#intimcy

[yeesiine]

The constant urge to recreate this >>>

[meewithherpes]

Why depression is hard to understand

[roseylouie]

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[pdrrook]

Well, some of characters are not exactly accustomed to physical intimcy, how would they deal with very cuddly mc? Like all they want to do is to hold them, make sure they safe, loved, often tells them that they adore ros?

Laurent: surprised at first, worried he might be reading too much into things, easily overwhelmed. It’d take him some time to stop feeling guilty for letting himself enjoy and need physical intimacy.

Nino: gets a bit tense, doesn’t reciprocate as readily as MC might want her to. Tries to let MC know that she appreciates them in the most roundabout ways possible.

Alan: casual physical intimacy (that doesn’t lead to anything more than like holding hands) isn’t something he has much experience with, so his go-to would be turning the heat to make the situation less innocent or, if it isn’t possible, downplaying it.

[1humanbeinq]

Intimcy So many words written..

[agardenofdaydreams]

Reasons why conflict, betrayal, and people leaving me do not bother me as much.

Sure, mourning is important. 

Mourning loss of a relationshp is important. 

Mourning the change of a relationship, the nature of the relationship, the intimcy, proximty, quality of the relationship is important.

Our emotions get affected, we are hurt, and we want them to be legitimized and valorized so that we can find some solace there. 

I mean, we can’t help being hurt and worried,

fearful and sad, right? 

But to be honest,

at least for me

none of that really helped me

to love myself, the other, and God more.

It only distracted me from love

instead of giving me the energy to love.

Maybe I just wasn't mourning the right way

maybe the problem wasn't with mourning.

There are two types of mournings.

One that is grounded in the truth

(and author of truth)

and one that is grounded in lies

(and beckons more and more lies).

The condition for mourning one

is to be able to see a greater time frame

and a spatial frame-- one that sees to the grander narrative of life, of the future, and the future to come.

one that sees not only the earthly space but the heavenly space.

It takes faith, it takes depending on the transcendent one, it takes courage and compassion

it takes love.

1. the person will turn around again

so many times

time after time

friends who have left

betrayed me

i got into a conflict with

ended up coming around again.

2. if they dont know they will in heaven

it's not completely a done deal,

we will reconcile.

that will eventually be a real reality

if it doesn't happen here

3. god is not done with them yet

God is still working in them

and we have to believe

not in their goodness

but the goodness of the one who has created them

and who can change them.

4. the broken relationship says knowing about your worth

your quality of life

or your life.

it''s an universal human condition as a result of the fall.

what are you going to do about it?

mourn

but while we mourn, may we also hope

and may we love.

the wrong way to mourn

is to be fixated on the present,

to crave the past

and do everything to fix the relationship

so it can be like the past

or be like the future we want it to guarantee.

It's anxiety producing,

it makes us feel worthless

and it makes us resign

instead of surrender.

We must not allow our mourning

to block

the morning

from coming.

Instead,

with the coming of the morning

may our mourning

turn into joy

and may our hurt

be offered as an offering

to seek the healer

and praise him for the works he is doing

of reconciliation, of faithfulness

and of calling us back home.

[brandoncarlo]

Okay bc I love Landy and Nuge. Question: are they the type of couple that is like an old married couple to outsiders?

I feel like they act like best friends but there’s intimcy there like they hang out and they’d rather hang out with each other than others cause they’re best friends and yeah they make out and tell each other they love each other and landy fantasizes about their wedding day but they’re friends. They’re just so comfortable and easy around each other and they move around each other seamlessly. 

[unitedintentions]

The Intimcy Hour: What Does Lasting Comittment Look Like

[saraferme]

[betrayed-by-a-band]

In the mood for coffee and intimacy..