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Back in the sauce
#aspenadmin#ell is working overtime to keep us safe from mother.#like. holy shit. god tier#in other news#h e l p#we’ll be homeless if we don’t live here but it’s hard to see that as bad#in the face of literally more abuse#Like it’s really hard to be okay#i love you æ but there’s only so much you can help when this has been 20+ years of pain
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average day in the tiktok warriors fandom
he's. he's literally described on the page as enjoying the feeling of making cats viciously maul each other. He gets "validation" for his feelings constantly through Gray Wing and his other sycophants kissing his ass, and still maliciously and intentionally torments them. He beats women and children for telling him no
What they want is BREEZEPELT. This describes BREEZEPELT. BREEZE. PELT.
The cat who is ACTUALLY reprimanded by authority for being angry all the time?? The one whose dad screeches at him for having basic needs?? A character who is explicitly shown to be manipulated by an evil force because they're the only ones who validate his feelings??
THAT Breezepelt?? Ringing any BELLS?
Lemmie guess. Tiktok probably doesn't like Breezepelt much because if you acknowledge that he's a child abuse victim, you can't keep woobifying Crowfeather into a sad boy. Lol.
#INCREDIBLE briainrot on tiktok#Clear Sky literally has a scene in Book 2 where all his cats gather around and validate him#During that speech where he decides to steal more land by killing more natives#Frost is one of them and then he still shoves Thunder's face into his wound so he ''knows'' why Frost needs to die#Clear Sky is CONSTANTLY getting his toes sucked and having people tell him he's the bees knees#You see he was just slaughtering indigenous people and beating women and children because he's sad :(#How dare you call him a heartless monster he's just angry :(((#(Meanwhile Clear Sky is in the background slobbering over a young woman with traits that remind him of his kid)#Re: the simple truth that people are more interested in sorrowful abusers than messy victims#Because that's what Clear Sky and Crowfeather are. And they will DESPERATELY find ways to woobify them further#so that they can keep ignoring the children they abused.
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The only explanation ive been able to come up with for varric being intimidated by harding & not giving her a nickname is that ten years later he still cant stop cringing over the "harding in hightown" joke that didnt land when they first met
#other scattered thoughts include (a) its a dwarf hang up but i feel like that would make more sense if harding like had ties to orzammar#(b) its a literal resemblance to aveline thing (extremely weird)#(c) despite being effectively an inquisition agent himself something about harding's more formal ties to the org makes him nervous#(i dont think that makes sense either hell cassandra got a nickname and she was the face of chantry overreach & abuse of power#of course her nickname was just her title.....)#(d) hes still mad about not being able to compete in the archery contest#(d.5) harding beat him in a separate archery contest#(e) varric picks up on her underlying anger way sooner than anyone else & has reason to think a nickname would piss her off#mary kirby please i need you to elaborate
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That one chef saying that the worst thing about a bad boss is how they unlock that behavior in you and seeing Carmy mirror the attitude of the chef that terrorized him and gave him panic attacks and then ending the season with Syd having a panic attack because of the stress of working with Carmy...diabolical.
