#it is what it is

[4evereterniti]

mood all year. -__-

[correctopinionhaver]

the truth is we do have power over the large majority of situations that we think are hopeless or set in stone. but for the minority of situations that are truly unchangeable, it's nice to know you can always fall back on the trinity:

[typicalopposite]

Oliver keeps using phrases like how they can, but then immediately follows it with if they can… and I know that sounds scary when you want Tommy to be it for Buck. So I’m removing my BuckTommy colored glasses for a moment and speaking as just a Buck fan for this one. There are DOZENS of us right? There are Buck fans who like BuckTommy, Buck fans that like Buddie, Buck fans who don’t care either way, and then a whole nother slew of fans in the GA that feel the same about all these relationship possibilities, just on a quieter more sane level.

In the end… there are gonna be people left upset over this story, and that’s just all there is to it.

By using both the positive phrasing of how they can navigate issues in their relationship, AND the negative phrasing of IF they can do it… he is speaking to all of these fans… he is drawing them ALL in. Obviously everyone will take his words and interpret them however… people will panic and stress and get mad or be happy and hopeful and celebrate… but because he basically said it can go either way… EVERYONE (more or less) is going to be watching. He likely knows the direction (to some extent, if not fully) of how Tim is going to take their story, and they want the biggest amount of views… so they need all sides— the ones who will walk away happy, the ones who will walk away mad, and the ones who will walk away indifferent— to be there.

I was a little disheartened when I first read the interviews too… but I’m not anymore. I feel like his wording is nothing more than a marketing strategy… not him hinting at an end (even if it does ultimately end).

I cant mentally afford to stress over the negativity! So I choose to just be happy and hopeful until I have no reason to be! Then I will just live in fanfic and art. 🫶

[orgasming-caterpillar]

"fuck it we ball" is for stress about the future "it is what it is" is for stress about the past and "this too shall pass" is for stress about the present thank you for coming to my TED talk

[stuckinapril]

no it doesn’t bother me at all (eating my own heart out)

[warpedpuppeteer]

"Eddie was never gay". Eddie worked in the dispatch building and immediately got into a petty passive aggressive territory bitch fight with Josh, the other gay man in the team. Gay recognises gay <3

[kevindavidday]

kevin's the court queen and neil's the court jester

[dollster]

me after acting like it didn’t matter to me

[dumblr]

Officially in my quiet era. I don't have much to say about anything anymore. It is what it is and life goes on.

[ionomycin]

The wizard and the dark knight

[dearjewels22]

Stop chasing after it... it's already yours.

[chiricat]

summer break

[damnitdani1]

[followmenot]

[vladimirka]

some historical dkbk based on that one scene from fingersmith

[thebrainrotsreal]

I don't think this is s2 part B spoilers since he was introduced before the break, BUT YES GIVE MARK A LIL BRO FR. He's such a good big brother istg, he saw this baby and instantly bonded, like just let him have a normal happy life please!!! Let him be happy in general istg.