complicated comics of them having a normal ass conversation

#dreamworks trolls #trolls #trolls band together #king peppy #viva #poppy #HATE these guys #if you recognize the dialogue [smooches u] i liked it a lot and wanted to practice comic panelling so i drew it out too #doodling #they exchange leadin advice at the breakfast table but mostly its poppy kinda just taking in the Phenomenom of people in her life #Actually talking about their time at the troll tree bc when she asks for advice all vivas knowledge link back #to what peppy taught her back at bergentown #and peppy has the spine to not run away for once but he is still slightly kinda minorly scared of his eldest daughter #but. they make do.#i know most of these ended up kinda crude and its bc i rushed these but im really happy w poppys weird grimaces #i want to draw her more experiencing Emotions #ok. done yapping. remember okay. royal pop fam. ok. thank you. boops you #happy halloween (post not relevant at all)

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luck-of-the-drawings · 6 months ago

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when i was in highschool one o my biggest coping mechanisms was drawing all the kids i hated getting killed and eaten and killed. and well. time is a slowly ascending spiral. you will find patterns.(i work as a blackjack dealer. gamblers are FASCINATING

#cw blood #luckys original content #ITS SMALL BUT ITS ART SO IT GOES ON THE ART BLOG #also wwaooooww its meee its my lil persona!!! i dont draw myself enough....#anyway i have bigger things in the works. im slowly but surely chipping away at a pd thumbnail for that pd thumbnail project #FINALLY COLORING. BUT COLORING IS SO HARD AND I HAVNT BEEN IN THE COLORING MOOD #SO IVE JUST BEEN MAKING RLY DUMB COMICS INSTEAD... OOPS..#idk if anything finished n polished will be posted here anytime soon. BUT i post wips of everything on my twitter #and i post jrwi exclusive wips on my slucky blog. you may look at those if u have Truck Art Wishdrawls. as many do. as many do #THIS BLACKJACK JOB IS RLY AWESOME BTW DONT GET ME WRONG #i work three 12-hour days ina row. i gotta take an hourlong bus up to the depths o the mountains and then #i get to stay in this delightful lil hotel that was built in an ooold hospital. its a whole casino town. and an OLD one at that #ITS GORGEOUS HERE. last week my bus home was delayed for 2 hours #so i finally got the chance to head to other casinos and try drinkin n gambling. lost ten bucks to a pretty girl. NOT the first time #i rlly wanna try it again!!! i love interracting w ppl and i love being inebriated in public bc im just so sweet and pleasant and friendly #and pretty girls LLOOOOVEE MEEEEE i think i just need to go to gay bars more #but theres fucking NONE HERE. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im collectin comrade queers up here tho #we wanna make a Group but we just gotta come up witha name first. i need something weird and strange #yknow i remember being in highschool. and being miserable n unmedicated. my mommas ultimatum was that;#if i dont drop out of highschool; i dont need to move out. she probably wouldntve kicked me out anyway bc my mommas sweet like that but #she REALLY wanted me to graduate. and i remember dreading that i might never do that #i remember feeling like the Resident Idiot. sweet but so so fucking dumb. it took me 7 years of strife n stress before i finally graduated #i remember worrying back then that i might not ever be able to handle myself out there. that i'd be too dependant on others #AND HERE I AM. DID U KNOW I WAS LOOKIN AT HOUSES A WHILE AGO? IM AN ADULT AND IM WWINNINNNGGGGGGG #IM RUNNING OUTA ROOM BUT HERES MY ADVICE TO YOU. BC I KNOW UR FUCKING SCARED TOO. THE ONE THING THAT SAVED ME.#THAT KEPT ME FROM SINKING INTO DESPAIR IS REMEMBERING ONE THING: ITS LITERALLY JUST LIKE VIDEO GAMES #MOST PPL YOU CAN JUST WALK UP TO N ASK A QUESTION N THEYLL ANSWER. THEYRE ALL NPCS THEYRE NOT REAL #LIKE IF U WALK INTO A BANK AND ASK HOW A DEBIT CARD WORKS THEY WILL HELP YOU #AND IF YOU THINK THEY HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES RELATING TO MONEY. YOU CAN ASK THE CUSTOMERS TOO. ITS JUST LIKE VIDEO GAMES #ANYWAY STAY SAFE KIDS HAVE FUNNNNN. IM GOING TO GO DO DRUGS NOW. HOPE U CAN DO DRUGS SOON TOO. I LOVE YOU