#idk if it's a little too on the nose or not (i literally just finished the season so i haven't had time to sit with it) but that whole#element is so interesting (and so devastating). and the ways that mirrors all of Nat's worries about continuing the dysfunction of her#family now that she has a kid...#i also think its a good portrayal of how not addressing your trauma and leaving things to fester can end up hurting other people way more#than it hurts you. like even if Carmy is okay with choosing to not have a life or to be close with anyone (which. debatable) he's#not the only one whose life gets fucked by that. the mess just radiates out until it hits everyone around him and he ends up creating#the same circumstances that caused his dysfunction in the first place.#even if evil joel mchale chef is right (a+ casting btw very punchable face) and carmy needs to ruin his life to be a good chef#--which is a big if--he's actively making the people around him less able to do their jobs. which then makes the people around them#less able. and so on. so in the end it's still net negative. and like. chef terry proves that he's actually completely wrong#the environment in her kitchen is the exact opposite and everyone is operating at an insane level anyway no abuse necessary#this season was definitely the weakest of the 3 but i rly wanna see where they go next. and they better drop the next bit soon bc that was#in no way complete#the bear#the bear season 3#carmy berzatto#sydney adamu#the bear spoilers
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Mind you the "girl bosses" in question are Dany: who has been sold as a bridal slave at 13, been on the run and feared for her life since she was born, rarely known safety and security, been used as payment by her abusive brother and further abused by the husband she was given too, who has made it a point to protect other women around her from further harm despite having little agency, who faced multiple assassination attempts and the painful loss of her child, vowed to defend others who couldn't defend themselves, has faced constant misogyny on her journey to doing so, has put her own ambitions on hold in order to help others, and is currently the only character enacting wild scale revolution in order to protect a class of people nobody else is fighting for. And Arya: who has been on the run since the end of AGOT starving and scared, has been thrust into a warzone and directly affected by the violent impact, was witness to the horrific torture of the smallfolk by the mountain and his men, was captured and forced into servitude at Harrenhal, was beaten and threatened with sexual violence, who has witnessed countless people she cared about die including her father, mother, and brother, and who still remembers those who lost their lives when nobody else has and done her best to get justice for them.
Yeah, It's soooooo feminist to treat these two female characters like they're lesser because they aren't traditionally feminine. I find it funny how the ones who talk about the importance of valuing "feminine" strengths are the same ones who erase them from Dany and Arya. All of their intelligence, kindness, empathy, etc. get thrown out and their characters are reduced to ones who only know violence. Even the suffering and abuse they've gone through is treated as less impactful and they're given no sympathy. It's an interesting circle of them being misogynistic so that they can justify their misogyny to themselves. It also highlights how little they believe in the things they're saying. Supporting "feminine" characters has just become a convenient way of propping up their favorites; feminism is nothing but a disposable tool. If they actually cared then they wouldn't be rewriting characters to make them seem more "masculine", and in fact wouldn't care about that distinction at all. The female characters have a lot of overlapping experiences afterall.
No one is saying you have to like Arya or Dany, but being misogynistic toward them and trying to disguise it as feminism is disgusting. There's also no way of doing so that won't inevitably reflect poorly on the characters you claim to love. There's nothing productive about making such restrictive boxes for female characters. If you really don't care about them then you don't have to talk about them. It's as simple as that. But if putting them down is the only way you have of propping up your fave, then maybe it's time to find a character that you actually like.
#daenerys targaryen#pro daenerys targaryen#arya stark#pro arya stark#anti bs#fandom nonsense#anti jonsa stans#anti sansa stans#hurray for putting down these young girls who have faced incredible violence and abuse because they aren't traditionally feminine!#and I love how they used my post to start shit-talking Arya and Dany when I didn't even mention Sansa in the post!#they literally treat liking Arya and Dany as Sansa hate it's insane#sorry but Arya and Dany are the two main female characters they're just going to be more popular 🤷🏾♀️#on top of that Dany is arguably one of the most iconic characters of all time#it's not misogynistic to like them more than Sansa
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finished hazbin hotel and what the fuck it's actually kind of??? good???
