#it’s OBVIOUSLY about sex right??
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Reminds me of when I was like 14 listening to 8 tracks about davekat or whatever and I thought “Arms Tonite” was sooooo romantic. Aww. They’re sad they’re not together because one of them is dead. How sweet and sad.
And Lyn had to stop me and be like “it’s a sex metaphor”
#it’s OBVIOUSLY about sex right??#I didn’t put it in my n’ephraha playlist for nothing 🫡#my post#mother mother#calm me down#arms tonite#re arms tonite davekat I’m sure it’s completely possible the person who made the playlist#didnt get the implication either because the literal reading is very homestuck#LYN DONT READ PAST THIS#anyway re n’ephraha it’s the title to a fic I wrote based on the unhinged ao3 tag prompt ‘what’s a little frottage between friends’#N’eph has praetorium nightmares during the crystal tower 😔
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some later kidlu stuff (part 2 - nsfw)
#kidlu#monkey d luffy#eustass kid#my art#op vamp au#described in alt text#i was supposed to draw them fucking but i got sidetracked by Gentol Hand Holding. as you do.#hmm context: this is post runaway arc. luffy decides he should have sex to see how much of what he wanted was really his or mingo's#he picks good ol eustass for it cause he's tall brutish with a fluffy coat and he kind of know him(ish big ish) but kid is like. gentle#and shit which leaves luffy a bit disturbed among other things. like kid's still a bit rude about it but yknow. smth obviously not right#with luffy and he kind of wants to know whats going on but wont ask directly so he goes with it. which leads to that bathtub scene.
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"Allies should be okay with hearing hard truths that we have been suffering through for years, because if a child has to experience it, they as an adult can take the time to understand it with their adult brain and their adult emotions, and if they cannot handle that, I shouldn't have to be okay with handling their feelings gently."
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"Sometimes we go too hard on allies because they're the only person who benefits from the problem who will listen to us, and the anger that we have carried from being wronged for years should not be put solely put on the shoulders of people trying to help us, and they should not have to be okay with being mistreated with the same hatred that people have aimed at us."
Can and should coexist actually.
#cat chats#it's all about context#if someone you care about makes an insensitive joke about your experience#you should be able to tell them it's not okay and they should be able to be like 'sorry i'll do better'#but if all the butt of your jokes are about their experience being a majority#and they say 'hey this is starting to get heavy'#and your response is 'well you can just deal with it because i have to deal with people who are like you every day'#or 'well obviously i'm not talking about you because you're one of the good ones' when you openly condemn people like them#maybe take a step back friend#some jokes are better between people with your lived experiences especially when you're venting frustrations#i don't expect my allo friends to listen to all my aroace jokes about allo people because some of them only hit right with aroace people#especially the 'imagine having to have sex to feel human' or 'nobody knows how to be friends anymore they gotta make it weird' jokes#but they should absolutely acknowledge that american society is designed for people in a relationship with two incomes#and people aren't looking for an end all situationship where they're both friends chilling in an apartment together with no romance or sex#because god forbid we touch each other platonically in any way or people will think we're dating and in love#or how most of american society views that you can't just be friends with someone once you fall in love with them because it's not the same#or how once you're in a relationship everyone else in the world shouldn't matter more than your partner or you're 'emotionally cheating'#and most movie plots that are like 'i don't do romance' always end up with someone softening their heart and giving them a romantic subplot#or that people can't have sex and have it mean nothing it always has to be a romantic thing#like tell them how it is but don't make them your punching bag ya know?
