#im still!! nonbinary

[milkbreadtoast]

random but I've been thinking about it for a while and decided to update pronouns in my bio (they/he instead of just they/them)... main reason is i've been "accidentally" called he a few times and was like hey.. this doesnt feel too bad actually🤔 testing it out...

[degenerateshinji]

:3

[just-your-average-tangerine]

The line between binary and nonbinary trans people is nowhere near as clean as some of yall think it is

[blueskittlesart]

[thehealingsystem]

It's so wild to me that as a community we're still so hostile to multigender and genderfluid people existing in gay and lesbian spaces.

You...are aware that people who are both men and women are allowed to be gay, right? And lesbian? Their other genders doesn't cancel their connection to womanhood, or manhood, or whatever else they id with. They are allowed to be gay despite their fem-alignment, and they are allowed to be lesbian despite their masc-alignment.

It comes from these weird online spaces that the standard to be gay or lesbian is to be a "non-woman" or a "non-man," which is inherently transmultiphobic and...extremely ahistorical. And completely misunderstands nonbinary identity. So if you're both then you just don't belong anywhere I suppose.

[waterghostype]

i thought this was a beautiful nonbinary lesbian but it’s just morro from ninjago

[butchharts]

will you guys still fw me if I mew 🤕

[spartalabouche]

sometimes its really obvious how much people dont actually believe presentation=/=gender when they see their nonbinary friend go from extremely masculine to relaxing back into femininity once theyre comfortable with their gender and every time they call it detransitioning with zero indication thats what their friend is calling it. i dont know how to tell you this but sometimes you present a certain way for social reasons and not because thats how you actually feel. sometimes you experience dysphoria about your body that is actually related to how people view you and not how you feel about your body. i really dont think its that uncommon for trans people to swing really hard in one direction for the affirmation and then relax back into a different presentation once they are more comfortable in their gender

[joshuamj]

In Stars And Time? More like In Ace And Gender

+ some alts

[just-some-trans-nobody]

You try to stay up with your vampire all night wanting to have a nocturnal sleep schedule like they have. You fall asleep every time though. They find it so cute seeing you dozzing off as they read a book, the low light of the lamp next to them hardly litting up the room. It's part of their plan, they claim they keep the house dim at night due to their sensitive eyes but it's really because they want to make you sleepy. They know your human, your not meant to stay up so late all the time. Nothing would stop them from worrying about their human but they know your trying so hard to stay up for them, you wouldn't be happy to know they try to get you to have a good sleep schedule. Once you fall asleep they out a book mark between the pages of the book they had been reading and picked you up to tuck you into bed. They place cold lips against your temple before gliding away to go do mysterious vampire activities.

They listen to a romance novel while playing stardew valley.

[darkcomets]

Well shoot, it’s the end of pride month, time to dissipate I guess

[robotpussy]

in the case of being black and nonbinary, this requirement for any nonbinary person to "look androgynous" just doesn't work because regardless of how we present our blackness masculinizes us through the eyes of nonblack people, especially white people who think they have ownership of and leadership over gender by default.

[blueskittlesart]

PLEASE tell me the prof roasted them

unfortunately no, i'm the only other openly/visibly trans person in the class and we made direct eye contact and i could FEEL the discomfort physically but basically what they ended up saying was "hey I'm really not a fan of jkr but I will do my best to remain impartial about your work" which was what prompted the idiot who was pitching to use the "complex feelings" line. Given the fact that the prof is adjunct and my school has rules about freedom of speech or whatever i don't think they would have won in a confrontation about whether the subject matter was appropriate, so I think making it awkward and voicing their discomfort was probably the best thing they could have done. unfortunately the hp fan was so fucking out of touch they chose to ignore the fact that multiple people were visibly uncomfortable and insist on the project anyway. so

[anotherqueersnailowner]

Trans? Need a Name?

i will fucking name you hmu

[thehealingsystem]

currently crying as I'm writing this but uh I reeeaallyy wonder when people are gonna decide to leave us lesbians with unconventional gender identities alone. please leave the teenage bigender lesbian alone. they're a young girl in high school who likes other girls whom their mother will never accept and has to hide their relationships, and forever hide their heartache after they fail. please leave the transmasc lesbian alone. people will whisper behind his back about how much of a tranny he is while expressing disgust when he holds hands with a girl. please leave the nonbinary lesbian or just transfem lesbian alone whom is too masc or man-leaning for your taste, whether that be because they're amab or a nonbinary guy, they're trying super hard just to live and can barely pass and is forced to hide or else people will accuse them of invading spaces or being a predator. I know you won't ever see us as deserving of the lesbian label- no matter how much we present like a cis girl or how much we've been discriminated against for our attraction, from my experience- but we're just trying to make it by too. I'm tired of just trying to convince people I'm allowed to exist. not be in spaces, be in communities, exist. please leave me alone. please leave trans lesbians alone.

[wasabijean]

rip freakazoid you would’ve loved tumblr