#random thoughts#i like it at least#the finale is SO GOOOOOOOD OH MY GOD#sir pentious going to heaven? alastor's solo? LILITH DROP???#like there are A LOT of things that could have been done better#like how vaggie as a character is very one-note and how angel's abuse is handled could DEFINITELY be better#especially considering how they handle pentious's gang rape (like tf)#but to be fair that joke was more a play on pentious's cowardice. the joke was more about how him bowing out of flirting escalated#rule of three's and all that#but god. when adam's mask cracked it DEFINITELY made me realize i thought that was just his face#'you only live because i let you' is such a petty way to phrase mercy#i DEFINITELY need to watch some analysis videos because am i missing stuff??? is it secretly bad???#yknow besides all the stuff with the creator which like. idr everything she did that was a shitshow#but like even the rape jokes are pretty mild for an adult comedy? they got rid of most of the offensive jokes pretty fast huh#most adult cartoons the first season or so is dedicated to the most offensive jokes before The Plot takes over#vaggie being an angel btw. not sure how to feel about that#i like how they handled it because it leans into the whole 'redemption' theming but like. feels very 'we need a conflict!'#which like i do appreciate because vaggie and charlie's relationship is too smooth sailing. throw some rocks in there#also 'i named you after the best thing: vaginas' is. hilarious actually. was that planned? or was that retconned in?#sir pentious as a character wasn't really. there enough in the latter half of the season for me to really feel anything about his death#like i liked him! very pathetic man. love his character design. but i think they should have alternated episodes#instead of just making the first few all about him#also his death was too sudden for me to feel particularly bad about. was convinced it was a fake out death#LOVE the ship callback tho. love me some chekhov's gun#btw i knew. literally nothing about hazbin hotel going into this. was watching the pilot like 'wait is this a musical'#bitsy. thingy. whatever her name is. fucking love her. PLEASE give her more knives.#fucking LOVE lucifer are you kidding? all that set-up for him to be a typical adult cartoon neglectful father and he's???#he fucking LOVES charlie holy shit. someone get this man some better communication skills stat#also? love his design. the prevalence of white really makes you remember he was the light bringer#hell
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Jame Somerton is awful but I really wanna say the anger I feel over the flat out lies about the very actively harmful politics of JK R*wling to justify and write off concerns people have about still giving her money. Saying she actually had a very pro trans streak till recently is just flat out erasing the very real harm she pointed towards trans woman all the way back to 2016 that people have been trying to bring awareness to before she flat out said it now with the edge of spreading harmful lies about trans men. These lies are made to make people that still give her money or want to not think about her pass works implications shrug off any self reflection and also the very real pain me and other trans people feel when talking to others about the harm she does to the trans community. When I tell people that it's not ok to be buying licence Harry Pot merch and give money to a video game that lead developer abused a women because there's better things out there that doesn't directly fund the harm of my community a James Somerton ass talking points come out about "who's to really say what's goin' on" and the infantilizing of a grown woman that's asking for me and my friends to disappear not really being that bad when she's very much a hand directing englands politics.
That man does a lot of downplay to lying about the harm other queers face that aren't a gay cis man. This part showed me how much of it was just for his own benefit. He wants to not think and eat up JK garbage so he's gonna lie or believe anything that's saying it's not a big deal.
#hbomberguy#james somerton#tw abuse#tw transphobia#what made me see red for a but was him talking about how the demonization of lesbians wasn't that big of a deal#literally saying that the same predatory imagery that people used for lesbians was more harmful if then used for gay man#like oh I didn't know we were piting our homophobic propaganda against each other James he'd you factually make that happen#I couldn't breath I was so stressed from that so very big lie and down playing of harm lesbians face#I can't even get my words straight I simply don't know how to describe the harm he put into so many of his videos#todd in the shadows
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#ln fans who act like Lando faces way more shit than max boils my blood#max literally became a target thanks to Lando from fans and especially media#while Lando gets called a cry baby for constantly whining to the media you think that compares to the abuse max regularly gets??#the abuse his family gets as well#it’s not a competition but anyone who tries to say that Lando faces more abuse than max are kidding themselves and that annoys me#max cannot even be disappointed without people abusing hi#and also Lando was one of the most protected drives when he started f1#from both drivers and media while max at 17 was throw into mountains of abuse#rambles
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finished up the episode,, did this fucking bitch nolan really trick his son into coming by sending out one of the thraxans to LIE to him about their planet being on the verge of destruction ??