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US americans.... you'd better be fucking voting
#nothing hotter than doing your civic duty and putting in effort to make positive change!!!#friendly reminder that the ballot is more than the presidential race#adding same sex marriage and right to abortion as amendments to the state constitution are on the ballot in Colorado!!!!!#preventing trophy hunting of mountain lions and bobcats!!!#whether or not we should change how we do primary elections and have a primary where we can vote for anyone of any party!!!#there are other things happening than the presidential race#not that it's not important. obviously I give a fuck about who ends up president#but for people who don't: at least vote on the other issues#anyway this is my one political post for the year#not voting is not the same as boycotting you are simply giving up your power
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38 for the Ask for OTPs
thank you so much for sending this one in! :D
[from this list of otp questions]
38. Who is more sexually experimental? Who’s more vanilla?
this feels like the age old question lmao is obi-wan a prude or is he a slut and is anakin a no sex before marriage kinda guy or did he sleep around
honestly i love all combinations of answers to that question and i really don't have a preference when it comes to regular, canon obikin
i guess for this specific one about what kind of sex they prefer, i tend to sort obi-wan into being a bit more vanilla with anakin - not because he doesn't have the experience or desire for rougher sex, but because i'm definitely in a huge phase of loving the guilt and shame and angsty emotions obi-wan could have when bedding his former padawan. tying him up or spanking him (hurting him??) on top of taking his innocence would be far too much! meanwhile, anakin wanting everything his master can give him and also everything his master would allow him to take feels pretty on brand - not necessarily in a dark or violent way but certainly in a 'more more more more please more' sort of way which leads me to think of anakin as being more experimental than obi-wan:
"Master, I love what we've been doing," Anakin declares, dropping down onto Obi-Wan's lap and effectively pushing the datapaad out of his way. "Really, I do."
"Oh?" Obi-Wan's tone screams disinterest, but his hands find their way to Anakin's hips all the same. "I didn't realize it was time for my annual review."
Anakin scowls. After about a year of being something more with Obi-Wan, he's realize that, all told--he quite likes him when he's so breathless from kisses that he doesn't have the wherewithal for sardonic quips.
Well, he likes him in all his different forms and variations, of course. Even at his most snarky, he's still Obi-Wan Kenobi and so still someone Anakin loves with his entire being.
"In bed," Anakin adds. "I love what we've been doing in bed. I really do."
Obi-Wan blinks. "Well. Good then, I suppose."
"But I was wondering," Anakin says quickly, before Obi-Wan can steer the conversation in some other direction. "If we were ever going to, you know."
Obi-Wan blinks again. "Going to...." he asks with a furrow of his eyebrows.
"Turn the lights on," Anakin finishes. Now they're both blushing. This is by far both the silliest and most important conversation they've ever had.
"Oh," Obi-Wan says. His eyes have become fixed on a point over Anakin's shoulder. "Is that very important to you?" "Well, it's just that I was talking to Vos, mostly by accident, and we started talking about you, the only thing we really have in common--"
"You're both Jedi masters, you've both raised padawans, you both enjoy romantic literature, you're both incredible pains in my ass--" Obi-Wan begins to list, eyes flashing flinty.
"Exactly," Anakin interrupts. "We were talking about pains in your ass, you know, and he mentioned that he once ran into you at a...a kink club. In the lower levels. And it made me realize that, you know. When we have sex, we don't even turn the lights on usually, and I thought maybe that's just how you were, but not if you went to--to sex clubs as a senior padawan!"
He says all of this quite fast and it's only when he's finished that he realizes he's breathing hard and that his eyes are a bit wet.
"So if it's not you, then it's--it's me," he adds. "Like maybe you don't--actually want me."
Obi-Wan blinks and then his hand is on Anakin's chin, tilting it up to meet his eyes. "Of course it's you," he says. "Of course everything I do and feel for you is different from everything I've ever done and felt in the past. It's incomparable."
Anakin's eyebrows knit together. That's quite a nice thing to hear, but it does little to address his present concerns. "But what if I want the lights on?" he asks, letting his hands rest on Obi-Wan's shoulders. "And like. To tie you up some time. Or to be spanked or something."
Obi-Wan hums and his hand moves to stroke down his hair, tuck a curl behind his ear. "Then let's compromise. What if we start with the lamp on and progress up to the overhead light, hm?"