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uhzuku · 9 months ago

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are u ever gonna write again

to be completely honest w u i don’t really know <3 atm i am perfectly content kicking back n playing games n reading on ao3!! i finished my last comm from my last set and i wrote one gojo thing in jan but other than that i don’t really feel like writing!! i have SEVERAL drafts sitting in varying degrees of completion tho so if i do write u would get one of those dhfbhfcn

#a sub aventurine one is there! n also rutting alastor x doe reader! n lucifer x hellhound guard!#several shou-nya n normal sho ones! more subby male content! shenhe!!#will they be done? who knows!#all ik rn bestie is that i’m enjoying life and slowly drifting from writing #this blog has NEVER had a schedule of any kind and never will <33 so it will go wherever the wind takes it #also teensie word of advice: pls work a lil bit on your phrasing <3 this came off a lil bit rude ish even if u didn’t mean it that way <3 #i’m always always always down to chat tho! my inbox is always open!! y’all can use the anon button as much as u want!! its why she’s on <33 #other than this tho im just gonna be rbing away n playing games n sleeping in between work n taking care of my furry terror child #anyways! back to gensh <33 #cas has mail !!#caspian.anon #USER ID: guest ..!

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martinskiseyes · 3 months ago

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#i dont think i will ever be able to tell if im bi or gay or or #shucks mannnn compulsory heterosexuality makes me immediately sick #and in the literal sense too #like i was at my friend's wedding and brought a guy (a friend of mine or acquaintance more like. i just thought he is a good fit for #wedding party. and he was)#but all my friends were immediately like. as soon as he went to the bathroom. they were going ' you should 100% date him'#'he is a good husband material' 'we could finally go on double dates🤠'#right after i felt so sick i thought i was gonna throw up #i mean it might be the alcohol kicking in but i just find it funny that i felt it after they said all that #two of my friends wanted to speak in private with me and were like 'is he..? are u considering him AT LEAST?'#i know they had no bad intentions. quite the opposite but years after years i still get sad (understatement tbh) abt it..#another part of me knows that this is my fault bc i should've just communicated that i am not comfortable about such comments and #that i (surprise surprise) might not be straight! and that this isnt any default sexuality #buuuuuut how do i tell them this when i honestly dont feel like telling them so that i am able to figure things out on my own terms. i mean #one of my friends kind of knows and i never ever said anything to confirm nor deny anything xjhstwfy why is it so hard #on the other hand. yesterday for the first time i kind of got the feeling that it doesnt matter and that either way i will find happiness #SOME DAY maybe and i dont have to say anything and i can just not take their ~advice seriously and go on about my life #mine

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bogkeep · 4 months ago

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first week back at school and ahhhhhh everything is a little overwhelming currently

- my living space is full of boxes i have simply not had the energy to unpack at all.... hopefully this weekend (but i have also been invited to a Social Event so WE SHALL SEE)

- this school year is going to have So Much Important Stuff happening inbetween the many weeks of practice placement

- such as The Academic Text

- AND i need to finish the big project i was supposed to have finished ages ago

- our teacher this year speaks swedish with a very thick french accent and i speak norwegian with a dialect, we really struggle to understand one another but maybe hopefully that will change over time.... please...........

- i'm stressed about Stupid Bureaucracy Stuff

- and im so so sleepytired :(((

- and it's too humid and warm for comfort :(((((

AT LEAST I HAVE CUTE SOCKS

purchased in a distraught jetlag haze and subsidized by my travel insurance. they're my favourites now

#swedenquest #everything happens so much :(((#but i will be okay...!!!!!!!! no unsolicited advice please #in fact i have been given resources for metacognitive therapy to fight my brain demons and im excited to get more into that #but also how am i supposed to read anything under these circumstances.#tomorrow is self study day and if i wasn't so stressed about Big Project I would've made myself stay at home and rest/unpack #ill simply have to compromise. sleep a little bit longer; couple hours of tinkering at school #take it easy but take it!!!!#also god i was first out to have kitchen cleaning responsibilities this week #which isnt Hard u just need to run the break room dishwasher and take out the trash BUT #the trash bags are the worst quality trash bags i have ever encountered. they tore at my touch.#i tried so hard to remove the trash from the trash cans in a neat and professional manner but it all kept falling apart #and next thing you know there's coffee grounds all over the floor and everyone looks at you with pity #i got some help but it was so stressful and Bad #and there's someone in the 2nd year who keeps emptying the dishwasher even tho it's not their turn and I WOULD DO IT IF U WAITED FIVE MINUT #they did this all the time last year too and it's like. i get that they're stressed out by dishes in the sink or whatever i really do get i #but it's really messing with the system and like... teaching everyone else to not contribute??? because they don't even get to??#AND i lost at minigolf with like 20 more points than everyone at my team #which i genuinely wouldn't mind except i dragged the average score down so bad we could never have won anything #FIRST WEEK OF SCHOOL GOING FINE