#invincible#invincible season 2#invincible spoilers#mark grayson#if this ends up like the comics and mark ends up hugging him n telling him how much he missed him??? i will raise hell#I DID NOT CRY TO VAMPIRE EMPIRE AND IMAGINE THEM AS NOLANMARK JUST FOR THIS TO FUCKING HAPPEN#I WANT MARK BEATING THE EVERLOVING SHIT OUT OF HIM#i want MARK makinf a scene i want him crying his eyes out#why the fuck did nolan think this was ever a GOOD idea#NOLAN IM COMIG FOR YOU … (in more ways than one)#can mark bite his beating heart out ?? just this once#HE literally gave him neigh-irreversible PTSD#also ALSO he ruined suance dog for him . i dont care if that was just supposed to be some comedic gag .#mark is never gonna look at his comics or action figures the same way again without#pinpointing it to that one time his dad sent a disguised associate of his to lie to him#its like an abuser sending out one of their friends to make them meet up w their victim so they can#directly apologize in their faces n coerce them into an uncomfortable position#ik nolans dumbass probably has semi good intentions but come on ???#mark better be like ^reduce ur expectations to 0^#and suckerpunch him infront of everyone#nolan grayson#omni man#ouggfff THIS GOT ME SO HEATED U DONT UNDERSTAND#mark get BEJHIND ME !!#i will fucking fight him bare fisted#it sucks that NOLAN gets to fking move on#and mark n debbie just fking suffer the consequences of his actions#how to boil viltrumite flesh#the whole situation is so fucked 2 me no matter how wholesome ppl try to paint it as
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Alright let me sort things out. Do you ever realise that Aegon is sexually active or at the very least aware at ten? Ever realise that he was actively taking Aemond to brothels at 14? Ever think of Aemond saying how Aegon thought it was his duty to do so?
Do you ever wonder how much of that stems from him witnessing his Father calling his teenage mother to his bed?
#no because i was literally just reading an article/case study on how abused children who witness/are aware of sex at a young age#are more likely to start younger#and like#god#the green children all knowing instinctivly that there is something wrong with their father#who looks old enough to be their grandfather and their 15/16 year old mother#if aegon wasnt a rapist id like him but their family is just sooo#the only way aegon shows physical affection to aemond is to grasp his face#just like his mother did to aegon AFTER HE MASTURBATED#just the idea of violence and sex and affection being so fucked up and interminged ughhh#the greens#hotd#team green#alicent hightower#aegon ii targaryen#aemond targaryen#halaena targaryen#helaena the dreamer#helaena targaryen#viserys i targaryen#house of the dragon#because viserys and alicent dont sleep in the same bed#im assuming aegon slept in alicents room as a baby#he mustve seem her unhappiness
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“LmO stop! Dabi look nothing like that ugly Enji.”
Also canon Dabi:
I can do a lot more but that’s enough. I mean i still don’t understand why ppl say that his own kids look nothing like him like HOW? Dabi literally got his nose, eyes and his lips (like how they rise the side of their upper lip up when they r mocking someone) shoto also look like them (same eyes and nose) but I’ll just do Dabi since yall say he doesn’t 💀
#ppl be saying only natsu but natsu has his mother’s eyes and noes but yea his father’s built that also Shoto is going to have soon#fuyumi is a copy and paste of rei yes but the other kids are mix#shoto and dabi look more like enji than rei#i said what i said#shoto and dabi only got rei’s round face yes and thank god they did#other than that I’m glad they only got her round face lol#enjis eyes are sharp shaped and shoto and dabi got that from hkm#anyway rei stans and enji haters leave me alone with that lil brain of yours#I just said the facts and ik facts bothers ppl#ik yall hate enji and don’t want to say the kids look like him bc he’s an abuser but yoo so is rei she’s literally no better than him 💀#anyway tags#dabi#touya#todoroki#shoto#enji#rei#natsuo#fuyumi#bnha#boku no hero academia#mha#my hero academia#touya todoroki#bnha dabi#dabi is a todoroki#endeavor#oh baby touya has round eyes like rei so yea he used to look like her but when he become a teenager he started to look more like enji
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god I need to fucking hit something right now
#the audacity of my brother to continuously abuse the trust and love our mom has for him is astounding#he is genuinely the most selfish and ungrateful person I know#and it drives me up the fucking wall#our mom has been nothing but kind and patient with him and he throws it all right back in her face#I mean he literally just cut her off and shut the door in her face like what the fuck is wrong with you#(after stealing MORE of my money again mind you)#GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
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being a 2005 willy wonka fan in the big 2024 lowkey mentally challenging. got people attacking me after seeing my tt page is filled with 'johnny depp edits'. nope close enough! I like willy wonka and can't care less who the actor is. willy wonka himself is not a likable character by society standards because normal people can't handle when a man has bob! and depp has the abuser allegations or something. so by normal people's eyes I deserve a public execution? pretty much