#asks#obikin#obviously this is just a snippet of a conversation#and not the whole conversation#but i do think all relationships have a bit of balancing and compromise going on#and obi-wan if he were sexually experienced but wanted only to have vanilla sex with anakin#is perfectly in his right to say that#and anakin is perfectly in his right to like that and want more#and they would perhaps work their way up to something they both really like more than what they're currently doing#adding these tags in advance because on things like this ive gotten anons in the past#about how one person is in the wrong or in the right and the other is being unfair in a conversation like this#shut up shut up shut up you can't just decide right or wrong or fair and unfair in a mature conversation about a relationship so easily#if this anakin wants wild kinky sex before his partner is ready for that they can break up#the answer is not obi-wan should push his own boundaries of what he's comfortable with to placate his partner
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2024 reads / storygraph
Life Underwater
adult contemporary
about a man navigating his relationship with his partner after they move in together, having never been interested in relationships before; as well as bigoted people questioning their relationship, (as he's Muslim with a younger white partner)
along with dealing with the fact that his partner is a with a marine biologist - and he’s extremely hydrophobic due to trauma, but wants to find a way to be involved in what his partner is so passionate about
trans grey-aro ace MC, nonbinary LI
#life underwater#aroaessidhe 2024 reads#aromantic books#asexual books#I enjoyed this overall!#great exploration of a aromantic mc with one exception; as well as a sex repulsed asexual in a relationship with an allo#in the midst of so many demi-aspec romance books where the demi character is like I haven’t felt attraction before#or been in a relationship but i WANT to and I’ve never felt HAPPY/RIGHT about my aspecness etc etc it’s so refreshing to have a#arospec character that’s like yeah I was secure in being aroace but then this one person changed things#but if this didn’t work out I probably wouldn’t seek it out again#(though being aro-spec-ace rather than allo-demi is part of the reason for the difference)#(obviously the former is something that people experience. it’s just. i get it! every demi book! okay!)#(anyway. this felt like a breath of fresh air in that regard)#I think the structure of the narrative is a bit strange - it’s very slow to start#and sort of deals with some stuff in the first half and then completely different stuff in the second; and also honestly after the build up#I expected it to deal more in depth with him actually dealing with the phobia. but then it just sort of ends#I am also hesitant about a book by a white author (pretty sure) that has a Muslim MC that deals with racism/islamophobia#- I don’t think there was anything bad about it specifically….. it’s just i would usually not pick up Books By White Authors#Exploring Racism over a book by a Muslim author. i mean obviously this is a very small selfpub book so like whatever I guess.#just as a note.
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Honestly, attachment to sex rather than gender as a social construction won't create a utopia without the subjugation of one's presentation, background, or experience from existing. Recognizing that sex and gender are both socially constructed and while they sometimes inform one another, they won't always, and that trans people absolutely can attest to this and are integral to making change for a better world are insurmountably important. If your desire for a "better world" coincidentally doesn't include us, what you desire isn't a better world where people are free - it is subjugation by a different name.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#and this is why i stopped really buying into the odea that abolishing gender alone would save us#because people still believe that sex is this Divine thing that Never Ever Is Influenced Or Is Seen Socially As Anything...#...that whatever is seen as 'right' by societal standards is inherently true...#... it's the idea that a person existing is simultaneously natural AND unnatural only in context with what /everybody else/ thinks..#i just find that people are super enthusiastic about obtaining a utopia for them that just ~coincidentally~ will naturally exclude transness#like 'without gender you trans people wont NEED to exist 🥺🥹' and it just shows that you don't WANT a better world.#what you WANT is a hierarchy where you are naturally ordained at the top#at best it shows a lack of understanding of the trans perspective and at worst appears genocidal#exactly HOW will you prevent us from existing? because closing your ears and going 'lalala you don't exist!' obviously hasn't cut it#offtopic completely but i am watching my spotify wrapped and what the fuck#why the Fuck did i listen to time warp 314 times (i Know Why)#i am shocked that weezer wasn't in the top fove artists. i am thankful too