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lemongogo · 4 months ago

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j need to get back into life drawing post haste

#i think im losing . construction in my art #im forgetting how to draw bodies think. idk #literlaly so annoying . its like fun when u get the hang of things but then u neglect one aspect in pursuit of another #and then have to go back and touch up that old skill to try and balance jt and theres that brief period where #eveyrthing is harmonious and then it outpaces itself again and becomes ths juggling act #overall i enjoy it . the drawing sessions but smtimes finding the will 2 get out of bed is like pulling teeth #bc i know im never going 2 walk out of there feeling satisfied but . actually idc #a lot of my pals . my friends there r a couple of decades older than me and they have the best advice tbh #randy. and donna . randy and donna and third guy whose name i forget . -> if u r satisfied at the end of a session did u rly learn anything #always want 2 improve . right right #UARHGHQHHH ill do it ill go . im scared bc i feel like it tends to artblock me #bc i start getting in my head ab what i know/see vs what i can only draw #but im sooo addicted 2 wanting to get better . i want to draw like a million people i see on here who have that great construction and #weight and anatomy and dynamism . i want to be like u . ill work to be like u ill try #and i feel like ive negelcted my basics for soo long .. i need to get ths foam shapes and a lamp . NOWWWW #yotasuke #i miss yotasuke so much.damn. thats crazy . anyways #the way he points out that yatoras dedication/hard work is a talent . like ueah . i agree w him im envious of that r u kidding me #and ytora walkimg arnd like oh u have it so easy ytsk. he needs to shut the hell up smtimes #i meed to see them eviscerate each other blood and all.#spongebob icecream truck- not that yatoras hard work isnt Also a skill but ykwim . if youve read YKWIMM #bc he was always like woe is me im soo untalented and its like no bro u r you just manifest it differently . that natural drive is a talent #but that natural drive also takes skill to foster and nurture else it has no purpose .#no i cant be blp posting in the tags bye

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lovsome · 11 months ago

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am i so hard to care about?

#i need to vent and i know u guys cant stand me because i can feel it (and certainly from the anon hate) but i think im gonna have an ulcer #if i dont put this out somewhere #SH s*icide tw !!!!!#i need some advice or opinions because i feel like im losing it #i dont understand why my friends cant care about me #i know !!! i know i seem out of touch and insane because i say this so often and the question to someone reading would come natural: maybe #it is just ur perception…. maybe u suck ass as a friend too #and i do ponder about that!!!!!! i take those possibilities into consideration i do. and i genuinely dont think i suck as a friend. i always #check in. if they seem off i ask how they feel. i ask updates on their stuff. i dont think i deserve this tbh #but especially when i am struggling they just disappear #like even when i reach out and let them know im doing bad. they clearly read my measages and choose to ignore them #these are supposed to be my best friends #these days ive been so bad. and trigger warning again #i just feel so suicidal and i have been hurting myself in the desperate attempt to cope and manage these thoughts #and i dont tell them these things #i dont share the details because 1) it is too much to dump on someone and 2) they dont show any interest even on the surface level of my #problems so i just wouldnt tell them the deeper issues #i am just in so much pain. and i also feel a lot of anger because of their behavior. i feel so so hurt by it. so many years of this going on #of them just not even acknowledging my struggles while i was in the midst of them and trying still to support them and be there for e #whatever they had going on. and getting nothing in return #i hate that i feel so angry but i do. and ive been swallowing this anger and pain for so long i feel it eating my insides #even my therapist doesnt understand why i am friends with people that dont care about me #i dont know what i should do #i want to say something #actually i already talked about this to one of them one year ago exactly and i told her all these things and she just said she didnt know #why i was ignored. and then still kept being a part of it #the thing is i am so upset and my mental health is so so so bad. i am supposed to spend new years eve with them in two days but i dont know #how i can do that feeling like this #but if i speak to them about it i think it will also ruin the mood #if someone has any thoughts or advice it would be very welcome….