#no because willy wonka is just happened to be played by someone who faces abuser allegations#its not my fault!#been a fan of willy even before the heard-depp stuff#i hate it here#no seriously#like not a single post where i mention anything about depp#not a single post of his other characters too#im just a chill willy wonka fangirl#who somehow deserves a public execution!#well done normal people you make the world a little more insufferable#tbh normalise separating the art from the artist#and the fact willy doesn't look anything like depp is telling something!#i still am piss off by that#rant#and also chalamet who made a joke about the literal genocide#the double standards#oh maybe you only will be a bad person when you're abusive? like if you make fun of dying people it's not enough to make you bad#GOT IT
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Why does my mom let her talk to me like that
#its so fucking bad atp#she'll blatantly tell us she loves my sister more and she just sits andlets her verbally abuse us#i need out of here#she literally just watched as my sister screamed in my face and threatened me#why you may ask? literally i was trying to do smth for her and i fell because i couldnt feel my legs and i cant use my wheelchair indoors#my ankle hurts so bad i think i twisted it but if i tell my mom she'll just call me a liar#jim rambles#abuse tw
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#venting tw#negativity tw#abuse tw#mil. who has called me fat lazy and stupid to my face#who criticizes everything i do. who expects me to do all the housework and pay half the bills#who has literally triggered both my ED and PTSD on purpose. repeatedly. for laughs#who tries to control everything i do down to what weather app i use and acts morally superior in literally everything#is wondering why i don't want to spend more time with her or sit out in the living room and watch movies with her and hubby#gee. i wonder why. i really wonder why i feel more comfortable in the bedroom where she doesn't go.#my teeny tiny sanctuary in this house#..... yup its a mystery for sure#(( ooc. ))
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another childhood bucket list item obtained: i finally have a snuggie
#and it's the real thing not even a knockoff#kinda surprised they still exist#but also not surprised bc Blanket. blanket is universal#i just remember a lot of those As Seen On Tv ads like. imploding within 5 years#they still do As Seen On Tv products like there are still boxes marked with that logo it almost feels wrong like an ancient relic#bc most like. ubiquitous 2000s brands from my childhood are just Gone or at least so fundamentally changed it's not the same thing#heard about like 50 more companies going bankrupt probably in the last year alone#anyway ive always wanted a snuggie it's one of those Always Wanted things that never go away#others include: staples easy button (obtained!); mini fridge (not); pillow pet (i had a knockoff once); power drill (not)#i spent a surprising amount of my childhood actually going out of my way to buy stuff i could use in my own apartment in the future#i grew up lower middle class and then just lower class#so like. i always Knew i couldn't just furnish the whole apartment at once i Knew I'd have to build stuff up over time#also bc when my sister got kicked out she had like. nothing. in her trailer. and i did not want to have nothing#i knew if dad was willing to just toss out my sister like that i would absolutely follow suit#and i did! two years younger than my sister when she was!#it just happened that my mom didn't want me homeless at FOURTEEN when i legally could not work for two more years#so she went with me and we lived with my grandma#so take that dad. turns out throwing family members out willy nilly makes the rest of your family not trust you or like you!#and now i get to rub it in his face that HE can't function in a house by himself and still needs to beg my mom to clean up after him#bc i spent so much of my childhood getting berated and called lazy for not doing chores#getting told stuff like 'you have to function by yourself your parents can't always pick up after you'#and then he's literally useless without his wife#he's not disabled and he's not neurodivergent he's never even had a serious health scare he just doesn't bother to learn how to clean#his excuse is that he doesn't know how to use the washer and dryer (it has been almost ten years fucker. learn)#or he doesn't know which cleaning products to use (you have google and a library card. LOOK IT UP)#he's the only person i get mad at for this behaviour bc he's a fucking hypocrite and a child abuser about it too#he is the exception to my rule of everyone needs to be given the space to get things done where they're able and deserve help when needed#and I'll bend over backwards to make excuses for other people so i DONT exclude them from my rule i will try to find every good reason first#he has no fucking excuse though he made two teenagers nearly homeless bc he thought we were too lazy and then he's even worse
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