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why are you starving your farmer's son to death. feed him
#grits teeth. none of you know him like i do#a dude who grew up with food and hard labor is going to be big. come on#im really truly not being specific bc this 'vision' of him just seems to persist endlessly.#its still actually just homophobia and fatphobia imo grow up make him big#he hates clothes and loves sunbathing and food(TREATS!) and does excersize 24/7. did we watch the same show#like that's not. donut. who is that. that's some guy you invited#everyone knows that a group of guys whos story revolves around being 'wrong' and unwanted#would primarily be made of a cishet skinny white male cast#obviously of course#the sunlamp joke made me remember something#i WISH i could go play lamia donut right now i need to do something and instead im throwing up (not related to this)#(but it is very funny to pretend soft uwu gay white blond skinny donut is the source of my woe)#im going to be tormented forever. nobody even cares about my phd#IVE BEEN HERE FOR 8 MISERABLE YEARS!!!!! !#oh god ive actually for real been obsessed with donut for 8 years#listen im talking right now inthe middle of possibley having food poisoned myself but listen listen listen#literally not my first time going on about it#he likes treats. he works out. you cannot deny he is big#i can't control you not putting some melanin on him bc i have nothing for that aside from his tanning#i PERSONALLY do not think he's white on top of that#but he is in no universe skinny#do i think he is as fat as as grif? probably not#he's definitely got enough muscle to carry some crazy shit compared to a city boy though#think actual animals (50lbs+) and bags of concrete (which can be 80+lbs a pop) and all the fucking.#donut cares SO MUCH about doing the things hes told to do. he can get it “Wrong” but how the fuck did he memorize sarge's plans otherwise#small donuts are not donuts those are holes#that is a sex object#kind of literally. lol.#i personally really dont like turning donut into a sex object from the fandom-eye view bc of how hard hes implied to be a SA victim
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anyone else hate long distance relationships and lack of consistent feelings on their part
#this is gonna be long in the tags sorry#and for the record. everything im going to say in here is on Me and not on my girlfriend and i know the solution is TALK TO HER#but can i have a minute to just. say it#okay. so im long distance with my girlfriend and we've been long distance (5hrs drive) the whole time#we've been together almost 9 months and in that time we've seen each other 4 times.#once in may once for halloween once for thanksgiving and today/yesterday for NYE#the longest trip of any of these was a tuesday night- sunday morning. so like. four full days of being together#but interspersed with family bc it was thanksgiving#okay. so just setting the stage#i love hanging out. i love hanging out on the couch or doing random shit like walkin around a town or grocery shopping with her#like i love being introduced to her friends and family as her partner and doing likewise to my people#like i love hanging out with her forever#but like. UGH my issue is like. any. kind of intimacy beyond literally like cuddling and holding hands?#like lack of consistency on my part. like okay sometimes kissing is fine and we're talking like a peck on the lips and then sometimes#im like. no i dont. want to do this. and obviously im not being Forced to if i asked her to not she would respect that!!#i like the Idea of kissing and sometimes i do enjoy a little peck but sometimes im like not. into it.#and then like. we've been together for a while we've Talked about sex and stuff but we have not had it yet. haven't gotten anywhere close#to it yet#like i like the idea of having sex with her but if i was faced with the reality of that right now i would freak out like just get. really#stressed? panic??? and there's no trauma in my past. i haven't ever had any kind of sex i have no trauma associated#with anything. like i would just. freak out a little. and we wouldn't have sex and that would be fine but. idk.#i dunno if i'm like. ace or something or it's just still too New of a relationship to do that? because despite being togehter for 9 months#when you've had literally less than two weeks of full days together in that time#it feels really fuckin new#i dunno man.#i'm just afraid that im just. idk not built for a relationship.#she was drunk and wanted to snuggle when we went to sleep last night and it stressed me out because i hate not being able to move when#im asleep. i told her this she gave me my room that was fine. but like man. i am never gonna want to snuggle like that#i still dont love kissing#like. for my house. okay i have very specific ideas of what i want my space to look like and feel like
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I am once again having a sexuality crisis (read: wondering if I’m a lesbian or just have been stuck in my hometown for too long yet again and therefore haven’t seen a man who doesn’t look vaguely like a fish in years)
