#is this gender envy lol idk

[random-fandoms-stuff]

Okay i swear

This man Poe Dameron

Whenever I look at him i feel feelings

What feeling you may ask

Well not the usual feeling people feel for him

Sure yes i feel 🥰🥰🥰🥰 for him too but i swear look at him!!!

Those feeling fight with the feelings of i wanna be him.

I wanna look like him so bad.

I wanna be poe dameron cause i mean look at him its just AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Lol anyways

[i-may-be-an-emu]

pls sir could you just spare a smidge of your gender please a mere morsel I beg of you

[mc-tummy-blur]

Is it late again for me? I don't care. You are getting another Nimona post. The only difference is that I'm formatting it properly since I'm more awake than the last couple of times I talked about Nimona.

Went to just go rewatch the demon baby clip that's on YouTube, and I have only just noticed that Nimona really looks like he could be Ballister's son. Nimona has dark hair and dark clothing like he does, which even has a little hoodie, resembling Ballisters cloak. You can even see that Nimona has similar dark circles around his eyes, like Ballister.

Of course, in the natural light like the pic above, you can see that Nimonas skin is lighter and his eyes are still pink.

But when they are in the car, because the window is tinted, his eyes look more brown, and his skin just looks a bit darker, so it looks closer to Ballister's skin tone.

And, let's be real here, if this isn't the most father and child moment of the dad being angry with the kid, especially when they say the most ridiculous shit after something serious happened and there was a long moment of silence on the car ride back home, then idk what is.

The point is, is that Nimona hasn't had a proper family in her life, or even a family period. Nobody has cared and loved her, and Ballister is the first person she can relate to. Whether she's even aware of it or not, Nimona is starting to see him as a father figure and picks a form that could have him be mistaken as Ballister's son, or rather be accepted by Ballister as his kid.

Which, of course, happens by the end of the movie.

Something, something, something, I'm losing my fucking mind and if you haven't lost it either because of this movie it's because you are either lying or you haven't watched it.

[skrunksthatwunk]

yusuke's big ol doe eyes

bonus (SICKENING!!!!!):

[cool-ultrakill-url]

At this point I think my ideal gender presentation would be to look transfem butch-esque. Idk is that weird to say lol? Asking for y'all's point of view on this.

I don't wanna demean transfem transitions since, well, this is a transmasc speaking here. I just really like how a lot of more androgynous transfem people look. Like the general silhouette, the way clothes fit on them, the way they do makeup (if they wear any) and how their hair looks when they've just grown it out. It looks really cool to me. I'm an androgyne/multigender/??? and the fem part of me aches to look like That. I would be so much more comfortable with the Woman™ side of my gender if I did...

[ftm-radio]

okay this has been simmering in my brain since i started scrolling through my gender envy board a lot more than usual for my ask game, so I am making a post about it.

I kind of forgot how good & fun & inspiring gender envy can be???

like when you first see the term it kinda has negative connotations, dunnit? envy is not a very positive thing so it makes sense that gender envy, too, can be negative and harmful depending on how you frame it, how you internalize it.

but if you are able to get to a place where gender envy is focused more on what feels possible for you and less on the ways you may never measure up to the subject of your envy, oh man. ohhhh man.

it's amazing. it's joy. it's hope. it's MOTIVATION. it's smothering my executive dysfunction with a pillow so that I might finally bite the bullet and make a doctor's appointment like I've been wanting to for months.

I know it can be difficult to get to (and stay on) this side of gender envy. I've had plenty of days where I've only been able to see my gender envy through a bitter lens, and I'll probably have plenty more. but I have found ways to help myself out on any darker days that may arise.

I am fat. I have been fat—or chubby or husky or [insert another term to avoid saying f@t here]—for most of my life. I've also been self conscious about that for most of my life. I'm still pretty self conscious, but I'm more comfortable with myself now.

a big part of that is because I started seeking out people like me—fat men, fat trans mascs, fat queer people in general—after I saw a post saying something about gender envy only being about skinny white twinks. that post raised my awareness and allowed me to actually think about that, and it gave me the chance to try and change it for myself. i stopped putting these unrealistic & narrow standards on a pedestal in my mind, and it's helped!

i also feel that gender envy is healthiest and most helpful when it's used less as a tangible, defined finish line you need to cross to be happy and more as a... as an ingredient in the gender recipe you're cooking up.

is that a terrible metaphor? idk it feels promising. im gonna try and run with it.

when you're cooking or baking something, you use multiple ingredients and combine them all to make something that's a sum of all the parts. that's what I try to do when I dream up the person I want to be one day—this person's clothes, that person's haircut, his beard, her jewelry, their hairy belly—it's all heaped up in my mixing bowl alongside a big serving of ME. I'm not trying to replace myself with another person, I just wanna add some more fun gender flavors to the mix, y'know? 🧑🏻‍🍳🏳️‍⚧️

[mrburnsnuclearpussy]

Transition goals

[itsyagergzero]

Uerm. Idk how to say this but haii ithink im a butch lesbian 👍 this is how im coming out ig.

[scarefox]

(x)

[rivers-for-me]

AAAAA HOW COULD I FORGOT SOME OF THE BEST ONES???? Flynn rider would so eat wood resin

HELP HE DEFINITELY WOULD😭😭😭 It's not worth it tho im disappointed 💔

[hiisheart]

( god this is such a gorgeous pic like??? )

[protecttranskids]

so I was just at the park with my family and this park has a basketball court so there are always teenage boys there playing basketball (once my sister and I saw them playing in the rain) anyway today there were like 10 boys there and one younger kid, maybe 11ish, and at one point the kid fell and scraped his knee on the concrete and one of the boys carried him to the bench next to the court and all 10 of these teenagers gathered around this bench and were all super worried about this kid and one of them ran and grabbed him a band-aid and it was super wholesome and sweet.

[adamsolangelofangirl]

Ducks?

does anyone else get gender envy from ducks?

i mean... theyre so feathery and-

THEYRE DUCKS

[realjoehours]

uh so like gender

[xamaxenta]

Stresses me out alot that i cant physically bind anymore idk what happened in the last few years but any kind of compression hurts and it sucks it was the only thing i could do now i cant even do that