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qualityrain · 8 months ago

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ik hny is abt satoko and her (lack of) autonomy but damn isnt it depressing to see her constantly being pressured to do something she doesnt really want to do over and over and the way she just kind of follows peoples plans like the whole time its her family then shinpei then kotaro then mitsueda and then asagiri and now asagiri wants to take something from her that to satoko losing it is worse than death and its like man. and the worst thing is that shes doing all this complying to peoples plans just so she can go back home and follow somebody elses. tachibana give her a break im begging you

#claude txt #not to bring this back to romance and shit but like yk what. maybe it is important satoko realises her feelings #on her own.#even if there is pressure. from like asagiri. for it.#she goes yk what im doing this on my own terms im writing a letter #and she realises her feelings on her own #that she chooses to keep it to herself until it is time #because yeah kotaro is lile shes naive and stuff and she is or whatever #but the facr rhat she chooses for herself despite yk kotaro.#all this to say yk that song by mitski that is like my love is mine all mine #yeah. satoko.#good god thats the only thing she chooses and fully owns herself #yk what tachibana take all her pain and give it to shinpei or something please #shinpei whump i crave it #lord shinpei rlly is the only thing she ever really chooses for her own self huh that she will #ignore tamakis advice she will ignore asagiri she will ignore kotaro and she will do this herself #its 2am i have to wake uo at 6am tmr for work pray for me #in 9 when satoko is like damn shinpei doesnt know shit abt love but i onow even less! girl i think u know more than him 💀 im sorry girl #man. shinpei would ask her constantly if she still likes him and shit and she will dodge that shit like crazy #because shinpei doesnt rllt care…all he needs is the Bare Bare Bare Minimum…#so satokos just free to dodge all the love questions w/o consequence and figure it out herself #tachibana. please. take all her pain and give it to mitsueda or something.#please. Please.#not enough shinpei suffering in hny i think (ik hes so messed up alr)#do it for me. i want him suffering.#please just let satoko be happy for once w/o strings attached

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supermarketcrush · 7 months ago

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hearing my parents argue over who had the worst childhood is explaining so much about my brain tbh. my ma wins by a mile btw

#i truly think i inherited the worst parts of their emotional side then there is the third part #logical phoenix who sees reason alone and is the best advice giver to friends #which is also why i could genuinely never seek therapy #bc im so convinced i assess situations correctly and know what next steps to take #and it doesnt help that i am always right when the situation unfolds and goes exactly the way i predict it to #plus im so wary of psychiatrists i can't help but think wowww so your day job is just #manipulating people into letting their guard down so theyll tell u their secrets. 😐#girl! what the fuck are u on!#idk where im going w this lol #🫀

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opens-up-4-nobody · 2 years ago

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#there should be a word for when youre talking around the tightness of tears #speaking against something that hurts #laughing specifically to undermine the seriousness of the statements youre voicing #the worst of both worlds. help me help me hahaha im not even joking hahaha but listen to the lies in my tone. dont focus on the words.#i want plausible deniability. but also i want u to understand my pain and give it a voice. speak it into existence because i cant say it #but if u do i might cry. that sounds hard that sounds like a lot. i kno i know. shut up. keep talking. do u think i dont feel it? i do #but if i split myself in two i can watch myself and suddenly it becomes funny. im not sure why. but i have a bad habbit of laughting at #inappropriate moments. because if its not funny then its just sad and what am i supposed to do with that?#i dunno. thats all to say my dad called bc i was looking at housing stuff and i was explaining some of the stuff im doing rn #and thats hard to talk abt without crying bc ive always been a cry bby but i didnt. and i love my parents theyre great #but they dont understand bc i havent told them all of it bc theres nothing they can do so y make them worry. and idk i also think they #think im less competent than i am. and part of that is just bc im their kid. part of that is bc there r things thst most ppl can do but i #struggle with. but its also not fun to hear: oh yeah i was surprised by how professional u sounded. or i think ur mom found u those #connections. when no. i did that. i made those things happen. i promise i can do things sometimes. but sometimes i cant. i dunno its just #it is what it is. whatever. decisions to b made. do i room with roommates for lower rent #or do i take an expensive place for a year for a single room? i dont want roommates but ill take them #i mean all the single places r like 950 at the very lowest without any utilities or anything but most r well over 1000 and like on a grad #student salary? i think not. not without losing money on net. i can deal with roommates. i have in the past. i wont b able to relax ever #but its fine. ya kno #just annoying. hah my dads sage advice was ah dont let it overwhelm u. go exercise. bc hes an endurance runner guy #and im like bro when i get home i have 1.5 hrs of daylight. but alas hes right. i do gotta run out my angers and its not enough #ugh. one more week. itll work out. and eventually ill walk into a counselors office like bro i just want u to tell me whether or not i have #0cd bc whatever the fuck it is that makes me do these things is absolutely destroying me. name the beast 0cd or 0cpd. tell me what box #i fit into. not that it matters but i feel like i cant complain until someone else rubber stamps me. actually then ill probably just obsess #abt how. actually. theyre wrong. ay fun times #i gotta shake shake shake my sillies out. and wiggle my waggles away. bc i never could let my kids songs go haha #unrelated