#here’s the problem as i understand it#i have had romantic feelings for several men and i also find quite a lot of men attractive#i don’t know if it’s just because i feel more comfortable feeling and displaying attraction to men because it’s what society expects#or if this is something that is actually genuinely coming from me#and at this point i overthink it so much i would really never know if it’s organic or not#what i DO know is i am not sexually attracted to men at all. when i’ve hooked up with men they do nothing for me#i can conjure up the perfect man in my mind; fantasise about him and nothing happens#this does not happen to me with women#i feel like i’ve been romantically attracted to way less women than men but also physically and sexually attracted to women a lot more ofte#and again — i don’t know if this is society & my own psychology messing with my sense of attraction#because obviously female nudity and sexualisation is all over the place all of the time#when i was younger i actually just thought women were objectively more attractive than men and that everyone thought that lol#i thought my friends were exaggerating when they said they wanted to kiss or have sex with men#i still to some degree think that. like it’s hard for me to imagine being enthusiastic about sex with a man#but can i imagine being in love with one? ehhhhhh… probably#see but what is the POINT if i’d never want to have sex with him? i know asexuals exist but i’m not one#i’d be setting myself up for an unsatisfying sex life#so it seems to make more sense to me to take the overall concept of dating men off the table since it’s not productive and can’t satisfy me#but then what if i fall in love with one anyway. what then. that’d be just my luck#no label ever seems to fit what i have going on with me and i don’t know if that’s because the main thing that’s going on is my head isn’t#screwed on right and i overthink and pathologise every experience i have#can’t even have a crush without wondering if i’m just doing it to get some excitement in my life#i’m not even sure any of it exists. maybe i should just declare myself aroace to give everyone else some peace#personal
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It’s becoming rapidly apparent that my ideal story type is “gay sex surrounded by incredibly dense explanations of politics and economics of a fantasy world”
#the manga I’m reading is just alternating pages of religious/political/economic worldbuilding and dudes getting freaky#amazing 10/10#the other manga I just got through volume 3 of is the same but fade to black instead of showing the sex (sad)#also obviously what makes a king by oneinspats on a03 which you should all go read right now and have lots of feelings about grima and eomer#with me about it because it’s so fucking good#ecdysing
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i am actually really, really glad to see Ed setting himself some boundaries and then sticking to them. he said he wanted to go slow, to take it easy, and when Stede ended up not respecting that, he took the initiative to set some distance between them.
i don't think running away to become a fisherman is the answer, but i do think its important that Ed is removing himself from that situation at the moment. if Stede didn't respect his boundaries once, who's to say he wont do it again? Ed's got enough on his plate, and as they've said before, they're both impulsive! in the moment Ed's gonna keep agreeing with Stede, and then realising later that it wasn't the best thing for him to do. removing himself from that situation, taking away the temptation is a good thing!
#i got a lotta issues with parts of eds arc#but i liked this#i am in no way implying ed didnt consent to sex but that stede shouldnt have pushed#and that it does get a little into consent issues territory. we often see ed trying to please people; that he doesnt like to say no#and having set that boundary; having made himself clear; he shouldnt have to keep restating it!#its stedes responsibility to not suggest sex; not eds to keep saying he wants to take it slow#maybe when eds had done time; gained some distance and some perspective they can try again but i am actually glad for the split right now#ed was obviously thinking about how not ok with it he was all day and sometimes you have to do things you dont want to for your own good#nyxtalks#ofmd#ofmd s2 spoilers#ed teach#edward teach#stede bonnet#blackbonnet#gentlebeard#ready to get dragged over the coals for this take tbh. im sorry i have negative opinions about your innocent precious babies#its not 'gay speed slow' its crossing his boundaries#(also cant wait (sarcasm) to see all the posts about how izzy did this to them and its all his fault for suggesting ed does what hes#been thinking about all day or whatever#idk
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question: if the characters in porn fic were being diligent about safe sex initially but then the story just stopped mentioning that, would you assume they were still doing that but it just wasn't being mentioned now? or not?
#brought to you by me realising condoms feel Overly Prominent in every one of these sex scenes but there are more left to write :|#but i feel the same way about people taking their shoes off. which i also just usually skip because who the fuck cares about that?#(no offence to the shoe fetishists obviously but they are probably outliers on the topic of shoes and feet)#but you'd assume the shoes came off one way or another right?
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sister imperator and papa nihil having awkward and realistic and cringefail sex. that’s it.
nihil and imperator trying to fuck after a ritual but he’s so drunk that he can’t keep his dick up. sister being so stressed from life that she can’t get wet or relax her muscles enough for penetration. sister attempting rimming because they thought it would be fun but nihil is immediately over the fantasy by the time her tongue is on him. sister getting a little too into sitting in nihil’s face until he’s slapping her thigh because he’s actually suffocating in pussy. nihil getting a little too excited about fucking imperator’s throat that she’s throwing up on his dick. nihil being stoned out of his mind and telling imperator that he’ll pull out but his brain is so foggy that he doesn’t even realize he’s finishing inside of her. sister being dead silent during sex not because it’s bad or boring, but because she’s literally just too tired to go all out with the dirty talk and moaning. nihil getting too aggressive sucking and biting imperator’s tits that she ends up smacking him and telling him to chill out. sister squirting for the first time and both nihil and imperator are horrified because it’s just fucking Everywhere. sister and nihil getting it on while they’re high but nihil is just really desperately trying to hump his dick into her without using his hand and they’re falling into a fit of giggles but it isn’t working. nihil being so excited to fuck imperator for the first time that he’s shaking and panting trying not to cum as soon as he gets his dick in her. sister trying to initiate some sexy confessional roleplay but nihil isn’t catching the hint because he knows how serious she is about their religion and he doesn’t want to offend her. nihil cumming in his pants just from sister grinding against him. sister and nihil wanting to get it on but being so exhausted from work and managing the band that they just pass out naked against each other in the middle of some very lazy fingering. nihil being so eager to fuck imperator after a show only for him to pull her panties down in the dressing room and realize that her very irregular period has decided to make an appearance.
#it’s not even about it being funny it’s just like. sex can’t ALWAYS be sexy#this goes for both young and old sister/nihil btw.#i think about them having bad sex often can you tell#nihil would obviously fuck imperator on her period. but maybe with a little more towels and less public spaces#sister is absolutely pulling a credit card on nihil in public lmao😭#hand sliding right between his square ass cheeks😭#ugh they’re so dumb#ghost#sister imperator#papa nihil#ramblings
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him: are you fucking stupid
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#the party that won is not fucking leftist just bc they call themselves social democrats#they're notoriouslt corrupt and OBVIOUSLY right wing in every possible way#would a leftist party create a referendum to vote on whether the constituion should outlaw same sex marriage?#no? well that's what they fucking did years ago#the reporter is romanian too so it's not like some outsider talking about shit they don't know#luiza ilie I hope [redacted to protect the blogger]#if you must know the truth the parliament elections were horrible for anyone who cares about human decency and human rights and#just like... not having fascists in power. so that's where we're at
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really?? it's been so long since ive had a long rest cutscene and i dont even get one after everything with ansur???
#personal#please. i am begging for story progression#like obviously im getting a huge amount of actual story progression. ive finished every side quest and nearly every companion quest#all i have left are voss (and orpheus presumably) and gortash and... well that's gonna be the entire game right?#other than the final boss of course but that goes without saying#interesting listening to the elfsong camp song now. much to think about#hmm. i do think the first emperor identity reveal was more interesting and impactful#i feel like it took so long to get to baldur's gate and im not from here so its history is....not that important to me#BUT I DONT EVEN GET AN EMPEROR CUTSCENE DURING THE NEXT REST HELLO????#we had apparently mindblowing life-changing sex and we've talked like. twice since then
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