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lipstickontheglass1985 · 1 year ago

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FUCK MY ENTIRE FUCKING STUPID FUCKING BAKA LIFE. cw jakey trouble in the tags

#i should not take advice from girls at parties ive just met but like.#the advice was basically get over him n like i know she meant well but like you dont know either of us #n also u dont know the situation so -_-#IM SO SORRY BUT LIKE. like i wish i got clear signals at least yknow????? even if its a 'fuck off' id rather not have to fucking guess ok.#thots

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mejomonster · 2 years ago

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Every time a tarot reading for me says divine timing/universe has a plan I'm like dhjdjd

OK universe you can just say you don't wanna tell me and don't think it's any of my fucking business even though it's My Life shdhjd ToT

#tarot #rant #i know its random like horoscopes randomly sayung shit and if it gives u helpful stuff to xontemplate #and helps u think thing thru great! if not then let it go!#but also like?! youd be fucking shocked by the coincidence that is me #without fail getting wheel/magician/surprise/moon cards over and over and ONLY them #universe said im noT FUCKING TELLING YOU ANY ADVICE.#universe says over ans over i know ur cards are cute but luck aint giving u variety #i get cards to Randomly Consider and its always:unknown. itll be a surprise. u make ur own future. THANKS YEAH I KNEW #life is by definition UNKNOWN AND BASED ON MY ACTIONS i aint got no new random qords to contemplate!!#i finally got a different reading with a friend lmao and guess what?!!!#instead of any advice or any future considerations. cards/friends interpretation was ONLY #hey u mejo u have trauma. ur trauma versions of you are ALSO you and u need to integrate them and be kind to them #which like. yeah thats always true. i didnt need cards to say my own intwrnal state for years #but it was funny INSTEAD of any shit about random future guesses or advice on things to do?#my cards were just like lmao do some more self therapy! thats always a good idea right!#which to be fair. i did think it was a good idea so now im doing more true self exploration #but like. thats for my own quality of life and treatinf myself better and taking better care of self #thats still NOTHING to do with events/advice for future events lmao #i Love tarot and pretty cards but mostly only read for others #cause for me my fucking cards just say: lmao why did u ask? im not telling u. go live life and find out bitch

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muppetbyers · 2 years ago

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what is So funny to me about mlvns who believe will was actually speaking about els feelings as well in the van scene (u know besides the fact that they are quite literally Incorrect) is that they have no problem w that. they’re just so happy that will was making assumptions and speaking for el. oh yeah the last thing that el actually said to mike herself before she left? the first scene where she really opens up about how she feels in her own relationship? no no, that doesnt matter at all. will actually knows her feelings better than el does herself, actually.

#this sounds like a strawman maybe it is idk i just dont know how they can live with the van scene #mlvns when els arc is about not being defined by men unless it helps out their ship #not to say will did this with malicious intent bc he Didnt. he thought thats probably how el felt too but as the Audience who saw el say #otherwise directly.. we should not be so silly #and it all comes back to the fact that they dont want to accept that wills feelings made mike feel loved and then pushed him to give the #monologue to el. lmao #this post comes to u from mlvns calling the van scene 'advice' on sttwt. yep #is this a good take? never really seen it be brought up before so maybe im the idiot idk.#sorry for talking about mlvns so much lately. i just find them so baffling and also i love being a hater #mine

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christaline · 2 years ago

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Absolutely yes to all of this but a little word of caution to any black folks who wanna keep their curl pattern healthy: dont leave box dye in for an hour that’s a great way to fuck ur hair. The rest of this advice is great tho.

Love goth culture but not really loving this prevalent shift into distinct gender presentation that's developed as its become accepted in society. Or the... I guess gentrification is the wrong word.

Like. You remember goths with huge ratty hair and KISS makeup and men in heels and corsets and women in huge shapeless sweaters till you couldn't tell who was under what? Remember when the clothes were hand-shredded from the thrift store for five dollars and some spit?

My first black lipstick was eyeliner. What's this Women Get Crop Tops Only For $60 crap. What's this Being Goth Too Expensive shit. Girl draw ur nails on with sharpie and embrace damnation wtfff

#im not trying to be rude to anyone giving good advice! just. letting yall know❤️#i mean look up safe ways to bleach ur hair but honestly if u wanna keep ur curls #let a professional do it #thats the only time ill say kt #it #and even then ur curls will be altered alot so u have to take care of them differently #so yeah <3

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